I am 53 years old nigerian and have lived in the USA for twenty one year. The day I am able to move back to Nigeria for good and make USA a tourist place will be the happiest day in my life. I have lived on both sides of the coin, and i can authoritatively tell you..."ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD"
I love your balanced analyses of the two countries. Your thoughts will resonate with people who have tasted the two countries, more than those who are seemingly hopeless in Nigeria. Many Nigerians have forgotten that in America, money doesn't fall from trees. They look at the exchange rate, forgetting that there are many Nigerians who work and live in the US without savings. I returned to Nigeria for two years, went back to poultry farming, but had to quit because of the associated stress factors of a bad economy and unreasonable mindset of artisans who are voracious at ruining your business. Yes, I agree with you that anyone who has monthly access to USD 1000 will live better in Nigeria. Such people must also make provision for solar power, to generate electricity. Furthermore, there must be budgets to cushion the sporadic inflationary trends in Nigeria. Lastly, I want to appreciate your doggedness in terms of straddling between America and Nigeria. I don't mind talking with you further if you are interested. I shuttle between South Africa and Nigeria. I am interested in planting food just as you do. Again, your daughter will benefit from your decision. If she goes back to the US in the future, she will want to return to Nigeria. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with us.
Well said Bros… you’ve nailed everything.I have lived in the USA for 25 years. Am now 50 years old. I have worked for a company for 12 yrs. I asked to travel to Africa for a month and they refused. They said I can only have 2 weeks of vacation. I paid my own way to America and now my job is dictating to me. I decided to quit and they offered me a month leave of absence with pay. I have not been home in 14 years. I came to America with my husband and 3 children. The stress of this country sent my husband to an early grave. I was forced to raise 3 children by myself and the youngest is a special need. My eyes don see ween!!! My kids are now in their early twenties and I have managed to build a 4 bedroom bungalow back home and am traveling this year to see it for the first time in person. I intend to retire back home and hearing you say all the good things about home gives me courage. I know everybody’s journey is different but am ready to make this trip a reality. I will find another Job when I return but am definitely traveling. How can another human being stop me from visiting my home. Moving forward, I will be traveling home every year now.
Sad though. Most Africans usually return home in their coffins after dedicating their productive lives in the fairy land... Hope the society will welcome you back though now u have much much much less to offer... Just saying. There was a gist that the Russians once said African leaders spend all their time abroad, go abroad for their health checkups usually only their dead bodies are brought back to the mother land... Sad shame. Eventually the black man will learn to build and fix his own and one day have others run to it. One can never have full respect while squatting in another man's house no matter how much money you have or make... If na lie try am.
I am Nigerian American born in America raised by 2 Nigerians parents. Everything you said about America is true! I just came back to the US from Nigeria about 3 weeks ago and the stress level in the US is real. If only Nigeria can have a better government, Nigeria will be the greatest country in the world. The people there have the best hospitality. They are genuinely kind hearted caring people. It’s my family and the loving people that brings me back to Nigeria each time. My goal is to retire in Nigeria with my wife in the future.
Living abroad is like a trap, it is a well structured trap to keep foreigners as slaves and build the society they never belonged. No place like home, hopefully Nigerians and Africans will appreciate what God has given us in that region. I wish our leaders in all aspect of the society can see this video and make our country a better and liveable place for us. God bless Nigeria! God bless us! Bayo, you nailed this one!
This can be true if u dont know how the system works. Remember, UK, European and US are countries built systems and frameworks. Chinese, Jewish, Indians even some Somalians and understand how the system works except us.
100% correct. I have been living in US for 23 years. I'm tired but it's hard to go back home. There is no saving all we do here is work and work with nothing to show for your hard work.
As an African American woman, I also prefer Nigeria. The weather is also my #1 reason. I don’t live there permanently and I’m married to a Nigerian man. I also feel safer, there are no guns in Nigeria unless you’re military or police. There’s tribalism but not racism.
No racism? Huh? You're sitting in the cradle of white supremacy. Because you don't see white faces does not mean there is no racism. The residuals of the Berlin conference left an indelible mark on what is now known as Nigeria. White supremacy continues to hold a firm grip on the mindset of millions of NIgerians even though the closest thing they see to white faces are the tragically bleached faces of their fellow citizens.
My brother, you are 💯 correct. I have lived in Canada for 20 years, and for the past 5 years I live in Nigeria more than Canada. I always say to people's if not because of the exchange rate, many people living abroad will be fully back home to Nigeria. I have fully set up myself in Nigeria by having my own house with 24-hour light, having a business that gives me income, build some rented property, and a farm for personal use. I am living my best life whenever I am in Nigeria. GOD BLESS NIGERIA 🇳🇬
My son is Half Nigerian and I am German. I have been to Nigeria 3 times, recently showed my son his home country he isn’t even 6 years old and bought him a land over there. I want him to always know his roots and appreciate them. In case he wants to he is free to move over there and live his life in Nigeria whenever he is older.
As a white American with close Nigerian friends, you gave me another take on Nigeria. A positive one. I am so happy that you feel so at ease there. Nigerians have a special quality that allows them to enjoy life in difficult circumstances. They enhance my life and I too am drawn to that country.
Whatever. Just don’t try to colonize their culture and country. I’m African and I had to reply to you to make it clear that you’re still not one of us. Idc how many African friends you have
@@YT-xk5jl so all whites want to colonize? This is an extremely racist, insensitive and stereotypical statement if I ever seen one. Myself, I’m American married to Nigerian and I embrace , respect and love his culture just as he does mine. Because we come from two different worlds; it allows us to enjoy one another, always learning, never boring. Your statement comes off as absurd and rude based off skin color. It’s Sad you think this way. Statements like this, from people with your mindset (of any race, ethnicity) are the reason skin color is always a hot topic online, sadly.
RUclipsr world of reality. You've said it all! They have the income/capital to get the Youtubing equipment PLUS all the spots to feature on their channel and up they go! Of course, Bayo Adio here will prefer Naija after thoroughly planning with HIS RESOURCES amassed from USdollars he earned over time slash his accessibility to property investments as featured on his channel years ago. So relocation isn't for resourceLESS peeps.
Exactly. If you earn in dollars, you can prefer Nigeria anytime. If he earned in naira, he would take the time think over what he is saying. See, he could not afford Nigerian food when he lived in the U.S. He prefers Nigeria now because in Nigeria, his $1.00 (one dollar) is equal to Ŋ1500.00 [One Thousand, five hundred naira]. The dollar exchange rate is in his favor now.
@unwanaokon , you assume too much. Money is not his only deciding factor. He mentioned peace of mind ( more important than money) , culture for himself and his daughter, anxiety and hyper awareness of living in U.S. Endless taxes, racism and more. The Naira's value is poor because the people of Nigeria have not yet taken the actions to rid themselves of corruption on Government. Nigeria and all of Africa needs more individuals like this young man.
After 33 years in 😮 Europe and US i have enough of the stress and horrific food we have here. Almost everyone in the US is diebetic, but my holistic way of life, yoga, less meat, and eating more vegetables helps me to maintain good health. I decided now that it is time to return to back to my beautiful continent. I have lost three friends to Stressful life styles, there is nowhere to compare to the African continent in quality of life if you have money. Is unfortunately we in Nigeria, and some countries in Africa are conditions to see only negative in our countries. We fall into the illusion of so-called freedom. I am awake now.
@toksjones7214 where did you live in Europe? You are right about Europe. There is strict regulation about food in Europe. In Holland, where I lived for 16 years, are among the healthier country in Europe. With great quality food.
Gush!!! I’m shedding tears as I watch this right now, cos I miss home soo much. I miss Nigeria, I miss my friends, the communal culture, the hangouts, the babes, the street life, oh my!!! In fact I’m preparing to head back home.😢😢
Diasporas connect with this video more than an average Nigerian. As a matter of fact, an average Nigerian will never applaud this video. This video needs preservation which I will gladly do. Thanks bro
I agree with you, as I'm a Nigerian studying abroad with plans to go back home, which a lot of young people are frowning at..... Hope is home. I'm going back home to do my best in making Nigeria better in my little way.
Yes, average Nigerian can not afford those things and lifestyle he his living in Nigeria as a privilege person. How many Nigerians can afford fruits every day,?
You have said it all. I am a US citizen for over 20 yrs. I studied in Nigeria and US. I can relate so much with everything you are saying. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have had many experiences with racism even in a regular grocery store.I always say that, we Africans in the US are treated as fifth class citizen. It is sad but true. My husband and I are working toward retiring in Nigeria. God help us.
Nigeria is a beautiful place to stay and so many don't realize that As a Realtor for over 5 years, there so so many beautiful structures. Its not what they told you it is
.........because you have not traveled to see the real world. Please go visit Kenya, Ghana, South Africa, Egypt, Morocco, etc., and you will return a different man. Traveling is very much a part of education. This guy, Bayo, wants to be an oppressor, and that's impossible in America. So, his praise for a corrupt and largely undeveloped Nigeria is understandable.
@@lkyhood4200TYPICAL IGNORANT COMMENT> I'VE BEEN TO OVER 49 COUNTRIES, LIVED IN 5 CONTINENTS, 21 CITIES, NIGERIA IS STILL MY TOP PLACES TO BE AND LIVE...
You are exactly correct. I'm a African American but i left America for Africa. I'm not going back. I'm retiring here and will live my life here. I love Africa. Here in Gambia it has its up and downs. But i have no REnt or mortgage or taxes. LOVE IT 🎉❤
@Mrgoogle0Searcher-d5v if you build your house and you have land no rent or land tax. Better still if you have good real estate you don't need to work
You totally get it. I shuttle Nigeria and the UK because of family and I feel completely alive when in Nigeria. That "I can fly" and "nothing dey happen" feeling which is impossible in another man's country.
Anybody who lives in the USA will understand his point. If only the Nigerian Government could improve on the standand of living, like electricty, good health care , good roads and security, No Nigerian will ever want to leave their Country. Nigeria Need some safety net for its people and some retirement cushion for old age. And these things are not difficult to achieve with good government and good welfare planning. Nigeria is a blessed Country, but has lacked patriotic and good management leadership since it's independence.
