EP-19 | Ex-IPS Officer Kiran Bedi deep dives into Shraddha case, talks about Kejriwal

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  • Опубликовано: 30 окт 2024

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  • @vloggermegha7965
    @vloggermegha7965 Год назад +85

    what an awe inspiring conversation this was… so informative and completely apolitical… we are in dire need of people like Kiran Mam to guide us through the future.. absolutely brilliant episode.!

  • @Viplove0209
    @Viplove0209 Год назад +42

    in 2010 I met Ma'am and my life changed and today listening to her I again learned so much

  • @pritesh0117
    @pritesh0117 Год назад +83

    Her clarity of thought is at another level! She is SO sharp, witty, and knowledgeable! ❤

  • @rutube007
    @rutube007 Год назад +53

    I'm in love with this podcast after last 2-3 I have watched. I wish this becomes no.1 podcast in the world very soon.

  • @bhavanavijay1428
    @bhavanavijay1428 Год назад +72

    Salute to Kiran Bedi Ma'am.She is still a firebrand. Women in India are the biggest migratory population is a profound statement . It would be nice if Kiran Ma'am educates the girls and women in India regularly to stand up for themselves. There are countless women who are scared to go back home when they are ill treated and abused in the spouse's home.

    • @sunilmalgave7667
      @sunilmalgave7667 Год назад +1

      Well said.

    • @shilpisoni4093
      @shilpisoni4093 Год назад

      Yes she is an Inspiration to many

    • @raulamino1709
      @raulamino1709 Год назад

      Shez most fake person and only big talks ....she have attacked kejriwal but she remained silent alll through....iac got derailed...worst.

    • @luckycharm1611
      @luckycharm1611 Год назад

      @@raulamino1709 I agree with you on this point. I think she wants to live in peace in Delhi. "No point fighting with magarmach if you want to live peacefully in the lake"
      Kejriwal is a crooked politician he will go after her and make her life miserable by talking shit about her. She did not bad mouth anyone. That is not her style. She did not even praise Indira Gandhi when asked about Indira and Rajiv, we should understand ourselves that these people Indira, Rajiv and Kejriwal) are not worth talking about.

    • @raulamino1709
      @raulamino1709 Год назад

      @@luckycharm1611 seprate thing tongive gyaan in podcast with that action she does different thing to do politics.

  • @GirijaDD
    @GirijaDD Год назад +43

    As always, it was divine listening to you Kiran ji. I wish we can replicate tens of thousands of Kiran Bedis to illuminate our hearts.

    • @MRWM-mo6zs
      @MRWM-mo6zs Год назад

      We can but it starts from our homes our kids and us

    • @VM03936
      @VM03936 Год назад

      OK Girija Aunty 😝😁😁😍😋😝😝

  • @AayushShastri
    @AayushShastri Год назад +171

    Whenever I see Kiran Bedi speaking I feel so sad about what we Delhiites lost. What an inspirational woman!

    • @AllInOne-dj2lk
      @AllInOne-dj2lk Год назад

      They are getting what they have voted for. Freebies

    • @sidharth29
      @sidharth29 Год назад +12

      I voted her too. What a loss!

    • @aashishchauhan7904
      @aashishchauhan7904 Год назад +5

      We even lost her one as DCP in Delhi Police

    • @jineshmody79
      @jineshmody79 Год назад +10

      Delhi and Punjab fell for freebies. Arvindchacha ke bauji sponsor kar rahey na.

    • @user-sn4ed4xq6o
      @user-sn4ed4xq6o Год назад +1

      I was laughing when i heard her delhi election speeches. Even the bjp dosent care for her.

  • @Spriduality
    @Spriduality Год назад +16

    Few years back, me & another female colleague were in Mumbai for a weeklong training program and were sharing a hotel room. She accidentally fell in the washroom and bruised her hand & around her eye so we immediately went to the nearest nursing home. The doctor while examining her asked her in private if she was hit by someone? We both appreciated the doctor for being so extra vigilant. ✨

  • @IndicThoughts8
    @IndicThoughts8 Год назад +30

    My father was villain for me up to date I understood his point of view he tight my screw many time's whenever I came late at home or did any misbehave with mine friend arena. Now I understood he is nothing but responsible father. 🤝👍🙏🏼

    • @SR-mv2mf
      @SR-mv2mf Год назад

      Good respect your father he doing for your protection

  • @mamtasrivastava4201
    @mamtasrivastava4201 Год назад +30

    Thanks for bringing this podcast. How informative her interview is.

