Why I Closed My Bar in Liberia 🇱🇷

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • Why do people with good intentions get treated poorly by most of you in Liberia?
    #africaninspired #liberiangirl #liberianyoutuber

Комментарии • 231

  • @sarahjackson8273
    @sarahjackson8273 Год назад +22

    This is so sad for us in the USA. We work too hard here,for our family to do that to us.

  • @gusmotorsports
    @gusmotorsports 10 месяцев назад +6

    African brothers and sisters, investing in most types of businesses in Africa requires boots on the ground and work with professionals who have experience and a proven track record.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  10 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely💯

  • @josephinewileswarner6549
    @josephinewileswarner6549 Год назад +22

    My sister, your real enemy is your own family member. I have the same problem with my brother, who tries to undermine me by spreading rumors about me being controlling. I have not seen my brother for over 15 years, we live in different states, and yet he claims I am controlling. I feel your pain. The mentality of our people is very sad.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +4

      Look at that, your own brother😢 The enemy within😢

  • @edwinkpehe3321
    @edwinkpehe3321 Год назад +6

    I am in tears to see a young lady like you to be treated by your own people. So sorry.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      Thank you🫶🫶

  • @MjloveJD
    @MjloveJD Год назад +5

    My sister I built my first house in Liberia 🇱🇷 2018 I paid 40K plus. My own family took that house from me. And they put my property in their. I left everything for them. I’m happy now me and them we don’t talk anymore.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Jesus! I am so sorry to hear 😢😢 God is your strength. You still have life and capable of working so, don’t give up hope as well

    • @nkipmo1154
      @nkipmo1154 Год назад

      Damn

  • @jammehsingbeh4855
    @jammehsingbeh4855 Год назад +7

    My dear, that's the biggest problem in the land.
    Over 90% of our people lacked vision. But they put all the blame on the government.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      Ahh say it again ooh. We just had a debate about this. Always blaming the government for not providing jobs, but when citizens in abroad provide means to work; no body wants to work because it’s not a government entity.. white collar jobs only😢😂😂

    • @johnsonolajide4647
      @johnsonolajide4647 10 месяцев назад

      Very well said, most of Africans has no or lack vision 💯👍

  • @oladean6375
    @oladean6375 Год назад +2

    My sister, word of wisdom - Family & Business don't mix.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      😂😂😂 so true

  • @msdva2306
    @msdva2306 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wow... my sista you really fall down insah eh!. our people are a mess. You did the right thing yah ma!

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  5 месяцев назад +1

      I really fall down inside oo😂 but thanks though

  • @emmanuelocran4053
    @emmanuelocran4053 4 месяца назад +1

    Your story is even better than what my oldest did to me in Liberia. Some family member are just wicked.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  3 месяца назад

      Lord, I don’t want to know🫣🫣 I’m sorry already before hearing the story

  • @Commentthat
    @Commentthat Год назад +1

    Business is business.religion is religion but salvation is charity for the widows and the fatherless. Im proud of you sister

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      I know right,Thank you…

  • @danielleknuckles
    @danielleknuckles 8 месяцев назад +1

    Yoooo! You really cooked the Nigerian man's soup! He never expected you to remove your items. I can't stop laughing! 😂😂😂

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  8 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂
      Liberians fear and respect foreigners too much..🤷‍♀️

  • @LifeWithDanielandJannie
    @LifeWithDanielandJannie Год назад +6

    Don’t give up. Keep pushing - Success is a process.

  • @mosesdennis9060
    @mosesdennis9060 Год назад +2

    Thank you sister,
    For sharing I am proud of your innovative mindset however; we are all victims of such stories.
    Be strong and never give up.
    May God continue to bless you.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Amen🙏🙏thank you very much, I really appreciate that. I trust God for many other open doors for all the victims of this horrible mindsets from our people

  • @singlesmeetinternational
    @singlesmeetinternational Год назад +4

    So sorry to hear this sis. Getting family involved with your business is not always easy. I did try and opened a shop in Nigetia but the people l put there sold my items and pretended that they did not sell anything. Very wicked set of people.