But the young Nigerians are working hard to take over the affairs of the country from incompetent corrupted Nigerians elites that hold the country hostage, but was aborted by incompetent INEC and Nigeria judiciary, but they are still pushing forward.
Yep, for someone who lives in the USA yada yada yada! I would suggest that you stop blaming the Nigerian government for everything! In the old days, no one blamed their traditional leaders or rulers for infrastructure; they built them themselves. No one asked for handouts, instead, they worked hard to put food on the table and roof over their heads. Further, your host country USA wasn't built by governments but by ordinary people, including African slaves, and poor people from poverty stricken Europe.
If the government provides those amenities that you mentioned in abundance, some Nigerians would still prefer overseas to their fatherland due to inferiority mindset and lack of information. That’s why you see A man living comfortably in Nigeria with a good job selling their properties and moved to the UK, only to get there and do factory work under a supervisor that had no college degree.
@@onthegofm1887 Good leadership breed good government. Corrupt leadership with diverse selfish interests and no clue on how to develope the Country and improve the lives of its citizens have left Nigeria in a very deplorable situation. It seem you have no idea of the duty of any government. You are comparing a village chief with a Federal government with huge Financial resources and the power to maintain security, the welfare of the people and the rule of law. Nigeria is a blessed country but have never yet got good leadership.
As an American, you are spot on with everything. Life in America is very stressful for the average person, trying to survive. In result, we have seen a huge rise in Mental Health issues. I've thought about moving to another country myself but I've also thought about what I could do to help the Mental Health crisis here.
Amazing video 👍🏾 nothing like our country of origin 🤎Am proud to be a Nigerian 🇳🇬 even if some people talk negative of Nigeria🇳🇬Nigeria 🇳🇬 is one of the best country everyone will love to stay🤎thanks for sharing 👍🏾
1. Weather 2. Security 3. Food 4. Bills 5. Tax 6. Life style 7. Cost of living 8. Opportunities 9. Easier Access to skilled technician 10. Purpose 11. Value and cultural preservation 12. Feeling of belonging 13.
Nigeria is a hope and dream of many people who have never been there. Maybe we can see for ourselves the sights sounds and taste of this part of our world.
Dear Babylon, thank you for this video. I was brought up abroad as an infant and moved myself back to Nigeria in my 20s. I left Nigeria 3 years ago for personal reasons, and moving back this year. There is no place like home. ❤
I see a lot youthful nigerians leaving on a daily basis now even in my office, my GM once called me to ask why i havent joined them to travel, i told her all i need is time to do other things but not leaving nigeria. If one have skills, seek knowledge and cutting ones cloths in nigeria, its possible to get things right. What i discover as a nigerian youth is you cannot close your eyes to opportunities and like you said nigeria is an untailored environment where opportunities abound... But then i feel capital is one major reason why a number of youths will decide to leave first and come back later.
I too have been seeing his videos for quite some time. He is really pro Africa and we need people like him for Africa to move forward. Unfortunately, many of our people in diaspora don’t wish Africa well because they want to feel justified within themselves for abandoning their roots.
Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
This guy makes me love my country again, like i dont think we shluld live our lives with constant pressures, there should be responsibility, yes...but also peace, thank you.
I live in the UK and all the points resonate with me. I am a true blooded Nigerian and I can't trade it with dollar's or pounds sterling. Good job you have done to dissect both sides of the aisle. Cheers
I can totally relate to this video, I have been leaving in the USA for 18 years, there stress here is too much, it’s my dream to finally move back to Africa soon.
Really? Most Nigerians I meet do not even want to go back home. My roommate at Uni did not even want to visit home, he stayed back every holiday saying it was not safe at home. The goodness about Nigeria compared to other countries seems to mostly live on RUclips and in overly patriotic Nigerians. Because in reality we do not have Boko Haram, the daily kidnappings,. the runaway inflation and forex problems that even chased some multi-nationals like Shoprite. May be compared to the US that is suffering from severe gun-violence not African countries.
I am A.A. and I visited Africa (Ghana specifically) for the first time. He is telling you the truth. You really will not understand what it feels like to NOT BE THE OTHER until you go to your ancestors home, until you go visit Africa. Most ppl spoke English so I feel it was easier for me. I now own land and plan to visit more often and take family to visit too.
Ghana is slowly but surely turning into Atlanta/Freaknik, especially at Christmas time. Also, their president seems to be turning into a puppet of the US, especially after Kamala visited and politely gave him an ultimatum if he didn't agree to go along with their alphabet agenda. I'm VERY concerned for Ghana and the preservation of their culture and values.
Yes, the feeling of belonging. I'm from the Caribbeans and the longing to live in Africa is quite undeniable. For those from the Caribbean, Africa represents more than just a geographical location; it's a connection to their roots, culture, and heritage. Many Caribbean traditions, languages, and cultural practices have their origins in Africa, which creates a strong sense of acceptance and nostalgia for the continent. Moreover, Africa is incredibly diverse, with a rich tapestry of cultures, languages, landscapes, and histories. The allure of experiencing this diversity firsthand can be a powerful draw for anyone seeking a deeper connection to their heritage. I cannot wait to come for a visit, then eventually move to the continent. Great presentation!
@@DakereleExactly and there is nothing wrong with that. This video is for those who want to move back to Africa and have the finances or the mind to do it.
your opinion we all have one im glad you 've had all the foods of America i ve had some foods of Nigeria and didn't care myself for it but there is something for everyone its too many deseases , bugs , nasty areas, there is too many scams and scammers of women by Nigerian men taking advantage of them proclaiming love too much stealing on tourist within africa this man is Nigerian its his country we know where we shop and what places to go to enjoy what we prefer and like I love and prefer the islands more so than Africa your use to what you know deal with it Lol as we do here what is stress to you is not what you observe if it was that awful we wouldn't be here there are many Africans want out from over there my Nigerian Fiancee is one he lives a nightmare over there and we can pay our rent up for one year as well many want month to month I can't wait till he gets from over there if I was this guy I would stay in Africa your African stay there you know your country stop complaining stay home lol no one pays taxes on a car every year here unless you move to another state your issue is your African you need to be there there are people for every where in America all people don't want to live near a beach they may want mountains views , or snow or warm weather or cold weather no one has to be tied down to just any thing one needs jobs in Africa lagos is killing my man there and he is business man I have 3 homes here own them and 2 AB&B there is plenty money to be made in America youve complained so much you should have never left Africa really lol
@@nauticdixons We are talking about middle class Nigerians! Which are in Lagos, Abuja, and most state capitals! They are all living better lives than they could live overseas.
Bayo, well done for this video. I relate 100% with you. Almost 40yrs in the northeast USA, I prefer Naija life . I am privileged to be able to reside at both continents at intervals. Don’t worry if all your audience can’t gerrit!, they can forgerit😂😂 Congratulations 🎉
Baba your move is the best , people wil not understand. I’m giving all my best to live here before it accumulates. No issues yet but I want to raise my kids over there because Nigeria helps with cultural upbringing despite their own craziness
🤔Thanks for sharing.*Your bless to have two countries you can pick from to live in.*The great Africa is getting better each and every day. Many people from other countries are investing in the African countries.*God bless the great Africa 🙏👊🖐
2 years and counting in the US, totally related….i love the fact that you introduce your kids to both cultures and that will help them be more focused and diversified which I will love to do same for mine as well. Nice one Bayo.
Thanks for chiming in. Wow only 2 years ? It sometimes takes longer than. That for people to see what I'm saying. Well done ooh. you just have grabbed the bull by the horns quickly :)
I like the fact that you emphasized that it's "your experience " because the people who cannot relate or have not lived in both countries will start to judge and condemn this video. I am happy you are genuine and nice enough to explain this topic in a way people will understand. I agree with you 100%. The billing system, taxes, not having enough time to distress before it's another week, genetically modified food, etc, are part of the reasons i prefer Nigeria to USA. Thanks for this video and all you do.
I myself this is my 35th year in UK. I'm 54+ and I am tired. I can't wait to come back to Mother Africa. I'm currently studying MBA Agribusiness and I'm finishing this May. I look forward to coming back and bring my expertise. See you guys soon
i think many people will continue to do this in the future. Including me although I am only 20 and was born in America but Nigerian, I would like to relocate to Nigera in my later years 70+
You are the real deal, am based in Japan ,few years ago l discovered l don’t belong here specifically when l see how some of our people still need to work like donkey in their late 50s and 60s.
As a South African, it truly breaks my heart how Africa is generally underrated but if anything, Africa will not rebuild itself if we keep running away from it to be modernized slaves elsewhere. May the Universe reshuffle me to Nigeria because that's my African dream..... I Love My Africa and Our People...❤
Bayo is a positive Cultural Ambassador for Nigeria 🇳🇬 . The Federal Ministry of Culture and Tourism need to bring him on board in some consultancy capacity so his practical experience and exposure can be useful in Policy Formulation. A great example of a patriotic citizen.
Honestly, I can 100% relate , I spent 5 months of the year in Lagos and 7 months in HULL , UK , the only reasons I do the 7 months in Uk is because my property business is based here in Uk , and it’s nice to make money in pounds than Naira , but honestly Nigeria is the best, I was born Uk , spent the first 26 years of my life here, I hate the cold weather with a passion. started coming to Nigeria 10 years ago. And I have never look back. Well done Bayo .
Exactly, the cold and rain in the UK under those months of grey skies is just not nice. I an grateful that I was born and raised in London , but I don't prefer living there as an adult.
I definitely agree with your points about living in Nigeria. The ability to be your authentic self is priceless. I prefer living in Nigeria than the US also.
26 years in the United States from Sierraleone bro you are talking to me everything you said hit home,and also iam sierraleonean American born in the state of Washington
God bless you bro. To me, western world is nothing but a modern day slavery. I live in MD USA and I’m so tired of restlessness just to pay bills. I honestly wish I never left Nigeria.
