I disagree with you Oros bro, I'm not disputing the "phenomenal" people you have dated. However, you cannot be best of buddies after that. It will make your partner feel same type of way. She will start comparing how you get a long with them and and the side they bring out of you that maybe they can't. I'm not saying hate them, but value the current relationship way more. Not saying you don't, as phenomenal as they were. You saw for not too be together anymore, for a reason. Love you guys!
True, it’s all about boundaries and respect. It’s ok to be civil with your exes but they can not count as “phenomenal people “ in your current life with a new partner 💁🏽♀️. It should be clear where they stand.
Being friends with an ex or a person you were busy with "a fun time" person while with a new partner isn't good at all. It ends up in a lot of heartbreak. Someone is going to get hurt in this whole situation. 1. Something might happen because things do happen. 2. Girls get insecure and if they feel threaten in anyway hai mntanam you will get dribbled. 3. Once you guys fight who do you think will make them feel better. Ex's should stah in the past and you must focus on present situations and your future
Ayyy mina on my side i wil never tell my bf kutsi my ex'es are smArt and beautiful...i feel like its wrong is some kinda way... Oros unekuyitjela nyanaaaa But i love you guys
I'm here for Bianca's facial expressions😂😂😂😂😂😂... also Aarya looks so much like her mom❤... Personally I feel that there is no need to be in contact with your ex, let alone have them be part of your life. I don't care how much you guys are over each other, I would never be ok with it. Can we have a discussion on BABY MAMAs as a follow up to this topic hle because ay shem they can shake relationships those ones😂😂
Bianca is so matured and realistic with her reasoning😍 Ex should not be besties, yes there's no beef but the fact that you know the person was the same way you are with your partner at some point or perhaps the person knows your partner better than you do. It has nothing to do with insecurities, period!
Kokuqala ndibukele lyt bendingafun pazanyiswa bendibambe amazinyo 4moment kule topic 🤔 jonga guys aniqhelwa va even mna dnt hav prblm nge Exes nakancinci... nibancinci but ni matured ngeyona ndlela ndifunde lukulu ndimndala leeee kuni u both amazing love love love u guys with ur beautiful baby gil..ngaske ndinivallele etotini ningatshintshi ngehlobo eningalo God protect dem 🙌
i also believe they should stay in the past, when you get in a new relationship, you are starting on a clean slate, no baggage form the past. Because if you speak with someone constantly you will unconsciously bring their name up in a conversation with your partner. To be honest, no one would ever like that, it just create a sense of comparison and raises some questions that create havoc between yall. Even though it was a pure mistake mentioning them.
Bianca's expressions 😄😅 deep topic! When Oros said his exes are smart, phenomenal etc, the look on Bianca's face bakithi 🤭 Oros, khuzeka! I'd say, it depends how the relationship ended, some exes you automatically have a good friendship with, whilst others, you just wish they could be shipped off to the next planet!!! Luhle loluthando ❤ May God continue to bless your union guys, you are amazing, thank you so much & CONGRATS on 10 episodes 💃🏽🙌🏽🥳 We learn a lot from you guys, much love 🤗🥰
Im so inspired with you guys young, black and so inlove of which lots of young black love got some much of fights and you guys are soo good looking together keep up with your good loving 😍😍❤️❤️❤️
I have 2 exes in my whole life, I am 37 yrs and being in a current relationship for 20 yrs. We got married 2009. We have 3 beautiful kids and 1 stepson who's mom is no more. The boy is part of this family and we give him support and love he needs though he's staying with his maternal family. Exes should move on with their lives and so should we. For me it's been a very long time and I don't know what's happening with their lives.
Yhooooo guys 😊 you are just a definition of " love doesn't have to be perfect, it only needs to be real". I love the fact that you do not come here to give us a picture perfect, many times one's point is different from the other but you do everything with love and maturity. Thank you for all your beneficial topics, I love you.
