How To Take A Right Decision By Dr. Khalid Jamil Akhter |The Dilemma Of Success

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
  • In this video Dr. Khalid Jameel talked about the Dilemma situation, the situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives.
    In video Dr. Khalid Jamil Akhtar giving a different theory “Always see both side of your action”. If you are in “Dilemma” condition, you will take a decision on your subconscious.

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  • @MuhammadUmar-fw8lr
    @MuhammadUmar-fw8lr 3 года назад +14

    ڈاکٹر صاحب کی باتیں اپنی جگہ پر لیکن ایسی حالت میں استخارہ کرنا چاہیے

  • @alamzebkhan5727
    @alamzebkhan5727 26 дней назад

    یار کمال کا ڈاکٹر ہیں ❤

  • @enjoylife8023
    @enjoylife8023 3 года назад +4

    This doctor is very very best and experienced . he guided me to the right path. Thanks a lot .

  • @educator6512
    @educator6512 3 года назад +1

    Assalam o Alaikum
    Yes You must do Istikhara ... its same like Dr. khalid ... you pray 2 Nafal and read Istikhara dua and forget about then after 1 hour or 1 day the first thing comes in your mind or you thats the best for me is the right decision
    Moreover , if you not get answer in 1 day you daily pray 2 nafal of istikhara for 3 days or maximum 7 days Insha Allah Allah will guide you
    Allah knows best what is best for us

    • @educator6512
      @educator6512 3 года назад

      And for the right thing your path is easy... Allah khud ba khud rastay bana dae ga or aap osi taraf jao gae jo aap k liye acha hae Insha Allah Allah se mashwara kerne wala kabi. Mayioos nahi hua

  • @asmaiqbal4085
    @asmaiqbal4085 3 года назад +6

    Thank you sir. You are my motivation always, since last two years i am listning few of your videos. Every time respect for you is at peak. الله آپ سے راضی رہے

    • @brokenheart1188
      @brokenheart1188 3 года назад

      While suffering in depression n worse anxiety,have lost all family,then faced more tragedies,😭😭, lost home,all wealth,...all left alone...Now suffering in much worse mental state,can,t manage myself,gone much worse,Life is hell torture,Doctors say that without strong caring support,it will b a miracle to recover for an alone mentaly upset person,so will anyone support me ,adopt for few months to recover😭😭😭?

  • @returntothetruth1469
    @returntothetruth1469 3 года назад +2

    Dua Istakhara Karni Chahiyay
    Yay Best Method hai

  • @WasimKhan-nj3yp
    @WasimKhan-nj3yp 3 года назад +1

    sir aap hmare hiro hain Allah ap ko salamat rakhy Ameen

  • @abduljabbar2821
    @abduljabbar2821 3 года назад

    بہترین پوائنٹس

  • @nimrasohaib3200
    @nimrasohaib3200 4 года назад +53

    Now let me tell you the best way to get rid of confusion is 'istakhara' trust me Allah talla will get guide your heart.

    • @FaisalKhan-lu3lu
      @FaisalKhan-lu3lu 3 года назад +4

      I think 'istakhara" is the better way to get rid of confusion but also need of logic and science

    • @muhammadsaleh3241
      @muhammadsaleh3241 3 года назад +1

      Good... istikhara...God decision is best for us...

    • @rokayyafatima2255
      @rokayyafatima2255 3 года назад +4

      faida nuqsan daikh k faisla krain confusion hy tou istehara.

    • @rokayyafatima2255
      @rokayyafatima2255 3 года назад

      muhubbat krna lashour brain ki wja sy hota,abi kisi ko sehe trha prkha b na ho tou,la shour mn cheez chali jaye
      touu nikalna mushkil,tb sehe galt b nai daikh skta,buraia b nazar ni ati phir.isliye shour sy faisla kr k prkh k
      lashour msg send kia jaye warna galt faislay hongay.

    • @samankhan9868
      @samankhan9868 3 года назад

      Diss agree

  • @nazishbilal3160
    @nazishbilal3160 Год назад

    Topic explained very good......very good suggestions area given... Excellent video..May Allah Pak blessed you always

  • @sidrakafeel6582
    @sidrakafeel6582 3 года назад

    JAZAKALLAH Sir Zabardast

  • @alamnoor1671
    @alamnoor1671 3 года назад

    Gzab docter sab app ka khyal hai nice

  • @FreedomForKashmir
    @FreedomForKashmir 3 года назад +5

    I don't have medical background nor I am medical student, but with time my experience has told me that unconscious mind is very very powerful, it can do wonders.
    If we can truly uncover it, we can reveal great powers

    • @top10hut
      @top10hut 3 года назад

      Can u kindly share what u've learnt from ur experience??? Please share any of ur experience it'll help me a lot. You know what bro this CONFUSION thing has made my life living hell. I am not even able to take any decision and then stick to it because of this stupid confusion. Some methods Dr Khalid have shared about how to listen to ur subconscious.... but I also want to know how u listen to it? Bro anxiously am waiting for ur kind reply. Jazak Allah Khair.

