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When I was teaching, I started a “walk and talk” time for kids who were feeling disconnected at recess. It was so successful that parents started taking walks with their children (1 at a time) where they could organically connect together as they moved their bodies. Parents learned the ups and downs of their child’s life, and it was a safe place for kids to talk because their bodies were moving and they didn’t need to have eye contact while they talked. So many families have said this was such a bonus time that have continued for years! ❤
What a beautiful thing to do for a shy child-and there are always several who would love a safe place to be not alone at unstructured times like recess and lunch! Thank you for thinking of that! We made a 'welcome' table at lunch and sat with the kids there, inviting kids to join us who seemed uncertain where to go or were withdrawn. You could see the relief.
What a wondeful thing you started, the walk & talk for the kids who werent sure where they fit in. And how great that many parents decided to have this special time with their own kids! Bravo!
@@lucystrider728yay! Lucy! Also a wonderful idea to have the welcome table so no child has to face the awkward situation of sitting alone at the lunch table! I wouldnt be surprised if some of the popular kids werent secretly wishing they could sit at the welcome table with you!
I live with my 86 year old Dad and when was the last time I've asked him "How are you doing- really?" Made me wake up that I'm not fully present. What great advice. Ask. Then listen.
Minimalism has saved me so much money!! I donated, recycled, gifted most of what I owned after I saw you years ago. Since then, I've been tempted to buy cute stuff--I'm only human after all!--but then I remember that I've had similar items already and got rid of them. "Don't be an idiot and re-buy the same stuff" is what I tell myself. That enables me to walk away from temptation every single time! Thanks Minimalism!
Hi Dawn, I remember finding your videos several years ago and thinking, I could NEVER live in that minimal environment. It’s so Bare! At the time, I was downsizing two households into one. My family was grown and gone and I had years of inventory accumulated. Fast forward to today - my home is more manageable and organized. We travel in an RV and currently are spending 6 weeks in these smaller quarters. And I’ve just realized that everything that I have learned from you is now making my life and lifestyle more enjoyable. At 75 years young, I am living my wildest dreams and feeling more empowered than any other season of my life. Thank YOUUU❣❣ Kasia
Point 4 - YES! I decluttered so much over this past 1.5 years, but I had this annoying feeling like something was missing, like I just couldn't put my finger on it. But it's this point, only having out/keeping what I actually USE. I have finally parted ways with jewellery, perfumes, beauty products, new underwear and even socks, that I just never use. My bedroom and bathroom now only has what I use RIGHT NOW and next to nothing else. I did it all on Sunday in one day and ugh it felt so good. I'm soooo satisfied!!!
Oooh, I just know, I’m going to feel so free when we’re done holding onto baby items and outgrown clothes. Now doesn’t feel like the right time because we’re considering fostering and to buy it all back feels like such a waste, but life will be lighter once that season is over for sure!
My bare minimum daily tasks are do the dishes, load of laundry start to finish, and a 5 minute pickup. My house might not be white glove clean, but it stays FUNCTIONAL!!
I am recovering from a fractured tibia, 7 weeks and counting, I'm supposed to stay off my leg, but the dishes and the laundry are done 👍😊 I definitely need to get into the showers and give them a good clean, but it will have to wait until my leg has fully healed.
Younger me use to do laundry & pile on bed with plan to fold later. Night came & clothes went to the floor. Next day back on bed and added to pile. It’d repeat until I had to rewash because worn got mixed with clean. Now I fold/hang as soon as dryer goes off. No more wrinkled clothes. Bed stays clear. Everyone puts their pile away.
"Plan that the first few times you do this, it's not going to go well. It's going to feel like a big waste of time." Genius advice! I wish I had known that when my kids were young!
Making my bed is A MUST in our home!!!! We get up, the kids off to school and have our morning coffee then before I get dressed, our bed is made. There is nothing more unkempt than walking into our bedroom and seeing our bed not made!! It totally is a must. Then at night pulling the throw pillows off and peeling back the covers is somehow so satisfying!!! Yes to bed making!! Now if my kids can learn this.. someday. 😂😂
I just commented the same. I think it's ok if some of these things work for us, or don't work for us. I appreciate how she encourages everyone to do this.
So true about the toys!! I don’t have children but my nieces (ages 6 and 10) were over at my place the other day, and I don’t have any toys - they made a game out of our fridge magnets and played it for hours! Kids are so creative if we let them be :)
Someone needs to address the problem of very little kids with cell phones. Recently I've seen kids holding their milk or juice bottle in one hand while watching a video on mama's phone with the other! Just look around when you are out shopping and almost every tiny kid you see is glued to a cell phone!!! It's the new babysitter - put the kid in a shopping-cart and hand them the phone!! Mothers need to think about how this is changing the way a baby's brain develops - it starts with us adults, we need to model good phone behavior - Dawn thanks for encouraging ladies to stop starting their day by scrolling on a phone!!
Making the bed is my 1st gift to myself in the morning. Climbing into a neat and tidy bed is my welcome to rest at night. We all have different preferences. No shame in my game!
You are so right Dawn about planning for your “worst day” not your best! As a single mum I really feel this! When I want to buy things I need to ask myself “Is this going to make my life easier or harder?” Like with home decor and Christmas decorations … it looks pretty but in reality it’s creating more work and clutter and I’m already not keeping up with my house and life as it is!
DAWN!! It had literally never occurred to me to be 5 minutes early. I'm usually at least 5 minutes late. So this morning I got my son to school 5 minutes early, and there was the cutest little mobile boutique in the parking lot, an old renovated trolley car. SO COOL!! And we had plenty of time to tour it instead of just zooming to the classroom. Thank you for the constant inspiration. This one is golden.
Dawn, you are the best! So much inspiration over the years has come from watching your videos! I started doing 1 load a day and putting it away same day (always was the hardest part for me) and now my loads take only 5-10 minutes to fold and even less to put away ( we are a family of 6 about to be a family of 7)! I watch your videos while I fold as my reward! I look forward to it everyday! Thank you for being you 🎉
@TheMinimalMom Your videos always give me the pickup I need when it feels impossible! I appreciate all the hard work you do to help us out! Keep up the good work, it is making all the difference ❤️
I was taught in Girl Scouts that if your bed isn’t made the whole room looks messy, so it’s been the first thing I’ve done each morning for over 60 years. For me it sets the tone of the day. I enjoy your channel.
My aunt- who was 14 years younger than my mom but only 11 years older than me so we were always close --told me those exact words. She said your room could be perfectly neat but if your bed is unmade it will look messy. The eye will see it as messy.
And absolutely no judgment, but I’ve read that if you make your bed right after you get out of it, it doesn’t have time to air out germs and bacteria that will build up until laundered. We can’t win haha.
Have we lost the Girl Scouts in America? I almost never hear about the GS anymore and the cookies are now often sold in stores!! I think American youth today is really missing out.
I still like using my paper planner which I keep at my house. I have discovered it helps me practice the “pause” & keeps me from saying yes to everything I am asked to do. I tell people I need to check my planner first. It gives me space to formulate a response, especially for things I don’t want to do or have time for. Thanks Dawn for all you share with us!
When I was age 6-7 we lived overseas for 6 months. I took 2 of my favourite teddies with me, and some new neighbours kindly donated an empty dolls house that their daughter had outgrown. I was also given two more soft toys as welcome gifts. And that was it for 6 months. And I loved it. So yes, you can definitely simplify far more than you think you can!
