"Feminism is a joke": did feminists create Andrew Tate?

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
  • Let's discuss some concepts within feminism and why some consider it to be a "joke". I go into topics like misandry, if feminism created Andrew Tate, the "insult" women get on being single, and how the patriarchy hurts men too.
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    Chapters
    00:00 Intro
    02:13 The basics
    04:03 Misandry
    08:35 The Tates out there
    12:40 You must be single
    21:10 The patriarchy is twisted (and it hurts men too)
    29:26 Amber Heard vs not all men, but far too many

Комментарии • 217

  • @LoneWulf278
    @LoneWulf278 Год назад +292

    If modern misogyny is a response to modern feminism, then what was the excuse for the past 10,000 years of misogyny? 😂

    • @ultimate6243
      @ultimate6243 Год назад +18

      What do you mean by past misogyny?
      Do you have any idea how difficult was the life of men in the past?
      In the past Men were mostly worked in agriculture without any machine.
      Only Human Male is the rare Mammal in the earth who protect and Provide food for women and children. No other mammal do that.
      At least respect men for their contribution towards women and children..
      #Respect Patriarchy
      #Respect Men

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Год назад +62

      @@ultimate6243 Most of the worlds agriculture is cultivated by women. Even in the Bronze Age, women managed and developed agriculture because the men hunted and domesticated large game animals. Your contribution to this subject is ahistorical.

    • @ultimate6243
      @ultimate6243 Год назад +5

      ​@@LoneWulf278 Which historian said that "Agriculture is cultivated by women"?

    • @unknownname3189
      @unknownname3189 Год назад +7

      Say thank goodness men made life so easy for women to kick back in a nice air condition office and complain about misogyny. Bet you when your car breaks down you don't look for a woman mechanic.

    • @unknownname3189
      @unknownname3189 Год назад +5

      ​@@LoneWulf278 who did all the ground work? All the women had to do was just pick the crops. You think women were ploughing the land and planting.

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Год назад +111

    Was it only me that was satisfied seeing Andrew tate speechless 😂😂😂bro always talks like he's a know it all.

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +44

      He has “personal experience” that the Earth is round 🤣

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 Год назад +14

      @@bfbmain 😂😂he thinks he's always making sense but he's always shouting to prove his point

    • @IraSol37
      @IraSol37 9 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah, I can't stand that misogynist.

    • @exalted210
      @exalted210 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@bfbmainthe scream , I scrumpt when he said that😂

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri 8 месяцев назад +22

    "As soon as they begin to be your equals, they will become your superiors" - Marcus Percius 😂
    At least marcus knew how useless they are and felt the need to take away right to avoid competition 🤭💀

  • @acd1168
    @acd1168 Год назад +78

    It’s the emotionally unattractive part that is very unattractive to me. Because I am a words of affirmation girl and if you can stimulate my mind in the positive direction, we ain’t got nothing!

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +18

      I feel that! Not being emotionally available is a total dealbreaker!

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 Год назад +4

      @@bfbmain *can’t. It’s not the way to live because life throws so much at you and you have to know how to manage your emotions and thoughts.

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 Год назад +2

      @@themore-you-know To only a weak man. I’m not feminist anyways

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri 8 месяцев назад +57

    And men like him are creating more feminist 🤷‍♀️ I didn't even knew what feminism was until the rise of red pill content and realize how much feminism is still needed and how patriarchy and misogyny affect women.

  • @notmyhairyarmpits
    @notmyhairyarmpits Год назад +50

    I assumed that even if Andrew Tate spewed hate towards anything he thought was feminine and continued to say the vilest shit towards women (especially women of color), that he was still very uplifting towards his male followers lol. When in reality, he made his followers incredibly codependent on him, so far as to enlist in a course where he continuously berates them and making them feel even more shitty about themselves. When D'angelo Wallace, showed clips men who were at their lowest points saying that Andrew Tate giving them the guidance (they aren't guidance, they are lazily thought-out manipulation tactics that he usually used to make money off women) they thought was actually going to get them out of the situation they were in made me feel so icky. THIS MAN DOES ANYTHING TO CON PEOPLE, and I'm sure these types of people will keep on breeding in platforms where they could find anybody to manipulate. Anyways, love your video, and yes patriarchy hurts the ones who enforce it as well.

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +15

      Absolutely! Preying on the vulnerable just to make an extra 💵. Sad.

    • @kathiaserrano7740
      @kathiaserrano7740 Год назад +4

      That's basically MOST of these podcasters.

    • @ratnakordosshu6291
      @ratnakordosshu6291 10 месяцев назад

      he was in porn industry business, still he have investment in Only fans, what do you expect him to say? In porn women represented as a slave......so he talk shit about women is normal😁

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Год назад +46

    Amazing Video. Just finished watching it now. As an 18 year old I can say that a lot of young teenagers are being influenced to hate women and they are seeing Andrew Tate as a role model. Not just Andrew tate tho there are others especially from Nigeria where I'm from that are conditioning men to believe it's okay to cheat if they are providers, that they can't control their desires. They are made to believe that all women lack personality and that they have to be Richer so they can have control over their women. Also encouraging grooming amongst men and conditioning 30 plus year old women and single mothers that they should settle for anything because they are "used goods". It's so sad because I see some of my male friends being influenced even had to cut some of them off because they refused to listen to my points. Patriarchy is building a lot of insecure and toxic men and at this point I'm legit scared for our generation.