    • @FreedomForKashmir
      @FreedomForKashmir 3 года назад +1

      @@top10hut while leaving your room for school or office, have you ever felt that that you are missing something( may be mobile or keys or card ) but you don't exactly know what you are missing. This is because your subconscious mind is so powerful that it know the things that are important for you and the things you should be doing, Your consious mind even don't know these things. But subconscious mind can't directly tell you or remind you things as consious mind can.
      The people who see true dreams is also power of subconscious mind(remember that subconscious mind never sleeps)
      Subconscious mind never lies to you.
      Subconscious mind always observes the environment and behaviors. Have you ever felt like you just dislike someone without any specific reason or you just like someone without any specific reason. This is all because subconscious mind keep observing the environment and analyzing the behavior of other people without you actually realizing, and that's how these judgments are made.
      Also You can't fool subconscious mind or satisfy it with any justification to escape the reality. Like if you have done something wrong with anyone, your subconscious mind will keep hitting you and teasing you about that. So no matter how much justification you give to yourself about that wrong thing, your subconscious mind will not accept it if it was really something wrong.
      The reason why people can't take decisions is that they overthink. Whenever you have to take decision just take it right away, don't over think.
      When overthinking, analyze yourself as a third person watching your thoughts and then you will realize that how many useless things you were thinking about.
      Also don't give too much importance to the decision you are taking, because if you will give too much importance, your brain will force you to think more about it and then you won't be able to take that decision. Also do not think much about results.
      And at the end, it's not just your problem all of people face this problem, it's a normal thing.

    • @FreedomForKashmir
      @FreedomForKashmir 3 года назад +3

      @@top10hut also remember don't delay decisions, don't keep thinking about them. Just take them right away.

    • @top10hut
      @top10hut 3 года назад

      @@FreedomForKashmir thanks alot for ur valuable input. I'll try my level best to follow ur advise. Bro if u don't mind is there any way to contact u if i need any sort of help like email, facebook etc but not whatsapp as I don't have it :( TIA

    • @bakhtawarfatima4480
      @bakhtawarfatima4480 2 года назад

      @@FreedomForKashmir great your words are deeply touch my heart because i am thinking so while i am taking decisions about my study specially to join Teacher and test sessions

  • @hadeed456
    @hadeed456 3 года назад +1

    زبردست ۔۔۔۔

  • @rizwiyakausarkhan9250
    @rizwiyakausarkhan9250 3 года назад +5

    Thank you sir for sharing this helpfull information with us☺.

  • @iramhasnain3587
    @iramhasnain3587 Год назад

    This is so true. I have personally applied this in my life in the past. Whenever I had been indecisive about any important matter of my life. I didn't decide at the spot but gave it one day. The next day when I woke up, my mind was clear about what to do about it. Very practical advise Dr. Sahab.

  • @ranaaqibdilbarnaru5181
    @ranaaqibdilbarnaru5181 3 года назад +1

    Mashallah very good doctor sahib the great

  • @onlyhope9780
    @onlyhope9780 3 года назад +1

    Wah boht khoob ! Boht achha tareeqa bataya aap ne dilemma se nikalne ka! Now I will follow that.
    Kisi ne ye pahle kia hae tou please apne result se agah kare.

  • @snowwhite2819
    @snowwhite2819 3 года назад +1

    Sir ap ne is topic ko boht achay se discuss kia hy . Simple n clear way main ap hr bat smjhtay hain. You r guiding us n solving our issues by your effective lectures jazaak Allah Allah Almighty bless you sir 👍

  • @Rahulroy-y5w
    @Rahulroy-y5w 3 года назад +2

    Doctor sahib you are the best , well explained

  • @asgharabbas8903
    @asgharabbas8903 2 года назад

    Very informative video
    Thanks for this video sir .

