Family SICKENED After Discovering Grandma Did the Unthinkable
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- Опубликовано: 22 дек 2023
- In today's true crime documentary, we're covering the case of DeAngelo Tobia and analyzing it from an educational psychological perspective.
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The fact that Tonina had the balls to do an interview with you guys is crazy. Especially when everything she told you was different from the police. I think she should be behind bars.
I don't think its bravery, I think its delusion.
yeah crazy is the word, i'm afraid.
She's a narcisist and thinks she can fool everyone. It's fairly clear she's the murderer and the mother is covering for her.
Tonina was it 100% and the Eminem song was maybe a weird motivation in her bizarre brain. Its really horrible that she let her own mom die in prison and dont even has the slightest remorse. Thats brutal.
That sweet attention is all that seems to matter to this family.
Does anyone else think that Tonina is the one who snapped and killed her nephew. The mother who was starting to suffer from dementia, was convinced to take the blame to protect the golden child. Every interview that Tonina gives it’s all about her.
Yes
Definitely! She totally did it and used the fact her mother was losing her mind..during Tonina's interrogation I can't count how many times I said "you fucking weirdo!" outloud!...that poor old lady literally thinks she did it because she's got dementia & doesn't know the difference between night & day..& Tonina took advantage of the fact her mom was sick & would protect her sick daughter no matter what...her describing the CPR like hitting a ham??!! Who the fuck says that?!
Terry and Tonina are likely covert narcs, both are completely self absorbed and not grasping the fact they are implicated in the murder of a child.
Yes
Absolutely
FLEW to the comments to get some affirmation in my very strong belief that Tonina 100000% did this and yall did not disappoint. Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity after this physically painful case.
That's exactly what I did, watched and wondered if I was confused about who was eventually convicted, because I thought it had to have been the daughter. That poor mom.
Tonina did it
oh God you're so right. It is unbelievable how this cops didn't call out her bs.
Omg the interview was pissing my off the cop could’ve done better, but in his mind they already had made up the mom did it 🤦♀️
ABSOLUTLEY Tonina killed her nephew. Her story is all over the place and changed all the time. They botched this one up big time putting that old lady in jail. Shame on them
Or she knew what the mom did, and is trying to protect her!
@@4fNReal- no her mom is sitting in jail covering for her. You hear her keep asking about Tonina and her other goes mom she's fine. She's getting hair or nails done. She's loving her best life right now.
@@shinebright3997 lady they wouldnt arrest an innocent with no evidence, plus i am getting pissed off at people making conspiracies over A CHILDS MURDER
@@user-zm8br4zr4m cops give give a shit. It's just "a job" and they have some poor old lady confused and can't tell anyone how, why or what even happened. All she ever says is I did it maybe. Case close and everyone is okay with that. ?!
@@user-zm8br4zr4mthe grandmother has dementia and clearly is confused about everything she even said she was his mom at first she can't provide any info. And Tonina is more than happy to jump on that make the whole thing be about her and let her mom go to jail. WOW narcissist behavior on full display
The idea of Tonina having kids is truly frightening.
I immediately thought the same thing! That girl is truly insane!
same. there's always someone that desperate
I thought the same! I pray those innocent littles are safe and being treated as they deserve!
My wife said the same thing…
I literally am listening to her talk half way threw video n just thought this
I can’t get over how bizarre this entire thing is. ALL OF THEM are the weirdest people I’ve ever seen in a true crime case.
Tonnia did it. There’s no other way. I can’t believe her mom got convicted. The mom might have helped but it was all tonnia!
no the mom did it, but i feel like Tonini knew and maybe even encouraged her. She is projecting her own jealousy when she talks about people being jealous of her being so pretty (LOL.)@@iNEEDANAPx
@@iNEEDANAPxI’m only about half way through, but that’s my thought too.
@@Saphia-lu1tq I can’t believe the detectives are just casually seeming like everything Tonina is pretty much normal. I’ve never heard anything sound more insane and weird ESPECIALLY when discussing their 4 year old nephew being dead. ESP after they’ve listened to the 911 call!?!
All guilty
The amount of unchecked narcissistic personality disorder just roaming free is haunting to think about
The amount of times people use this new catch phrase is more scary. They exist and can only be diagnosed by a qualified person…. which you are not.
Not gonna claim it's a fact but it seems more like BPD or Bipolar disorder, that usually includes narcissistic traits
@@onelifedontwasteit8568ur more scared of someone calling a potential murderer narcissistic than the potential murderer themselves 🤣🤣
@@onelifedontwasteit8568 He said "unchecked" but yes, the term is used far too often, although most of us have a degree of narcissism, per most mental health experts.
@@onelifedontwasteit8568 jokes on you I am
The fact that this self-centered psychopath is not behind bars scares me.
Tonina is that person who does a 15 minute maid-of-honor speech where she talks about herself more than the couple. She’s so inwardly focused and mentally ill that she was flattered when the detective complimented her on CPR.
I cannot get over that part.
And she didn't even do good cpr, probably not at all lmao
Agreed. Her extreme levels of narcissism and grandiosity are difficult to listen to, especially coupled with her annoying and immature pattern of speech. She sounds like a bragging 11 year old who everyone avoids at all cost. This type of personality never has friends, they have hostages that are always looking for a way to escape having to deal with her in any way. She is absolutely insufferable.
Great analogy.
Just reminded me of my sisters maid of honor. She did that.😂😂😂
I literally lost all my brain cells watching this interview
Pretty screwed up family.
'Have you taken him out if the tub?'
'No.'
🤯🤯
'Can you do cpr? Breathe into his mouth'
'No. Mom breathe into his mouth.'
'No you do it.'
'No'
😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳🤯
She's so frustrating and all over the place. I wish the detective was stricter with his questioning and kept her on track
@@Harry-fk5of That probably would have made her combative and usually that wouldn't be good because the suspect would be less likely to cooperate.. But in this case I reckon she would have blurted out the truth in anger/frustration. Mental illness is a horrible thing.
YES! and yet I can't stop watching, even though I know I will be pissed off that tonina's self absorbed murdering ass didn't get locked up
Chuckled at this comment, and then watched the video. Had to come back and say I now have an IQ in the negatives.