  • @deepikasingh018
    @deepikasingh018 Год назад +42

    Our visionary former ips , nice to see you here and listening you about Delhi issues as well as our recent public affairs and various things.
    Thank you ma'am 🙏
    Jai Hind 🇮🇳

    • @shubh1694
      @shubh1694 Год назад

      Keval sun ke bhul mat jao...never settle for violence

  • @darshanravi4901
    @darshanravi4901 Год назад +11

    It's such a fresh breath of air listening to a pure bureaucrat speaking with such clarity and authority.
    It's this profound understanding of system and how to work it makes an excellant bureaucrat.
    Delhi it's absolutely your loss because her way of administration would have done wonders and it's not because of her party affiliation but because she has a proven track record of excellant administration.
    Thank you Smita prakash ma'am for an excellant podcast. Best one

  • @shrutishukla1801
    @shrutishukla1801 Год назад +16

    She is such an intelligent dignified lady ... so polite her aura is so positive ... one of the very informative podcast

  • @prmdp2234
    @prmdp2234 Год назад +22

    I'm all glued to ANI podcasts. I make sure to listen every podcast.

  • @cauliflowerhead2735
    @cauliflowerhead2735 Год назад +34

    Physical abuse is rarely only physical, it is also psychological and emotional as the abuser tries to break down the victim's self-esteem so they can do whatever they want and get away with it. It gives a man complete power over the woman, her body and her mind.

    • @shilpisoni4093
      @shilpisoni4093 Год назад +1

      Yes ...totally agree

    • @lokeeb1486
      @lokeeb1486 Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @rahulsharma8940
      @rahulsharma8940 Год назад +1

      The curious thing about this whole podcast and your comment is the constant portrayal of victims as women and victimizer as men. While failing to mention even once that in India we still do not have gender neutral laws about domestic violence and rapes.

  • @bhatnagarkirti65
    @bhatnagarkirti65 Год назад +22

    I really wish this kind of interview is hosted in Hindi, so that so many non English speaking people understands this. So many of my domestic helpers need this kind of advice. I feel from my heart for my helpers but it’s not easy for me to help them with their woes and troubles. Domestic violence is happening more in these uneducated people’s houses. Smita ji and Kiran ma’am are doing a fabulous work 🙏👍

    • @lifeinthecosmos90
      @lifeinthecosmos90 Год назад

      I don't think police complaints would help. They're goons in uniform.

    • @mohanmir
      @mohanmir Год назад

      True laymen do not know what are their rights.

  • @sauravbhagat4150
    @sauravbhagat4150 Год назад +9

    This is my first comment on your channel. This was an amazing conversation. This Lady has Courage, she seems uncorruptable, She clearly has integrity and she is more disciplined than any men I have seen and known.

    • @sauravbhagat4150
      @sauravbhagat4150 Год назад

      @R P How are you so sure that he even read the Quran ? And people who commit the same murder like the Nithari Kaand did they read the quran aswell ?

    • @sauravbhagat4150
      @sauravbhagat4150 Год назад

      @R P I googled it. As of now it's only some Reddit pages and Jaipur dailouges who are saying this no official police report or news report. So it maybe true or maybe false I will wait it out for that. There is no argument justifying on what's written in the book but I don't think it was a murder influenced by that. These kinds of murders are done by men very often Hindus, Sikhs, Muslims Christians, even atheists alike.

  • @dashchik
    @dashchik Год назад +10

    Thank you Smithaji for inviting Kiran Bedi mam to this show. Was great hearing both of you!

  • @AshwinSriram
    @AshwinSriram Год назад +42

    I am not an expert in any sense but I had a friend who suffered from domestic abuse within marriage and what I learnt from her ordeal is that sometimes the victim is afraid of reaching out to others (cops, friends, family, counsellors, etc) because she fears that if she speaks out to others then the offender might come to know about it and will react with immediate violence. The offender usually has some sense of control and power over the victim making them obedient. In some instances the abuser will also threaten the victim by saying that if she complains to others then he will reveal some confidential information that could destroy her family's reputation (this happened with my friend hence I am mentioning this possibility). Sometimes the offender uses blackmail to keep the victim silent. In some cases, the victim might even suffer from Stockholm Syndrome and that may prevent her from reaching out to others. There could be any number of reasons for why a victim suffers silently without taking positive action (i.e. ending the relationship, leaving the guy, etc).
    In the podcast you mentioned that Shraddha should've gone to the police, but if I recall recent reports then Shraddha did file some police complaint but it seems she also retracted it before the police could act on it. Not sure what really happened there or why she did what she supposedly did. Someone can correct me if I am misinterpreting the recent news reports.

    • @nishimehta234
      @nishimehta234 Год назад +6

      You are absolutely right about that. The victim that is the wife is threatened with all kinds of verbal and mental abuse. She cannot go against the abuser for these very reasons

    • @sangeetajoshi2446
      @sangeetajoshi2446 Год назад +1

      What can be done in such cases if any women suffer is that she can go to parents or Where's she feels comfortable but rigidly she can say no to go with them and she should ensure them that she wouldn't speak against them actually after long stay she would know all the truth about the family.
      In our society it's very tuff it will take a long way.
      Blame game is never good just say goodbye n move on and tell them u will not harm them anyway.
      Just not for that you feel afraid just for that u loved them deeply but they don't deserve.
      We need to teach well to our sons n daughters both that u may have different thinking so just don't insult don't play blame game..just leave calmly.
      This would be the true humannnn nature .
      Just be human.