    • @sundiva7642
      @sundiva7642 Год назад +9

      I feel you I'm also a Nigerian and it's the audacity of some of this men for me. It's disgusting but I'm glad more women and young girls are waking up.

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 Год назад +12

      @@sundiva7642 like I'm so glad that women are becoming more independent. Most of these men are looking for women to control and not a partner

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 8 месяцев назад +7

      They don't see anything wrong with being insecure and toxic. None at all. As long as it gets them the RESULTS they are looking for, everything is justifiable !

    • @viridianacortes9642
      @viridianacortes9642 8 месяцев назад +2

      They will just be alone.

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 6 месяцев назад

      @@user-tx6lz7pm3y you sound like an idiot. We never said we want men Luke you anyway. You can stay far away from us

  • @ratnakordosshu6291
    @ratnakordosshu6291 10 месяцев назад +19

    women contribution in agricultural physical labor in Asia:
    India= 33% (in total physical and not physical labor 84%)
    Bangladesh=60%
    Pakistan= 64%
    Bhutan=69%
    Cambodia=75%
    Thailand=67%
    Vietnam=60%
    Myanmar=43%
    China=60%
    Nepal=78% (in this country women do physical labor twice as men)
    Here are some statistics, it’s only the physical labor statistics, but farming also involves many others work too. but i am not include those. If I include all kinds of farming work, in Asia women involve on average 70% of food production. This are the poor countries, so farming not include Machines.

    • @scarl318
      @scarl318 8 месяцев назад +5

      I don't want to say my country's name but it's one of the above. Men in my village forced women to be veiled during those agricultural work in order to not temp men .

    • @ratnakordosshu6291
      @ratnakordosshu6291 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@scarl318yes it’s maybe Pakistan. Sad but true. Now men are tempted by seeing even women hair. Some men even tempted by heard women voice!!!!!🤦🏾
      I feel sorry for those ladies, because they must have to do the physical work but also have to cover up in this heating weather

    • @scarl318
      @scarl318 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@ratnakordosshu6291 My friend told me to to read poet in school festival because I will be violating modesty of voice and men will have erotic thinking about me.

  • @AchiK2007
    @AchiK2007 Год назад +15

    Can I just say how much I love your channel! Your videos are so well researched! Keep it up!

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +2

      Thanks so much! ❤️

  • @sundiva7642
    @sundiva7642 Год назад +27

    Okay trigger warning, this is some messed up shit so please if you want to leave just skip it.
    So someone once told me about this woman that was SA'd by and this is the most fucked up part her husband's friend and he then proceeded to try and kill her. It's truamatizing . I still have nightmares of this story and that's not the full story I had to take out the most disturbing part.
    So when we say all men we know it's not all men but you don't even know who to trust.

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +8

      Thank you for sharing this story; it can be so scary for women at times.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 4 месяца назад +1

      I don't date anymore because of my past. I was abused sexually by 2 different men it started when I was 5 years old, and in the end it took until I was 17 to walk away. I was groomed, and it is impossible to trust men. I don't hate men, I dont' blame men. I just can't let the guard down. I tried any talk of sex, or even kissing freaks me out. I can't handle dating because I can't trust them with something so... well it leaves you quite exposed when you have sex I guess i the way to put it. Anyways it's hard to exlain.
      I am 42 and isngle Ig ave up dating around 5 years ago. I was tired of the pressure for sex, buying me dinner shouldn't entitle you to stuff... seriously! I stay away from dating and sex period it's just not something I want any part of. My chioce was taken from me too long ago and I will keep it my choice to not go there again. I think some people can get past it but people shouldn't expect us all to heal.
      I have nothing against men period, I do not have kids either because I just can't let go of hte fear of what perverts out there will do to a kid. I just don't want it to ruin me anymore. With God's help I was able to realize I Don't need to date men to be happy. I have my family and friends. That's all I need to be happy. I'm 42 years old now... and I do not regret my choices. Please beware of who you trust around your children. Both men were 'good men' according to everyone around them.

  • @Sunshineattacks3
    @Sunshineattacks3 Год назад +28

    I feel like radical feminists werent spoken about enough. Based on what they’re preaching…I can see why people see Andrew Tate as a response. They are in fact. EXTREMELY hateful.
    I do think both genders need to do a better job LISTENING to each other.
    Yea, you have a great point…but so do they

    • @sheh.9163
      @sheh.9163 10 месяцев назад +9

      Radical feminism isn’t even about hating men. I wish people would actually read and educate themselves, smh

    • @Sunshineattacks3
      @Sunshineattacks3 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@sheh.9163 sadly that’s often what it’s used for even if it’s not what it’s SUPPOSED to be about.

    • @dian277
      @dian277 9 месяцев назад

      i've heard about men disguised as radical feminists and spread hate speech against men to defame real feminists.

