I think the part, Anita, that really made sense to me is the part where you mentioned allowing people to learn and not helping those who don't need it. This is one lesson I really had to learn. Not everyone is even looking for help, just venting...Being the pleaser meant that I had to fix everyone's situation and now I understand that I have to work on me and allow them to learn, grow, etc,.
Mary T Same here, great point! Actually, I would say those who don’t need it or don’t ask or accept it. I was trying to help people against their will and it’s still difficult for me to see people who are miserable, wasting their lives and not allowing external help even when they would benefit from it... (from the way I perceive it). The irony is that I’ve been there myself in the past, not aware of the whole thing, just being closed. It took me a while to become receptive.
Just found your RUclips channel. Reading your book Dying To Be Me some years ago and it was life changing after being diagnosed with cancer. Actually, not being able to focus on reading, I managed to listen to your book on Audible.com (took a couple times to get it in me in spite of the freak out fear I felt. I am you...we are one. I had a 3% chance of survival, Anita. Paying attention to authors (you being one) allowed me to have friends even though I hadn’t met you (or others). I accepted you in m6 heart every bit as much as my true friend. You and other famous artists became my network of grand friends to cheer me on. I found myself getting cheered on...learning how to connect myself up again. No chemo, no radiation, but nice by inch wanted to love, do self care, apologize to myself and make amends. It’s been difficult even with my now work class friends ...as a result and to my own surprise...I’m still here years later. Last count they can find no cancer now anywhere in my body. I must be a miracle. So I’m back, listening to you again and happy to see you here. Big sincere hug..a belated thank you for giving your wisdom and shining light over here that helped chance my life. Since you’re with Hay House you know many of my other friends. They are the highest caliber ones . ❤️👀
Marian McAfee I love hearing your story!!! It confirms this making amends self love is all powerful...although my diagnosis isn't cancer it's life debilitating and I'm seeing that this might be my way to healing..thank you!!
Wow this was great !!!!🙏🏼❤️ thank you Anita really appreciate you ,Your Husband Danny and everyone behind the scenes that make these videos happen with much unconditional Love to you , your loved ones ! Much Love and light ,and eternal infinite wellness for you and your loved ones!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YES! as a RN for 35 years, I embrace what you are saying and want to share this point of view about healing centers for the patients AND the providers. Thanks so much for this share.
Oh I can understand myself much better. Definitely I’m a empathetic person. I can feel people’s feelings and that affects me. I will “recharge” my batteries much more often. Thanks, Anita! 🤗
Every word resonates with the truth of my being. thank you for bringing your messages back from the other side to us. Our need is huge for the truth you speak to help us heal from the wounds of the lies we believed as empaths, to sacrifice ourselves and drain our resources for other people. Thank you for the support to stop the self-hate and be more loving to ourselves first. Thank you for helping me understand my sensitivity to other people is not a weakness to be exploited, but it's a gift to be cherished and protected.
I'm blown away... I didn't know I was an empath. This explains so much! Life brought me the answer I was looking for... to truly heal once and for all. Thank you dear Anita!!
And before I forget, Thank you Anita!! you have been given to all of us as a gift!! Not only to show us how to love ourselves, but to help us become aware of more love, more peace and how life is a gift and we can believe this and prosper from this belief. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Anita. I am so glad you are here and had the strength to come back here to earth and tell us your story! Thank you!!
I’m so proud that of you Anita. I’m listening . I’m healing now . I’ve been meditating to your deep healing CD for at least two years . Everyone could benefit free m it . Please make another one . Anything you do is divinely orchestrated . Many years ago I was in a book store . I found myself in the self help section .🤔I was drawn to Caroline Myss .i purchased her cassette tapes . She tells a story similar to the caller from Wednesday ( I was listening live ) This woman was widowed , with the same financial circumstances. This woman had to sell her possessions . She rented a room in a house and discovered that her love of quilting could lead her to a career . She taught people how to quilt the story of their life into the patterns . God bless all of us . 🍊🍊🍊🍊
This video was something really special for me for two reasons. First, my son is.an asperger. He is more like Danny. My wife often said to me, that maybe I’m an asperger too, even not in such a high score like my son. But, second, in the last few weeks I figured out, that I am more like you, Anita, an a lot of habits, which make some people think I’m an asperger, were just created to protect me, to protect my sensitive empath-core. I did the empath-test and I got this: “Unbelievable! You're an actual GIFTED Empath!”. Now, when I look back at my life, this makes much more sense. OK, now I had to get 63 years old until I found out who I am. If Louise Hay started her career with 65, then there is still time for me. ;-)
Dear Anita, thank you so much for your love and kindness and your clarity! You are absolutely true, I found my self in you in every single words! Bring awarness to empaty is very helpfull, find the courage to bring time for our self without sense of guilt , and most of all not to "identify" one's owne emotions or in other's. For me it's still a "learning", not easy at all, but it's getting much better! S.