Love your ideas, but we can agree to disagree about bedmaking, laundry, and dishes. 😄 Leaving the bed unmade makes me feel unsettled every time I walk in and out of the room. It looks so messy that way, and looks so pretty when it is done. It only takes 2 minutes - 100% worth it to me. I do get dressed in the morning but don't wear shoes inside the house, only house slippers. I also do dishes 1x per day (after dinner) and laundry 1x per week (on the weekend). This works so much better for me than trying to do a load here or there. But I also don't have kids at home, and I can see where that might not work for everyone. This is why I appreciate your oft-repeated theme to do what works for you - it's going to be different for each of us. 🥰
I really appreciate your thumbnails in the description. I can go back to a specific issue I want to revisit without having to watch the entire video. Thanks.
When my kids were little I only put out a small amount of toys at a time and once a month I rotated the toys. Every month felt like Christmas because they forgot about the toys that were put away for awhile.
We’ve been getting places early for years. You’re right. It takes away stress. we would have notebooks and colored pencils in the car for the kids. Life changer!
Thanks for talking about cell phone usage...it's convicting to me and a needed reminder that scrolling isn't the best for my morning/nighttime routines. I love how you share both decluttering AND practical life advice. Thank you, Dawn!🤍
As someone who enjoys sewing my own clothes, what has saved me in Wisconsin winters is a uniform of boring, classic pants (jeans & 2 dark neutrals) with enough tops in colors I like that (a) go with all three bottoms and (b) allow me to wash a full load of them once a week on average with enough extra that my laundry day can be shifted to the weekend. I have been doing this since my oldest was 15 and assigned his laundry day, while my youngest is now 29 and a mother herself with her own washing machine. My primary warmest winter jacket is also one of those 2 dark neutral colors. I use the container concept to control my cherished collection of sweaters (includes wearable heirlooms and souvenirs), sweatshirts, & jackets. Hope this helps someone. Please leave a short reply if it does. 😊
So many great points. I'm very grateful to have a manager who actually cares. Most mornings he asks "How are you?" and I get the sense he's genuinely asking. After I answer honestly, I ask how he is, and he replies honestly too. It's fosterer such a great atmosphere at work. Gone are the days we all have to say, "Fine, fine. Everything's fine", when it isn't. ♥️💪🤓
Regarding meal planning, I SO recommend freezing meals. Last year, I noticed that we were ordering delivery a lot because we would just run out of time to cook dinner. But then we also frequently threw out leftovers. I got some Souper Cubes and they've been incredible. They're silicone molds that come in 1/2 cup, 1 cup, and 2 cup sizes--so, essentially, individual-sized portions. Now, when I do cook, I make extra and freeze it. I started with soup and lasagna and now I freeze anything I can. I even prep and freeze ingredients like mirepoix and grated ginger and garlic to make cooking easier. We have a freezer full of individual portions of home-cooked meals that are quick and easy to heat up. It makes weeknights SO MUCH EASIER! Bonus: if we can't agree on what to eat, then everybody can pick a different thing. It makes lunches a breeze, too!
Hubby and I pull our side of the covers up as soon as we get out of bed. We dont have decorative pillows and its a super easy way to make the room look neater. Having said that each to their own. I don't think its a deal breaker but I do personally prefer it. ❤
Dawn you are at the super busy stage of parenting. Its so awesome that you simplified your home and life before you got to this stage. Thanks for continuing to share ideas, tips, and encouragement for everyone on this journey. Whenever I get bogged down decluttering I watch one of your videos!
There is no way I can even leave my bedroom without making my bed. The few times I have not made my bed is like when I’ve had the flu and got up only to eat or go to the restroom. I can’t stand the thought of coming home from work and the bed is unmade.
I totally agreee! Making the bed, for an organized & tidy minded person, is so satisfying. I think I just realized that minimalism and organization doesn’t necessarily go hand in hand. I think? Going into the bedroom at night and pulling back bedding on a neat bed…and getting under those covers feels like the calming end of to my day.
It’s so interesting how different habits affect people. Making my bed every morning COMPLETELY changed my mood and mindset. I hated walking through my bedroom throughout the day with it looking like no one cared enough to just make the bed. But putting shoes on doesn’t change my day until I leave the house. 😂😂
Same for me. I HAVE to make my bed every day, and I also keep my dishes done. But the first thing I put on is my workout clothes, get a good workout in, then I'm ready for my day (still don't put on shoes until I leave the house). Different habits work for different people.
A few years back I started making my bed every day for the first time in my life. I continued doing it to this day. For me it makes a difference because that is one chore out of the way, so regardless of how the rest of the day goes I have one accomplishment under my belt. I actually listened to the audio book “Make Your Bed” which is what caused me yo start this habit. To each his own but I plan on sticking with this habit.
Dawn, you have been so helpful as I’ve worked hard to transform my home into a more simplified environment. I was really proud of myself because tonight I was able to put up all the fall decorations in my whole house in 15 minutes, and they fit in one storage tub! I have found now that if I go into Target, I look around and all I see is a bunch of stuff that has little meaning and is unappealing. I am so much more thoughtful with what I bring into my home. My biggest challenge is still my child’s artwork and toys, but I know that that will be a challenge for some time. Thank you for all that you do to help transform lives!
When I had a house that my bedroom was in the back of the house I hardly made my bed. But in my new house my bedroom is at the front of the house and I started making my bed everyday and it makes a huge difference for me. I think because I walk by my room so many times that seeing it made and tidy feels less chaotic. I find that interesting.
I no longer allow anyone to set a dish in the sink. Once you're done with your dish, you go straight to the sink and wash it. This is a game changer❤❤❤❤❤
I noticed if I go in my phone in the morning I’m more likely to get sucked into “doom scrolling” where as if I watch anything later it’s stuff that helps me be productive (like this video!) ❤
Growing up, my mom always had our clocks set 5 minutes ahead. We all knew it was, but i think it still made a difference, and my parents instilled in us never to be late for anything!
Dawn, that "really old meal planning video" is how I found you for the first time. I adapted your master grocery shopping list idea to what I buy most often (items are listed in order of the aisles of my local Aldi 😆) and I still use it every week. Makes my shopping so easy! Thanks for all you've done through the years. 😊
When I was your age and a working mom we often did not make the beds. However, now that we are at home and retired I make the bed everyday. I can’t imagine walking through my bedroom multiple times a day and staring at an unmade bed. It takes all of 60 seconds and totally transforms that room. You often discuss your bedroom being a sanctuary and peaceful place. That is not going to happen in a bedroom with an unmade bed.
I found a great compromise, I always need a while to get up in the morning and so I just let the bed "breathe" (putting the blanket away) and do my routine (aka hoping that my brain wakes up). Then when I head out, after breakfast or later in the day when I'm in the bedroom again I do it.
So true, I did not grow up making my bed. But when you make your bed, I feel that my bedroom looks more calmer and yes, whenever I go to the bedroom, it just gives me the satisfaction of ' Ah this is one room that I don't have anyone messing anything up '. My kids make their beds every morning and they just love it..!!
I love that you only do ads for companies that you truly get a lot of value from, Dawn! You always come across as so genuine when you’re doing these ads, versus some youtubers or podcasters who seem to simply be reading from a script. Re: Factor… I used to work as a dietitian, so I love that you kind of inadvertently gave a plug for dietitians! 😊
Minimalism in my life enables me to help my friends and family. I go to Walmart once a month cuz I refuse to stop walking despite my disability.If I don't have a car I ride with a friend. My bestie has everything delivered and is physically incapable of keeping up with her deliveries, packaging, incontinent dog...Also, being retired I can be available to others who are lonely or just need someone to listen ❤ The list goes on!😊
I started my decluttering journey Summer of 2023. I grew up in a mostly minimalist household, but my spouse grew up with pack rats and my kiddo is the only grandchild on both sides and the only niece/nephew on both sides. We are still not close to minimalists (yet!) but it's an ongoing journey and I'm hoping that we'll be there in the next year or so. I've gotten rid of probably 50% of my things and my spouse and kid have downsized as well. Thank you for the tips and the videos!
