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I don’t know why x- Muslims they are they are saying that am from Shia and they are calling them selves Muslims who ever doesn’t believe in Allah and his prophet Muhammad’s path is not a Muslim that is the challenge they are facing
I left islam 17 years ago. Best decision ever. Thank You my LORD and my GOD JESUS CHRIST the ALMIGHTY who SAVED me from the darkness of islam to Your Light and GLORY. 👑✝️❤🕊🙏💪
Compare the Quran to the Bible. I guarantee your perspective will change. Bible was true once upon a time before being changed after Jesus, in nicea not even by his deciples. Quran is actually what jesus taught. It brings people back to the original godly and prophet scriptures. Read it first youll see what i mean, don't just comment on it.
I felt like Christian also teaches you that you are a sinner and the ONLY person who can save you is Jesus. I found east culture more free as it is was based on your OWN Karma(Life is your making).
@@usmaanmalik1047 Mistakes of quran 1/4 How long is one day according to Allah? a. 1 day is equivalent to 1000 years (22:47) b. 1 day is equivalent to 50,000 years (70:4) 2. How long did Allah take to create the earth? a. 6 days (7:45, 10:3, 11:7, 25:59) b. 8 days (41:9-12) 3. Is heaven older or the earth older? Which was created first? a. Earth was created first (2:29, 41:9) b. Heaven was created first (79:27-30) 4. From what substance were humans made from? a. A blood clot (96:1-2) b. Water (21:30) c. Burned clay (15:26) d. Dust (3:59) e. Nothing (19:67) f. Earth (11:61) g. A drop of thick fluid ( 16:4, 75:37) h. Sticky clay (37:11) 5. Is Shirk (idolatry) an unforgivable sin? a. Unforgivable (4:48, 4:116) b. Forgivable (4:153, 25:68-71) 6. What is the punishment for adultery? a. 100 lashes for both the man & woman (24:2) b. Life imprisonment for the woman but no punishment to the man (4:15) c. Grant pardon (4:16) d. Stoning to death (Bukhari 8:816) 7. Did Noah’s son drown? a. All of Noah’s family survived ( 21:76) b. Noah’s son drowned , 11:43) 8. Did Pharoah drown or was he saved? a. Pharaoh survived the battle (10:92) b. Pharaoh drowned (28:40, 17:103, 43:55) 9. Do Christians go to Heaven or Hell? a. Christians shall enter paradise (2:62. 5:69) b. Christians shall go to hell (5:72, 3:85) 10. Will God reward the good deeds of the non believers? a. No (9:17) b. Yes (99:7) 11. Did the Arabs (Meccans) receive any prophets (warners) before Mohammed? a. No (28:46) b. Yes (2:125) 12. What is the food in hell? a. Thorns/Dhari (88:6) b. Ones own pus (88:6) c. Special hell fruit/ Zaqqum (37:66) 13. Is there compulsion in religion? a. No (2:256) b. Yes (9:29) c. Kill apostates (Bukhari)
@@usmaanmalik1047 Mistakes of quran 2/4 14. For whom is salvation for? a. For all pious theists (5:69) b. For Muslims only (3:85) 15. What should Muslims do with unbelievers in the end of days? a. Nothing; live and let live (45:14) b. Fight them (9:29) 16. Who will be the judge of humans? a. Mohammad (5:109) b. God (2:143) 17. What is the source of grace? a. God (57:29) b. Mohammad (9:74) 18. Who is the only one who can forgive sins? a. Allah (3:135) b. Allah together with Mohammad (4:64, 33:36) 19. Can God share power and sovereignty? a. No (17:111) b. Yes (3:26) 20. Does Satan mislead Muslims? a. Yes (7:16) b. No (38:82) 21. Who was the first Muslim? a. Mohamad (39:12, 6:14, 6:163) b. Moses (7:143) c. Abraham (2:132) d. Adam (2:37, 3:33) e. Some Egyptians (26:51) f. Jesus and his disciples (3:52, 5:111) 22. How was Isa created? a. When Allah said, “Be.” (3:47) b. When Allah blew into Mariam’s private part (66:12) 23. How many surahs does Allah require to prove that the Quran is not forged? a. One (10:38) b. Ten (11:13) 24: Can Allah have a son if he wanted to? a. No. (6:101) b. Yes (39:4)
@@osmantuce4069 no, muslims like you just can't comprehend that people leave your cult or question allah. I was a believer, a hijabi, a fasting and praying girl. I left Islam. So was I never a true Muslim? 😂
@@osmantuce4069 Because I no longer believe in a god, in the Quran or in the Hadith. Is that enough for you? Don't tell me I was never a Muslim just because I decided to abandon it. I left it because its nonsense, and only when I grew older, I realized that. Leave people like me alone, please.
Ali v were never muslim they are kufur even according to the mainstream Shia.this women is Shia and again was never muslim,she believes in 12 invaluable imams which is also disbelief in islam
I'm also an ex Muslim, who gave a quarter of a century to Islam. I can relate with you. You are not alone. Our suffering is real and deep. I congratulate you for waking up to the truth.
Thank you so much for acknowledging me and for saying that you can relate because I love it when people are able to resonate with the content that I am sharing! 💖
In the first place you never were muslims,you desires are to follow western women, free to drink and have free sex. Christianity wil give you all the freedom you desire.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony. I myself left Islam 17 years ago and that was the best decision i made for my life Following Jesus Christ my Lord the only saviour of the Worlds ❤✝
I felt like Christian also teaches you that you are a sinner and the ONLY person who can save you is Jesus. I found east culture more free as it is was based on your OWN Karma(Life is your making).
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30
@@Muhamad60Aishah6 It replaces your dirty every day life filth with righteousness, your evil soul with a chaste one and your libertinage with liberty from promiscuity.
@@SIRLASEDARCHI if you understand it, you leave. The BEST Muslim is an ex-Muslim. They're like a totally different person. A Muslim has 1 of the hardest journeys to God, so when a Muslim finds God I sing with the angels in heaven.
I hate how us as Muslims always been taught to "fear god" "how do you miss a prayer you must fear god" "why r u wearing that you should fear your god" but we were never taught to LOVE GOD. I'm 15 no one ever told me to love God for who he made me today or love God cause I am the person who I am today it's just very sad that I as a teenager a CHILD. Can raise other kids better than my own parents raised me "(
I really feel what you are saying, and it's true, there are a lot of people who feel the need to "scare" their children into following/conforming to whatever they interpret their religion to be about. I am so happy that you are 15 yet so mature, intelligent, and able to think for yourself! we need more people like you, of all ages, because this sort of narrow-minded thinking is not okay :(
I so agree with you, i was at a point in my life where I never prayed , never picked up the Quran, unless I was told to and honestly it’s sad when I turned about 15(wich I am 15 right now) I had to find my religion again and understand why the religion is the way it is why things that are haram is haram etc.. now that I have found my religion again I love Islam more than anything wallahi. Just study the religion again, start the Quran over etc you will love it wallahi... now I love praying, I love hearing myself recite the Quran(I have my lazy days where I don’t pick up the Quran but when I do I love to read it I’ll sit and read it for atleast 2 hours) I hope we do a better job with actually teaching our baby’s to love Islam instead of forcing on them. Our parents think that Allah is happy with them forcing the religion on us but in all honestly Allah would rather us to learn and love the religion than forcing it upon people. In Islam you don’t force things you be gentle and teach people to love the religion
@@Moimen._ bro in India, we were given only three choices. Pay zijhya or convert to islam or die when the mughal and turks and arabs invaded us. Thats historical facts. And they almsot converted 30%. Of course some of them converted willingly also. But you cant deny the fact that islam mostly spread through swords.