  • @trevessence
    @trevessence Год назад +3

    It's good to be family oriented but you have to take care of yourself first or else you'll never see growth in your endeavors. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @YoungSiej90
    @YoungSiej90 Год назад +7

    Nice business idea, but you cannot do those types of businesses without being there. That's why i just stick to the real estate business. It doesnt matter how much good you're trying to do they will never see it.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      Totally agree! I put a pause on my real estate for now

  • @yemi1able
    @yemi1able Год назад +9

    My Queen sister! You looked so beautiful!
    I am a Nigerian, and I can tell you at the point in my life that we Africans are our own enemies, there is no enemy against us, but ourselves!
    Until GOD help us ALL as AFRICANS, both home and abroad to come to this one singular realization, to stop hating, and sabotaging one another, and start loving each other in ALL HONESTY, I’m sorry, and sad too, we would always remain third world countries to white people😢

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +3

      I was at my breaking point that’s why I didn’t care, all I wanted to do is to destroy that place… I cried for days sis. I’m laughing about it now,but I went into depression for almost a year trying to find reasons why 😢I had already closed my boutique at the time..
      I almost sold my lands and houses because I was tired and didn’t see myself going back home.
      Amen my sister and may God strengthens all of us in the midst of all the wickedness🙏
      We are our own worst enemies point blank! There’s no way around it..

    • @prettyeyes1752
      @prettyeyes1752 Год назад

      YES I AM AMERICAN MY FIANCEE IS NIGERIAN AND A CHEF HIS FAMILY BROUGHT HIM DOWN IN HIS BUSINESS , I WISH MY PEOPLE IN AMRICA WILL COME AND BUILD LIBERIA WE CAN DO IT WE BUILT AMEIRCA WHICH IS OURS WE HAVE THE KNOLW HOLW , IT IS 16,000 AMERICAN ANCESTORS THERE IN LIBERIA WE MUST BRING THAT COUNTRY TO ITS HEIGHTS , OUR RECEPTION TO US COMING THERE HAS BEEN SO GREAT FROM THE PEOPLE THERE IT OTHER PARTS OF AFRICA IT IS NOLT GOOD AT TIMES BUT WE WILL COLME TOL LIBERIA WE WILL START AGAIN AND HAVE LIBERIA AS HOME TO US WE WILL HAVE DUAL CITIZEN SHIP I SEE CHINA IS TRYING TO EASE IN WITH A AGENDA THAT MUS NOT HAPPEN

    • @yemi1able
      @yemi1able Год назад +1

      Oh my world! Thank you Queen for responding to my comment even more in details🙏🏾💖
      See, I am probably older than you, I will be 49 years tomorrow July 9th💃🏽🎉👏🏾😄 I have being in the United States for almost twenty five years, and I am yet to do, or achieve one tenth of what you mentioned here in your response to my comment! My Queen sister👸🏽 I even admire you, and applaud you even the more that I just subscribed to your channel just now👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
      Please keep doing your thing! You are already a conqueror, and nothing will frustrate, or bring you down in the mighty name of our LORD, JESUS CHRIST, AMEN!🙏🏾♥️
      You are definitely an inspiration to someone like me, I wish you more prosperity in all your heart desires💖
      I can listen to your soft spoken voice for days😃 you are beautiful inside out🌸💖💝

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      @@yemi1able WOW! you had me tearing🥹 God is our strong Tower and thank you so much for the support and motivations.. Happy birthday in advance, may every wish of yours come true, may every silence prayers in your closet become your reality and enjoy your day to the fullest Queen.. You are a true example of a sisterhood🙏
      You are welcome anytime❤️

    • @yemi1able
      @yemi1able Год назад +1

      @@vmonnaj AMEN in the precious and mighty name of our LORD, JESUS CHRIST🙏🏾♥️
      Wow! I am in tears reading your response right now😭😭😭😅😅😄
      Thank you so much for even taking the time to read my comments, let alone responding with so much appreciation, empathy, kind words, and most especially, well wishes and prayers🙏🏾
      I am profoundly grateful.
      Someone like you are my inspiration; seeing a sister being able to use the phone to share positivity on RUclips, and by GOD’s grace continue to flourish and have financial success, makes me happy, and I just want you all to know that you sharing your videos with us all, is NEVER a waste of time, but a real impact of not being alone, and hope that GOD is still alive and able🙏🏾
      Thank you, and love you sis🥰💝💖