    • @whitelotus2960
      @whitelotus2960 Год назад +3

      U r correct, she was blackmailed so she took it back. Nobody will retract her case after reporting it to, especially the police, unless any blackmail or threatening is involved. I think she gave an ultimatum to him, either u marry or let me leave so he went crazy cuz he didn't wanna marry but he didn't want her to leave so he chopped her off.

    • @sangeetajoshi2446
      @sangeetajoshi2446 Год назад +5

      Aaj ki date main agar aapka vasta galat logon se padh gaya to jaan bachani bhi mushkil hai.
      Hayi sochker dil ghabrata hai.

    • @Ankitasharma-ux6sd
      @Ankitasharma-ux6sd Год назад +2

      A 100% agree to the victim’s mindset while being still in contact with the abuser. The victim/ survivor’s are most of the times are threatened to stand up because of the family, children, financial status etc. It’s not about education of the victim- there has to be some sort of walking steps to do in such situations. All of us can sit and judge a victim that you should never take violence but all the ladies i know who are victims take very small steps very slow…

  • @nisthajaiswal7785
    @nisthajaiswal7785 Год назад +16

    People always talk about a girl and her family but nobody talks about a guy and his family and how is he brought up..RIP shraddha 🙏

  • @csmurty9053
    @csmurty9053 Год назад +4

    Simply fantastic.....Really Kiran Mam is an iconic n towering personality of this country..... Excellent clarity, showing the way forward for every one in d society, for a better social fabric ......Smita ji !!! Thank u for inviting Kiran Mam to ur show....
    Looking forward for another great personality.....All d best.... 💐💐💐

  • @puravgupta4003
    @puravgupta4003 Год назад +9

    She has the ability to keep people captivated for hours on end. She is indeed a wonderful woman. She should be a part of 2024 Union Cabinet!!

  • @YATIN0
    @YATIN0 Год назад +7

    Kiran ma'am is so sorted, and a problem solver. Incredible person.
    I love this podcast. 🌺

  • @luckycharm1611
    @luckycharm1611 Год назад +3

    Excellent interview, very well conducted by Smita Prakash. It was a pleasure to hear the views and advice of respected Kiran Bedi. She is a legend and a true patriot.
    She is methodical, intelligent and practical in her handling of all kinds of situations. She has a way of solving problems and to lead by example. Clear thinking is the Hallmark of great leaders.

  • @ceeyes58
    @ceeyes58 Год назад +3

    Fantastic podcast ❤ so inspiring . As a retired teacher, I exhort every teacher/ school/ educational institution to screen this for their students. So proud of you Kiran Bedi Ma’am! And the questions you posed were insightful and probing, yet not offensive ! Kudos 👍🏾

  • @Scorpionsoull
    @Scorpionsoull Год назад +9

    Exactly i was saying same thing... His parents knew that he is hitting her . But they told her to keep calm . His parents are to blame also

  • @anupriyachoudhary3797
    @anupriyachoudhary3797 Год назад +3

    Wow! Thankyou for bringing her to your show she's my childhood inspiration & still remains one , ofcourse. Lots of love and respect for you ma'am. A true women of substance she is; mostly women who are at top positions put other women down but here she is praising other women and telling them to stand for themselves! Hope to meet you soon ma'am.

  • @idyllicquest6259
    @idyllicquest6259 Год назад +12

    Can't really thank you enough ANI for this interview..... truely insightful, powering and eye-opening..... Yet thanks 😊🙏 keep it up:):)

