Laci you are definitely not alone with how you are feeling. I get depressed and so overwhelmed by everything on a day to day basis. We are all trying to get through the daily tasks and that can feel like trying to climb a mountain at times. Side note I noticed you've done some things to your home and even changed your sink! Thank you for sharing ❤.
It seems like there’s no enough hours in the day! And it takes me a while to get going, I’m not sure why 🥴 the hard part for me is getting started and knowing where to start, the bottom of the mountain sure is huge isn’t it 😭😭. Once I do get going though, you can’t stop me lol. And we’ve done a few things and have some more ideas, but bubba works a lot of hours so getting things done are few and far between haha! Hopefully we can tackle some more soon! Thank you so much for always being here!
@@ItsAllMessy I feel that to my core, I swear the hours/days fly by. I have those days too where I have such a hard time on where to start. And what's for dinner, I have gotten to where I don't even know anymore 😂😭. It really is. Can't wait to see what all y'all get done down the road 😊! I would love to own a mobile home one day, lived in them throughout my life and love it. When it comes to bad storms though living in one of them that's a different story 😅. You're so welcome 🫶🏻. Take care Laci ❤️
I wish I could 😭😭 the water from the dishes mildews the inside of the dishwasher bc there’s no airflow even with it cracked I guess bc it’s so humid where we live 😭😭
I LOVED the beginning. Don’t we all feel like that sometimes?! I think you should put your microwave on your dresser by dining table. I’d clear away some of your trinkets/candles on the counter/sill. That will help it feel more open. You are doing a great job!
Im definitely going to put the microwave over there idk why I haven’t thought to do it before 😂 and I will definitely clear off the stuff from the windowsill I can already see it in my head how it’ll be so much better. Thank you so much! It’s so hard for me to picture things like in a hypothetical way if that makes sense, I can’t see it unless it’s real haha. So you just helped me out big time, thank you so much!
Hey girl! I used to always hand wash my dishes even though I had a working dishwasher (living alone lol) BUT you can just use your dishwasher as your drying rack so you don’t have to leave them on the counter! It’s awesome because you can fill it up but not have to look at them lol. And get your space back!
Girl my dishwasher is filled with mildew inside! No matter how many times I cleaned it out, I don’t understand. Cause I was gonna use it as a drying rack. I guess cause it gets so hot in there and no airflow? It mildews up everytime 😭
I’m just wondering, are you guys no longer moving? I’m definitely a homebody myself, and I’ve been known to create my own baseless anxiety. I’m sure you deal with a lot taking care of Sadie’s medical needs. Prayers sent for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Girl, you might not have been in the best mood, but LAWWWDDD that's the most relatable mood 😂😂. Even the yelling at the pets that they nasty, because I talk to mine the same way! I have pretty crippling anxiety myself. Unfortunately mine spans from generalized anxiety to social, so it's hard for me to even be around people. It's all okay though, and you and I both will pull through it ❤.
lol they stay up under my feet 😂😂 & yes girl I am the same way. Thankfully my husband doesn’t do big crowds or new people either so I don’t often get in those situations. 😂
If the counter feels too cluttered, you could probably get a two tiered dish rack to replace the one you have. Then, maybe move the microwave over to the little cabinet you have across from the table.
Another awesome video like always.. be happy and don’t let your house mess get you stressed out. I use to be very OCD and everything had to be perfect then i realize how that is not important as much as being happy and thanking God for all your blessing and your family. Be happy if it’s clean or a mess it don’t really matter. Go sit on the porch and listen to the birds..❤❤
Thank you for your videos. You stay true to yourself and it makes my day. I love your home and all your ways of working with what you got. Just all of it is great. Thank you. ❤
Always and forever there is a towel on the kitchen counter beside my sink that is constantly full of dishes air drying. They sit there until the next load comes out to sit there 😉
One day at a time. I get overwhelmed about things I have no control over at times. You have alot of people here for you because we care and can relate to you, I know I can! ❤🙏
You know what’s crazy, I have a tattoo on my leg that says “one day at a time” to remind me of that..it’s really special to me. So it’s crazy you said that 😭 I’m teared up oh my goodness. And yes my anxiety comes a lot of times from feeling like not one thing is in my control. And I can’t tell you how much that means to me, thank you so so so much. Your comment has me a mess over here 😭😭❤️❤️❤️
My husband makes fun of my cups haha I always have one no matter what 😂 and I will probably make a trip to Walmart today and if I do and I get one of the Christmas ones I’ll show it lol!
Some days I am not motivated to do housework at all! I don’t want to do laundry, vacuum or dishes. Then other days, I can clean my house like a maniac! Nothing out of place! It’s the craziest thing! The one thing that I make myself do no matter what, is make my bed! Getting into bed at night is so much more relaxing! Thanks Mom for hounding me to do that every day when I was a kid! 😁
Hey girl so glad to see you again! I have a idea, since your dishwasher is broke, why not put your wet dishes in there to dry and that would clear up that corner for you. I really miss your teal-blue cabinet that use to be in the kitchen. But I love that wood wall!!!!!
