Am sorry Oros I just can’t imagine dating someone whose always talking about being hurt by there ex Imagine if Bianca was the one doing that .that hurts especially if u love the person .its ok to express your feeling just don’t do it everytime. Don’t let your past define you. Let that pain teach you how it will feel on someone or on Bianca if u decide to hurt her feelings. Now you know how it feels Learn to love again❤️
My problem with an open relationship is "soul ties", the thought of "entanglement" of my soul with random people doesn't sit well with me. I'm loving the topic though, yall are amazing 👏.
I don't believe in soul ties because they is no evidence whatsoever of this theory because if a person dies that means you also must die because your souls are tied? Behavioral patterns are not sexually transmitted.I think it's just a doctrine which some churches use to stop people from sleeping around.
I like how honest Oros is when it comes to what he believes in. Anyway I love you guys 😘💖 keep on serving us wisdom when it comes to relationships💃♥️💞❣️
I agree with oros we need to allow men talk about their emotions and everything, creating a positive environment for them to open up without calling them too insensitive
Great topic guys, i must truly say Queen B i love your wisdom. I for one believe in a monogamous relationship because as a christian i believe God blessed Adam and Even and ordained them husband and wife suitable for the marriage ministry. God never said a man shall live his mother and father and be clinged to his "wives" nooo, so from a christianity side of view, a mono relationship or marriage is what is honourable before the eyes of God. Secondly, love is jealous guys, even if we opt for an open relationship, i personally think honestly its a torture to ourselves and our feelings.
All these types of relationships Monogamy, Open Relationship, Polygamy, Polyandry CAN work with transparency. Society (Tradition, Culture) has & still playing a huge role and because the majority accepts and the minority is declined. True, vulnerability is important to both male and female. I love that you acknowledge that males need to be more of. We need to really understand what is intercourse, what becomes beyond intercourse? I love what @Moitshepi said..."soul ties"...MAAN! I also recommend the series of Relationship Goals: Reloaded from Pastor Michael Todd of Transformation Church, the 19 July 2020 recording.
I used to hate how oros will talk about his pain which Made me see that he treasure less his relationship with our girl B. But after wat you said today I totally understand you bro.
I really appreciate all your teachings you taught us guys, ever since I started watching your videos I've been open minded in so many things and I've learnt so much keep up on what you doing, we're so blessed to have you. Love you so much 😍😍😍and Bianca I love you you're so calm & cool 😚
Can't wait for next week's episode 😂❤ coz I specialize in going through my partners phone its a must bethuna I need to know where I stand at all times I can't always rely on what he says coz what if I'm being played
You’re welcome guys✨✨, I also enjoyed this episode it even felt like it was too short. Wishing you all the best guys, and l hope you grow to edify each even more and to continue making each other happy ✨✨✨and also grow to experience even more harmony in your relationship 💫💫💫
Greetings from SD. The topics you guys are discussing are so important and it's refreshing to have a couple openly discuss such; most people in the limelight are so used to being pretentious about their opinions, always watching what they say. I love what Bianca said about fulfillment, I think it's good to share interests as a couple but also have ones that are individual. Relationships are not easy, they require a lot from a person everyday and most don't make it because people stop trying after a few years together, the assumption is "oh he knows that I love him". All in all, thank you for helping us continue to put in effort. Your topic on love languages hit home for me in so many ways. Do continue being awesome.
If partners are in agreement.....cool. The problem is cheating, lies & toying with the other people s feelings..........& oh my Gawd people have lost their lives in that game. I also think that if a person does things with respect, he does not have to feel controlled. The minute it feels like prison something is wrong.... & it might mean both partners have to talk or set each other free...
So much sense and truth , we relate to such topics and it's important we talk about them ( ...and OROS is right hahaha we men should Express moree) but without taking anything away knowledge is key and now we know !!
Love love love how you guys disagree and then finally end up coming to an understanding of each other’s different views without offending each other keep it up!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
So looking forward to the next episode...🙂 None of what yourl have been sharing with us goes unnoticed... you guys are such a greatest inspiration.. May God bless you!..❤.. ndiyanithanda..
Guys I really love and appreciate you. This thing you doing is really restoring hope in us about true love out there.... But ey kunzima guys, because I for one nje I'm single and not looking forward to being heartbroken again. I think I choose to guard myself more ngoku, I won't lie sometimes I think about getting or rather finding a guy that might love me the way I know I deserve to be loved but at the same time it's difficult to put myself out there in search of something I've never had. To me it's like I'll be heartbroken all over again. Truly am happy for people who have found love, but can't say Im looking forward to being in a relationship again shame no... Otherwise, much love for you guys, you a very beautiful family and what you doing is really inspiring and pretty much educational in a sense❤️
I think we should just give Oros a chance and allow him a space to heal, people are different and deal with heartbreaks differently. And on the polygamous aspect I believe that men should let grow in them that the same way they get hurt when they are cheated on is the same pain we feel when we are cheated on
The wisdom in you B is on another level, Oros i love your sense of humor. Lol I know abantu abathandanayo say that what's mine is yours but my privacy is mine alone no one should be able to access it. Maybe your partner having spare keys isn't that extreme and calling family members that they're close to like cousins but not uncles and aunties lol, boundaries guys boundaries.