  • @appumini
    @appumini Год назад +16

    Always good to see you ma’am! Always very energetic and inspiring

  • @kgomathireddy9051
    @kgomathireddy9051 Год назад +22

    Beautiful interview. All the points that Kiran Bedi Ma'am raised/raises have always been relevant to India's civil society....but there has never been sufficient political will to appreciate her commitment to create tangible solutions to our society. It's like... she has always challenged the low IQs of babus and netas and obviously they are nervous to be in her company.
    With respect to Shraddha... I, as a DV survivor and single mother, can honestly say that our social system is ruthlessly patriarchal and biased against women. Our toothless DV law, our judiciary, our misogynistic police and our stifling, spineless and apathetic society kill so many of our daughters every day. My RTI asking for details on how many women got relief thru DV law implementation, across India, was shocking. Not even 1%. Most of them abandoned their cases because the system and courts were painfully slow and always put the victim on trial with mean and mannerless questioning. This suffocating system...its not easy to walk out of your marital home despite domestic violence. Luckily for me my mother was a huge pillar of support. Not every woman is that fortunate. Most violent men draw their energy from their violence. They need their victims and they'll never let them go. It's possible that Shraddha, in a moment of weakness (and trust) could've been party to something that she in retrospect is ashamed of. Probably she was ashamed that her acts could bring shame to her family and he probably was threatening her on those pieces of "evidence". She was not even married to him... She could've walked out. But when you are a DV victim, it just saps your energy, your confidence and a certain depression sets in. It takes enormous courage to walk out and often you are confused about what your next steps should be.
    But the truth is the system is a bigger predator. It sniffs your vulnerability miles away and It'll shred you apart in no time. As a lone woman it's difficult to manage it all. I am sure that poor girl was trapped in all this, not knowing where to go. My heart went out to her...what a way to die. Violent guys have a pattern to their relationships and they have a way with women. Obviously that beast's parents know about his nature. They just don't want him near them. Most often they are happy that their son is someone else's problem and they'd like to keep it that way.
    Young girls should understand that live-in relationships in a culture like ours is the first step to self-burial. And family bonding is a two-way street. Middle class parents don't know how to handle things when their daughter chooses a live-in partner. Its a very complicated situation for everyone concerned.
    But law needn't look at all these issues. It's a heinous crime committed on a young girl and their duty is to deliver justice to her. Drugs, alcohol, material aspirations have lead our young ppl to go astray and feel rootless. I hope these lessons are well publicised and young girls are trained to be more objective and rational about their harmonal needs and stop glorifying that as 'love'.

    • @nishimehta234
      @nishimehta234 Год назад +1

      Very well explained and analyzed

    • @lokeeb1486
      @lokeeb1486 Год назад +1

      What would u say about west then ?? Where men leave the women with child and have kids with multiple women.... women arev depressed there.... with this live in more nos of families will break leaving the women vulnerable.... men and women are different... breakups leave women depressed

    • @lakhotiadigital8732
      @lakhotiadigital8732 Год назад +1

      you have also expressed the reality and truth where its felt on skin and mind. Kiran Mam also said the family needs to be responsible for each one in the string. this is the first liability that the law needs to point so that the whole family is pinned up at one time ie siblings specially and cousins . all varnability starts here because the girls is looked down upon and demoralised. The power to the abuser comes from here where he can move in peace personally because no one is addressing the abuse. Kiran mam is one of a true person but others on chair actually dont deal while respecting privacy. dialing 100 means making a drama at your door steps and neighbors gets gossip topic, so surviving those eye balls is the first painful thing. the law should first ensure privacy to dialing 100 and confrontation on the bases of the call where in the immediate family members need to be roped in, these are the check points thats has to addresses then many more victims specially from middle class family will be able to open up

    • @kgomathireddy9051
      @kgomathireddy9051 Год назад +1

      @@lakhotiadigital8732 Thank you for sharing your thoughts. These ppl are adults. There is little control parents have over them. But in a marriage the in-laws and parents do play a major role in taking responsibility as elders. In today's India elders don't want to take any responsibility of their abusive and confused children, even within a marriage, forget about live-in relationships. Truth is they really have no control. But their hearts bleed when something like this happens. In fact these young pop are abusive of their parents when they do such things. As a society in transition, our young ppls problems are lot more complicated - low self-worth, unemployment, peer pressure to be hip on social media, failures elsewhere and also probably an abusive childhood. They just drift away as soon as they can earn some money. Shraddha and her partner were perfectly grown adults... And that fellow is a classic abuser. He checks all the boxes of an abuser - isolating his partner from other relationships, silent treatments, blackmail, threats to kill....everything about him was wrong and this girl didn't see the red flags until it was too late. Poor girl. Our prayers should go for her soul to RIP and that fellow to be ripped apart. I am surprised to see how the press is writing reports about him. "Shraddha allegedly killed by... " what do they mean "allegedly " when he himself has admitted in his narco tests to the crime? And apparently narco tests don't hold water in the courts...then why do that tamasha?? The system is working 24 x 7 to protect an abusive and violent male. This is our law.

    • @santusanturohit4832
      @santusanturohit4832 Год назад

      Women and Men raise your children well..so this cycle of violence against women will end.

  • @QuirkyBaisa
    @QuirkyBaisa Год назад +3

    Would it be possible to put the entire video in two parts? I don't want to miss watching any second of it. Covering it in two days becomes convenient and delivers efficiency. Thank you.

  • @siddsy100
    @siddsy100 Год назад +25

    Very important information for all to know.
    1. If you are being abused, reach out. Make a 100 call, tag police on social media. Many people just suffer in silence because they don't know what to do. From one of India's all time best, most trusted police officers.
    2. It is one's duty to report a crime. Not reporting a crime is also an offence. If you don't want to be involved, you can ask the police to not reveal your name.