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 5 месяцев назад

      And they are very few and what they are preaching is not feminism but pseudo-feminism. The problem is that some people think if a woman is saying something wrong then it means feminism is bad but no feminism isn't claiming that women are perfect and they can't be a bad person.
      Girl, first learn the ground reality that where does that hate even come from!? Andrew tate people always existed even when women didn't have any rights and actually its Andrew tate like people who create radical feminists. And no they don't have any good points because those people are literally conservative people who just don't like how modern feminism is trying to get rid of the main problem, which are gender roles.

    • @audreymccurley8562
      @audreymccurley8562 5 месяцев назад

      Much of the time, "Radical Feminist" refers to someone who hates trans people. There are absolutely insane feminists who believe the things Tate does but in reverse, however there seems to be significantly less. You want to find someone who genuinely hates men and isn't just wary due to previous bad experiences, you actually have to go looking in the truly scary depths of the internet. I have never spoken to one in person or online. I've never seen a post. I've just heard whispers. Tate stans however? I have 3 outspoken ones in my math class of 26 people. One of them told me women shouldn't be allowed to vote.
      I think the reason that Tate stans are more insidious than radical feminists is the pre existing systematic inequalities in place. Even if woman wanted to oppress men, they couldn't because there are so few women in positions of political power (There's a UN Women article titled "Facts and Figures: Women's leadership and political participation" if your interested in the exact figures)
      Don't get me wrong, the radical feminists are horrible, but Tate is a much bigger threat to peoples safety.

  • @marleymaybe42
    @marleymaybe42 Год назад +20

    I have been navigating all these same issues myself. Your commentary is very helpful. I will say that while the "crazy man hater" brand of feminism seems like it might be setting us back, they also make mainstream feminism seem more reasonable, and maybe it's important to understand those women are fighting against the oppression of patriarchy more than just a couple men that have hurt them or they disagree with. In voicing that anger they are making the world more aware of these issues for both men and women alike. Sad that those messages are misunderstood by young boys who are impressionable and don't understand the pervasiveness of SA / gendered violence and other issues, and also are being taught by the Andrew Tates of the internet these issues are overblown / not real issues but that it is ok to be the perpetrators because women are inferior and men are entitled to them. It is obviously way easier to profit off misogyny than a balanced outlook on gender, and young boys are the target audience of this, but I don't think it will go away if women are just less harsh in their criticism / outspokenness. You made may of these same points and this i just my reflection on the video. I always enjoy your content and can't wait to see your channel grow! ❤️

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Год назад +1

      I absolutely agree. I follow a trans RUclipsr named Kat Blaque. She was a popular “SJW” punching bag on the internet during the anti-SJW era of 2013-2018. She said she’d try to make her persona as cutesy and as non-threatening as possible. But men would STILL not get it. 😂
      I think feminism threatens them because *anything* that empowers women is fundamentally threatening to their lifestyle. That’s it. You can never be friendly enough to convince someone who simply does not want to sacrifice their privilege. 🤷‍♀️
      If you look at the propaganda graphics they made in the 1910’s about suffragettes, you’ll realize that they’ve always been paranoid that women would some day be able to oppress them the way they have oppressed us. It’s their biggest fear. This isn’t new or caused by 3rd wavers.

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +6

      You ladies make fantastic points. Thank you for your comments!

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Год назад +1

      @@bfbmain Thank YOU for the channel. 🙏

    • @cauliflowerhead2735
      @cauliflowerhead2735 Год назад +12

      It is being misunderstood on purpose. The aim is to ignore the concrete points it's making and to replace them with one's own narrative or dumbed down reading of society or women's initiatives. It's just cultural gaslighting to humiliate women out of whatever pricks theirs privilege.

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Год назад +8

      @@cauliflowerhead2735 BINGO! 👏🏽
      Their word replacement is manipulative, too. They swap the hate of patriarchy/misogyny with “hating men” because it ties women’s hands into thinking that they have to tolerate men’s behavior just to not be seen as hateful towards them as a group. We been knew. It’s strategic gaslighting. 🙄

  • @MichaelJordan-xp3yb
    @MichaelJordan-xp3yb 9 месяцев назад +5

    i don't think the problems in dating and partnering are as drastic as the internet makes it seem. the epidemic of lonely men/women is engaging content online because by default those who spend a lot of time online are alone. i also dont think women these days are having to "settle" any more than women in the past have, if they are its mainly settling relative to unrealistic standards they have absorbed from social media.

  • @thrgg
    @thrgg 4 месяца назад +4

    I wish feminism fought for gender equality, but I have strong doubts. You recognize that Amber Heard is toxic, but over 130 feminist organizations signed a letter of support for her AFTER the 2022 trial, and the majority of feminists consider her a hero. With very few exceptions, feminists show complete callousness towards the victims of false accusations or other kinds of male victimhood. I don't write this to be hateful, but I don't see much from feminism or men's rights activism that isn't either spiteful or indifferent to the opposite gender's issues.