I think it's only fair from the start if people agree that they gonna have open relationship, imagine being in relationship with someone for year's and she/he decides that now i want an open relationship
Mhmm I agree with Bianca. We all have scars and pains from the past but we heal and we don't allow it to limit how much we love. Phela now its starting to feel like u have not healed Oros and you keep on reminding B on camera that you dont love her fully coz you have been hurt before🤷♂️🤷♂️ But nevertheless I love this channel and the openness❤❤
I personally think everyone who has had their hearts broken before do subconsciously allow their experiences change or somehow limit how they love and choose to "relationship" going forward but we just don't mention/reference it as much as Oros does. I mean if those experiences don't change our perspectives then that means we haven't learnt anything from them. Also I think Oros keeps on bringing up his past experiences so that we, including Bianca, can understand where he is coming from. I doubt yinto ahleli ethetha ngayo.
Oros seems to seek or actively researching open relationships for fulfilment or 'growth'. Sounds like he is thinking ahead concerning this committed relationship. I appreciate your honesty to self. Are you on a 'Jada like journey' Oros? But he also needs to accept that his lady should be allowed to do the same. Male privileges should be abolished. I honestly thought Biaca was open to polygamy and an open relationship, however she seems content with her current setup but open to having 'fun' once in a while and cautiously. Fun can cause harm unknowingly particularly when acted upon selfishly. Thank you for the great discussion and content.
Personally I think when it come to open relationships, why does it seem like we are justifying cheating in our society becz sometimes in those open relationships some partners are not entirely honest about who they are having fun with...the other partner might know that they are having fun but not know with who. Open relationships all together patronized the very significance or rather magnitude of marriage. Why do you marry if u still wana have fun outside your wife...(or wives) The is a reason why polygamy looks honourable or respectful, its becz you all become one unit... We are African and spiritual ppl, you cannot share intimacy with any Tom, dick and harry and come back nd think that your marriage will be honourable.
What are you guys' views on polyamory? Where more than two people are in a relationship? I watched an episode on RTT where this throuple (three people in a relationship) came and it was 2 women and one man. It's like all three of them are in a relationship it's not the man in a relationship with 2 women, even the women are in a relationship of their own.
I basically feel lyk if a relationship has no foundation then its prone to all these things such as polygamy. Every relationship needs to be governed by a certain structure so tht everything is clear. For example if you are a Christian couple you cannot present an open relationship to your partner because you know what your Bible says abt it, so the foundation allows some control and order.
6:50 but would you understand if it was done by Bianca,it really does limit your relationship and I can’t help but think you’d be on some (yhoooo this girl is bringing her own baggage into our relationship),,bianca is too understanding and that worries me ,,nonetheless you guys are fun to watch,all the best
Am sorry Oros
I just can’t imagine dating someone whose always talking about being hurt by there ex
Imagine if Bianca was the one doing that .that hurts especially if u love the person .its ok to express your feeling just don’t do it everytime. Don’t let your past define you.
Let that pain teach you how it will feel on someone or on Bianca if u decide to hurt her feelings.
Now you know how it feels
Learn to love again❤️
Oros, your English is noticeably good!🔥
A King and Queen always knows their value and place🌷they no recognition as they already know💙RISE CHAMPIONS FOR YOUR ARE REBORN💙💙
My problem with an open relationship is "soul ties", the thought of "entanglement" of my soul with random people doesn't sit well with me. I'm loving the topic though, yall are amazing 👏.
I don't believe in soul ties because they is no evidence whatsoever of this theory because if a person dies that means you also must die because your souls are tied? Behavioral patterns are not sexually transmitted.I think it's just a doctrine which some churches use to stop people from sleeping around.
If you can’t move on from some just know u got soul tied
It’s understandable why that would be a major concern. I don’t have much knowledge around soul ties but will be sure to read up about it
I like how honest Oros is when it comes to what he believes in. Anyway I love you guys 😘💖 keep on serving us wisdom when it comes to relationships💃♥️💞❣️
I agree with oros we need to allow men talk about their emotions and everything, creating a positive environment for them to open up without calling them too insensitive
Great topic guys, i must truly say Queen B i love your wisdom. I for one believe in a monogamous relationship because as a christian i believe God blessed Adam and Even and ordained them husband and wife suitable for the marriage ministry. God never said a man shall live his mother and father and be clinged to his "wives" nooo, so from a christianity side of view, a mono relationship or marriage is what is honourable before the eyes of God. Secondly, love is jealous guys, even if we opt for an open relationship, i personally think honestly its a torture to ourselves and our feelings.