    • @jaidevpathak
      @jaidevpathak Год назад

      why dont we go to the root cause ,, This isnt about the crime , this is all about the mentality which has been groomed since childhood . why should not this be stopped why a Non Islamic Guy chops off an Islamic Lady . because they are taught negative externalities . they perform them well in future Shraddha is one example

    • @rumaranisarkar3918
      @rumaranisarkar3918 Год назад

      HAPPY BIHU MAAJI MAA KOUTI PRONAMJI BAHUTKHOOBJI DHANYAWADJI SUBHAKAMNAYEJI🌺🙏❤🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

    • @rumaranisarkar3918
      @rumaranisarkar3918 Год назад

      THANKSJI Smita Mamji HAPPY BIHUJI Dhanyawadji🌺🙏❤🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @amandeepsingh5387
    @amandeepsingh5387 Год назад +10

    She looks so determined .I always liked to be like her. Truly an inspiration.

  • @surabhisharma1214
    @surabhisharma1214 Год назад +9

    I love how her thoughts flow! Kiran bedi is legendary

  • @mohan023
    @mohan023 Год назад +6

    Such a beautiful episode. Kiran Bedi spoke her heart out. Very authentic and gifted administrator and citizen of india.

  • @lovesharma4883
    @lovesharma4883 Год назад +5

    The monologue at the beginning was very well written and said.
    And looks like another amazing podcast!
    Thanks Smita Ma'am.

  • @jovianjollity5244
    @jovianjollity5244 Год назад +4

    Great interview! What a positive “can do” spirit and service ethic Kiran ji embodies! She’s a strong role model for women and all citizens. No problem is unsolvable/unresolvable for her, whether domestic violence, or traffic snarls. Kiran ji strongly reiterates the need for the right parenting, whether girls or boys.

  • @adityajaiswal6082
    @adityajaiswal6082 Год назад +12

    This one was REALLY INCREDIBLE podcast! I take pride in as someone being a part of Kiran Bedi mam's exclusive BRS community!
    Btw.. I look forward to seeing people like SANJEEV SANYAL SIR on the show!
    Thanks ANI! ❤😌

    • @sakhi384
      @sakhi384 Год назад

      Same here from brs community

  • @namitaupretitewari
    @namitaupretitewari Год назад +1

    Every parents should listen to this talk . Amazing ...👏👏👏

  • @karthikeyenk8472
    @karthikeyenk8472 Год назад +3

    Wonderful interview, Smita... keep up the good work, your podcasts are at another level !! Language used in your interviews is professional and sensitive.

  • @nsadhu65
    @nsadhu65 Год назад +4

    Madam Kiran is always inspiring 🙏 so many aspects she has spelled out that need to be incorporated in every household/ state/country. Her expertise in the field can be utilized for betterment of society.
    Great Conversation @Smita 🙌🏻

  • @vaishalibhonde4760
    @vaishalibhonde4760 Год назад +1

    Amazing and inspiring conversation. Kiran Mam you are a path provider to so many in term of your ideas, thoughts, clear mindset, determination etc etc etc...

  • @NidhiShastri1825
    @NidhiShastri1825 Год назад +2

    Gave me goosebumps! Her concern and affection for the people, clarity in vision and thoughts are unmisable!

  • @SivaKumar-bd8bl
    @SivaKumar-bd8bl Год назад +3

    Ms. Smita Prakash! Your Podcosts have been wonderful and I have not missed any one of them so far. I would request you to call in someone like Rahul Dravid who is not only a great sportspersonality, but a thorough gentleman. Kindly make all efforts to bring him and interview him. We will be honored.

  • @jamyangpelmo5214
    @jamyangpelmo5214 Год назад +5

    After accidentally watching Palki Sharma's podcast I am addicted to your channel

  • @saswatideb8828
    @saswatideb8828 Год назад +3

    Absolute Masterclass this episode is. So very educative and enlightening. 🙏 Thank you very much Smitajeeএ for inviting Kiran Bedi Ma'm to this podcast of yours.
    I would take this opportunity to say that why common people very concsiously not connect with the people because time and again it has been seen that a good Samaritan has been harassed by police. Most unfortunately the likes of Kiran Bedi Ma'm only one or two in number in this vast country. Maybe Police personnels are trained to suspect each and everyone they come across so they donot lose objectivity to deal with each case. But speaking of my personnel experience, I was harrassed by the force when I tried to help a child who was hurt by his alcoholic father. I was made to feel as I was a criminal. We will readily seek help from an Indian soldier but not a police. To us police "represent the statement " Rakshak hee Bhakshak".

  • @shivzutshirazdan1854
    @shivzutshirazdan1854 Год назад

    Smitaji you handled this stint with kiranji very well and covered all the topics very articulately...Thank you...loved it ...