  • @samsamsam2495
    @samsamsam2495 Год назад +11

    If you mind family members,you will not do anything for yourself.
    Some of them in the family envey your progress and want to pull you down.Some are into witchcraft.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      You are right though, foolish envy…
      Witchcraft, that part😂😂😂

    • @ikhowaka1471
      @ikhowaka1471 Год назад

      Look opportunities come in different forms to people. In a family only one may become a president or very successful. My brother was going to be chased out of university....I sacrificed my job lived with him and tutored him until in four years he was the best graduate in mathematics. He is now taking care of his kids and am happy. Helping your siblings is not wrong....they may stress you BUT it's blood....do it for your parents and for God. Just a helping hand to get them on their feet.....not to give them everything. In business you run it yourself or employ qualified people... siblings just supervise and you monitor bank accounts weekly. Me I would always support my siblings no matter their nonsense.

    • @mercyfoday9103
      @mercyfoday9103 Год назад

      Girl stop trusting your family members, I will open my business when move back home one in Jesus mighty name Amen I love business so much.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      They are the worst people to be trusted and it’s scary and terrible

  • @jmunyeneh
    @jmunyeneh Год назад +3

    Congratulation, Sis. I pray for your success.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you sis🙏🙏

  • @darlinkwawood2296
    @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад +3

    Sorry for all you went through. Once there’s life there’s hope. Don’t give up on your dreams. Do not give up. The devil is trying to distract you from achieving your dreams.

  • @carolinekennedy8318
    @carolinekennedy8318 5 месяцев назад +1

    My sister, I have decided not to do anything in Liberia until I am able to be there myself. Every business I tried to do in Liberia yelled nothing. Everyone including family members and friends, I never got a penny back from all of my investments including transportation. Our people are terrible.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  5 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry to hear that but the best decision anyone can make is to go home. Your businesses will work a lot smoother…
      You have the drive to do it and they don’t, that’s what sets you apart from them.
      It’s your vision not theirs, so they don’t respect it….. God there🙏

  • @nkipmo1154
    @nkipmo1154 Год назад +2

    I'm soooooooooo sorry!! My chest was tight the whole time listening to this

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you🙏 I cried for days the fact that they didn’t care! God knows best, I guess..

  • @benjaminogunti1204
    @benjaminogunti1204 Год назад +2

    My sister please be careful with family any time u go back to Liberia, they are preparing to come after u for all the good things u have done for them, but now they are ur biggest enemies, I'm a victim of ur situation too.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Absolutely 💯 the fact that we no longer speak

  • @darlinkwawood2296
    @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад +3

    I’m investing in real estate. Merchandising business is a no go zone for me while I am out of Liberia.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Yep! That right there is the way forward!

  • @gbawaydiahoward
    @gbawaydiahoward 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yes, i agreed. We have to help....😊

  • @nathanielkpaahkpai9120
    @nathanielkpaahkpai9120 Год назад +3

    This is what they do to us once they are in charge of your project. We are many that our own family members have done this to us. Don't even ask them to build your house because you will regret the minute you did.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Definitely 💯 that’s a no no.. because you build the house twice

  • @TPSubah
    @TPSubah Год назад +5

    This is so frustrating. You take one step forward, our own people will pull you backwards. Yet still wanting you to cater to their basic needs. But don't give up. Gather yourself and keep on moving forward. Don't give up.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Very frustrating
      Thank you so much 🙏

  • @Bibleinformationandhelp
    @Bibleinformationandhelp 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm sorry for what happened to you. There are people that are just too greedy. Too greedy for their own good. Some people don't look at making money long-term. Some may think about how much they are able to get in a short amount of time. By being too greedy, it can shut the door to future opportunities.
    If someone is stealing money, they have to understand this is not going to last forever. Think about the consequences you will have to endure. People's greed is a snare to them. Like a curse.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  6 месяцев назад

      It’s okay! And thank you!
      You summarized the entire point!
      We do shut doors on opportunities because of our greed, wanting everything right now and not thinking of long-term.
      Trust, I cried many tears not for what I will lose, but the fact that they weren’t seeing the opportunity was heartbreaking for me! I guess it wasn’t the will of God for it to happen because I tried almost everything before giving up…

