In additon, only marry females who earn significantly more than you that you are dominant over. You might have to work abit hard to keep her in line but its worth it on the backend.
Not all men need a podcast. You can see who was raised by a competent father when a guy calls out simps, then says simp stuff like that women don’t benefit more from marriage. Bruh, name one thing that men get in marriage that they could just pay for? Part of being a man is taking accountability: which means being honest.
She said unfaithful like that’s the only course of action that will cost the man. A woman can divorce a man bcuz it’s Tuesday and still take half. There’s no down side for them
All women's previous partners got all the wife perks but without having to actually marry her. There's no exclusivity. You'll just inherit all the previous baggage for premium. Nothing is saved for her future husband. Make marriages great again
Since 70% of women with children work part time/full time what are women actually doing??? These modern women are outsourcing her responsibilities cooking/cleaning/laundry wanting a nanny to help out with the kid/kids women don't want a life of leisure working is optional for her and her money is her money not the family
I dont know if anyone will read this. But the saddest thing i realized as a passport clerk is black women are single at a high rate. Never before married where other races get married young. Kind of embarrassing
The fact that this is even a debate is utterly ridiculous!! She said "quote unquote, work"... as if it means nothing at all for us to go out and yes, "WORK". And then have to give all of what we worked for to the family. This is crazy.
Simple solution change the marriage laws to adjust to the modern times,make it more fair as men doesn't lose his kids,resources and 60% of his assets majority of the times...if the laws were modernised and more fair for both parties then marriage rates will naturally go up
I just want to thank these men for showcasing proper control over their emotions.just in awe at the way they handled these ladies.i always love how the women were combative enough to allow the conversation to be addressed from all angles.
Some women who complain that they are sacrifice but they visualizing a guy that's NOT working long hours and doing loads of work and visualize a guy who comes home and ignores her and the kids. There's always an argument built from a negative aroma or bent instead of a good guy working hard for her.
Leach off of who? Because majority of y’all cannot afford to pay all the bills alone. Y’all love running with this narrative that y’all are paying bills and women are at home doing nothing. Women are working as well. Stop the cap. 🙄🤭
Do you see what I'm talking about how The Sisterhood is failing she said she ain't going to do nothing so don't matter these women especially the ones on this talk show that is the most worst answer I ever heard in The Sisterhood that's why we the last on the totem pole
This is not a conversation for unmarried people! You cannot speak on something you do not know. I’m not sure anyone on the panel is married. This conversation has become about whose most important. Instead how the hell do we work together to keep each other together and happy. How do we keep each other alive and well. And how the hell do we keep these damn kids alive and fed!! Let’s focus on that stuff . Let’s focus on doing the job together. This and many other conversations are about gender wars!!! I think the conversation needs to be had but this conversation became about a gender war and a type of shift blaming. In my opinion.
I agree that conversations between married people should focus on how to keep each other happy. However, this conversation is about understanding the risk vs reward of marriage for both parties. Right now men and women are at odds about even wanting to get married from a risk vs. reward standpoint. You have women in the comments of this video saying “marriage is like slavery” and that it really only benefits men. The point being made in the video is that marriage is a big risk for men and if women can understand that a man wanting to marry them in this climate with the odds stacked against them, then they should appreciate that at the highest honor and then both sides can put the work in. But right now people aren’t seeing it that way as you can see
💬 Maybe that's the push to find someone who cares & loves you while doing business after so many children & wives being random & searching for random help won't work I guess that's the attitude
Sons of yesterday are the men of today. Sons of today are the men of tomorrow. Would you wanna be the man raised in a broken household, and how well would your mental health and moral compass fair then? Being raised in a stable two parent household would directly affects everyone’s mental health and stability. The degree of the mental health of todays men is contingent upon how well yesterday’s men held up their households. So yes men do benefit from marriages.