  • @anusnoopy135
    @anusnoopy135 Год назад +10

    Kiran Bedi Mam ❤ so much public officials politicians can learn from you

  • @adityakumarshukla1769
    @adityakumarshukla1769 Год назад +14

    Kiran bedi is icon of Indian lady....

  • @nirmalsharma5989
    @nirmalsharma5989 Год назад +3

    It’s a very good session with this great Lady Kiran Bedi ji! I wish she could come to politics and serve India. As she said, PM Modi ji is a karam yogi and moving India to a different level. I hope and pray that he continues for another five years and bring India out of the corrupted system. We are fortunate to have him as our PM.

  • @shinypj9143
    @shinypj9143 Год назад +1

    It was really a very inspiring and informational episode and I have been looking forward for such a detailed conversation with Kiran Bedi mam. She has been my source of inspiration ever since I have heard of her.
    Thank u Smitaji for telecasting this episode.

  • @salonisingh7897
    @salonisingh7897 Год назад +3

    Ma'am it's a humble request.🙏
    Please release these conversations in Hindi too.
    Our other half population needs to empower more.

  • @BohoDevi
    @BohoDevi Год назад +7

    While Madamsir Kiran Bedi made some important points about Shraddha. There is something called Trauma Bonding which seems to be the case with Shraddha so despite wanting to leave that monster she may have been Trauma Bonded. Trauma Bonding is when an abuser uses manipulation tactics and cycles of abuse to make the victim feel dependent on them for care and validation, causing a strong attachment or bond. This often occurs in romantic narcissistic relationships, but can also occur in families, friendships, or work relationships

  • @hardik7h7
    @hardik7h7 Год назад +1

    This Lady knows so much and lot to learn from her please ma'am if you can bring her once again for a talk on different issues like thier total journey as an IPS officer or what a governor do or any other special topic u think it will be a great moment for all of us

  • @shruthidevaraju3012
    @shruthidevaraju3012 Год назад +6

    Mam she had filed a complaint in police station last year November, but police didn't take any action... And yes women have a psychological issue that what if she leaves him, society may treat her, her parents may get hurt, etc... It's not financial stability, it's psychological, we have been told from early age to adjust, forgive etc. And normalising verbal abuse also.. Sad still this upbringing is there in so called ellite, educated family also...

  • @mbchadha
    @mbchadha Год назад +8

    I want to ask Mrs Bedi. What is hindering GOI to amend police act of 1860. Why cant there be a new modern police act to cater todays modern India.

    • @niharenduchakraborty1595
      @niharenduchakraborty1595 Год назад +1

      You are absolutely right now it is high time to Convert Police Department into a seperate like election Commission etc so that at least a change will take place though it may take time 🙏

  • @Parenting.coach_sakhi
    @Parenting.coach_sakhi Год назад +1

    Dear Smita and team...another sterling interview....so much to learn ...we all have contributed in our small ways and i understand how tough it is to just work good work .....she is truly a Hero.......civil servant politicians all can do so much..we as simple working class citizens are doing are bit ...... highly inspired to walk that extra mile ..thanks Smita and team keep it up

  • @iamamoghgaming8229
    @iamamoghgaming8229 Год назад

    Wonderful Kiran Bedi Madam..nice to listen to you on this show..we need more Administrators like you Madam..Thanks Smitaji for this wonderful conversation.

  • @mayankrocks89
    @mayankrocks89 Год назад +5

    They missed an important point! Sometimes it's the mother of the boy. A woman is the worst enemy of another woman. I have seen so many decent sons who were madly in love with their wives only to have to choose between their mother or wife and about 80% of them chose their mothers.
    There was a very nice Jain couple that lived downstairs in our apartment building and they had a five year old son. Very happy couple. Living a happy life until the father passed away and mother moved in. She filled her son's ears and he started accusing his wife of cheating. Started abusing her and she finally ended up divorcing him. There was another beautiful couple and the mother did not even live with them but she brainwashed her son into thinking that his wife was having an affair! I have seen so many times mothers influencing their sons' married life directly or indirectly.

  • @rangansaha243
    @rangansaha243 Год назад +2

    Agree. I am a 90 born but I don’t know how I know the name Kiran Bedi since childhood. It’s not just me , I think lot of my generation. She is so popular.

  • @lakshminarayanavpisupati6460
    @lakshminarayanavpisupati6460 Год назад +2

    Very much need of the hour interview. Thank you

  • @ajaypanwar8750
    @ajaypanwar8750 Год назад +12

    Mam also bring to your show sir Vikram singh ( ex dgp up )

    • @BasuTh
      @BasuTh Год назад

      plus one

  • @rahulpande2174
    @rahulpande2174 Год назад +2

    Smita ji you are doing a yeoman's job by getting such influential personalities in your podcast. Even if 10% of your viewers follow the take-homes of your enlightening conversation with icons like Ms Kiran Bedi, I guess this country will surely become the Vishwaguru. Thanks.