That time buffer is something I do every single day and for every planned errand. I swear it makes the biggest mental difference in your stress level. Also in the morning I have found that 10 minutes makes a huge difference in how much traffic is on the road and how aggressively they are driving (I’m in the Atlanta area, if you know, you know 😂). I’d rather leave early and mosey than leave with just enough time and have to worry!
I really enjoy your videos even though my kids are grown and gone now. The best laundry hack for busy parents is to teach your children to do their own laundry! They are old enough by the age of 10. They can help to fold and put away their own laundry even younger.
For those people who live near a shopping mall... If the weather is bad you can walk in the mall. The temp is controlled, music is playing, ground is level - less potential for falls, no sunscreen needed!
I sat next to the Fly Lady (Marla Cilley) at an organizational conference with the Slob Sisters back in 2000. She was funny & delightful and at that time didn’t have any books written. She got the get dressed to your shoes from Pam & Peggy (the Slob sisters) that was their motto 😊
Dawn I have found that making my bed as part of my morning routine is a good habit. If mess = chaos - I feel calmer and more organised if everything is neat and tidy in every room - my house feels better. So I feel more in control- simples!
I come from a mixed marriage: early bird Type A father with a dedicated spot for each tool, married to night owl Type B mother with an untidy desk and sewing area wherein she could pinpoint the location of a given item. Appreciating their combination in myself has been enlightening, aggravating, humorous, and rewarding.
When my sons were younger they would ask why we were always the first people to arrive for anything. I just hate rushing. I also need to have everything ready in the morning so I’m not running around finding things at the last minute.
I like to do at least a load of laundry every day. I have a clothes line in my garage so I don’t have to worry about rain or anything like that. Saves the clothes from being damaged in the dryer. What makes it easier for me to put away laundry is that I dry shirts in their hangers. They go from clothesline to closet, easy.
I am a working mom… when we are leaving the house early in the day I don’t worry about making beds, because we won’t be seeing them all day and I don’t want to make the time for it. But on days we are home I make the bed because it makes me feel better.
Minimalism makes your life so much more peaceful no matter what season you are in. Even if a lot is not going on, and you are retired like me, the simpler life is the more beautiful it is :) So glad you have learned this so young :)
I too am retired and love simplifying so that I can enjoy the important things.I am not busy or overwhelmed but rather am limited by health and wellness issues. Doing cleaning and decluttering takes me longer so simplifying and reducing cluttter is very important. Thank you for sharing .
The reason I advocate making the bed is just cause a bed can easily be 30% to 80% of the space in the bedroom. So if you make it that’s usually half your room in order. And that’s kind of a win in my books. However I can’t tuck sheets worth a darn so I just make it good enough
yes, you are a warm autumn and once you know what your " season " is, shopping is so much easier and less time consuming. I power right past all those bright prints that are not in my color choices. Now everything in my closet matches. And I find that I gravitate toward those same colors when decorating my home and buying throw pillows and bedspreads, etc. I highly recommend finding out what your season is if you want to simplify your clothing choices of what stays and what comes in with future purchases.
Agree with you so much! Making my bed first thing in the morning never changed my life too! You’re so amazing 🤩 love all these video so much! These video helps us so much with life! Super big thanks ❤
I 💚 that you showed your drawer and simplicity in it, and it's really good idea (not sure if it was actually in this video, I am binge listening while doing something else sometimes it take a quick glance at the video) Thank you so much for all your efforts to make these videos it's a lot of work and actually a big commitment and gift to humanity and us I lived in the United States as well and I had to laugh that you do laundry every day I do it once in three weeks, single guy here
When I was a stay-at-home mom with five children, a simplified meal plan was the only way I could financially and physically feed my family. Sunday=big meal with roasted meat/mashed potatoes or rice/veggies; Monday=leftovers with roasted meat (turkey or chicken casserole, shepherd’s pie, chicken pot pie, etc); Tuesday=soup & sandwich or chili & cornbread (often the soup was made from turkey or chicken bones left over from Sunday’s meal); Wednesday=pasta; Thursday=salad bar or loaded potatoes; Friday=pizza (homemade, pizzeria, or even homemade on English muffins); Saturday=hamburgers or hotdogs with homemade fries. No one ever went hungry!
While I am going thru the clean out process, I noticed the other day that I need to keep some furniture and rugs in place so my house does not echo. So dressers and cabinets that are empty are okay to keep. I was purging those items unnecessarily.
I know I’m a better mum when we have less, as I have more capacity, but my kids are really missing out on me during this process. On one hand I’m so proud of how far we have come, on the other, how can’t even see a light at the end of the tunnel yet (and you adjust so fast to the less clutter that it doesn’t seem to help at all haha I still feel soooo cluttered!) I don’t want to be decluttering forever…but I also know that we didn’t get here overnight so it’s going to be a process to minimise it all….i just want to simultaneously have a massssss week long purge and be done, but reality has us needing to give time to our kids and sports and …the rest 😜 so we end up doing a day here and there and it feels like we’ll never finish.
I feel the same way. I never have long enough chunks of time to get anything done, and if I do have some free time, I'm too exhausted to deal with it all. I dream of getting a huge dumpster and throwing everything away and starting over. It's overwhelming. I dream of having a simple house. My house is an ADHD nightmare!
As a new mum I still need to keep hearing the toy stuff! We barely have any but with Christmas coming and the marketing is REAL!!! Thanks for my dose of sanity!!
THANK YOU! Thank you so very, very much…when you said that our brains aren’t good at managing all the little pieces of information. I work in finance, and when we have our finance board meetings, I’m always made to feel inadequate by the board members who get frustrated with me that I’m not always able to answer all their random questions about the finances from last month or maybe five years ago. Truly, thank you for the hug and encouragement that statement was for me ❤.
I hand wash the dishes “almost” everyday. If I’m too sick my family is thoughtful enough to save the dishes for me so when I get better I have two or three days worth of dishes to do. 😂😂😂 So ya, I never miss a day. Lol
You make me feel old when you tell me your kids ages! I found you when my son was an infant...no way do we have kids this old! Thanks so much for guiding us on this journey. Always love listening and enjoying your company.
Can you do a more in-depth video about your get ready bin? Do you keep makeup and skincare and hair things in there? Do you keep your toothbrush and your contacts in there? I have tried a get ready bin, but have found smaller bins (like a hair bin, a makeup bin, etc) to be more successful for me. But I wonder if I was trying to keep things that don't belong in my get ready bin!
Omg relate to that last part so hard! Mine are 4 and 2 and weve started out minimalist journey and i already feel i have more 'bandwidth' for my kids and family, am in a better mood, more patient, less time spent tidying and more on them
RUclips did a year re-cap for me today and my number 1 listened to podcast this year was you, Dawn. 😊❤️ I've been growing in my minimalism for the past 6 years but I still feel like I have farther to go and so much to learn. 😊❤️ Thank you for your content this year. It really has helped me so much! 😊❤️
Yes, to 3 things every day. In our house it’s laundry, trash and dishes. It’s easy for my husband to help manage/do vs me telling him what needs to be done. It’s also a safety net against doing all of the laundry on Sundays and then you get sick on that day.