  • @iqraeffendi747
    @iqraeffendi747 Год назад +14

    You are just

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +1

      Your comment made my day! Thanks so much! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Rubik_Bee
    @Rubik_Bee Год назад +12

    Interesting video... I really don't resonate with the concept of feminism really since I see the gaps between white feminism and the women of colour who fall through in the feminism movement. To achieve gender equality and work-family justice, we need a more inclusive ideology modelled on the intersectionality of Black, Latino, Asian, American Indian or Alaska Native, and Pacific Islander versions of feminism that benefits each woman of EVRY RACE towards gender equality but we all know that won't happen soon as long as white feminism stops focusing more on individual accumulation, capital and individuality. The perfect example for this statement was Amber Heard, who mocked herself for this very issue. At the end of the day, it's all about money, exposure and prestige for the very few who benefit from the bandwagon of "FEMINISM" not for the greater good of every woman and men around the world. @brownfireball I love how you always bring topics to the table in the most articulated manner, so kudos to you on that. And off-topic, you are so smart and very pretty....please keep the videos coming. And can you also do a video about the dangers of plastic surgery and body dysmorphia. Love your content.

    • @mynameispeaches
      @mynameispeaches 10 месяцев назад

      Black women saw right through the agenda of second wave feminism, which was to make white women equal to white men, and screw all other women. Everything after that was a feeble repackaging effort. First and second wave feminism was strictly about the rights of WW only. We haven’t forgotten. I still don’t really care for it honestly. The messaging of feminism has always been garbled and there are too many factions. It’s because the main people behind it claiming to be oppressed are the primary benefactors of white patriarchy. It’s like give me a break.

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 5 месяцев назад +1

      Feminism is for everyone else not just for a special race! Maybe we need to stop dividing ourselves by thinking oh she is white or black or Asian and just can see them as a person that's the real anti racist not when you are always being obsessed with someone's race.

  • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
    @WynnWynn-gl3fk 6 месяцев назад +3

    And males have the audacity to complain about being married or getting married but yet shame women who distance themselves for these guys and won’t bother with marriage and kids.

  • @sayanidas242
    @sayanidas242 Год назад +10

    I am brown too 🤎 sister. Love you 🤟

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +2

      ❤️🤎❤️

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 Год назад +1

      @@bfbmain I agree, Feminism IS a joke, but so is the Manosphere. they're two sides of the same coin

  • @brianacorrielus8890
    @brianacorrielus8890 6 месяцев назад

    I love this video! Thank you for doing

  • @patriciaboivin66
    @patriciaboivin66 10 месяцев назад +6

    Andrew Tate style men exist since cavemen.

  • @Patricia-uz2xx
    @Patricia-uz2xx 10 месяцев назад +3

    New subscriber, loving the content :) country where im from this is what has been said in 60-90s: you dont have man, you are never right/ truthfull... Its still somehow used, as you said, its like yeah, everything changes when you have man, right 😅😅

  • @user-lt7ff1tg9f
    @user-lt7ff1tg9f 7 месяцев назад +2

    I'm ashamed to say I was curious about the whole Andrew Tate rabbit hole, why he is so controversial. I'm ashamed to say his words are very clever and manipulative and that I was falling for it a bit. I guess I wasn't happy with myself. Luckily, I reassessed why I was watching him, amd pulled out of it. Because of him I now recognise why feminism is so important to improving society. So thanks, Andrew.

  • @toitman2
    @toitman2 5 месяцев назад +1

    as a man i understand that women dont want to settle. and for that ive always tried to keep my list as limited as possible, could i accept that women would do this? becuase it seems the higher they go the higher i need to become and thats just competition. I dont want competition but my only help ive received have come from men never from women other than mom. how can expect any girl to help me. they won't

  • @RaeesAhmad-ye9pi
    @RaeesAhmad-ye9pi Год назад +1

    Very nice❤❤❤❤

  • @agentiqbalo
    @agentiqbalo Год назад +6

    You often use the term, “economically attractive”. Can you define that? Does this mean a man has to be ambitious or making a certain salary, etc

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 11 месяцев назад +8

      Economically Attractive in the sense that you have a stable job, roof over your head. Possibly debt free, has saving and insurance

    • @ritikasingh9555
      @ritikasingh9555 10 месяцев назад +3

      Financially educated and smart in terms on money. Knows how money works, invests, has savings etc etc. Basic steps an adult should take in terms of finances.

  • @RaeesAhmad-ye9pi
    @RaeesAhmad-ye9pi Год назад +5

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
    @WynnWynn-gl3fk 6 месяцев назад +3

    Finally some males are going against Andrew t&int. Yep, it is gross how most males find males abusing women is a literal laugh out loud joke. It is disturbing how many people defend t&int even women and young girls too and find him funny and think it is an actual conspiracy theory about him!!!

    • @yassinehannachi6871
      @yassinehannachi6871 2 месяца назад

      U do realize that these "males" are predators in disguise, right??

  • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
    @WynnWynn-gl3fk 6 месяцев назад +1

    You never even mentioned physically good looking or below put standards and age etc and their body etc. it is important he looks good and works out for physical and mental health and look good for women.

  • @julianbud7334
    @julianbud7334 4 месяца назад +1

    Yeah we're just have to do better as men right.

  • @Monika_Daddarwal
    @Monika_Daddarwal 10 месяцев назад +1

  • @poorninarayanan4833
    @poorninarayanan4833 Год назад +9

    Off topic but you look beautiful.