Omg hey!!!! Yay!!!! So glad to see you here!!! 😭❤️❤️ and I have tried but I guess bc it’s so humid here, the water that drips off makes the whole inside of the dishwasher mildew! It’s awful! I’ve even tried cracking the door. I’m gonna try next week to rearrange some things in here and see what I can do to clear out that corner lol. I miss the teal cabinet too 😭 i gave up so much storage lol. Because the inside of the brown cabinet is just wide open space. So no good way to organize it. The wood wall is my favorite thing, bubba actually did that before I started the channel. I wish he could do all the walls that way haha
@ItsAllMessy I don't know why I didn't notice the wall before. The teal cabinet has been I a couple of places so I can't even use that as an excuse 😂🤣😂. How is Sassie doing with the seizures? Praying for you girl! Hope you can figure out that corner 😂
I feel ya in this video. There are times when I need to vent. There is only one person that I truly talk to about issues I am having without judgement. But she is also going through some things in her life. I didn't want to burden her. But I think we work well because he both just say it all and talk each other through it. And the cleaning routines...I watch videos to motivate me, teach me other ways people are doing things and figuring out how or if it would work with ny personality. I am a night owl and slower in the morning. So after dinner, I have to clean up the kitchen for 2 reasons. It feel incomplete(like I am forgetting something, causing me anxiety). So I clean out sink and wipe down fridge, dishwasher and stove and microwave (the last is just so it won't be a bug clean later down the line). 2nd reason I clean at night...I am slow in the morning, the thought of cleaning up does not motivate me to get my day started. However, I do not have little ones anymore. I didn't use to be like this. So you may find different methods that work in different stages of your life. You are definitely not alone. I was sick a couple of weeks ago. Then got sick this week with just seasonal drainage. I did no lt want to do any Christmas stuff. I powered through the nausea and now I feel better and can sit and enjoy my hard work. Your videos and others' videos does that for me. So I want to say I appreciate the videos, the transparency and the authenticity in which you portray yourself in the videos. Life happens and we sometimes need others to help us power through the hard times. Just to tell ourselves later. I did it and I will do it again. Have a wonderful day. I hope things started looking up for you. With that girlie of your's, I don't know how it couldn't get better. Such a sweet girl with a beautiful laugh and smile.
I actually work better at night too!! Before Sadie started school i would clean at night after her and my husband went to bed but now that she’s in school I get to bed early since we get up early. And I am the same way, I am not motivated to clean in the morning AT ALL. At the least, 5 hours after I wake up 😂. My night time clean is omg amazing, it’s like spic and span 😂 I wish I had good lighting and could film a late night cleaning video. And I’m so glad you’re feeling better!! Thank you so much for the encouragement! And yes Sadie is finds a way to make everything better, she is a hoot lol
Those of us with adhd & anxiety should ALL have a channel that makes us "accountable" for getting stuff done!😁 Im twice your age & struggle every day🥴lol. (I was made for the house too!) Do you ever use your dishwasher to dry your dishes? I use to when mine was broken just so they didnt take up so much counter & sink space. 😉
I have been saying for two weeks I need to return some things to the store still have not gone. I bring my son to school and sometimes thats all I can do. The stores don't open till about 10. I have to just go and sit there. Terrible procrastination
I wanted to use the dishwasher but I guess bc it’s so hot in there it gets mildewed in there from the water dripping off the dishes. Even when I crack it, there’s not enough air flow 😭😭
So happy to see you upload again! I can relate to so much in this video so thank you for sharing this with us. I hope you enjoy the rest of the week and have a relaxing weekend ahead.
1. Go to a salon and get a good clarifying shampoo. 2. Get a water filtering system for your shower head. That is what my hair dresser told me. 3. Glad to see you!!!
Ooo thank youuuu!!! Cause I am so tired of fighting this battle haha! It’ll be perfect and all the sudden after a few washes, even with the purple shampoo, it does this. I will definitely get one!!! Thank you so much Teddie!!!!
I deal with crippling anxiety too. if you feel comfortable please share a video about it. it helps to know someone else deals with it too (as Bad as I wouldnt wish that on anyone) mine gets to the point where I let the house go.
I absolutely will! Sometimes it gets me so bad that I don’t want to leave the house. I don’t like making appointments because I have to talk on the phone, things where I have to go inside. It’s awful sometimes 😭
@@ItsAllMessy I try to remind myself (easier said than done) that fear is not from the Lord. So its the devil trying to hinder us. I will pray for you. you seem like a wonderful mother and homemaker.
You look and feel like me about 5 days a week. Haha. It gets overwhelming! It absolutely helps to vent ! You’re awesome and I love your videos. I hope you start to get back to yourself soon. I have anxiety too. Be absolutely nothing stressing me out and it feels like it hits me like a brick. I hate it. Have the faith and stay strong !
Haha yes! Sometimes it feels like too much! Anxiety can take my breath straight out my lungs over NOTHING 🥴 and thankfully I’m back to regular, by the end of that day haha! Thank the Lord! Thank you so so much!!!
Rats on acid 😂 girl my dog gives me whiplash!! Some days I think he helps my anxiety and other days I’m hollering at him because he’s giving me anxiety lol they are special creatures
Our dishwasher went. I pulled it and put our microwave on top of small cabinet shelf in that spot. Trying rubbing a dryer sheet on cushion before putting cover back on. I know what talking about sticky foam lol
Ooo that’s a great idea!!! I wonder if my husband can build a custom cabinet there with an opening for the microwave like you’re talking about! That would be awesome!!!! And thank you for the tip! I am going to wash them this weekend and I will try it haha!
