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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024

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  • @AbbiWinslow
    @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +45

    TALK TO ME! Where is your heart right now? Which step are you needing to do?

    • @jadeharrison9071
      @jadeharrison9071 4 года назад +5

      Abbi Winslow I live your tips. I’m sure they will help many girls, Thankyou for this video! But my boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday via text and I’m so so sad:( it’s hard not to text or call them but I just have to distant myself as you said.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      @@jadeharrison9071 Hey I am just seeing this now! How are you doing? Did distancing yourself work?? Let me know girl! You can reply here or DM me on Instagram (abbiwinslow) or whatever.

    • @cocowhite2854
      @cocowhite2854 4 года назад +1

      Please I hope you read this. He is my boss. He currently lives in another city, but I have to talk to him daily and he might be moving to my city soon. How can I dissapear then?

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      Coco White hey! So i totally understand that you might run into him around town or sounds like maybe work...so you are cordial, nice but don’t initiate anything. You don’t call him, text him or text back. You are emotionally unavailable because you are waiting for a man that will sweep you off your feet and see you as the goddess you are 🙌🏻

    • @cocowhite2854
      @cocowhite2854 4 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow ​he is my direct manager at my job, I have to text him and call him daily for work matters. Is there a way to "disappear" then? (really thank you for answering, I really need it)

  • @jgrjwlkul-baresaderevetdet8577
    @jgrjwlkul-baresaderevetdet8577 4 года назад +132

    He broke up with me today, it broke my heart! I’m watching this video while crying, after all the I love you, he told me he would never break up with me HE PROMISED, but he did

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +3

      SHREK ER MIN Jeg er kul oh girl I al so sorry to hear this, but know this breakup doesn’t take away from your value or you ability to be loved. Sometimes guys are stupid, sometimes guys change their minds and sometimes they breakup with us and it SUCKS!! You got this though, follow these tips and they will work! I promise the pain will go away eventually. Just remember that it is his loss. You deserve someone that will love you the way you deserve to be loved 💕 hang in there babe 💕

    • @sarratlig4610
      @sarratlig4610 4 года назад

      Hi am sarrawilliams just looking for someone to talk to can we be friends you can chat me up on instagram Sarrawilliams22

    • @ann4541
      @ann4541 3 года назад

      SAME.

    • @vict0rsegg
      @vict0rsegg 3 года назад

      Gaslighting darlin'?

    • @morganconnor124
      @morganconnor124 2 года назад +2

      I’m in that boat right now! I feel like I always loved him no matter what mistakes he made or mistake I made. He admitted it giving up a month ago, we went on a break and we came back from the break in the way I feared: I still had hope and want to be with him and he didn’t. They always make promises and break them

  • @psycicmindpowers
    @psycicmindpowers 4 года назад +74

    Hey single ladies, just focus on how amazing you are, the break ups never have anything to do with you lol.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      psycicmindpowers yes!!! Love this!!! It really has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them

    • @monas
      @monas 3 года назад +1

      Psycicminds why do you say lol? Are you trying to be sarcastic?

    • @richardstuivenberg4618
      @richardstuivenberg4618 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂 yeah you go girls! Fuck responsibilty and selfawareness. Its all his fault. Yeeeey feminism😂😂😂

  • @gabby6785
    @gabby6785 4 года назад +107

    I can’t get over him 😕 why doesn’t he want me in his life😟

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +7

      Gabby LeBlanc just seeing this. How are you holding up babe?

    • @iffybaby8410
      @iffybaby8410 4 года назад +19

      God has a plan for all of us, it's just that he can't tell us our life story ahead of time, we have to live life and see. when we are not going in the path he has for us, with the person that fits us perfectly and will give us the love God intends for us, he can't let us keep on, no matter how sweet we may think it is to be with that person. sometimes it feels like he snatches people from us but it's all for a reason, you may even realise the reason sooner than later. it's like watching a movie for the first time with someone that has already seen it, you may think the characters should choose a particular action but the person that has already watched the movie would think otherwise cause they already know that certain choices will lead to much better outcomes, and it all works out in the end .believe it or not, you've learned so much from it and not just regarding relationships. it's ok to feel down, it shows that you're human, you're a good person, you can love, you loved and you will find love again don't worry. don't let anyone or anything convince you otherwise. cry if you want but when it's all our of your system, move on and stop listening to the sad songs. block them if you have to, don't ever beg or insult them (maybe you can insult them before blocking them). it was not your fault even if they used something you did as an excuse to break up. there's nothing wrong with you and there never will be. it's not the end of your world. use this time to fill your voids and love yourself fully for the next person (don't rush into anything with anyone, cause you can't rush God's plan, please we dont need more bagagge. he will bring the right person to you at the right time and you'll know,)

    • @iffybaby8410
      @iffybaby8410 4 года назад +15

      you know his actions are a reflection of him and his experiences right? nothing to do with you. it's blessing on disguise and you will see that as time reveals everything.

    • @justtt.isabella_9901
      @justtt.isabella_9901 4 года назад +7

      Because you are just too much for him 🥺✨💖

    • @jonnavalley5471
      @jonnavalley5471 3 года назад +1

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  • @cydcamero433
    @cydcamero433 3 года назад +24

    They always come back! But most of the time not with the right reasons. They come back just to make sure you're still stuck on them.
    It's easy to obsess about them when you just broke up, but you need to focus on you!

  • @anaisabsalon3769
    @anaisabsalon3769 4 года назад +28

    My boyfriend of almost two years dumped me an hour ago and your video is the first one that came up for me. Such good tips, such good energy. You are so calming and I feel like you're talking straight to me ❤️

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      anais absalon thank you!! Sending you my love girl and I hope these tips help!

  • @cypresse1620
    @cypresse1620 3 года назад +19

    I got dumped twice by the same guy...in a pandemic. I have to believe life has more to give beyond this point.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      I agree whole heartedly with you on the fact that life has more for you than that guy! Your love and your time is coming 💕

    • @monas
      @monas 3 года назад

      If he dump you the first time. You shouldn't have take him back. You should never take him back again. He is taking you for granted.