I lost also my family, I carry the same burden, I always asked myself why other non-muslim women were loved by their family for just who they're, were treated respectful while I had to endure so much abuse by my community, mostly physically and emotionally, I couldn't stand the abuse and deciding to work towards a future where I could be self-sufficient. I shared my views a week before my graduation and they abused me till the day of my graduation when they thrown me out on the streets. first year was hard, because I lhad to live for a while in a women shelter, but I'm now in my own home, living my life. I'm now glad that they disowned me. otherwise the chain of abuse would have never be broken, disowning me, was actually setting me free. For all the exmuslim-girls/woman. please keep fighting for yourself. You, owning your life is the greatest thing you can do for yourself. You deserve everything that life has to offer you. I love all my sisters
OMG, thank you so much for taking the time out of your day and sharing your story, it means so much to me when others who have been through similar traumas are able to connect with each other. I am so happy that things ended up working out for you, and I wish you all the happiness in the world! 💖 💖
I’m literally trapped in my home hiding in the closet because of my sexuality I can’t even be myself because my parents force religion upon me and I really hate it :(
I am so sorry to hear about this, and as hard as it may be to believe, eventually you will be in a much better place :( Just remember you are not alone, and we are always going to be here to stand up for the people who are not able to. Sending you lots of love and strength 💖
@@FruitfulDialogue If you have found peace, happiness and bliss thats all that matters. We only have one life why waste it on these authoritarian sects of religion. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey of life. You may have lost a large of part of your childhood being in a repressive environment, but you have received 10 fold of that back now. Make the best of it.... Cheers
@@prophetmacronpbuh564 how am I an islamophobe if I grew up with a Muslim family getting yelled at constantly to do things I didn’t wanna do I just couldn’t take it and separated myself from it that doesn’t make me an islamophobe
Im also ex muslim and I lived almost same things like you. I can feel you. I want you to know that you are loved, I dont know you as personel but you have place in my heart. I wish best for you ❤️
Islam n Christianity both r same. Christianity also say same thing about non Muslims. It says that non Muslim will go to hell if we will not accept Christianity 🙂
@abhijitkalita6938 show me a verse from the Bible that says that... There's no such thing. We don't know who will go to heaven and who not. Don't be a fool, read the Bible.
I can totally relate to the feeling of being trapped in your own home because of overbearing parents. The beauty of adulthood is that no one can tell us how to live our lives anymore, and we can be free to figure it out how we want to! You are good enough and you deserve to be on this Earth 🙏🏻❤️ Also love the new dp it’s so cute!!!
Thank you, I really appreciate your constant love, support, and overall good vibes! and yeah, aren't we privileged to be able to finally live on our own terms?! that's such a beautiful feeling. Anyway, thank you for always being here for us, we LOVE you!! :') 💖💖💖
Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life no one can come to the father but by me. I am the resurrection and the life he believes in me though he dies he will live your heavenly father love s u the lord Jesus Christ love you ❤️ I'm praying for the salvation of your soul daily
God bless your strength, my precious sister. I pray Jesus will reveal himself to you in a very real way. I pray he will flood with you with his love for you. You are more loved than you could ever imagine ❤️.
I’m so sorry you had to go through this, I’m a Muslim woman and although I could never know what it’s like be in this situation, I have friends that are. Thank you for sharing your story, it helps a lot of people. Sending lots of love your way, I wish you all the best in your journey sister 🥺💚
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comment, it means so much to us to hear people who are part of the Muslim community, but can still have empathy for the experiences that others have gone through 🥺💖 Sending you love right back! 🥰
As a Muslim woman if you grow up in the west, you may enjoy freedom because of the law put in place, but in Islamic nations most women are living in hell
@@Talktime.9ja I grew and lived all my life in what you would define as an Islamic nation, I never felt I was less than because of my gender and neither did the women I know. The friends I have going through this were born and raised in the West. But then again depends on which country but mostly on the familial circle and their understanding of religion.
Join the ex muslim group sister .......in that group u will find lots of people like u , share ur experience with other and aware people about it.......Kudos to u
I'm ex-Muslim and I can relate to your story a lot. Unfortunately, I'm living in a Islamic fundamentist country. It's still tormenting for me. I wouldn't say I hate or blame islam, but it's very open to any Interpretation. Basically, it can be influenced by anyone. It's definitely hard to live with such parents like yours. The resentment towards parents, is absolutely real and valid. Not everyone understands what is it like to have parents who are overbearing. They always think it's a love and parents knows the best. In reality, nobody knows the best for you. Only you do. Nothing can take your ability of thinking away. But you were unable to speak what did you think. However, you managed to find happiness. It gives me motivation to live the way I want to live.
Thank you so much for your comment, it really means a lot to us that you took the time out of your day to watch our video and to be kind to Noor's experience of the religion, and the trauma that it can cause to people. You are absolutely correct! Only you know what is good for you, and that is all that should matter. You are so strong and amazing, and I know that happiness will definitely find its way to you! 🥺🥰 Sending you lots of love! 💖
@@marcostation1000 Well, I don't completely agree with you but yeah, some Islamic practices can be obscure. Islamic world is largely influenced by Al-Ghazali's conceptions of islam. Like I said it's up to Interpretations.
@@morbidgirl6808 the problem is not interpretación. The problem is mohamed moral.standars are horrible. Tell me were you interpret that havin slaves rsping them or practicing pesofilia by the very men muslims claim is a perfect morañ.standar. That is the proble.
@@marcostation1000 No, I'm not trying to justify or demoralizing Mohmmad's actions. I'm only stating the fact that Islamic thoughts are largely influenced by Al-Ghazali who was a sunni fundamentalist.
I always watch Harris sultan, ghalib kamal, exmuslim Sparatacus, Miss Atheist and came across Amina Sardar's videos now urs. Very sad what you had to go through but you are strong and courageous who came through and can tell ur story to the world. Well done 👏 lady. Thx for sharing your life story with us. Please join them when they are online to share ur experiences and thoughts. Thanks again.
@@FruitfulDialogue dont forget abdullah sameer(freindly ex muslim), he goes pretty deep, one of my favourite. and ex-muslims of north america, they share a lot of stories.
Thank you for sharing your voice and courage with the world. This video will be an inspiration for so many who find it. Love from a fellow ex-muslim xx
Thank you so much for appreciating this video... it was definitely a hard one to make and generated a lot of anxiety within me, but thank you for your comment. It is people like you who really make me strong, and I appreciate you
As an ex Muslim/seyed , someone who has studied islam , it's pretty cruel and it is was only created to give power to Muhammad. In modern era its easier to understand that if you are a person of strong morals and wise mind.
@@djbsghss75 armies? trading slaves?okay let me tell you something Muhammad pbuh never hurt anyone from his hand and tongue.he got married to Khadija who was at that time 15 year older than him.she was a business women.and she proposed Muhammad pbuh because she was inspired by him.imagine people believe Islam is oppressive.but women had the right to propose a man.such an open minded person Muhammad was.at that time when women had no respect and people were used to bury female babies alive.islam gave women equal rights.women were nurses,they war warriors.hazrat Ayesha was used to teach the companion.salavry? Islam spread because at that time people were very cruel to slave,Islam gave rights to slave.
@@RehanaSaharRajput-on8lr look I'll leave this reply simply to come edit it later with sources whenever I felt like doing so , now I don't feel like debating.
@@djbsghss75 👍 trust me religion is hard to follow.when Allah said it is easy?.Allah loves us.and he loved most those who come back to him.follow your heart....we all evolve we all wander here and there.we are not angels.....but Allah says I will keep on waiting for you and Allah loves most those who come back.
Parents tend to teach kids to fear God and not to love him. In this way they grow up with religious traumas and unnecessary fear. Once they are grown and independent they leave Islam. In this way parents just raised future atheists/agnostics etc. But this is their fault. Because they raised us in the proper way
True! appealing to fear is one of the worst ways to promote a religion, because it doesn't make you feel like you have a choice, but more of an obligation or a "duty", which puts very high expectations on a person. No one should be doing something that they truly do not want to do, and people should be more respectful of everyone :)
@Greg Kanowitz i do understand that fear Allah SWT means also means love Allah but i’m talking about my experience of growing up in a muslim house hold, i don’t feel like my parents taught me Islam in the right way lol. Once i grew up and i started reading about islam on my own i understood everything
I know it isnt very pleasant to say it here, but trust me, as an indian bollywood buff, i can totally say that you definitely have the Acting Keera(bug) inside you. I think you should totally persue it :) you definitely have the skills. LOVE YOU. You are totally accepted.