    • @bfbmain
      @bfbmain  Год назад +2

      Awww you’re too kind! ❤️💕

  • @danidiaz2377
    @danidiaz2377 5 месяцев назад

    💎💎

  • @julianbud7334
    @julianbud7334 4 месяца назад +3

    A man will date down a woman won't because at the end of the day all a man wants is somebody that's going to be loyal to him someone he knows that truly loves him none of that other crap is important I forgot everything in this Society is so transactional.

  • @lucianstrugaru8777
    @lucianstrugaru8777 Год назад +8

    As a man i Respect him but i don't accept on everything his saying !😊

    • @photina262
      @photina262 10 месяцев назад +10

      How can you respect someone like him? He’s far from respectful

  • @danidiaz2377
    @danidiaz2377 5 месяцев назад +3

    These comment sections are always full of guys trying to play the victim

  • @Ali-gb7mf
    @Ali-gb7mf 4 месяца назад +2

    Men like this have turned me feminist.

  • @madrobert0944
    @madrobert0944 11 месяцев назад +5

    I think the biggest problem is extreme on both sides if you spend your time hating and convinced that all a gender is evil then you have to ask yourself are you the problem
    For example cheating level is around 12% men and 17% women according to studies yet I hear people say all men for example rather than why do I keep picking men who cheat because that would take accountability
    I also disagree about women being happier single as the anti depressants levels are at a all time high
    Plus you seem to forget about the rise in mgtow men seem to accept being happy single and alone but more people would focus on incels and think that is a typical single male when it isn't
    I disagree on the leveling up part by most data women are not in fact the levels of women that men want is very low
    I also don't agree on the term settling I think people need a reality check and go actually I'm a 5 if I date a 5 I could be happy but again this is being honest with yourself
    Women when asked what a guy who is tall good job and in shape and protect them
    Men want a younger not a hoe and able to cook and mother to a family
    If you don't tick all the boxes then reality is you are no leveled up you are down

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 11 месяцев назад +19

      The 12% is for dudes between 18-29 it actually increases for men to 20% as they become older and reduces for women when they also become older at 13%. Men are still 2x likely to cheat than women. Men are also 6x more likely to leave their wives who are sick with a terminal illness than women leaving their sick husbands.
      Anti depressants are only prescribed because most women go to therapy. So those problems are usually caused by anxiety or childhood trauma or sexual assault and not because we aren'tin relationships. Men are becoming more lonely and they refuse to seek out a social circle unlike women that is why male suicide is a lot higher than women. And the blackpill community are mostly men. Men are still the ones dying alone a lot more than women are because they refuse to reach out or they abandon their families.
      And the MGOTW movement clearly isn't working because they still talk and obsess over women. Unlike women that refuse to be around men and are choosing to be single and childless. Birth rates are dropping massively just shows how serious we are about the movement.
      The only reason why marriages lasted longer in the olden days was because women didn't have rights nor could they own a bank account so they were financially dependent on their husbands. So they couldn't leave even though they suffered abuse and neglect from their husbands. That is why women aren't choosing to be housewives anymore cause we don't want to be trapped in a marriage. Now women can work and they are becoming more higher educated than most men nowadays. So we can choose to be with men that we actually like. Not men that we need to survive

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 5 месяцев назад

      anti depressants is high for women because lots of women face domestic violence, sexual abuse and what not. Any good person would want to marry or date a person who is around their own age, men who are quite sexist are the ones who are obsessed with dating very young women compared to them. Women want to date a person who cares for them because they don't want to end up in an abusive relationship. Those cheating consensus may be of the West but in other countries it's always men who are doing it more.
      What's weird is that you are trying to show that women need to treat unfair people because some women might cheat!?
      Have you ever thought why women don't want to be around men? When r* pe happened rather than finding out if it's true or not people try to justify whether she deserved to be r**ed or not. Women need to be big hearted even when lots of treat them bad they should love them but if a woman in anger says that she hates men or men suck some men go crazy and start justifying their misogyny.

    • @K.C-2049
      @K.C-2049 4 месяца назад

      @@ayomidedareabel5525 ay you stop with that logic and common sense, can't you see a man is explaining reality to us? lol

    • @yassinehannachi6871
      @yassinehannachi6871 2 месяца назад

      ​@@K.C-2049 who would want you anyway?? Heck, even regarding a horrible thing as SA, i doubt anyone would risk jail time for you.

  • @julianbud7334
    @julianbud7334 4 месяца назад +1

    I see a lot of videos of women acting like they're of prize too so wouldn't it be that both people in the relationship should be the prize in each other's eyes.

  • @julianbud7334
    @julianbud7334 4 месяца назад +1

    At least they didn't say you was masculine for being a boss woman cuz you know most strong independent women are in their masculine and I don't even mean that as an insult.

  • @shradhasharma7583
    @shradhasharma7583 10 месяцев назад +3

    i wish andrew tate followers see this and change their perspective. although i find it difficult for them to change. but i can only hope.

    • @yassinehannachi6871
      @yassinehannachi6871 2 месяца назад

      They literally follow him bcuz of people like you, god, just bless your Heart.