    • @cypresse1620
      @cypresse1620 3 года назад +1

      @@monas he called me the next morning saying he made a mistake, that was the heat of the moment thing... lol - now I learned! Doesn’t matter what the reason is, once you say the word, the damage is done.

  • @omglikewoah21
    @omglikewoah21 4 года назад +55

    I can’t thank you enough for making this video. You’re so genuine and confident. My ex dumped me last night. We were together for almost two years. I’m absolutely heart broken and went through an awful breakup (relationship of 5 years) about a year before we started dating. He said he still loves me and that we’re broken up for now to heal. My heart is so sad. It doesnt help that I have anxiety/depression. I don’t hate him. He was good to me. But I know that the anger stage will come soon and I don’t want to feel that way either. I know you uploaded this 8 months ago but I would love for you to respond 💕 I haven’t told any of my friends yet

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +7

      Megan L hello! Oh Megan I am sending you so much love right now! ❤️ breakups are the worst and you are so mature to not hate your ex. That’s a great step! And ps it’s okay if that changes day to day! In your journey of healing don’t forget that you are so loved and so valuable. You have infinite worth as a child of God. So stay strong! And if you find yourself struggling it’s okay to get help from friends and family 💕💕

    • @omglikewoah21
      @omglikewoah21 4 года назад +4

      Abbi Winslow thank you so much for responding. I can’t tell you how much that means to me. I’m going to do the NC rule this time as I did not do it with my ex before him. I saw a quote on fb today “when you get what you want, thats Gods direction. When you don’t get what you want, that’s God’s protection” I’m so happy for your response. Continue all the good you do in life ❤️

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +3

      Megan L if you follow the NC rule you will be in good shape. I LOVE that quote so thank you for sharing!!💕💕💕

    • @arelyflores6023
      @arelyflores6023 4 года назад +2

      Hey Meg, how are you now? Could you share how are you feelling lately?

  • @KateEmiley
    @KateEmiley 5 лет назад +72

    Your advice is SO helpful! Don't be a "psycho ex!" and look after number 1!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +1

      Kate Emiley yes! You’ve got to look out for #1 since we usually forget about ourselves!

  • @yaya.vergara
    @yaya.vergara 4 года назад +15

    My boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and it was completely out of nowhere. I least I thought so. It is such a confusing time for me right now, but this video has helped a lot 💕

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      Hang in there babe! These tips really will help. Sending you love.

  • @keimiguijosa5546
    @keimiguijosa5546 4 года назад +24

    I feel so dumb. I didn’t follow the number one rule. I called him over 50 times and texted him but he just ignore them. This happened yesterday. I love him too much to just let him go. I sometimes feel like I don’t wanna be in this world. He’s someone I really thought I’d spend the rest of my life with. I’m doing college rn and I just can’t do my work without him being on my mind

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +4

      Hey that is okay! I only know these rules and tips by doing it wrong the first couple of times. Hang in there! The world needs that you have to offer and someone who will love you fully is out there. Sending you love!

    • @jennytazmanialove
      @jennytazmanialove 3 года назад

      How are you doing now?

    • @HannahPeetz
      @HannahPeetz 3 года назад

      Hey, you’re not alone. I’m in the same situation. I had been talking to him asking if he’s sure and I feel so selfish for that but now he’s on his own and it’s hard going to school everyday and seeing him smiling when I’m trying not to cry. And good for him that he can hide it better than I can. I don’t understand how they care about you but still leave you, you know? But granted your break up happened a year ago and mine happened 2 days ago but we aren’t alone. We can get through it together.

    • @keimiguijosa5546
      @keimiguijosa5546 3 года назад

      @@jennytazmanialove well all I can say is he got me pregnant and left. I’ll be giving birth this Tuesday😫. I learned my lesson

    • @keimiguijosa5546
      @keimiguijosa5546 3 года назад

      @@HannahPeetz we got back together and he got me pregnant and left. It hurts but I definitely learned my lesson. My little blessing comes out this Tuesday☺️. But I hope everything goes well for u!!

  • @mashensik2210
    @mashensik2210 4 года назад +16

    I'm feeling all of u, girls! He broke up with me yesterday after 4 years relationship. We apart because of this Covid shit for 4 months, and it was only few weeks before we get back together, but he done with us and he broke up over the phone. Only day before he was saying he missing me and loving me. Just can't understand. We had problems but I was ready to fight and give us chance. But he decided already. So painful. Hugs to everyone.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      Мария Иванова oh girl I am so sorry to her about your pain but hang in there! 💕 I love your positivity and know an amazing guy is out there for you!

    • @mashensik2210
      @mashensik2210 4 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow thank u so much for your words!❤😘

    • @Ari111e
      @Ari111e 3 года назад

      How are you now ? I’m going through this at the moment

    • @Heythereee998
      @Heythereee998 Год назад

      @@Ari111e I'm going through this now, it happened today.

  • @jasminesin3917
    @jasminesin3917 4 года назад +31

    Hey Abbi, my boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me last Saturday and I found it really difficult to distant myself from him and just disappear. This entire week I’ve been getting angry and jealous seeing him hang out with other girls way more... I’ve been texting him and being vulnerable and telling him how I feel. I know it’s a mistake to miss him and let him know how much I’m hurting considering he really doesn’t care... but I love him. I love him so so much and it’s hard to completely avoid him

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      jasmine sin just seeing this!!! How are you doing now babe??

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @bestlaidplans4511
    @bestlaidplans4511 3 года назад +3

    I was actually searching for "why she keeps calling," but this was informative. I never answer and never come back, on principle. Ever. It allows us both to move on, and saves me the trouble of changing my number again. The advice in this video is helpful and true. Move on. You would want the same respect. We feel unsafe when our boundaries are ignored, just like you.