The good thing about America is the economic strength. It gives you to go to countries like Nigeria America is a good place to make money bar none. I spend over 1600 a month in rent Imagine if I was in Africa with 1600 When you look at all my bills, I spent close to $6000 a month 😢 Imagine the life I can live in Africa with $6000 a month so you have to stay connected to America to keep that income going, but by all means live in Africa where you can enjoy that money
I’m Ghanaian and have lived in the U.S for nearly 2 decades. This video needs to go viral. Unfortunately, the average African youth won’t listen when you tell them the positives about Africa. When you HONESTLY tell them how GREAT Africa is, regardless of the challenges, they’ll ask you “why don’t you come back to Africa then”. MANY African immigrants abroad are trapped. When they share their experiences to encourage the African youth to stay home, they assume you’re just being selfish because you already made it out of Africa. My dad and grandma never traveled but they each worked hard in Ghana and built mansions through entrepreneurship. It’s so sad that the African youth doesn’t listen to those who have lived abroad for so long with experiences and understanding of living abroad. No one is being selfish living abroad and doesn’t want you to come. The MAJORITY are telling you the truth about living abroad.
Let them keep fooling themselves. My attitude to those who think that way is go and find out and each to their own. Africa has potential just because there are negative things there are also positive things. No where is perfect. I used to say my body was in Europe but my spirit never left Africa.
@@gerardonochie3408 Growing up, my dad used to say “he’ll never travel but will succeed in Ghana”. And YES! He did. All his friends who traveled abroad can’t compete with his success. His house is bigger than all his friends who traveled in the 80s and 90’s. My dad is 64 yrs old but looks 55. His friends all look like they’re almost 80 yrs old and some came back home and died. I understood my dad better after my first 10 yrs in the U.S.
Why would you ask someone not to travel? It's not good. Encourage people to travel so they can experience things for themselves. If you didn't travel, there's no way you'll be able to think the way you do now, to make comparisons and draw your own conclusions. If Africans don't travel, they'll think there's something out there they're missing and won't appreciate what they have. Encourage people to travel.
@@afamefunaibeabuchi873 I don’t ask people anything. However, I share my experiences with family members and close friends back in Ghana. I have 3 friends who listened to me and after a few years are doing EXTREMELY well for themselves in Ghana. If someone ask me what life is abroad, I’m transparent and it’s up to them to make their own decisions.
Great talk & experience bro. Just like you said, every right thinking person that have stayed abroad, will prefer Nigeria to western world. No place like home bro. Great job!!!
Boyo my son! blessed is the womb that brought you to this part of the world Nigeria I love you for who you are you the best God bless you and keep you safe ❤❤❤❤❤
Ah, finally God Almighty has sent you to bring light into this. Nigerians back home don't get it, they think oh you don't want us to come. Have been telling my children am ready to move back home. God bless you.
I like the way you emphasized the fact that the video is about those of us living in the U.S. I have lived in the US for 30 years and still can not think less of Nigeria. You never know until you have lived here long enough to be able to make that comparison. Thank you for the video.
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Excellent and the raw bitter truth about living in the diaspora. Your last point is so true. I was telling my younger cousin who just relocated to Canada that no matter how long she stays in the West it will truly never feel like home..
@Bayo, please this was really a good content, I am also relocating soon to Nigeria, the only one issue i have with your lovely video, is please can we Stop saying some third world countries, there are no such words as third world or second world or first world, someone made those labels, just as the 3 to 1 in America constitution. Instead use the name of the country you are speaking about or referring to. This is my opinion, I could not stay in New York for two weeks, because Nigeria for me was better, because the amount of beggars was just too much in so many of the streets in New York.
Hello Bayo watching you from America Phoenix Arizona always enjoy your videos enjoy you speaking your truth as well. When I come to Africa to visit on the continent different countries I don't think about the police officers or a lot of crime so you're so right about that. Thank you for sharing.
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Everything you've mentioned I can attest to 100%, having lived in the UK for many years. I just can't wait to go back home. At least, it's for my blood pressure.
Bro. You are spot on. Please tell them. Africans dont have an idea how blessee they are. Its so sad they still accept to be mental slaves and in many ways physical slaves in places that in nature is no where close to this blessee mother land. Hiwever personally i cant stand the chaos in Lagos... But yeah. In Nigeria you have peace of mind. We are waiting for the japa brothers and sister to taste the Jand or Yankee they crave. Those with any honor and self respect with agree with all you have talked about... Praying many more of us will get to realise this and build out nation. God bless Africa and Nigeria in particular bro.
But Lagos is not Nigeria. There is Ibadan, Enugu, Port Harcourt, Abeokuta, Calabar, Abuja etc which are not stressful or as chaotic as Lagos. Nice take though
I was born in UK but i also go to Nigeria for holiday every year now i don't feel like living in UK anymore is just to cold for me to much stress and lonely life nobody want to know what you are going true.
You’re on point. My ex-husband is Nigerian. After he arrived to the US 🇺🇸 he began misbehaving to the point I could not stay married to him. All along I don’t think he ever loved me and now he’s here without help. Very foolish decision to say the least. People think this is some fairytale magical place and it’s not. I very much enjoyed visiting Nigeria and wish that my marriage was real because I was looking forward to going back and forth and having that experience for the rest of my life.
Hi Bayo. Good day to you over there. My name is Olajide. I'm living in Sydney Australia 🦘🌏. Originally from Abeokuta Ogun state Nigeria. But growing up in Ikeja Lagos state. I can attest to what you are saying here. Australia is far more expensive to live than the USA. At least 50 percent of your income in Australia goes to taxes. Me too I'm moving back from Australia to Africa this year. As you have mentioned that there are many business opportunities in Africa. Yes that's very true. But many of we Africans don't see that at all. I'm coming to Africa with my business ideas on how to solve Agriculture post harvest loses. I want to come to Africa to start building Stationary and Mobile Cold Storage facilities for food 🥑🥝 preservation. I've been working on this project for more than 15 years. Anyway hope to meet you someday in Nigeria. Have a great time over there in Nigeria.
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
The Sense of Belonging is most impactful for me. Many of the other issues raised, absolutely resonates but frankly, 'Belonging' is most important. Imagine having the blood of the ancestors who've been in the Diaspora since the 16th century - and still not feel like we belong. I am happy that you are safely home. I worry about naïve Africans who chance coming here.
Well said!! I willl be 46yr by May 8th, Bin here in Korea for 10yrs and been home twice, one thing i am 100% sure is that my return story will end well that is my plead daily to God n d Universe!!Gotten over 150plots of land already set forbreal estate, now embarking on another palmoil tree plantation for 12acres of land as my retirement investmenrt. If u japa 4rm naija with a mindset to go hustle n return back home, it will come to past n u wil enjoy dekay gratification with ease but if is to travel to fit in into their system then one has enslaved him or herself. I pray everyone abroad return wen due with good stories!!!
Im an American African from NYC and I can relate to every single one of those. The feeling of security is something I never really felt living in the US
I have sent your video to my son and my nephew who are half Nigerian. My DNA says I am 37% Nigerian. I will move to Nigeria. I want house help and a driver that Nigeria I can have. In Texas there's no tax on food. I probably will live in Akwa Ibom state. I have support groups in Lagos and Akwa Ibom. I want the organic foods without toxic additives. I LOVE THE WEATHER TOO!! Many relatives will come visit when I move to Nigeria oh.
Just prayerfully connect with the right people and you will be okay. We still have honest and God-fearing people in Nigeria that can help you without ripping you off.
I'm from akwa Ibom. I feel proud you mentioned Akwa Ibom.. You'll love your stay in Akwa Ibom trust me... Currently I live in Port Harcourt with my family. I'll be glad to connect if you make up your mind to come around.
@@MartinPublic My friend and her family moved back to Nigeria after 30+ years in the US. Going on 10 years now, and she wouldn't change a thing. Of course it helps that she has an American passport so she can't get out any time she wants. Whenever she comes to the US, she can't wait to get back to Nigeria.
TRUTH, there's no doubt in all you have said, alot people in Nigeria would not agree with you base on the facts that they have not lived in the west, I will like to say if you have anything you are you doing back home, maybe you are working or doing business, and you can take care of your needs, I think I will advice that you should not move, I know many will not understand until they come abroad.
Excellent points! I have lived in the US for more than 43 years. I agreed with all your 12 reasons for preferring to live in Nigeria over America. Good job.
I can say that what you have discussed here is very similar to the UK. In fact VAT in the UK is 20%, therefore, everything you buy in the shop or supermarket has a VAT of 20%. How can I like your video over 1000 times. Especially, having access to a variety of food, technical artisans and the socialisation. Also the opportunities to make a positive impact in the community.
My dear Bayo. I am. Nigerian, who has lived all my life in Nigeria and will continue to live in Nigeria. This JAPA mentality has never been me. I have never been interested in leaving this country even though i have the opportunity to do so. Never even played visa lottery. This video is an eye opener for a lot of Nigerians who think "the grass is greener on the other side". I hope they see this video and understand that e no easy anywhere. As for me "yours truly", I DIE HERE OO!
Thank you for making this video. All you video inspired me a lots. I have been in Australia for 18 years and visiting Nigeria, but now l am set to go home . White will never give you a sense of belonging, no matter how hard you work . I am tired of stressful life doing one thing every day , Nigeria has many opportunities, and l love it Thank you
Every single point you made resonated with me I think 🤔 you are my twin from another mother😂. I grew up in the United States from age 9 and now am 42. My family and I are planning to make the move with our children. We have purchased our farm land and we are tired of America and ready to explore new opportunities in Nigeria no matter the challenges we face we are ready. Thank you for this video it's great to see people like us talk positively about Nigeria not only the challenges but the potential it can bring. Thank you again I love all your videos.
@abbyakinnola - Your eyes have been opened and you are making a very wise decision for you and your family. May every venture you undertake in your homeland be abundantly successful and may you and your family prosper and have peace.