I'm sorry your dad made you feel that way. I'm sorry he brought you to a point of self destruction. I hope you all the best in your journey ahead. Maybe it won't be enough to just hear this but you are so much so much more than you think❤
Thank you, that honestly means so much to me, especially coming from you. I appreciate the love and I hope you also know that you are an amazing human being, and I'm lucky to know you! :') 😍 -Noor
You are a precious soul my dear. Please read the New Testament and you will find so much love from the true god. Ask Jesus come in to your live and heal you. He will do it, he loves you so much and He is waiting for you. We can not give love, wen we are empty inside. Pray to Jesus Christus my dear. Much love from Germany ❤
I dont know whether this will help you are not. I am really sad after hearing your story. Be brave girl. You were supposed to go through a lot. Thats really bad. Be brave sister. You have a very bright future ahead of you. Just be brave 😊
People who act like her parents, follow Islam in a way they want not the way it should be. It’s a choice and joyful when it’s done right. I’m really sorry for everything happened to you. I’m from Saudi Arabia and a lot of people don’t like because I’m not strict as them. I think god every day for my family support.
Thank you for this🥺❤️ I can only imagine how hard it was for you to make this video💔 I really hope you’re not better and happier. Sending you all the love ❤️
The fastest growing religion right now is no religion..... Though I am a Christian, Christianity is not a religion but an encounter, relationship. Jesus is a role model a man any body want to be, who am I not to follows his kind of life styles... Forgive your enemy and pray for them, bless them, if any body ask you for a coat give him cloth as well.
I’m so sorry my dear sister you had to go through all of this suffering. I understand you and your father was wrong to behave like that.Sometimes as parents we make mistakes because we want the best for our children we think we have to be more strict but there is a limit to that.We people make mistakes we are not perfect but islam is. I pray that Allah guides you to the straight path Ameen and Allah can guide whoever He wills. I am a revert
Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story, Noor. I can already see here in the comments all the people you've been able to affect and I commend you on your courage to be honest with the world. Your story spoke to me; my experience with Catholicism wasn't healthy either and I left the religion as well. I'm so sorry that you experienced the trauma you have. I'm sending my love and empathy to you. On a secondary note, I appreciate the commentary around how one's experience does not mean to slander or comment on an entire community or religion. Although I haven't had a positive experience with the Catholic Church, I recognize that many people have found community and love from the religion. That's incredibly mature of you to add to it, especially despite all the trauma. Thank you.
Hey Calvin, Thank YOU so much for the love and support that you have given to us! It honestly means the world 🥰 Thank you for sharing your own personal experience, because having these open, "fruitful" dialogues are what this channel is all about! Thank you for encouraging me to speak out because it is something that not a lot of people are comfortable with, but is definitely needed to encourage a meaningful, and authentic life! Thank you, thank you, thank you for just being an overall stellar person, we LOVE you and cannot wait for future fruitful dialogues! 💖 Sending you so much LOVE and LIGHT!! 💕
Morals are subjectives if you follow your brain, If you follow the only and one God and loving God morals are odjectives John 14:6 I'm the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
@@aq4356Ted Bundy was mentally ill. We nowadays have laws and stuff. We can teach without religion. Religion was a toll to make people obey and follow certain rules to make a better society. Fear was used. You either do so or you burn. Simple. All these rules was for a better functioning society. Not saying that all of the rules are stupid. But some of them are outdated and don't belong into the modern times.
That is why Islam teaches muslims to execute any one that leaves Islam. Muhammad was a brilliant tactician in forming his military ideology in the guise of religion.
Thank you for sharing your story and im sorry for what you had to go through. Im also from a shia’a background and my mother is from a sayed family. It brings me comfort to know that there are people who went through something similar to what i’ve been and still am going through. Im happy that you left the Religion and worked on your mental health! Stay happy!
Thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot to me and I agree, it is nice to know that there are other people in the different corners of the world who may be able to resonate with what I had went through, because it definitely feels less isolating. But again, thank you and I wish you all the best!
Hello, Noor. We are a year later now and I hope you are doing fine. What I want to say is that we all struggle with issues from our up bringing. What I found out during the years is that things in life we didn't get from up bringing are our challenges in life and when we manage to overcome them, that is our most succesful personal achievement in life we can and have to be proud of coz we did it on our own.
With strict rules, and lots of them, like in islam, the religion makes you feel bad, because nobody can follow all the rules expected from you, just because of the fact that there are so many. And the more rules you have within a religion, the worse it makes a person feel. The focus on adapting to rules and rules, and rules, is wrong because its impossible and it doesnt make you "enough" of anything- always. When religion makes you feel bad, its time to rethink your believes, truly. Do not do it, its your life!!!!!!! You did well, and You are more than enough, believe me :)
So felt like treated as garbage being a muslim daughter. Feels sorry for you. Be brave keep spreading your story. More people should wake up to regressive practices in Islam.
Hey Noor, thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm not good with words, especially with feelings but your story resonated to many people and gave us (me) a wake-up call/hope to do better for ourselves. Cheers!
Thank you so much for your response, and even if you feel like you're not good with words, what you said meant a lot to me. I really appreciate you! 💖💖
It is definitely sad that our parents value culture over religion .. we grow up thinking Allah is not merciful and how Islam in general is very strict religion who doesn’t value life.. so many kids after being adults leave Islam just for that reason. I grew up more of cultural and can relate to u. In college I found the true Islam and fell in love with how it def is way life and how culture can be so toxic and give Islam a bad name . I am mother now and trust me I don’t force my kids for hijab or salah becuase one we have to be the example and two before puberty they aren’t held accountable so we have several years to teach them why Islam says what it says and it’s their choice . My girls love Islam because again the way I am showing them which is true way . Now if I turn the table and remind them they going to hell for this and that then Ofcourse they will hate themselves, they will hate their faith and everything related to! I pray for u and pray u see the truth ! Often parents forget they also will be responsible for the children’s trauma!! Praying for ur healing!
Thank you for such a kind reply, it really touched my heart! Thank you for not shaming me for the experience that I had and for encouraging me to heal. Thank you for understanding that I am not trying to speak badly about anyone or anything, I am just sharing what my experience was, because people should understand that if they come from a place of hate and fear, it will lead people away from them. Like the quote says, "you attract more bees with honey", and with that same mentality, if you come from a place of love and acceptance, people are more likely to at least listen to what you have to say. Sending you so much love
It's sad to say but this is a personnal islam not the the whole book because you can find peaceful verses but also hateful ones. Islam is a mess up that's why you can find on ine hand jihadists and in other hand staight muslims full of kindness but both are muslims even when the second one denied the fact that djihadists are real islam.
It was really hurtful to hear you say that you thought you were not good enough. While I was hearing you say this I said out loud to myself 'you really are good enough'. And I said it to you and to myself. You really are an inspiration to me, thank you for making this honest videos.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for the relatable moment that we shared! aha it makes me feel better knowing that I am not the only one who felt this way, and that is exactly why I make content like this... not to promote hate, but to promote shared experiences and healing. Thank you for your love and support, it means THE WORLD, and we really do appreciate it! Sending YOU so much love and light
@@FruitfulDialogue where do u get your morality from now., think about that. Human who 60 years ago thought homosexuality was a crime. Steady shifting morality. You need objective morality.
I believe in Islam but all the micromanaging by the haram police, by my community, and by other Muslims is driving me crazy. Being a Muslim is a big part of my identity and I love Allah but I struggle so much trying to keep up with all the rules and expectations people have of Muslim women, I wish I was brave enough to just say fuck this shit and start doing what I want regardless if others will shame me or not but it's hard, I don't have a life outside of my family and I don't want to be alone and they would definitely disown me if I took the hijab off or if I started living life how I wanted to I feel so trapped, I'm so jealous of girls who can do everything I can't their reality is what I dream about
Honestly, my heart goes out to you, I can understand how that must be so traumatizing to feel as if you are trapped and unable to live a true and authentic life. If you are comfortable and able, I would suggest talking to a professional who can help you more than I can, but always remember, you are never alone, and we are always here for everyone who needs love and a sense of community
Sorry to hear what you went through even as a young and innocent child at the hands of your father. But in the end your Heavenly Father has you in the palm of His hands and will always walk with you so remember when you go through trials and tribulations and see footsteps in the sand, the footsteps are of your Heavenly Father while He has you shielded in His Arms.