I was in the bathroom, taking your advice to GET DRESSED, though i don't work for another 6 hours. You pulled out your bathroom drawer and talked about keeping daily necessities in it. I haven't opened my drawers in 2 years! I pulled it open and found all of my travel stuff... mini sizes of (very old) toiletries, and different size travel bags... you know, for vacation. Except... I'm a farmer. I don't TAKE vacations! 😂 I've been wasting these drawers, filled with old junk and things I never need. Boom, decluttered!
You are so right on simplifying toys, I don't have kids but my toy driven Border Collie behaves the same. He actually plays better with one toy than multiple, and you can actually see decision fatigue in pets with too many toys. Try it as an experiment it's fascinating.
Asking our kids how their day went is so important I do that from when they start expressing themselves and they share everything (maybe because of that or they all take after their mom because I'm an over-sharer ;D) Love your videos
Lots of great ideas! I find that a walk alone every day helps me to declutter my brain. My husband and I often walk together, but that is different. As for "Survival Meals," I call these 9-1-1 meals. Frozen pizza is always on hand. I can make taco soup in the crock pot in the morning to be ready when we walk in at supper time. I also have a couple favorites from the frozen food department at Trader Joe's.
I like having a made bed. Makes me feel better and I can utilize the bed for folding and anything else plus looks better. I like being dressed also first thing.
I am a mom of 3 toddlers at the moment. I'm am trying to "take back my house". One thing that I am utilizing for our consistent grocery order is the Walmart app. I created a list of items needed to make our 2 week rotation of meals. When I need to get groceries I simply go to my account and add the list to my shopping cart for pick up. While this sounds silly. The past 3 months have been so much easier for me. It has removed so much mental loaf. I don't have to decide what we are going to have, I don't have to sit down and make a list each time, and then I don't have to decide what to cook. I just pull out a meat and go from there. I can just add other items we need at the time. I'm not sure if anyone else utilizes this or even knew it was a thing. I also have a list of "household items" like toothpaste, soaps, laundry detergent. That was I don't have to search for anything I just go to the list and add what it needed at the moment. It has also helped us keep a consistent grocery bill!
I so loved your blond hair you can see in the older footage you used here. Are you ever going to color it blond again? One of the things I do is cook for 2 days. So we always eat the same thing twice a week. I cook from scratch. I don't use canned soup or other packages. I only use canned tomatoes, the rest is made from scratch. So I am sure we always have healthy veggies and fruits. My meals take me around 30 to 45 minutes to make. I have minimalised so much that to clean the livingroom, kitchen, hallway and toilet it only takes me 30 minutes. I do have a Roomba vacuumcleaner, that helps a lot. Same for upstairs, 2 bedrooms and a bathroom only takes me 30 minutes. And I only do that once a week. We don't have children in the house anymore, which helps a lot with keeping it clean. We always empty our tables and put everything in the dishwasher when we go to sleep. So when you wake up you start with a clean slate. The rest to keep up with is the garden. During winter it doesn't take any time at all, because everything is dead or dying. For summer I have transformed my garden into a paradise for birds with trees and flowers, which don't need maintanance. The other days of the week I do some deepcleaning here and there, but I do have a lot of spare time on my hands to do whatever I want. I like to scrapbook and drawing, also knitting and crocheting, so it gives me time to do those things. I also like to travel, so each year I go to France for 2 months and when I come back I don't have a load of stuff to do, because it is so managable.
My son is in preschool for 1H a day twice a week. That time would be PERFECT for catching up on messages and calls. If I drive home after I basically waste my time because I live far enough away. I don’t have time to start anything. That would be a good time to play on Duolingo too. Great tip!
All the bedrooms are upstairs so if we don't make the beds it doesn't bother anyone visually. But if we're doing laundry - which is almost every day - the bed is where the clean laundry goes to be folded so I try to remember to spread out my comforter (after first hanging it over the bed frame while I get ready to air out). This is all the bedmaking I've done for years. I tried getting the bedspread and everything but it just wasn't my thing.
The shoes bit is a tough thing for me, because shoes are something I only wear if I'm outside. The idea of wearing shoes inside a house is just . . . odd. What I've started doing in lieu of that is putting on an anklet (or on a day like today when it is cold -- it got down into the 50s overnight and may not get out of the 60s!!!) putting on a pair of socks. But then I don't feel like I'm obligated to leave the house. :)
I think that’s the point of it 😀 I love being barefoot inside, but I did notice one day that once my lace up shoes were on I felt like I needed to be busy or leave. Maybe one of these days I’ll buy some shoes just for inside, but for now I appreciate the physiological benefits of going barefoot.
Meal planning, cooking double and freezing, freezing leftovers, and grocery ordering and pick up have changed everything. I cook ground beef ahead and freeze it. I can make spaghetti, enchiladas, tacos, or Korean beef so fast. I also cook dinner as far as possible in the morning. I get my coffee ready for the next morning, in the morning.
I heard in a parenting conference.... Can't remember who said it to give the speaker credit. ( It may have been Dr Sharon Saline... I tried to look it up and that is likley. ) Wait. W. A. I. T. Why am I talking? It is a good reminder when you are listening to your kids to actually listen. Not jump in fix. Let them talk. You asking about your son made me think of that tip. Could be a good practice. I am always trying to help around here.... And the teens don't necessarily want that. They need the space to let it out and share their opinions.... Not listen to mine. 🤷♀️ Even if I am right. 😜
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When I was teaching, I started a “walk and talk” time for kids who were feeling disconnected at recess. It was so successful that parents started taking walks with their children (1 at a time) where they could organically connect together as they moved their bodies. Parents learned the ups and downs of their child’s life, and it was a safe place for kids to talk because their bodies were moving and they didn’t need to have eye contact while they talked. So many families have said this was such a bonus time that have continued for years! ❤
What a beautiful thing to do for a shy child-and there are always several who would love a safe place to be not alone at unstructured times like recess and lunch! Thank you for thinking of that! We made a 'welcome' table at lunch and sat with the kids there, inviting kids to join us who seemed uncertain where to go or were withdrawn. You could see the relief.
This is great.
My mom does this all of the time! Weekly friend walk and talks, and almost daily personal walks.
What a wondeful thing you started, the walk & talk for the kids who werent sure where they fit in. And how great that many parents decided to have this special time with their own kids! Bravo!
@@lucystrider728yay! Lucy! Also a wonderful idea to have the welcome table so no child has to face the awkward situation of sitting alone at the lunch table! I wouldnt be surprised if some of the popular kids werent secretly wishing they could sit at the welcome table with you!
I started using 15 minutes of reading my book as a reward in between chores last year. I finished 133 books and my house has never looked better.
I live with my 86 year old Dad and when was the last time I've asked him "How are you doing- really?" Made me wake up that I'm not fully present. What great advice. Ask. Then listen.
Minimalism has saved me so much money!! I donated, recycled, gifted most of what I owned after I saw you years ago. Since then, I've been tempted to buy cute stuff--I'm only human after all!--but then I remember that I've had similar items already and got rid of them. "Don't be an idiot and re-buy the same stuff" is what I tell myself. That enables me to walk away from temptation every single time! Thanks Minimalism!