I can only say thank you for this video. I am a Nigeria/German living in Germany. It’s sometimes like living in an open Jail. Your video is great & on point. Love it bro❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Honestly, at first, I almost wrote whatever your reasons were off out of prejudice, but on a second thought, I felt to give you a listening ear. To a great extent, you're correct. However, I beg to differ when it comes to security and a few other things I'll highlight later. Just one kidnapping of a family member, loved one or one's self would change your position on security in a heart beat. Even if you lose your life in America due to one violence, there's always a closure but in 9ja, even the security agencies will help frustrate your efforts and all those will have significant psychological impact on you for the rest of your life. I was born and raised in 9ja. I even worked in 9ja for almost a decade before relocating to the UK (staging location) and the US eventually. I also schooled in the US where I also work as well. My point is that I've lived in most countries Nigerians flock to including our home land where I spent 30 years with nothing to show for it. US has a very solid system that one can plan with and it's almost guaranteed. 9ja on the other hand is chaotic. Being that US system is well organized, you need to learn how to live in the US like a wealthy American versus an African living in America. Even though you might start off as an employee in the US but your goal is to become a business owner that way, you maximize the benefits of living in America. I'm an InfoTech professional and also a real estate investor. For example, if you structure your business properly within the real estate sector (highly recommended) and acquire real estate property with no money down and by using the "own nothing but control everything strategy," you can have others pay all your living expenses in America while you live rent free and that includes your vehicle. You can't replicate that in 9ja. Let's say you have a similar investment in 9ja, once that 1st year rent expires, you'll start hearing "stories that touch." Healthcare is almost zero in 9ja. For those who praise 9ja, it's only in good times. When things go south, 9ja will flip on you. Government doesn't even know their job description and there's lack of accountability at every level in the society including but not limited to religious circles which I consider the last beckon of hope. I'm routing for you to succeed. However, I don't wish to be in 9ja. Maybe another relatively stable African country with an acceptable degree of sanity in their polity. Good luck bro.
I am in Nigeria 3x every year for 1 month each time. I cannot wish to live somewhere else. I have been in US for years and the life seems like a revolving door after a while just waiting to retire. Nigeria to me is a new lease on life especially when you have access to earn in dollars. But I can understand the challenges for those living, working and earning in local currency. To enjoy Nigeria, first of all is to have a way to earn in dollars/pounds/euro and you will live heaven on earth.
Hi Bayo, I discovered your first video during the pandemic and I have watched your videos on/off since. Even though I'm not Nigerian, I can relate to everything you mentioned in this video. I live in Canada and I came to this country as a teenager, with my parents but never feel like I belong here. Whenever, I go back home to visit, I never want to come back to Canada. I like the work that you are doing and you are an inspiration.
I agree with you even as a born British I had to move back to live in Nigeria with my son for 10 years but sadly I had to move back to support hime through the rest of his education as I am his only parent. However, we both are looking to come back and I'm back for good by God's grace no turning back. I relate with all your points, very valid.
Are you guys trying to brainwash people that Nigeria is a better place to live than other countries, especially the US? This is nonsense and can only be pushed by lazy Nigerians like the host of this channel himself.
But one thing I've noticed is that all the people who are claiming Nigeria is so wondeful are those who've first had the opportunity to establish themselves abroad and then are going back on their own terms Maybe after having been educated at well respected foreign institutions and then worked for big brands and have good experience, or they have ways of making money where they live in Nigeria but earn US dollars. Or they have some capital to set up businesses. Most times you find people still need to leave again value outside of the country before they are able to come back and enjoy the good life. They are not showing people who cant afford school fees for their kids or whole families living in one room. They are just showing how a very small fraction of the population live. How many average people are enjoying all the high end experiences he is enjoying?
@@theautohabit6062 He made it clear in his video that these are his perspectives. I can relate to his perspective. Everyone should look for opportunities where they think is best for them (Nigeria or abroad).
@@theautohabit6062 Thanks for your logical response. I agree with you 100%. This guy, Bayo, is disingenuous; your comment attended to that correctly. Bayo would be nobody in Nigeria had he not gotten the education and exposure from a first world country, that's the USA. The Nigerian oppressive thing is to go abroad, educate, get work experience, and return home to brag and lie to the poor masses who may never have the chance to visit the US. Finally, it's very wrong to compare a very poor, 3rd world country, like Nigeria, to the most capitalist, 1st world country in the world. thanks again.
@@explorewithchike yes for sure. But what he didnt make clear is the context to his perspectives. The fact that he has returned from a first world country armed with what he needs to reap the 'opportunities' he can now see in Nigeria. In fact on the one hand he is absolutely right. There are actually so many more opportunities to make money in Nigeria. It's way more fluid and with less barriers than countries like UK, Canada and US. In those countries you pretty much only have the option of working hard and trying to get as high up the corporate ladder so that you can earn as much as possible. Nigeria on the other hand has so many hidden gem opportunities to even become rich. BUT the issue seems to be that you need a clear head, and not be suffering in the first place and have the right exposure, experience, education or funds to take advantage of them. There are so many people who have never left Nigeria and are just making ends meet, living from day to day. Fi ding small money here to pay rent, for transport, to buy fuel for the gen, to pay school fees, to take care of mama and papa in the village, to find money for hospital treatment when a family member is sick, to do all the bribing required to get anything done in Nigeria. And so on and so forth. They are not blind or stupid. They know there are opportunities but they dont have the means to take advantage of them. But if I come over from UK or US, well fed, with some cash in the bank, maybe I might even have a property abroad. My family are not suffering. And I am secure in the knowledge that if it doesnt work out I can pick up my foreign passport and return to where I came from. Such a person will have clarity of mind and the means to take up the many opportunities available in Nigeria. I also noticed he has an accent. So does that mean he wasnt 'born' in the US? Where was he born? Did he leave Nigeria at some point? Why did he leave his country of origin in the first place? Was th weather not hot when he was born?
You were called by the ancestors to come back home, because at this very moments is when our people need us the most. This is why you feel so much fulfilment. ❤
This is a well packaged video on the reasons one should still consider Nigeria as a place to relocate/retire to when need be. Living in the west (Europe/USA) isn't for the faint of hearts. Consequently, one must be mentally, psychologically, spiritually prepared, that's why some of our people are "trampled" by the extreme pressures associated with this part of the world. Africa, on the other hand, though less developed, will give you the calm, sense of belonging, reassurance, good weather, good food, cultural affirnity e.t.c you won't get elsewhere as an African. Who nor go nor know. Thanks for sharing.
I am 53 years old nigerian and have lived in the USA for twenty one year. The day I am able to move back to Nigeria for good and make USA a tourist place will be the happiest day in my life. I have lived on both sides of the coin, and i can authoritatively tell you..."ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD"
I love your balanced analyses of the two countries. Your thoughts will resonate with people who have tasted the two countries, more than those who are seemingly hopeless in Nigeria. Many Nigerians have forgotten that in America, money doesn't fall from trees. They look at the exchange rate, forgetting that there are many Nigerians who work and live in the US without savings. I returned to Nigeria for two years, went back to poultry farming, but had to quit because of the associated stress factors of a bad economy and unreasonable mindset of artisans who are voracious at ruining your business. Yes, I agree with you that anyone who has monthly access to USD 1000 will live better in Nigeria. Such people must also make provision for solar power, to generate electricity. Furthermore, there must be budgets to cushion the sporadic inflationary trends in Nigeria. Lastly, I want to appreciate your doggedness in terms of straddling between America and Nigeria. I don't mind talking with you further if you are interested. I shuttle between South Africa and Nigeria. I am interested in planting food just as you do. Again, your daughter will benefit from your decision. If she goes back to the US in the future, she will want to return to Nigeria. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with us.
I understand 👍
💯 Correct!
It will happen in Jesus name
Bye 👏🏾
Well said Bros… you’ve nailed everything.I have lived in the USA for 25 years. Am now 50 years old. I have worked for a company for 12 yrs. I asked to travel to Africa for a month and they refused. They said I can only have 2 weeks of vacation. I paid my own way to America and now my job is dictating to me. I decided to quit and they offered me a month leave of absence with pay. I have not been home in 14 years. I came to America with my husband and 3 children. The stress of this country sent my husband to an early grave. I was forced to raise 3 children by myself and the youngest is a special need. My eyes don see ween!!! My kids are now in their early twenties and I have managed to build a 4 bedroom bungalow back home and am traveling this year to see it for the first time in person. I intend to retire back home and hearing you say all the good things about home gives me courage. I know everybody’s journey is different but am ready to make this trip a reality. I will find another Job when I return but am definitely traveling. How can another human being stop me from visiting my home. Moving forward, I will be traveling home every year now.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, i am almost 2 years in canada and i already feel like going back home.
Sad though. Most Africans usually return home in their coffins after dedicating their productive lives in the fairy land... Hope the society will welcome you back though now u have much much much less to offer... Just saying.
There was a gist that the Russians once said African leaders spend all their time abroad, go abroad for their health checkups usually only their dead bodies are brought back to the mother land... Sad shame.
Eventually the black man will learn to build and fix his own and one day have others run to it. One can never have full respect while squatting in another man's house no matter how much money you have or make... If na lie try am.
Honestly, there's no place like home. Just 3months in Canada feels like 3years away, Naija shall be great again!
@@prinzdan6337 i can relate
@@witty448please don't come. We are not Biblical characters. We don't accept prodigal sons.
I am Nigerian American born in America raised by 2 Nigerians parents. Everything you said about America is true! I just came back to the US from Nigeria about 3 weeks ago and the stress level in the US is real. If only Nigeria can have a better government, Nigeria will be the greatest country in the world. The people there have the best hospitality. They are genuinely kind hearted caring people. It’s my family and the loving people that brings me back to Nigeria each time. My goal is to retire in Nigeria with my wife in the future.
@jasondima1411 we are not as proactive to involve ourselves and question these leaders. So sad how we live them to do as they please.
Living abroad is like a trap, it is a well structured trap to keep foreigners as slaves and build the society they never belonged. No place like home, hopefully Nigerians and Africans will appreciate what God has given us in that region. I wish our leaders in all aspect of the society can see this video and make our country a better and liveable place for us. God bless Nigeria! God bless us! Bayo, you nailed this one!
Exactly
This can be true if u dont know how the system works. Remember, UK, European and US are countries built systems and frameworks. Chinese, Jewish, Indians even some Somalians and understand how the system works except us.
100% correct. I have been living in US for 23 years. I'm tired but it's hard to go back home. There is no saving all we do here is work and work with nothing to show for your hard work.
@@sarahmurray687prayers for you to be able to grow your income and save 🙏🏽
Point to note! "It is a well structured trap to keep foreigners as slaves and build the society they never belong" this is too deep!
As an African American woman, I also prefer Nigeria. The weather is also my #1 reason. I don’t live there permanently and I’m married to a Nigerian man. I also feel safer, there are no guns in Nigeria unless you’re military or police. There’s tribalism but not racism.