You’re gorgeous, you have one the most beautiful face and smile I’ve ever seen! You should try modeling. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you for sharing this with us and making your own decisions because I know what it means to grow up sheltered and not have a social life. It’s hard, to even detach from it because that’s all you know and for you to talk about this on a platform like youtube where so many people make judgements is Amazing!!! Keep doing what you do it inspires so many. Thank you!!!🤩
I'm so sorry to hear that ik that's not easy to deal with ,sadly some parents don't deserve having kids i hope u're doing well n u'll find the real path urself cuz none should force u to have certain beliefs wish u luck❤❤❤❤❤❤
I left islam 2 years ago. After a few long months of struggling with my identity i finally feel FREE. I can do what i want without the feeling of guilt and the fear of hell although it took a long time to overcome the indoctrination. I hope u feel the same too
@@osmantuce4069 i believed bcus i was indoctrinated to believe. When i got older i studied islam more and also became more critical and rational in my thinking which led me to not believe in muhammed and islam.
Your vulnerability is precious & valuable & helpful for so many. You’re so loved, especially by the true, living God, Jesus Christ. God bless you, hon❤
You are so brave. You are an example for so many girls/women who is still struggling out there for their freedom and who they are. I hope for your good health and happiness.
Nice hair cut. I see signs of depression which you need to consider for treatment. In my opinion this is the comulative impact of being shredded between different cultures .. Indian, Pakistani, Shia, Canada, America etc. you lost your identity. You firstly need to focus on yourself and who you are and what you want in life, control the anger inside you... Too strict is bad yet too loose is harmful. Stay strong and relax it will be ok with you and stay in touch with your family. They are the best support.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to send us a comment! we really appreciate the engagement that you guys bring to us! Honestly, you are probably right, I have suffered a lot of trauma so it would make sense if I was depressed, but this video was me sharing my feelings and how I am now leading a life where I will be making conscious choices that I resonate with, as opposed to before when I was forced by certain people to live a life that I did not understand/agree with. But thank you for the kind and encouraging words, and I agree, family is very important! Sending you so much love and light!
My heat goes out to dear Lady,so brave to tell your story. You are one of the braves Lady who escaped the clutches of Islam and abusive father. Stay strong and may your God go with you xx
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Im ex Muslim to from germany the I.S.I.S. is her in my neighborhood but is ok look at me now , Jesus love im so proud today 😊
I don’t know why x- Muslims they are they are saying that am from Shia and they are calling them selves Muslims who ever doesn’t believe in Allah and his prophet Muhammad’s path is not a Muslim that is the challenge they are facing
Shia not muslim
Allah has committed blasphemy on humanity.
@@اسماعيلمحمد-ذ8خ sunni not muslim
I left islam 17 years ago. Best decision ever. Thank You my LORD and my GOD JESUS CHRIST the ALMIGHTY who SAVED me from the darkness of islam to Your Light and GLORY. 👑✝️❤🕊🙏💪
God is Good. How did you become a Christian?
Compare the Quran to the Bible. I guarantee your perspective will change. Bible was true once upon a time before being changed after Jesus, in nicea not even by his deciples. Quran is actually what jesus taught. It brings people back to the original godly and prophet scriptures. Read it first youll see what i mean, don't just comment on it.
I felt like Christian also teaches you that you are a sinner and the ONLY person who can save you is Jesus. I found east culture more free as it is was based on your OWN Karma(Life is your making).
@@usmaanmalik1047
Mistakes of quran 1/4
How long is one day according to Allah?
a. 1 day is equivalent to 1000 years (22:47)
b. 1 day is equivalent to 50,000 years (70:4)
2. How long did Allah take to create the earth?
a. 6 days (7:45, 10:3, 11:7, 25:59)
b. 8 days (41:9-12)
3. Is heaven older or the earth older? Which was created first?
a. Earth was created first (2:29, 41:9)
b. Heaven was created first (79:27-30)
4. From what substance were humans made from?
a. A blood clot (96:1-2)
b. Water (21:30)
c. Burned clay (15:26)
d. Dust (3:59)
e. Nothing (19:67)
f. Earth (11:61)
g. A drop of thick fluid ( 16:4, 75:37)
h. Sticky clay (37:11)
5. Is Shirk (idolatry) an unforgivable sin?
a. Unforgivable (4:48, 4:116)
b. Forgivable (4:153, 25:68-71)
6. What is the punishment for adultery?
a. 100 lashes for both the man & woman (24:2)
b. Life imprisonment for the woman but no punishment to the man (4:15)
c. Grant pardon (4:16)
d. Stoning to death (Bukhari 8:816)
7. Did Noah’s son drown?
a. All of Noah’s family survived ( 21:76)
b. Noah’s son drowned , 11:43)
8. Did Pharoah drown or was he saved?
a. Pharaoh survived the battle (10:92)
b. Pharaoh drowned (28:40, 17:103, 43:55)
9. Do Christians go to Heaven or Hell?
a. Christians shall enter paradise (2:62. 5:69)
b. Christians shall go to hell (5:72, 3:85)
10. Will God reward the good deeds of the non believers?
a. No (9:17)
b. Yes (99:7)
11. Did the Arabs (Meccans) receive any prophets (warners) before Mohammed?
a. No (28:46)
b. Yes (2:125)
12. What is the food in hell?
a. Thorns/Dhari (88:6)
b. Ones own pus (88:6)
c. Special hell fruit/ Zaqqum (37:66)
13. Is there compulsion in religion?
a. No (2:256)
b. Yes (9:29)
c. Kill apostates (Bukhari)
@@usmaanmalik1047
Mistakes of quran 2/4
14. For whom is salvation for?
a. For all pious theists (5:69)
b. For Muslims only (3:85)
15. What should Muslims do with unbelievers in the end of days?
a. Nothing; live and let live (45:14)
b. Fight them (9:29)
16. Who will be the judge of humans?
a. Mohammad (5:109)
b. God (2:143)
17. What is the source of grace?
a. God (57:29)
b. Mohammad (9:74)
18. Who is the only one who can forgive sins?
a. Allah (3:135)
b. Allah together with Mohammad (4:64, 33:36)
19. Can God share power and sovereignty?
a. No (17:111)
b. Yes (3:26)
20. Does Satan mislead Muslims?
a. Yes (7:16)
b. No (38:82)
21. Who was the first Muslim?
a. Mohamad (39:12, 6:14, 6:163)
b. Moses (7:143)
c. Abraham (2:132)
d. Adam (2:37, 3:33)
e. Some Egyptians (26:51)
f. Jesus and his disciples (3:52, 5:111)
22. How was Isa created?
a. When Allah said, “Be.” (3:47)
b. When Allah blew into Mariam’s private part (66:12)
23. How many surahs does Allah require to prove that the Quran is not forged?
a. One (10:38)
b. Ten (11:13)
24: Can Allah have a son if he wanted to?
a. No. (6:101)
b. Yes (39:4)
I am 19 and I left Islam like two years ago but nobody knows. It is so hard for me not to be who I truly am.
@@osmantuce4069 no, muslims like you just can't comprehend that people leave your cult or question allah. I was a believer, a hijabi, a fasting and praying girl. I left Islam. So was I never a true Muslim? 😂
@@norel457 yeah exactly. They live like kings. No wonder he never questioned it.
@@mery6793 yay I’m glad you left that cult
@@rosenanienanie7016 thanks 🥰 best decision of my life.
@@osmantuce4069 Because I no longer believe in a god, in the Quran or in the Hadith. Is that enough for you? Don't tell me I was never a Muslim just because I decided to abandon it. I left it because its nonsense, and only when I grew older, I realized that. Leave people like me alone, please.
I‘m Ex Muslim (Turkish Alevi) and now a happy Christian. Thank you Lord 🕊
Alevis aren't even Muslim from my understanding. More like grave worshipers
God bless you my friend🙏✝️☦️❤️!