  • @JessalynTester
    @JessalynTester 5 лет назад +15

    Break ups are so hard! When we’re devastated after a break up we definitely don’t always think clearly and make the best decisions. You’re right, we do feel personally rejected! Your tips for dealing with these feelings were spot on and very empowering! Great video Abbi!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +1

      Jessalyn Tester thank you! I agree that part of the reason I suggest disappearing is because we aren’t thinking clearly after a break up 🤪

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @Karmelli
    @Karmelli 5 лет назад +8

    This was so therapeutic to watch and your voice is so calming...my situation is so all over the place. He left me last year in September while pregnant and I ended up losing the baby. After a couple months he apologized and I felt he was sincere so I took him back and we were doing great until a couple days ago when he dumped me by text (laughs at self thinking how many times does this asshole need to destroy me) but here I am looking to rise from the ashes yet again...he won’t get another chance to break me. I refuse. I’m too good for him...obviously.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +1

      kevacarmelle I’m so grateful to hear you liked this video! Relationships can be full
      of so many highs and some very low lows. I want you to know you are worth it. You deserve a man that is crazy about you. And that though I can’t even imagine your pain, you can make it through this better and stronger than ever. Sending you so much love! 💕

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @SakuraKate
    @SakuraKate 3 года назад +8

    Ever since my breakup I’ve been watching these sort of videos all over RUclips. I actually think I started a bit to late… I just can’t wait for my next breakup just to apply all of these 😂
    Last breakup I was just quite pathetic and I just want that to change!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад +1

      I love your attitude! Way to go girl!

    • @SakuraKate
      @SakuraKate 3 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow😊

  • @jayitakayal1034
    @jayitakayal1034 4 года назад +26

    My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday in this lock down situation..we were been in a long distances relationship for 2 years. I met him only 2 time in 2 years.. he doesnt want me anymore.. all i did just ask a question about his social media and he said i doubted him.. i dont know what to do..how to cope up..i cant show it to my parents..i am only crying when all the lights are off..and i haven't any friends to share🙂

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      Jayita Kayal I Am so sorry to hear about your breakup. During this crazy time you might need to get extra creative to stay distracted and busy ❤️ just know that it is extremely suspicious that he dumped you for asking about his social media and honestly doesn’t sound like someone you want to spend your life with. Now that doesn’t take away the pain and so I am sending you so much love and prayers 💕 stay strong girl!!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      @Danyely Paniago Leite Great insights girl!

    • @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у
      @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у 4 года назад +1

      Jayita Kayal I know of a man who helped me

    • @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у
      @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у 4 года назад

      Jayita Kayal get my ex back

    • @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у
      @ВикторияБалтабаева-х2у 4 года назад

      Jayita Kayal contact him on WhatsApp

  • @LexFerrante
    @LexFerrante 5 лет назад +22

    These are all great tips Abbi! And yesss, they almost always come back 😂 After you are happy! Breakups have always been good for growth for me

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +2

      Same here! Painful, but good for my growth.

    • @JessicaAnneTV
      @JessicaAnneTV 5 лет назад +1

      Lex Ferrante totally agree 👍

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @layankoujan1511
    @layankoujan1511 4 года назад +33

    I appreciate what u said but the problem is that I miss them so much and I still love him though and I always think about texting him😭😭😭😭😭

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      lea ace giiurrrlll!! I’ve been there too!! It is so hard because we still love people FOR A LONG time! My suggestion is to delete his number, and distract yourself every time you think of him. I know that’s hard but literally get up and do something the moment you start to miss him! Sending you so much love 💕

    • @SavviiTuesday
      @SavviiTuesday 4 года назад

      How are you doing now?

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @MeredithRyncarzPhotography
    @MeredithRyncarzPhotography 5 лет назад +4

    I agree with not running to him... one of the worst things... give it space and think if it's worth it. You need time and space

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Meredith Ryncarz Photography so agree!! Space and time is ALWAYS needed!

  • @venus6732
    @venus6732 3 года назад +1

    I just searched for a video to help me somehow, my boyfriend broke up with me today and It is the worst I’ve ever felt emotionally, I’m so broken I can’t eat, sleep my heart hurts. But you made me feel better, thank you.

  • @LoveLynetteTan
    @LoveLynetteTan 5 лет назад +6

    Yup, I will definitely disappear and stay distant! Absence makes the heart grow fonder!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +2

      So true! It's funny how life tends to work that way

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @aryanaek6516
    @aryanaek6516 4 года назад +8

    i went off on him and then blocked him. i don’t regret it

  • @CompletelyKarin
    @CompletelyKarin 5 лет назад +8

    This is great advice! The don't try to be friends right away is key. It can (not always but usually) happen, but you've got to give it some time. 💛

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +1

      Completely Karin amen! Time is the secret to healing any relationship 💕 friends or not 😌

  • @jendybacher
    @jendybacher 4 года назад +13

    My boyfriend broken up me yesterday the reason why he broken up his tired and stressed to understand every time I got angry if he always postpones our meeting up... I told him I want to fix our relationship...if I love someone I fight until I got tired and surrender...but now he Dont talk to me..i still message him I tell him I respect his decision I'm thinking of him goodbye

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +3

      breakups are so hard! They make you rethink everything you've said and done, but it sounds like this guy doesn't appreciate you and how amazing you are. So give him his space and let him miss you! In the meantime, put yourself out there to new love and trust that God has someone amazing in store for you!

    • @jendybacher
      @jendybacher 4 года назад

      Abbi Winslow yes I will thanks a lot

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @bay9258
    @bay9258 3 года назад +2

    My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago. We had such a wonderful relationship and he treated me so well. He just said he’s too stressed with everything in his life right now to give me what I deserve. I think knowing I did nothing wrong hurts worse. I’ve never had my heart broken like this, because I don’t think I’ve ever genuinely loved someone. The pain is so immense. I have so many of his things that I haven’t given back yet because I just can’t bring myself to go through them. I so badly want to see him and talk to him. It’s so hard.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      Hang in there babe! He wasn't right for you because someone out there is going to meet you and realize they can't live without you. So drop off his stuff and don't drag it on. Life has so much more to offer you.

  • @catherinekirby1
    @catherinekirby1 4 года назад +6

    Your personality just resonates with me. I’m going through heartbreak and this helped me

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Catherine Marguerite 💕💕 send you so much love!