  • @vikramtripathi8779
    @vikramtripathi8779 Год назад

    Smita ji, another good podcast. Kiran ji, the first lady IPS, 24th Lieutenant governor of Puducherry and more, I respect her very much.

  • @madhurinaidu1078
    @madhurinaidu1078 Год назад +5

    Awesome ... so true, education only is not enough at all....we all must be brave and strong and alert

  • @rayatreyeedutta5311
    @rayatreyeedutta5311 Год назад +1

    I am big fan of Kiran ji. It was so good to see her. Wonderful interview. Specially the suggestions given by her should be taken up seriously. Wish to see Sambhit Patra and Smitaji face to face.

  • @akhileshbadrinath6537
    @akhileshbadrinath6537 Год назад +11

    Kiran Bedi!!👍

  • @namangoyal2ct
    @namangoyal2ct Год назад +3

    She is so pure and awsm .. great podcast.

  • @GirijaDD
    @GirijaDD Год назад +3

    She went to the police in Mumbai.Lodged a complaint. She was asked to withdraw after 27 days. For 27 days the police were twiddling their thumb. They did not do anything.

  • @greenplant5197
    @greenplant5197 Год назад +1

    Wonderfully inspirational interview with the tough lady MS. Kiran Bedi who means business; a no nonsense person. She needs to b the Chief Minister of Delhi who can bring the city on track. Women of Delhi look up to her; A able administer who stands up to all odds. Smita Prakash forgot to mention that Kiran Bedi was honoured with the Magsaysay Award too. Many accolades to her account too.

  • @SanataniBharat2
    @SanataniBharat2 Год назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @vmaadhu
    @vmaadhu Год назад +2

    Wonderful podcast with Kiran Bedi Mam . Thank you for the same . Each of your podcasts have been absolutely interesting.

  • @aman_9699
    @aman_9699 Год назад

    It's a privilege to listen Kiren Bedi please bring her more & more. Her presence confirms our belief of beautiful India, empowered India.

  • @sureshavadhani7764
    @sureshavadhani7764 Год назад

    Salutes to Kiran Bedi madam. She is Bharathki beti that we all are proud of. Candid interview. Her mention of Palki Sharma in ur podcast shows how updated she is. It was a treat to hear her speak

  • @kavita344
    @kavita344 Год назад +3

    She is so right a woman is a migrant in India. I have suffered enormously at the hands of my parents the trauma affected my psyche so much that I wasn’t able to adjust in the society. It is unbelievable harm to women like me and no one speaks about it.

  • @sonudana
    @sonudana 8 месяцев назад +1

    So happy that Dr Kiren Bedi served as Lt Governor of Puducherry, my hometown. She was so reachable to public, that I could enter Raj Bhavan for the first and last time in my life. ❤🙏💐

  • @jagdishkarande474
    @jagdishkarande474 Год назад +1

    Every interview I’ve seen has been lovely.
    Keep it up and continue giving us the pleasure of watching.

  • @ChitBits
    @ChitBits Год назад

    How did I miss this fabulous episode??!!?? Fantastic conversation ❤

  • @prathimad4566
    @prathimad4566 Год назад +1

    I learnt so much about the constituency, electorial, about family abuse law, duty of the citizen.
    She should definitely write about the ideas on resolving issues in the country so that the respective CMs can look them up as suggestions & public can raise the voice to abide by the same. Irrespective of the ruling party.
    Thank you, SP. I visited here for Palki, and now after Kiran Bedi Ma'am I'm subscribed.

    • @santusanturohit4832
      @santusanturohit4832 Год назад

      Learn about Narcissism Personality Disorder..that Murderer Aftab is a Narcissistic

  • @vanisarada9886
    @vanisarada9886 Год назад +5

    Great lady our dear Kiran Bedi mam.🙏

  • @dr.raseekvaghasia9927
    @dr.raseekvaghasia9927 Год назад

    Thank you vary mush smiita mam for such a wonderful conversation wirh dr kiran mam, it is always inspiring to hear kiran mam on various topics and her insight to deal with various issue during her journey

  • @Scorpionsoull
    @Scorpionsoull Год назад +7

    Society and laws are not good in our country. My mom was a teacher and she needed help. She went back to her mother and was sent back saying things will change. She killed herself infront of me when i was only 2.5 years old. That's the only memory i have of my mother. She was independent, she was smart. Till today i don't know the reason why she had to it. My father married another lady after that and she used to abuse me. When i was 5 years old my grandparents ( mother parents) brought me to their home to take care of me. My father Never bothered about me. He used to work in reputed company. I had no relationship with my father. Till the age of 10 i used to scared child. Even my grandparents never told me what exactly happened. I don't understand why they didn't put case in him. Today i am 30 single and working very well. But was not allowed to study cause whats the point of me studying cause i am a girl. 6 months back when i was in so much emotional pain i called my father one day to know the date when my mother passed away. 6 months back only i came to know what was that date. Death certificate doesn't mention reason of death only date. What laws??? what society???? Relatives used to feel sorry for me but no-one encouraged or focus on my studies. I was a bright child in school but could not complete my graduation. I am 30 years old , alone , independent but still Haunted by my childhood memories.