    • @Bibleinformationandhelp
      @Bibleinformationandhelp 6 месяцев назад

      @@vmonnaj I was also betrayed by someone in Liberia. Maybe more than one person. I was trying to be very kind. I was taking advantage of. For some years. If I was placed in the same situation, I would never have taken that risk. If someone is doing very well for you, don't betray that individual. Be happy with what you are getting. Greed can be a curse to those who have it. They may not even know it.
      Also, we should not seek revenge for what happened to us. We may think in our minds that if we don't pay back our enemies, they will continue to do us wrong. That's not entirely true. When we choose to do evil, it will come back to us. I know this for a fact. We just have to continue to do what is right and good will come. People who choose to do us wrong are just digging themselves deeper and deeper into the ground. Making it harder for themselves in this life.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  6 месяцев назад

      WOW!!!
      I love your mindset! This is really deep and inspiring that we don’t need to revenge, just allow God..
      thanks for sharing and I am sorry about what happened to you. It’s their loss😞

    • @Bibleinformationandhelp
      @Bibleinformationandhelp 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@vmonnaj Thank you so much.

  • @cia123ful
    @cia123ful Год назад

    Keep on keeping on my sister. God got us. Like you said, if it’s vision It’s yours. Don’t allow anyone to deterred you. sounds like my own story. May God bless us all.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      I’m sorry you had to go thru that as well sis. Yea indeed,God got us!
      Amen Amen🙏🙏 thank you so much, I appreciate that sis.

  • @tutuwilliams
    @tutuwilliams Год назад +4

    You so beautiful and I like the hair.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you so much!!

  • @hawanatukoroma3029
    @hawanatukoroma3029 Год назад +3

    I'm going thru the same thing in Sierra Leone freetown where I open an entertainment. Too much headache.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      It comes with constant talking and the frustrating part is,they don’t listen to follow directions. I pray that God send the right people your way to help you.. It’s a lucrative business for sure just need proper management..

  • @Ms.Yorkworld224
    @Ms.Yorkworld224 Год назад +1

    I’m here for the african story time ❤️❤️😂😂

  • @kokog8013
    @kokog8013 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your experience. Never give up... just learn from this experience and change your strategy for the next business.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Yes indeed.. thank you very much

  • @amiekomaraquanon9982
    @amiekomaraquanon9982 Год назад +3

    We're all family oriented my sister, mostly every Africans but we have never benefit from our family back for being that way.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      True.. this has opened my eyes to the reality of Liberians in Liberia

  • @patiencepeters2932
    @patiencepeters2932 Год назад +2

    Never give up 💪💪💪🤝
    I love 💕 the dress thou 😂💕❤️

  • @konahtarpeh3000
    @konahtarpeh3000 Год назад +1

    Very true, my sister. Thank you ❤❤❤

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      You are so welcome🫶 thanks for watching

  • @jocelyncolasuonno2740
    @jocelyncolasuonno2740 Год назад +3

    Unfortunately you can’t depend on family, sometimes it’s better to have a stranger who is knowledgeable in running a business be in charge.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      True, and that was some of the problems I faced.. they are not knowledgeable enough.

  • @queenawest8644
    @queenawest8644 Год назад +5

    Most family members think you owe them something cuz you are in America

  • @beatricegildersleve1437
    @beatricegildersleve1437 8 месяцев назад +1

    So true. Thanks for sharing

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  8 месяцев назад

      You are welcome 💜

  • @AfricanUSA-th9ov
    @AfricanUSA-th9ov Год назад +21

    Stop Doing Business That You Are Not Able To Run Yourself

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      Yeah😢

    • @lindadrinks-johnson1904
      @lindadrinks-johnson1904 Год назад +1

      I had a group home here in USA and drove 30 min to the location. Don't open a business that you can't oversee on a daily basis. Her brother stole her money snd probably built himself a HOUSE. Don't trust family. Do your own bookkeeping.

    • @marshallallied
      @marshallallied Год назад

      A bit of Black American wisdom for you: Be careful, family will fu*k you up faster than a stranger.

  • @TemdriWorld
    @TemdriWorld Год назад +8

    Family are always ungrateful

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      It’s terrible😢

  • @proudlyliberian
    @proudlyliberian Год назад +3

    Oh Liberia!

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      Lol.. that’s Liberia for us..