  • @Aimee_Esther
    @Aimee_Esther 5 лет назад +23

    Wish i had these tips for all my breakups!!! I was the psycho ex girlfriend lol

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +4

      Aimee Esther hahaha me too! I didn’t know when to leave well enough alone 🤪

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

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  • @ELITEBODYDATATV
    @ELITEBODYDATATV 5 лет назад +5

    Hey Abbi! My friend recently experienced a breakup and she found success taking time for herself, like you mentioned in tip number 3. She found focusing things that she is passionate helped ease the pain. Thanks for sharing these tips!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      I'm so sorry to hear about your friend :( Breakups suck! but it sounds like she is already doing so good! So happy you liked these tips :)

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      What'sapp him for help 🆘👆👆👆

  • @nicolecuschieri8661
    @nicolecuschieri8661 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I was about to reply to the break up msg from my ex with reasons why we shouldn't break up, but instead after watching this I just replied with "no problem take care :)" dignity saved thank you Abbi X

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад

      YEEEEESSSSS Girl! Way to go!!!

    • @kabiratdammy7656
      @kabiratdammy7656 2 года назад

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @ziiimt
    @ziiimt 3 года назад +2

    THANK YOU SO MUCH 💕 my boyfriend just left me for my best friend :( and I'm like kinda happy because I deserve better and I deserve someone who actually loves me but I'm still upset. This video was really nice, thanks

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад +1

      YES! You do deserve better! Go find him my girl! 😍

  • @andreahutchinson2011
    @andreahutchinson2011 5 лет назад +33

    they don’t always come back

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +7

      Andrea Hutchinson and good thing some don’t, right?!

    • @andreahutchinson2011
      @andreahutchinson2011 5 лет назад +4

      Abbi Winslow yeah, it just hurts and i don’t feel like i’ll ever move on

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +3

      Andrea Hutchinson I Completly understand that because when a breakup is fresh it HURTS soooo badly!! Hang in there girl! You will find the love of your life ❤️ who loves everything about you

    • @andreahutchinson2011
      @andreahutchinson2011 5 лет назад +2

      Abbi Winslow i hope so. The thing is it’s been 4 months and i still am not over him. He’s moved on and i haven’t. I just don’t know what to do anymore.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад +4

      Andrea Hutchinson every heart takes different times to heal. If it helps at all, it took me a year to finally get over a boy that dumped me in high school. It took time, focus on myself, and honestly hanging out with people that valued me to get over that rejection.

  • @karlajcp2
    @karlajcp2 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for making this video. Every time I feel down I watch your video and remember that I need to focus on myself I can't be crying every single day. Thank you

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      You got this girl! Sending you so much love!

    • @karlajcp2
      @karlajcp2 4 года назад

      Thank you but for a week I beg him crying saying that he should give me an opportunity. Yesterday I told him to block me so I could stopped calling him. I'm not sure if I showed him that I'm weak so, he wont be back anymore.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      Karla Solarte someone amazing is out there for you 💕

  • @ArdelleVision
    @ArdelleVision 5 лет назад +2

    A trusted friend after a breakup is key! Great video!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      YES! Just having someone to talk to is HUGE!

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      What'sapp him for help 🆘👆👆👆

  • @jamie-leagrainger3474
    @jamie-leagrainger3474 4 года назад +1

    My boyfriend walked out a few days ago, av been lost and broken hearted, you have honestly made me feel better! Thank you so much ❤️

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Jamie-lea Grainger hang in there babe! I can only imagine your pain right now 💕 use these tips and they will help get you through the next few weeks 💕 sending you so much love!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Jamie-lea Grainger hang in there babe! I can only imagine your pain right now 💕 use these tips and they will help get you through the next few weeks 💕 sending you so much love!

  • @datsweird-0-851
    @datsweird-0-851 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so so much my bf broke up with me and hour ago and I'm sitting here crying I'm sure this so gonna help me so much since this is my first boyfriend

  • @rachanatamrakar7033
    @rachanatamrakar7033 3 года назад +3

    he told me he loved me and marry me. and suddenly he said he is sick of me. m so heart broken.

  • @tanoryahjolly162
    @tanoryahjolly162 4 года назад +2

    I just have to say you have truly helped me a lot during my breakup my emotions were everywhere but I believe God sent me here to this video because now I’m good 🙂 thank you so much.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Thank you so much for the kind words 💕 hope you are doing good babe!

  • @narcfreekeekee9168
    @narcfreekeekee9168 Год назад +1

    I honestly believe he never wanted me in the first place. I can't keep chasing a person who doesn't want me. So goodbye & good luck.

  • @DalDhaliwalOfficial
    @DalDhaliwalOfficial 5 лет назад +4

    Great video Abbi. I totally agree with all your advice. I'm happily married but this is the advice i would give to anyone of my friends or daughters if they were going through this. Thank you for sharing! :-)

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Thanks Dal! I'm in the same boat, so happily married but I feel like so many girls need this info!

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      What'sapp him for help 🆘👆👆👆

  • @Maya-es8eb
    @Maya-es8eb 4 года назад +3

    oh jeez this was pretty helpful! i wish there was a way i could contact you about my personal situation!

  • @Mia_Coconut
    @Mia_Coconut 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video. My ex broke up with me just now and this has guided me through it.

  • @etchpup0806
    @etchpup0806 4 года назад +1

    He initiated the break up a week ago, I was devastated because he stated that we are incompatible. We were together for 4 and half years. Im sure he thought about breaking up before the actual breakup, I just didn’t since when he started thinking about it. I was fully committed because I thought he’s the one and I know he wanted to propose soon. It hurts so much knowing he decided to stop committing and give up on us. We both have been fighting constantly for a week before the breakup and then, after the breakup , there are times I blamed myself for putting him under tons of pressure. I did not talk to him at all after the breakup but I was well aware that he did not really want to maintain any sort of contact with me (ig, Facebook, etc). This is so crushing.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      I am so sorry to hear about your hurt and breakup. Hang in there babe! You deserve a guy that is crazy about you and guess what? one is out there for you!

  • @AmandaHorvath
    @AmandaHorvath 5 лет назад

    Definitely agree with all your points related to not texting. This is SUCH a hard subject and you did an amazing job covering it. Congrats!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Thanks Amanda! Texting is the hardest part! You feel like you should text them or text them back and it get's so complicated!

