There’s no anger or blame, just overwhelming sadness at the loss of my Mother. It’s the worst event of my life. All I do is weep 😢 whenever I think of her. I just miss her so very much.
@@carolmusselman8859 I understand. My Mom was 89. I struggle every day w/accepting it. She came to me in a dream; younger + happy so I guess she’s doing okay up there. Still, I miss her terribly here. 😭 I cry all the time.
@@raew5263 I'm really struggling, Im having a hard time accepting her loss, and how my sister got so nasty with me when I was already going through hell
@@carolmusselman8859 Siblings will never know the enormity of our loss or the depth of our sadness. Let them do their own thing but tell her to stay away if she won’t/can’t let you grieve. Meanness is a sign of guilt - imo. I keep to myself a lot these days. It’s hard to be around family who don’t get it. 🥲
I know this video is old but I watched it because I'm dealing with a tremendous amount of grief. It has been paralyzing and crippling. Everything you mentioned is everything I feel. I was set to work with a trauma specialist at Hospice and he was fantastic. Unfortunately, he retired suddenly due to family problems after three visits. I've been a lucky guy for most of my life. My family is very small, which is a problem in my case, but I couldn't have asked for better parents. My mother died after a prolonged and brutal fight with cancer. Since my parents were so great together, they were a socially self-contained unit. In other words, when Mom went, even though Dad is still here, he's not here. My mother was one of the most incredible people I've ever met, she was so fun and laid-back and seeing her slowly disintegrate was beyond rough for me. Her loss was devastated not just on its merit alone but because my sister and I, in most ways, lost both of our parents. Two weeks after my mother's death, out of absolutely nowhere, my wife started getting really ill everyday for about a week. We figured she had some variant of the flu. When she woke up one morning to extremely alarming full-body swelling, I took her to the ER. Not that people who go out of their way to stay healthy achieve the desire results but it sure seems like they give themselves a big boost against the odds of a far premature death. My wife was on the young side of middle age, worked 4-5 times per weeks, ate a clean diet and very little stress. The abnormal swelling caused immediate hospitalization and a ton of tests. It took doctors a few days before they were able to give us concrete info. but the news was terminal and my dear wife died 34 days after I took her to the ER. Her two doctors, both in their 60's, said they'd never seen my wife's diagnosis proceed to death so quickly. It was two weeks after my mother's death that I learned that I'd lose my amazing wife and that our future was gone. I went to law school but I never practiced law because I found a great business opportunity. My partner and I grew the Co. over 16 years and were the only business of our kind in my City. (mid-20's in U.S. City size) Shortly after my mother and wife's deaths, I learned that we'd lost our regulatory fight with the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and that we were one, of two States, that were ostensibly shut down. We were the only State who did not get our receivables legally grandfather. Since this was such a great and still growing business and we collected at a rate of 98.6% over 16 years, I felt comfortable with the majority of my money tied up in receivables. As the one State unable to enforce contract obligations, I lost over 90% of my money when the Co. was cut and, obviously, my comfortable income/salary is gone. This was like another death. I had two other very similar business losses. After I thought the dust had settled and I was in a condition of just knowing I need help, one of my (I guess, former) best friends (who was a stable, well-educated, fun and....believe it or not highly sensitive and deeply reflecting) lost his mind and murdered another good friend. One friend went to the morgue and the other to prison for life. I'm still not able to process how terrible I feel about this tragedy. I need a therapist that can help me and, in my foolish stubbornness, have tried to find one who can understand and help me not only with my personal wipeout but my financial one too. I'm upset with others but I'm not playing the blame card. If anything, I blame myself for everything which makes no sense and has caused a complete lack of care for myself. I hate to make excuses, and usually avoid them like the plague, but I can't get going. I'm locked in the past. My dreams all, somehow, tie into symbolized my great desire to change the past because I'm terrified of such an uncertain future. I know plenty have had problems worse than mine but loss and suffering is purely relative. My life was almost too easy and this resulted in ignorant coping skills. I'd love some feedback. Thank you.
james lachs - That is truly horrific. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I suffer from complicated grief too and I worry that I'll never recover. Your comment is 5 months old. I hope you have found some support and peace. I'm sending you strength 💙
You have touched my heart so deeply. I lost the love of my life in July in an accident. I am not getting better. My heart is not healing. I'm here if you need to talk
It’s been over two years since I lost my awesome 21 year old son. We were more like best friends. My grief is worse today than the day he died. I am slowly becoming disabled by the crushing pain. If I could take away your losses I would but I for one know how you feel.
James ur not on ur own .my friend too long a story I've got a son who spent a lot of time in eight dif prisons ended up with left for dead after rd accident still here I look after him f all crimes I've lost my daughter and other son less than yr half apart this is complicated grief they were never in trouble with the law
I wrote a long complicated heart-wrenching story that became too long, complicated, and heart-wrenching for me to continue... complicate grief reaction... all my life from one loss to many many over my life with no time to recover from one without having another. I'm tired. I'm tired.