Everything you said ❤️❤️💯
All these types of relationships Monogamy, Open Relationship, Polygamy, Polyandry CAN work with transparency.
Society (Tradition, Culture) has & still playing a huge role and because the majority accepts and the minority is declined.
True, vulnerability is important to both male and female. I love that you acknowledge that males need to be more of.
We need to really understand what is intercourse, what becomes beyond intercourse?
I love what @Moitshepi said..."soul ties"...MAAN! I also recommend the series of Relationship Goals: Reloaded from Pastor Michael Todd of Transformation Church, the 19 July 2020 recording.
I used to hate how oros will talk about his pain which Made me see that he treasure less his relationship with our girl B. But after wat you said today I totally understand you bro.
Communication is very important 🙌🙌...
I really appreciate all your teachings you taught us guys, ever since I started watching your videos I've been open minded in so many things and I've learnt so much keep up on what you doing, we're so blessed to have you. Love you so much 😍😍😍and Bianca I love you you're so calm & cool 😚
Thank you so so much❤️
Can't wait for next week's episode 😂❤ coz I specialize in going through my partners phone its a must bethuna I need to know where I stand at all times I can't always rely on what he says coz what if I'm being played
Girl you and me are on the same page!
🤣 guilty too
😂😂😂😂let’s see where we stand with this topic
you guys are so awesome❤😍I love you!
I feel like Bianca had this one 😂 when Oros is in the corner, he then starts this thing of over explaining. Yabona lena peyi personal 😂😂
I really can't wait for next week's episode I'm excited already 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃🙈
I love the openness of your relationship😢
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No Oros, we feel for you and the pain you've gone through, but you keep at it. You have to let go and just hope and trust B to guard your heart
I like the fact that you guys are so honest to each other and since I subscribed I have learned a lot
You’re welcome guys✨✨, I also enjoyed this episode it even felt like it was too short.
Wishing you all the best guys, and l hope you grow to edify each even more and to continue making each other happy ✨✨✨and also grow to experience even more harmony in your relationship 💫💫💫
Nice topic, nice Channel, you guys help me to develop my love life💯💞i
Like the openness and transparency, we learn alot from these sessions. Keep them coming guys...... greetings from Uganda
Greetings from SD. The topics you guys are discussing are so important and it's refreshing to have a couple openly discuss such; most people in the limelight are so used to being pretentious about their opinions, always watching what they say. I love what Bianca said about fulfillment, I think it's good to share interests as a couple but also have ones that are individual. Relationships are not easy, they require a lot from a person everyday and most don't make it because people stop trying after a few years together, the assumption is "oh he knows that I love him". All in all, thank you for helping us continue to put in effort. Your topic on love languages hit home for me in so many ways. Do continue being awesome.
My fav couples😘❤🔥...So inspirational 💖❤
Yey can't wait for next week episode 😅kuzoba lit🔥💃💃💃💃😂😂😂 and thank you guys for this one👌I love you I love you 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I can’t wait for next weeks Topic😱💃
loved the episode. Looking forward to next week's one
Love this channel.. I even wish the videos were longer.
love love love this channel. You guys keep me looking foward to saturdays, especially with this whole lockdown thing.
The I'm hungry example from Bianca, true very true
Nokululeko's comment is spot on
If partners are in agreement.....cool. The problem is cheating, lies & toying with the other people s feelings..........& oh my Gawd people have lost their lives in that game.
I also think that if a person does things with respect, he does not have to feel controlled. The minute it feels like prison something is wrong.... & it might mean both partners have to talk or set each other free...
I couldn’t agree more!!! Once you feel controlled something is wrong
So much sense and truth , we relate to such topics and it's important we talk about them ( ...and OROS is right hahaha we men should Express moree) but without taking anything away knowledge is key and now we know !!
Love love love how you guys disagree and then finally end up coming to an understanding of each other’s different views without offending each other keep it up!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
It’s what a relationship should be
Can't wait for next topic, its gonna be lit🔥🔥💯
So looking forward to the next episode...🙂
None of what yourl have been sharing with us goes unnoticed... you guys are such a greatest inspiration.. May God bless you!..❤.. ndiyanithanda..