Lacie!!! It's been a long time since I've seen your videos!! I've missed you so much! I thought y'all were going to move into a double wide a couple years ago?♥️♥️
Always Love your videos The L'Oréal purple shampoo and conditioner walmart has it works the best for me if you have well water it does it to blonde hair hope this helps Love your videos❤Happy Thanksgiving Yall✌️🧡🍁🍂🦃🎄☃️
I’m gonna try that! I have the purple mask by L’Oréal but I have the bed head shampoo and conditioner but I don’t do the mask often. And everytime I do the mask it’s perfect so I am definitely gonna get the L’Oréal shampoo and conditioner!! Thank you so so much!! Happy thanksgiving!!!
I have watched your videos for a while !!! You have a good heart !!! You need to give yourself more credit !!! I know you have a good heart ,cut yourself some slack!!! You are doing a wonderful job ,life is hard !!! Just keep on being you !!❤😊
My daughter has two dogs and like your dogs one is naughty and the other one has to have a break from the other. One's name is Charlie and we call him Charles Manson. Im sure the name gives you a clue to his personality lol. Needless to say, we love them both. Don't be so hard on yourself because you get overwhelmed. I get overwhelmed with the everyday things of life too. It just means your human and that's okay. Also, there is nothing wrong with venting. I usually vent to my oldest daughter and when I'm done, I feel so much calmer and things don't seem as bad as they did earlier. Great video. See you next time.
Haha Charles Manson that is hilarious!! Our girl Gracie is getting up in age and she all the sudden will decide she has had enough of playing or of his shenanigans and she will let him know and not nicely. So she’s our Manson 😂 and you are so right! My mama gets all my venting lol. We have morning appointments from 8:30-9 am everyday on her way to work haha. I’m sure your daughter cherishes that time more than you know by the way, I know I do and it’s such a special bond ❤️ me and your daughter are really blessed girls!
I have had anxiety since I was 12 - 50 years now - I also have OCD - I am medicated but still struggle - I used to combat my anxiety by cleaning all the time - I just exhausted myself and wasted so much time- a house can always be cleaned up but time and memories are more important
I used to clean constantly when Sadie was a baby and it was exhausting. Like deep deep clean daily. It was horrible, like stay up til 2 am every night. And I agree wasted so much time 😭 you are so so right!!!
Hey i haven't commented in a good while but hopefully you remember me lol me and the hubby bought a house! And you and a few other sahm have been helping me create a routine when it comes to cleaning now. Its a bigger house and more to clean but yall have seriously been helping me ❤❤❤❤
Omg yes! I’m so happy for y’all! That is so exciting!!!! I’m so glad I could help! Even if it’s what not to do 😂😂😂 I’m so so so happy for y’all congratulations!!!
@ItsAllMessy thank you!! And it helps that your content is relatable! It's been a rough few weeks but it's been great finally getting settled. The only thing that is gonna be a challenge is decorating all the space but it'll come in time
You can do it girl! Mines back to being a mess already 😂 I have a plan to do a whole deep clean starting tomorrow that’s probably gonna take me a whole week but I’ll probably give up halfway through 😂
Girl I’m 55 yrs old and I have bad anxiety too. You bought have to beat me to get me to leave home. I rather be home with my dog and my husband than anywhere else.
I’m 55 also, I’m with you lol. Much rather be home with my dog and hubby . lol right now procrastinating about going shopping, been putting it off for 2 days, heehee.
I am 56 I have anxiety so bad that I don't go anywhere. Have to make myself go to the Dr or anywhere. Just give me my cat and RUclips and I am ok. I have got to go out two days next week and I am trying to keep it out of my mind.
For your hair get malibu hard water packets...scrub and soak your hair with it every other week...thats what i do to get rid of the brassy color my graying auburn can get from our well water
Hey sweet girl,Hon,I have bad anxiety to where i have anxiety attacks and i've been without my anxiety meds for 4 days b/c the pharmacy says they don' have them so my husband had the script transferred to another pharmacy,i love y'all...