    • @yassinehannachi6871
      @yassinehannachi6871 2 месяца назад

      Or you Can live on an unhabited island then, you would help both men and women

  • @concertoinx9070
    @concertoinx9070 3 месяца назад

    As a man, I would like to give a little conjecture and perspective. Firstly, I think this is a mostly fair video, and I agree with the premises of feminism as a concept. Having said that...
    1) Young men and boys are captivated by Andrew Tate and others like him because at least he meets them where they are at.
    There is no other content creator that identifies/validates their disillusionment, and then appears to teach zero-to-hero strategies. When you feel like you have an ally, you don't vet information for truthfulness as hard (for a historical example, see the rise of Hitler). And where does this disillusionment come from? Both from the traditional "masculinity is earned, feminism is preserved" concept and a lack of nuance in the modern feminist movement causing feelings of alienation.
    Social media has (had) a nasty tendency to present brain-dead, simplified conclusions to young people, both boys and girls, who eat them up like candy. Some girls/women simply parrot "boys/men are trash," or when they put logical blame of the misogyny from past generations on current boys by saying, for example, "it's impossible for boys/men to be suffering." Even if those girls are not the majority of the movement, there's very little to no presence of women calling that out. So then boys will think poorly of girls/feminists on the surface and think poorly of themselves underneath.
    So, did feminists create Tate? Yes and no. I can guess that this is a result of movements needing to sacrifice accuracy/nuance in exchange for more followers. Thoughts?
    2) It seems you contradict yourself a little in second half of the video, with regards to dating. If I misunderstand, please correct me. I think it's good that women don't have to settle for an emotionally immature man for the sake of financial provision. But as you observe, women are also getting choosier with the man's finances, even with women largely achieving financial parity and potential today. If anything, one would expect emotional maturity to be more important to women, and financial status to be less important (when it comes to the man out-earning the woman) in proportion to the financial status gains enjoyed by women today, but that's not the case. So are these women...misogynistic by implying they still need a financial provider?

  • @laylah150
    @laylah150 Год назад +5

    There is nothing wrong with hating men (or women). Why are we acting like gender is a protected characteristic😂😂 equating misogyny or misandry with racism

  • @LonelyRogue18182
    @LonelyRogue18182 8 месяцев назад +4

    I can’t speak to the historic persecution of women. But from a personal perspective I feel like this modern day feminism has pushed me towards the red pill space. I hear from women constantly that all men are rapists, virtually all murderers are male, men are oppressing women through marriage. It’s all around a negative vibe I get from feminism and then they completely ignore the issues that I go through as a man. One issue I have is I find dating to be incredibly difficult. I’m not trying to shame women here but personally I’m uncomfortable dating a woman who has slept around. I’ve had women shame me for that. I feel like the only group listening to my struggles are guys like Andrew Tate. While I don’t really like him and I disagree with a lot of the things he says, at least he acknowledges men.

    • @eshitasahu
      @eshitasahu 8 месяцев назад

      I’m sorry that you feel that way….but you need to get off the internet if this happens to you
      I recently fell down the rabbit hole of this red pill community….and it honestly sickens me that they’re still spewing this toxic misogyny in this day and age…..I see many men(especially men who are in my class) follow this kind of ideology…so does this give me the right to hate on all men? No it doesn’t….
      Also, if you want you can literally just look up how much feminism has helped women in Asian and middle eastern countries(I come from one of these countries).
      I hope you’re able to recover from your misogyny
      Peace ✌️

  • @ibrahimm2012
    @ibrahimm2012 Год назад +7

    Women want 50% quota for pretty much all powerful positions. But what about plumber , electrician, brick layer . Why men are drafted to war not women. If men were in power that mean men have given women the power or rights.

    • @Nina-cd6uw
      @Nina-cd6uw Год назад +32

      1) Historically women have not even been allowed to be soldiers, even if they wanted to. Only quite recently have many developed and developing countries allowed that. And even then, the issues are rampant: Less respect, sexual abuse. It's interesting that men completely ignore that it were their own male ancestors who kept women out of the military. Also who starts these wars? Which gender is the belligerent one?
      2) Women can become plumbers and electricians, there is no reason to push for something you are already readily accepted into and some women do chose those jobs. Female construction workers complain about inappropriate comments and behavior at work, so it's understandable that they're not attracted by the jobs. Men aren't forced to become plumbers and neither are women prohibited (in countries where they're allowed to work at least). But more women becoming plumbers doesn't fix the gendered asymmetry of power in our societies, so why would it be important for women to aspire to be a plumber?
      3) If your point is "men are dealing with literal shit as plumbers more often than women" then let's just look at the jobs who are gendered in the sense that more men/more women do them: Women work in elderly care, care work in general, cleaning ladies scrub the toilets who got plumbed, nurses deal with literal shit as well.
      Your talking points don't make sense if you actually think about them for even 2 minutes.