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      What'sapp him for help 🆘👆👆👆

  • @Kazewyo
    @Kazewyo 3 года назад +1

    Thank u so much girl❤️❤️i just had a broke up today and felt so sad and everytime i wanna stop crying I can’t,but thanks to u

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад +1

      Hang in there babe!! 💕💕💕

    • @Kazewyo
      @Kazewyo 3 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow ❤️❤️

    • @Kazewyo
      @Kazewyo 2 года назад

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  • @ronelitaorate9262
    @ronelitaorate9262 2 года назад +2

    My boyfriend for 5 years broke up with me 3 days ago. He said he need to be single while he fix all the problems in his life and says he is in his very hard part of his life. He never opens up with me and I feel that he doesnt need me in his life anymore. It hurts because I really wants him to be my last and looking forward to build my life with him. I never see myself being with another guy other than him. But I handled the breakup so well, I said If thats what he wants and I said I understand and respect his decision. I replied so calm and never ask why he broke up with me even on inside I was so devastated. Now I dont know how to proceed with life. I’m trying my best to focus on myself but never a day I think about him. Please give me advise what to do.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад

      Sounds like you are doing all the right thing! Just remember that the one for you wants you to grow alongside them and not apart from them. Keep working on you and follow these tips.

  • @issiwilliams319
    @issiwilliams319 5 лет назад +3

    Love this video! My fav so far!!!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Issi Williams yay!! You know I still think about you listening on the porch as multiple boys broke up with me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-fz3xz7dn9j
    @user-fz3xz7dn9j 2 года назад

    thank you for making this, my ex broke up with me this weekend through a text, told me he'd call me later to talk more about it, and then did not call, but rather I see him at a party the same day grinding and flirting with multiple girls, after asking him to speak w me about that crazy text I received from him, he said he didn't want to and got really angry, he only told me that he thinks he's in love with someone else, then sees me later at the party, makes me hug and introduce myself to his best friend, only for him to say, this is my best friend, the one I told you nothing was going on with, this is the woman I am in love with, I wanted you to meet her face to face. so I'm just trying to cope from that night, and I've gone back and forth, I blocked and unblocked this man multiple times in the past 3 days, but I'm going to see him at a meeting tomorrow and I think this video really helped to prepare me! So thank you!

    • @kabiratdammy7656
      @kabiratdammy7656 2 года назад

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @infinitevibes007
    @infinitevibes007 3 года назад +5

    I love how you said I’m a daughter of God 💖

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      You absolutely are!! 💕💕💕

    • @sarahraymond3684
      @sarahraymond3684 3 года назад

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest anything you want to manifest within two-day ❤❤❤

    • @sarahraymond3684
      @sarahraymond3684 3 года назад

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯

    • @sarahraymond3684
      @sarahraymond3684 3 года назад

      Whtsaap him**

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      @sarahraymond3684 3 года назад

      ___+ 2::3::4::81::08::76::26::52...

  • @BerniceTaylorFitness
    @BerniceTaylorFitness 5 лет назад +2

    Abbi keep on inspiring people! Great topic.

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      Hello to Get back with your ex or specific person (sp) reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce or banish third party from your relationship inbox father right away 👈

    • @vegpe7832
      @vegpe7832 2 года назад

      What'sapp him for help 🆘👆👆👆

  • @lucyelliott6342
    @lucyelliott6342 4 года назад +2

    I saw your video and I just broke up today ill definitely use the tips girl ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Tysm

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Lucy Elliott oooh girl!!!! Sending you so so so much love right now! 💕😭 break ups suck and they will hurt for a while but you got this! Follow these tips, trust the process and know your worth❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @iamurk1ng
    @iamurk1ng 4 года назад +8

    So he broke up with me, I didnt cry, but yet I was still really hurt, he was a good boyfriend though. But why ask me to be your girlfriend and then break up with me 4 months later? I don't understand. But atleast that was the best 4 months I've had. He was my everything. Now hes just a person. I keep asking him if he still wanted to be friends and he wouldn't respond. So I took it as a no. Like what do I do? Just get used to being single again? Like I'm so mad and confused. I really don't understand. But then you give good advice tho. Thank you

  • @kenziebriscoe7352
    @kenziebriscoe7352 2 года назад +1

    he broke up with me about a month and half ago and I still feel like I’m dying , I can’t imagine this pain ever going away

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад +1

      Trust the process! The pain really will lesson over time if you follow these steps

    • @emilyamelia117
      @emilyamelia117 2 года назад

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

  • @tanvixoxoxo
    @tanvixoxoxo 2 года назад +2

    Hey hey so no contact is actually useful.. focus on ur self for some time if he really loves you he will come back for sure!:) If it's meant for you it is 🥰❤️ I'm doing this rn. He's stressed out so I'll give him time :) i keep my phone switched off 24/7

    • @emilyamelia117
      @emilyamelia117 2 года назад

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

  • @ryennsanchez9940
    @ryennsanchez9940 4 года назад +5

    I’ve had an online relationship.. I know it doesn’t sound serious.. we never actually met or anything.. people don’t think it’s real love. But I feel it, I know it is.. I’ve been crying so much and some personal things.. yes, I have seen what he looks like and we have called together.. we have been together for a year and a couple months, almost 2 years actually.. it hurts because I know if me and him break up we will never talk or ever see each other and he might forget about me.. we have been fighting a lot and he has been calling me names and has been cutting and he sometimes blames it on me cause I changed. I know I can’t stay the same forever though.. I can’t imagine him with anyone else and I don’t want to risk being with anyone else because I don’t want them to break my heart to.. I can’t even imagine me with anyone else but him.. I don’t want anyone else.. I don’t know what to do. I haven’t really told anyone this but my best friend maddy but we don’t talk much during quarantine.. sometimes I don’t feel like being here anymore.. I always planned to have a future with him and to start a family, to travel around the world with him.. we would talk everyday for hours, almost the whole day.. I want him back but I don’t want to be with him if he doesn’t love me anymore and if I stress him out.. I feel weak. I’m sorry for bringing up personal issues I just feel safe here to talk about how I feel.. if anyone had broken up and felt the same way I do then we are in this together and I promise it’ll get better in the end. Don’t give up.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your story 💕 I want you to know you deserve a guy that is crazy about you and will treat you right. Never settle for poor behavior from a BF. You are worthy of a love that realizes and appreciates you for who you are.