No racism? Huh? You're sitting in the cradle of white supremacy. Because you don't see white faces does not mean there is no racism. The residuals of the Berlin conference left an indelible mark on what is now known as Nigeria. White supremacy continues to hold a firm grip on the mindset of millions of NIgerians even though the closest thing they see to white faces are the tragically bleached faces of their fellow citizens.
True
Thank you Mr Bayo for this video. Such an eye opener. May your light shine even brighter ❤
I like your African energy.
I like in Abuja, Nigeria.
I will like to work with you!
My brother, you are 💯 correct. I have lived in Canada for 20 years, and for the past 5 years I live in Nigeria more than Canada. I always say to people's if not because of the exchange rate, many people living abroad will be fully back home to Nigeria. I have fully set up myself in Nigeria by having my own house with 24-hour light, having a business that gives me income, build some rented property, and a farm for personal use. I am living my best life whenever I am in Nigeria. GOD BLESS NIGERIA 🇳🇬
Bro the only way Ur enjoying Nigeria is because u have money
@charlesanyiam2657, not only in Nigeria, is all over the world. if you don't have money, you won't enjoy life.
@@charlesanyiam2657money isn't life bro
@@charlesanyiam2657money isn't everything bro
@@dollyosadolor1489well said
My son is Half Nigerian and I am German. I have been to Nigeria 3 times, recently showed my son his home country he isn’t even 6 years old and bought him a land over there. I want him to always know his roots and appreciate them. In case he wants to he is free to move over there and live his life in Nigeria whenever he is older.
If his dad is German why does his root have to be Nigerian? Unless you are the woman. Then his root may well be Nigerian.
GOD BLESS YOU
Great foresight 👍
@@sacassashimidrama7088 Maybe you don’t understand English language.
I have just bought 3 plot and I am from Coventry.@GAZABRITISHHWATCHDIS
After almost 38yrs in America and after accomplishing everything in America and Canada 🇨🇦, I find peace and solace in Naija.
Kai, home sweet home
@@idvproperties You have no idea how sweet it is for me when I am in Lagos.
As a white American with close Nigerian friends, you gave me another take on Nigeria. A positive one. I am so happy that you feel so at ease there. Nigerians have a special quality that allows them to enjoy life in difficult circumstances. They enhance my life and I too am drawn to that country.
Whatever. Just don’t try to colonize their culture and country. I’m African and I had to reply to you to make it clear that you’re still not one of us. Idc how many African friends you have
@@YT-xk5jl May God forgive you. 😂
@@YT-xk5jl so all whites want to colonize? This is an extremely racist, insensitive and stereotypical statement if I ever seen one. Myself, I’m American married to Nigerian and I embrace , respect and love his culture just as he does mine. Because we come from two different worlds; it allows us to enjoy one another, always learning, never boring. Your statement comes off as absurd and rude based off skin color. It’s Sad you think this way. Statements like this, from people with your mindset (of any race, ethnicity) are the reason skin color is always a hot topic online, sadly.
@@YT-xk5jlWhy are you so full of hate🤔🙄
The big takeaway is live in Nigeria and get paid in dollars. Of course anyone in this position will thoroughly prefer Nigeria/Africa as a whole.
Bro you nailed it.
RUclipsr world of reality. You've said it all! They have the income/capital to get the Youtubing equipment PLUS all the spots to feature on their channel and up they go! Of course, Bayo Adio here will prefer Naija after thoroughly planning with HIS RESOURCES amassed from USdollars he earned over time slash his accessibility to property investments as featured on his channel years ago. So relocation isn't for resourceLESS peeps.
Right ... those in Naija earning Naira obviously have a harder reality
Exactly. If you earn in dollars, you can prefer Nigeria anytime. If he earned in naira, he would take the time think over what he is saying.
See, he could not afford Nigerian food when he lived in the U.S. He prefers Nigeria now because in Nigeria, his $1.00 (one dollar) is equal to Ŋ1500.00 [One Thousand, five hundred naira]. The dollar exchange rate is in his favor now.
@unwanaokon , you assume too much. Money is not his only deciding factor. He mentioned peace of mind ( more important than money) , culture for himself and his daughter, anxiety and hyper awareness of living in U.S. Endless taxes, racism and more.
The Naira's value is poor because the people of Nigeria have not yet taken the actions to rid themselves of corruption on Government.
Nigeria and all of Africa needs more individuals like this young man.
I definitely feel safer in Naija too than the US for all the reasons u mentioned. Legit point!!!
After 33 years in 😮 Europe and US i have enough of the stress and horrific food we have here. Almost everyone in the US is diebetic, but my holistic way of life, yoga, less meat, and eating more vegetables helps me to maintain good health. I decided now that it is time to return to back to my beautiful continent. I have lost three friends to Stressful life styles, there is nowhere to compare to the African continent in quality of life if you have money. Is unfortunately we in Nigeria, and some countries in Africa are conditions to see only negative in our countries. We fall into the illusion of so-called freedom. I am awake now.
I completely understand and yes oooh!
I disagree with you! Food quality is excellent in Europe! Forget about America! America na third world country!
@toksjones7214 where did you live in Europe? You are right about Europe. There is strict regulation about food in Europe. In Holland, where I lived for 16 years, are among the healthier country in Europe. With great quality food.
@@Eniola0ne I travelled in Holland! I like Dutch people! London
@@Eniola0ne don't go to Naija! The place no good at all! Lol
Gush!!! I’m shedding tears as I watch this right now, cos I miss home soo much. I miss Nigeria, I miss my friends, the communal culture, the hangouts, the babes, the street life, oh my!!! In fact I’m preparing to head back home.😢😢
Diasporas connect with this video more than an average Nigerian. As a matter of fact, an average Nigerian will never applaud this video. This video needs preservation which I will gladly do. Thanks bro
True yarn because I swear I no gree for this yarn wey Oga B dey yarn so. E jus no gel
Its expected because you haven't left Nigeria @Kastady
I agree with you, as I'm a Nigerian studying abroad with plans to go back home, which a lot of young people are frowning at.....
Hope is home.
I'm going back home to do my best in making Nigeria better in my little way.
Yes, average Nigerian can not afford those things and lifestyle he his living in Nigeria as a privilege person. How many Nigerians can afford fruits every day,?
You’re living ur life with purpose in 9ja….that’s what matters. Keep rocking on
You have said it all. I am a US citizen for over 20 yrs. I studied in Nigeria and US. I can relate so much with everything you are saying. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have had many experiences with racism even in a regular grocery store.I always say that, we Africans in the US are treated as fifth class citizen. It is sad but true. My husband and I are working toward retiring in Nigeria. God help us.
Amen
Nigeria is a beautiful place to stay and so many don't realize that
As a Realtor for over 5 years, there so so many beautiful structures.
Its not what they told you it is
I live in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and i wouldn't have it any other way.
I love living here to much
I hate this sort of people soo fake
.........because you have not traveled to see the real world. Please go visit Kenya, Ghana, South Africa, Egypt, Morocco, etc., and you will return a different man. Traveling is very much a part of education. This guy, Bayo, wants to be an oppressor, and that's impossible in America. So, his praise for a corrupt and largely undeveloped Nigeria is understandable.
@@lkyhood4200TYPICAL IGNORANT COMMENT> I'VE BEEN TO OVER 49 COUNTRIES, LIVED IN 5 CONTINENTS, 21 CITIES, NIGERIA IS STILL MY TOP PLACES TO BE AND LIVE...
@@lkyhood4200 I gree come carry me comot if it's that bad sell me ur US citizenship
@@lkyhood4200 see this local champion.
Thanks for explaining everything clearly to everyone living abroad
We see how we go.
Thanks and God bless
You have an valid point. I'm not going to lie.
You are exactly correct. I'm a African American but i left America for Africa. I'm not going back. I'm retiring here and will live my life here. I love Africa. Here in Gambia it has its up and downs. But i have no REnt or mortgage or taxes. LOVE IT 🎉❤
Welcome back sibling ❤❤ May the lands of our ancestors bless and prosper you.
BACK TO AFRICA 🌍 IS WHERE IT'S AT!!
Wow how do you not pay rent?
Great 👍🏾
@Mrgoogle0Searcher-d5v if you build your house and you have land no rent or land tax. Better still if you have good real estate you don't need to work
You totally get it. I shuttle Nigeria and the UK because of family and I feel completely alive when in Nigeria. That "I can fly" and "nothing dey happen" feeling which is impossible in another man's country.
It’s like that in other parts of africa as well, that feeling of freedom.
Anybody who lives in the USA will understand his point. If only the Nigerian Government could improve on the standand of living, like electricty, good health care , good roads and security, No Nigerian will ever want to leave their Country. Nigeria Need some safety net for its people and some retirement cushion for old age. And these things are not difficult to achieve with good government and good welfare planning. Nigeria is a blessed Country, but has lacked patriotic and good management leadership since it's independence.
I agree 💯
But the young Nigerians are working hard to take over the affairs of the country from incompetent corrupted Nigerians elites that hold the country hostage, but was aborted by incompetent INEC and Nigeria judiciary, but they are still pushing forward.
Yep, for someone who lives in the USA yada yada yada! I would suggest that you stop blaming the Nigerian government for everything!
In the old days, no one blamed their traditional leaders or rulers for infrastructure; they built them themselves. No one asked for handouts, instead, they worked hard to put food on the table and roof over their heads.
Further, your host country USA wasn't built by governments but by ordinary people, including African slaves, and poor people from poverty stricken Europe.
If the government provides those amenities that you mentioned in abundance, some Nigerians would still prefer overseas to their fatherland due to inferiority mindset and lack of information.
That’s why you see A man living comfortably in Nigeria with a good job selling their properties and moved to the UK, only to get there and do factory work under a supervisor that had no college degree.
@@onthegofm1887 Good leadership breed good government. Corrupt leadership with diverse selfish interests and no clue on how to develope the Country and improve the lives of its citizens have left Nigeria in a very deplorable situation. It seem you have no idea of the duty of any government. You are comparing a village chief with a Federal government with huge Financial resources and the power to maintain security, the welfare of the people and the rule of law. Nigeria is a blessed country but have never yet got good leadership.