Girl, I completely understand about being home. I had rather be home with my people!! I can go to Wal-Mart, the grocery store, wherever and I can't wait to get back home, it's too peopley out there!!! lol
At my mamas put up so it stays safe lol, the dogs get rowdy and I was tired of being scared it was gonna get busted. since it’s so special to me we put it up for now and one day there will be a time I can enjoy it without worrying it’ll get broken
Oh my goodness yes! Yesterday we went to a store that just opened and we should have known better, there was so many people. A lady was blocking the aisle but I was being patient, I wasn’t in a hurry and I didn’t say anything. She looked at me and said “I’ll move in just a minute!” All mean 😂 I was so confused and caught off guard I said okay all sweet 😂 then it dawned on me that she was just down right mean for nothin hahaha. I told bubba WE. GOT. TO. GO. 😂😂😂
Girl I was laughing so hard! 😂😂😂 I got a bulldog Bosephus he is 5 years and he aggravates my old girl Juno she is a pittbull to 💀 she's 9 and my baby so I got to separate her to have some peace too! 😂😂😂
Lord help us 😂 Gracie is older than tank too and she cannot handle all that mess lol. And sometimes I come in there and catch them and she all the sudden goes to barking at him like she’s aggravated but she was plenty fine until I walked in 😂😂 nasty jokers
@ItsAllMessy bahaha 🤣🤣🤣 I catch Juno too. But she's Mama's baby, so I can't blame her. It's big Ole Bo Bo's fault that mofo has to be close to 100 lbs giving my June bug back problems. 🦛🦛🐳🐋🐳🦛🦛
Honey you’re not the only one if you only could see my bedroom 😳😱😫 it’s so bad I’m thinking of asking for my sister to help me door 🚪 closed I can’t even look in there sleeping on the couch at the moment but yeah it’s so bad I said to myself how in the gods green earth did it get this bad the rest of the house is fine but my bedroom aaahhh you’re home isn’t bad no you’ll get there hopefully 🙏🏻 I will to
No I haven’t that I can’t remember…BUT my memory is horrible and now I’m thinking lol. I may have..or maybe it got dropped in the store because they had them set out on their boxes I believe so that may have happened..
Oh how I wish mine would not eat everything that is stuffed 😂😂 that’s why the couch is his bed because he eats dog beds too 💀😂 oh how I love him tho he is my baby 😂😂
I've never been a person to have pets inside and I just feel overwhelmed now that I moved in with my bf we have two bull dogs and I feel like cleaning is never done. I'll clean and within less than 24 hrs there is slobber and pet hair its annoying I wish we could just throw them outside it would give me less housework. We rent and have carpets with the exception of kitchen and restrooms so it's just annoying.
You aren’t getting that double wide anymore ? Just wondering I’m you aren’t feeling good I feel your pain stress is so bad too sending prayers and love to you ❤
I’m so glad I could do that for you, I wish more people could take the opportunity on their social media to be transparent but it is scary because people can be so mean lol but the good definitely outweighs the bad. I just want everyone to feel good about themselves and know it’s ok to be normal ❤️❤️
Oh hmm.. I thought it was just my husband that stomps throughout the house after going knee deep in mud right after I get done mopping 🙄😒 glad it's just a guy thing. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
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Gurl yes!!! When you said you were made for the house...I totally get it. I am too. You're a very sweet lady. Glad to see you back
Yes haha! I am fine not going anywhere for days lol. Thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️
One of the most freeing quotes I've ever seen is "its ok to not be ok".
We hear you and see you struggling momma. 💕
Thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Laci you are definitely not alone with how you are feeling. I get depressed and so overwhelmed by everything on a day to day basis. We are all trying to get through the daily tasks and that can feel like trying to climb a mountain at times. Side note I noticed you've done some things to your home and even changed your sink! Thank you for sharing ❤.
It seems like there’s no enough hours in the day! And it takes me a while to get going, I’m not sure why 🥴 the hard part for me is getting started and knowing where to start, the bottom of the mountain sure is huge isn’t it 😭😭. Once I do get going though, you can’t stop me lol. And we’ve done a few things and have some more ideas, but bubba works a lot of hours so getting things done are few and far between haha! Hopefully we can tackle some more soon! Thank you so much for always being here!
@@ItsAllMessy I feel that to my core, I swear the hours/days fly by. I have those days too where I have such a hard time on where to start. And what's for dinner, I have gotten to where I don't even know anymore 😂😭. It really is. Can't wait to see what all y'all get done down the road 😊! I would love to own a mobile home one day, lived in them throughout my life and love it. When it comes to bad storms though living in one of them that's a different story 😅. You're so welcome 🫶🏻. Take care Laci ❤️
If you want to free up some counter space, you can always use your broken dishwasher to drain your clean dishes
I wish I could 😭😭 the water from the dishes mildews the inside of the dishwasher bc there’s no airflow even with it cracked I guess bc it’s so humid where we live 😭😭
I am so happy we get to see your beautiful smiling face❤❤ I praise God that you are back again🙏 love you, sweet girl
That makes me so happy ❤️❤️ we love you!!!
I LOVED the beginning. Don’t we all feel like that sometimes?! I think you should put your microwave on your dresser by dining table. I’d clear away some of your trinkets/candles on the counter/sill. That will help it feel more open. You are doing a great job!
Im definitely going to put the microwave over there idk why I haven’t thought to do it before 😂 and I will definitely clear off the stuff from the windowsill I can already see it in my head how it’ll be so much better. Thank you so much! It’s so hard for me to picture things like in a hypothetical way if that makes sense, I can’t see it unless it’s real haha. So you just helped me out big time, thank you so much!
Hey girl! I used to always hand wash my dishes even though I had a working dishwasher (living alone lol) BUT you can just use your dishwasher as your drying rack so you don’t have to leave them on the counter! It’s awesome because you can fill it up but not have to look at them lol. And get your space back!