Tonina killed that little boy and blamed her mother, who was clearly too mentally disturbed herself to be able to properly defend herself. The fact that she still plays victim to this day, is absolutely disgusting. The only real victim is that poor child and his mother and father
I'm not so sure she killed him. Children can drown in an inch of water, so who left the baby in a full tub of water? Could've been accidental by either one of those mentally ill women.
What about that old womans behavior led you to believe she must be innocent 😂 stood there with the boy in the bathtub. Stood there while tonina gave cpr. Did fuck all to help the boy.
The *I'm so confused* but she asked for a lawyer straight away. Never said what happened. It's so obvious she killed him.
Can someone start a petition to reopen the case and charge Tonina. What she did to her nephew and mother was absolutely vile.
“I totally need counseling,” she says. Detective responds, “You’re definitely a candidate.” Understatement of the year.
Underrated comment rite here ...
She needs a new smoke alarm battery aswell
Legit 😂
I think she needs a reality check more than anything
@@dantevxv1501 that would drive me nuts too
You see a 4 year old in a tub you think he is drowning and you just leave him in there? You call 9-1-1 but leave the baby in the water? My God these people are horrid. This aunt is giving me the creeps.
3:44 The detective first says "I'm sorry about everything that happened" and the aunt starts to say, "No, that's -" and stops herself when the detective continued and mentioned her "loss". She was about to say, "No, that's okay" not even realizing at first that "sorry about what happened" was referring to her NEPHEW DYING.
3 year old boy drowned in bath tub. i don't believe this. IMPOSIBLE.
@@jessicalynn6285 yeah definitely a sick puppy for sure can't have a heart or soul I don't know.R.I.P poor guy 🥺
Exactly! She's horrible. The first reaction would be to take him out, then immediately call 911.
Tanina should be charged just for being annoying.
“The law is a travesty”
“The law is awful”
Sure is, Tonina. They let YOU get away with murder.
Tonina “everything I’ve been through is so wrong. I just want to get through it and live a normal life”. Like WHAT?! Your sister lost her freaking SON! She will NEVER get over it and live a normal life. It’s so obvious she had something to do with it. The violent arguments, constant fighting, the crazy statements. Mom took the blame because Tonina was her “baby”.
Congratulations to Tonina for getting away with murder and being a heartless narcissist who allowed an innocent woman to die in prison. I hope CPS is monitoring her kids because the way she talks and lies is extremely concerning.
Absolutely 💯
She has NO kids.
@@taniathomas5n537L She said she did so….
@@taniathomas5n537L the interview she did with EXPLORE WITH US. She says she has kids. She said she didn't get to introduce her kids to her mom bc she died in prison.
I agree.
The mother referring to her 25 year old daughter as “ the little one” as well as making sure she could go live with her sister made it clear to me that the mother is taking the fall.
I agree.
It seems to me that Tonina is a "the queen"... She's 25 but had no job... she just partied and sewed... no other responsibilities. If the house only has 2 bathrooms & her bedroom has a dedicated bathroom, Tonina slept in the master bedroom - even though it's her mom's apartment.
She is completely self-absorbed and paints herself as a victim constantly - even now. Everyone is out to get her, talking about her and treating her badly.
It wouldn't surprise me if she drowned her nephew out of jealousy and let her mom take the consequences.
If Tonina has her own kids, I'd be worried about them.
What a load of b0llocks . My oldest son and I refer to my youngest son as the little one .( he's 6foot 4 inches and about 250lbs .so I mean not everyone says the youngest one . A good lawyer would laugh and say , I say the same about my children ... so it doesn't mean anything.. very poor explanation ..
@@DamePigletAgreed!!
in the interview she had with them, she brought up having CPS at her door constantly. So she’s clearly got some people watching her
Does anyone ever ask either one of these two women what drugs they had been taking the night of his death?
YES!!!!! That’s EXACTLY what I’m thinking. You can tell the daughter is a narcissist. How aweful to let ur mentally fragile mother go to prison for you
She never even said what she remembered about him 😢She even made that question about herself and how hard she has it 🤮
Right? I thought that was the most brazenly self centered thing she did
And she was lying. Listen to what the mother was saying about her to the older sister. Everything she said in that recent interview was a lie.
The only true thing she said was that she woke up in different clothing.
It takes a special kind of evil too not only kill a baby but too then pin the murder on your sick mother is next level evil.
How Tonina wasn’t charged at all in any of this is beyond me. The detective put ZERO pressure on her despite changing her story multiple times and her strange comments throughout the entire interview process. It’s baffling.
I was waiting to hear that they locked up the mother and the daughter too but nope...
This investigator is a classic example of promotion based on years served rather than aptitude and ability. He spends too much time talking and not enough time listening.
Yeah this detective really screwed the pooch on this one. 🤦🏼♂️. The mom is in jail - because she’s pathetic and is sticking up for and taking the blame for her psychotic daughter. Yet Tonina, who acted so bizarrely during this whole thing, lied several times and overall seems like the one who killed the kid - gets zero consequences 😡
I think Tonina did it and the mother took the blame
@@dianekleitz4926 I think it's possible they both had a hand in it. Both are strange.
Totally blown away when she said that in 2009 she was a supermodel and people were jealous of her success and wanted to tear her down. MA'AM.
I found that weird, too. During the second interview, she seemed to attempt to play the interrogator somewhat, playing on his sympathies, responding so positively to his comments regarding the CPR attempt, wanting him to validate her efforts, etc. Her constant deflection was such a red flag. I have to wonder if there had been another interrogator if more detail could have been elicited.
I rolled my eyes and groaned out loud when she said that shit
😂😂😂
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A supermodel?! She isn't in this reality. I wonder if that's why she had her boob job top & center. It took up half my screen!
These are collectively, some of the craziest people I have ever seen and heard. The detectives included. I have never! RIP, DeAngelo.
Omg when she asked the detective if he thought she was a bad artist...
Tonina is clearly a pathological liar. She made it to the hospital just in time to be told DeAngelo didn’t make it, but then turns around and says she was in the room with him, holding his hand, when he turned purple and passed away. There are SO many inconsistencies in her stories and it is mind blowing she’s not in jail.