In the previous weeks for some reason I felt I should not advise others or step in to "help" them. So about four times I just relaxed when I felt an urge to respond to questions for a group of people (including me) or I saw I could help solve somebody´s situation. In all cases withing minutes or just a few hours the person got help from somebody else or the info I would have otherwise given got to them from somewhere else. And I felt very good, centered, not "distracted" or involved, where I was not even needed.
Maybe this lady could start a support group and get ideas as to what to do. Then somehow it could change a lot of things for other people in the same situation. My heart really feels for her.
I agree 100% on hospitals need to be healing ctrs, but sadly as that young Dr clearly showed ( too many would be turned around & hit with an ego lesson on healthcare ) & would feel that all their hard work ie studying, cost, etc. was all for nothing & why should they start all over again. Thank God there are some that open to it early, thank you Dr Patch Adams who didn't fold & followed his inner knowing.
Reading your book Dying to be me brought me to your videos. I don’t feel crazy anymore. The way you think and move through time, I’ve been in that same space a couple of years now. What was limiting me was feeling guilty about it. My need to disengage and detach in order to recharge and protect my energy and peace of mind is sooooo important to me. But it can be seen as being selfish or being in a bubble. Been told I’m too nonchalant, I don’t care about things, I’m unrealistic, I shoot rainbows out my butt, Etc. When actually I just see things different. The picture is too big and I can’t waste my energy with what I might consider to be tedious things because it drains me to no end. Mentally and physically. Thank you so much!
Beautiful lady who Anita is speaking of, I'm sure u have already found your new self ( I'm only seeing this over a yr later ). U r everything u have done throughout your entire life, everything u have done is a skill. You're only 65, it's just time in your life to be u & not be there for others who don't appreciate your love & loyality. Celebrate you & all the mornings that are calling you, stand proud & true to yourself ( find what u truly love & loves u back, & the rest will fall inline).
this is for the "beautiful lady". God has created all of us in his/her image. God is a creator!! my suggestion is to create! keep creating! Money will come from creating, love for yourself and others will come from creating. Create what you are attracted to whether it be a book, music, art, poetry a new dance..... just create! this is why we are all here :)
Regarding the beautiful lady who is 65, I think she should think of the tasks and jobs she enjoys doing and identity a couple of few things and try to find opportunities to get a job for it. Meanwhile if she has a good friend or a good family member who is in good relationship with her and supports her, she can live with them to save some money so she can get on her feet. I would suggest also to get into a local support group either a church or a spiritual center or online groups to get support from people who have gone through the same kind of issues. I hope her situation will get better soon.🙏🏻❤️
I totally relate to what you're saying here and agree about empathy being a double-edge sword, I have to fight hard daily to keep people from 'bringing me down' on my search for the light... But I also want to help them. So I am trying to work more on just being there, understanding and empathizing with them, but not allowing them such power to suck my energy down, not getting so involved in their pain... On the hospital thing, I love your suggestions on how to build a more effective 'healing center' structure. How hard would it be to find a group of like-minded doctors (on-board with this approach), some investors, and build a 'proof of concept' type facility to build this idea out, and show the world how well it works?
I hope the "beautiful lady" gets all the social security benefits she can apply for at her age of 60+, legal benefits for the divorced aggrieved party that she can get, and starting healthy friendships, counselling, etc. Good luck lovely lady!