    • @ryennsanchez9940
      @ryennsanchez9940 4 года назад +1

      Abbi Winslow Thank you so much! That made me happier since I was a bit upset today. I hope you have a great day and god bless you 😁💖

    • @TVfan3264
      @TVfan3264 3 года назад +1

      😭😭😭Same with me 😭😭😭I can't live without him😭😭😭I don't want to live without him😭😭😭

    • @ryennsanchez9940
      @ryennsanchez9940 3 года назад +1

      @@TVfan3264 hey, that was a post from a year ago and now I’m happier.
      Is your boyfriend treating you bad? Is he hurting you?
      I ended up losing feelings for my boyfriend after he faked his death, many times upon me, and if your boyfriend is hurting you and if the relationship is toxic either I recommend for you to leave the relationship or for you to stand up for yourself and then decide whether to leave.
      If you love him I understand, I loved my boyfriend to, but really just remember it’ll be all okay and to love yourself.
      it will be fine:)

    • @ryennsanchez9940
      @ryennsanchez9940 3 года назад +1

      @@TVfan3264 promise

  • @SteffiLove1998
    @SteffiLove1998 4 года назад +2

    My bf of 1 year and 1 month just broke up with me 2 hours ago 😭 i moved country for him, got us a house, baught everything in it, got us a puppy etc... Now i am broke and we had an argument and he said he hates me and dosent love me and that i am a pathetic excuse of a gf... He pays the bills but because of the situation we are all in atm i cant get a job or any money so hes going to leave me and the puppy here with no money or job, what do i do? 😭 Im both heartbroken and worried, he also phisically hurts me when hes angry... Im stuck i dont know what tf to do 😭 everytime i cry he says im playing the victim and that my tears are fake but theyre not im genually hurt and upset

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Stephanie Ridgway I apologize that I didn’t see this until now. You should never be with someone that abuses you in anyway and it sounds like emotion and physical abuse is happening with your ex bf. please reach out to local services in your area that can help you find a job, get back on your feet and distance yourself from your ex. You are worth it. You are strong. You can do hard things. Sending you my love 💕

    • @monas
      @monas 3 года назад

      Can you contact any of your family such as your parents. So they can help you out financially until you get back on your feet?

    • @monas
      @monas 3 года назад

      How are things now?

  • @mariach9433
    @mariach9433 2 года назад

    Thank you soooo much ❤️
    Am crying i got dumped Yesterday

  • @Linda-hq4cm
    @Linda-hq4cm 3 года назад

    I know you probably won’t see this but I am very reserved with my feelings and I don’t like to express how I feel with my family/friends. This video helped me a lot and I’m fresh out of a relationship. I’m so sad since it just happened last night but I’m grateful the breakup happened now rather than later. We were together for almost 2 years and I’m about to graduate high school I feel like I haven’t been able to find who I am as a person and this video motivated me to figure out who I am and how to respect myself. Thank you!!!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад +1

      I am so happy this video helped! You have a great perspective on everything and I wish you the best of luck in your healing process. You will find your perfect person and when you do it will be amazing because you took the time to find yourself as well ❤

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 года назад

      Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 года назад

      Text him on WhatsApp....

    • @sarahanthonia2941
      @sarahanthonia2941 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 8 1 0 8 7 6 2 6 5 2.....

  • @kittygirldracon914
    @kittygirldracon914 2 года назад

    He broke up with me and called me “Crazy” my best friend made my day better by being really nice to me, I screamed into my pillow to let some emotion out. I’m better now hopefully he eventually forgives me.

  • @adenekejoyner4756
    @adenekejoyner4756 4 года назад +2

    I’m just now going through a breakup it hurts so much I been with him for 2 years 4 months and he called it quits on me. He never respond back to me since the day he broke up with me so I feel stupid to keep on trying to text him to get his attention but nothing worked and I wish I watch this video before I text him multiple times like crazy ☹️ I just miss him this hurts so much.

  • @alycimjau
    @alycimjau 3 года назад +1

    my boyfriend broke up with me like 30 minutes ago and i almost took my life because i love him so much im in chock right now because he said that he doesnt love me anymore and is not in love with me when he slept over yesterday and we took the bus togehter this morning. i dont understand what i did wrong

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      Please know there is a love out there for you 100X better than this guy. PLEASE GET HELP and call the suicide hotline if you need help. Taking your own life is NEVER THE SOLUTION.

  • @mcmulder3071
    @mcmulder3071 2 года назад +1

    Well he broke up with me. He got back with his ex. I feel like I wasn't good enough, I tried to fight for us but he didn't care. I love him a lot and I don't know what to do. Yes I'm watching this thinking maybe this vid will help me. Right now I'm just dying, crying all the time, i've stopped eating to. I feel like dying

  • @mistyjoyingham5482
    @mistyjoyingham5482 4 года назад

    Hey Abbi,
    Thank you so much for this video - my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago. I have been desperate and texted a lot saying how much I love him etc. I feel I have ruined all my chances - I really really do want him back, but I’m scared I’ve scared him off. He said he just doesn’t want a relationship anymore and then says he needs distance and this really came out of the blue, I wasn’t expecting it at all. He keeps saying let’s see etc because I keep suggesting we give it time instead of breaking up. Xx do I still have a chance

  • @unicornprincess2565
    @unicornprincess2565 4 года назад +6

    If he told me he was in love with me would he really throw that all away forever? Should I keep the hope?

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +3

      unicorn princess love is a tricky emotion and it can change. Trust the process, trust your heart and don’t put your life on hold waiting and holding out for them. Get busy living the life of your dreams and love will come your way 💕

  • @kamillebernido5027
    @kamillebernido5027 3 года назад

    Not dwelling or waiting for the day until he comes back, but if he does, I hope my heart will be at the right state of “mind”. My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago but we had plan on meeting up in NYC (if we were still together) supposedly 1 week after our break up. I went there by myself, seriously sad and was thinking the whole time how it would be nice to be in NYC but not heartbroken. Seriously, the best trip of my life!! I couldn’t look at how my trip went another way. I was single, I was partying, on the go, I got myself super busy that I barely thought of him. In my mind, if he and I were still together, I would’ve been so sad coming home because our relationship would be back to the same norm after vacations. But this time, I was happy and satisfied because I don’t have to worry about anyone else but me.