  • @noumanahmad855
    @noumanahmad855 3 года назад

    Kmal ka tariqa batya Doc sahb

  • @marinakanwal8601
    @marinakanwal8601 3 года назад

    Most precious info...thnx dr sahb

  • @muhammadshoaib693
    @muhammadshoaib693 3 года назад +2

    Very interesting information

  • @alishbahashmi1335
    @alishbahashmi1335 3 года назад

    Dr sahib aap society k leye blessing han .

  • @JASpk
    @JASpk 3 года назад

    بہت خوب۔۔

  • @msalmanshalmani193
    @msalmanshalmani193 3 года назад

    Sahi baat,,, thank you sir

  • @shakeelbaba5562
    @shakeelbaba5562 3 года назад +2

    Aapka baat karne ka Andaaz bahut hi Achcha hai

  • @ahmadqureshi1071
    @ahmadqureshi1071 4 года назад +4

    I badly need that sir right now... Thank you very much sir

  • @zainullahkhattak
    @zainullahkhattak 3 года назад

    Doctor sahib allah pak aapko jazaye khair atta Farmaye itni asan aur khubsoorat tashreeh main nay kabhi kisi say nahin suni thi aajtak insha allah aagay jake mujhe bahut fayeda hoga 👍

  • @mziaulhaq3542
    @mziaulhaq3542 3 года назад +1

    Great ideas by doctor Khalid jameel

  • @stitchwhich8317
    @stitchwhich8317 3 года назад

    Dr . Sahab
    MashaAllah MashaAllah
    Kis aadarr asaann treekay p ap ny la shaour ko perhna btaya ... em happy to c u Sir ... after a long time ... bachpan sy ap ko dek rhy hn ap sy sik rhy hn barriii meherbannii ... boht hi aqeedat bhara Salaam dua Sir ap k liye ... boht hi aaaalllaaaa ... 👌👌👌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👏👏👏👌👌👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👏👏👏👏👏💖👏👏👌👌👍👍👌👏👏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @safamarwa587
    @safamarwa587 2 года назад

    Allah pak bless you all.

  • @nimranimra2744
    @nimranimra2744 3 года назад

    Yes you are right I
    Suffered many times

  • @tsheikh60
    @tsheikh60 3 года назад +2

    Mashaaallah , assalamualaikum from India , really testing gut feelings.

  • @sharjahoptical3953
    @sharjahoptical3953 4 года назад +1

    Sir mashallah bht achhay say gauid Kia hy ap nay.jazakallah

  • @sumeraferoz4851
    @sumeraferoz4851 6 месяцев назад

    wow What an idea sir g 👌

  • @NighatHasanbukhari
    @NighatHasanbukhari 5 месяцев назад

    I really like yur approach

  • @asifqadri6710
    @asifqadri6710 2 года назад

    Amazing suggestions 🌹🌹💖💖🌹

  • @RanaAhmed-be2vt
    @RanaAhmed-be2vt 3 года назад

    Your explanation is outstanding Sir... I really love ur teaching method... 💚💚💚💚

  • @farhanaqureshi3563
    @farhanaqureshi3563 3 года назад +1

    Mashallah very information programme and lady looks so pretty with scarf

  • @riazahmad7089
    @riazahmad7089 2 года назад

    Very nice.thanks

  • @farahkhalidfarahkhalid7580
    @farahkhalidfarahkhalid7580 3 года назад +1

    Nice msg

  • @mohdfaiz672
    @mohdfaiz672 7 месяцев назад

    Really helpful

  • @misssheikh3925
    @misssheikh3925 3 года назад

    Well done

  • @khadijasaeed3093
    @khadijasaeed3093 4 года назад +2

    JAZAAK ALLAH

  • @drghouri9127
    @drghouri9127 3 года назад

    Gut feelings bai bohat khooooob chacha

  • @AnilaKhalil-h1i
    @AnilaKhalil-h1i 8 месяцев назад

    Very impressive

  • @adilr.s7932
    @adilr.s7932 3 года назад

    It means people are nice who always listen to his or her 💓 in the hard or tugh situation.
    Brain wale akser haar jaate hain.lakin zindadil win
    Thank sir

  • @faizanishaqnomi5684
    @faizanishaqnomi5684 3 года назад

    Bht hoob g bht hoob aj tak ye main kerta rha hun our faida he hua ha mujy ...per aj k bad se ma smjta hun k mery pas aik though ha jo mery zingdee ka sarmaya ho gee

  • @nadiaraza319
    @nadiaraza319 3 года назад

    Very intelligent and wise man

  • @f.rjustforeducationfree507
    @f.rjustforeducationfree507 2 года назад

    Thx sir so much

  • @parmeet5865
    @parmeet5865 3 года назад

    Interesting...