As an American, you are spot on with everything. Life in America is very stressful for the average person, trying to survive. In result, we have seen a huge rise in Mental Health issues. I've thought about moving to another country myself but I've also thought about what I could do to help the Mental Health crisis here.
Amazing video 👍🏾 nothing like our country of origin 🤎Am proud to be a Nigerian 🇳🇬 even if some people talk negative of Nigeria🇳🇬Nigeria 🇳🇬 is one of the best country everyone will love to stay🤎thanks for sharing 👍🏾
1. Weather
2. Security
3. Food
4. Bills
5. Tax
6. Life style
7. Cost of living
8. Opportunities
9. Easier Access to skilled technician
10. Purpose
11. Value and cultural preservation
12. Feeling of belonging
13.
Nigeria is a hope and dream of many people who have never been there. Maybe we can see for ourselves the sights sounds and taste of this part of our world.
Spent 20 years in US - moved back in 2014. Prefer Nigeria for similar reasons.
Are a green card/citizen? Pls, how do you deal with the double taxation being a dual citizen??
Dear Babylon, thank you for this video. I was brought up abroad as an infant and moved myself back to Nigeria in my 20s. I left Nigeria 3 years ago for personal reasons, and moving back this year. There is no place like home. ❤
I see a lot youthful nigerians leaving on a daily basis now even in my office, my GM once called me to ask why i havent joined them to travel, i told her all i need is time to do other things but not leaving nigeria. If one have skills, seek knowledge and cutting ones cloths in nigeria, its possible to get things right. What i discover as a nigerian youth is you cannot close your eyes to opportunities and like you said nigeria is an untailored environment where opportunities abound... But then i feel capital is one major reason why a number of youths will decide to leave first and come back later.
My son the creator will grant your father eternal peace for raising such an extraordinary young man.❤
Amen and thank you so much :)
I too have been seeing his videos for quite some time. He is really pro Africa and we need people like him for Africa to move forward. Unfortunately, many of our people in diaspora don’t wish Africa well because they want to feel justified within themselves for abandoning their roots.
@@thenigeriannomaddid you mean 1st generation Nigerian American ?
God bless Nigeria and every God fearing Nigerians richly in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth Amen 🙏💪 God bless Nigeria my mother land
Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Very true! I live in NYC and the bills are crazy! Anyways, "Japada" is cooking!
This guy makes me love my country again, like i dont think we shluld live our lives with constant pressures, there should be responsibility, yes...but also peace, thank you.
I am Kenyan and I acknowledge your experience
Thank you for chiming in. Kenya on da house :)
I live in the UK and all the points resonate with me. I am a true blooded Nigerian and I can't trade it with dollar's or pounds sterling. Good job you have done to dissect both sides of the aisle. Cheers
I love this life for you and your wife; but especially for your daughter ❤
I can totally relate to this video, I have been leaving in the USA for 18 years, there stress here is too much, it’s my dream to finally move back to Africa soon.
And the thing about this is.. most Nigerians back home don't really appreciate how good they have it as compared to other African countries.
Really? Most Nigerians I meet do not even want to go back home. My roommate at Uni did not even want to visit home, he stayed back every holiday saying it was not safe at home.
The goodness about Nigeria compared to other countries seems to mostly live on RUclips and in overly patriotic Nigerians. Because in reality we do not have Boko Haram, the daily kidnappings,. the runaway inflation and forex problems that even chased some multi-nationals like Shoprite. May be compared to the US that is suffering from severe gun-violence not African countries.
I am A.A. and I visited Africa (Ghana specifically) for the first time. He is telling you the truth. You really will not understand what it feels like to NOT BE THE OTHER until you go to your ancestors home, until you go visit Africa. Most ppl spoke English so I feel it was easier for me. I now own land and plan to visit more often and take family to visit too.
Ghana is slowly but surely turning into Atlanta/Freaknik, especially at Christmas time. Also, their president seems to be turning into a puppet of the US, especially after Kamala visited and politely gave him an ultimatum if he didn't agree to go along with their alphabet agenda. I'm VERY concerned for Ghana and the preservation of their culture and values.
Well done!
Yes, the feeling of belonging. I'm from the Caribbeans and the longing to live in Africa is quite undeniable. For those from the Caribbean, Africa represents more than just a geographical location; it's a connection to their roots, culture, and heritage. Many Caribbean traditions, languages, and cultural practices have their origins in Africa, which creates a strong sense of acceptance and nostalgia for the continent.
Moreover, Africa is incredibly diverse, with a rich tapestry of cultures, languages, landscapes, and histories. The allure of experiencing this diversity firsthand can be a powerful draw for anyone seeking a deeper connection to their heritage. I cannot wait to come for a visit, then eventually move to the continent. Great presentation!
please visit one day 🙏
@jonir.2044 💯 Very true and very well said!
All you said are easy for because you made your money in the USA. So life will be easy for you to live in Nigeria.
@@Dakereleif you can do so
@@DakereleExactly and there is nothing wrong with that. This video is for those who want to move back to Africa and have the finances or the mind to do it.
Spot on brother! People in Nigeria will never get what you are saying.
If you have money, Nigeria is the best place to be! The USA food is TRASH! The place is stressful, and opportunities are WAY LESS than in Nigeria!
your opinion we all have one im glad you 've had all the foods of America i ve had some foods of Nigeria and didn't care myself for it but there is something for everyone its too many deseases , bugs , nasty areas, there is too many scams and scammers of women by Nigerian men taking advantage of them proclaiming love too much stealing on tourist within africa this man is Nigerian its his country we know where we shop and what places to go to enjoy what we prefer and like I love and prefer the islands more so than Africa your use to what you know deal with it Lol as we do here what is stress to you is not what you observe if it was that awful we wouldn't be here there are many Africans want out from over there my Nigerian Fiancee is one he lives a nightmare over there and we can pay our rent up for one year as well many want month to month I can't wait till he gets from over there if I was this guy I would stay in Africa your African stay there you know your country stop complaining stay home lol no one pays taxes on a car every year here unless you move to another state your issue is your African you need to be there there are people for every where in America all people don't want to live near a beach they may want mountains views , or snow or warm weather or cold weather no one has to be tied down to just any thing one needs jobs in Africa lagos is killing my man there and he is business man I have 3 homes here own them and 2 AB&B there is plenty money to be made in America youve complained so much you should have never left Africa really lol
Exactly! If you have “money”. That’s the keyword. Not all Nigerians can talk his talk. It’ll be nice if they all could.
@irenegaruba48 they're talking about diasporas, not everyday Nigerians.
@@nauticdixons We are talking about middle class Nigerians! Which are in Lagos, Abuja, and most state capitals! They are all living better lives than they could live overseas.
@@Naija4Kwith other citizenships.
This is very inspiring and l think it's gonna encourage our Africa children to know that,no place like home, no matter what.
Thank you. they should at least know they have another option if they ever want something different.
Bayo, well done for this video. I relate 100% with you. Almost 40yrs in the northeast USA, I prefer Naija life . I am privileged to be able to reside at both continents at intervals.
Don’t worry if all your audience can’t gerrit!, they can forgerit😂😂
Congratulations 🎉
Baba your move is the best , people wil not understand. I’m giving all my best to live here before it accumulates. No issues yet but I want to raise my kids over there because Nigeria helps with cultural upbringing despite their own craziness
I can't wait to retire back to Nigeria. The stress in abroad is just too much
Bayo everything you said is correct. Nigeria and indeed africa still offers the best opportunities for enterpreneurs.
🤔Thanks for sharing.*Your bless to have two countries you can pick from to live in.*The great Africa is getting better each and every day. Many people from other countries are investing in the African countries.*God bless the great Africa 🙏👊🖐
2 years and counting in the US, totally related….i love the fact that you introduce your kids to both cultures and that will help them be more focused and diversified which I will love to do same for mine as well. Nice one Bayo.
Thanks for chiming in. Wow only 2 years ? It sometimes takes longer than. That for people to see what I'm saying. Well done ooh. you just have grabbed the bull by the horns quickly :)
I like the fact that you emphasized that it's "your experience " because the people who cannot relate or have not lived in both countries will start to judge and condemn this video. I am happy you are genuine and nice enough to explain this topic in a way people will understand. I agree with you 100%.
The billing system, taxes, not having enough time to distress before it's another week, genetically modified food, etc, are part of the reasons i prefer Nigeria to USA. Thanks for this video and all you do.
You are 100% right. Thank you
I love you
I myself this is my 35th year in UK. I'm 54+ and I am tired. I can't wait to come back to Mother Africa. I'm currently studying MBA Agribusiness and I'm finishing this May. I look forward to coming back and bring my expertise. See you guys soon
i think many people will continue to do this in the future. Including me although I am only 20 and was born in America but Nigerian, I would like to relocate to Nigera in my later years 70+
please let me know if you need someone to work with here in Nigeria , I am available
You are the real deal, am based in Japan ,few years ago l discovered l don’t belong here specifically when l see how some of our people still need to work like donkey in their late 50s and 60s.
Stop wasting your money doing MBA at 54 plus!
@officialasim6772 That makes sense! Build up your investments! Pension and all then live for free when you get older!
As a South African, it truly breaks my heart how Africa is generally underrated but if anything, Africa will not rebuild itself if we keep running away from it to be modernized slaves elsewhere. May the Universe reshuffle me to Nigeria because that's my African dream..... I Love My Africa and Our People...❤
america is a high pressure society compared to nigeria, stress can take you out if you dont plan properly.
Bayo is a positive Cultural Ambassador for Nigeria 🇳🇬 . The Federal Ministry of Culture and Tourism need to bring him on board in some consultancy capacity so his practical experience and exposure can be useful in Policy Formulation. A great example of a patriotic citizen.
WOW. Thank you! That would be AMAZING!
I concur
Yes I agree! I need to connect with him for sure! ❤
I absolutely agree with you. He would be an amazing Ambassador.
No. We need to encourage all the bad people to japa. Let only good and patriotic people remain in Nigeria.