    • @starbucksadmin7265
      @starbucksadmin7265 Год назад +1

      you are lucky. you dont have to worrry about mom and dad. you are free bird ,nothing to worry . be happy

    • @theefficientfrontier
      @theefficientfrontier Год назад

      @@starbucksadmin7265 what nonsense....as if 'mom and dad; is a 'jail'.

    • @theefficientfrontier
      @theefficientfrontier Год назад +2

      stay strong !! if you are open to it..try to find a partner and build a life .life is too short for dwelling on the past and feeling sorry for urself..

    • @georgecarlinn6288
      @georgecarlinn6288 Год назад

      You can still complete graduation there are so many options to study , you are still young , people abroad graduate at 30,40,50 age

    • @santusanturohit4832
      @santusanturohit4832 Год назад

      Maa Adishakti bless you lady.
      Hope you have taken professional help from Psychologist/Psychiatrist..Meditate and heal yourself..and share your story to others who are in darkness. .be light for other people who are in despair

  • @nishchalyajnik2860
    @nishchalyajnik2860 Год назад +1

    There is a reason why people love and respect Kiran ji. To the point answers. Always solution oriented. For most problems, she has ideas. Even if 1% of us start thinking and working like her, Bharat will become superpower.

  • @anikalaghari1919
    @anikalaghari1919 Год назад +3

    Throughly enjoyed this awesome Podcast with this very intelligent lady. May India continue to produce more of Ms Bedi

  • @solitude9665
    @solitude9665 Год назад +2

    Jewel of Bharat Ms. Bedi.....best podcast...Thank you Smita.

  • @ashwini513
    @ashwini513 Год назад +3

    I am totally loving these podcasts... Mam was so brilliant.thank u so much for having such wonderful guests

  • @radhs7
    @radhs7 Год назад +3

    What a strong, wonderful, and inspiring woman!

  • @apupadhiar2068
    @apupadhiar2068 Год назад +2

    I will be always grateful to you Smita Mam for this wonderful Podcast
    I myself have learnt a lot of things from this podcast

  • @sandhyakulkarni894
    @sandhyakulkarni894 Год назад +4

    These podcast has been magnificient as u have took people who are from the society to the society its great delight to watch!!❤

  • @amarjajog4763
    @amarjajog4763 Год назад +6

    What an amazing lady! A big salute to her! ❤

  • @parveenbhatia8842
    @parveenbhatia8842 Год назад +1

    I loved your conversation today as she is the one I idolize to speak truth no matter what.

  • @gogreen539
    @gogreen539 Год назад +1

    Amazing interview..

  • @kbmnair2182
    @kbmnair2182 Год назад

    Just phantastic. Kiran Bedi concluding the interview in the assessment of the PM is not surprising as she herself had earned such a leadership reputation as a police commissioner in Delhi.

  • @shobhavijay6000
    @shobhavijay6000 Год назад +1

    Mam u r amazing. Ur IQ is too sharp It's ur upbringing that speaks. Many facts of life coincide with me and my parents especially my dad. Mam ur physiology to tackle the these criminals is worth imparting to the new officers. So that we can have a top class law abiders

  • @atuljaindsp8498
    @atuljaindsp8498 Год назад +3

    Smita ji, u have taken the interviewing to a very high level. Keep it up. Hope Modi ji can come one day on this.

  • @rajeevbhatnagar9069
    @rajeevbhatnagar9069 Год назад +2

    Smita Ji I love your podcasts. You have such an easy style with a natural mix of Hindi and English and asking all relevant questions. Mrs Bedi is one of the most accomplished person that India has produced and it is a shame and our misfortune that she could not become Delhi's chief minister.
    One suggestion..please change your background wall as it is very distracting and ugly.

  • @AmanMishra-cu9ne
    @AmanMishra-cu9ne Год назад +6

    your doing good

  • @pialidasgupta
    @pialidasgupta Год назад +5

    It is very doubtful that Shraddha will get justice and Aftab will be punished as our judiciary believe in Sharia.

  • @neelamsharma2196
    @neelamsharma2196 7 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful lady . Thanks samita for bringing inspiring people

  • @meenamalhotra3567
    @meenamalhotra3567 Год назад +2

    Such a strong and accomplished lady, cherished her all my life.