‘It’s better to not be liked than to keep compromising your own needs and wants.’ ‘To doubt yourself is to disrespect yourself.’ Wooo those are.. they hit me hard. Thank you 🙏🏻
Omg I’ve dimmed my light for so many years because for some reason, my existence bothered so many people. I tried to make people believe I was “just like them” so I would act less educated or not dress my best to get people to like me. It made me really depressed because I wasn’t being true to myself. When I look back at it, I cringe 😬 you can’t control how people see you or feel about you. 😅 I’m a reformed people pleaser now
THISSS !!! ..heavy on not wanting to take too much space/being a threat… bc sometimes I can really feel people projecting things onto me so then I just automatically back away 😭
Thank you for this. Just today I told myself I was done doubting myself and not choosing myself. I felt ashamed of all the times I abandoned myself in the past but I’ve chosen to let that shame go so I can move on with my life. To anyone that’s struggling- keep pushing. As she said, it does get better ❤❤❤
Culture clashes from the east and west for modern western Asian young people causes that humility and modesty to dim our light. Through that healing and prioritising of our personal integrity authenticity and structure of morals ethics and values we become out super power which is best for everyone
I feel you when you were saying why should I "humble" myself just to make others feel better about themselves. I know that not exactly what you said but that the message. Also with the "that the most selfish thing" that was true because not being you is going to make you uncomfortable and you know that not nice company to be around. so yes work on yourself but also see your triggers let life flow and stop having expectations just breath. Your doing good girl and i like how you gave personal experiences.
Just what I needed to hear exactly in this moment! ✨✨✨ Thank You for your words of wisdom! RUclips always recommends just what I need to hear, thank you God! 🙏🏻♥️
Wow , so glad I found this channel . I do pretty much the same thing . This is eye opening for me . I struggle with accepting my challenges . Legally blind and Single sided deafness kind of makes it difficult to be around a large group so I have stayed to myself so that I won’t have to ask people to repeat themselves . I am now learning to stop worrying about taking up space and giving grace to me.
I have been binge watching all of your videos they really help me with my healing process, going through a breakup right now and it sucks but I’m learning to really enjoy this moment of healing myself for myself and moving forward 🧘🏽♀️
I love your Voice & Energy ❤ God Bless & Thanks... Music is 1 of my favorite things & all though your only speaking. Your Voice is a Instrument. Our Voices are Instruments.
Such an empowering message! Prioritizing self-worth and authenticity leads to deeper fulfillment and stronger connections with those who appreciate you for who you truly are. 🌟
I appreciate you sharing this. It's rare to see a beautiful girl be honest about these kinds of things. Being a beautiful girl myself it's not easy to find other beautiful girls sharing honestly about things like this please continue❤ this is an awesome video
This is a good video and it needs more likes. This is so true and it is great at your age that you have cultivated this belief system. Keep putting out content.
Appreciate this SOO much! I really needed the exact basis of how to know my worth and I had it but I like to have a structured idea of these things so that I KNOW. Thank you gorgeous!
I've humbled my self in erly days about 15 years ago I use to think I was greatest tell one day a kid told me he never knew I liked him and relised people don't like me they respect me or are scared of me
I can relate to this so much. Especially the part when you talked about "trying not to take up space" to make others feel comfortable... years later i realized that even when i was not my best self and trying to make others feel better about themselves i still had people in my environment being envious about my looks and my life.... After reading plenty of self-help books and journaling about my feelings and thoughts i realized that it does not really matter if you try to make yourself smaller or just be authentic because people are gonna be envious about you anyway and they will feel uncomfortable in your environment anyway even if you are the kindest person in the planet with them. So it's better to be yourself and thrive to be your best self because we have only 1 life. Why should we live with the regret of not living a life true to ourselves because of the expectations or opinions of others about us?
