I've never understood why someone has to propose in front of a lot of people unless it's friends and family. Proposing in front of strangers something personal would feel weird.
For the miscarriage story, SIL knew she was drinking alcohol. She absolutely could have tasted the alcohol. Even then, a couple of drinks don't cause a miscarriage. She's deflecting and blaming OP. Go low contact.
13:07 im this far into the video and story 2, i wanna know if the hotel was decorated or not or like were yall still dressed. If it was decorated and everything beforehand then i don’t see why it’s an issue for proposing in the hotel room especially in a very nice place. Now if he did it in his boxers and she was in her pajamas then id be a bit underwhelmed too. He clearly put in a lot of effort already and im not fully through the story but i wanna know if it was set up so that it wasn’t like they got back and unwinded before he proposed. The one thing I say is that proposing in private if the person says they want us private or they don’t like grand big gestures, private is always the way to go. If they talked about marriage before and he paid attention which seemingly he did, then well….damn this sucks 17:43 oh ok well I mean at least things got talked out, I didn’t agree with him dumping her immediately but definitely wanted to see if he knew the things that she may have wanted for the proposal before doing it
Once she said no, there was nothing else to talk about! No one has time for all the games, especially after he took her on a trip half away around the world. Females are so silly sometimes!
Story 1: He knew the relationship was over so he should have ended it. Cheating back was wrong. It made him stay in a toxic relationship, wasted more time, shows his own morals can be broken for her, and he likely pulled innocent bystanders into that. He allowed his ex to make him into a toxic and vindictive person. She was wrong but he allowed her to make him wrong too. Story 2: A conversation needed to be had to understand why she wanted a different proposal. The fact that they weren’t on the same page about the proposal maybe can show they don’t know each other enough or are not willing to compromise for each other and should not get married. In some cases this can be fixed in others it can’t. He seemed to get really in his own head and had a lot of pride about what he wanted and if what he wanted wasn’t exactly what she wanted she had to do it all. The all or nothing with no compromise type approach is more what makes OP feel off. I think more talking, evaluating, and compromising needed to happen and I get the feeling they were not good for each other. Story 4: OP needs to talk to a counselor about how the parents are trying to mooch off their income. Making lunches or dinners can be a teen’s chore but paying for it cannot be. The parents need to supply food for their kids.
I've never understood why someone has to propose in front of a lot of people unless it's friends and family. Proposing in front of strangers something personal would feel weird.
NEVER continiue relationship after a cheating, once a cheater always a cheater, once destroyed trust can't be regained...
You are what you practice. Cheaters are liars and manipulators. There is no trust when somebody is deceiving you.
4th story ~ Call law enforcement & CPS. Her parents hate her & treat her like a slave.
$10,000 ring what a waste of money.
Its a waste for you. If you cant afford a $10,000 custom made ring just say that.
@@joeysonofjohn you're the kind of loser who would pay £500 for a Yeezy white t-shirt and act like it's better than a $10 amazon basics one
@@joeysonofjohnstill a waste of money, that 10k could’ve been used on a house or something more valuable then a ring you will probably lose
@@fl-ri- that is a waste of money whether you like it or not! Goofy.
I was scrolling and discovered this 1 minute after release
3rd story ~ This is a prime example how wamen WON'T take responsibility or accountability for their decisions.
Dude, if you like men just say that. Getting tired of hearing grown men complain about “wamen” all the time. Go touch grass outside.
For the miscarriage story, SIL knew she was drinking alcohol. She absolutely could have tasted the alcohol. Even then, a couple of drinks don't cause a miscarriage. She's deflecting and blaming OP. Go low contact.
Editing has been SIGNIFICANTLY better today. Thank you.
In the first 6 seconds, NTA, she cheated, dump her, and block her on everything. No more of the story is needed.
But he's in love with her. Bahahaaaa 😂😂😂
get your licc bacc 😂
13:07 im this far into the video and story 2, i wanna know if the hotel was decorated or not or like were yall still dressed. If it was decorated and everything beforehand then i don’t see why it’s an issue for proposing in the hotel room especially in a very nice place. Now if he did it in his boxers and she was in her pajamas then id be a bit underwhelmed too. He clearly put in a lot of effort already and im not fully through the story but i wanna know if it was set up so that it wasn’t like they got back and unwinded before he proposed. The one thing I say is that proposing in private if the person says they want us private or they don’t like grand big gestures, private is always the way to go. If they talked about marriage before and he paid attention which seemingly he did, then well….damn this sucks
17:43 oh ok well I mean at least things got talked out, I didn’t agree with him dumping her immediately but definitely wanted to see if he knew the things that she may have wanted for the proposal before doing it
Once she said no, there was nothing else to talk about! No one has time for all the games, especially after he took her on a trip half away around the world. Females are so silly sometimes!
2nd story ~ Proposing on the 3rd anniversary!? SMACK!!! That for not spending atleast 8 years to get to know your woman!!!
So you spend thousands of $$ and she says no, she proposed while on a hike!!!! That's shady
Story 1: He knew the relationship was over so he should have ended it. Cheating back was wrong. It made him stay in a toxic relationship, wasted more time, shows his own morals can be broken for her, and he likely pulled innocent bystanders into that. He allowed his ex to make him into a toxic and vindictive person. She was wrong but he allowed her to make him wrong too.
Story 2: A conversation needed to be had to understand why she wanted a different proposal. The fact that they weren’t on the same page about the proposal maybe can show they don’t know each other enough or are not willing to compromise for each other and should not get married. In some cases this can be fixed in others it can’t. He seemed to get really in his own head and had a lot of pride about what he wanted and if what he wanted wasn’t exactly what she wanted she had to do it all. The all or nothing with no compromise type approach is more what makes OP feel off. I think more talking, evaluating, and compromising needed to happen and I get the feeling they were not good for each other.
Story 4: OP needs to talk to a counselor about how the parents are trying to mooch off their income. Making lunches or dinners can be a teen’s chore but paying for it cannot be. The parents need to supply food for their kids.
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No one care😂
@@gwmahim9460 cope kiddo.
@@gwmahim9460 who hurt you! WHO HURT YOU tell me WHO HURT YOU
@@msaint187 Bro chill😅