Jesus loves you! Allow me to share my best friend's story of true hope. I pray it is a help to you. Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
It’s just really sad when you know the person cared way more than you do for them and you never really showed them how much you cared for them till they gone and you wish there was a way you could let them know you really cared and loved them just as equally… I need help!
I feel every word you said .I dont think i am going to get any help . I dont do anything i should anymore 1 month ago I found a lump in my breast But i have not been to see my doctor . i just dont care about anything anymore I just want to be left alone noone around me understands they actually get mad at me for being depressed So i try to hide it witha smile ... didn't work . I want someone to save me but i know im the only one who can and i DON'T have any strength left to . TODD P BALASSI wrecked on his Ducati Feb 1 2018 ... Todd and i never saved much money we stayed on his uncles property because Todd is one of the best painters in California and he worked for his uncles very successful painting company . I stayed home with my teenage son Who would not go to school unless someone made him get up and go . I remembered talking to talked about saving money I said what would i do if i lost you .he said dont worry my family would help you untell you can make it on your own because they know how much i love you . That answer did not sit good with me , but before long that topic was out of my mind and i continued on as normal. One week after The Passing Of TODD His uncle told me he wanted myself ,My son 16 at the time and Todds Son just turned 18yr .out and that weekend todds family went threw all of are belongings when i was gone mine you and took what they wanted and threw away the rest . Todd and i are hard working people and we did alot of work on that property we were over worked by his uncle we never asked for a dime we paid rent , pg&E water .His uncle treated me like trash and took 9 years of what we gathered and made a home with and threw it away . the worst part of it all is todds exwife who todd did not like at all came 3 hours to help do this . wtf really . and ontop of it all we left within 1 month of Todds death my son went to his dads , that did not go so good . and todds son and i were left on the streets .
Allow me to share my best friend's story of true hope. I pray it is a help to you. Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless! Tribute to Ethan Lakey ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
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There’s no anger or blame, just overwhelming sadness at the loss of my Mother. It’s the worst event of my life. All I do is weep 😢 whenever I think of her. I just miss her so very much.
lost my mother 6 months ago also. i feel exactly the same. Not sure if I need help.
I'm grieving my Mom too, Im having a hard time, she was 88
@@carolmusselman8859 I understand. My Mom was 89. I struggle every day w/accepting it. She came to me in a dream; younger + happy so I guess she’s doing okay up there. Still, I miss her terribly here. 😭 I cry all the time.
@@raew5263 I'm really struggling, Im having a hard time accepting her loss, and how my sister got so nasty with me when I was already going through hell
@@carolmusselman8859 Siblings will never know the enormity of our loss or the depth of our sadness. Let them do their own thing but tell her to stay away if she won’t/can’t let you grieve. Meanness is a sign of guilt - imo. I keep to myself a lot these days. It’s hard to be around family who don’t get it. 🥲
I know this video is old but I watched it because I'm dealing with a tremendous amount of grief. It has been paralyzing and crippling. Everything you mentioned is everything I feel. I was set to work with a trauma specialist at Hospice and he was fantastic. Unfortunately, he retired suddenly due to family problems after three visits. I've been a lucky guy for most of my life. My family is very small, which is a problem in my case, but I couldn't have asked for better parents. My mother died after a prolonged and brutal fight with cancer. Since my parents were so great together, they were a socially self-contained unit. In other words, when Mom went, even though Dad is still here, he's not here. My mother was one of the most incredible people I've ever met, she was so fun and laid-back and seeing her slowly disintegrate was beyond rough for me. Her loss was devastated not just on its merit alone but because my sister and I, in most ways, lost both of our parents. Two weeks after my mother's death, out of absolutely nowhere, my wife started getting really ill everyday for about a week. We figured she had some variant of the flu. When she woke up one morning to extremely alarming full-body swelling, I took her to the ER. Not that people who go out of their way to stay healthy achieve the desire results but it sure seems like they give themselves a big boost against the odds of a far premature death. My wife was on the young side of middle age, worked 4-5 times per weeks, ate a clean diet and very little stress. The abnormal swelling caused immediate hospitalization and a ton of tests. It took doctors a few days before they were able to give us concrete info. but the news was terminal and my dear wife died 34 days after I took her to the ER. Her two doctors, both in their 60's, said they'd never seen my wife's diagnosis proceed to death so quickly. It was two weeks after my mother's death that I learned that I'd lose my amazing wife and that our future was gone. I went to law school but I never practiced law because I found a great business opportunity. My partner and I grew the Co. over 16 years and were the only business of our kind in my City. (mid-20's in U.S. City size) Shortly after my mother and wife's deaths, I learned that we'd lost our regulatory fight with the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and that we were one, of two States, that were ostensibly shut down. We were the only State who did not get our receivables legally grandfather. Since this was such a great and still growing business and we collected at a rate of 98.6% over 16 years, I felt comfortable with the majority of my money tied up in receivables. As the one State unable to enforce contract obligations, I lost over 90% of my money when the Co. was cut and, obviously, my comfortable income/salary is gone. This was like another death. I had two other very similar business losses. After I thought the dust had settled and I was in a condition of just knowing I need help, one of my (I guess, former) best friends (who was a stable, well-educated, fun and....believe it or not highly sensitive and deeply reflecting) lost his mind and murdered another good friend. One friend went to the morgue and the other to prison for life. I'm still not able to process how terrible I feel about this tragedy. I need a therapist that can help me and, in my foolish stubbornness, have tried to find one who can understand and help me not only with my personal wipeout but my financial one too. I'm upset with others but I'm not playing the blame card. If anything, I blame myself for everything which makes no sense and has caused a complete lack of care for myself. I hate to make excuses, and usually avoid them like the plague, but I can't get going. I'm locked in the past. My dreams all, somehow, tie into symbolized my great desire to change the past because I'm terrified of such an uncertain future. I know plenty have had problems worse than mine but loss and suffering is purely relative. My life was almost too easy and this resulted in ignorant coping skills. I'd love some feedback. Thank you.