  • @nirvanawellness3619
    @nirvanawellness3619 Год назад +1

    Anything family, count me OUT! People with loving and trusted family, don't know what God has done for them. The family I'm raising by myself is the family that I know. You see that one my narc mom raised, hmmmm😢

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Sounds deep.. it’s really sad. God will help us

  • @HenryDWilliams-tr5gt
    @HenryDWilliams-tr5gt Год назад +1

    Sorry for this treatment of your brothers keep it up my friend

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      It’s ok… Thank you🙏

  • @willieharrington4327
    @willieharrington4327 Год назад +4

    When you cannot run your own business. And you expect them to run your bar honestly... It's like asking the devil why did he do it and you're waiting on a honest reply😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @hermanwratto6353
    @hermanwratto6353 Год назад +1

    That's terrible 🙊
    Don't give up
    Keep pushing.
    You can try another business with different people and different strategies

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Yes, thank you so much

  • @myerbrown7879
    @myerbrown7879 Год назад +4

    Look i, always told and tell every Liberian who live abroad never never put family friends or loved ones in your business in Liberia in control of any things you own in Liberia big mistake stop stop doing that, we suffering in America working days and nights stop using family's please.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      You are right! It’s the best way.. thank you

  • @fatmatakamara1866
    @fatmatakamara1866 8 месяцев назад

    You did Your best my sister 😊

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you 🙏

  • @robertmensah7729
    @robertmensah7729 Год назад +1

    My dear Robert here from thee usa

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thanks for watching🙏

  • @benbo7042
    @benbo7042 8 месяцев назад +1

    Very sad indeed. I share your pain.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 🙏 God is in control

  • @mai2akitas
    @mai2akitas 11 месяцев назад +1

    SAD, family is just as bad as the enemies with out.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  11 месяцев назад

      Sadly, yes!!!!

  • @makemagamad3370
    @makemagamad3370 7 месяцев назад +1

    My aunt keeps asking for money to open an entertainment center. No way my money is going to such junk biz.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  7 месяцев назад

      Owning an entertainment business back home is very lucrative but finding the faithful person is difficult that’s all.

  • @alfredastrother2491
    @alfredastrother2491 6 месяцев назад

    True! They take our kindness for stupidity

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  6 месяцев назад

      Always🥹😫

  • @josephussawo4225
    @josephussawo4225 Год назад +1

    So true

  • @jonahrkollie3326
    @jonahrkollie3326 Год назад +2

    Wow, so sad mehn

  • @darlinkwawood2296
    @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад +2

    You should have consulted the right minds. Consult people who have been in the business for a long time hun.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      I totally agree with you💯 this person had been with me since I started building those houses, so I entrusted him with everything… “For the love of money is the root of evil” I guess. You are right though

  • @theresagreene6070
    @theresagreene6070 Год назад

    We want to help but without the family feuds and wickedness. Too many negative stories. Our people are suffering but want to use us.
    Like you said we are not stupid; they are.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      True that they are suffering but not willing to change their ways of doing things and stop with the hatred

  • @aliakhtar6878
    @aliakhtar6878 2 месяца назад

    ❤may God bless you

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  2 месяца назад

      Amen 🙏

  • @Britishcorps
    @Britishcorps Год назад +1

    Keep pushing hard

  • @sylvestergarvlen5249
    @sylvestergarvlen5249 Год назад +1

    I’m a witness, you saw it yourself.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Yes ooh Sly.. my brother came just to watch the destruction of the place.😢😭

  • @charlesdeline
    @charlesdeline Год назад +2

    So sad 😭😭😭😭

  • @odysseusgbuyee7876
    @odysseusgbuyee7876 Год назад +3

    What part of Nimba do you come from? Anyway, I'm trying similar thing with my sister and her partner, but different business. The Almighty is going to help you get your money back from another investment.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Amen! Thank you🙏
      Once you have the right people in your corner, trust, you won’t regret it. Bar do thrive in Liberia once you have good management.
      I am from Lower Nimba, Kparblee

  • @Me-erlsha
    @Me-erlsha Год назад +1

    Wow

  • @hawanatukoroma3029
    @hawanatukoroma3029 Год назад

    I pray that God will guide and protect u.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Amen Thank you🙏

  • @hawanatukoroma3029
    @hawanatukoroma3029 Год назад +1

    I feel ur pain my dear so sad

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you🙏

    • @zabrinarobert3156
      @zabrinarobert3156 Год назад

      Keep pushing my daughter don’t let these people kill ur dreams .God is with you

  • @boumiewopea362
    @boumiewopea362 Год назад +1

    Our Gio/Dahn people don't understand business.