  • @tabbassumnaz9289
    @tabbassumnaz9289 3 года назад

    Great sir

  • @ailiaali8679
    @ailiaali8679 3 года назад

    Superb sir. Thank u............. Sir

  • @raheelausman2753
    @raheelausman2753 4 месяца назад

    میں فیصلہ سازی کرنے میں ہمیشہ دیر کرتی ہوں۔ لیکن یہ طریقہ قابل غور ہے اس لمحے جب آپ کوئی بھی فیصلہ نہ کر پا رہے ہوں۔

  • @AhilParis
    @AhilParis 3 года назад

    Great information..we learnt alot please keep on

  • @saibmedia5229
    @saibmedia5229 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for guidance on the way to get a chance to see good Blog💯

  • @letscook-f8s
    @letscook-f8s 3 года назад +1

    Sir mae ap ko shuru s dekh rae hun jab ap tv p b atay thay us time s hi ap k lectuers guide ,arty rahy haen

  • @tariqusman2250
    @tariqusman2250 3 года назад +1

    Classic wise man.

  • @aytrader9929
    @aytrader9929 3 года назад

    super super jazak allah

  • @adilbintalat
    @adilbintalat 3 года назад

    jazak Allah

  • @shahnaztariq3261
    @shahnaztariq3261 2 года назад

    Nice video

  • @anwarbaji8782
    @anwarbaji8782 3 года назад

    Best advise

  • @Scorp_malik
    @Scorp_malik 4 года назад

    The power of your subconscious mind by dr joseph murphy..

  • @letscook-f8s
    @letscook-f8s 3 года назад

    Motivated lectures

  • @maxell007able
    @maxell007able 3 года назад +9

    تمام بھائیوں سے دُعا کی درخواست ہے میرے لیے دعا کریں الله پاک میری مشکلات آسان فرما دے آمین

  • @nidanidakhan181
    @nidanidakhan181 4 года назад

    Thanks Dr

  • @AbdulSalam-lj2kv
    @AbdulSalam-lj2kv 3 года назад

    Excellent...

    • @abidakhushtar3446
      @abidakhushtar3446 3 года назад

      Àql àyyar haì saw bhes bana leti hai, ishaq beçhara na mulla hai na zahid na Hakeem, Dr Iqbal.

  • @abuzar7940
    @abuzar7940 4 года назад +10

    Sir i am a medical student. Sir kindly explain how to think positive about people even when they are not sincere?

    • @bilalkhan5370
      @bilalkhan5370 4 года назад +8

      I am only posting hoping it'll help you out big time, but you can choose to diagree.
      Well, in my opinion you should accept the world for what it really is which means is that alot of the people might betray you and would be really insincere with you alot of the times and if you accept it as a fact then you wouldn't be caught off guard and thus you wouldn't be disappointed at all....apart from that remember one of the focal reason for which Allah gave us our parents, siblings and spouces is that these are the only relations that would reciprocate the sincerity that you put into the relationship. Trust me, apart from that if you ever put hopes in anybody else except for the above mentioned relationship you are just doing a big injustice to yourself because you are putting yourself in a difficult position yourself.Well thats basically how the world works and bear in mind I am not promoting any anti-social behavior in fact I would say being kind and just to others and thinking good of them is the most vital and basic message of our religion but at the same time protect yourself against unwanted disappointments by emotionally investing into people except for your family.
      Well, that's a solution that I discovered and have been using from a while now, hope it helps .☮️

  • @zahraali4181
    @zahraali4181 3 года назад

    A.s sir main bachpan say appko TV per dakh rahi Hun...bohat Acha laga apko RUclips per dakh k.main be depression patient Hun .5 Saal tak elaj krwaia but koi be Acha farak ni para.phir main nay Medicine Chor Di thi.ab depression Ka Tu pata ni 5 Saal say masla aik he ha .muje neneed ni ati .
    Ab be ni ati jub main Medi kahti thi Tub be neneed only tablets say ATI thi only or ab be .age Mari 33 ha ...pcos be ha overweight be Hun.mari aik beti ha 2.5 Saal ki .
    Kindly muje guide karain ..main Kiya Karon

  • @muhammadjameel8010
    @muhammadjameel8010 3 года назад

    jazak Allah ...