Exs should stay exs imagine your partner still being in contact with their exs No that's bad It's toxic in so many ways they are called exs for s reason
I have this motto to exs “if you fail to give me the relationship that I want, you’re not getting a friendship from me”_pha kude nge Ex, also you need to respect your current relationship, exs complicates things their bring a lot of insecurities to the relationship especially if you’re entertaining them.
Well as for me I personally you don’t have to have beef with your ex y’all can have a normal relationship the “hey and Hi “ that’s it .you don’t have to be buddies
For me, ex's are a no no! My rule is, I break up with you, I don't know you, whether it was a good or bad break up once I walk out of your life, don't talk to me, don't look back nje just move on with your life.
This is great guys!! Y’all are amazing ❤️If you have an ex in your life then fine, kodwa mna as a person in the relationship mustn’t feel insecure. And if y’all talk everyday and uyamcoma oko then woah hayike hayike Haibo..... ncoma mna ndodwa!
❤️🔥🔥🔥I also believe being friends with your ex is not problem... You and your partner just need to trust each other and be transparent with each other👌👌
The way you guys cover the things that needs to be heard 😍 I learn alot from yall. I know that every Saturday I have a date with you guys. Thaaaaaaaaaank you so much❤🌹
OMG!!! you are guys you are just a match made in heaven for real ,you both lucky to be in each other's lives..I love the fact that you can talk about everything freely and to me it shows maturity in you and you know and understand each other very well ..everything you do to me it's my idea of a perfect relationship 😘😘😘may the love you have for each other never dim❤
Bianca was serving points in this episode ❤🔥🔥🤞 Personally i have no beef with my exes but they have no part in my life. Exes can stay only if they respect our relationship and they know exactly where they stand, and if my partner is transparent with everything that relates to the ex (like Bianca said if they make a move you must tell me)..If not then Let them goooo! And congrats on your 10th episode 🥂🥂💃💃🍾🍾 let's go for 20
Y'all make love look so easy. Love how transparent you are and actually covering everything that needs to be heard. It's not easy to have those uncomfortable difficult conversations with your partner but they should happen. Keep it up guy💞💞
I love y'all 🥰🥰🥰🥰But I'm personally against ex's in our lives, they should stay in the past. Your ex should stay away from you and your family and it's got nothing to do with beef or insecurities but it's making your partner comfortable. What's your take on keeping ex's staff, texts, pictures on your social media,when you've moved on with someone else????????????
That is a very good question hey... The reason we broke up determines if I will delete the pics or not...like if it was a healthy break up where we just drifted apart or something like that then i ll keep your pics. If you cheated though...
@@motsampendulo loud and clear but what if your woman complains about it, said She doesn't like seeing y'all texts,pictures etc because you both started on a clean slate?? What do you do then??
@@_nomcebo_s lol Icey Queen...I wont delete my memories... Just like I wont have a future gf have me delete my current's pics from my IG. Imagine I delete the pics of someone i only drifted apart with for someone who will later shred my heart to pieces...ay
Your videos are somehow therapeutic 😊❤❤😊 on this ex thing being your i feel like he/she can be a friend but he/she must not be the dominant one in your faces because you wouldn't know how the other partner feels about, which is where respecting your partner comes in.
Oros uyabeda nje!!!! We are not out here bringing exs into our lives. People are cruel and jealous out here bazofuna ukumosha nje seeing you so happy!!!
There is nothing wrong with being friends with your ex. I personally am friends with all my ex's. It's a matter of understanding each other's positions. We've broken up but if you need me I'm here for you. I remember when I helped an ex through their matric year. It's all about maturity and understanding ukuthi we're never getting back together.
I love you guys...Hoping my husband joins you guys soon..I love the kind of relationship you have❤❤❤❤continue to empower us young married coulple..ALL THE LOVE FROM FREE STATE
Firstly love you guys to bits and thanks for great content ❤️❤️. I’m against ex’s honestly they will always cause issues in a relationship want them to be happy where they are but they should stay where they are really...