Been waiting. Much love fam 💙. Please don't change that balcony view *it's great*
Guys I really love and appreciate you. This thing you doing is really restoring hope in us about true love out there.... But ey kunzima guys, because I for one nje I'm single and not looking forward to being heartbroken again. I think I choose to guard myself more ngoku, I won't lie sometimes I think about getting or rather finding a guy that might love me the way I know I deserve to be loved but at the same time it's difficult to put myself out there in search of something I've never had. To me it's like I'll be heartbroken all over again. Truly am happy for people who have found love, but can't say Im looking forward to being in a relationship again shame no... Otherwise, much love for you guys, you a very beautiful family and what you doing is really inspiring and pretty much educational in a sense❤️
Love lives here♥️
Niyachaza xem guys , wish you all the best on your relationship♥️💖❤️💯
I think we should just give Oros a chance and allow him a space to heal, people are different and deal with heartbreaks differently. And on the polygamous aspect I believe that men should let grow in them that the same way they get hurt when they are cheated on is the same pain we feel when we are cheated on
you are the bomb dot com... stay blessed
I'm here first ans don't know what to say. But I love you guys big time
I've been waiting for an upload 💃💃 absolutely love you guys ❤️
The wisdom in you B is on another level, Oros i love your sense of humor.
Lol I know abantu abathandanayo say that what's mine is yours but my privacy is mine alone no one should be able to access it. Maybe your partner having spare keys isn't that extreme and calling family members that they're close to like cousins but not uncles and aunties lol, boundaries guys boundaries.
😂😂😂lets see how we both feel about boundaries
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You sweet Oros. I appreciate you❤️
I think it's only fair from the start if people agree that they gonna have open relationship, imagine being in relationship with someone for year's and she/he decides that now i want an open relationship
Next week kuzoba lit💣💣💣🤣🤣🤣
Mhmm I agree with Bianca. We all have scars and pains from the past but we heal and we don't allow it to limit how much we love. Phela now its starting to feel like u have not healed Oros and you keep on reminding B on camera that you dont love her fully coz you have been hurt before🤷♂️🤷♂️
But nevertheless I love this channel and the openness❤❤
I personally think everyone who has had their hearts broken before do subconsciously allow their experiences change or somehow limit how they love and choose to "relationship" going forward but we just don't mention/reference it as much as Oros does.
I mean if those experiences don't change our perspectives then that means we haven't learnt anything from them.
Also I think Oros keeps on bringing up his past experiences so that we, including Bianca, can understand where he is coming from. I doubt yinto ahleli ethetha ngayo.
You couldn’t have said it better. As the woman who he is with I completely agree with the last paragraph ❤️
Please play unever have I ever... Or like would you rather
Nkosi yam. Intombazane yabantu. 😭💔
Oros seems to seek or actively researching open relationships for fulfilment or 'growth'. Sounds like he is thinking ahead concerning this committed relationship. I appreciate your honesty to self.
Are you on a 'Jada like journey' Oros?
But he also needs to accept that his lady should be allowed to do the same. Male privileges should be abolished. I honestly thought Biaca was open to polygamy and an open relationship, however she seems content with her current setup but open to having 'fun' once in a while and cautiously. Fun can cause harm unknowingly particularly when acted upon selfishly. Thank you for the great discussion and content.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. This is a journey we are all learning from.
Sbwl ubakwi throuple with you guys😂❤
Personally I think when it come to open relationships, why does it seem like we are justifying cheating in our society becz sometimes in those open relationships some partners are not entirely honest about who they are having fun with...the other partner might know that they are having fun but not know with who.
Open relationships all together patronized the very significance or rather magnitude of marriage.
Why do you marry if u still wana have fun outside your wife...(or wives)
The is a reason why polygamy looks honourable or respectful, its becz you all become one unit...
We are African and spiritual ppl, you cannot share intimacy with any Tom, dick and harry and come back nd think that your marriage will be honourable.
Very interesting point of view! I still believe that people should be free to choose whatever works for them.
Where's the blanket...😌
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You can express Oros but dont let it change your views about life..
Im a 2k I go for 50/50 singashona 🤧women also have feelings I’ll never respect someone who’s not respecting me
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Nyanisile Oros kdwa lets make it fashionable for man to talk and not say ba emotional
What are you guys' views on polyamory? Where more than two people are in a relationship? I watched an episode on RTT where this throuple (three people in a relationship) came and it was 2 women and one man. It's like all three of them are in a relationship it's not the man in a relationship with 2 women, even the women are in a relationship of their own.
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What do you guys think bout LGBTI community?
I basically feel lyk if a relationship has no foundation then its prone to all these things such as polygamy. Every relationship needs to be governed by a certain structure so tht everything is clear. For example if you are a Christian couple you cannot present an open relationship to your partner because you know what your Bible says abt it, so the foundation allows some control and order.
6:50 but would you understand if it was done by Bianca,it really does limit your relationship and I can’t help but think you’d be on some (yhoooo this girl is bringing her own baggage into our relationship),,bianca is too understanding and that worries me ,,nonetheless you guys are fun to watch,all the best
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You guys should do Polyamory next. It's a very broad topic because of the many ways one could go about it.
I love you guys❤️
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