Exactly! Then she said he was already blue in the bathroom. How did you see him turn blue and pass away in the hospital???
Seems to me Tonina is doing her damndest to make everyone think she's the one responsible. Note how she was taken aback that they found evidence of a struggle on her mom. She freezes for a moment, then immediately implicates herself.
Is it maybe just extreme denial that her mother was responsible for this? Or did she know her mom did this all along and is trying, quite poorly, to implicate herself instead. That might explain why she let the boy float in the tub while she called 911. She might already have been aware that not only was he dead, but he'd been that way since long before she even woke up that day.
That would also explain why police didn't give her the time of day, regardless of how obviously suspicious her stories are.
But well, who knows what the truth of it is. In any case, it's clear Tonina's got her own issues. Her sudden mood swings certainly do line up if she's being treated for bipolar. Her constant changing of the story also lines up with that, especially if she's off her meds like Vicki claims.
It's a bit baffling that the sisters trusted these two women with a laundry list of mental health problems each with their children unsupervised. The truth is either one could have done it. The physical evidence points to Terry, so that's who they nailed to the wall.
I think this is right. The mom said to vicki that she thought everything took a toll on her and she snapped. Then her making the comment on his voice. @redshirt49
And not even a good liar!! Yikesss
Ditto,..
She clearly did it!!! I hate that her sick mother had to take that fall. This detective SUCKS.
The nonchalant way Tonina was telling the 911 operator her "nephew just drowned in the bathtub, can you send somebody over?" like she's just calling for a cab. It was disturbing than immediately became sickening when she realized the Operator had actual concern for poor DeAngelo, and she tried to act like she did, too. Horrifying
That exactly, I was like what the hell. Then something he said made her realize she should be upset and her tone changed to sobbing and frantic. That first sentence was chilling though.
It’s scary how they mask to blend in
even the operator was confused he was like wtf did you just say so casually??
After repeating he "just" drowned she then contradicts herself during the call saying he was there (in the tub) for an maybe an hour or so.
exactly, exactly!
out of this almost 2 hours of out-of-this-world interview with a lot of crazy sh*t, I almost forgot about this part
I got that immediately too, she talked about it like she was ordering fast food or something
but after watching the whole video, I'm convinced that this woman is broken beyond repair. She is genuinely brain-damaged.
Tonina was feeling guilty and sounded like her own question "was I sleep walking?" was a confession.
Her mind is trying to come up with a way to protect her mom, and that's what it came up with.
I have a sneaking suspicion that Tonina's family doesn't keep in touch with her ......
Oh they don’t I looked her up on Facebook 😂
@@Lee_Anne123I'm pretty sure they all suspect the same thing we do.
I believe Tonina did it. She shows no emotions, constantly changes the subject to not answer questions, keeps trying to get the detective to tell her she's innocent and her story is so inconsistent.
I tend to agree and i think her mother is taking the fall for her.
There were marks on her mother.
I legit had the exact same thought. I think either she did it and her mum is taking the fall for her or Tonina did it on a way to make her mum think she actually did it soo like gaslighting her. So like Tonina did something to that poor boy but was able to make it seem like it was her mum who did it and she was just asleep conveniently and so it can’t have ANYTHING to do with her. That’s why the mum keeps saying she doesn’t know. She is in her own head and is soo confused but because she has been gaslit by Tonina she thinks it’s her fault but just don’t know what happened. I hope that makes sense.
@@anacondamaltliquor6416exacty what I thought. Moms covering for her train wreck daughter. The weird stuff in her room defecting questions making her mom look crazy. Not taking meds for a year. I’d like to know how much of the medication was in her blood if any. She made no sense. Either that or she convinced her mom she did it Ashe seemed very suggestive
there were marks on her mother and none on tonina. tonina is very clearly mentally unwell and unstable. thats the most clear fact of this case. you cant look at her interview under the same microscope as a normal person.
I’ve seen literally hundreds of police interrogations in my life, and Tonina is by a large margin the most mentally unwell person I’ve ever seen interviewed by police.
DITTO
perfectly said
Definitely
bro theres definitely been way more mentally unwell people interviewed here, but yeah she is bat shit crazy lol
Absolutely 💯% correct!
Tonina did it and she manipulated her mom into taking the blame. Especially since her mom infantilizes her, her mom probably felt this deep sense of duty to protect her as if she were still a child. The bruises her mom had were probably done by Tonina as well. This is infuriating, she should be in prison for life.
I 100% totally agree with you!!
"I feel like it's just mind tricks"
Tonina, I feel mind tricked just watching this video. I'm at least 1% stupider now, from watching your interviews.
that 911 call is so eerie. you can hear the moment she realizes how bad her nonchalance sounds to the operator and how she turns on the distress.
Yes I heard that too! The beginning was like she was ordering a pizza
@@Mama2CDHsurvivorright omg😮😮
The operator was so baffled by her calmness he couldn't even understand her. Lady is definitely guilty asf
She started to show as if she's panicking after the operator asks her twice.
For me, when she suddenly started babbling about "ordering a pizza" while on the phone with 911? Whatever psychosis she has going on, she suddenly mixed up actual observable events (ie, "I got on the phone with 911...") with what was *going through her head* when on the phone with 911, but only halfway. To me, in that moment she's revealing a quick discussion she had with whoever (not her mom imho, but someone no one but her can see/hear :| ) told her "it sounds like you're ordering a pizza... turn shit up a bit maybe?", her reply being "I'm not ordering a pizza! I'm not... no, I'm" etc.
Convince me otherwise. Please, cos that creeps me out.
This case should be reopened and investigate again.
Because maybe they are letting a killer geting away with it.
They did let the murderer get away
Absolutely
Yeh… she was a naughty girl… 😮
Maybe? They need to reopen.
I also think that the investigator interviewing Ton (a nickname out of disrespect) got a little too flustered and impatient.
She's so guilty!! Her story has changed a hundred times. How could the police not even consider her to be the killer??
I would be amazed if they did not feel the same way, but what are they supposed to do?