  • @farzana918x
    @farzana918x 4 года назад

    thank you so much. really made me feel better

  • @cmouxm8033
    @cmouxm8033 4 года назад +2

    Me and my boyfriend broke up a couple of days ago.. we dated for a year and a half. We seemed fine and were deeply inlove FR, we would hangout almost everyday but i had to move 40 minutes away from him for college and then he became suddenly distant, and now he tells me that he cant commit to a relationship out of nowhere, he says hes not ready for commitment, marriage or kids and he only broke up with me now to not hurt me even more in the future. I tried to fight for it but it really seems that hes pushing me away.
    This is really a big shock for me because he was always there for me and he really proved that, and i depended on him alot, i know i have to let go but im just really heartbroken and i cant do everyday things without welling up.. i dont know what to do.. i still miss him.

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      I am so sorry to hear about your breakup, but I hope you are getting to a better place and getting through the pain. When we breakup, we morn what could have been and that is a natural part of the process. So follow these tips, trust God that someone amazing is waiting to love you for you and know it gets better. Sending you love!

  • @puglover6113
    @puglover6113 4 года назад +2

    I started dating him in April ;(
    he used to be my best friend and we will do everything together, so we dated in April but schools shut down and went remotely so me and him didn’t have much interaction, so like in july/June (I can’t remember) he told me he wanted to break up, ofc I still had feelings for him. And I still have feelings for him :C I can’t get over him

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Follow these tips and it will help! It always seems impossible to get over them until one day you wake up, and realize it doesn't hurt anymore. You got this!!

  • @worked7815
    @worked7815 2 года назад

    Hi I’m a boy here. I broke up with my girlfriend because we have religious differences. We didn’t mind it, but her parents care a lot about who she dates. I could see that she was becoming incredibly stressed lying to her parents about us. I talked to her and decided to end it not because I wanted to but because she didn’t think we would have a future due to her parents. We ended it on really good terms. But I feel like this hurts way more because we loved each other so much but neither of us could of done anything. I really want to hold on and wait for her, I don’t know what to do.

  • @ProblemKids201
    @ProblemKids201 4 года назад

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  • @angelinarowland1010
    @angelinarowland1010 2 года назад

    My boyfriend dumped me last night. He said it wasn’t me, and that he just couldn’t endure my strict family anymore. He still wants to be friends but Im hurting inside. He was my first love and I couldn’t help but break down crying on the phone while he seemed calm and un-phased. I don’t know what to do

  • @larzaedandrea6499
    @larzaedandrea6499 3 года назад +1

    I hang out with friends but all I think is that I love him so much he was so perfect for me

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      It can be so hard to let go of what could have been when it comes to a past relationship. I would challenge you to keep doing what you are doing and to think about how amazing your future is going to be when someone EVEN BETTER comes along and loves you fully.

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  • @alisamaestas6446
    @alisamaestas6446 3 года назад +1

    I've can't stop crying I was in school and I went to the bathroom and cried all class

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      Hang in there babe!! It will get better 💕

  • @jenilynvergara64
    @jenilynvergara64 4 года назад +3

    Today marks the 2nd day of my broken up experience.. its really paining.. i wanted to talk, text and call him but i wanted to give the space and distance for him to value me.. but its hard uhuh

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      Jenilyn Vergara sending you so much love! I think the days following a breakup are the hardest because the void and the hurt is setting in! So know you are not alone!! Keep it up and give him space. Everyday will have highs and lows but it will get better 💕💕💕

    • @jenilynvergara64
      @jenilynvergara64 4 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow I will and if the time will not come for both of us i will just accept and move on. Thank you for the reply.

  • @HoliAero89
    @HoliAero89 3 года назад

    He broke up with me. He and I were together for 6 years. We were engaged for two years. We just wanted different things in life. He always said I give him too mich anxiety and he was worrying about me too much and just wants to worry about himself. I thought i was going to marry this guy and start a family with him. I accepted it at first but just woke up at 3:30 in the morning just bawling. Everything i do and see i either want to be doing it with him or sending it to him and tagging him in it. Idek how to do anything anymore. He was my best friend. I never realized how much i could just talk to him when we were together. But this video has helped me a little to feel better.

  • @charlottegibson9776
    @charlottegibson9776 3 года назад +1

    hes too depressed to love me. his feelings are gone bc he cant feel anything. he broke my heart

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      @emilyamelia117 2 года назад

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  • @varvarayen.400
    @varvarayen.400 3 года назад +1

    My boyfriend told me to stay friends and chat once in a while when he broke up with me.. so I can give him tips when he fights with his new girlfriend ......

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  • @rekharajak6537
    @rekharajak6537 Год назад

    I loved him to the core..but situations got unsupportive and he left me..he was so sure that he must stay away from me in order to get back on track and I'm left with a feeling like as if I was that bad . He became too rude.. frustrated with me.. I always decide to not hop over him but I loose control and get insulted everytime .😞

  • @far-far-awayfromyou7554
    @far-far-awayfromyou7554 3 года назад +1

    My boyfriend broke up to me in the phone today. I don’t know what to do. I feel like it is my fault. The worst is my 2 years old daughter like him so much and calling him daddy. Now can you help me.

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  • @angelaadjei851
    @angelaadjei851 2 года назад

    My guy broke 💔 up with me unexpectedly because he said I don't respect, accusing etc.....after this message he blocked me now 10days now very dying inside because we are in long distance.....I love ❤️ him so so much .....what to do now 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @JessicaAnneTV
    @JessicaAnneTV 5 лет назад +1

    Great advice Abbi 🔥

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Jessica Anne thanks Jessica!!