“To doubt yourself is to disrespect yourself “
The prettiest 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
“to doubt yourself, is to disrespect yourself “ 👏🏾
‘It’s better to not be liked than to keep compromising your own needs and wants.’ ‘To doubt yourself is to disrespect yourself.’ Wooo those are.. they hit me hard. Thank you 🙏🏻
You radiate a 90s vibe! Nostalgic! ✨
People have two lives. The second life begins when they realize they only have one.😂
you’re genuinely one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen you carry yourself so elegantly
Omg I’ve dimmed my light for so many years because for some reason, my existence bothered so many people. I tried to make people believe I was “just like them” so I would act less educated or not dress my best to get people to like me. It made me really depressed because I wasn’t being true to myself. When I look back at it, I cringe 😬 you can’t control how people see you or feel about you. 😅 I’m a reformed people pleaser now
Frrrrrrrrrr
“You are competing for something there is no finish line for” WOW
“It’s better to not be liked then compromising your own needs and wants.” SO TRUE ❤
your ethereal
THISSS !!! ..heavy on not wanting to take too much space/being a threat… bc sometimes I can really feel people projecting things onto me so then I just automatically back away 😭
i don't know how i would act if i was this pretty
Thanks for sharing. Not trusting yourself is so energy draining, you end up pleasing everyone except yourself
You’re so so gorgeous wow
4:44 was what I needed to hear. Thank you love
GOSH YOU ARE SO PRETTY
it’s better not to be liked than to keep compromising your own needs and wants
Glad I clicked on this. Appreciated it more as the video progressed.
Girl your energy is so comforting and you’re so gorgeous as well!
I am literally mesmerized by her 🦋
I’m on a mission of bettering me and not giving af thanks boo!
You’re so pretty!😍 your facial features are attractive 😩💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Thank you for this. Just today I told myself I was done doubting myself and not choosing myself. I felt ashamed of all the times I abandoned myself in the past but I’ve chosen to let that shame go so I can move on with my life.
To anyone that’s struggling- keep pushing. As she said, it does get better ❤❤❤
Damn I needed this. I’ve repressed my needs and wants for others long enough. I’m ready to value myself fully now 🦋
Culture clashes from the east and west for modern western Asian young people causes that humility and modesty to dim our light. Through that healing and prioritising of our personal integrity authenticity and structure of morals ethics and values we become out super power which is best for everyone
you're so prettyyy😭🤍🌷
thank youh so much for this video💗
I feel you when you were saying why should I "humble" myself just to make others feel better about themselves. I know that not exactly what you said but that the message. Also with the "that the most selfish thing" that was true because not being you is going to make you uncomfortable and you know that not nice company to be around. so yes work on yourself but also see your triggers let life flow and stop having expectations just breath. Your doing good girl and i like how you gave personal experiences.
So well spoken
Wow you are so PRETTY 😍
I love this video! You just helped me understand a part of me I unconsciously lived in.
Just what I needed to hear exactly in this moment! ✨✨✨ Thank You for your words of wisdom! RUclips always recommends just what I need to hear, thank you God! 🙏🏻♥️
You will hit a million soon mark my words
I discovered your channel 20 minutes ago and I'm already so impressed with everything. Your calmness your beauty your vibes your aura 🫶🏻🫶🏻 keep going
Just casually slayed this video. Totally feeling seen and heard right now💕
So happy the algo recommended you! Love your aura and the message. Very refreshing ♥️
I love this video. Truer words have never been spoken and there was no bullshitting - like other self-development videos. Thanks for the lovely video.
Wow , so glad I found this channel . I do pretty much the same thing . This is eye opening for me . I struggle with accepting my challenges . Legally blind and Single sided deafness kind of makes it difficult to be around a large group so I have stayed to myself so that I won’t have to ask people to repeat themselves . I am now learning to stop worrying about taking up space and giving grace to me.
I fell in love at first sight.
thank you for blessing us with this video, sending blessings your way too.. you're voice needs to be heard
i love this advice not to mention, you don't just have a beautiful face but a beautiful soul
Stunning 😍💕‼️‼️
Literally 🥹😍
I have been binge watching all of your videos they really help me with my healing process, going through a breakup right now and it sucks but I’m learning to really enjoy this moment of healing myself for myself and moving forward 🧘🏽♀️
I resonate so much with this, I definitely needed to hear it. Thank you 🙏🏾
I love your Voice & Energy ❤ God Bless & Thanks... Music is 1 of my favorite things & all though your only speaking. Your Voice is a Instrument. Our Voices are Instruments.