  • @hawanatukoroma3029
    @hawanatukoroma3029 Год назад

    Don't give up u will surely make it with time

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Amen! Thank you🙏

  • @IsChosen33
    @IsChosen33 10 месяцев назад

    Wow, our own people is the reason we are suffering!
    Only God can help Liberian so called.
    My opinion, I don’t believe entertainment is a great way to help our people, just because of our current situation.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  10 месяцев назад

      You are right about that!!!

  • @thegi-rl.58
    @thegi-rl.58 Год назад

    Ayy Human being selling your personal drink in a shop you don’t pay rent for what’s that😢 even if the drinks was a gift at least a % should’ve been paid the storing and cooling process of the free drinks as said

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      That’s mentality some of our families are using sadly…

  • @darlinkwawood2296
    @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад +1

    Business in business 😂😂😂😂

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      😂😂😂yes o

  • @RevLouisaMonicaGuah
    @RevLouisaMonicaGuah Год назад

    Give family what you are able to give them. DON'T DO BUSINESS WITH THEM.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      I’ve learn that the hard way

  • @myerbrown7879
    @myerbrown7879 Год назад +3

    The next thing they will try to kill you , keep them far away from you.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      😂😂 true though.. than you🙏

  • @Royalty562022
    @Royalty562022 Год назад

    Sorry My sister that's family for you they sold my birthright from me so mine is worse , but God bless you my dear.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Sorry to hear that sis, so said..

  • @toharris3482
    @toharris3482 Год назад +3

    You don’t open business with any one in Liberia why you are not there. Not even your own mother. They always want to see your downfall.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      I’m telling you 😢😢😢 it’s really sad that our own people will treat us this way

  • @mikeseal3053
    @mikeseal3053 2 месяца назад

    Interesting story.
    I opened stores and I just let it go. Went there and never saw my stores. The devil lives in Liberia.
    Please NEVER and NEVER TRUTH a soul in Liberia to do anything for you, if you find one true person is God's blessing. PLEASE 🙏🏿 PLEASE STOP. DON'T GIVE THEM ANY MONEY either

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  2 месяца назад

      Wow🥲 I am very sorry to hear that and I understand your frustration; been there!! I cried for weeks😢
      God is your strength.

  • @matt633nk9
    @matt633nk9 Год назад

    Just sad…my own cousin ate my business money. Now I’m not doing anything back home without being on ground

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      Bottom line! Best solution. Sorry about that 😢

    • @matt633nk9
      @matt633nk9 Год назад

      @@vmonnaj it’s so depressing

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      Very depressing ooh to the point that will tears 😭 people

  • @thegi-rl.58
    @thegi-rl.58 Год назад

    I like that

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you 💜💜💜

  • @Andreagat
    @Andreagat 10 месяцев назад

    Keep Your Head Up 😢 There Lost

  • @ramp-b.1711
    @ramp-b.1711 Год назад +1

    Sister ,you should have used a part of your uncompleted building or at least fix the bottom part of your house for your business.

  • @fifi2141
    @fifi2141 Год назад +2

    with a cash business like a bar unless you are there to watch your money it will never succeed.

  • @jackiejack4497
    @jackiejack4497 Год назад +2

    But your own family really your downfall ooo…

  • @evangelistsampsoneaglegarg8896
    @evangelistsampsoneaglegarg8896 Год назад +2

    Why women always do things with family? Learn from other story people.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      I don’t know myself.. Maybe because we got that soft spark for family.. well, at least some of us

  • @oladean6375
    @oladean6375 Год назад

    Never do business with family.