    • @nenyeo6090
      @nenyeo6090 11 месяцев назад +12

      @@melc4308you’d think they’d know basic shit like this. Like sir, all you have to do is crack open a history textbook 📕💀

    • @nenyeo6090
      @nenyeo6090 11 месяцев назад +7

      ⁠​⁠@@Nina-cd6uw i really love your 3rd point about the shitty jobs women have too that’s equivalent to men’s shitty jobs.

    • @ratnakordosshu6291
      @ratnakordosshu6291 10 месяцев назад +6

      if you look at the history women are not allowed to participate in War.
      Most of the war women gang raped in massive number and killed. and all wars created by Men. its war to men vs men. don't blame women.
      same goes to plumber , electrician, brick layer. in patriarchy women are not supposed to work outside and this kind of work. this kind of work are pre dominants by men. By the way in India, Nepal, Bangladesh, Sri-lanka, Thailand women work in huge number in brick laying. you should travel more dude

    • @ratnakordosshu6291
      @ratnakordosshu6291 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@melc4308 well said.
      i feel like some of the men in this comment section are too emotional 😂😂😂😂😂😂, no brain which we use to think and read!!

  • @ballyod
    @ballyod Год назад +10

    This seems to be one of these; No accountability for women vids. Y'all are great.

  • @oscarthebarbarian9673
    @oscarthebarbarian9673 8 месяцев назад +1

    I don't agree with Tate on everything, but he really isn't that bad, there is a lot about him that's actually quite wholesome. Don't dismiss all of his fans as unintelligent just because they don't agree with you. I'm not a huge fan of how extreme some of the red pill views are getting. I know a lot of guys who like me have turned to the red pill, and it's not out of hate or insecurity, it's because a lot of women they have known are not of good character. I'm all for equal rights, but remember you are an ambassador of your gender, act kindly, show goodwill, assume the best and you will have done your part. What I dislike about feminists is that they complain about others posioning the well of society and then continue to do it themselves. Most of the feminist women I have known have been nasty people. Again no hate, just sharing my perspective.

    • @biteofdog
      @biteofdog 8 месяцев назад +4

      "but remember you are an ambassador of your gender" One of the most important things about dating is to not carry emotional baggage into your next relationship, it sounds like you are justifying this shallow behavior. If you keep on ending up with bad partners, that usually means that you have to take personal responsibility that maybe you are the problem. And when you realize why you are attracting the wrong type of people, that is when growth occurs, and you improve yourself (as well as set boundaries) so that you know what to look for in your next relationship. I see some guys blame feminism and society for their life situation, but I hardly see them take personal responsibility. You are the main character in your story, it's up to you to get out of your comfort zone and make friends and have great experiences, everybody goes through this phase, it's part of getting older.

  • @HoppyBunny.
    @HoppyBunny. Год назад +15

    Why I'm not a feminist.
    1 I don't hate my gender.
    2. I value myself and my gender.
    3. I'm not a reductionist or an absolutist. (Example: Feminist only speak of men in mainly negative terms with almost exclusively negative associations. rapist, oppressor and abuser)
    4. I know men understand and possess complex moral and ethical awareness.
    5. Female culpability should not be exempt from subject consideration.
    6. I can observe the difference between feminism in theory (Concepts of social, political and economic equanimity) and feminism in practice (Ongoing prosecution, persecution and demonization of men and male identity.)
    7. Contrary to what feminist assert in inference, explicitly or implicitly feminist do not have a monopoly on all higher morality and ethics. Feminist do not have a absolute qualification to define, judge and determine the lived experiences of men in general.
    8. I believe in social, civil and legal due process procedure
    and rights for men.
    9. I don't believe the only reply to challenges to feminist hypocrisy or any discourse is labelling a man a misogynist, incel, pathetic, loser, monster and the typical feminist, mocking, derisive paradigm.
    10. I can think for myself.
    11. I don't celebrate male pain, physical or psychological.
    12. I know masculinity is not toxic.
    13. I don't consider female on male abuse a form of female empowerment.
    14. Contrary to feminist assertions in general, I have worth and value and don't need my virtue defined by feminists.
    15. Feminist operate on negative presuppositions about men and male identity, I don't.
    16. Unlike feminist, I practice introspection and self-reflection,
    17.Unlike feminist, I acknowledge, that men also contribute and achieve positive results towards social evolution.
    18. Contrary to feminist discourse about men, I know men are complex and nuanced, not simplistic and innately lacking in humanism.
    19. I believe in real equality and the innate humanity of all people, not just women, so I don't have to form an entire ideology that asserts men=bad, men=the problem
    20. I've observed far more men experience cruelty from women than the inverse
    21 Patriarchy has no more validity than racial eugenics from the early 20th century. Essentially, Patriarchy as defined by feminist is similar the rationalizations appointing overall inferiority to women by only associating criminalization and pathology to men and male identity in general.
    22. What one man does that is obviously abusive to women is not an automatic reflection defining the entire male gender.
    23. Actual civil objective discourse with a feminist other than mindless deference and uncritical thinking is impossible at this point when the only format of all feminist discussion is submit or be labeled a misogynist.

    • @isabellamokaya6585
      @isabellamokaya6585 Год назад +30

      Feminism is nothing of what you wrote. It is simply believing men and women are equal, and that society should move towards equity of both sexes.