Girl my dishwasher is filled with mildew inside! No matter how many times I cleaned it out, I don’t understand. Cause I was gonna use it as a drying rack. I guess cause it gets so hot in there and no airflow? It mildews up everytime 😭
@ oh dang! I bet it does get humid in there. The only thing I can think of is take the door off but idk if you wanna do that 😂
I’m just wondering, are you guys no longer moving? I’m definitely a homebody myself, and I’ve been known to create my own baseless anxiety. I’m sure you deal with a lot taking care of Sadie’s medical needs. Prayers sent for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I LOVED I was made for the house. Severe anxiety and depression and ptsd girl here.
Your home is so doll house cute! Love it ❤
Girl, you might not have been in the best mood, but LAWWWDDD that's the most relatable mood 😂😂. Even the yelling at the pets that they nasty, because I talk to mine the same way!
I have pretty crippling anxiety myself. Unfortunately mine spans from generalized anxiety to social, so it's hard for me to even be around people. It's all okay though, and you and I both will pull through it ❤.
lol they stay up under my feet 😂😂
& yes girl I am the same way. Thankfully my husband doesn’t do big crowds or new people either so I don’t often get in those situations. 😂
Good to see you! Hope everyone is doing well!❤❤
Thank you Tammy! We are doing good! I hope y’all are too!
If the counter feels too cluttered, you could probably get a two tiered dish rack to replace the one you have. Then, maybe move the microwave over to the little cabinet you have across from the table.
That is such a good idea! I’m gonna look for a 2 tiered dish rack and whyyyy have I not thought to put the microwave over there 😂😂
Another awesome video like always.. be happy and don’t let your house mess get you stressed out. I use to be very OCD and everything had to be perfect then i realize how that is not important as much as being happy and thanking God for all your blessing and your family. Be happy if it’s clean or a mess it don’t really matter. Go sit on the porch and listen to the birds..❤❤
That is so so true Donna! Thank you so much!
Thank you for your videos. You stay true to yourself and it makes my day. I love your home and all your ways of working with what you got. Just all of it is great. Thank you. ❤
That means so much to hear! It keeps me going even if for only one person ❤️ so you are very welcome and thank you so so much
Always and forever there is a towel on the kitchen counter beside my sink that is constantly full of dishes air drying. They sit there until the next load comes out to sit there 😉
Haha yes! And we are guilty about using the dishes out of the air drying ones and right back into the dirty pile in the sink they go 💀😂😂
One day at a time. I get overwhelmed about things I have no control over at times. You have alot of people here for you because we care and can relate to you, I know I can! ❤🙏
You know what’s crazy, I have a tattoo on my leg that says “one day at a time” to remind me of that..it’s really special to me. So it’s crazy you said that 😭 I’m teared up oh my goodness. And yes my anxiety comes a lot of times from feeling like not one thing is in my control. And I can’t tell you how much that means to me, thank you so so so much. Your comment has me a mess over here 😭😭❤️❤️❤️
I put a little plate (saucer) under my dishes tray at the end opposite the sink so it drains straight into the sink. Helps a bit!
Geniusssss! Thank you!!!
I love my Ozark trail cup 💕 they even have the Christmas colors out now to i have the dark burgundy holiday one 💕
My husband makes fun of my cups haha I always have one no matter what 😂 and I will probably make a trip to Walmart today and if I do and I get one of the Christmas ones I’ll show it lol!
Sounds like you’re feeling overwhelmed. Once you get things done you will feel better.❤️
I sure was and you are absolutely right! I felt so much better!
Some days I am not motivated to do housework at all! I don’t want to do laundry, vacuum or dishes. Then other days, I can clean my house like a maniac! Nothing out of place! It’s the craziest thing!
The one thing that I make myself do no matter what, is make my bed! Getting into bed at night is so much more relaxing! Thanks Mom for hounding me to do that every day when I was a kid! 😁
Same sometimes come out of no where complete maniac yes that's what it is. Everything perfect.
Omg yes it’s either all or nothing hahaha!! & I need to get into the habit of making my bed everyday!
Hey girl so glad to see you again! I have a idea, since your dishwasher is broke, why not put your wet dishes in there to dry and that would clear up that corner for you. I really miss your teal-blue cabinet that use to be in the kitchen. But I love that wood wall!!!!!
Omg hey!!!! Yay!!!! So glad to see you here!!! 😭❤️❤️ and I have tried but I guess bc it’s so humid here, the water that drips off makes the whole inside of the dishwasher mildew! It’s awful! I’ve even tried cracking the door. I’m gonna try next week to rearrange some things in here and see what I can do to clear out that corner lol. I miss the teal cabinet too 😭 i gave up so much storage lol. Because the inside of the brown cabinet is just wide open space. So no good way to organize it. The wood wall is my favorite thing, bubba actually did that before I started the channel. I wish he could do all the walls that way haha
@ItsAllMessy I don't know why I didn't notice the wall before. The teal cabinet has been I a couple of places so I can't even use that as an excuse 😂🤣😂. How is Sassie doing with the seizures? Praying for you girl! Hope you can figure out that corner 😂
We all haave etruggles sometimes girl give yourself a break God bless y'all from East Tennessee
Very very true! And it feels heavy when it comes around! I’m better thank goodness, it only lasted that day haha! Thank you so so much!
I feel ya in this video. There are times when I need to vent. There is only one person that I truly talk to about issues I am having without judgement. But she is also going through some things in her life. I didn't want to burden her. But I think we work well because he both just say it all and talk each other through it.