Hi Dawn, I remember finding your videos several years ago and thinking, I could NEVER live in that minimal environment. It’s so Bare! At the time, I was downsizing two households into one. My family was grown and gone and I had years of inventory accumulated. Fast forward to today - my home is more manageable and organized. We travel in an RV and currently are spending 6 weeks in these smaller quarters. And I’ve just realized that everything that I have learned from you is now making my life and lifestyle more enjoyable. At 75 years young, I am living my wildest dreams and feeling more empowered than any other season of my life. Thank YOUUU❣❣ Kasia
💪💕✨ This is so motivating to hear.
I always get so motivated to clean/declutter as soon as Dawn's videos start playing!
Yes!! Same!!
I'm the same! I daren't watch Dawn when I'm in bed at night, or I'd want to get up and get busy!
Point 4 - YES! I decluttered so much over this past 1.5 years, but I had this annoying feeling like something was missing, like I just couldn't put my finger on it. But it's this point, only having out/keeping what I actually USE. I have finally parted ways with jewellery, perfumes, beauty products, new underwear and even socks, that I just never use. My bedroom and bathroom now only has what I use RIGHT NOW and next to nothing else. I did it all on Sunday in one day and ugh it felt so good. I'm soooo satisfied!!!
Oooh, I just know, I’m going to feel so free when we’re done holding onto baby items and outgrown clothes. Now doesn’t feel like the right time because we’re considering fostering and to buy it all back feels like such a waste, but life will be lighter once that season is over for sure!
My bare minimum daily tasks are do the dishes, load of laundry start to finish, and a 5 minute pickup. My house might not be white glove clean, but it stays FUNCTIONAL!!
LOVE this!!!!
I am recovering from a fractured tibia, 7 weeks and counting, I'm supposed to stay off my leg, but the dishes and the laundry are done 👍😊 I definitely need to get into the showers and give them a good clean, but it will have to wait until my leg has fully healed.
"5 minutes matters" has changed my life! 💪💕🤓
@@lmack6596 Mine too!!!
Younger me use to do laundry & pile on bed with plan to fold later. Night came & clothes went to the floor. Next day back on bed and added to pile. It’d repeat until I had to rewash because worn got mixed with clean. Now I fold/hang as soon as dryer goes off. No more wrinkled clothes. Bed stays clear. Everyone puts their pile away.
"Plan that the first few times you do this, it's not going to go well. It's going to feel like a big waste of time." Genius advice! I wish I had known that when my kids were young!
Making my bed is A MUST in our home!!!! We get up, the kids off to school and have our morning coffee then before I get dressed, our bed is made. There is nothing more unkempt than walking into our bedroom and seeing our bed not made!! It totally is a must. Then at night pulling the throw pillows off and peeling back the covers is somehow so satisfying!!! Yes to bed making!! Now if my kids can learn this.. someday. 😂😂
I just commented the same. I think it's ok if some of these things work for us, or don't work for us. I appreciate how she encourages everyone to do this.
So true about the toys!! I don’t have children but my nieces (ages 6 and 10) were over at my place the other day, and I don’t have any toys - they made a game out of our fridge magnets and played it for hours! Kids are so creative if we let them be :)
Keeping the dishes clean is the single best thing that I do. It is amazing how much better I feel and how much better our house feels❤
I totally agree.
I also like my worktops to be clean & tidy & I get really stressed when they’re not.
Amen.❤
Someone needs to address the problem of very little kids with cell phones. Recently I've seen kids holding their milk or juice bottle in one hand while watching a video on mama's phone with the other! Just look around when you are out shopping and almost every tiny kid you see is glued to a cell phone!!! It's the new babysitter - put the kid in a shopping-cart and hand them the phone!! Mothers need to think about how this is changing the way a baby's brain develops - it starts with us adults, we need to model good phone behavior - Dawn thanks for encouraging ladies to stop starting their day by scrolling on a phone!!
Everyone should read The Anxious Generation. They would Never give their child a phone. Get them a gab watch for emergencies
Making the bed is my 1st gift to myself in the morning. Climbing into a neat and tidy bed is my welcome to rest at night. We all have different preferences. No shame in my game!
I make the bed for the cat! 😂
You are so right Dawn about planning for your “worst day” not your best! As a single mum I really feel this! When I want to buy things I need to ask myself “Is this going to make my life easier or harder?” Like with home decor and Christmas decorations … it looks pretty but in reality it’s creating more work and clutter and I’m already not keeping up with my house and life as it is!
DAWN!! It had literally never occurred to me to be 5 minutes early. I'm usually at least 5 minutes late.
So this morning I got my son to school 5 minutes early, and there was the cutest little mobile boutique in the parking lot, an old renovated trolley car. SO COOL!! And we had plenty of time to tour it instead of just zooming to the classroom.
Thank you for the constant inspiration. This one is golden.
If you're early, you're on time. If you are on time, you're actually late. If your late, you're fired. Common sense once upon a time.
Dawn, you are the best! So much inspiration over the years has come from watching your videos! I started doing 1 load a day and putting it away same day (always was the hardest part for me) and now my loads take only 5-10 minutes to fold and even less to put away ( we are a family of 6 about to be a family of 7)! I watch your videos while I fold as my reward! I look forward to it everyday! Thank you for being you 🎉
Thank you so much Sarah, this means more than you know!!!
@TheMinimalMom Your videos always give me the pickup I need when it feels impossible! I appreciate all the hard work you do to help us out! Keep up the good work, it is making all the difference ❤️
I was taught in Girl Scouts that if your bed isn’t made the whole room looks messy, so it’s been the first thing I’ve done each morning for over 60 years. For me it sets the tone of the day. I enjoy your channel.
I feel the same. My room instantly looks better with the bed made
My aunt- who was 14 years younger than my mom but only 11 years older than me so we were always close --told me those exact words. She said your room could be perfectly neat but if your bed is unmade it will look messy. The eye will see it as messy.
Me too. No judgment if you don’t make your bed, but for me, it feels so good to go into a room with a made bed and get into a made bed at night
And absolutely no judgment, but I’ve read that if you make your bed right after you get out of it, it doesn’t have time to air out germs and bacteria that will build up until laundered. We can’t win haha.
Have we lost the Girl Scouts in America? I almost never hear about the GS anymore and the cookies are now often sold in stores!! I think American youth today is really missing out.
I still like using my paper planner which I keep at my house. I have discovered it helps me practice the “pause” & keeps me from saying yes to everything I am asked to do. I tell people I need to check my planner first. It gives me space to formulate a response, especially for things I don’t want to do or have time for. Thanks Dawn for all you share with us!
When I was age 6-7 we lived overseas for 6 months. I took 2 of my favourite teddies with me, and some new neighbours kindly donated an empty dolls house that their daughter had outgrown. I was also given two more soft toys as welcome gifts. And that was it for 6 months. And I loved it. So yes, you can definitely simplify far more than you think you can!
The uniform!!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Im living in a cute black tracksuit this winter! GAME CHANGER 💯🤯
Mine is cotton t-shirts and shorts.❤❤❤
Love your ideas, but we can agree to disagree about bedmaking, laundry, and dishes. 😄 Leaving the bed unmade makes me feel unsettled every time I walk in and out of the room. It looks so messy that way, and looks so pretty when it is done. It only takes 2 minutes - 100% worth it to me.
I do get dressed in the morning but don't wear shoes inside the house, only house slippers. I also do dishes 1x per day (after dinner) and laundry 1x per week (on the weekend). This works so much better for me than trying to do a load here or there. But I also don't have kids at home, and I can see where that might not work for everyone.
This is why I appreciate your oft-repeated theme to do what works for you - it's going to be different for each of us. 🥰
I really appreciate your thumbnails in the description. I can go back to a specific issue I want to revisit without having to watch the entire video. Thanks.