If they dont have physical evidence, both her statement that mom confessed AND mom confessing.
I think they were probably suspicious of it but couldn’t prove it and her mom took the fall for her.
Totino’s pizza did it and let her mom die in prison for something she did, Something is definitely not right with her and she’s so into herself, How tf did she not get charged! Rip Deangelo 😢
She totally did it and let mom take the fall. The fact that this woman has kids is absolutely terrifying.
AGREE! Mom might have been mentally unwell too, but I think part of that could be caused by dealing with her daughter. Having a crazy person in the house-- narcissistic, violent, bipolar, selfish-- takes its toll. Maybe she was "pacing" so much because she was worried about her daughter. Tonina's psychosis is obvious, but she is able to do a lot of self-preservation. Why she chose to kill that child? Maybe to hurt her sisters that she clearly had anger towards. Just. Wow.
I think she did it too. And how mom got bruises was probably because Tonina abused her too.
Give me a break, that tonina is guilty as hell. All the different stories she told and now seeing her interview and the lies she's still telling is despicable. This woman has no compassion and everything is all about her, what about your poor poor mother, and the young nephew you tragically lost? You deserve all the worst for the rest of your life.
Yeah, Tonina may be crazy but she definitely staged the whole thing and the Mom is just assuming she did it because she’s so mentally unwell and loves Tonina too much, plus thinks she’s her innocent little girl.
completely agree, she's 100% guilty
This family doesn't act normal. When she called 911 she acted like she was ording a pizza. The lack of emotion kills me, this is her nephew. Unbelievable!
"Hello, yes, my nephew drowned in the tub. I haven't taken him out or done anything, but I did call you praise me
@@scorchy_girl9820"
You can tell she realized based on the 911 operators incredulous response that she should be acting more upset.
"I didn't order a peet-zahhh"
Completely agree. That’s bone chilling how casual she was. I would be screaming bloody murder doing everything possible! My nephews are my world! This was a LITTLE child! Who could do this to an innocent baby? I’ll never understand
Wow that 911 call was something else. The way she so casually says her nephew drowned.
Then she starts crying realizing the 911 operator is like wtf did you just say?
A sociopath and a compulsive liar, Tonina one hundred percent did it.
Why does it feel like no one in the family is recognizing Deangelo as like, a real person?? This is so incredibly weird and they all act so aloof and detached
Right? It's like he was totally expendable and no one really gives a shit other than the inconvenience of it all.
Right?? It's so strange.. like they have zero emotion when talking about him. It's like they're talking about someone they've never met.
I was wondering the same thing. The aunt is like “yeah my nephew drowned can you send someone please?” Like wut. Who says that calmly.
Very detached 😢
Yeah it’s super weird. They all care more about each other than the little innocent baby boy. It’s insane.
Tonina reminds me of a schizophrenic girl I used to know. She would compulsively lie about everything, speaking with total conviction, but changing her story on a dime. A conversation with her was like a slow descent into Wonderland.
She is absolutely right that our justice system is tragically flawed. Horrible how mom died in prison.
What scares me is learning that Tonina had kids of her own later in life.She is so mentally ill I can't imagine her as a mother at any point in her life.
That’s the scariest part…
I agree!
Thats scary af😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨
She'll be one of those wearing a coat, talking to herself, and pushing a shopping cart in the middle of summer.
She 100% killed her nephew
The minute she walked in and explained why she wasn’t crying, and made it a point to say that she cried on the way there, told me everything I needed to know about who was guilty
AMBERLYNN!
👍💯 same. Not saying Deangelo’s name might be a way to dehumanize him to put him away from her. Stories changing… all of this too made it clear she’s in it.
Aren’t any of them sad??? Weird … RIP Deangelo 🌺
@@zapbrannigannnhahahahhahahaha
omg gorl!!!
I get it’s a commonly repeated comment, but imagine people judging you on ONE sentence in your life and think that defines you…YOU would be screwed. 😂 While it is absolutely odd and suspicious, it really shouldn’t be the only thing you need to hear. The combination of MANY things she said and did is what should be taken into consideration.
I think it’s crazy how Tonina blamed her mother for what “Tonina” did to her nephew because she’s GUILTY for that!!! What a fuckin horrible person she is and I can’t believe she got away with that it’s disgusting 🤢 😡😡
This B is in the deepest parts of Delulu land.
It was such a struggle to continue listening to the daughter, Tonina. She was all over the place and so self-absorbed.
Yep.
“I’m an *artist,* so when you walk into my room you’ll probably be scared.”
“Yeah, I’ve heard it’s different.”
“What does that mean??? You think I’m a bad artist???”
Right, the sudden subject changes and talking in circles
Classic narcissist. She’s probably a psychopath.
I nearly choked when she said i was a supermodel and people are jealous , she reminds me of a friend i knew who was a fantasist and would lie and make up storys .
She probably dreamed she was a super model, and is confusing it with reality.
Yeah I had a friend like that too 😂😂😂
She 100% a narcissist aint no way she didnt off her nephew
@GiftOfGabbyH No. More like JB, you people just been lied to for so long the truth sounded ridiculous to you. There's a reason why Trump is leading by a lot in pretty much every single State and why he already has a 90% chance to win in November according to CNN
JB lost to a nobody a few Tuesdays ago lol and his chances of winning in November after that loss dropped down to just 10%. Trump broke 3 records already and had a clean sweep. Even won in California and New Jersey which is VERY rare.
BlacksForTrump2024 🇺🇸
@GiftOfGabbyH aww did Big Don hurt your whittle feelwings? Haha You're probably the type to hate on people's religions too, typical Libby.
JB has actually been caught lying more in his first year than Big Don has been accused of his whole term. JB said his son was killed in action, which wasn't true at all. He said he graduated from a great college, but records prove that's also a lie. He said many times during the debates he would NOT shut down the pipelines and *_Promised_* those people would not lose their jobs, what did he do his SECOND day in office?? Shut that all down and those same people he promised lost their jobs!
Said he never took any classified documents. But we all know now that was also a lie. They found over 1,850, boxes of classified documents without any authorization that he PURPOSELY hid all over the place. List goes on and on and on.