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Ali v were never muslim they are kufur even according to the mainstream Shia.this women is Shia and again was never muslim,she believes in 12 invaluable imams which is also disbelief in islam
✝️☦️🙏🏼.
Ex muslim here and Jesus is my lord king and GOD👈♥️✝️♥️🙏amen
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God blessed 🙏🙏🙏
God bless you-Congratulations for enterring the light of Jesus
I will not believe if you say Jesus is dog
Amen, bless you ❤️
I'm also an ex Muslim, who gave a quarter of a century to Islam. I can relate with you. You are not alone. Our suffering is real and deep. I congratulate you for waking up to the truth.
Thank you so much for acknowledging me and for saying that you can relate because I love it when people are able to resonate with the content that I am sharing! 💖
In the first place you never were muslims,you desires are to follow western women, free to drink and have free sex. Christianity wil give you all the freedom you desire.
@@ibrahimlorgat5829 Christians shouldn't drink or have sex before marriage.
We are together guys. We will not cry, we will make a good world for our future generations.
“Ex- Muslim” girl Islam isn’t a nationality.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful testimony. I myself left Islam 17 years ago and that was the best decision i made for my life Following Jesus Christ my Lord the only saviour of the Worlds ❤✝
Amen❤🎉
Love your channel!!!! Blessings to you and your Ministry! ❤️
Hallelujah I watched how you exposed the life of a woman in taliban yesterday, I just pray God help the women there because it’s not easy
I pray all the time for the lies of Islam to be exposed so people aren't kept from the Way the Truth and the Life...Jesus Christ
I felt like Christian also teaches you that you are a sinner and the ONLY person who can save you is Jesus. I found east culture more free as it is was based on your OWN Karma(Life is your making).
Thank you for leaving this abominable cult. You are free. I am ex-Muslim, too, born into this faith against my will.
I come from a Muslim family and they were extremely abusive to me they even isolated me in my room my entire life and I’m 19 now and I had enough
So sorry,hope you are in a better place
I have overcomed it, you can too!!! Be strong
You just had an abusive family. This has nothing to do with islam. There are abusive Christian and jews families too.
Is the fault of Islam or your family? I think your family they oppressed you but not for this you should leave Islam
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30
Islam takes souls
No, the Angel of Death does, with Allah's permission.
Islam REFRESHES souls if you realy understand it .
Islam take Ur life, Ur soul and Ur freedom
@@Muhamad60Aishah6
It replaces your dirty every day life filth with righteousness, your evil soul with a chaste one and your libertinage with liberty from promiscuity.
@@SIRLASEDARCHI if you understand it, you leave. The BEST Muslim is an ex-Muslim. They're like a totally different person.
A Muslim has 1 of the hardest journeys to God, so when a Muslim finds God I sing with the angels in heaven.
I hate how us as Muslims always been taught to "fear god" "how do you miss a prayer you must fear god" "why r u wearing that you should fear your god" but we were never taught to LOVE GOD. I'm 15 no one ever told me to love God for who he made me today or love God cause I am the person who I am today it's just very sad that I as a teenager a CHILD. Can raise other kids better than my own parents raised me "(
I really feel what you are saying, and it's true, there are a lot of people who feel the need to "scare" their children into following/conforming to whatever they interpret their religion to be about. I am so happy that you are 15 yet so mature, intelligent, and able to think for yourself! we need more people like you, of all ages, because this sort of narrow-minded thinking is not okay :(
Say this again plz!!!!!!!!!
I so agree with you, i was at a point in my life where I never prayed , never picked up the Quran, unless I was told to and honestly it’s sad when I turned about 15(wich I am 15 right now) I had to find my religion again and understand why the religion is the way it is why things that are haram is haram etc.. now that I have found my religion again I love Islam more than anything wallahi. Just study the religion again, start the Quran over etc you will love it wallahi... now I love praying, I love hearing myself recite the Quran(I have my lazy days where I don’t pick up the Quran but when I do I love to read it I’ll sit and read it for atleast 2 hours) I hope we do a better job with actually teaching our baby’s to love Islam instead of forcing on them. Our parents think that Allah is happy with them forcing the religion on us but in all honestly Allah would rather us to learn and love the religion than forcing it upon people. In Islam you don’t force things you be gentle and teach people to love the religion
@@Moimen._ bro in India, we were given only three choices. Pay zijhya or convert to islam or die when the mughal and turks and arabs invaded us. Thats historical facts. And they almsot converted 30%. Of course some of them converted willingly also. But you cant deny the fact that islam mostly spread through swords.
Islam make people become evil worsipers.
Lesve islam and be free
I lost also my family, I carry the same burden, I always asked myself why other non-muslim women were loved by their family for just who they're, were treated respectful while I had to endure so much abuse by my community, mostly physically and emotionally, I couldn't stand the abuse and deciding to work towards a future where I could be self-sufficient. I shared my views a week before my graduation and they abused me till the day of my graduation when they thrown me out on the streets. first year was hard, because I lhad to live for a while in a women shelter, but I'm now in my own home, living my life. I'm now glad that they disowned me. otherwise the chain of abuse would have never be broken, disowning me, was actually setting me free. For all the exmuslim-girls/woman. please keep fighting for yourself. You, owning your life is the greatest thing you can do for yourself. You deserve everything that life has to offer you.
I love all my sisters
You're so strong! I am in the same path. I wish you the best for your future. Let's fight for our freedom.
OMG, thank you so much for taking the time out of your day and sharing your story, it means so much to me when others who have been through similar traumas are able to connect with each other. I am so happy that things ended up working out for you, and I wish you all the happiness in the world! 💖 💖
Interested in sharing your story? Any social media account?
Your beautiful. I hope you’re doing well today. Sending ❤
Yes inderdaad you are so beautiful❤
I’m literally trapped in my home hiding in the closet because of my sexuality I can’t even be myself because my parents force religion upon me and I really hate it :(
I am so sorry to hear about this, and as hard as it may be to believe, eventually you will be in a much better place :(
Just remember you are not alone, and we are always going to be here to stand up for the people who are not able to.
Sending you lots of love and strength 💖
Stay strong and ideal. Don't ever think you're alone, Seek help if you needed. I'll be always ready to provide the help that I could do.
@@FruitfulDialogue If you have found peace, happiness and bliss thats all that matters. We only have one life why waste it on these authoritarian sects of religion. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey of life. You may have lost a large of part of your childhood being in a repressive environment, but you have received 10 fold of that back now. Make the best of it.... Cheers
@@prophetmacronpbuh564 how am I an islamophobe if I grew up with a Muslim family getting yelled at constantly to do things I didn’t wanna do I just couldn’t take it and separated myself from it that doesn’t make me an islamophobe
@@riggy624 stay strong iam gay and exmuslim still in the closet no one knws
Ur not alone
know islam- no peace. No islam - know peace
1+1+1 IS DIFFERENT BY 1 O POLITHEIST PEOPLE!WE HAVE TAWHED(MONOTHEISM) AND THE CHRISTIANITY IS A PAGAN MODERN WORSHIP.
@@davidradaku-ho4yi no word tawheed in koran gullibe!
One allah is equal to 1 Pig 🐖@@davidradaku-ho4yi
@@davidradaku-ho4yi 1x1x1=1
This should be on everyone's t-shirt
Christ is the only way
All prophets were a way to God.
Not every prophet is a prophet.
JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN ❤
Jesus is the God ❤
@@daveybigtechsno1fangurl518 Doesn't seem to make sense. What do you mean by that?
I am also ex muslim from black Africa. I left islam something like 4 years now.
Sending you love ❤❤❤❤
I'm a Thai Buddhist. From human to human, I want her to know that I love her and wish her to find happiness. She is perfect in her own unique way.
Do you think Satan is perfect in his own way. If accept everything you stand for nothing.
@@cheikhsalek7695 Has Satan ever hurt anyone? If yes, then he is not perfect.
@@cheikhsalek7695 all human have both sides! Remember, the only one we are fearing is ourselves.
I am so sorry for what you had to go through, hopefully you find your peace. Be proud of who you are and stay brave!!