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  • @prettyy_chica
    @prettyy_chica 4 года назад

    Thank you so much♥️😪i literally just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday night because he said our relationship is boring becoz we cant see each other due to quarantine😪thank you so much....i will use these tips

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      You got this girl! Breakups are so hard and you will feel all different sorts of emotions hit you as the hurt is still so fresh. But these tips really will help!! Try them out and let me know how they go. Sending you so much love!

    • @prettyy_chica
      @prettyy_chica 4 года назад

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  • @SpookyAres13
    @SpookyAres13 4 года назад +1

    We broke up because they are moving into another state and they also said we don't talk enough.I was like I TEXT YOU ALL THE TIME YOU JUST DON'T ANSWER!!!

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      Sounds like this guy doesn't deserve you.

    • @SpookyAres13
      @SpookyAres13 4 года назад

      Videos liked this really helped me so thank you! This was my first serious relationship in a while,I am really surprised I was able to bounce back to my normal self after about 2 days of her breaking up with me. I

  • @joysonia6654
    @joysonia6654 2 года назад +1

    My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he thinks i deserve better what do i do am in pain 😭😭😭😭

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      @emilyamelia117 2 года назад

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  • @tapasya1
    @tapasya1 2 года назад

    Instead of all this pretense why can’t we just be real and feel our emotions. Why pretend we are okay when we are not?! It’s okay to be sad , vulnerable and express to other person how much they meant to us but that you accept their decision rather than pretending like it’s nothing and you are okay and moved on. I just don’t understand why people can’t be real and raw. It’s not up to you to control others reactions but your feelings have nothing to do with how they react. They are your feelings and you got every right to feel and express them.

  • @BrittanyClow
    @BrittanyClow 5 лет назад +2

    this is great.. love it!

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      @AbbiWinslow  5 лет назад

      Thanks girl!!

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  • @jessicareed9722
    @jessicareed9722 3 года назад

    So to add to the situation we were together 6 months the first 4 months to 5 were great he would slip and say things that included me in the future but now says theres no long term living together he thinks. But then also told me to tell him if hes making a big mistake which i cant do that only he would know how much he care and likes me but not enough to hug and kiss and hold hands lately. We just sat on a couch and he had his arms so closed and when i ask about it he says he notices no difference from before. Im a very sensitive woman however i just can not comprehend and since basically he said im not good enough for his future but you still really like me and care and want to hang out what is that, I KNOW I DESERVE BETTER than for that and to jump ship so early. I know im not perfect my mind spirals but i communicate about it, i care, and i try to always be there but not where i dont feel wanted. Any more advice or whatever is helpful.

  • @be.kind4you
    @be.kind4you 3 года назад +1

    I am in LDR relationship but I broke up with my bf today he said "let's break up I won't back again and forget me" I feel so upset and disappointed I love him so much, we made all promises together we decided to get married in future. It's so hard for me now. I hope he back soon to me 🥺🥺🥺🥺💔

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  • @nikita6822
    @nikita6822 3 года назад

    he's not coming back... he broke up with me because we got into a fight and I was at fault. He won't come back

  • @embervinette1161
    @embervinette1161 2 года назад

    Today I just gotten broke up with and it feels like I skipped a step on your stairs like that feeling in your heart

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад

      I’m so sorry! You got this 💕 it gets easier with time and following these tips

  • @michellekloppers8166
    @michellekloppers8166 2 года назад +1

    U helped me so much about this my bf broke up but I'm only 14 years old but u are the best

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      @kabiratdammy7656 2 года назад

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  • @lilacx4222
    @lilacx4222 2 года назад

    He broke up w me because he wasn't happy in the relationship anymore. Hurt like hell. Thought were gonna be together forever. We were best friends

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад

      So sorry to hear that but now you are off to someone even better that really will be your best friend.

  • @enaneitha9823
    @enaneitha9823 3 года назад

    I feel so horrible right now he rather be with all the other girls I'm pregnant and feel so insecure thanks for posting I really need this!

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      @AbbiWinslow  3 года назад

      You deserve better 💕 be sure to get all the help you need to do what is best for you and baby

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  • @kristen6622
    @kristen6622 2 года назад

    it bothers me the fact he could easily move on… and could possibly be talking to someone else…. i’m so scared of being distant, i can’t stomach the fact that he even thought of doing something like this, it hurts, it’s not like the him i used to know:(

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад +1

      Don’t let your brain spin on thoughts that aren’t helpful. He’s showed you he isn’t invested in your relationship so now you can find someone who is!

    • @kristen6622
      @kristen6622 2 года назад

      @@AbbiWinslow thank you so much for your words of encouragement, it really means a lot love!

  • @Kim.shiftyeon
    @Kim.shiftyeon 2 года назад

    I really relate with everything you told,my boyfriend just broke up with me today where his reason for the break is so silly ......

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  2 года назад

      Hang in there!

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      @emilyamelia117 2 года назад

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  • @francinehunter2713
    @francinehunter2713 Год назад

    Abbi I break up with my boyfriend yesterday because he wasn't showing me any attention and he showing me any interest in me at all and he wasn't calling me my phone at all so I decided to break up with him and it very difficult for me I don't know what to do I have been so many relationship and i am get hurt and it very difficult for me and because he showing any respect all so I decided that I don't want to go into anymore relationship because I always get hurt everything Time go into a relationship and My boyfriend doesn't make time for me at all I don't know what to do

  • @gabby6785
    @gabby6785 4 года назад +2

    When you’ve been broken up for 2 weeks and your still crying and listening to sad songs. When your 13😭💀

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад +1

      To help get over him I would try listening to happy songs, trying new hobbies and getting super busy living the life of your dreams! You got this!

  • @oki_dokixc3816
    @oki_dokixc3816 4 года назад +1

    My boyfriend broke up with me like 10 minutes ago and I’m so upset rn I really want him back, we have a lot of things in common and I want really want to get him back I don’t know what time I should ask him to get back together with me 😔

    • @AbbiWinslow
      @AbbiWinslow  4 года назад

      I am just seeing this now! How are you doing one month out??

  • @JJ-dd8me
    @JJ-dd8me 2 года назад +1

    He will NEVER (0%) come back if you cheated on him. Men mostly would rather be alone than come back if infidelity is involved. Other cases, he may come back... I am a dude btw and came across this vid randomly lmao.