Drugs Destroyed Mother-Daughter Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her drug-addicted mother. She’s suing her for impound fees and the value of a watch. The defendant admits she made bad choices and became addicted to crack, but she’s struggling to get clean. She denies owing her daughter anything.
Judge Mathis showed that woman absolute respect while she was coming off a bit disrespectful. He saw her worth. This was an amazing case. I wished the woman well
yeah like she has shown so much respect to her own children 😂😅😂😅😂 she deserves all the forgiveness
He should have GOT ON HER like he did all others. This is the worse mom ever.
Exactly
There is no point in trying to break down an already broken human.
Now if he can show the same respect all the other guests that have been on the show and putting great efforts to stay clean that would be great.
And that's why you have the best comment, because nothing could be further from the truth..
I Love that Judge Mathis was being understanding and non-judgmental with the defendant the entire time, it was probably one of the reasons that motivated her to get help when he offered it
I agree there was no reason to kick her when she is obviously down. Even her daughter that was suing her didn't do that. Hopefully the mom is in a better place in her life now.
Plus she was honest. She even said, my mother raised me right, “I just wanted to do what I wanted to do”.
I can totally relate to her experiences because both of my parents were "crack addicts". I would be so embarrassed by them especially my mother and the jokes they would say to me and my siblings. I overcame that situation in my life by finishing school and getting a trade in Manufacturing and now I'm doing much better than yesterday for my wife and two children. I'm too blessed to be stressed
God bless you 👑 king ❤
@@piinkboogotti thank you very much ❤️. God 🙏 bless you and your family too.
👏🏿🎉🙏🏿🤞🏿 stay strong God bless you and your family
God bless brother! Keep it pushing!!
@@dannykchanell_ thank you very much ❤️
Heartbreaking to watch this mother's behavior. Prayers for the children 🙏
Even more heartbreaking to observe our society's behaviors that make our environment fertile for the development of substance abuse and other forms of addiction.
Way to go MS. STARLA MAY OUR FATHER GOD BLESS U,AND BLESS AND HAVE MERCY ON US ALL, AMEN!!!!🙏🙏😇😇😊😊💯💯👍👍
@@sereneamani1713it’s not society’s fault it’s the mothers fault at the end of the day.
What was so heartbreaking about it?
Feel bad for the child.
There’s a reason she didn’t wanna give too much to her dad. We don’t know what he’s like
You notice that too?
@@tamarshawilliams93 I definitely did
Definitely peeped.. the nervous giggle
yup … caught that too
Like she trying to do better to rid herself of both of them😢
I'm so happy to hear that she completed the rehab and have been sober ever since. JM handled her perfectly and that's what made her willingly. I can see that she regrets ever taking her first hit.
Where did you get that info from ?
@@india-ds3wf there was an update on her at the end
I did not think she would take offer for rehab and definitely she would not complete. There I go judging again! 🥴
Be supportive and hope and pray for the best.
Praise Jehovah! She put her best foot forward. ♥️
@@india-ds3wfit was at the end of the show on her update.
The mom was actually very well spoken and thoughtful. I appreciated her honesty.
What case were you watching
what do lie well spoken
Thank you for not embarrassing or chastising the defendant when she said her daughter has a 3.99. Thank you for the compassion ♥️
After watching this sad case, I called my father and mother up and told them how much I loved them and thanked them for being positive influences in my life.
You are so right…this was a painful case to watch.
This defendant is the saddest case. Makes you appreciate when you have good parents.
I failed mine several times they still love me and still there for me I watch how pitiful these so called parents on here are n each time I feel like the @sshole I really am...
I’m so blessed to have had a wonderful mother and step father, my dad was on drugs and was absentee.. so proud to have been raised by my mom and step dad.
I literally started thanking God for my mom mid show.
The mom🤦🏾♀️at first I was laughing then I got sad😢
Don't judge anyone. Just because somebody's not on drugs doesn't mean they're good people just throwing it out there
She seemed very reluctant to give her father any credit. However, the Defendant is too far gone. Congrats to the young lady.
Well maybe she raised herself. I dunno
I feel like that too and she was just to polite to air him out. Maybe she needs all the credit for keeping herself in line.
That’s what I said- she was like “Kevin (I think)” like she had to think about it lol
@@nikkiknowship-hop1466 I caught that too
Praise God! I’m proud of Starla and her daughter!
I’m about halfway into this episode! At first I had so many jokes yet as the defendant started talking! I can’t do nothing but feel this family struggles! Peace and blessings to the young sister and may The Most High Bless this defendant
Saddest episode I've ever seen
Yes I feel so sorry for this young lady and her sister. She doesn’t deserve this.