Thank you guys for creating the channel ❤️🙂🙃 it really helped understanding you guys and inspired me a lot... During this LockDown it helped pull me out of depression 😢👏🙌 please never take what you lightly
I personally think exes should stay in the past I. Tried being friends with my ex but once the relationship ends it should end Friends for ini Oros haibo 😂😂did you see Biancas facial expressions when you were talking about ur exes
All love from Botswana Yalls are glowing shem! But anyway, no ex shall be present in my life, i dont have anything against them we can greet in malls but no communication via any platform. My current needs my undivided attention hleng!
Bianca you took it home! Oros Broh I hear you and it's cool if you can pull it off but as a dude myself i keep the distance and be neutral. The main reason is the intoxication and not knowing if the past is truly gone.
I'm against having ex's in our lives, they are ex's and they should stay in the past. No beef or whatsoever just me being me
Oros your girl dims her light for you a lot uyakunaka lokho?she will help you self actualize into a great man. i hope you return the favor twana
I noticed this too... It's not cool, because it seems like that energy is not reciprocated kuBianca
I picked that up also
I think on this episode Bianca was on point and realistic in everything way hey. She’s so much matured I just love her more ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
Bianca has made very valid points throughout the entire conversation!!
Keeping your ex in the past also shows how much respect you have for your relationship.....
On point 👌
I disagree with you Oros bro, I'm not disputing the "phenomenal" people you have dated. However, you cannot be best of buddies after that. It will make your partner feel same type of way. She will start comparing how you get a long with them and and the side they bring out of you that maybe they can't. I'm not saying hate them, but value the current relationship way more. Not saying you don't, as phenomenal as they were. You saw for not too be together anymore, for a reason. Love you guys!
Totally agree.. couldn't have said it better.
Well said 👌👌
I agree with Oros , cause I am living what he is saying , and if you have never lived it you wouldnt understand ,
Well said
True, it’s all about boundaries and respect. It’s ok to be civil with your exes but they can not count as “phenomenal people “ in your current life with a new partner 💁🏽♀️. It should be clear where they stand.
Bianca Bianca Bianca Bianca!!!😌 Sommer add relationship guru to your bio because wow😉🥂
😂😂😭😭😭 "i beautiful ingenaphi ebunganini"
Bianca's facial expressions kill me😭😭 but I agree with her, Oros said that "I date phenomenal people" with a bit too much enthusiasm.
Bianca your facial expression when he said "my exes r beautiful smart etc" like ngamandla I was like pleeeeeeaaase oros 😏😏😏
I noticed as well 😂
Being friends with an ex or a person you were busy with "a fun time" person while with a new partner isn't good at all.
It ends up in a lot of heartbreak.
Someone is going to get hurt in this whole situation.
1. Something might happen because things do happen.
2. Girls get insecure and if they feel threaten in anyway hai mntanam you will get dribbled.
3. Once you guys fight who do you think will make them feel better.
Ex's should stah in the past and you must focus on present situations and your future
The lady's got soo much love for you Oros.
Bianca you are a strong and phenomenal woman.
Congrats on your 10 episodes 🎉🎊🎉This is very informative and beautiful 💕🎈
The advises you guys give🤗🤗I love💙you guys Build us not Break us🌷in you guys I see something more beautiful than the Sky🌷
I love you guys 🥰❤️ EXs should be strangers to ones life more especially if you are now committed to somebody else
“I beautiful ingenaphi”😂😂😂😂😂
The way I get so excited every time to say Black love unplugged with you guys 🤸🏽♀️🤸🏽♀️
Hay hay hay u Oros the way he describe his exs hay Sana its 2much. B's facial expression 😝😝😄
Ayyy mina on my side i wil never tell my bf kutsi my ex'es are smArt and beautiful...i feel like its wrong is some kinda way...
Oros unekuyitjela nyanaaaa
But i love you guys
You guys are the total mood ❤️❤️❤️😍
I'm here for Bianca's facial expressions😂😂😂😂😂😂... also Aarya looks so much like her mom❤...
Personally I feel that there is no need to be in contact with your ex, let alone have them be part of your life. I don't care how much you guys are over each other, I would never be ok with it.
