Just started a Counselling course & was struggling to take in Egan's theory via the book, but all makes 100% sense after watching your video. Greatly appreciated. Great job.
Hi - I am doing a Life Coaching Course and the work I do normally is using Egan's 3 Stage Model but I didn't that I was already using it in the work I do until I watched this video. Lightbulb moment for me.
Thank you for this helpful video. I have passed this onto 40 Psychology students here in Australia, who are currently grappling with the Egan model in their studies and practice. Rachael :)
Rory is the master of simplification. So many professionals intellectualise common sense, Rory does the opposite, he brings common sense to the intellectualised theories.
I'm taking two counseling web classes. One has no lectures and the others lectures are rudimentary. I just found your site a few weeks ago. I appreciate your tutorials. Sadly I only have three weeks left of class. I'm digging the new look!
3:16 In the UK I have come across many people like that. They say one thing, but do everything contrary to what they believe they are doing in life. Example is the upstairs neighbour... they are very quick to dish out notes in relation to their friend downstairs, about people making noise, but they themselves, harass people constantly. Now you have to wonder why that is in any particular setting? Is it because I am not British that they feel 'entitled' to harassing people? Is it the fact that I don't mesh with them on a personal level and refuse to interact with them? Is it their 'imagined state of consciousness' where they believe that if someone does not want to interact with them, that the person feels they are somehow better than them? All valid points to consider and certainly fascinating. For example, no.2. I know when the neighbours are going about their daily business in their flats, with the one upstairs especially as the flooring is very thin so I can hear every creak. That I don't care about. But since they have actively befriended the other neighbour below and all of a sudden took it upon themselves to harass me as well, they would on purpose stand above my room and stomp forcefully, walking up and down. There are times they run up and down their room, you should hear them. It actually makes me chuckle, as it sounds like they stomp up to a certain point, then stand absolutely still, then when they hear me move, they run all of a sudden to the other side like a guilty child being caught. Weirdest behaviour yet. Especially when I switch my phone on, I hear them scurrying and doing something like bringing out equipment or something. Yesterday, when they did it, I switched off my mobile data and then person did a loud bang, as if being pissed off that I did that. Even the other day, I recorded two videos on my phones and this person did very loud bangs, trying to disturb my peace. At this point, I won't rule out jealousy too as they have loud sex on purpose for the strangest thing in life. It is like when they hear I am tuning them crap, it turns them on and they have loud sex, thinking it would make me jealous? That is when you know that these people are not mentally well, but in the end it is not my job to deal with their mental wellbeing. Especially not neighbours. They were also responsible for stealing some of my packages, so I do think they need serious help. FIY they are drug addicts. They don't look physically well on the surface when I saw them, so I tend to not involve myself with people like that. It is hilarious listening to them- for real. It all feels like an act. I ignored it for over a year, but now I just tune them crap for it. Their behaviour is disturbing to say the least, like they feel they are entitled to harassing people. Sadly for them, I don't see myself as a victim and they will be worse off in the end, so I am just observing them.
Great video. I was wondering... Egan talks about the need to "help the client tell their story" and then suggests some key ways in which to help the client tell their story. I am curious to know ...what makes a really good story? If we are to help the client to tell his/her story then what are the criteria for a good story in the counseling setting? When should I be satisfied with a clients story?
Egan simplified this model to clearly guide you step by step and if you follow the highlighted bullets explained by the tutor truly the client will flow to your satisfaction.
Please could you advise me if usually you move from 1 to 3 in one session? Or is it ok to take several sessions to move through these phases if needs be. Thanks
Just started a Counselling course & was struggling to take in Egan's theory via the book, but all makes 100% sense after watching your video. Greatly appreciated. Great job.
Hi - I am doing a Life Coaching Course and the work I do normally is using Egan's 3 Stage Model but I didn't that I was already using it in the work I do until I watched this video. Lightbulb moment for me.
Thank you Rory, it was really easy to understand the way you explain the Egan's model.
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Love this!! This is SO MUCH easier to understand and retain than reading a book. Thanks a lot
Thank you. Currently studying my Graduate Diploma in Family therapy. This video is an awesome reminder of what I have learned.
Thank you so much, as always Rory you explain in great understandable detail 🤗
Thank you for such well presented, easy to follow videos. Absolute gratitude for your generous sharing of skill and knowledge.
thank you 🙂 it’s helping me understand better then my college work books 🙂 Keep up the good work
this is really helpful, studying for exams!!!!! so thanks for the quick outlook into Egan's model. Thank you
Thank you for this helpful video. I have passed this onto 40 Psychology students here in Australia, who are currently grappling with the Egan model in their studies and practice. Rachael :)
Rory - really helpful video as ever. Halfway through diploma course and your videos help to cement the information I am taking on board. Thank you!