Dear Anita, I think that "empaths" is just a nice word for Co-Dependants as they are likely recovering from childhood experiences that made them Co-dependant. Does that resonate? Personally I had a mother who was emotionally/spiritually suffering and so as a result I was sure to put her needs first and my own second. This resulted in myself as an adult with very poor boundaries and the propensity to absorb others emotions and needs and make them my responsibility. Therefore I didn't see my own worth. There are some great books and videos on boundaries and co-dependency out there to learn from. :)
I love your videos! I feel guided, I can see and feel the signs and I am very grateful for that! Thank You for your beautiful and special energy, beautiful! 💫
This is a great one I think: "The only responsebility jou have is be who you are" It will be nice when you repeat Danny's question. I can 't always here what he is saying. Thank you so much Anita for this great video! I am an empath and a therapist. I use a lot you are saying. So thankful! Inge from Holland.
Hello Anita and Danny! I mentioned on the other RUclips, many Autistic people, especially females, are strong empaths as well. I am both an Empath and Aspie, so that sounds confusing! Agree that it can be really helpful to know if we are autistic, or/and empaths. My husband of 3 years, who is very nerdy, but not aspie, was much helped by reading books about female Aspies, and Highly Sensitive people, and he found it really helpful to better understand me. Thank You! Really helpful! ps. Hope to say 'Hello' to you both when in Bristol, UK!
So much love to the beautiful lady! You are so strong. Be open to new love. There are a lot of sweet men out there. As for work I’m sure there’s a lot you can do, teaching cooking?
The part about being “cold” when you shut down the intake...omg I don’t know how many times I’ve been told that I’m cold. I used to take it all in, cry all the time, i was a basket case 😂. Then I went the other way, shut down. Over protective of my spirit. Trying to find the balance is hard. So important to find others who understand this empath life lol.
Thank you, I'm in a rough spot in my life right now with my relationship and I needed this today more than ever, I now understand a lil bit more and have a direction to go with my questions, thank you again very much, and god bless you
... a suggestion for your 65 year old, lovely lady: finally, I’m enthused about living an authentic life, in my 70’s. Divorce, unsuccessful cancer surgery and treatments, death of loved ones, and empathic caring for others interfered until now. And, it can be possible, regardless!! Be encouraged. Nurturing myself, nourishing ingredients in my health protocol, and lots of time in nature has brought me to a cancer-free, fresh start. Blessings to you & and my prayers, too...
I'm just learning about this woman. Wow! This all makes sense to me, given that, I too am an empath. This is probably why I went into ministry. Interesting.....
I’m always grateful for every video you publish for us, you seem to speak wisdom despite you, beautiful. Would you do a video about addictions: smoking, drugs, food ... etc. thank you for your love.
I have tested and already knew I was empath, but here is your video you stated that empaths get fooled by advertisers, and that is not the case with me, if anything I can see right through them and people reach out to me all the time to ask me what I think about this or that before they make a purchase.
has anyone else had the traits of an empath since a small child? I was the only one out of a whole class of children that lost it when shown a video where in the end a baby duck got smushed by a big construction roller. They had to call my mom I was crying so bad.
After a divorce, depression, and chronic pain and chronic asthma, I have been searching for answers and stumbled upon you. I am learning more and more about who I am and why I am here. I am still learning and searching and feel something is missing. I now realize the divorce was good for me and set me in the right direction 7 years later. As for my health problems is it because I do not love myself enough? I have always had this innate sense that there is more but beat that out of me through societies norms and expectations. I learning to let go of that and be open to love myself. It is harder to do than I thought. Any suggestions? Thank you dearly for sharing your story and teachings.
Watch some of her videos on self love and on her near death experience. It really helped me to see my own magnificence and greatness. She has some great practical suggestions, too. Straighten your crown, you've got this 😊
Autism is actually indigo. I believe that people do not suffer from this "label" but are blessed with this. Indigo children are the most sensitive on earth and this is why your husband has been able to "know what you need before you know". God sent people to show us how to become more compassionate, sensitive and empathetic. You are blessed Anita and so is your husband :)
I love this Anita! Healing Center or Heath Care Center to bring people to their best heath. I absorb energies around me... saying no is honoring myself Thank you dear one ❤️🌷😍
I feel like in my relationship I gave all that I had, I have after 10 years realized that I'm pulling away, I have come to realize that this person that I was giving everything to would never give me even half as much, and never has..... Now I have become a cold person to him but I physically just can't do it anymore.......