Thank you so much for this! I really appreciate the love and the support
Im also ex muslim and I lived almost same things like you. I can feel you. I want you to know that you are loved, I dont know you as personel but you have place in my heart. I wish best for you ❤️
Islam n Christianity both r same. Christianity also say same thing about non Muslims. It says that non Muslim will go to hell if we will not accept Christianity 🙂
If I'm not wrong u r from turkey, right?
@abhijitkalita6938 show me a verse from the Bible that says that... There's no such thing. We don't know who will go to heaven and who not. Don't be a fool, read the Bible.
@@marija03 I m not asking about your religion. I m just asking that r u from turkey?
@@marija03 alright.
Just answer my question,is Jesus independent of God the father or dependent on God the father?
"I left Islam because my dad mistreated me"
yeah dude lets believe in a religion which believes in s*x slavery lol
Islam is generally cruel and sick
If she is born a christian and her father mistreated her, she will leave christianity too..
That makes sense
plzz this helped me a lot..being a 17 year old girl thank you...i know that im not the only one...THANK YOU ♥♥
Of course, sending you so much LOVE 🥺💖
I really appreciate your testimony. Lots of love from an ex-muslim. It's deeply Import that ex-muslim women start to talk. Thanks
Absolutely, I am always here for all of you guys!
I can totally relate to the feeling of being trapped in your own home because of overbearing parents. The beauty of adulthood is that no one can tell us how to live our lives anymore, and we can be free to figure it out how we want to! You are good enough and you deserve to be on this Earth 🙏🏻❤️
Also love the new dp it’s so cute!!!
Thank you, I really appreciate your constant love, support, and overall good vibes! and yeah, aren't we privileged to be able to finally live on our own terms?! that's such a beautiful feeling. Anyway, thank you for always being here for us, we LOVE you!! :') 💖💖💖
Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life no one can come to the father but by me. I am the resurrection and the life he believes in me though he dies he will live your heavenly father love s u the lord Jesus Christ love you ❤️ I'm praying for the salvation of your soul daily
Jesus is Love.
Allah hate.
Thank you Hana, There is none like Loving Jesus. Muhammad is a killer and allah is a dead god of Quresh. Stay away from Islam.
Jeses is not a true god because he too blackmails people to throw disbelievers in hell.
There is no difference between ChristiANiTy n IsLaM 🥲.
@abhijitkalita6938 Obviously you don't know Christianity Islam is from the devil.. Jesuschrist is the Lord
God bless your strength, my precious sister. I pray Jesus will reveal himself to you in a very real way. I pray he will flood with you with his love for you. You are more loved than you could ever imagine ❤️.
Only Jesus can give us Peace and Love.
I’m so sorry you had to go through this,
I’m a Muslim woman and although I could never know what it’s like be in this situation, I have friends that are. Thank you for sharing your story, it helps a lot of people. Sending lots of love your way, I wish you all the best in your journey sister 🥺💚
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comment, it means so much to us to hear people who are part of the Muslim community, but can still have empathy for the experiences that others have gone through 🥺💖
Sending you love right back! 🥰
@@FruitfulDialogue It's our duty to speak up against those things and amplify voices like yours ❤ Thank you again for sharing your story
@@raysting595
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As a Muslim woman if you grow up in the west, you may enjoy freedom because of the law put in place, but in Islamic nations most women are living in hell
@@Talktime.9ja I grew and lived all my life in what you would define as an Islamic nation, I never felt I was less than because of my gender and neither did the women I know. The friends I have going through this were born and raised in the West. But then again depends on which country but mostly on the familial circle and their understanding of religion.
Join the ex muslim group sister .......in that group u will find lots of people like u , share ur experience with other and aware people about it.......Kudos to u
Thank you for sharing this, I will definitely look into it! 💖
I dno't know why ifeel like it's an shaytaan comment la hwla wala kuwata ila biLLAH LAÂLIY LÂddim
I'm ex-Muslim and I can relate to your story a lot. Unfortunately, I'm living in a Islamic fundamentist country. It's still tormenting for me. I wouldn't say I hate or blame islam, but it's very open to any Interpretation. Basically, it can be influenced by anyone. It's definitely hard to live with such parents like yours. The resentment towards parents, is absolutely real and valid. Not everyone understands what is it like to have parents who are overbearing. They always think it's a love and parents knows the best. In reality, nobody knows the best for you. Only you do. Nothing can take your ability of thinking away. But you were unable to speak what did you think. However, you managed to find happiness. It gives me motivation to live the way I want to live.
Thank you so much for your comment, it really means a lot to us that you took the time out of your day to watch our video and to be kind to Noor's experience of the religion, and the trauma that it can cause to people.
You are absolutely correct! Only you know what is good for you, and that is all that should matter.
You are so strong and amazing, and I know that happiness will definitely find its way to you! 🥺🥰
Sending you lots of love! 💖
Islam is so evil it makes parents kill theor choldren if yhey leave islan.
That is so evil
@@marcostation1000 Well, I don't completely agree with you but yeah, some Islamic practices can be obscure. Islamic world is largely influenced by Al-Ghazali's conceptions of islam. Like I said it's up to Interpretations.
@@morbidgirl6808 the problem is not interpretación.
The problem is mohamed moral.standars are horrible.
Tell me were you interpret that havin slaves rsping them or practicing pesofilia by the very men muslims claim is a perfect morañ.standar.
That is the proble.
@@marcostation1000 No, I'm not trying to justify or demoralizing Mohmmad's actions. I'm only stating the fact that Islamic thoughts are largely influenced by Al-Ghazali who was a sunni fundamentalist.
Ex Muslim here sending you lots of love!! Thanks for sharing your truth ❤
Thank you for taking the time out of your day for watching and commenting on my video; the support you guys give me means the absolute world!
I always watch Harris sultan, ghalib kamal, exmuslim Sparatacus, Miss Atheist and came across Amina Sardar's videos now urs. Very sad what you had to go through but you are strong and courageous who came through and can tell ur story to the world. Well done 👏 lady. Thx for sharing your life story with us. Please join them when they are online to share ur experiences and thoughts. Thanks again.
Thank you for mentioning these youtubers because I honestly never heard of these people before, but I will definitely be checking them out! 💖
@@FruitfulDialogue dont forget abdullah sameer(freindly ex muslim), he goes pretty deep, one of my favourite. and ex-muslims of north america, they share a lot of stories.
The best video I saw was a debate between Sultan Harris and Mufti uthman.
@@FruitfulDialogue you know urdu and Hindi
I am also an ex muslim who got saved by Jesus
Thank you for sharing your voice and courage with the world. This video will be an inspiration for so many who find it. Love from a fellow ex-muslim xx
Thank you so much for appreciating this video... it was definitely a hard one to make and generated a lot of anxiety within me, but thank you for your comment. It is people like you who really make me strong, and I appreciate you
Good riddance, we loose bad apples, loose a few and we gain thousands of western women accepting Islam.
As an ex Muslim/seyed , someone who has studied islam , it's pretty cruel and it is was only created to give power to Muhammad.
In modern era its easier to understand that if you are a person of strong morals and wise mind.
@@djbsghss75 power to Muhammad? What power Muhammad got which his wife didn't have?will you plz elaborate.
@@RehanaSaharRajput-on8lr maybe armies? And trading slaves and ect.
@@djbsghss75 armies? trading slaves?okay let me tell you something Muhammad pbuh never hurt anyone from his hand and tongue.he got married to Khadija who was at that time 15 year older than him.she was a business women.and she proposed Muhammad pbuh because she was inspired by him.imagine people believe Islam is oppressive.but women had the right to propose a man.such an open minded person Muhammad was.at that time when women had no respect and people were used to bury female babies alive.islam gave women equal rights.women were nurses,they war warriors.hazrat Ayesha was used to teach the companion.salavry? Islam spread because at that time people were very cruel to slave,Islam gave rights to slave.
@@RehanaSaharRajput-on8lr look I'll leave this reply simply to come edit it later with sources whenever I felt like doing so , now I don't feel like debating.
@@djbsghss75 👍 trust me religion is hard to follow.when Allah said it is easy?.Allah loves us.and he loved most those who come back to him.follow your heart....we all evolve we all wander here and there.we are not angels.....but Allah says I will keep on waiting for you and Allah loves most those who come back.