I was a stay at home girlfriend during the pandemic. So, in other words, my boyfriend paid the rent and the bills. He came home to a sexy, cheerful, happy girlfriend. I cooked dinners for us every single night, and I made him lunch and of course the sex was off the charts.I made a huge mistake wasting 4 yrs , 4 good years. When I was young, hot and sexy, instead of focusing on my career or getting married.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle you know when you find your person? Your best friend, someone that you feel safe and comfortable with, that’s what he was. But one morning, 10 months ago, he went to work and never came home. There was no argument, there was no discussion. In fact he was intimate with me that morning before he left to go to work. And I even discussed what I was making him for dinner that night. I later found out he quit his job and moved to another state. Because he had his own room in my apartment, I hadn’t noticed that he had slowly moved his clothes out of the drawers and closet. Obviously I was shattered.
I find the topic interesting but you need to rerecord this video with better women who are mature and serious. These two here are making too many jokes, giggling too much, not taking the discussion seriously, not willing to see issues from both sides, lacks reflection and accountability.
Why do ppl allow for stats to be used without checking them first? Alimony I'd only awarded 15% of the time, so how can you sit here and make these false claims? Why have these conversations if they are built on lies? Grow up!
Women does way more than a man in marriage. And this is coming from someone who is married. The man will always benefit more because more weight is put on a woman’s head. Yes we provide and protect, but most of the work beyond that it falls in a woman’s hand. If you chose the right partner. Money isn’t everything and I’m starting to learn that
This conversation is trash. The women aren’t even countering the bs point. I can easy dubunk all his bs. He has the same lame talking points majority of the men in the social media comments have.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle you’re saying women benefit the most because the husband provides the roof over their heads. How many average households consist of a sole male provider? This day and in this economy most women have to work as well. So that point is trash . (2) saying women benefit from leaving the man and being awarded alimony and half of his stuff. About 10% of divorce cases in america end with women receiving alimony. That is not the majority. Most of these men don’t have or own much of anything for a woman to leave and take. (3) you stated that more than 80% of men lose custody of their kids after divorce. This is another lie. The kids are with the mother most because that’s what the men prefer. 60% of men who file for custody/joint custody of their kids are rewarded. That’s more than 50% chance that if a man ACTUALLY went for custody, he could obtain it. Why do y’all constantly have these podcast and spew lies. Most of the load in a marriage is on the woman. (4) for you to say men can outsource and get these services are cap! Most men can’t afford to sole providers. How and the hell are they going to be able to outsource ( and pay for a maid, cook and baby sitter?) it would be nice if y’all actually have well thought out arguments. (5) saying 80% of women leave marriages in its self shows who really benefits from marriage. Men often choose to stay married because they’re likely to be getting what they’re missing from other women. They like being able to outsource for (sex, attention, excitement) then having the luxury to come back home to the wife and children. Please don’t act like women are the cause of breaking up households, because they don’t stay in unfulfilling marriages.
@@charbrim100 100% agree. Women divorce men more because they realize that the man is often dead weight--just another child she has to take care of. And on top of that a lot of them act incompetent on basic household duties. Lets face it, if you don't do your job, you get fired! That's why most men say the divorce "came out of nowhere". No, you just didn't listen the first 100x she tried to tell you what she needed. Marriage is often slavery for women and noadays women are working too, so what's the point in being a wife when all you'll be doing is working and having to appease the ego of a KING BABY.
@@charbrim100 Your argument focuses on the concept that women take care of the household and the children and that men benefit primarily from that. This conversation focuses on measuring benefit in terms of cost-benefit (risk vs. reward) so you have to understand the risk of marriage and weigh it with the reward. There are benefits to marriage but my main point is that a woman should understand if a man marries a woman that is a huge deal that shouldn’t be taken lightly because of the risk to the man. The risk being women initiate the majority of divorces and are awarded more in the fiver e than the man whether that’s custody of the children or assets. To your point, most men don’t even fight for full custody because the chances of being granted it are so low. In general, women do not pay child support to a man after a divorce. In general, men lose more assets in a divorce than women. In general, women initiate divorces more than men and leave the marriage in better standing than the man. Everybody must weigh the risk vs. reward and judge appropriately but your argument doesn’t even take into account any risk.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle the statistics show that men who actually go to court for joint custody , 50/50 custody have 60% chance of being granted. The real problem is most men don’t go for custody. And many of them that do get divorced mutually decided to allow the woman to have primary custody. Please read and look this information up. Your information is not accurate.