Something must’ve happened with the plaintiff and her father 😞 she doesn’t seem too thrilled about him either 😢
Poor girl. She's been through so much.
Same thing I can see by her actions. Especially when she made sure to say how her teachers helped her & didn't really want to say his name. I just hope her & her sister are doing good
I said that!!! He ain’t no better then the mama and the mama know too.
Right. Judge forced her to give him praise
@@Remaketomakeupthat’s what she said God did it 😂🤦🏾♀️
I think she reminded him of someone in the past . He showed so much compassion and kindness to her despite the odds .
I am glad that the defendant voluntarily went to rehab, and remained sober they seem to have a good mother/daughter relationship.
So am I. AMEN!!!!!
@@misterbee66 yes👍💯
The mom is sassy, but I appreciate her realness. Glad JM chose not to dig into her.
Shoutout to the daughter for being so calm and kind but also setting boundaries. And I'm so happy to hear the update on the mom. I hope they're both still well today. ❤
For anyone that wonders how family can COMPLETELY CUT TIES with a family that is addicted to drugs…this is why. They will lie, steal, and drain you of your peace. Family or not, nobody is worth this level of disrespect, disruption, and pain.
My mother has been addicted to crack my whole life! I don’t want a relationship with her at this point. At some point you have to disassociate and move on.
I get that. I’m in my 70’s now but my life was similar to yours. I had to do the same.
Frfr❤ 😢
I'm sorry! 😢 I do have an honest question out of curiosity. Is it still a void whereas the little girl in you still wants to be loved on by her. I have heard people say that no matter how bad the person is, something deep down still longs for the love. ❤
@@kizzyrock I need a mother and I always will. I’ve never had a mother but I am a mother. I try everyday to be the mother I always wanted.
@koyadora09 Wow!!!!!! VERY well said!!!!! Keep pushing sis, the BEST is to come!!!!
Im in tears right now for both! I'm SOOOOOOOO PROUD OF THIS MOTHER THANK YOU JESUS! IM GOING TOO CONTINUE TOO PRAY FOR HER AND HER BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER🙏🏾
@@thinkglobalactlocal4898 I will be praying for your son and your family I've learned being a good parent doesn't stop our children for making there own choices you did a great job! And continue too be by his side he will ALWAYS know you NEVER gave up on him he will come back I promise❤️🙏🏾❤️
Things like this are why we need to break the generational curses. I don't talk to my mom and it's been 3 years and I most definitely don't regret it. I cringed every time she called and I can't live my life like that. Glad this young lady is doing well.
They removed your children of your addiction not because you are angry 😡 how do that sound?
To see the mother-daughter hug as well as an update about the mother completing rehab melted my heart! Sending continuous prayers to the both of them. 🙏🏽🥰
Prayers and much success to this mother and daughter.
All jokes aside this mother is intelligent despite of her bad choices
Very intelligent..
She seems like she would be phenomenal if she was clean.
@@mrshappilymarried1 I agree
@@mrshappilymarried1 Yes with long-term sobriety.
Very. I'm wondering was the Dad abusive. Because she kept saying God raised her daughter..😢
I'm so impressed with how he treated her and how Her Daughter conducted herself what a classy young lady. I've been in recovery for 7 years and if someone had shown me that type of kindness for my disease. I may have gotten clean sooner.
He was only like that towards the mother, because he could not intimidate her.
The Mother needs help clearly and I pray she gets it! I pray for the Daughter’s as well. This was heartbreaking to watch!
Daughter didn't want to give dad credit for a reason. Lol at how JM glossed over that.
Right I saw that too! I was hoping it came out why smh
Right, I noticed that as well!!
Congratulations to the young Queen, continued success young lady....made it through a rough situation
The moment the mother walked in, I knew she was still using
Or still suffering from the mental and emotional damage.
I’m torn about this case. Everything the mother said was terrible but I can see that deep down she is a good woman and an interesting/funny character. I’m so happy that she did the right thing in the end and I really hope that she repairs her relationships with her children. They deserve it.
very very deep down like black hole kind of deep down
@@ivonned32 Ok.
Good people don't do bad things...on purpose.
@@ivonned32 🕳
Prayers for the mother and her daughter. Drug addiction is a powerful, life-threatening stronghold that's not easy to subdue. Judge Mathis extended grace and some compassion to the mother because she was at least honest. The rehab update was positive, so there's always hope for healing.