I also think that aspergers are very attracted to empaths. I also think true deep empaths are infj personality. We wear others emotions. When I'm in a room, I know whose embarrassed, whose sad, etc etc. Being infj I naturally want to ease people and help. It is incredibly draining, like having a party, where we sre acutely aware of emotions, can deduce potential issues, we cannot help but want to smooth out ruffles feathers, make tgem feel comfortable and facilitate good inter actions. If someone's sad were sad and we naturally want yo do everything so they're not sad. Another person might be being perceived as crass...we no they're just suffering from social anxiety, so we feel responsible. That's why it's important to limit time at parties, take time out and social interactions.
Have you ever met an oncology nurse that ended up with cancer herself? This happened to me. I have known 50 or more oncology nurses and only 1or 2 of us had a cancer experience. Thanks
Dear Anita: I'd love to interview you on my channel. I've advised your books to many people and think you could offer a helpful perspective to our ideas on meditation. Thank you. Ryan
Hello Anita. Such an interesting talk today (as they all are!). I believe I am an empath just as you are. Could you please share the source for the tests you mentioned for empaths and Aspberger's? Thank you so much! Sending love ♡
~ thank you, i did not know about it,..., I am very sensitive and could be that I take others energies and why i am so tired,..., hope you will help me to find who I am,...,
Thank you for your good contributions. With subtitles I can understand the meaning of your words well and learn by the way also English, I like that. Have a nice day.
Hi, Anita, Hi everyone. I just found your video and I really loved listening to your beautiful words. Can you tell me what is the situation of that woman over 60 yo? While listening to her story the word that came to me, twice, was 'knitting' and I saw in mind an old lady making gorgeous woolen socks and smiling happily. I am so sorry for this late reply and I hope that will still help her.
Hello Anita, thank you for the information you provide at no cost financially to me. Your information has been life changing for me. My question is would you please provide insight on diet. I stopped eating meat in July, 2017. However, I was wondering if you would share your thoughts regarding proper diet. Thank you for your time.
I got a 28 on the Aspergers test and high on the empath test idk I feel fine 🤔🙇🏻♂️🐸 I was good at taking care of a friend but it would drain me but not so much I kinda enjoyed being with someone who was struggling emotionally psychologically and physical pain because I knew she was gonna get better and now that she is she’s changed soo much that I decided to cut ties with her due to her bad habits but they rubbed off on me is that weird? Lol I think she learned from her mistakes hope so 🤦♂️
I can't stand multitudes, I feel extremely sick after walking on the city streets with people elbow to elbow, I come home and need long time alone to stabilize again, resting
I think the part, Anita, that really made sense to me is the part where you mentioned allowing people to learn and not helping those who don't need it. This is one lesson I really had to learn. Not everyone is even looking for help, just venting...Being the pleaser meant that I had to fix everyone's situation and now I understand that I have to work on me and allow them to learn, grow, etc,.
Mary T Same here, great point! Actually, I would say those who don’t need it or don’t ask or accept it. I was trying to help people against their will and it’s still difficult for me to see people who are miserable, wasting their lives and not allowing external help even when they would benefit from it... (from the way I perceive it). The irony is that I’ve been there myself in the past, not aware of the whole thing, just being closed. It took me a while to become receptive.
Just found your RUclips channel. Reading your book Dying To Be Me some years ago and it was life changing after being diagnosed with cancer. Actually, not being able to focus on reading, I managed to listen to your book on Audible.com (took a couple times to get it in me in spite of the freak out fear I felt. I am you...we are one. I had a 3% chance of survival, Anita. Paying attention to authors (you being one) allowed me to have friends even though I hadn’t met you (or others). I accepted you in m6 heart every bit as much as my true friend. You and other famous artists became my network of grand friends to cheer me on. I found myself getting cheered on...learning how to connect myself up again. No chemo, no radiation, but nice by inch wanted to love, do self care, apologize to myself and make amends. It’s been difficult even with my now work class friends ...as a result and to my own surprise...I’m still here years later. Last count they can find no cancer now anywhere in my body. I must be a miracle. So I’m back, listening to you again and happy to see you here. Big sincere hug..a belated thank you for giving your wisdom and shining light over here that helped chance my life. Since you’re with Hay House you know many of my other friends. They are the highest caliber ones . ❤️👀
Marian McAfee I love hearing your story!!! It confirms this making amends self love is all powerful...although my diagnosis isn't cancer it's life debilitating and I'm seeing that this might be my way to healing..thank you!!