Statistically married men live longer and make more money. Marriage for women is like slavery most times. Women take on the responsibilities in the home and the men act like keeping a job is so hard while the women work 24/7 365. Even if he's paying all the bills...many times she turns 40 and the men go off to have an affair with the younger women. The women sacrificed her youth and career to be married and he goes off to start a new family. She's saddled with kids and in povery with no ability to get back into the worksforce. Also single childless woman are the happiest in our society.
In a great marriage with a humble submissive loving wife I can see a man living longer. However rgats not what the masses of men get, and because of that married men die earlier due to stress, resentment, from being trapped in a marriage with a quarrelsome wife that uses the law to back her up. Theirs no incentive for men, and we get no appreciation.
80% of the divorces imitated by women,
Men will give up happiness to keep home together, women leave the home to keep they happiness.
Simple answer: STOP MARRYING THESE SCALLOWAGS!!!
I see why they single.
That’s crazy cause we both are in relationships lol
BIG FACTS
In a relationship for right now until that figure out he not getting anything from you he will be out ✌️
Men put all assets in a trust. Own nothing but control everything.
Aiy aiy captain 🫡
In additon, only marry females who earn significantly more than you that you are dominant over. You might have to work abit hard to keep her in line but its worth it on the backend.
I don't understand how you guys are still wanting to marry a woman.
Yup that part
I concur 🫡
Even as a husband who provides I still take care of the kids, cook sometimes and clean the house. We don’t just go to work
Most American men are egalitarian....
If she provide too it's fair, if she's a stay at home, one minute of silence for you brother
Making house a home = spending money to decorate… lol
Spending YOUR money to decorate...
Cory told her to stop twerking on tiktok
She divorced him because she wanted to twerk
Her kids told her to stop
the guys here are trying too hard to be nice. Myron doesn't sugarcoat 😂
Naw. Myron be too extra sometimes
Not all men need a podcast. You can see who was raised by a competent father when a guy calls out simps, then says simp stuff like that women don’t benefit more from marriage. Bruh, name one thing that men get in marriage that they could just pay for? Part of being a man is taking accountability: which means being honest.
You can't build or do nothing with these women on here.
Modern woman always fight with the facts, simps also fight the facts and stats.
She said unfaithful like that’s the only course of action that will cost the man. A woman can divorce a man bcuz it’s Tuesday and still take half. There’s no down side for them
All women's previous partners got all the wife perks but without having to actually marry her. There's no exclusivity. You'll just inherit all the previous baggage for premium. Nothing is saved for her future husband. Make marriages great again
If they have wigs, bbls, or a fake face they never serious 😂😂😂
Since 70% of women with children work part time/full time what are women actually doing??? These modern women are outsourcing her responsibilities cooking/cleaning/laundry wanting a nanny to help out with the kid/kids women don't want a life of leisure working is optional for her and her money is her money not the family
Most men raise by there father can cook clean and don't need a woman this is facts...
Taking care of family is not a sacrifice. It’s a contribution toward a vision.
7:50… that’s not sacrifice. That’s called being an ADULT.
Y'all brothers need to get y'all stats up
They divorce because they are unhappy
F your happiness and raise these kids
I dont know if anyone will read this. But the saddest thing i realized as a passport clerk is black women are single at a high rate. Never before married where other races get married young. Kind of embarrassing
Why are you embarrassed for us because I fall into this category
Its America but black people are the scapegoat to the macro problem
These women are insufferable....😢
The fact that this is even a debate is utterly ridiculous!! She said "quote unquote, work"... as if it means nothing at all for us to go out and yes, "WORK". And then have to give all of what we worked for to the family. This is crazy.