In Islam not your body is prisoner but after you die according to their wicked idea your soul is even worser than a prisoner.
I’m an ex-Muslim.
Parents tend to teach kids to fear God and not to love him. In this way they grow up with religious traumas and unnecessary fear. Once they are grown and independent they leave Islam. In this way parents just raised future atheists/agnostics etc. But this is their fault. Because they raised us in the proper way
True! appealing to fear is one of the worst ways to promote a religion, because it doesn't make you feel like you have a choice, but more of an obligation or a "duty", which puts very high expectations on a person. No one should be doing something that they truly do not want to do, and people should be more respectful of everyone :)
@@FruitfulDialogue yeah i agree :) ❤️
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@@muhammadqureshi5082 ?
@Greg Kanowitz i do understand that fear Allah SWT means also means love Allah but i’m talking about my experience of growing up in a muslim house hold, i don’t feel like my parents taught me Islam in the right way lol. Once i grew up and i started reading about islam on my own i understood everything
Lots of love from India. May Almighty God bless and protect you Amen.
this is the same reason why I left
I hope you are healing and finding your own path, bc life, in my opinion, is all about learning and discovering!
@@FruitfulDialogue I think about the same, I'm working on myself (:
We love you 🙏🏾
Powerful testimony! Glad you have found your liberation. Thank you for sharing it.
I know it isnt very pleasant to say it here, but trust me, as an indian bollywood buff, i can totally say that you definitely have the Acting Keera(bug) inside you. I think you should totally persue it :) you definitely have the skills. LOVE YOU. You are totally accepted.
It has been awhile, I hope you feel better today Noor.
You deserve to feel loved and accepted - may you find your way to that !
I'm sorry your dad made you feel that way. I'm sorry he brought you to a point of self destruction. I hope you all the best in your journey ahead.
Maybe it won't be enough to just hear this but you are so much so much more than you think❤
Thank you, that honestly means so much to me, especially coming from you. I appreciate the love and I hope you also know that you are an amazing human being, and I'm lucky to know you! :') 😍 -Noor
@@FruitfulDialogue ❤❤❤💓💓
ex muslim gang here, wishing you well. stay strong
It must have been hard for you all your life. I hope you have a great life after this. Sending hugs and love to you.
You are a precious soul my dear. Please read the New Testament and you will find so much love from the true god. Ask Jesus come in to your live and heal you. He will do it, he loves you so much and He is waiting for you. We can not give love, wen we are empty inside. Pray to Jesus Christus my dear. Much love from Germany ❤
Thank you sister,for sharing this amazing testimony. God be with you.
I'm so sorry for your experience :(
Stay strong and safe 💗
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! 🥺 Sending so much love your way 🥰
I dont know whether this will help you are not. I am really sad after hearing your story. Be brave girl. You were supposed to go through a lot. Thats really bad. Be brave sister. You have a very bright future ahead of you. Just be brave 😊
thank you so much for your kind reply, that means a lot to me! 💖
People who act like her parents, follow Islam in a way they want not the way it should be. It’s a choice and joyful when it’s done right. I’m really sorry for everything happened to you. I’m from Saudi Arabia and a lot of people don’t like because I’m not strict as them. I think god every day for my family support.
Thank you for your kind words and support, it really means a lot, and you are right, "there is no compulsion in religion."
Sending you lots of love!
Thank you for this🥺❤️ I can only imagine how hard it was for you to make this video💔
I really hope you’re not better and happier. Sending you all the love ❤️
I MEANT TO SAY “A- LOT” better
The fastest growing religion right now is no religion..... Though I am a Christian, Christianity is not a religion but an encounter, relationship. Jesus is a role model a man any body want to be, who am I not to follows his kind of life styles... Forgive your enemy and pray for them, bless them, if any body ask you for a coat give him cloth as well.
Excellent advice! Thank you for sharing! 💖💖
I’m so sorry my dear sister you had to go through all of this suffering. I understand you and your father was wrong to behave like that.Sometimes as parents we make mistakes because we want the best for our children we think we have to be more strict but there is a limit to that.We people make mistakes we are not perfect but islam is. I pray that Allah guides you to the straight path Ameen and Allah can guide whoever He wills. I am a revert
Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story, Noor. I can already see here in the comments all the people you've been able to affect and I commend you on your courage to be honest with the world. Your story spoke to me; my experience with Catholicism wasn't healthy either and I left the religion as well. I'm so sorry that you experienced the trauma you have. I'm sending my love and empathy to you.
On a secondary note, I appreciate the commentary around how one's experience does not mean to slander or comment on an entire community or religion. Although I haven't had a positive experience with the Catholic Church, I recognize that many people have found community and love from the religion. That's incredibly mature of you to add to it, especially despite all the trauma. Thank you.
Hey Calvin,
Thank YOU so much for the love and support that you have given to us! It honestly means the world 🥰
Thank you for sharing your own personal experience, because having these open, "fruitful" dialogues are what this channel is all about!
Thank you for encouraging me to speak out because it is something that not a lot of people are comfortable with, but is definitely needed to encourage a meaningful, and authentic life!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for just being an overall stellar person, we LOVE you and cannot wait for future fruitful dialogues! 💖
Sending you so much LOVE and LIGHT!! 💕
Ex muslim movement are good for humanity
Thank you for sharing, Lords Jesus Christ loves us all….love you sister…..
I am 25 too, and I understand you so deeply. The fact is that eather this world considers us 2nd or nothing at all
She has left EVIL AND DARKNESS. She's so smart!!
Brave woman. Welcome to peace and love.
Just leave Islam and become human. Follow your morals and brain.
Haha great advice! Thank you for sharing 💖💖
That's exactly what Ted Bundy did, he followed his morals and brain, please stop giving advice, before we get another catastrophe.
Morals are subjectives if you follow your brain, If you follow the only and one God and loving God morals are odjectives
John 14:6
I'm the way, the truth and the life.
No one comes to the Father except through me.
@@aq4356Ted Bundy was mentally ill. We nowadays have laws and stuff. We can teach without religion. Religion was a toll to make people obey and follow certain rules to make a better society. Fear was used. You either do so or you burn. Simple. All these rules was for a better functioning society. Not saying that all of the rules are stupid. But some of them are outdated and don't belong into the modern times.
@@aq4356 Islam itself orders beating wives , killing people and ect , amount of bad stuff it Orders are less than stuff ted bundy did
if ex-muslism would be a religion, it would be the fastest growing religion in the world.
That is why Islam teaches muslims to execute any one that leaves Islam. Muhammad was a brilliant tactician in forming his military ideology in the guise of religion.
My Jesus Christ protect you and show you his love
Without ĺies Islam dies
Islam will still stand despite all your lies.
@@theavglifter Watch Sam Shamoun or Christian Prince
@@Mure-te5pr Nah, they need some lessons on basic manners first. Not to mention how they twist information and keep beating the same dead horse.
Thank you for sharing your story and im sorry for what you had to go through. Im also from a shia’a background and my mother is from a sayed family. It brings me comfort to know that there are people who went through something similar to what i’ve been and still am going through. Im happy that you left the Religion and worked on your mental health! Stay happy!
Thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot to me and I agree, it is nice to know that there are other people in the different corners of the world who may be able to resonate with what I had went through, because it definitely feels less isolating. But again, thank you and I wish you all the best!
Wow amazing in this early age by the grace of you got saved .you are very blessed child of almighty God.God bless you and keep you safe ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hello, Noor. We are a year later now and I hope you are doing fine. What I want to say is that we all struggle with issues from our up bringing. What I found out during the years is that things in life we didn't get from up bringing are our challenges in life and when we manage to overcome them, that is our most succesful personal achievement in life we can and have to be proud of coz we did it on our own.
God loves you, dear Noor. Thank you for sharing, Fruitful Dialogue.
With strict rules, and lots of them, like in islam, the religion makes you feel bad, because nobody can follow all the rules expected from you, just because of the fact that there are so many. And the more rules you have within a religion, the worse it makes a person feel. The focus on adapting to rules and rules, and rules, is wrong because its impossible and it doesnt make you "enough" of anything- always. When religion makes you feel bad, its time to rethink your believes, truly. Do not do it, its your life!!!!!!! You did well, and You are more than enough, believe me :)
God bless you abundantly, sister . Amen.