That 911 dispatcher. Bless him. My son is turning 4 in may. This brought tears to my eyes.
Tonina, needs to be brought to justice. SHES NOW A MOTHER, GOD HELP THOSE CHILDREN
The fact Tonina has children is TERRIFYING. I really hope the Dad has full custody.
The mental illness may be hereditary, the kids might grow up to be monsters.
@irineumaiden show your peer reviewed research on this one. How ridiculous.
Exactly, that’s my thing too like whet? 😮🤨
@@irineumaiden,WOW, how totally untrue that statement is!!! I know plenty of Father's who want their children & NOT for vengeance
@@shaylatorchI do too, but sadly the statement is true and many just want to take custody to avoid child support.
When she said in 2009 people were jealous because she was a supermodel I SCREAMED. The biggest narcissist I have ever seen.
Detective. 'You know its gonna be different around your house now.'
Tonina 'The scheme?'
'Huh?'
'The scheme. The paint scheme. Is it bad? I thought you said it was different. In a bad way? Maybe I'll change it'
WHAT... THE... FUDGE.. 😮😮
Tonina is a classic narcissist. At every step of the way, all she cares about is how all this is affecting her. That doesn't prove that she killed her nephew, but if I had to bet money, it would be on her.
Wow, just wow. The daughter sounds absolutely nuts !!!
“She’s just a baby. She’s 25.”
Wow.
The grandmother is covering for her daughter
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Yeah the age of 25 is when young adults are supposed to have finally, mentally matured to their potential. It's scary that she still acts and is treated like she's 15 years old.
@@CandyKG28 I didn't start maturing till I was 30, but nah she's a weirdo and I think she maybe had something to do with it and the mom wants to protect her or maybe even think she did it?? I don't know... I'd say 25 is a baby though for sure hah
@@justmelissa7010 She's absolutely covering for her. Especially with the "nobody killed him" statement... that makes me suspicious too.... like wouldn't she have said "IIII didn't kill him" if she killed him???
I cannot wrap my head around how all the professionals interviewing Tonina got pretty solid statements from her and evidence of her changing her story and avoiding questions yet, she walks free to this day. I have seen so many people in Tonina's position who have got some sort of sentencing. This is outrageous.
100% agree. Doesnt make any sense. Im so angry with this right now, it's not right
I bet its got something to do with the fact that she is a woman. Otherwise, I cant see any possibility of them letting her go free when she changed her story so many times and keeps lying about everything.
Yep
Even her sister, the boy’s mom, didn’t want her involved in the funeral. Red flag 🚩
She's clearly bipolar, I think she is just like that, she is very similar to someone I know who is also bipolar, I don't think she is deliberately changing her story, she is confusing herself and exhibiting a lot of symptoms also the mum has clear mental health issues as well
We need to get justice for that little guy!! Tonina need to go to jail!!
The fact she killed her nephew and allowed her mom to die in jail is disgusting, i hope life takes care of her soon.
So sorry for the mother who lost her kid, her mom and her sister
No, I’m sorry just the way that she said, “hi, my nephew, just drowned in the bathtub”, it’s already over for me. That’s insanity.
Lunatics I agree family have an illness and can’t communicate talk talk a say nothing ya ya ya that chick who did cpr oh man
Its a small world. Im a subscriber of yours.
@@JesusIsAlphaOmega001 ahhaaa! that's funny we're true crime buffs maybe ? I know I am, this one is almost too disturbing for me
You could actually hear the responder doing a double take. It was such strange behavior.
@@JubrieI "What did you just say??"
I’m not putting blame on the mother but my god how could someone trust either of these people with children. They’re both insufferably insane.
I know right, baffling as all heck.
Victim blaming at best.
People lack healthy levels of skepticism and suspicion.
Well I'll blame the mother because she should still want justice for the death of her son, no matter who is at fault... That's a mother
@@sangaristicx9046I mean all the signs are there, if I was the mother of that child and put him in their care I would blame myself too.
Tonina did it. Grandma/her mom is covering for her.
Tonina, if you're reading this- GET THE HELP YOU CLEARLY NEED BEFORE YOU HURT SOMEONE ELSE
And if you get to read mine Tonina, you're a POS and if your kids are reading this, RUN
The whole family is really emotionally blunted, that kind of apathy generally comes from severe trauma. I wonder what there family was really like behind closed doors.
As for Tonina, I don’t think her rambling was an attempt to avoid answering questions. She has the a lot signs of Schizophrenia, her rambling was more like word soup even on the phone call. She also shows signs of paranoia, thinking that this was all just a big plot to hurt her and someone was out to get her. That poor child was left with two severely mentally ill people who could barely take care of themselves.
Listen to Tonina talk has been one of the most infuriating things I can remember. Aside from the fact she may have gotten away with murder it’s clear that she didn’t care about that poor boy one bit. It seems like nobody in that family did
Exactly ,was really hard to listen even to rythm of her speech ,,distu.rbingly narc.istic mon.ster 😭😭it Feels like She somehow made her mum to do that
How many times can a person with higher education say "like" in a 5min span, I don't envy the interrogater, horrible woman.
I don’t think someone has frustrated me this much like this Tonina bi$&h
fax yo, she essentially lied to the cops during this investigation by saying she woke up and found the boy around 7am when in reality like her updated 2023 story, she and possibly everyone else was awake at around 3am
The level of delusional confidence she had too, claiming she was a "supermodel, everyone was so jealous, everyone's out to hurt them" it's like no wonder a woman of that mindset would get arrested for indecent exposure to the cops. Girl thought she was the shit. It took a lot of patience to get through this video, hearing her voice and mannerism was like claws on a chalk board
The fact that she is now saying 3am she woke up to find him is all the proof we need.. they called at 7am. She let him float there for 4 hours.
I hope she sees these comments saying we all know Tonina is guilty 😂
@@aymoooneoNo, she's loving it if anything. She's getting attention
I think the mother got up that morning and found him already in the bath.. She sounded beside herself, not knowing what to do! That mother couldn't explain what happened because tornado Tonina did it😢😢
@@ralsharp6013 It would be super easy to identify if a body had been in water for hours. A firefighter / paramedic or emt would easily be able to see it. Also the way Rigor mortis works it would be especially obvious if the boy was dead for 4 hours. It certainly happened around the time they called 911.