Wow this was great !!!!🙏🏼❤️ thank you Anita really appreciate you ,Your Husband Danny and everyone behind the scenes that make these videos happen with much unconditional Love to you , your loved ones ! Much Love and light ,and eternal infinite wellness for you and your loved ones!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. I just did a test and found out I'm an empath. This explains why I'm can't watch certain movies and feel drained around certain people.
YES! as a RN for 35 years, I embrace what you are saying and want to share this point of view about healing centers for the patients AND the providers. Thanks so much for this share.
Oh I can understand myself much better. Definitely I’m a empathetic person. I can feel people’s feelings and that affects me. I will “recharge” my batteries much more often.
Thanks, Anita! 🤗
I’m an empathetic person. For good or bad...
Every word resonates with the truth of my being. thank you for bringing your messages back from the other side to us. Our need is huge for the truth you speak to help us heal from the wounds of the lies we believed as empaths, to sacrifice ourselves and drain our resources for other people. Thank you for the support to stop the self-hate and be more loving to ourselves first. Thank you for helping me understand my sensitivity to other people is not a weakness to be exploited, but it's a gift to be cherished and protected.
Than you Anita. You are an inspiration for us...your book changed my points of view...we are one...love and peace
lovely clarity on empaths. I could understand myself better now. Beautiful inspiration Anitha.Thanking universe for this chance.
I'm blown away... I didn't know I was an empath. This explains so much! Life brought me the answer I was looking for... to truly heal once and for all. Thank you dear Anita!!
And before I forget, Thank you Anita!! you have been given to all of us as a gift!! Not only to show us how to love ourselves, but to help us become aware of more love, more peace and how life is a gift and we can believe this and prosper from this belief. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Anita. I am so glad you are here and had the strength to come back here to earth and tell us your story! Thank you!!
I’m so proud that of you Anita. I’m listening . I’m healing now . I’ve been meditating to your deep healing CD for at least two years . Everyone could benefit free m it . Please make another one . Anything you do is divinely orchestrated .
Many years ago I was in a book store . I found myself in the self help section .🤔I was drawn to Caroline Myss .i purchased her cassette tapes .
She tells a story similar to the caller from Wednesday ( I was listening live )
This woman was widowed , with the same financial circumstances. This woman had to sell her possessions . She rented a room in a house and discovered that her love of quilting could lead her to a career . She taught people how to quilt the story of their life into the patterns .
God bless all of us . 🍊🍊🍊🍊
Sometimes when I listen to you I just get lost in your genuine smile ❤️ thank you for being here and inspiring all of us 🙏🏻
Yeah Comments are open! Love you!! You're an inspiration for peace, self-ease, happiness and faith in All That Is. Thank you!!!
This video was something really special for me for two reasons. First, my son is.an asperger. He is more like Danny. My wife often said to me, that maybe I’m an asperger too, even not in such a high score like my son. But, second, in the last few weeks I figured out, that I am more like you, Anita, an a lot of habits, which make some people think I’m an
asperger, were just created to protect me, to protect my sensitive empath-core. I did the empath-test and I got this: “Unbelievable! You're an actual GIFTED Empath!”. Now, when I look back at my life, this makes much more sense. OK, now I had to get 63 years old until I found out who I am. If Louise Hay started her career with 65, then there is still time for me. ;-)
Dear Anita, thank you so much for your love and kindness and your clarity!
You are absolutely true, I found my self in you in every single words!
Bring awarness to empaty is very helpfull, find the courage to bring time for our self without sense of guilt , and most of all not to "identify" one's owne emotions or in other's. For me it's still a "learning", not easy at all, but it's getting much better!
S.