And the cleaning routines...I watch videos to motivate me, teach me other ways people are doing things and figuring out how or if it would work with ny personality. I am a night owl and slower in the morning. So after dinner, I have to clean up the kitchen for 2 reasons. It feel incomplete(like I am forgetting something, causing me anxiety). So I clean out sink and wipe down fridge, dishwasher and stove and microwave (the last is just so it won't be a bug clean later down the line). 2nd reason I clean at night...I am slow in the morning, the thought of cleaning up does not motivate me to get my day started. However, I do not have little ones anymore. I didn't use to be like this. So you may find different methods that work in different stages of your life. You are definitely not alone. I was sick a couple of weeks ago. Then got sick this week with just seasonal drainage. I did no lt want to do any Christmas stuff. I powered through the nausea and now I feel better and can sit and enjoy my hard work. Your videos and others' videos does that for me. So I want to say I appreciate the videos, the transparency and the authenticity in which you portray yourself in the videos. Life happens and we sometimes need others to help us power through the hard times. Just to tell ourselves later. I did it and I will do it again. Have a wonderful day. I hope things started looking up for you. With that girlie of your's, I don't know how it couldn't get better. Such a sweet girl with a beautiful laugh and smile.
I actually work better at night too!! Before Sadie started school i would clean at night after her and my husband went to bed but now that she’s in school I get to bed early since we get up early. And I am the same way, I am not motivated to clean in the morning AT ALL. At the least, 5 hours after I wake up 😂. My night time clean is omg amazing, it’s like spic and span 😂 I wish I had good lighting and could film a late night cleaning video. And I’m so glad you’re feeling better!! Thank you so much for the encouragement! And yes Sadie is finds a way to make everything better, she is a hoot lol
much love from Tennessee i was so glad uou had a new video
❤️❤️ I’m so glad Barbara and I’m so glad to have had you this whole way with me by the way. Thank you for always being here
Those of us with adhd & anxiety should ALL have a channel that makes us "accountable" for getting stuff done!😁 Im twice your age & struggle every day🥴lol. (I was made for the house too!) Do you ever use your dishwasher to dry your dishes? I use to when mine was broken just so they didnt take up so much counter & sink space. 😉
I have been saying for two weeks I need to return some things to the store still have not gone. I bring my son to school and sometimes thats all I can do. The stores don't open till about 10. I have to just go and sit there. Terrible procrastination
I wanted to use the dishwasher but I guess bc it’s so hot in there it gets mildewed in there from the water dripping off the dishes. Even when I crack it, there’s not enough air flow 😭😭
Hey lacy I'm so glad to see you I have more of a mess to clean up with the adults in this house than I ever did when my kids were
little lol
Hahaha I can see how that would happen 😂 me and bubba can make one heck of a mess too
So happy to see you upload again! I can relate to so much in this video so thank you for sharing this with us. I hope you enjoy the rest of the week and have a relaxing weekend ahead.
I’m so glad!!! I hope you have a good week too and thank you so much!!!
1. Go to a salon and get a good clarifying shampoo. 2. Get a water filtering system for your shower head.
That is what my hair dresser told me.
3. Glad to see you!!!
Ooo thank youuuu!!! Cause I am so tired of fighting this battle haha! It’ll be perfect and all the sudden after a few washes, even with the purple shampoo, it does this. I will definitely get one!!! Thank you so much Teddie!!!!
I deal with crippling anxiety too. if you feel comfortable please share a video about it. it helps to know someone else deals with it too (as Bad as I wouldnt wish that on anyone) mine gets to the point where I let the house go.
I absolutely will! Sometimes it gets me so bad that I don’t want to leave the house. I don’t like making appointments because I have to talk on the phone, things where I have to go inside. It’s awful sometimes 😭
@@ItsAllMessy I try to remind myself (easier said than done) that fear is not from the Lord. So its the devil trying to hinder us. I will pray for you. you seem like a wonderful mother and homemaker.
I have 2 boys ages 4 and almost 2, and im 20 weeks today with baby girl.
Love your videos always, got to saw your fur babies, there so cute. Love from Montana ❤❤
They are a mess lol! Love you!!!!
You look and feel like me about 5 days a week. Haha. It gets overwhelming! It absolutely helps to vent ! You’re awesome and I love your videos. I hope you start to get back to yourself soon. I have anxiety too. Be absolutely nothing stressing me out and it feels like it hits me like a brick. I hate it. Have the faith and stay strong !
Haha yes! Sometimes it feels like too much! Anxiety can take my breath straight out my lungs over NOTHING 🥴 and thankfully I’m back to regular, by the end of that day haha! Thank the Lord! Thank you so so much!!!
Rats on acid 😂 girl my dog gives me whiplash!! Some days I think he helps my anxiety and other days I’m hollering at him because he’s giving me anxiety lol they are special creatures
Our dishwasher went. I pulled it and put our microwave on top of small cabinet shelf in that spot. Trying rubbing a dryer sheet on cushion before putting cover back on. I know what talking about sticky foam lol
Ooo that’s a great idea!!! I wonder if my husband can build a custom cabinet there with an opening for the microwave like you’re talking about! That would be awesome!!!! And thank you for the tip! I am going to wash them this weekend and I will try it haha!