Honestly, I can 100% relate , I spent 5 months of the year in Lagos and 7 months in HULL , UK , the only reasons I do the 7 months in Uk is because my property business is based here in Uk , and it’s nice to make money in pounds than Naira , but honestly Nigeria is the best, I was born Uk , spent the first 26 years of my life here, I hate the cold weather with a passion. started coming to Nigeria 10 years ago. And I have never look back. Well done Bayo .
Thank you for not giving up on your fatherland.
Own a property in Lagos as well. Don’t pay five months rent
Oh, I schooled at the University of Hull. Spent one year and 6 months there. Nice city, but back home in Nigeria and I love home.
Exactly, the cold and rain in the UK under those months of grey skies is just not nice. I an grateful that I was born and raised in London , but I don't prefer living there as an adult.
I definitely agree with your points about living in Nigeria. The ability to be your authentic self is priceless. I prefer living in Nigeria than the US also.
26 years in the United States from Sierraleone bro you are talking to me everything you said hit home,and also iam sierraleonean American born in the
state of Washington
God bless you bro. To me, western world is nothing but a modern day slavery. I live in MD USA and I’m so tired of restlessness just to pay bills. I honestly wish I never left Nigeria.
The good thing about America is the economic strength. It gives you to go to countries like Nigeria America is a good place to make money bar none. I spend over 1600 a month in rent Imagine if I was in Africa with 1600 When you look at all my bills, I spent close to $6000 a month 😢 Imagine the life I can live in Africa with $6000 a month so you have to stay connected to America to keep that income going, but by all means live in Africa where you can enjoy that money
Mr. Bayo for president! If it can happen in Senegal, it can happen in Nigeria one day. Good content as usual 👏
I’m Ghanaian and have lived in the U.S for nearly 2 decades. This video needs to go viral. Unfortunately, the average African youth won’t listen when you tell them the positives about Africa. When you HONESTLY tell them how GREAT Africa is, regardless of the challenges, they’ll ask you “why don’t you come back to Africa then”.
MANY African immigrants abroad are trapped. When they share their experiences to encourage the African youth to stay home, they assume you’re just being selfish because you already made it out of Africa.
My dad and grandma never traveled but they each worked hard in Ghana and built mansions through entrepreneurship.
It’s so sad that the African youth doesn’t listen to those who have lived abroad for so long with experiences and understanding of living abroad. No one is being selfish living abroad and doesn’t want you to come. The MAJORITY are telling you the truth about living abroad.
Let them keep fooling themselves. My attitude to those who think that way is go and find out and each to their own. Africa has potential just because there are negative things there are also positive things. No where is perfect. I used to say my body was in Europe but my spirit never left Africa.
@@gerardonochie3408 Growing up, my dad used to say “he’ll never travel but will succeed in Ghana”. And YES! He did. All his friends who traveled abroad can’t compete with his success. His house is bigger than all his friends who traveled in the 80s and 90’s.
My dad is 64 yrs old but looks 55. His friends all look like they’re almost 80 yrs old and some came back home and died. I understood my dad better after my first 10 yrs in the U.S.
Why would you ask someone not to travel? It's not good. Encourage people to travel so they can experience things for themselves. If you didn't travel, there's no way you'll be able to think the way you do now, to make comparisons and draw your own conclusions. If Africans don't travel, they'll think there's something out there they're missing and won't appreciate what they have. Encourage people to travel.
@@afamefunaibeabuchi873 I don’t ask people anything. However, I share my experiences with family members and close friends back in Ghana. I have 3 friends who listened to me and after a few years are doing EXTREMELY well for themselves in Ghana.
If someone ask me what life is abroad, I’m transparent and it’s up to them to make their own decisions.
I don't know what you are talking about? There are so many opportunities in the US despite the racism! You can easily raise capital! Its so easy!
Great talk & experience bro. Just like you said, every right thinking person that have stayed abroad, will prefer Nigeria to western world. No place like home bro. Great job!!!
Boyo my son! blessed is the womb that brought you to this part of the world Nigeria I love you for who you are you the best God bless you and keep you safe ❤❤❤❤❤
Amen. Thank you so much!
Ah, finally God Almighty has sent you to bring light into this. Nigerians back home don't get it, they think oh you don't want us to come. Have been telling my children am ready to move back home. God bless you.
It is hard to understand oooh. one just has to experience it. Thank you :)
No matter what you say they can't listen to diaspora because some Nigerians also want to go and make the money like you do then come back.
I like the way you emphasized the fact that the video is about those of us living in the U.S. I have lived in the US for 30 years and still can not think less of Nigeria. You never know until you have lived here long enough to be able to make that comparison. Thank you for the video.
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
I'm only a few years in Canada and I'm sick of it already
@@giftedchild9490 No place like home. No matter how long we live in the foreign country, we will never be one of them.
Excellent and the raw bitter truth about living in the diaspora. Your last point is so true. I was telling my younger cousin who just relocated to Canada that no matter how long she stays in the West it will truly never feel like home..
It's the truth.america🇺🇸 isn't easy, the hussle/hussling is real..my nija🇳🇬 is beautiful👍🔥
Good afternoon, are you in American
I will like to share contact with you
@Bayo, please this was really a good content, I am also relocating soon to Nigeria, the only one issue i have with your lovely video, is please can we Stop saying some third world countries, there are no such words as third world or second world or first world, someone made those labels, just as the 3 to 1 in America constitution. Instead use the name of the country you are speaking about or referring to. This is my opinion, I could not stay in New York for two weeks, because Nigeria for me was better, because the amount of beggars was just too much in so many of the streets in New York.
Thank you. I have had a few people correct me on this. Note taken for sure.
Canada is worse bro... I have shifted my mind and hope to go back home sometime soon
How😂😂😂
Hello Bayo watching you from America Phoenix Arizona always enjoy your videos enjoy you speaking your truth as well. When I come to Africa to visit on the continent different countries I don't think about the police officers or a lot of crime so you're so right about that. Thank you for sharing.
MY BRO, YOU NO DEY LIE EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS THE GOSPEL TRUTH!!!
Thank you oooh
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Everything you've mentioned I can attest to 100%, having lived in the UK for many years. I just can't wait to go back home. At least, it's for my blood pressure.
You've said it! If I were from Nigeria, I would be preparing to board the next plane! I hear you - lucky you!
Don’t take it too seriously. He already has something’s in place. A lot of Nigerians are coming from zero.
Bro. You are spot on. Please tell them. Africans dont have an idea how blessee they are. Its so sad they still accept to be mental slaves and in many ways physical slaves in places that in nature is no where close to this blessee mother land.
Hiwever personally i cant stand the chaos in Lagos... But yeah. In Nigeria you have peace of mind.
We are waiting for the japa brothers and sister to taste the Jand or Yankee they crave. Those with any honor and self respect with agree with all you have talked about... Praying many more of us will get to realise this and build out nation. God bless Africa and Nigeria in particular bro.
But Lagos is not Nigeria. There is Ibadan, Enugu, Port Harcourt, Abeokuta, Calabar, Abuja etc which are not stressful or as chaotic as Lagos. Nice take though
Lagos like all mega cities, NYC, Sao Paulo, Tokyo, Seoul are hectic. But other parts of their countries are more tranquil.
I was born in UK but i also go to Nigeria for holiday every year now i don't feel like living in UK anymore is just to cold for me to much stress and lonely life nobody want to know what you are going true.
i feel your pain, I pray God help you out soon
You’re on point. My ex-husband is Nigerian. After he arrived to the US 🇺🇸 he began misbehaving to the point I could not stay married to him. All along I don’t think he ever loved me and now he’s here without help. Very foolish decision to say the least. People think this is some fairytale magical place and it’s not. I very much enjoyed visiting Nigeria and wish that my marriage was real because I was looking forward to going back and forth and having that experience for the rest of my life.
Sorry about that.😖
Hi Bayo.
Good day to you over there.
My name is Olajide.
I'm living in Sydney Australia 🦘🌏.
Originally from Abeokuta Ogun state Nigeria.
But growing up in Ikeja Lagos state.
I can attest to what you are saying here.
Australia is far more expensive to live than the USA.
At least 50 percent of your income in Australia goes to taxes.
Me too I'm moving back from Australia to Africa this year.
As you have mentioned that there are many business opportunities in Africa.
Yes that's very true.
But many of we Africans don't see that at all.
I'm coming to Africa with my business ideas on how to solve Agriculture post harvest loses.
I want to come to Africa to start building Stationary and Mobile Cold Storage facilities for food 🥑🥝 preservation.
I've been working on this project for more than 15 years.
Anyway hope to meet you someday in Nigeria.
Have a great time over there in Nigeria.
Will like to connect with you sir
What's your WhatsApp
Same here. I have spent 24 years in Australia, and I am moving back home as well.
@@sly-moore3184 50 percent of your income? That is intense! I thought we have bad here in the USA
We needed that bro like right now and another of that here
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
The Sense of Belonging is most impactful for me. Many of the other issues raised, absolutely resonates but frankly, 'Belonging' is most important. Imagine having the blood of the ancestors who've been in the Diaspora since the 16th century - and still not feel like we belong. I am happy that you are safely home. I worry about naïve Africans who chance coming here.
What blood? Culture = belonging. You won’t belong anyone in Africa except maybe a highly Westernized country eg South Africa.
Well said!! I willl be 46yr by May 8th, Bin here in Korea for 10yrs and been home twice, one thing i am 100% sure is that my return story will end well that is my plead daily to God n d Universe!!Gotten over 150plots of land already set forbreal estate, now embarking on another palmoil tree plantation for 12acres of land as my retirement investmenrt. If u japa 4rm naija with a mindset to go hustle n return back home, it will come to past n u wil enjoy dekay gratification with ease but if is to travel to fit in into their system then one has enslaved him or herself. I pray everyone abroad return wen due with good stories!!!
Im an American African from NYC and I can relate to every single one of those. The feeling of security is something I never really felt living in the US
I have sent your video to my son and my nephew who are half Nigerian. My DNA says I am 37% Nigerian. I will move to Nigeria. I want house help and a driver that Nigeria I can have. In Texas there's no tax on food. I probably will live in Akwa Ibom state. I have support groups in Lagos and Akwa Ibom. I want the organic foods without toxic additives. I LOVE THE WEATHER TOO!! Many relatives will come visit when I move to Nigeria oh.