In the previous weeks for some reason I felt I should not advise others or step in to "help" them. So about four times I just relaxed when I felt an urge to respond to questions for a group of people (including me) or I saw I could help solve somebody´s situation. In all cases withing minutes or just a few hours the person got help from somebody else or the info I would have otherwise given got to them from somewhere else. And I felt very good, centered, not "distracted" or involved, where I was not even needed.
Maybe this lady could start a support group and get ideas as to what to do. Then somehow it could change a lot of things for other people in the same situation. My heart really feels for her.
I agree 100% on hospitals need to be healing ctrs, but sadly as that young Dr clearly showed ( too many would be turned around & hit with an ego lesson on healthcare ) & would feel that all their hard work ie studying, cost, etc. was all for nothing & why should they start all over again. Thank God there are some that open to it early, thank you Dr Patch Adams who didn't fold & followed his inner knowing.
Reading your book Dying to be me brought me to your videos. I don’t feel crazy anymore. The way you think and move through time, I’ve been in that same space a couple of years now. What was limiting me was feeling guilty about it. My need to disengage and detach in order to recharge and protect my energy and peace of mind is sooooo important to me. But it can be seen as being selfish or being in a bubble. Been told I’m too nonchalant, I don’t care about things, I’m unrealistic, I shoot rainbows out my butt, Etc. When actually I just see things different. The picture is too big and I can’t waste my energy with what I might consider to be tedious things because it drains me to no end. Mentally and physically. Thank you so much!
Very thankful for you and your loving delivery of this valuable insights💕💕💕
Beautiful lady who Anita is speaking of, I'm sure u have already found your new self ( I'm only seeing this over a yr later ). U r everything u have done throughout your entire life, everything u have done is a skill. You're only 65, it's just time in your life to be u & not be there for others who don't appreciate your love & loyality. Celebrate you & all the mornings that are calling you, stand proud & true to yourself ( find what u truly love & loves u back, & the rest will fall inline).
this is for the "beautiful lady". God has created all of us in his/her image. God is a creator!! my suggestion is to create! keep creating! Money will come from creating, love for yourself and others will come from creating. Create what you are attracted to whether it be a book, music, art, poetry a new dance..... just create! this is why we are all here :)
You are a WONDERFUL couple and team. I love both of you. Thank-you always, Anita and Danny.
Regarding the beautiful lady who is 65, I think she should think of the tasks and jobs she enjoys doing and identity a couple of few things and try to find opportunities to get a job for it. Meanwhile if she has a good friend or a good family member who is in good relationship with her and supports her, she can live with them to save some money so she can get on her feet.
I would suggest also to get into a local support group either a church or a spiritual center or online groups to get support from people who have gone through the same kind of issues.
I hope her situation will get better soon.🙏🏻❤️
I totally relate to what you're saying here and agree about empathy being a double-edge sword, I have to fight hard daily to keep people from 'bringing me down' on my search for the light... But I also want to help them. So I am trying to work more on just being there, understanding and empathizing with them, but not allowing them such power to suck my energy down, not getting so involved in their pain...
On the hospital thing, I love your suggestions on how to build a more effective 'healing center' structure. How hard would it be to find a group of like-minded doctors (on-board with this approach), some investors, and build a 'proof of concept' type facility to build this idea out, and show the world how well it works?
I love all your books and videos and truly appreciate all you share with us 💖
Same here
I hope the "beautiful lady" gets all the social security benefits she can apply for at her age of 60+, legal benefits for the divorced aggrieved party that she can get, and starting healthy friendships, counselling, etc. Good luck lovely lady!
Dear Anita, I think that "empaths" is just a nice word for Co-Dependants as they are likely recovering from childhood experiences that made them Co-dependant. Does that resonate? Personally I had a mother who was emotionally/spiritually suffering and so as a result I was sure to put her needs first and my own second. This resulted in myself as an adult with very poor boundaries and the propensity to absorb others emotions and needs and make them my responsibility. Therefore I didn't see my own worth. There are some great books and videos on boundaries and co-dependency out there to learn from. :)
Thanks for sharing. What books do you recommend on that topic?
I love your videos! I feel guided, I can see and feel the signs and I am very grateful for that! Thank You for your beautiful and special energy, beautiful! 💫
Thank you for being such a guiding light! Love you.