I wonder if she killed her own father too so she could have control of her mother and their finances. She reminds me of my Aunty who was pushing my head under water in a bathtub when my mother caught her. A bitter young woman (like my Aunty) jealous of a child for getting attention and having money spent on them. She clearly hated him since she couldn't even cry and she didn't even try CPR since she was dry and she was fake blowing as you can hear on the recording.
Oh Hell. The Aunt killed her nephew and used her mother’s dementia as cover. The issue is the grandmother had wounds that could result from a struggling 4 year old. So it doesn’t add up.
Why does everyone think that evasive old woman couldn't be guilty. You really bought what she's selling despite ALL the evidence. Why?
Tonina did it, mother would rather rot in jail then see her daughter there. There’s a reason why all she ever asked about was where she was or how she was doing because she knew she was the guilty one all along and didn’t want the police to catch on. Tonina is absolutely psychotic and still is to this very day. I’m scared for anyone that could potentially come in contact with her
You know it’s wild when the woman calls 911 and is so casual about her nephew being dead that it throws the 911 operator off his stride. She was SOOO matter of fact about it. “My nephew is dead. Can you send someone?” Like she’s asking for a table to be cleared after a meal at a restaurant 🤦🏻♀️
This woman is crazy, and more than a little terrifying.
Yup, and then all of a sudden she started "crying".
People respond to trauma in different ways. Some go into shock and dissociate and enter a dream-like state without processing the traumatic experience they just went through or are currently going through, some become hysterical, some lash out and become aggressive, etc, etc.
It's a good thing most _(hopefully)_ of the commenters here are not in positions of authority within our criminal justice system, because a *LOT* of innocent people would be in prison right now based solely on the clear lack of understanding of psychology being displayed here. *Fucking yikes.*
Then about 2 minutes into 911 call. Starts bawling what a joke
shes clearly a nut job and doesnt have normal emotions but that doesnt mean she had anything to do with it i think she was probly off her meds and was just going off the deepend. which she should be after what happened
@fuhque9132 I feel for them but sorry they are a bit strange somthing is going on more then reactions to shock. They obviously have some mental illness
Tonina is a danger to herself and society and I cannot believe this police department just seemed completely disinterested in actually getting this case correct. It’s terrifying that she has kids of her own now.
Omg! Seriously!? Hope the husband is keeping an eye on them. Goodlord!!
That girl is totally insane!
My thoughts exactly! 💯💔
Yup. Mom covered for her
Police aren't interested in actually solving a case.
@@autumnleaf3667 No the mom had the fight marks on her. She 's the one who did it. Tonina knew though subconsciously .
Tonina is certifiably nuts. Her illness is real, my son has it, but I still understand the interviewers frustration. The daughter was scared of losing her mom because I'm positive has no friends. The mom just flipped out and probably was on meds after her husband died that she may not had needed and was making her crazy. That poor baby to live with that and died due to family not looking past all the signs of a very dangerous environment.
I think Tonita is the one that did it and her mother took the fall. Tonita just has no empathy or emotion to her at all. She’s just blank and crazy and narcissistic.
The way this woman says "peet zaaaaah" makes me want to scream
literally. i don’t know what accent this is but it’s so obnoxious.
Was looking for this comment lol. PeetZAH
Reopen this case !!! Justice for Deangelo
Apparently, the mother of the child was cuckoo herself! Husband probably too.
A narcissistic psycho fam through and through, in short.
The child is better off in heaven, hands down!
God forbid to have a “family” like this!
And I thought my relatives were mad as hell… well, apparently, there are even worse one 😳😳
Well, at least mine haven’t yet murdered any born humans. Yet.
And justice for Terry.
this is the perfect example of a case that needs to be reopened for investigation. Tonina is definitely involved in this. I’m not gonna go into detail on everything (it’s all pretty self-explanatory and easy to see) but she makes several weird remarks and hints that she was definitely involved. Scary to think that she’s still out there
I would love this to be reinvestigated and find out what really happened.
Definitely!! Tonina needs to be arrested.
I had enough of her show pretty early on. The investigators are only interested in getting getting her to snitch on mom.
Mental illness is not something to be exploited. Excellence will gain yourself attention also.
I believe she killed her nephew and the mother is taking the blame for it she should have been arrested also if she was so called doing cpr how did she know the paramedics went to the wrong door and then her clothes was dry both of there clothes was dry they changed into dry clothes they both are guilty
@@veronicawesson5772can you imagine even allowing your own mother to spend the rest of her days in prison, whilst knowing she’s there bc of you. I wouldn’t be able to function. There’s no way in hell. Tonina is so sick.
Totally agree - out there AND with children.
At 1:29:00 the report says Tonina was just cleared from a psych hospital, but that she sleepwalks and stabs people in her sleep. It's why she refused to do a polygraph, because "she wass a killer in her sleep." I definitely think she had more to do with this than she wants the courts and the court of public opinion to believe.
They didn’t even TRY to save that baby! They didn’t immediately remove him from the water and they didn’t want to give him rescue breaths. WHY did they want to make sure he died?!!
This whole thing feels like a fever dream. Why are all of them SO deranged and weird. This is insanity. I've never been so frustrated in my life than I was listening to tonina deflect and talk on and on about herself when there was a murder. And for the record, I fully believe she has something to do with his death. Her and her mother are out of their minds.
As someone who knows and is in families with mental disorder. They tend to be genetic, so you get a whole family with schizophrenia ,a whole family with bpd etc. Even if most are ok they have symptoms and bounce off each other. Its likely everyone in that family have the exact same issues
I totally agree with you im finding it hard to understand any of this who is who im still watching they dont seem to talk like normal people.
not much is said about the grandchild
You and me both!
Hi guitar…IKR..
yeah I mean she's on heavy sedatives and antipsychotics, it seems like none of them even have a grasp on reality or know what's going on at any moment.
I think it says a lot when your own family doesn't want you to attend the funeral of "the little boy" she found in a bathtub... As well as the town treating her different after the fact. Literally everyone around her thinks she was more involved so how did this get so weird??