  • @Silsila5878
    @Silsila5878 3 года назад

    Always look at pros and cons of every matter to reach a decision
    Dilemma occures when points on both sides are equally strong.
    Then make decision using your subconscious mind. For this take your time. Set before it all the pros and cons and then force your mind to take prompt decision. Another way is to write on a paper the possible benefits and demerits of both the possible situations and then Just let the unconscious guide you to the right way

  • @hirayasmeen8502
    @hirayasmeen8502 4 года назад +2

    Keep it up 👌

  • @malikqumberofficial389
    @malikqumberofficial389 2 месяца назад

    Yeh Pakistan ki Khush qismati hai k aik Azeem Docter aur thinker Pakistan ko Mila hmari budqismati yeh hai k Docter sb ko Pakistan ko mkam milna chaye tha nai Mila Docter Khalid Jameel k samne Nobel prize ki bhi koi haisiat

  • @nanimalik7836
    @nanimalik7836 4 года назад

    Sir aa big fan of u ur book teesra janam i read it and love it u r hero

  • @abdullahsaifch6151
    @abdullahsaifch6151 3 года назад

    Good sir

  • @abdurrasheed2279
    @abdurrasheed2279 3 года назад

    Nice..

  • @passenger0078
    @passenger0078 4 года назад

    Nice video sir

  • @imtiazakhter9887
    @imtiazakhter9887 Год назад +1

    Take a decision you think is right and leave the result to Allah.

  • @enjoylife8023
    @enjoylife8023 3 года назад

    Love you from quetta.

  • @MRafat
    @MRafat 3 года назад

    And one more suggestion please try to use easy urdu terms and try not to use english terms, so that less educated and countryside people may understand, you are doing a wonderful job.

  • @Pakaanduniya821
    @Pakaanduniya821 4 месяца назад

    Kehna aasaan hai, karna mushkil

  • @nidanidakhan181
    @nidanidakhan181 4 года назад +1

    Ap ke speech ne mujhe confused kr deya .me ak maa hn kiya maa ke kahne PR agar koe faisla kare to WO galat ho ga ?Ku ke mere bete metric me hy bohat honehar hy leken zamane ke sakhteo ko nahe jante mera khuwab hy ke WO Dr bane or kafe had tak WO bhe chahte hy liken ise ostarnot banna zada pasand hy kiya me apne bete ko khud faisla karne du ya waqt ka intezar karo khud he faisla ho jay ga

  • @abcfame9807
    @abcfame9807 3 года назад +1

    MAin bhe ye he sochti rahti hon karon k na.

  • @drsadiahabiba4177
    @drsadiahabiba4177 Год назад

  • @bhakkarkullurkot3488
    @bhakkarkullurkot3488 4 года назад

    keep it up

  • @fatimakhan8869
    @fatimakhan8869 2 года назад

    Doctor sab ka clinic kha hai?

  • @wasifmalik3760
    @wasifmalik3760 2 года назад

    👍

  • @MRafat
    @MRafat 3 года назад

    Very nice doctor Sahab, but what ever remedies you suggest are for educated and city dewllers
    What about illiterate and very poor people, they don't have liberty to go for shopping or movie, please keep your suggestions broader for all classes of people.

  • @abcfame9807
    @abcfame9807 3 года назад

    Nice men

  • @taufiqinamdar2863
    @taufiqinamdar2863 3 года назад

    At a time aisa bhi hota ke hame ye bhi karna man karta hai dusri or bhi koi karne ko man hota hai

  • @wqassimzb
    @wqassimzb 3 года назад +3

    Sir, songs amd music should not be promoted.... ye songs and music Allah ke zikr se doooor kerty hain...
    Meri azmayi huwi baat hai...

  • @WaqarAli-df5bu
    @WaqarAli-df5bu 4 года назад

    Nice

  • @bakhtawarfatima4480
    @bakhtawarfatima4480 2 года назад

    Aoa can we online talk with sir

  • @nadiaraza319
    @nadiaraza319 3 года назад +1

    Funny, chalo choroo yarr phir baat krain gy us ke energy waste krwa ky, enjoyed this😂

  • @sufimuhammadhussain3813
    @sufimuhammadhussain3813 3 года назад

    Love u Nice great

  • @letscook-f8s
    @letscook-f8s 3 года назад

    Plz mae apni bacho ko kamyab officer r doctor banan chati hun magr kaisy n ko mehnzt karna sikhaun r ye k aj kl education mush,il ho gae hae bachy studies s bhagty haen kuch aisa bataein k interst laen

  • @SaqibKhan-zd9qv
    @SaqibKhan-zd9qv Год назад

    as ka Hal batain kia karon

  • @shaukatali4970
    @shaukatali4970 3 года назад

    و علیکم السلام