Just prayerfully connect with the right people and you will be okay. We still have honest and God-fearing people in Nigeria that can help you without ripping you off.
I'm from akwa Ibom. I feel proud you mentioned Akwa Ibom..
You'll love your stay in Akwa Ibom trust me...
Currently I live in Port Harcourt with my family.
I'll be glad to connect if you make up your mind to come around.
Please explore other African countries before going to Nigeria. Nigeria is not a safe place to reside. That is all I have to say.
Akwa Ibom is save and beautiful
@@MartinPublic
My friend and her family moved back to Nigeria after 30+ years in the US. Going on 10 years now, and she wouldn't change a thing. Of course it helps that she has an American passport so she can't get out any time she wants.
Whenever she comes to the US, she can't wait to get back to Nigeria.
TRUTH, there's no doubt in all you have said, alot people in Nigeria would not agree with you base on the facts that they have not lived in the west, I will like to say if you have anything you are you doing back home, maybe you are working or doing business, and you can take care of your needs, I think I will advice that you should not move, I know many will not understand until they come abroad.
Excellent points! I have lived in the US for more than 43 years. I agreed with all your 12 reasons for preferring to live in Nigeria over America. Good job.
I can say that what you have discussed here is very similar to the UK. In fact VAT in the UK is 20%, therefore, everything you buy in the shop or supermarket has a VAT of 20%. How can I like your video over 1000 times. Especially, having access to a variety of food, technical artisans and the socialisation. Also the opportunities to make a positive impact in the community.
My dear Bayo. I am. Nigerian, who has lived all my life in Nigeria and will continue to live in Nigeria. This JAPA mentality has never been me. I have never been interested in leaving this country even though i have the opportunity to do so. Never even played visa lottery. This video is an eye opener for a lot of Nigerians who think "the grass is greener on the other side". I hope they see this video and understand that e no easy anywhere. As for me "yours truly", I DIE HERE OO!
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Good for you. Please also try to be buying Nigerian made products to prove your love for Nigeria. God bless you.
We share similar mindset. People with our like minds might not be many but at least we exist. Naija we die here😅.
Thank you for making this video. All you video inspired me a lots. I have been in Australia for 18 years and visiting Nigeria, but now l am set to go home . White will never give you a sense of belonging, no matter how hard you work .
I am tired of stressful life doing one thing every day , Nigeria has many opportunities, and l love it
Thank you
Every single point you made resonated with me I think 🤔 you are my twin from another mother😂. I grew up in the United States from age 9 and now am 42. My family and I are planning to make the move with our children. We have purchased our farm land and we are tired of America and ready to explore new opportunities in Nigeria no matter the challenges we face we are ready. Thank you for this video it's great to see people like us talk positively about Nigeria not only the challenges but the potential it can bring. Thank you again I love all your videos.
@abbyakinnola - Your eyes have been opened and you are making a very wise decision for you and your family. May every venture you undertake in your homeland be abundantly successful and may you and your family prosper and have peace.
@@LuvvMyBrownSkinAmen 🙏
I can only say thank you for this video. I am a Nigeria/German living in Germany. It’s sometimes like living in an open Jail. Your video is great & on point. Love it bro❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Uhhh i am indian living in uae i think nigeria is a beautiful place and tropical good for summer
That's a lie. It's not a trap. Some Nigerians don't have to be in the US. They go to the US expecting to find free bucks on the street, being very lazy. Hard-working Nigerians who have figured the US system out do make it really big and would never slam the US. Many Nigerians go to the States with the 419 mindset, and when it fails, they give all sorts of silly excuses bad-mouthing the US. This guy Bayo is winning because he's a lazy guy. He never mentioned the specific job or level of education he did in the US. He likes living near the beach; Wow! he can't afford that in the US if he does not work hard enough. And if he continues to compare the US to Nigeria. He obviously doesn't want to respect the US's regulatory system, which makes the US great.
Honestly, at first, I almost wrote whatever your reasons were off out of prejudice, but on a second thought, I felt to give you a listening ear. To a great extent, you're correct. However, I beg to differ when it comes to security and a few other things I'll highlight later.
Just one kidnapping of a family member, loved one or one's self would change your position on security in a heart beat. Even if you lose your life in America due to one violence, there's always a closure but in 9ja, even the security agencies will help frustrate your efforts and all those will have significant psychological impact on you for the rest of your life.
I was born and raised in 9ja. I even worked in 9ja for almost a decade before relocating to the UK (staging location) and the US eventually. I also schooled in the US where I also work as well. My point is that I've lived in most countries Nigerians flock to including our home land where I spent 30 years with nothing to show for it.
US has a very solid system that one can plan with and it's almost guaranteed. 9ja on the other hand is chaotic. Being that US system is well organized, you need to learn how to live in the US like a wealthy American versus an African living in America. Even though you might start off as an employee in the US but your goal is to become a business owner that way, you maximize the benefits of living in America.
I'm an InfoTech professional and also a real estate investor. For example, if you structure your business properly within the real estate sector (highly recommended) and acquire real estate property with no money down and by using the "own nothing but control everything strategy," you can have others pay all your living expenses in America while you live rent free and that includes your vehicle. You can't replicate that in 9ja. Let's say you have a similar investment in 9ja, once that 1st year rent expires, you'll start hearing "stories that touch."
Healthcare is almost zero in 9ja. For those who praise 9ja, it's only in good times. When things go south, 9ja will flip on you. Government doesn't even know their job description and there's lack of accountability at every level in the society including but not limited to religious circles which I consider the last beckon of hope.
I'm routing for you to succeed. However, I don't wish to be in 9ja. Maybe another relatively stable African country with an acceptable degree of sanity in their polity.
Good luck bro.
I am in Nigeria 3x every year for 1 month each time. I cannot wish to live somewhere else. I have been in US for years and the life seems like a revolving door after a while just waiting to retire. Nigeria to me is a new lease on life especially when you have access to earn in dollars. But I can understand the challenges for those living, working and earning in local currency. To enjoy Nigeria, first of all is to have a way to earn in dollars/pounds/euro and you will live heaven on earth.
Hi Bayo, I discovered your first video during the pandemic and I have watched your videos on/off since. Even though I'm not Nigerian, I can relate to everything you mentioned in this video. I live in Canada and I came to this country as a teenager, with my parents but never feel like I belong here. Whenever, I go back home to visit, I never want to come back to Canada. I like the work that you are doing and you are an inspiration.
I agree with you even as a born British I had to move back to live in Nigeria with my son for 10 years but sadly I had to move back to support hime through the rest of his education as I am his only parent. However, we both are looking to come back and I'm back for good by God's grace no turning back. I relate with all your points, very valid.
People that haven’t lived outside Nigeria will find it difficult to understand these points. You were spot on on everything.
Are you guys trying to brainwash people that Nigeria is a better place to live than other countries, especially the US? This is nonsense and can only be pushed by lazy Nigerians like the host of this channel himself.
But one thing I've noticed is that all the people who are claiming Nigeria is so wondeful are those who've first had the opportunity to establish themselves abroad and then are going back on their own terms Maybe after having been educated at well respected foreign institutions and then worked for big brands and have good experience, or they have ways of making money where they live in Nigeria but earn US dollars. Or they have some capital to set up businesses. Most times you find people still need to leave again value outside of the country before they are able to come back and enjoy the good life. They are not showing people who cant afford school fees for their kids or whole families living in one room. They are just showing how a very small fraction of the population live. How many average people are enjoying all the high end experiences he is enjoying?
@@theautohabit6062 He made it clear in his video that these are his perspectives. I can relate to his perspective. Everyone should look for opportunities where they think is best for them (Nigeria or abroad).
@@theautohabit6062 Thanks for your logical response. I agree with you 100%. This guy, Bayo, is disingenuous; your comment attended to that correctly. Bayo would be nobody in Nigeria had he not gotten the education and exposure from a first world country, that's the USA. The Nigerian oppressive thing is to go abroad, educate, get work experience, and return home to brag and lie to the poor masses who may never have the chance to visit the US. Finally, it's very wrong to compare a very poor, 3rd world country, like Nigeria, to the most capitalist, 1st world country in the world. thanks again.
@@explorewithchike yes for sure. But what he didnt make clear is the context to his perspectives. The fact that he has returned from a first world country armed with what he needs to reap the 'opportunities' he can now see in Nigeria. In fact on the one hand he is absolutely right. There are actually so many more opportunities to make money in Nigeria. It's way more fluid and with less barriers than countries like UK, Canada and US. In those countries you pretty much only have the option of working hard and trying to get as high up the corporate ladder so that you can earn as much as possible. Nigeria on the other hand has so many hidden gem opportunities to even become rich. BUT the issue seems to be that you need a clear head, and not be suffering in the first place and have the right exposure, experience, education or funds to take advantage of them. There are so many people who have never left Nigeria and are just making ends meet, living from day to day. Fi ding small money here to pay rent, for transport, to buy fuel for the gen, to pay school fees, to take care of mama and papa in the village, to find money for hospital treatment when a family member is sick, to do all the bribing required to get anything done in Nigeria. And so on and so forth. They are not blind or stupid. They know there are opportunities but they dont have the means to take advantage of them. But if I come over from UK or US, well fed, with some cash in the bank, maybe I might even have a property abroad. My family are not suffering. And I am secure in the knowledge that if it doesnt work out I can pick up my foreign passport and return to where I came from. Such a person will have clarity of mind and the means to take up the many opportunities available in Nigeria. I also noticed he has an accent. So does that mean he wasnt 'born' in the US? Where was he born? Did he leave Nigeria at some point? Why did he leave his country of origin in the first place? Was th weather not hot when he was born?
You were called by the ancestors to come back home, because at this very moments is when our people need us the most. This is why you feel so much fulfilment. ❤
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This is a well packaged video on the reasons one should still consider Nigeria as a place to relocate/retire to when need be. Living in the west (Europe/USA) isn't for the faint of hearts. Consequently, one must be mentally, psychologically, spiritually prepared, that's why some of our people are "trampled" by the extreme pressures associated with this part of the world. Africa, on the other hand, though less developed, will give you the calm, sense of belonging, reassurance, good weather, good food, cultural affirnity e.t.c you won't get elsewhere as an African. Who nor go nor know. Thanks for sharing.