I agree and for me it sounds like throughout her entire interrogation she was confessing. the sister murdered her nephew and blamed the mother.
youre using poor logic. regardless of the truth, if the town thinks youre a baby killer youre guilty even if youre not. seeing her is a reminder of that day and its reasonable to not want to be reminded of that. neither of these points mean anyone is guilty of anything. people happily embrace false rumors all day long, doesnt mean its true just because a lot of people believe its possible
@@Usureboutdat I think there is enough here to think something is definitely fishy. I don’t think there is enough here to say conclusively who did it.
@@James-dq3jo Agreed. I just cannot get behind anyone extending sympathy to the sister for being ostracized by her community, and the mother of the child whose death she most certainly played a part in. Listen to her 911 call. She might as well be ordering at a drive through. Telling bold faced lies at every opportunity.
In the court of public opinion, there is no "innocent until proven guilty", and to be honest, this is one of those cases where that is completely appropriate.
@@Usureboutdatwhy are you making it personal just because you don't like someone's pov? Maybe the family didn't want Tonina there because they thought it may send her into psychosis and nobody was up to having that to deal with as well as everything else.
id never leave my child with either of these people
Terry took the fall! Tonina is a narcissist and likely had her mom brainwashed. It's scary that a killer is free and has children!!! As a mother Terry felt obligated to still worry about Tonina. This whole story is rediculous and hurts my brain. How could the detectives not throw Tonina in prison?!?!
Not the “I just started taking the meds a month ago” and in the next sentence “I’ve been on them for a year”
yeah how come there was *zero* mention of that ?? lol
She also referred to Deangelo as “my sister’s nephew “
@@sarab9332that was arguably the weirdest thing she could’ve possibly said
Quarter inch of water..6 inches of water..close enough smh
Yeah, prescribed over a year ago, only took em cuz she was hospitalized in the last few months and the meds needed to be in her system cuz these ppl are manipulating the system for ssi, they are straight up gypsies‼️😩
I noticed how calm she was at the beginning of the 911 call, then when she sensed the concern and urgency in the dispatchers voice, her emotions completely changed. As if she recalled how to "appropriately" react to the situation
Exactly!!! I thought the same thing.
Same here.
I also notes the same thing. She was deadpan until she realized it was weird to not be emotional at all
That's typical with psychopaths. They mimic the behavior of those around them.
So fucking weird and the mother declining to breath for her grandson? "I'm too nervous". Wtf??
Tonina and her Mom are wacka-doodles. The way they talk, act and this story are cray cray. Such a tragedy.
Its hearbreaking to see all these adults and noone of them show emotions about the babys death. They care more about themselvss.
These detectives did a terrible job questioning her. They literally overlooked a LOT of odd things she said. I definitely believe she had something to do with her nephew's death. This is a sad case
I felt the detective actually liked her!
Mental health issues aside, these people are all fucking weird and bizarre and just not right.
i think the same
Had the same impression...
😶💯💯
"Are you supposed to pound it like a ham?" She's talking about her 4 year old nephew! How is this woman not in jail???? My heart is broken for the loss of an innocent baby and his mother 😢
Yes, that was absolutely disgusting
I don't understand how she escaped jail time either.😡
Thank you!! I'm so confused! I feel the detectives were stuck but should have asked more questions and allowed more answers. When she referred to a ham and never showed real concern for him it was apparent she knew more. I absolutely believe she may have been sleep walking and that's why she was "soo embarrassed" not that her nephew was dead or anything like that though. God forbid she thinks about him and his mom and dad, which by the way she never shows concern for at all. She showed more concern about what police and media would think about her "art" when entering her home! Again so confused! I've been through trauma and I'm sorry, but I remember almost every second. Smell in the air, temperature, touch, my breathing, the way it made me feel, to the looks on people's faces when explained what happened. Everything! I am a strong woman but come on!
I’ll tell you what’s even scarier than that the fact that she’s giving an interview right now to this RUclips channel and is just as crazy as she was before if not worse and she has children of her own someone needs to step in and get those kids out of that household immediately I can’t even imagine the damage she’s so flipping psychotic. I can’t even count how many crazy things that she said it just in the new interview about how she was a supermodel at 19 I don’t know I’m at a loss for this craziest case I’ve ever heard it takes a lot to shock me, but the entire family is to blame for all of this you have to know that your mom is losing it that’s why she could only take care of one kid at a time. There’s an obvious reason why both kids didn’t go over there at the same time she could handle it a normal grandma could handle both the kids for one night or two nights and then you know your sister is completely psychotic and if you can’t tell that your mother is losing it and you’re leaving your children with her there’s definitely liability right there for everybody in the family. Nobody gets off in this family at all there’s blame to be pushed around everywhere.
@@Lifecanreallysuck when I heard her say "my kids" I was like, NOOOOO!
You can hear how confused and hurt the grandmother is, you can hear how the mother doesn’t have hatred or anger towards her mother who allegedly killed her child.
But ummm uhhhh you can totally hear how this aunt can’t keep a story straight, dodges the authorities for court, and makes everything about her. This male detective got played and BOTCHED this case. Every bad thing in Tonina’s life was well deserved for her shameful actions against her mother and nephew.
This is so frustrating to watch based on all the clue the aunt gave that it was not a accident. Then to have the balls to say oh i dont know why my sister dosent want me at his funeral.
Can’t believe that Tonina is free. This is one of the saddest tragedies I ever heard. That poor poor sweet precious boy.
She's free and very happy too. Not the child tho, he's dead. But whatever, the cops don't care. Really tells you something.
Same thing with the Casey Anthony trial. The mom should be behind bars for life, but she's walking amongst the rest of us..
@@Felandianthe difference with that case is she did get arrested and charged then let go. But I follow your line of thinking.
She's free because she's innocent.
@@fluffylittlebear dead child. Not her fault? You sound like a very bad person,
it’s insane how they manage to make every single question about themselves. it’s almost a talent 💀
Tonina: My sister doesn't want me to come to the funeral.
Detective: Oh, everyone is a bit confused right now. That is understandable.