Lacie!!! It's been a long time since I've seen your videos!! I've missed you so much! I thought y'all were going to move into a double wide a couple years ago?♥️♥️
I put a dish drying towel underneath my drying rack
Oh like on the inside between the two?! That’s a great idea!!!
Always Love your videos The L'Oréal purple shampoo and conditioner walmart has it works the best for me if you have well water it does it to blonde hair hope this helps Love your videos❤Happy Thanksgiving Yall✌️🧡🍁🍂🦃🎄☃️
I’m gonna try that! I have the purple mask by L’Oréal but I have the bed head shampoo and conditioner but I don’t do the mask often. And everytime I do the mask it’s perfect so I am definitely gonna get the L’Oréal shampoo and conditioner!! Thank you so so much!! Happy thanksgiving!!!
I go out every day but it’s a struggle. I’d rather be home by myself. You’re not alone🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I know 😭😭😭
Good to see you!!
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I have watched your videos for a while !!! You have a good heart !!! You need to give yourself more credit !!! I know you have a good heart ,cut yourself some slack!!! You are doing a wonderful job ,life is hard !!! Just keep on being you !!❤😊
Thank you so much!!
Just love your videos, real life
I’m so glad Monica!!
Put some shims on the backside of the drain board to tilt it towards the sink so it will drain put better..helps with the slime stuff!
Omg genius!!!
@ItsAllMessy I live in an old trailer too..
Sending you love hugs n prayers. Pam in NC
Thank you so much!
My daughter has two dogs and like your dogs one is naughty and the other one has to have a break from the other. One's name is Charlie and we call him Charles Manson. Im sure the name gives you a clue to his personality lol. Needless to say, we love them both. Don't be so hard on yourself because you get overwhelmed. I get overwhelmed with the everyday things of life too. It just means your human and that's okay. Also, there is nothing wrong with venting. I usually vent to my oldest daughter and when I'm done, I feel so much calmer and things don't seem as bad as they did earlier. Great video. See you next time.
Haha Charles Manson that is hilarious!! Our girl Gracie is getting up in age and she all the sudden will decide she has had enough of playing or of his shenanigans and she will let him know and not nicely. So she’s our Manson 😂 and you are so right! My mama gets all my venting lol. We have morning appointments from 8:30-9 am everyday on her way to work haha. I’m sure your daughter cherishes that time more than you know by the way, I know I do and it’s such a special bond ❤️ me and your daughter are really blessed girls!
Girl same here! Its a mad house in this trailer too
Mines back to being a wreck already 😂
I have had anxiety since I was 12 - 50 years now - I also have OCD - I am medicated but still struggle - I used to combat my anxiety by cleaning all the time - I just exhausted myself and wasted so much time- a house can always be cleaned up but time and memories are more important
I used to clean constantly when Sadie was a baby and it was exhausting. Like deep deep clean daily. It was horrible, like stay up til 2 am every night. And I agree wasted so much time 😭 you are so so right!!!
“Rats on acid” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 lmao
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Hey i haven't commented in a good while but hopefully you remember me lol me and the hubby bought a house! And you and a few other sahm have been helping me create a routine when it comes to cleaning now. Its a bigger house and more to clean but yall have seriously been helping me ❤❤❤❤
Omg yes! I’m so happy for y’all! That is so exciting!!!! I’m so glad I could help! Even if it’s what not to do 😂😂😂 I’m so so so happy for y’all congratulations!!!
@ItsAllMessy thank you!! And it helps that your content is relatable! It's been a rough few weeks but it's been great finally getting settled. The only thing that is gonna be a challenge is decorating all the space but it'll come in time
My trailer is such a dang mess. Seriously. It's awful. But I'm trying to get it done today! 💛💛💛
You can do it girl! Mines back to being a mess already 😂 I have a plan to do a whole deep clean starting tomorrow that’s probably gonna take me a whole week but I’ll probably give up halfway through 😂
That was funny !!!.. those shoes have been there for 30 days!! 😂😂😂
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Girl I’m 55 yrs old and I have bad anxiety too. You bought have to beat me to get me to leave home. I rather be home with my dog and my husband than anywhere else.
Yes! My mama said the other day hers was getting bad too and she’s always been the type to be on the go. I am fine at home for days lol!
I’m 55 also, I’m with you lol. Much rather be home with my dog and hubby . lol right now procrastinating about going shopping, been putting it off for 2 days, heehee.
I am 56 I have anxiety so bad that I don't go anywhere. Have to make myself go to the Dr or anywhere. Just give me my cat and RUclips and I am ok. I have got to go out two days next week and I am trying to keep it out of my mind.
For your hair get malibu hard water packets...scrub and soak your hair with it every other week...thats what i do to get rid of the brassy color my graying auburn can get from our well water
Adding to my Amazon cart now!! Thank you so so muchhhhh!!!
Hey sweet girl,Hon,I have bad anxiety to where i have anxiety attacks and i've been without my anxiety meds for 4 days b/c the pharmacy says they don' have them so my husband had the script transferred to another pharmacy,i love y'all...