Omg holly, the part you said you cried trying to learn Arbic and speak it read it, ME TOOOO 😭
So felt like treated as garbage being a muslim daughter.
Feels sorry for you.
Be brave keep spreading your story.
More people should wake up to regressive practices in Islam.
Hey Noor, thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm not good with words, especially with feelings but your story resonated to many people and gave us (me) a wake-up call/hope to do better for ourselves. Cheers!
Thank you so much for your response, and even if you feel like you're not good with words, what you said meant a lot to me. I really appreciate you! 💖💖
Brave lady❤ so much for Islam is peace. WAKE UP PEOPLE.
It is definitely sad that our parents value culture over religion .. we grow up thinking Allah is not merciful and how Islam in general is very strict religion who doesn’t value life..
so many kids after being adults leave Islam just for that reason. I grew up more of cultural and can relate to u. In college I found the true Islam and fell in love with how it def is way life and how culture can be so toxic and give Islam a bad name . I am mother now and trust me I don’t force my kids for hijab or salah becuase one we have to be the example and two before puberty they aren’t held accountable so we have several years to teach them why Islam says what it says and it’s their choice . My girls love Islam because again the way I am showing them which is true way . Now if I turn the table and remind them they going to hell for this and that then Ofcourse they will hate themselves, they will hate their faith and everything related to! I pray for u and pray u see the truth ! Often parents forget they also will be responsible for the children’s trauma!! Praying for ur healing!
Thank you for such a kind reply, it really touched my heart!
Thank you for not shaming me for the experience that I had and for encouraging me to heal.
Thank you for understanding that I am not trying to speak badly about anyone or anything, I am just sharing what my experience was, because people should understand that if they come from a place of hate and fear, it will lead people away from them. Like the quote says, "you attract more bees with honey", and with that same mentality, if you come from a place of love and acceptance, people are more likely to at least listen to what you have to say.
Sending you so much love
It's sad to say but this is a personnal islam not the the whole book because you can find peaceful verses but also hateful ones.
Islam is a mess up that's why you can find on ine hand jihadists and in other hand staight muslims full of kindness but both are muslims even when the second one denied the fact that djihadists are real islam.
Stop playing taqqiya
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Taqiyya at its finest. As an ex muslim I cant stop laughing at this LOL.
Thank you for sharing , power to you.. 🙏 your post, I'm sure will help many. ..
Thank you for sharing ❤️ it’s not easy to carry the burdens that islam places on women. Better days ahead 🌹
It was really hurtful to hear you say that you thought you were not good enough. While I was hearing you say this I said out loud to myself 'you really are good enough'. And I said it to you and to myself. You really are an inspiration to me, thank you for making this honest videos.
Thank you. It gives me strength by listening to your story. Thank you very much :)
Good choice . Fly free , girl ❤😊
Im am so sorry for what you went through, I just feel like hugging you love you!
Thank you so much for your kind words and for the relatable moment that we shared! aha it makes me feel better knowing that I am not the only one who felt this way, and that is exactly why I make content like this... not to promote hate, but to promote shared experiences and healing.
Thank you for your love and support, it means THE WORLD, and we really do appreciate it!
Sending YOU so much love and light
Between the teachings to love, the teachings to hate, which one would you choose?
I am so sorry that you had to go through this stay strong sending love ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for the kind words and support, and sending you love right back!! 💖🥺
@@FruitfulDialogue where do u get your morality from now., think about that. Human who 60 years ago thought homosexuality was a crime. Steady shifting morality. You need objective morality.
I believe in Islam but all the micromanaging by the haram police, by my community, and by other Muslims is driving me crazy. Being a Muslim is a big part of my identity and I love Allah but I struggle so much trying to keep up with all the rules and expectations people have of Muslim women, I wish I was brave enough to just say fuck this shit and start doing what I want regardless if others will shame me or not but it's hard, I don't have a life outside of my family and I don't want to be alone and they would definitely disown me if I took the hijab off or if I started living life how I wanted to
I feel so trapped, I'm so jealous of girls who can do everything I can't their reality is what I dream about
Honestly, my heart goes out to you, I can understand how that must be so traumatizing to feel as if you are trapped and unable to live a true and authentic life. If you are comfortable and able, I would suggest talking to a professional who can help you more than I can, but always remember, you are never alone, and we are always here for everyone who needs love and a sense of community
@@FruitfulDialogue Thank you so much for your kind words
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You are brave!!!! 🤍
You want to live in sin. Muslim warn you rightly, Christians won't. So, you want to listen to the Christians and Satan. Congratulations 😂😂😂
Sorry to hear what you went through even as a young and innocent child at the hands of your father. But in the end your Heavenly Father has you in the palm of His hands and will always walk with you so remember when you go through trials and tribulations and see footsteps in the sand, the footsteps are of your Heavenly Father while He has you shielded in His Arms.
It seems it's good to be a pagan. Worshipping 2 spirits and 1 Jewish man.
Be safe ♡ you made the right decision ♡
Thank you so much for the kind words 🥺💖
You’re gorgeous, you have one the most beautiful face and smile I’ve ever seen! You should try modeling. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you for sharing this with us and making your own decisions because I know what it means to grow up sheltered and not have a social life. It’s hard, to even detach from it because that’s all you know and for you to talk about this on a platform like youtube where so many people make judgements is Amazing!!! Keep doing what you do it inspires so many. Thank you!!!🤩
YOU A RE A VERY VERY....VERY BRAVE GIRL.....👏👏👏
thank you 🙏 💖
I'm so sorry to hear that ik that's not easy to deal with ,sadly some parents don't deserve having kids i hope u're doing well n u'll find the real path urself cuz none should force u to have certain beliefs wish u luck❤❤❤❤❤❤
I left islam 2 years ago. After a few long months of struggling with my identity i finally feel FREE. I can do what i want without the feeling of guilt and the fear of hell although it took a long time to overcome the indoctrination. I hope u feel the same too
@@osmantuce4069 dont believe crazy desert man
@@osmantuce4069 bcus i dont believe the crazy desert man
@@osmantuce4069 i believed bcus i was indoctrinated to believe. When i got older i studied islam more and also became more critical and rational in my thinking which led me to not believe in muhammed and islam.
@@osmantuce4069 i dont believe it bcus its just an ideology and i dont have any faith now
@@osmantuce4069 yh but i cant be bothered
Your vulnerability is precious & valuable & helpful for so many. You’re so loved, especially by the true, living God, Jesus Christ. God bless you, hon❤
May my Lord Jesus Christ give you strength , you're now in his bosom.
Being ex Muslims in Muslims countries is hard
This brought me to tears
🥺 Thank you for watching it though, it means so much to us! 💖
You are so brave. You are an example for so many girls/women who is still struggling out there for their freedom and who they are. I hope for your good health and happiness.
I am an Exmuslim too and i left islam because its scientifically innacurate and Mohammads story in hadith
Congratulations
You have taken the right decision
God Bless
Nice hair cut. I see signs of depression which you need to consider for treatment. In my opinion this is the comulative impact of being shredded between different cultures .. Indian, Pakistani, Shia, Canada, America etc. you lost your identity. You firstly need to focus on yourself and who you are and what you want in life, control the anger inside you... Too strict is bad yet too loose is harmful. Stay strong and relax it will be ok with you and stay in touch with your family. They are the best support.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to send us a comment! we really appreciate the engagement that you guys bring to us!
Honestly, you are probably right, I have suffered a lot of trauma so it would make sense if I was depressed, but this video was me sharing my feelings and how I am now leading a life where I will be making conscious choices that I resonate with, as opposed to before when I was forced by certain people to live a life that I did not understand/agree with.
But thank you for the kind and encouraging words, and I agree, family is very important!
Sending you so much love and light!
My heat goes out to dear Lady,so brave to tell your story.
You are one of the braves Lady who escaped the clutches of Islam and abusive father.
Stay strong and may your God go with you xx
Thank you for taking the time to listen to my story and for the support, it means a lot to us! :)