😂 As a Man I cook and clean wash dishes
sIsshh ain't that hard so women are full of crap saying they are sacrificing
It took me 4yrs to recover financially from my divorce.
Simple solution change the marriage laws to adjust to the modern times,make it more fair as men doesn't lose his kids,resources and 60% of his assets majority of the times...if the laws were modernised and more fair for both parties then marriage rates will naturally go up
The women acting like lil girl if they single u can see why
I just want to thank these men for showcasing proper control over their emotions.just in awe at the way they handled these ladies.i always love how the women were combative enough to allow the conversation to be addressed from all angles.
Thank you!!
Stop giving these women liquor on these podcasts if you want to hear anything rational or reasonable.
Women divorce because they didn't get flowers on their B Day
Didn't get compliments
Don't get dates
Don't get gifts
All Fairytales
It’s funny to listen to people talk about shit. With obvious none experience🤦🏾♂️
Both of them selfish
Yes you can't think of what if it falls because you know the state has your back and bag.
Some women who complain that they are sacrifice but they visualizing a guy that's NOT working long hours and doing loads of work and visualize a guy who comes home and ignores her and the kids. There's always an argument built from a negative aroma or bent instead of a good guy working hard for her.
They just sit around and watch tv and become a leach!
Who is they??
@@HH-gv8mx the women
Leach off of who? Because majority of y’all cannot afford to pay all the bills alone. Y’all love running with this narrative that y’all are paying bills and women are at home doing nothing. Women are working as well. Stop the cap. 🙄🤭
@@HH-gv8mx gotta be talking about the man lol because that's what I see in real life.
Who are they leeching off? Most of you can’t afford to pay all the bills while women sit at home.
Yo bro I respect how you broke down the facts to them
Do you see what I'm talking about how The Sisterhood is failing she said she ain't going to do nothing so don't matter these women especially the ones on this talk show that is the most worst answer I ever heard in The Sisterhood that's why we the last on the totem pole
Easy fix fellas put your resources in a Trust before marriage she cannot touch nothing you have in a trust
Even easier. Don’t get married at all!
Building a house is more valuable then having a house 😂 I'm done ✈️✈️✈️SYSBM
Marriage is supposed to be a PARTNERSHIP FOR LIFE
Marriage is a business which can take everything a man has worked years for
@@djsalteenuts marriage isn't supposed to be only business. That's common sense.
@@mr.t993 r u saying a man that gets married is desperate and clueless?
@@halleelizabetha man getting married is clueless in today's time
@@Joshua-eo5hr as long as he gets married to the right one it's not clueless because theres still loyal people out there.
This is not a conversation for unmarried people! You cannot speak on something you do not know. I’m not sure anyone on the panel is married.
This conversation has become about whose most important. Instead how the hell do we work together to keep each other together and happy. How do we keep each other alive and well. And how the hell do we keep these damn kids alive and fed!! Let’s focus on that stuff . Let’s focus on doing the job together. This and many other conversations are about gender wars!!!
I think the conversation needs to be had but this conversation became about a gender war and a type of shift blaming. In my opinion.
I agree that conversations between married people should focus on how to keep each other happy. However, this conversation is about understanding the risk vs reward of marriage for both parties. Right now men and women are at odds about even wanting to get married from a risk vs. reward standpoint. You have women in the comments of this video saying “marriage is like slavery” and that it really only benefits men. The point being made in the video is that marriage is a big risk for men and if women can understand that a man wanting to marry them in this climate with the odds stacked against them, then they should appreciate that at the highest honor and then both sides can put the work in. But right now people aren’t seeing it that way as you can see
💬 Maybe that's the push to find someone who cares & loves you while doing business after so many children & wives being random & searching for random help won't work I guess that's the attitude
Just bc you work inside the home doesn't mean you work more.