  • @JazzyGinger1
    @JazzyGinger1 Год назад +1

    Hello, 🌹🌹🏵🏵🏵May I share an Old Testament Verse with you from Daniel 7:14 "And there was given him dominion, and glory, and a Kingdom, that all people, nations, and languages, should SERVE Him; his dominion is an Everlasting dominion, which shall not pass away, and his kingdom shall not pass away, and His Kingdom that which shall not be destroyed." Also, can I share Isaiah 53:5 " But HE was WOUNDED For our TRANSGRESSIONS, he was BRUISED for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was upon Him, and with His STRIPES we are HEALED."
    God the Father loves you so much that He sent Holy Sinless Jesus (His Holy Son) to earth to be born of a virgin.Then, to grow up and die on a cross for our sins. He was in the tomb for 3 days, then Father God raised Holy and Sinless Jesus Christ (Y'shua) to Life! He appeared to people and went back to Heaven. We must receive Sinless Jesus sincerely to be God's child(John 1:12).After we get saved by grace through faith in Christ, if we truly love the Lord Jesus Christ, then we will obey Jesus(John 14:15). Mark 1:15 "And saying, the time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: Repent ye, and believe the gospel." Jesus said in John 14:15 "If you love Me, keep My commandments. "There's a real hell. It says in Revelation 21:8 "But for the cowardly, & unbelieving, and abominable, and murderers, & immoral persons sorcerers & idolaters & all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire & brimstone..." Please sincerely receive Holy Jesus and put your true faith and trust in Him today and please repent. Will you have a Real encounter with Holy Lord Jesus (Y'shua is His Hebrew Name) and stay in a Genuine relationship with Him daily please?

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thanks for sharing.. May God help us all🙏🙏🙏

  • @margueritesaintleger8375
    @margueritesaintleger8375 Год назад +1

    Why a Bar? Where they sell alcohol

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      I don’t know really.. Its my love for music and the fast turnaround to be able to finish my house

  • @theresagreene6070
    @theresagreene6070 Год назад

    Be careful and make firm decisions or else your family will ruin your young life. It seems like they want to use you; I don't see love for family in your scenario.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      No love at all, no matter how many times I shed tears..

  • @lindadrinks-johnson1904
    @lindadrinks-johnson1904 Год назад +1

    Open your business in the state you are located.

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +1

      I did but then Covid-19 hit and I had to close it due to financial difficulties.. I’ll give it a try again. Thanks for sharing🙏

  • @darlinkwawood2296
    @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад +1

    So your brothers started eating your eye ball before the business could take off.😜😜😂😂😂😜😜

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      😂😂😂yes ooh ahh
      You funny 😆

    • @darlinkwawood2296
      @darlinkwawood2296 Год назад

      @@vmonnaj 😜😂😂😂😂

  • @dorisdavids8583
    @dorisdavids8583 Год назад +1

    What language is she speaking? I can't seem to understand what she's saying. I'm hearing some English words but I think she's mixing it with some traditional dialect. Please note that not everyone understand your native dialect.

    • @nDEe6137
      @nDEe6137 Год назад +1

      So, just leave. This content is not for you. Go where you can understand. We understand it so we are here. Nothing going to change here to please you. If you really want to understand, you must be the one to change, learn n understand. Saka penkin. Chew....😅

    • @johnbobo3013
      @johnbobo3013 Год назад

      It's very simple to understand, only the accent that differentiates it frm the British English, I'm not a Liberian but I see nothing wrong with her English

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      😂😂😂

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      It’s English not my native dialect… lol

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +3

      I swear you had me laughing so hard 😂

  • @jeffersonkornway2461
    @jeffersonkornway2461 Год назад

    That's really bad

  • @Emolib
    @Emolib Год назад

    Wow this is so wrong, sorry ma

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Thank you 🙏 God is in country

  • @ChrisFarley-zj9pt
    @ChrisFarley-zj9pt Год назад +4

    Now you lying to us you didn’t grow up in Liberia

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад +2

      Lol.😂
      I said Partially sweetheart..

    • @ChrisFarley-zj9pt
      @ChrisFarley-zj9pt Год назад +2

      @@vmonnaj that what she you said

  • @JDGless
    @JDGless Год назад +1

    Never go into business with anyone that doesn't have as much skin in the game as you do.

  • @marrykigabimk
    @marrykigabimk Год назад

    𝙾𝚑 𝙻𝚘𝚛𝚍 𝙸 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕 𝚜𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚢 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚞❤

    • @vmonnaj
      @vmonnaj  Год назад

      Sadly 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️