Has the nerve to say I’m her mother, meanwhile, she’s your daughter, laid up in the hospital and you steal her car. Just a sad ass case.
"How you know?"
I pray the daughter is doing well with her college studies, as well as her little sister.
Why is the judge forcing her to give her Dad credit! He need to stop pushing his beliefs on ppl. Something is up with her and her father.
Damn defendant strung out bad… the daughter didn’t laugh one time, she hurt
Lol I kinda like the defendant (mother) she was ready for JM she came in knowing who she was and where she was in here addiction stage JM knew the crackhead jokes wasn't going faze her because she solid in her own understanding of herself.
Facts
That crack permanently messed her mother's mind up. Sad to see it. So glad her dad was there and that she is thriving!
Idk I wouldn’t say I’m glad her father was there. Seems like she went through some shit with her father too if you pay attention to her when she mentions him and how she reacts to giving her father credit. I wish she would’ve spoke up on that but she seems to be doing good in her life and I pray she continues.
as someone who lived w/my dad and succeeded in spite of him, and not because of him, i don't like how judge mathis tried to force the plantiff to give him credit. my teachers were way more influential in my drive to get that 3.97 gpa. and to go to college. that baby looks like she has tears in her eyes. i wish her well. and i hope that mother stays clean.
yall would have zero problem if he was trying to give a mother credit, its been shown that single fathers do way better than single moms when raising children.
I like the respect shown this woman by Judge Mathis. He usually rips folk to SHREDS. He detected something in this woman
Seeing the pain her daughters eyes brought me to tears. I'm glad mum is doing better , it's heart breaking seeing families destroyed from drugs n alcohol. I love how judge Mathis not only helps in court but also out of court offering rehab, helping young adults with their education. Love watching his show always have a smile at the end of every episode. Thank you.
She really seems like such a good hearted woman! May she is healed, released from bondage, may daughter be healed from all illness, may this family be uplifted and healed. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I can’t even be mad at the mom, my heart goes out to her, she pitiful. The daughter is such an awesome and amazing young lady to defeat this obstacle. She seems to have her head on straight. I can also see the hurt, it’s hard for her to let her wall down. She didn’t crack one smile, she is so over her mother’s addiction.
She was fucking disgusting
The mother is so beautiful & my prayer is that she gets some help!
The daughter is so strong, I pray that she can continue on the right path!
Prayers to the mother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m glad she went to rehab I just hope she maintains her sobriety 😊❤
Everyone is laughing, the young lady is not
You were getting REEEEAL HIGH REEEEEEEAAAAALLL HIGH‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
JM is CRAZZZZZZY‼️
Both mom and daughter are beautiful...I hope the mom gets help...my heart hurts....rooting and praying for her...you can still see her cute personality through the drugs...addiction is real and addicts are people too and should be treated as such❤
The way you talk and treat others is a ministry. Walk in the fruits of the Spirit 💯
The update was the best part.
I had so much second hand embarrassment for the plaintiff listening to her mom
Great episode... I'm glad the mother went to get help!!! & they got the nerve to cancel Judge Mathis!!!!! He is doing God's Work!!!
Baby girl so hurt 😢 God please continue to cover this beautiful young lady👑❤️🙌🏿
3 minutes in and it seems like mom is still using and JM seems to know because he isnt going ballistic on her for her interrupting him multiple times
She literally said she still on drugs
@@Proverbspsalms your right i missed that part
@@jplaya2023 🤣😂😂😂 she was honest about everything
@@jplaya2023 I think that’s why Judge messy didn’t mess with her too much
Pray for this sister
Thank God she did well in rehab. Way to go Starla. I pray she has continued her journey of sobriety and that her and her daughter are both doing well. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Cases like these make me thankful that I have the type of mother I got ❤ prayers for the daughter she's beautiful 😍 and I wish her well in life 🤞🏼 and hope her mom can get her life together. Nothing is better than a mother and daughter bond
Awww at the end tears come to my eyes because you can tell the mum really wishes she didn't go down the road she did and really loves her daughters.
She high today
This case made me sad, but I could tell she wanted some kinda help, I wish her the best with staying clean it's hard out here.
The mother still has something about her that inspires some hope. She seems very composed and honest about her life. I wish her well. The daughter will go places.
JJ could see she truly needed help. Love that she took him up on the offer.
Yea I can not- when she said I’ll blow smoke in here I was done. God bless her.
I had to play that part back to make sure I heard her correctly
@@halosane4170 oh she was dead seerious and she should be the face of don’t smoke crack.
As soon as she walked in the court I knew she was still on that stuff and it was abt to be a mess. My heart really goes out to her daughters. I really pray the mom can get clean before it's to late.