Can we have a discussion on BABY MAMAs as a follow up to this topic hle because ay shem they can shake relationships those ones😂😂
Baby mamas should stay in their lane la bo 🤣🤣🤣 always plotting
A lot.. U see someone calling at midnyt saying come th child is sick only to find tht the child hs js a minor flue. Mx
Bianca is so matured and realistic with her reasoning😍 Ex should not be besties, yes there's no beef but the fact that you know the person was the same way you are with your partner at some point or perhaps the person knows your partner better than you do. It has nothing to do with insecurities, period!
Kokuqala ndibukele lyt bendingafun pazanyiswa bendibambe amazinyo 4moment kule topic 🤔 jonga guys aniqhelwa va even mna dnt hav prblm nge Exes nakancinci... nibancinci but ni matured ngeyona ndlela ndifunde lukulu ndimndala leeee kuni u both amazing love love love u guys with ur beautiful baby gil..ngaske ndinivallele etotini ningatshintshi ngehlobo eningalo God protect dem 🙌
i also believe they should stay in the past, when you get in a new relationship, you are starting on a clean slate, no baggage form the past. Because if you speak with someone constantly you will unconsciously bring their name up in a conversation with your partner. To be honest, no one would ever like that, it just create a sense of comparison and raises some questions that create havoc between yall. Even though it was a pure mistake mentioning them.
Bianca you made very valid points in this topic🥰🥰I stand with you😘😘
" i still want them to be happy wherever they are"💣💣💣
Looking forward to more episodes,here’s to celebrating 10 of them🥂🥂🥂
Yall are literally the best,I swear you guys saved RUclips for me!!my favourite RUclips channel❤
It was nice being here guys. You seem so relaxed. I love this. You're such an inspiration.
Bianca's expressions 😄😅 deep topic! When Oros said his exes are smart, phenomenal etc, the look on Bianca's face bakithi 🤭 Oros, khuzeka! I'd say, it depends how the relationship ended, some exes you automatically have a good friendship with, whilst others, you just wish they could be shipped off to the next planet!!! Luhle loluthando ❤ May God continue to bless your union guys, you are amazing, thank you so much & CONGRATS on 10 episodes 💃🏽🙌🏽🥳 We learn a lot from you guys, much love 🤗🥰
Im so inspired with you guys young, black and so inlove of which lots of young black love got some much of fights and you guys are soo good looking together keep up with your good loving 😍😍❤️❤️❤️
This episode has won me over. New subbie✔
Indeed love always win 😩💕 Bianca and Oros y’all are amazing ! Andisa baweli kuba cuffed like Bianca 😹💕
I love today’s topic 🥰🥰it’s very interesting
I'm so in love with this couple and the things they talk about 😍😭🔥.
I have 2 exes in my whole life, I am 37 yrs and being in a current relationship for 20 yrs. We got married 2009. We have 3 beautiful kids and 1 stepson who's mom is no more. The boy is part of this family and we give him support and love he needs though he's staying with his maternal family.
Exes should move on with their lives and so should we. For me it's been a very long time and I don't know what's happening with their lives.
Very interesting topic guys. Thank you for sharing this with us we love you.
Yhooooo guys 😊 you are just a definition of " love doesn't have to be perfect, it only needs to be real". I love the fact that you do not come here to give us a picture perfect, many times one's point is different from the other but you do everything with love and maturity. Thank you for all your beneficial topics, I love you.
Cutest rents😍 I love your content guys keep posting we love to see it...cutest baby there❤❤
Exs should stay exs imagine your partner still being in contact with their exs No that's bad
It's toxic in so many ways they are called exs for s reason
Every time when I start to watch I'll see you guys having snacks then I'll pause, go fix myself something 😂 😂 love you guys so much❤️❤️
“What’s up guys it’s your boy Oros Mampofu ...... never gets old 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰 love you guys ❤️
I love the way you speak freely and open minded in your relationship....