This is a great one I think: "The only responsebility jou have is be who you are"
It will be nice when you repeat Danny's question. I can 't always here what he is saying. Thank you so much Anita for this great video! I am an empath and a therapist. I use a lot you are saying. So thankful! Inge from Holland.
Hello Anita and Danny!
I mentioned on the other RUclips, many Autistic people, especially females, are strong empaths as well. I am both an Empath and Aspie, so that sounds confusing! Agree that it can be really helpful to know if we are autistic, or/and empaths. My husband of 3 years, who is very nerdy, but not aspie, was much helped by reading books about female Aspies, and Highly Sensitive people, and he found it really helpful to better understand me.
Thank You! Really helpful!
ps. Hope to say 'Hello' to you both when in Bristol, UK!
So much love to the beautiful lady! You are so strong. Be open to new love. There are a lot of sweet men out there. As for work I’m sure there’s a lot you can do, teaching cooking?
She can start a community of single women who live and help each other, this is one of my dreams
The part about being “cold” when you shut down the intake...omg I don’t know how many times I’ve been told that I’m cold. I used to take it all in, cry all the time, i was a basket case 😂. Then I went the other way, shut down. Over protective of my spirit. Trying to find the balance is hard. So important to find others who understand this empath life lol.
Thank so much for sharing your story, sharing your NDE !💐 I get a lot of power from your experience!👍
Thanks for conceptualising the core values of being an empath and a human.
Thank you, I'm in a rough spot in my life right now with my relationship and I needed this today more than ever, I now understand a lil bit more and have a direction to go with my questions, thank you again very much, and god bless you
... a suggestion for your 65 year old, lovely lady: finally, I’m enthused about living an authentic life, in my 70’s. Divorce, unsuccessful cancer surgery and treatments, death of loved ones, and empathic caring for others interfered until now. And, it can be possible, regardless!! Be encouraged. Nurturing myself, nourishing ingredients in my health protocol, and lots of time in nature has brought me to a cancer-free, fresh start. Blessings to you & and my prayers, too...
I'm just learning about this woman. Wow! This all makes sense to me, given that, I too am an empath. This is probably why I went into ministry. Interesting.....
me too! This is a gift
I’m always grateful for every video you publish for us, you seem to speak wisdom despite you, beautiful. Would you do a video about addictions: smoking, drugs, food ... etc. thank you for your love.
I have tested and already knew I was empath, but here is your video you stated that empaths get fooled by advertisers, and that is not the case with me, if anything I can see right through them and people reach out to me all the time to ask me what I think about this or that before they make a purchase.
has anyone else had the traits of an empath since a small child? I was the only one out of a whole class of children that lost it when shown a video where in the end a baby duck got smushed by a big construction roller. They had to call my mom I was crying so bad.
After a divorce, depression, and chronic pain and chronic asthma, I have been searching for answers and stumbled upon you. I am learning more and more about who I am and why I am here. I am still learning and searching and feel something is missing. I now realize the divorce was good for me and set me in the right direction 7 years later. As for my health problems is it because I do not love myself enough? I have always had this innate sense that there is more but beat that out of me through societies norms and expectations. I learning to let go of that and be open to love myself. It is harder to do than I thought. Any suggestions? Thank you dearly for sharing your story and teachings.
Watch some of her videos on self love and on her near death experience. It really helped me to see my own magnificence and greatness. She has some great practical suggestions, too. Straighten your crown, you've got this 😊
Autism is actually indigo. I believe that people do not suffer from this "label" but are blessed with this. Indigo children are the most sensitive on earth and this is why your husband has been able to "know what you need before you know". God sent people to show us how to become more compassionate, sensitive and empathetic. You are blessed Anita and so is your husband :)
I love this Anita! Healing Center or Heath Care Center to bring people to their best heath. I absorb energies around me... saying no is honoring myself Thank you dear one ❤️🌷😍
Hospitals should be healing centers
I feel like in my relationship I gave all that I had, I have after 10 years realized that I'm pulling away, I have come to realize that this person that I was giving everything to would never give me even half as much, and never has..... Now I have become a cold person to him but I physically just can't do it anymore.......