Mama Said It Best Give The Praises To God Jehovah 🙏🏿
I’m glad JM made light of the situation he didn’t batter or scold her. He handled this case decently.
Let's hope Starla is still clean after the update.
Definitely onna them ones… now that’s how you bounce back Queen💪🏾❣️
3.99 good job 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Judge Mathis was extremely compassionate with her. I’m shocked because he usually comes down on parents for stuff like this.
He saw her worth
This was painful to watch. I really hope that they are both doing well…🙌🏾🙏🏾
Proud of them both … proud of the daughter over coming so much in her life and her mom for getting the help she needed
The defendant was sad, but was HONEST AND HILARIOUS AF 😂😂😂
Kudos & utmost respect to the young lady , the plaintiff. ❤
I know she did t say she could do better than a 3.99 😭. Lawd, leave that girl alone she is doing an awesome job. She had some hesitation with mentioning her dad so I assume it was a little rocky. The defendant is very far gone. So sad.
JM gave the mom so much grace! Yahweh please touch this family and I pray for her and her sister! Beautiful girl🙏🏾✨
AMEN in Jesus's Holy name
She ain't letting the judge embarrass her
I’m glad she got the help she needed
Shes frriiiieeeeeddd..!!!
I pray the defendant gets the help she needs.
This case brought tears to my eyes. She said she was “In pain” and that’s why she chose to do crack. Bless her and her daughters.😢
It’s beautiful to know that she got some help and has been sober, I hope she continues on with sobriety and loving herself and her children ❤
Thank God for a positive update on the defendant ❤
Don’t ever let JM know you was on crack😂😂
Stay strong, sis - you are amazing and deserve the best. I will pray you be free from all negativity and get everything you need and want.
THE "SO CALLED" MOTHER IS HIGH TODAY!!! Beautiful young lady whom I wish the best in life. If the Mother doesn't get help today then wipe your hands of her and move on.
Sending prayers to the young lady and her mom Lord have mercy 😞😢🙏🙏🙏
Prayer for mother and daughter relationship. Thanks to the mother for her honesty. GOD got you!
Thats good she staying sober 🙏 prays to that sister
She’s still high, are you kidding?
I’ve been watching Judge a Mathis for many years and I’ve never watched a case that made me cry and pray at the same time. I just started to pray for total healing for this mother. It breaks my heart and it takes much to make me cry. I was moved with compassion for this broken family, both mom and daughter.
How dare you try to say your daughter isn’t doing good enough after all you’ve put her through
I think she meant it in a different way. That she wants her daughter to continue her education and get her degree(s).
Shout out to Kevin, the Father! Daughters are doing great. Hopefully they achieve all their dreams. Mother comes in high as hell and everyone still has to coddle her with soft gloves because Lord knows we can't tell a person who's making bad decisions, they are making bad decisions. The father had to fight for custody from this mess of a person. Insane. With that being said, glad to hear she did well in the rehab facility. Hopefully she accepts accountability in its entirety.
Right! I was waiting for Judge Mathis to go in on the “mom” as she was making side comments.. sigh….
Well the daughter was hesitant to give credit so there’s more we don’t know
I'm glad you're NOT God!!! I'm glad we have a forgiving, understanding and just God! When I saw her, the tears flowed, because this is what empathy and what discernment look like. May God help your heart and spirit. 🙏🏾
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What a powerful show, regardless of the behaviors of the mother the daughter turned out so well and is still open to A mother daughter relationship as long as it doesn’t interfere with her life. The mother despite of her addiction to drugs she wants the best for her and her daughter. All we can do as observers watching these videos is the prey for both of them
Prayers to you young Queen. Your strength was profound. Sending you ❤️
Lil Sis held her ground but the anger is there, she does not give props to her Pops and she has her reasons. My mind wishes the best for her and her little sister.
This was by far the most well-spoken addict I’ve ever seen. Good for you Starla & blessings on your road to recovery ❤️🩹
My mom was addicted almost alllll my life and finally got it right... I admire everything she went thru in order to make her the woman she is today... I constantly tell her how proud of her I am... Change is possible if you truly want it... My daddy raised us and he did a phenomenal job and he and my brother have since passed away but the spirit of them will live thru me...
Be careful who your friends are. Be careful. She made bad choices. She has to get help.
Sad situation for the young lady nothing at all for the judge to minimize
I'm glad he didn't minimize the case or trigger anyone
At the end they said she completed rehab and has since been sober, that almost made me cry...praises to The Most High