Stay blessed my beautiful couple, very informative channel, I really appreciate you guys ❤❤❤never missed an episode 😚can't wait for the IG Live💃💃
I have this motto to exs “if you fail to give me the relationship that I want, you’re not getting a friendship from me”_pha kude nge Ex, also you need to respect your current relationship, exs complicates things their bring a lot of insecurities to the relationship especially if you’re entertaining them.
You have quite a valid point
This Love Motivates Me❤I Love The Fact That You Are Best Friend Lovers😊You Do Alot Of Crazy Things Together 😍😚Team BLACK LOVE UNPLUGGED 🙌
🤣🤣🤣🤣I beautiful ingenaphi..... 😂😂😂😂In love with Bianca
😂 I love that first segment of reading comments from previous episode.
You guys should make it a thing for every episode from now on.
You guys are super amazing😂
Each video has a content that says "coms back again"
🤗🤗🤩❤Love from Cape town
I love you guys man🤗😂😂😂Bianca is so cute😍😍😍
You guys have such beautiful minds, it’s thrilling to watch and listen to your conversations. You’re both SO matured!!!!!!!!!!
Love y'all 😍😍❤️
Well as for me I personally you don’t have to have beef with your ex y’all can have a normal relationship the “hey and Hi “ that’s it .you don’t have to be buddies
For me, ex's are a no no! My rule is, I break up with you, I don't know you, whether it was a good or bad break up once I walk out of your life, don't talk to me, don't look back nje just move on with your life.
You guys are amazing... I loved it♥️♥️
B at 17:30 😂😂😂😂😂 Yah Oros ingenaphi iBeautiful? Sakuthandi B😂❤️❤️❤️.
This is great guys!! Y’all are amazing ❤️If you have an ex in your life then fine, kodwa mna as a person in the relationship mustn’t feel insecure. And if y’all talk everyday and uyamcoma oko then woah hayike hayike Haibo..... ncoma mna ndodwa!
❤️🔥🔥🔥I also believe being friends with your ex is not problem... You and your partner just need to trust each other and be transparent with each other👌👌
I love u guys ,you are lively n real but hayi hayi Oros no more being frnds with yo exes😂😂😂
❤️❤️
The way you guys cover the things that needs to be heard 😍
I learn alot from yall. I know that every Saturday I have a date with you guys. Thaaaaaaaaaank you so much❤🌹
OMG!!! you are guys you are just a match made in heaven for real ,you both lucky to be in each other's lives..I love the fact that you can talk about everything freely and to me it shows maturity in you and you know and understand each other very well ..everything you do to me it's my idea of a perfect relationship 😘😘😘may the love you have for each other never dim❤
My best couple...I wish you guys all the best in Life...💕I love you guys💕
Uzoba strong kuse Earth apha mchanna😂😂😂.
I’ve never seen anything so pure and natural as your relationship guys🥺😊❤️
Bianca was serving points in this episode ❤🔥🔥🤞
Personally i have no beef with my exes but they have no part in my life. Exes can stay only if they respect our relationship and they know exactly where they stand, and if my partner is transparent with everything that relates to the ex (like Bianca said if they make a move you must tell me)..If not then Let them goooo!
And congrats on your 10th episode 🥂🥂💃💃🍾🍾 let's go for 20
I don't know maybe it's just me, but episode after episode I feel like I see that Bianca loves Oros more than Oros loves her.
I don't think so I just think they communicate love in different ways 🤷♀️
Bianca shows the mature woman side of love a d Oros the confused side of love
Also we as women are more expressive
Totally agree with you Busi
Love always wins indeed❗❤
I stand with Bianca on this topic
Y'all make love look so easy. Love how transparent you are and actually covering everything that needs to be heard. It's not easy to have those uncomfortable difficult conversations with your partner but they should happen.
Keep it up guy💞💞
Yey my Saturday's are never the same thank you guy's for originality and authenticity I genuinely love you guy's so much 😘
I love y'all 🥰🥰🥰🥰But I'm personally against ex's in our lives, they should stay in the past. Your ex should stay away from you and your family and it's got nothing to do with beef or insecurities but it's making your partner comfortable.