    • @HoppyBunny.
      @HoppyBunny. Год назад

      @@isabellamokaya6585 Incorrect. Feminist don't believe men and women are equal when feminism constantly expresses contempt for men and maintain an ongoing dialectic promoting devaluing men in nearly every aspect. What you're speaking of is Feminism in theory, but an objective observation often reveals that the theory is not feminism in practice. Its like saying Nazis aren't antisemitic because National Socialism as represented by the Nazis stand for peaceful unification of Europe. You cannot support a move towards equality for both sexes, when the male gender is regarded within feminist ideology with only negative associations and terms and then hope gaslighting will erase the reality of feminism in practice.
      As I've previously mentioned, since feminist do not practice introspection or self-reflection while asserting non-culpability as regards women, feminist can only and preferably define men and male identity in extremely reductionist one-dimensional absolutist and overly simplistic terms. And that caricature of men becomes mainstreamed into the standard mainstream model of men, much like the minstrel show and sub-human violent animal is a preferred depiction of black people by racists considering themselves the ultimate and only legitimate authority on the lives of black people.

    • @Rubik_Bee
      @Rubik_Bee Год назад +5

      @@isabellamokaya6585 i don't agree, we both know your statement isn't true in the world we live in so please give me a break. Society's concept of how people are expected to look and behave is based on societally created norms for masculinity and femininity, but unfortunately, no one is winning in the concept of feminism which exactly hinders this concept

    • @Rubik_Bee
      @Rubik_Bee Год назад +1

      @hoppy bunny feel exactly the same way

    • @HoppyBunny.
      @HoppyBunny. Год назад +10

      @@Rubik_Bee When men realize they can create their own sense of value and worth independent of ideological validation, from feminism, that contributes to those men re-discovering an existence of self-esteem when that value and worth is considered innate within male identity. This means, men can work towards his highest best potential. This is the opposite of feminism's social narrative devaluing men and associating men with only negative terms to define the broad character of men and male identity. Unlike feminism, men are willing to practice self-reflection and introspection. This aids men to become better within the context of personal evolution. Our modern society maintains a social narrative dependent on the most simplistic caricature of men in the most reductionist fashion. So almost all feminist discourse on men you will notice NEVER equally point out men's achievements or accomplishments. Its not much different than the racist segregationist proclaiming they don't hate black people but always reference black people as animals, criminals and infantile who need social suppression in the name of progressivism and maintaining the social order. You'll notice how feminist never enter discourse with men without some sort of abrasive condescending dig or insult or personal attack. You'll notice how accepted female on male violence is, and any attempt to mention this to feminists, well, you know the result.

  • @harsharnbains5812
    @harsharnbains5812 Год назад +1

    One way of looking at situation

  • @ultimate6243
    @ultimate6243 Год назад +11

    For every single woman there is a single Man with his wallet intact.

    • @sundiva7642
      @sundiva7642 Год назад +28

      Okay bitterman

    • @nenyeo6090
      @nenyeo6090 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@melc4308😂😂 that was a good response

    • @R_t-99
      @R_t-99 10 месяцев назад +1

      Looks like you are talking about your mother.

    • @thewizard555
      @thewizard555 8 месяцев назад +2

      did your mom refuse to give you pocket money ?

    • @K.C-2049
      @K.C-2049 4 месяца назад +1

      that's nice. for every single man there's a woman not suffering emotional abuse, physical assault, abandonment, infidelity, neglect, emotional incompetence, regular incompetence, infantilization, dehumanization, isolation etc. etc.

  • @chrislove7465
    @chrislove7465 Год назад +8

    I am 30 years old and i fully support andrew tate, fine he says things in an aggressive way but he is saying the truth, men are under attack not from women but from people at the top to dismantle the nuclear family. And insulting men is encouraged in movies, comedy shows and even as jokes. May God protect Andrew Tate.

    • @nicolem5626
      @nicolem5626 10 месяцев назад +13

      That's a lie and only ignorant people go along with that statement. The nuclear family is under attack because the cost of living is too high. The medium house cost is 350k in the US. People can't afford that and afford a bunch kids. Men (not women) are choosing to not get married out of HS, and are choosing to spend 4 years in college, and then climbing the ladder in the work force. This is causing men to not even desire marriage until their 30s. Women just go along with what men do because while we're providing access to sex, we do not have power over when they choose to provide us with access to marriage. Incels are involuntary celebate men. They're not men begging for marriage. Women are the only ones begging for marriage. Men are prioritizing their advancement in their own circles. Men are competitive with other men. Women are having to wait for these men to find their place in society before they get married.

    • @ritikasingh9555
      @ritikasingh9555 10 месяцев назад +8

      And whos making these movies? Who is making all these attacks? Its not women, you are right about that. But then why do women end up in this conversation at all?

    • @joyeetaghosh2209
      @joyeetaghosh2209 4 месяца назад +2

      Tell me if you can respect him that he get rich by webcam buisness and i did heard about his cases but lets say those girls agreed to buisness with him and they were never forced or manipulated but isnt this goes against what Andrew T preach that men got emasculated when they took help of women if men want to fight with man hating and radical feminst and who think women are never wrong pls choose a better representative