When my kids were little I only put out a small amount of toys at a time and once a month I rotated the toys. Every month felt like Christmas because they forgot about the toys that were put away for awhile.
My mom did that. I'm 55. She was a minimalist bf it was a thing lol. 😂
That’s the best idea ! Kids don’t need a lot, and they thrive on using their imagination.
We’ve been getting places early for years. You’re right. It takes away stress. we would have notebooks and colored pencils in the car for the kids. Life changer!
Thanks for talking about cell phone usage...it's convicting to me and a needed reminder that scrolling isn't the best for my morning/nighttime routines. I love how you share both decluttering AND practical life advice. Thank you, Dawn!🤍
As someone who enjoys sewing my own clothes, what has saved me in Wisconsin winters is a uniform of boring, classic pants (jeans & 2 dark neutrals) with enough tops in colors I like that (a) go with all three bottoms and (b) allow me to wash a full load of them once a week on average with enough extra that my laundry day can be shifted to the weekend. I have been doing this since my oldest was 15 and assigned his laundry day, while my youngest is now 29 and a mother herself with her own washing machine. My primary warmest winter jacket is also one of those 2 dark neutral colors. I use the container concept to control my cherished collection of sweaters (includes wearable heirlooms and souvenirs), sweatshirts, & jackets. Hope this helps someone. Please leave a short reply if it does. 😊
So many great points. I'm very grateful to have a manager who actually cares. Most mornings he asks "How are you?" and I get the sense he's genuinely asking. After I answer honestly, I ask how he is, and he replies honestly too. It's fosterer such a great atmosphere at work. Gone are the days we all have to say, "Fine, fine. Everything's fine", when it isn't. ♥️💪🤓
Regarding meal planning, I SO recommend freezing meals. Last year, I noticed that we were ordering delivery a lot because we would just run out of time to cook dinner. But then we also frequently threw out leftovers. I got some Souper Cubes and they've been incredible. They're silicone molds that come in 1/2 cup, 1 cup, and 2 cup sizes--so, essentially, individual-sized portions.
Now, when I do cook, I make extra and freeze it. I started with soup and lasagna and now I freeze anything I can. I even prep and freeze ingredients like mirepoix and grated ginger and garlic to make cooking easier. We have a freezer full of individual portions of home-cooked meals that are quick and easy to heat up. It makes weeknights SO MUCH EASIER! Bonus: if we can't agree on what to eat, then everybody can pick a different thing. It makes lunches a breeze, too!
I tried that and I never ate it 😂 I think it's great for others tho.
Leftover don’t exist in my house. I have teenagers! They eat everything!
Hubby and I pull our side of the covers up as soon as we get out of bed. We dont have decorative pillows and its a super easy way to make the room look neater. Having said that each to their own. I don't think its a deal breaker but I do personally prefer it. ❤
Dawn you are at the super busy stage of parenting. Its so awesome that you simplified your home and life before you got to this stage. Thanks for continuing to share ideas, tips, and encouragement for everyone on this journey. Whenever I get bogged down decluttering I watch one of your videos!
Dawn, you bless us EVERY week!!! I pray you and your family have one of the most joyful days you’ve ever experienced!!
With gratitude and love,
Lauren
Thank you so much Lauren!!!
There is no way I can even leave my bedroom without making my bed. The few times I have not made my bed is like when I’ve had the flu and got up only to eat or go to the restroom. I can’t stand the thought of coming home from work and the bed is unmade.
I totally agreee! Making the bed, for an organized & tidy minded person, is so satisfying. I think I just realized that minimalism and organization doesn’t necessarily go hand in hand. I think?
Going into the bedroom at night and pulling back bedding on a neat bed…and getting under those covers feels like the calming end of to my day.
It’s so interesting how different habits affect people. Making my bed every morning COMPLETELY changed my mood and mindset. I hated walking through my bedroom throughout the day with it looking like no one cared enough to just make the bed. But putting shoes on doesn’t change my day until I leave the house. 😂😂
Same for me. I HAVE to make my bed every day, and I also keep my dishes done. But the first thing I put on is my workout clothes, get a good workout in, then I'm ready for my day (still don't put on shoes until I leave the house). Different habits work for different people.
I reward myself with my phone by watching RUclips videos while I get my steps in. Thanks for the company and great tips.
Me too!
She is good company!!
A few years back I started making my bed every day for the first time in my life. I continued doing it to this day. For me it makes a difference because that is one chore out of the way, so regardless of how the rest of the day goes I have one accomplishment under my belt. I actually listened to the audio book “Make Your Bed” which is what caused me yo start this habit. To each his own but I plan on sticking with this habit.
Dawn, you have been so helpful as I’ve worked hard to transform my home into a more simplified environment. I was really proud of myself because tonight I was able to put up all the fall decorations in my whole house in 15 minutes, and they fit in one storage tub! I have found now that if I go into Target, I look around and all I see is a bunch of stuff that has little meaning and is unappealing. I am so much more thoughtful with what I bring into my home. My biggest challenge is still my child’s artwork and toys, but I know that that will be a challenge for some time. Thank you for all that you do to help transform lives!
When I had a house that my bedroom was in the back of the house I hardly made my bed. But in my new house my bedroom is at the front of the house and I started making my bed everyday and it makes a huge difference for me. I think because I walk by my room so many times that seeing it made and tidy feels less chaotic. I find that interesting.
I no longer allow anyone to set a dish in the sink. Once you're done with your dish, you go straight to the sink and wash it. This is a game changer❤❤❤❤❤
I always come to your channel when I need to get my head back in the game and I'm always inspired! Thanks Dawn!
Ooooh, I need to cut myself off from morning scrolling. It slows me starting my day. Pinkie swear.
Love this! You can do it!!! :)
I noticed if I go in my phone in the morning I’m more likely to get sucked into “doom scrolling” where as if I watch anything later it’s stuff that helps me be productive (like this video!) ❤
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Growing up, my mom always had our clocks set 5 minutes ahead. We all knew it was, but i think it still made a difference, and my parents instilled in us never to be late for anything!
Dawn, that "really old meal planning video" is how I found you for the first time. I adapted your master grocery shopping list idea to what I buy most often (items are listed in order of the aisles of my local Aldi 😆) and I still use it every week. Makes my shopping so easy! Thanks for all you've done through the years. 😊
When I was your age and a working mom we often did not make the beds. However, now that we are at home and retired I make the bed everyday. I can’t imagine walking through my bedroom multiple times a day and staring at an unmade bed. It takes all of 60 seconds and totally transforms that room. You often discuss your bedroom being a sanctuary and peaceful place. That is not going to happen in a bedroom with an unmade bed.
I found a great compromise, I always need a while to get up in the morning and so I just let the bed "breathe" (putting the blanket away) and do my routine (aka hoping that my brain wakes up). Then when I head out, after breakfast or later in the day when I'm in the bedroom again I do it.
Yes, very important to air the bed, after lying in it all night.
So true, I did not grow up making my bed. But when you make your bed, I feel that my bedroom looks more calmer and yes, whenever I go to the bedroom, it just gives me the satisfaction of ' Ah this is one room that I don't have anyone messing anything up '. My kids make their beds every morning and they just love it..!!
I need to air out the menopausal sweat for sure but at night we make it cozy before we get in it
I love that you only do ads for companies that you truly get a lot of value from, Dawn! You always come across as so genuine when you’re doing these ads, versus some youtubers or podcasters who seem to simply be reading from a script. Re: Factor… I used to work as a dietitian, so I love that you kind of inadvertently gave a plug for dietitians! 😊
Thank you Kristy, I really appreciate this! I try not to be "cringey" as the kids say ;) And dietitians are the greatest!!!