Tonina: Everyone suspects me
Detective: But I don't suspect you
@@mtkn744 hahaahah xD
The 9-1-1 call itself is suspicious… these people killed that young innocent soul, everybody in that house should be arrested
If the family knows the mother & daughter are unstable & aren't doing a good job of looking after themselves, then why were they trusted to look after the little boy without supervision? The boys top was cut, the shower curtain was cut. Wtf is going on in this interview, the detective is allowing her to not answer a direct question & is totally indulging her in steering the interview in whatever weird ass direction she wants?!
The way Tonina continuously switches topics during the interrogation is INSANE.
@jayintuitve7717, gee, you mean a person who likely has schizophrenia sounds insane? What a surprise.
@@JessBlake2 It doesn't need to be schizophrenia, racing thoughts is a symptom common in several mental disorders. Your brain is moving so fast that by the time something gets out of your mouth, you are on to another topic. I don't know who or if both were guilty, but this girl definitely needed some help.
I find it odd that the detective allowed her to do that.
@@JessBlake2Why do you think she’s schizophrenic? Nothing here implied that, her medication isn’t for schizophrenia. Unless you have some information we don’t…
@@TurnToPageX Her medication could potentially be for schizophrenia (50.33) and she claimed to have a psychotic break (1.29.25) and having had hallucinations (1.20.50). She also has signs of delusions (grandiose to be specific) and seems to have attention problems. So it is a possibility
This woman suffers from such a level of narcissism that it is actually startling. She turned every aspect of this tragedy back to how it affected her.
Wow.
it's so hard to follow this, too, because the timeline and details keep changing in her rants
Oh! I completely agree!! She is still incredibly narcissistic!!
Can you armchair psychologists stop calling everyone and their mother a "narcissist" already?
@@lotharschramm5000 this is a case of narcissism. just because you cant see that doesnt mean everyones an armchair psychologist lol
says you, keep being delusional and defending abusers & murderers @@lotharschramm5000
This is so terrible. Poor kid. I can't help but cry when I hear about this. If you have children you understand how heart breaking this is. Such a bright light extinguished so early on is so tragic. What an atrocity.
the way terry was crying on tonina and said “she’s just a baby she’s just 25” that’s absolutely ridiculous
It seems so completely obvious that the daughter did it, pinned it on her mom, and her mom took the blame so her “baby” wouldn’t have to go to jail. And the other sister had it all figured out. How the detective let her off the hook when she couldn’t keep her story straight is beyond me.
That detective was a mess
GRANDMom who didn't call THE police and refused to help. Right.
@@DeviceAnathemaI think she was genuinely in shock..trying to process what her daughter did and seeing her grandson dead. Then either by manipulation or choice deciding to take the rap. It's a messed up story. If the gran did it then most on the comments have also been duped. Poor lil Deangelo.😢
@@DeviceAnathema MOM "Tonina's MOM"
the grandma had bruises and scrapes on her arms and im sure the detectives followed up on all the other evidence. i dont think tonina did it at all i just think shes batshit crazy maybe off her meds and cant properly convey emotions.
Its disgusting how when asked what she remembered about her nephew, not less than 10 seconds after it comes back to herself and how hard she works.
And if I remember correctly, her mom was worried about her not being able to pay for her food and her other daughter telling her she'll need to get a job. So this ideas that she didn't remember much of her nephew because she was always working and having 2 jobs is just another lie.
Right.
They all are crazy..I think Tonina did it and brain washed her mother to think she did it 🤔🧐. that's why her mother doesn't know how it happened but Tonina does 👿
Yeah thats called mental illness
@@dawnmcconnell5038 Her mother likely knows. She's spent her entire life enabling her daughter's incredibly negative and maladaptive behavior (now pathological), and never held her accountable. It's evident within the familial dynamics, specifically when the mother literally calls her a "baby" and acknowledges that she's 25 within the same sentence, then comfortably refers to her as "the little one" when asking the detective if she can call her from their facility. Tonnina's constant deflection when asked a direct question is a learned behavior, developed after consistent reinforcement which has consistently worked for her, likely since childhood, therefore she continues to do it prolifically.
The grandmother must be covering for her daughter, the daughter has convinced the grandmother that she did it because the grandmother’s been living in a dream state for the last few years, she possibly believes a could be true…
What I'm also shocked at is the fact the boys mother would trust her sister and mother to babysit in the first place, they are CLEARLY not trustworthy and I've known them for just over an hour
considering the mother and toninas financial difficulties (mothers financial worries and how toninas sister said she was gonna get food stamps), i doubt her sister had the finances to hire a babysitter and it was easier to have her family watch DeAngelo. it’s very sad :(
25 MINUTES IN AND I'M CONVINCED THE GRANDMA HAS DEMENTIA AND NO ONE BOTHERED TO NOTICE AND JUST KEPT MAKING HER BABYSIT. THEY REALIZED THEIR MISTAKE BUT DIDN'T WANT TO OWN UP TO NEGLECTING THEIR MOTHER (strange behavior and statements) AND NOW SHE'S IN PRISON 🤦🏼♀️
The daughter said she literally can't function to do her daily things, meaning she's not even capable of taking care of herself, she's not even capable of cleaning her house anymore ! THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE for that babies death AND their mother's IMPRISONMENT 😭
she lived for 8 years after this and then died of cancer, if she had dementia it would have been known by the time she died.
I have strong suspicions Tonina did it somehow some way and then blamed her mother, perhaps thinking her mother was old and frail and might not be convicted or serve much time in prison.
@@Domebuddy do you seriously think she would have been diagnosed in prison?? It's very hard to diagnose in real life even with family members who aren't around the person often enough. There's absolutely no way it would have been diagnosed in prison. In fact I'm sure it would have been considered her acting up, if anything.
@@Grammichal Yeah, clearly everyone thinks that. I think that's ridiculous. Tonina isn't mentally healthy and clearly had trouble with the entire situation. The girl can't keep her story straight to save her life and can't even take care of herself but you honestly think she has pulled the wool over everyone's eyes for all these years, ridiculous.
@@itmattersnot1216 she would of died in prison.
edit: specifically of dementia and not cancer.