Where are y’all getting these stats??? Just throwing out numbers.
Google it
If marriage is about love then why divorce is about money ...
Sons of yesterday are the men of today. Sons of today are the men of tomorrow. Would you wanna be the man raised in a broken household, and how well would your mental health and moral compass fair then? Being raised in a stable two parent household would directly affects everyone’s mental health and stability. The degree of the mental health of todays men is contingent upon how well yesterday’s men held up their households. So yes men do benefit from marriages.
Men can get alimony and child support as well! Marriage shouldn’t be a benefit
I was a stay at home girlfriend during the pandemic. So, in other words, my boyfriend paid the rent and the bills. He came home to a sexy, cheerful, happy girlfriend. I cooked dinners for us every single night, and I made him lunch and of course the sex was off the charts.I made a huge mistake wasting 4 yrs , 4 good years. When I was young, hot and sexy, instead of focusing on my career or getting married.
Why didn’t you marry him?
@@ItsMoreThanMusclewhy didn’t he marry her. She can’t force a man to marry her, that’s in his hands.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle you know when you find your person? Your best friend, someone that you feel safe and comfortable with, that’s what he was. But one morning, 10 months ago, he went to work and never came home. There was no argument, there was no discussion. In fact he was intimate with me that morning before he left to go to work. And I even discussed what I was making him for dinner that night. I later found out he quit his job and moved to another state. Because he had his own room in my apartment, I hadn’t noticed that he had slowly moved his clothes out of the drawers and closet. Obviously I was shattered.
@@charbrim100because he had all the benefits and none of the risks
@@pablo_fre5hcobar ok so why he asking her why she didn’t marry him? Y’all are so stupid and annoying
Most devoice has to do with money or "irreconcilable differences" aka "she not feeling it anymore" these woman suck.
The risk is high on both accounts! I’ve just read other statistics don’t exactly go with what’s being stated in this video.
There's no risk for women in marriage
This dudes with these old RUclips Talking points. They just don’t want to settle down.
These females are masters at changing the subject.
The one in the green pants is particularly annoying.
Y'all tripping if a man is paying all the bills that IS SUBMISSION !!!!!!!
Let's talk about how it IS a benefit...
One mic at a time, why is this such a hard concept to grasp?
Single women giving advice 😂😂 can't make this up.
These 2 ladies are very silly and have no idea what risks a man take on when marrying today's modern woman it's not worth it at all
Yall delete comments? I can't find mine anymore. I'm sure you will delete this one as well.
So on this podcast there are three women and one man on the left.
Dam he’s arms are looking huge💪
I find the topic interesting but you need to rerecord this video with better women who are mature and serious. These two here are making too many jokes, giggling too much, not taking the discussion seriously, not willing to see issues from both sides, lacks reflection and accountability.
Why do ppl allow for stats to be used without checking them first? Alimony I'd only awarded 15% of the time, so how can you sit here and make these false claims? Why have these conversations if they are built on lies? Grow up!
Everything for Nothing. Sad world
Don't sign a marriage license!!!!!!
9:55 cdc even said that's a lie!!!!!
Yooo who is the goofy guy taking about men not being active in then kids lives wtf
The other dude not making any sense
Women does way more than a man in marriage. And this is coming from someone who is married. The man will always benefit more because more weight is put on a woman’s head. Yes we provide and protect, but most of the work beyond that it falls in a woman’s hand. If you chose the right partner. Money isn’t everything and I’m starting to learn that
You are clearly delusional. Women only complain more than men.
Thank you.
@@Sammi-rr7wpthey complain more because they’re doing more.
@@charbrim100 i disagree
@@Sammi-rr7wp what are men doing more than women?
Don't marry " modern women ".....or deal with the Drama
❤❤❤❤facts
The guy's are over the place
This conversation is trash. The women aren’t even countering the bs point. I can easy dubunk all his bs. He has the same lame talking points majority of the men in the social media comments have.