Minimalism in my life enables me to help my friends and family. I go to Walmart once a month cuz I refuse to stop walking despite my disability.If I don't have a car I ride with a friend. My bestie has everything delivered and is physically incapable of keeping up with her deliveries, packaging, incontinent dog...Also, being retired I can be available to others who are lonely or just need someone to listen ❤ The list goes on!😊
I started my decluttering journey Summer of 2023. I grew up in a mostly minimalist household, but my spouse grew up with pack rats and my kiddo is the only grandchild on both sides and the only niece/nephew on both sides. We are still not close to minimalists (yet!) but it's an ongoing journey and I'm hoping that we'll be there in the next year or so. I've gotten rid of probably 50% of my things and my spouse and kid have downsized as well. Thank you for the tips and the videos!
That time buffer is something I do every single day and for every planned errand. I swear it makes the biggest mental difference in your stress level. Also in the morning I have found that 10 minutes makes a huge difference in how much traffic is on the road and how aggressively they are driving (I’m in the Atlanta area, if you know, you know 😂). I’d rather leave early and mosey than leave with just enough time and have to worry!
I love that you put 2 swivel chairs in your bedroom. Goals! ❤
I wash my dishes every night in the dishwasher. It doesn’t take much effort, but really helps when you go to prepare meals.
I really enjoy your videos even though my kids are grown and gone now. The best laundry hack for busy parents is to teach your children to do their own laundry! They are old enough by the age of 10. They can help to fold and put away their own laundry even younger.
For those people who live near a shopping mall... If the weather is bad you can walk in the mall. The temp is controlled, music is playing, ground is level - less potential for falls, no sunscreen needed!
I sat next to the Fly Lady (Marla Cilley) at an organizational conference with the Slob Sisters back in 2000. She was funny & delightful and at that time didn’t have any books written. She got the get dressed to your shoes from Pam & Peggy (the Slob sisters) that was their motto 😊
Dawn I have found that making my bed as part of my morning routine is a good habit. If mess = chaos - I feel calmer and more organised if everything is neat and tidy in every room - my house feels better. So I feel more in control- simples!
When my husband retired from his state job, he decided that making our bed was his job. I had always done it but welcomed the change!
Same, I need to make my bed as my morning routine that sets up the pace the rest of my day!
I come from a mixed marriage: early bird Type A father with a dedicated spot for each tool, married to night owl Type B mother with an untidy desk and sewing area wherein she could pinpoint the location of a given item. Appreciating their combination in myself has been enlightening, aggravating, humorous, and rewarding.
I find making the bed in the morning gives me a tidy looking bedroom. Priceless.
When my sons were younger they would ask why we were always the first people to arrive for anything. I just hate rushing. I also need to have everything ready in the morning so I’m not running around finding things at the last minute.
I like to do at least a load of laundry every day. I have a clothes line in my garage so I don’t have to worry about rain or anything like that. Saves the clothes from being damaged in the dryer. What makes it easier for me to put away laundry is that I dry shirts in their hangers. They go from clothesline to closet, easy.
Your Fine Family has grown up so Wonderfully !❤😊
Dare I say best RUclips channel that exists! Thanks Dawn
I am a working mom… when we are leaving the house early in the day I don’t worry about making beds, because we won’t be seeing them all day and I don’t want to make the time for it. But on days we are home I make the bed because it makes me feel better.
Decluttering and still see lots to do. These videos are so motivating so more of this type would be wonderful. Thank you
Minimalism makes your life so much more peaceful no matter what season you are in.
Even if a lot is not going on, and you are retired like me, the simpler life is the more beautiful it is :)
So glad you have learned this so young :)
I too am retired and love simplifying so that I can enjoy the important things.I am not busy or overwhelmed but rather am limited by health and wellness issues. Doing cleaning and decluttering takes me longer so simplifying and reducing cluttter is very important. Thank you for sharing .
Hi Dawn! I just noticed you are close to 800K subscribers! Thanks for the great tips!
The reason I advocate making the bed is just cause a bed can easily be 30% to 80% of the space in the bedroom. So if you make it that’s usually half your room in order. And that’s kind of a win in my books. However I can’t tuck sheets worth a darn so I just make it good enough
Me,too.
yes, you are a warm autumn and once you know what your " season " is, shopping is so much easier and less time consuming. I power right past all those bright prints that are not in my color choices. Now everything in my closet matches. And I find that I gravitate toward those same colors when decorating my home and buying throw pillows and bedspreads, etc. I highly recommend finding out what your season is if you want to simplify your clothing choices of what stays and what comes in with future purchases.
Agree with you so much! Making my bed first thing in the morning never changed my life too!
You’re so amazing 🤩 love all these video so much! These video helps us so much with life! Super big thanks ❤
I 💚 that you showed your drawer and simplicity in it, and it's really good idea
(not sure if it was actually in this video, I am binge listening while doing something else sometimes it take a quick glance at the video)
Thank you so much for all your efforts to make these videos it's a lot of work and actually a big commitment and gift to humanity and us
I lived in the United States as well and I had to laugh that you do laundry every day I do it once in three weeks, single guy here
When I was a stay-at-home mom with five children, a simplified meal plan was the only way I could financially and physically feed my family. Sunday=big meal with roasted meat/mashed potatoes or rice/veggies; Monday=leftovers with roasted meat (turkey or chicken casserole, shepherd’s pie, chicken pot pie, etc); Tuesday=soup & sandwich or chili & cornbread (often the soup was made from turkey or chicken bones left over from Sunday’s meal); Wednesday=pasta; Thursday=salad bar or loaded potatoes; Friday=pizza (homemade, pizzeria, or even homemade on English muffins); Saturday=hamburgers or hotdogs with homemade fries. No one ever went hungry!
While I am going thru the clean out process, I noticed the other day that I need to keep some furniture and rugs in place so my house does not echo. So dressers and cabinets that are empty are okay to keep. I was purging those items unnecessarily.
I found your channel through your meal planning video! I would love to see an updated meal planning video.
thank you,dawn You are so helpful. I love you to pieces. Have a great day.
I love Factor, I've been doing it for 6 months now, such a stress reliever
I know I’m a better mum when we have less, as I have more capacity, but my kids are really missing out on me during this process. On one hand I’m so proud of how far we have come, on the other, how can’t even see a light at the end of the tunnel yet (and you adjust so fast to the less clutter that it doesn’t seem to help at all haha I still feel soooo cluttered!) I don’t want to be decluttering forever…but I also know that we didn’t get here overnight so it’s going to be a process to minimise it all….i just want to simultaneously have a massssss week long purge and be done, but reality has us needing to give time to our kids and sports and …the rest 😜 so we end up doing a day here and there and it feels like we’ll never finish.
I feel the same way. I never have long enough chunks of time to get anything done, and if I do have some free time, I'm too exhausted to deal with it all. I dream of getting a huge dumpster and throwing everything away and starting over. It's overwhelming. I dream of having a simple house. My house is an ADHD nightmare!
As a new mum I still need to keep hearing the toy stuff! We barely have any but with Christmas coming and the marketing is REAL!!! Thanks for my dose of sanity!!
THANK YOU! Thank you so very, very much…when you said that our brains aren’t good at managing all the little pieces of information. I work in finance, and when we have our finance board meetings, I’m always made to feel inadequate by the board members who get frustrated with me that I’m not always able to answer all their random questions about the finances from last month or maybe five years ago. Truly, thank you for the hug and encouragement that statement was for me ❤.