I also think that aspergers are very attracted to empaths. I also think true deep empaths are infj personality. We wear others emotions. When I'm in a room, I know whose embarrassed, whose sad, etc etc. Being infj I naturally want to ease people and help. It is incredibly draining, like having a party, where we sre acutely aware of emotions, can deduce potential issues, we cannot help but want to smooth out ruffles feathers, make tgem feel comfortable and facilitate good inter actions. If someone's sad were sad and we naturally want yo do everything so they're not sad. Another person might be being perceived as crass...we no they're just suffering from social anxiety, so we feel responsible. That's why it's important to limit time at parties, take time out and social interactions.
Thank you.....You are so right.....We need to be able to say no ,,,,,,MINDY
Glad I found this. Thank You warm there!
I remember seeing you on a PBS Wayne Dyer special :)
Thank you so much 🙏 I just realised I was an empath since birth
Thank you, Anita! It was very helpful for me.
Thanks Anita. Do you have a link to empath aspregers test?
I so enjoy listening to your videos♥️🌸Thank You 🌸
You are an angel! Very helpful....
Have you ever met an oncology nurse that ended up with cancer herself? This happened to me. I have known 50 or more oncology nurses and only 1or 2 of us had a cancer experience. Thanks
Hi,Anita such a sweet voice you have, you are answering to my questions like an angel , thanks for making my life easier, love you darling
Dear Anita: I'd love to interview you on my channel. I've advised your books to many people and think you could offer a helpful perspective to our ideas on meditation. Thank you. Ryan
Hello Anita. Such an interesting talk today (as they all are!). I believe I am an empath just as you are. Could you please share the source for the tests you mentioned for empaths and Aspberger's? Thank you so much! Sending love ♡
So much good advice, Thank you.
I loved ur messages , amazing 💕💕💕💕💖💕💕💕💕👑
~ thank you, i did not know about it,..., I am very sensitive and could be that I take others energies and why i am so tired,..., hope you will help me to find who I am,...,
Thank you for your good contributions. With subtitles I can understand the meaning of your words well and learn by the way also English, I like that. Have a nice day.
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I recommend that lady to write and write and something will enlighten you
Hi, Anita, Hi everyone. I just found your video and I really loved listening to your beautiful words. Can you tell me what is the situation of that woman over 60 yo? While listening to her story the word that came to me, twice, was 'knitting' and I saw in mind an old lady making gorgeous woolen socks and smiling happily. I am so sorry for this late reply and I hope that will still help her.
The lady you speakabout (age 65) should contact AARP, they have training programs for mature adults and may be able to help her in other ways as well.
Can't unhear "ass burgers"!! LOL
Love you Anita!! 💓💓💓💓💓
Hello Anita, thank you for the information you provide at no cost financially to me. Your information has been life changing for me. My question is would you please provide insight on diet. I stopped eating meat in July, 2017. However, I was wondering if you would share your thoughts regarding proper diet. Thank you for your time.
You make me more clear gradually.
Freakin riot the kleenex pass!😆 Love yu guys!🙏💕💋
I love your talking thank you.
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ありがとうございます!
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Many of my >>>3.4
I got a 28 on the Aspergers test and high on the empath test idk I feel fine 🤔🙇🏻♂️🐸 I was good at taking care of a friend but it would drain me but not so much I kinda enjoyed being with someone who was struggling emotionally psychologically and physical pain because I knew she was gonna get better and now that she is she’s changed soo much that I decided to cut ties with her due to her bad habits but they rubbed off on me is that weird? Lol I think she learned from her mistakes hope so 🤦♂️
Would love to have the link to the empath test you took!
I really feel like a smartphone sometimes! Even when i sleep
Thank you for your video!👌🏻
I love your videos 💞💞💞
have you thought that you guys might be twin flame or soulmates, and even you guys r star seeds?
I'm sure you're Dad is very proud of you Anita. I'd be. -Bill Howes. Signing my name is presumptuous I know. It's just an egotistical "Thing" I do. :)
So interested Anita 🙏💕
Yo no se ingles podria poner sub titulos me encanta el canal
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Hi, Anita. Keiko from Japan😄
I can't stand multitudes, I feel extremely sick after walking on the city streets with people elbow to elbow, I come home and need long time alone to stabilize again, resting
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This might sound ugly but that stupid cheating man should be paying her while she gets on her feet. Yuck I HATE cheeters