Oh no that’s horrible, I hope you haven’t had a bad anxiety attack bc of that! I am so sorry Mrs bertha! I’m praying for you & I love you!!!
I have always watched your videos, always enjoy them ❤ you, see you in the next one 😊
That means so much to me! Thank you!!!
U did awesome missy
Thank you so much Shelley!
Girl I just put my dishes away wet… they dry in the cabinet! ❤
Wait that’s a good idea bc why not 😂😂😂 it’s not like they’re soaking wet once they sit over there for a few lol
I totally understand getting overwhelmed I moved in with my boyfriend a yr ago and I have stuff in the basement I need to sell or donate
Yesss so much stuff, not enough room!
Girl, I completely understand about being home. I had rather be home with my people!! I can go to Wal-Mart, the grocery store, wherever and I can't wait to get back home, it's too peopley out there!!! lol
Yessss! Exactly!!
I think we all get in those moods.
That is true!
Where's your glass coffee table?🤔
At my mamas put up so it stays safe lol, the dogs get rowdy and I was tired of being scared it was gonna get busted. since it’s so special to me we put it up for now and one day there will be a time I can enjoy it without worrying it’ll get broken
Made for the house…girl me too
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Hey young lady and I wanted to say, people make me want to stay home
Oh my goodness yes! Yesterday we went to a store that just opened and we should have known better, there was so many people. A lady was blocking the aisle but I was being patient, I wasn’t in a hurry and I didn’t say anything. She looked at me and said “I’ll move in just a minute!” All mean 😂 I was so confused and caught off guard I said okay all sweet 😂 then it dawned on me that she was just down right mean for nothin hahaha. I told bubba WE. GOT. TO. GO. 😂😂😂
Girl I was laughing so hard! 😂😂😂 I got a bulldog Bosephus he is 5 years and he aggravates my old girl Juno she is a pittbull to 💀 she's 9 and my baby so I got to separate her to have some peace too! 😂😂😂
Lord help us 😂 Gracie is older than tank too and she cannot handle all that mess lol. And sometimes I come in there and catch them and she all the sudden goes to barking at him like she’s aggravated but she was plenty fine until I walked in 😂😂 nasty jokers
@ItsAllMessy bahaha 🤣🤣🤣 I catch Juno too. But she's Mama's baby, so I can't blame her. It's big Ole Bo Bo's fault that mofo has to be close to 100 lbs giving my June bug back problems. 🦛🦛🐳🐋🐳🦛🦛
Honey you’re not the only one if you only could see my bedroom 😳😱😫 it’s so bad I’m thinking of asking for my sister to help me door 🚪 closed I can’t even look in there sleeping on the couch at the moment but yeah it’s so bad I said to myself how in the gods green earth did it get this bad the rest of the house is fine but my bedroom aaahhh you’re home isn’t bad no you’ll get there hopefully 🙏🏻 I will to
"Rats on acid"....😂.
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Have you dropped your Stanley cup on concrete before I know that makes all those cups like that stop keeping things cold and the ice melts
No I haven’t that I can’t remember…BUT my memory is horrible and now I’m thinking lol. I may have..or maybe it got dropped in the store because they had them set out on their boxes I believe so that may have happened..
My drain board gets nasty also
It pure out makes me wanna gag lol!
My male dog has his stuffed bunny friend to keep him occupied!😂
Oh how I wish mine would not eat everything that is stuffed 😂😂 that’s why the couch is his bed because he eats dog beds too 💀😂 oh how I love him tho he is my baby 😂😂
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Hey Michelle!
Do you only have just 2 chairs at your kitchen table?
Yes haha one is at the computer in our spare room and ones in my husbands shop he needs to bring back in 😂
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I've never been a person to have pets inside and I just feel overwhelmed now that I moved in with my bf we have two bull dogs and I feel like cleaning is never done. I'll clean and within less than 24 hrs there is slobber and pet hair its annoying I wish we could just throw them outside it would give me less housework. We rent and have carpets with the exception of kitchen and restrooms so it's just annoying.
I totally get it, they do make a mess! Thankfully mine don’t shed too bad but they track in so much dirt 😭
You aren’t getting that double wide anymore ? Just wondering I’m you aren’t feeling good I feel your pain stress is so bad too sending prayers and love to you ❤
I love that you keep it so real I love the real life that you show that so many RUclips creators hide thank you for making me feel not alone!!!
I’m so glad I could do that for you, I wish more people could take the opportunity on their social media to be transparent but it is scary because people can be so mean lol but the good definitely outweighs the bad. I just want everyone to feel good about themselves and know it’s ok to be normal ❤️❤️
Oh hmm.. I thought it was just my husband that stomps throughout the house after going knee deep in mud right after I get done mopping 🙄😒 glad it's just a guy thing. 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Nope not just yours 😂😂 they must get heavy feet when they smell mop water 😂😂😂
Are your dogs fixed? They should be it would help with that nasty stuff they do!!
Tank has an appointment to get fixed lol! We got him as a rescue, we figure that’s the main issue
STOP TALKING AND GO GET TO IT ALREADY
😂😂 you said what everyone is thinking everytime they talk to me 😂😂 I am one of those people that has 5 side conversations for every one conversation 💀