What's your take on keeping ex's staff, texts, pictures on your social media,when you've moved on with someone else????????????
That is a very good question hey... The reason we broke up determines if I will delete the pics or not...like if it was a healthy break up where we just drifted apart or something like that then i ll keep your pics. If you cheated though...
@@motsampendulo loud and clear but what if your woman complains about it, said She doesn't like seeing y'all texts,pictures etc because you both started on a clean slate?? What do you do then??
@@_nomcebo_s lol Icey Queen...I wont delete my memories... Just like I wont have a future gf have me delete my current's pics from my IG. Imagine I delete the pics of someone i only drifted apart with for someone who will later shred my heart to pieces...ay
@@motsampendulo lol that's really not fair,
Your videos are somehow therapeutic 😊❤❤😊
on this ex thing being your i feel like he/she can be a friend but he/she must not be the dominant one in your faces because you wouldn't know how the other partner feels about, which is where respecting your partner comes in.
Oros so much compliments to the exs, I understand y Biaca says it already puts so many thought 🤨I love you guys still
Oros uyabeda nje!!!! We are not out here bringing exs into our lives. People are cruel and jealous out here bazofuna ukumosha nje seeing you so happy!!!
There is nothing wrong with being friends with your ex. I personally am friends with all my ex's. It's a matter of understanding each other's positions. We've broken up but if you need me I'm here for you. I remember when I helped an ex through their matric year. It's all about maturity and understanding ukuthi we're never getting back together.
Nice one guys. All the way BlackLove Unplugg
You're good at this thing guys....
38:43 - ... can getting out of toxic relationships be the next topic🙌😩
"Go fuck up her life" Bianca😂😂 love you guys
😂😍😍😍 Find yourself a partner that looks at you like Bianca!
😅😅😅😅i love Bianca
This one was one of a topic, loved it ❤
I always look forward to your intro😂. You guys are soooo transparent and original🙌 Qhubekani bafethu, I'm here for it❤️
I love you guys...Hoping my husband joins you guys soon..I love the kind of relationship you have❤❤❤❤continue to empower us young married coulple..ALL THE LOVE FROM FREE STATE
Your love is real ...♥️all the way from 🇸🇿
😹😹😹as for iBeautiful ingenaphi ebunganin😹😹i loved that
Love you guys so much pray that you grow old together ❤😘
I love you guys so much. I don't wanna miss any of your content 💕
You guys make me happy haibo 😂 and very insightful.. i am learning and i also ask myself the same questions you guys ask yourself 🤔🧐🥳
Who else likes before watching?🙌🙌🙌🙌
This was such a great video
Firstly love you guys to bits and thanks for great content ❤️❤️. I’m against ex’s honestly they will always cause issues in a relationship want them to be happy where they are but they should stay where they are really...
Thank you guys for creating the channel ❤️🙂🙃 it really helped understanding you guys and inspired me a lot... During this LockDown it helped pull me out of depression 😢👏🙌 please never take what you lightly
Oh wow😭thank you so much
I personally think exes should stay in the past I. Tried being friends with my ex but once the relationship ends it should end
Friends for ini
Oros haibo 😂😂did you see Biancas facial expressions when you were talking about ur exes
Yeah Bianca that’s good idea live
I love y'all yazi .i don't miss any episode .and i learn so much from you guys .Big ups to yous Mama no Tata ka Aarya😍😍😍👑❤
Hey guys I love you so much...may the lord bless your lil family 🙏😘
I freaking love you guys! I am in the first few minutes...
Exactly. That's what people do. They project their insecurities on you. Person be strict about lying or cheating then yena self does it.. Nxn
Bianca is wise beyond her years indeed.💗
All love from Botswana
Yalls are glowing shem!
But anyway, no ex shall be present in my life, i dont have anything against them we can greet in malls but no communication via any platform. My current needs my undivided attention hleng!
Bianca you took it home! Oros Broh I hear you and it's cool if you can pull it off but as a dude myself i keep the distance and be neutral. The main reason is the intoxication and not knowing if the past is truly gone.
I love love love you guys