Healing energy, thank you beauty.
Your gorgeous-great points here. Can you share where the earrings are from please?
I struggle with this so much! Thanks
This video truly resonated with me, thank you very much for sharing your wisdom with us!
I just found you at the right time. Thank you for existing.
Such an empowering message! Prioritizing self-worth and authenticity leads to deeper fulfillment and stronger connections with those who appreciate you for who you truly are. 🌟
Thank you for this ❤
I love this! You are well spoken ✨
girl you are stunning! love your content
Thank you for this ❤ and you delivered it beautifully 🤩
This resonated with me so much. I needed to hear this, thank you.
Goshhhh I need a makeup tutorial for that amazing look ❤
Coming soon!
I second this
blessing to you, thank you for this video today!
Wow. This was so relatable and you called out everything I couldn’t verbalize! Thank you. I’m subbed ❤.
The divine timing of this video was incredible. It was an immediate sub. Keep going! This random girl is rooting for you!!!
I just got super luckyy and found your channel 💗💗 love it here
you're like so beautiful it's unreal
I appreciate you sharing this. It's rare to see a beautiful girl be honest about these kinds of things. Being a beautiful girl myself it's not easy to find other beautiful girls sharing honestly about things like this please continue❤ this is an awesome video
Thank you for sharing these encouraging reminders for us women who continue to glow up, level up 😊
Had me tearing up at the end! Thank you for such a beautiful and thoughtful video
My algorithm on here is immaculate ❤❤❤
Ohh my it was needed indeed🙇🏽♀️!
Such a amazing content message thank you ❤❤❤😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
Thank you for your thoughts.
I don’t usually make comments like this BUT you are absolutely gorgeous! Don’t let anyone put you down, they’re just insecure around your beauty.
Very wise.
This is a good video and it needs more likes. This is so true and it is great at your age that you have cultivated this belief system. Keep putting out content.
Simple, Claire et Précis !
You’re so pretty
Thank you for this video ❤
You are ethereal
Love your videos also you’re pretty wth 😭💗
Appreciate this SOO much! I really needed the exact basis of how to know my worth and I had it but I like to have a structured idea of these things so that I KNOW. Thank you gorgeous!
i love ur channel so much !!
Omg shes so perfect
You're my role model, you're absolutely gorgeous ❤
Wow this hit really hard ❤ thank you so much for your words ❤❤
This is exactly what ive been looking for omg thank you so so much baby xx💞
Thank you for this!!
Wow great video. Needed this. 💛
Allahumma barik you are gorgeous!!!!
It seemed like touching my soul ❤
This was really good. Kinda what I needed to hear
Thanks for your words and girls you look so good! Now I want that make uo tutorial please!
Thank you. Yess ma'ma !!
Your so pretty ! 😍
your makeup I loved it
needed this ❤
Stunning 😍
Such great content❤
I've humbled my self in erly days about 15 years ago I use to think I was greatest tell one day a kid told me he never knew I liked him and relised people don't like me they respect me or are scared of me
I can relate to this so much. Especially the part when you talked about "trying not to take up space" to make others feel comfortable... years later i realized that even when i was not my best self and trying to make others feel better about themselves i still had people in my environment being envious about my looks and my life.... After reading plenty of self-help books and journaling about my feelings and thoughts i realized that it does not really matter if you try to make yourself smaller or just be authentic because people are gonna be envious about you anyway and they will feel uncomfortable in your environment anyway even if you are the kindest person in the planet with them. So it's better to be yourself and thrive to be your best self because we have only 1 life. Why should we live with the regret of not living a life true to ourselves because of the expectations or opinions of others about us?
beautiful video!
You’re beautiful 😍
I really love your videos ❤✨