I hand wash the dishes “almost” everyday. If I’m too sick my family is thoughtful enough to save the dishes for me so when I get better I have two or three days worth of dishes to do. 😂😂😂 So ya, I never miss a day. Lol
I hear you. You are allowed to be sick. But you are not allowed to just expect someone else to do anything. Lol
sounds like your problem is your family doesn't appreciate your efforts and help you out at all, they treat like you are a coworker than family
You make me feel old when you tell me your kids ages! I found you when my son was an infant...no way do we have kids this old! Thanks so much for guiding us on this journey. Always love listening and enjoying your company.
Can you do a more in-depth video about your get ready bin? Do you keep makeup and skincare and hair things in there? Do you keep your toothbrush and your contacts in there? I have tried a get ready bin, but have found smaller bins (like a hair bin, a makeup bin, etc) to be more successful for me. But I wonder if I was trying to keep things that don't belong in my get ready bin!
Omg relate to that last part so hard! Mine are 4 and 2 and weve started out minimalist journey and i already feel i have more 'bandwidth' for my kids and family, am in a better mood, more patient, less time spent tidying and more on them
RANDOM COMMENT: I love the simple pieces you have added to your wordrobe....I am inspired 😊😊
RUclips did a year re-cap for me today and my number 1 listened to podcast this year was you, Dawn. 😊❤️ I've been growing in my minimalism for the past 6 years but I still feel like I have farther to go and so much to learn. 😊❤️ Thank you for your content this year. It really has helped me so much! 😊❤️
Yes, to 3 things every day. In our house it’s laundry, trash and dishes. It’s easy for my husband to help manage/do vs me telling him what needs to be done. It’s also a safety net against doing all of the laundry on Sundays and then you get sick on that day.
I was in the bathroom, taking your advice to GET DRESSED, though i don't work for another 6 hours. You pulled out your bathroom drawer and talked about keeping daily necessities in it. I haven't opened my drawers in 2 years! I pulled it open and found all of my travel stuff... mini sizes of (very old) toiletries, and different size travel bags... you know, for vacation. Except... I'm a farmer. I don't TAKE vacations! 😂 I've been wasting these drawers, filled with old junk and things I never need. Boom, decluttered!
Excellent summary of some of your key practices, Dawn. Thanks! 👍❤
You are so right on simplifying toys, I don't have kids but my toy driven Border Collie behaves the same. He actually plays better with one toy than multiple, and you can actually see decision fatigue in pets with too many toys. Try it as an experiment it's fascinating.
Asking our kids how their day went is so important I do that from when they start expressing themselves and they share everything (maybe because of that or they all take after their mom because I'm an over-sharer ;D) Love your videos
Lots of great ideas! I find that a walk alone every day helps me to declutter my brain. My husband and I often walk together, but that is different. As for "Survival Meals," I call these 9-1-1 meals. Frozen pizza is always on hand. I can make taco soup in the crock pot in the morning to be ready when we walk in at supper time. I also have a couple favorites from the frozen food department at Trader Joe's.
Dawn I just love your videos. Your information is so useful, and everything seems doable!
I like having a made bed. Makes me feel better and I can utilize the bed for folding and anything else plus looks better. I like being dressed also first thing.
I am a mom of 3 toddlers at the moment. I'm am trying to "take back my house". One thing that I am utilizing for our consistent grocery order is the Walmart app. I created a list of items needed to make our 2 week rotation of meals. When I need to get groceries I simply go to my account and add the list to my shopping cart for pick up. While this sounds silly. The past 3 months have been so much easier for me. It has removed so much mental loaf. I don't have to decide what we are going to have, I don't have to sit down and make a list each time, and then I don't have to decide what to cook. I just pull out a meat and go from there. I can just add other items we need at the time. I'm not sure if anyone else utilizes this or even knew it was a thing. I also have a list of "household items" like toothpaste, soaps, laundry detergent. That was I don't have to search for anything I just go to the list and add what it needed at the moment. It has also helped us keep a consistent grocery bill!
I so loved your blond hair you can see in the older footage you used here. Are you ever going to color it blond again?
One of the things I do is cook for 2 days. So we always eat the same thing twice a week. I cook from scratch. I don't use canned soup or other packages. I only use canned tomatoes, the rest is made from scratch. So I am sure we always have healthy veggies and fruits. My meals take me around 30 to 45 minutes to make.
I have minimalised so much that to clean the livingroom, kitchen, hallway and toilet it only takes me 30 minutes. I do have a Roomba vacuumcleaner, that helps a lot. Same for upstairs, 2 bedrooms and a bathroom only takes me 30 minutes. And I only do that once a week. We don't have children in the house anymore, which helps a lot with keeping it clean.
We always empty our tables and put everything in the dishwasher when we go to sleep. So when you wake up you start with a clean slate.
The rest to keep up with is the garden. During winter it doesn't take any time at all, because everything is dead or dying. For summer I have transformed my garden into a paradise for birds with trees and flowers, which don't need maintanance.
The other days of the week I do some deepcleaning here and there, but I do have a lot of spare time on my hands to do whatever I want. I like to scrapbook and drawing, also knitting and crocheting, so it gives me time to do those things.
I also like to travel, so each year I go to France for 2 months and when I come back I don't have a load of stuff to do, because it is so managable.
My son is in preschool for 1H a day twice a week. That time would be PERFECT for catching up on messages and calls. If I drive home after I basically waste my time because I live far enough away. I don’t have time to start anything. That would be a good time to play on Duolingo too. Great tip!
All the bedrooms are upstairs so if we don't make the beds it doesn't bother anyone visually. But if we're doing laundry - which is almost every day - the bed is where the clean laundry goes to be folded so I try to remember to spread out my comforter (after first hanging it over the bed frame while I get ready to air out). This is all the bedmaking I've done for years. I tried getting the bedspread and everything but it just wasn't my thing.
Love these! All except putting on my shoes in the house. Definitely do the daily uniform.
The shoes bit is a tough thing for me, because shoes are something I only wear if I'm outside. The idea of wearing shoes inside a house is just . . . odd. What I've started doing in lieu of that is putting on an anklet (or on a day like today when it is cold -- it got down into the 50s overnight and may not get out of the 60s!!!) putting on a pair of socks. But then I don't feel like I'm obligated to leave the house. :)
I think that’s the point of it 😀 I love being barefoot inside, but I did notice one day that once my lace up shoes were on I felt like I needed to be busy or leave. Maybe one of these days I’ll buy some shoes just for inside, but for now I appreciate the physiological benefits of going barefoot.
Meal planning, cooking double and freezing, freezing leftovers, and grocery ordering and pick up have changed everything. I cook ground beef ahead and freeze it. I can make spaghetti, enchiladas, tacos, or Korean beef so fast. I also cook dinner as far as possible in the morning. I get my coffee ready for the next morning, in the morning.
I heard in a parenting conference.... Can't remember who said it to give the speaker credit. ( It may have been Dr Sharon Saline... I tried to look it up and that is likley. ) Wait. W. A. I. T. Why am I talking? It is a good reminder when you are listening to your kids to actually listen. Not jump in fix. Let them talk. You asking about your son made me think of that tip. Could be a good practice. I am always trying to help around here.... And the teens don't necessarily want that. They need the space to let it out and share their opinions.... Not listen to mine. 🤷♀️ Even if I am right. 😜
That’s such good advice!
Good advice in a lot of contexts! Thank you!