james lachs - That is truly horrific. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I suffer from complicated grief too and I worry that I'll never recover. Your comment is 5 months old. I hope you have found some support and peace. I'm sending you strength 💙
You have touched my heart so deeply. I lost the love of my life in July in an accident. I am not getting better. My heart is not healing. I'm here if you need to talk
It’s been over two years since I lost my awesome 21 year old son. We were more like best friends. My grief is worse today than the day he died. I am slowly becoming disabled by the crushing pain. If I could take away your losses I would but I for one know how you feel.
James ur not on ur own .my friend too long a story I've got a son who spent a lot of time in eight dif prisons ended up with left for dead after rd accident still here I look after him f all crimes I've lost my daughter and other son less than yr half apart this is complicated grief they were never in trouble with the law
@@jamiecadenhead3307 my angel u will never feel any better
I wrote a long complicated heart-wrenching story that became too long, complicated, and heart-wrenching for me to continue... complicate grief reaction... all my life from one loss to many many over my life with no time to recover from one without having another. I'm tired. I'm tired.
Jesus loves you! Allow me to share my best friend's story of true hope. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Can we normalise complicated grief not just occurring when a loved one dies.
Thanks for bringing so much light to the subject of grief. That is always my goal too. Moving forward not on xo
It’s just really sad when you know the person cared way more than you do for them and you never really showed them how much you cared for them till they gone and you wish there was a way you could let them know you really cared and loved them just as equally…
I need help!
Thank you for the info, but the background music is distracting, unnecessary and irritating.
Would love to listen to you but music way to loud and distracting.....
My father passed away 11 years ago… my mother cannot look at happy memories till date😢
I definitely have complicated grief
Great insights!
Can this type of grief affect someone's health. Can it cause their personality to be the opposite of what they was like before?
I feel every word you said .I dont think i am going to get any help . I dont do anything i should anymore 1 month ago I found a lump in my breast But i have not been to see my doctor . i just dont care about anything anymore I just want to be left alone noone around me understands they actually get mad at me for being depressed So i try to hide it witha smile ... didn't work . I want someone to save me but i know im the only one who can and i DON'T have any strength left to . TODD P BALASSI wrecked on his Ducati Feb 1 2018 ... Todd and i never saved much money we stayed on his uncles property because Todd is one of the best painters in California and he worked for his uncles very successful painting company . I stayed home with my teenage son Who would not go to school unless someone made him get up and go . I remembered talking to talked about saving money I said what would i do if i lost you .he said dont worry my family would help you untell you can make it on your own because they know how much i love you . That answer did not sit good with me , but before long that topic was out of my mind and i continued on as normal. One week after The Passing Of TODD His uncle told me he wanted myself ,My son 16 at the time and Todds Son just turned 18yr .out and that weekend todds family went threw all of are belongings when i was gone mine you and took what they wanted and threw away the rest . Todd and i are hard working people and we did alot of work on that property we were over worked by his uncle we never asked for a dime we paid rent , pg&E water .His uncle treated me like trash and took 9 years of what we gathered and made a home with and threw it away . the worst part of it all is todds exwife who todd did not like at all came 3 hours to help do this . wtf really . and ontop of it all we left within 1 month of Todds death my son went to his dads , that did not go so good . and todds son and i were left on the streets .
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Allow me to share my best friend's story of true hope. I pray it is a help to you.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Thirteen years.