Rory is the master of simplification. So many professionals intellectualise common sense, Rory does the opposite, he brings common sense to the intellectualised theories.
love your videos they have helped me with my studies in counselling. :)
Amazing job! Tomorrow I have to make a presentation about Egan at my counseling's class and this help me a lot!
Such a useful video, the examples you give are so helpful in building an understanding. Thank you!
I'm taking two counseling web classes. One has no lectures and the others lectures are rudimentary. I just found your site a few weeks ago. I appreciate your tutorials. Sadly I only have three weeks left of class. I'm digging the new look!
Thank you so much....an doing peer counselling currently and this has helped alot.....👏👏👏👍
Extremely helpful, descriptive and interesting. Thanks:)
Thanks very much for your presentation. Reinforces my learnings.
Great. Like your style. Helped.
Many thanks for creating these - very useful. Much appreciated....
This is a gem...thx Rory 2022
so helpful to understand or cement some knowledge. Thanks
Thank you for the presentation. It’s helpful!
3:16 In the UK I have come across many people like that. They say one thing, but do everything contrary to what they believe they are doing in life.
Example is the upstairs neighbour... they are very quick to dish out notes in relation to their friend downstairs, about people making noise,
but they themselves, harass people constantly. Now you have to wonder why that is in any particular setting? Is it because I am not British that
they feel 'entitled' to harassing people? Is it the fact that I don't mesh with them on a personal level and refuse to interact with them? Is it their
'imagined state of consciousness' where they believe that if someone does not want to interact with them, that the person feels they are somehow
better than them? All valid points to consider and certainly fascinating. For example, no.2. I know when the neighbours are going about their daily
business in their flats, with the one upstairs especially as the flooring is very thin so I can hear every creak. That I don't care about. But since they
have actively befriended the other neighbour below and all of a sudden took it upon themselves to harass me as well, they would on purpose
stand above my room and stomp forcefully, walking up and down. There are times they run up and down their room, you should hear them.
It actually makes me chuckle, as it sounds like they stomp up to a certain point, then stand absolutely still, then when they hear me move,
they run all of a sudden to the other side like a guilty child being caught. Weirdest behaviour yet. Especially when I switch my phone on, I
hear them scurrying and doing something like bringing out equipment or something. Yesterday, when they did it, I switched off my mobile
data and then person did a loud bang, as if being pissed off that I did that. Even the other day, I recorded two videos on my phones and this person
did very loud bangs, trying to disturb my peace. At this point, I won't rule out jealousy too as they have loud sex on purpose for the strangest thing in life.
It is like when they hear I am tuning them crap, it turns them on and they have loud sex, thinking it would make me jealous? That is when you know
that these people are not mentally well, but in the end it is not my job to deal with their mental wellbeing. Especially not neighbours. They
were also responsible for stealing some of my packages, so I do think they need serious help. FIY they are drug addicts. They don't look physically
well on the surface when I saw them, so I tend to not involve myself with people like that.
It is hilarious listening to them- for real. It all feels like an act. I ignored it for over a year, but now I just tune them crap for it. Their behaviour
is disturbing to say the least, like they feel they are entitled to harassing people. Sadly for them, I don't see myself as a victim and they will be worse
off in the end, so I am just observing them.
Great video. I was wondering... Egan talks about the need to "help the client tell their story" and then suggests some key ways in which to help the client tell their story. I am curious to know ...what makes a really good story? If we are to help the client to tell his/her story then what are the criteria for a good story in the counseling setting? When should I be satisfied with a clients story?
Egan simplified this model to clearly guide you step by step and if you follow the highlighted bullets explained by the tutor truly the client will flow to your satisfaction.
Love these videos they are really helpful, thank you Rory
This is fabulous, thankyou.
Wacko! Thanks Rory
thanks it's very helpful
Thank you.Really helpful explanation......
Nice book in deed
Great video very useful
Thank you! Very helpful!
Great & helpful,thank you
Please could you advise me if usually you move from 1 to 3 in one session? Or is it ok to take several sessions to move through these phases if needs be. Thanks
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This was great, thank you!
It's great & helpful "Rory" keep it going!
The beard looks great on you! :D
Glad you think so!
Thank you!!
Can you please keep subtitles the next time...
can do with referencing better
but good!
Hello,
I am studying becoming a counselor and was directed to The Skilled Helper text. Are there any other comparable texts to consider?
He also wrote the Skilled Helper Manual which has practice exercises in it for students
Great for you
I would have to disagree with their definition of social influence
Comic sans... Seriously?
Yes its easy for those who are Dyslexic to read - Seriously.....
thank you