Which point is trash?
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle you’re saying women benefit the most because the husband provides the roof over their heads. How many average households consist of a sole male provider? This day and in this economy most women have to work as well. So that point is trash . (2) saying women benefit from leaving the man and being awarded alimony and half of his stuff. About 10% of divorce cases in america end with women receiving alimony. That is not the majority. Most of these men don’t have or own much of anything for a woman to leave and take. (3) you stated that more than 80% of men lose custody of their kids after divorce. This is another lie. The kids are with the mother most because that’s what the men prefer. 60% of men who file for custody/joint custody of their kids are rewarded. That’s more than 50% chance that if a man ACTUALLY went for custody, he could obtain it. Why do y’all constantly have these podcast and spew lies. Most of the load in a marriage is on the woman. (4) for you to say men can outsource and get these services are cap! Most men can’t afford to sole providers. How and the hell are they going to be able to outsource ( and pay for a maid, cook and baby sitter?) it would be nice if y’all actually have well thought out arguments. (5) saying 80% of women leave marriages in its self shows who really benefits from marriage. Men often choose to stay married because they’re likely to be getting what they’re missing from other women. They like being able to outsource for (sex, attention, excitement) then having the luxury to come back home to the wife and children. Please don’t act like women are the cause of breaking up households, because they don’t stay in unfulfilling marriages.
@@charbrim100 100% agree. Women divorce men more because they realize that the man is often dead weight--just another child she has to take care of. And on top of that a lot of them act incompetent on basic household duties. Lets face it, if you don't do your job, you get fired! That's why most men say the divorce "came out of nowhere". No, you just didn't listen the first 100x she tried to tell you what she needed. Marriage is often slavery for women and noadays women are working too, so what's the point in being a wife when all you'll be doing is working and having to appease the ego of a KING BABY.
@@charbrim100 Your argument focuses on the concept that women take care of the household and the children and that men benefit primarily from that. This conversation focuses on measuring benefit in terms of cost-benefit (risk vs. reward) so you have to understand the risk of marriage and weigh it with the reward. There are benefits to marriage but my main point is that a woman should understand if a man marries a woman that is a huge deal that shouldn’t be taken lightly because of the risk to the man. The risk being women initiate the majority of divorces and are awarded more in the fiver e than the man whether that’s custody of the children or assets. To your point, most men don’t even fight for full custody because the chances of being granted it are so low. In general, women do not pay child support to a man after a divorce. In general, men lose more assets in a divorce than women. In general, women initiate divorces more than men and leave the marriage in better standing than the man. Everybody must weigh the risk vs. reward and judge appropriately but your argument doesn’t even take into account any risk.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle the statistics show that men who actually go to court for joint custody , 50/50 custody have 60% chance of being granted. The real problem is most men don’t go for custody. And many of them that do get divorced mutually decided to allow the woman to have primary custody. Please read and look this information up. Your information is not accurate.
Statistically married men live longer and make more money. Marriage for women is like slavery most times. Women take on the responsibilities in the home and the men act like keeping a job is so hard while the women work 24/7 365. Even if he's paying all the bills...many times she turns 40 and the men go off to have an affair with the younger women. The women sacrificed her youth and career to be married and he goes off to start a new family. She's saddled with kids and in povery with no ability to get back into the worksforce. Also single childless woman are the happiest in our society.
I stopped reading at “Marriage is like slavery”.
Stop capping You wouldn't trade places for anything
In a great marriage with a humble submissive loving wife I can see a man living longer. However rgats not what the masses of men get, and because of that married men die earlier due to stress, resentment, from being trapped in a marriage with a quarrelsome wife that uses the law to back her up. Theirs no incentive for men, and we get no appreciation.
Yes women give so much of themselves in marriage and pregnancy.
That was a long winded promo for life as a cat mum