Moving in New York was a NIGHTMARE 😭 Packing up, flying away & sharing my future plans
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
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Here's a new video about my moves 🤪This time, I'm moving out of my beautiful apartment in New York, putting my things in storage, and setting off to travel for a couple of months. I'll show you everything that happened, including costs, apartment hunting in NYC, packing, and my honest emotions 🫠
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00:00 - A day exploring NYC
02:25 - Watching American Ballet
03:50 - It’s time to start packing
05:25 - A dinner with my friends
06:41 - Everything went wrong
09:00 - Getting a present to my mom
11:00 - What I’m bringing to Russia
12:25 - I’m not okay
14:10 - Last day in New York
18:18 - Flying to Moscow
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Great you got everything done. You can relax a bit after the flight! Don't know if Russia is getting the European heat wave - have a great summer! 😃❤
You put your stuff in storage for three months, so are you gonna come back to America to get your stuff back from the storage?
@@taasmr4203 I’ll be back for at least one year to finish my masters :)
@DariStep Hopefully, I will see you in person in New York or in Chicago. If life gives me a chance, then I will invite you for lunch or dinner in New York or in Chicago.
Can you show your feet more?
As an old guy settled down for a long time, I smile at the 'life' issues you are going through. Most of us have been there, and yes, it SUCKS and is stressful at the time!!!! But the future is better. Thanks for sharing!!!! Keep 'em comin'!!!
More to come soon 😊
Dasha your radiance, resilience and positive attitude will ensure many many more happy days ahead. Moving is a nightmare for everyone and I’m sure most of your viewers (myself included) can share in your anxiety of this experience. It made me so happy to see you reunited with your beloved dog!! I hope you have a great and relaxing summer at home in Moscow. Peace and love from Canada!!!
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Thanks a lot!!!!
@@DariStepyes dogs are the best...look at my baby..anyway...best of luck from Florida
Your honesty is one of the reasons we all keep coming back, Dari. I'm glad you got back safely, but hate that you went through the emotional roller coaster 🎢 that you did. Know you can always reach out for people that will gladly listen and support you in whatever ways we can. You're going to have a great summer and you'll get a great apartment when you get back to NYC. Good things happen to good people, so for you, amazing lies ahead. 😊
Thanks a lot for your support ☀️
Moving is the pits, stress no end. Fit it in a car in college 40 years later it’s 85 cu m. And growing. Hope all goes well in Europe. Chocolate solves a lot of problems. Great video, Dari. Thanks.
Enjoy your video! Have a safe trip home! Let me just say you might be the first person on this planet who actually bought a huge bag of doggie food and fly it all the way from NY to Moscow! this might be a world record of some kind!!
Ahahahhaha probably
You just reminded me of the time when I had such good roommates and such a great apartment and the nicest people and we all had to move out. We didn't really but the oldest ones they wanted to live like grown ups for a change and stop living like students. I had three roommates the second year the first year I had four roommates. We had one bathroom. It was a long walk to get to the bus but it was a nice neighborhood which I probably never actually saw. And I learned that the streets and the sidewalks are sort of tilty. When the rain falls and it turns to ice on the sidewalk you just slide sideways and you try to hold on to the bushes so that you won't fall down. It's nice you have storage. My brother has storage. In addition to everything else that's in the house and in the front yard and on the back porch and in the living room and in the garage and in his bedroom. He also has storage. I think he has furniture. In his room he has a desk and a chair and a bed and there's a shelf but some of that stuff is mine or Dennis's and a filing cabinet which is also mine. Dennis got a lot of stuff in his room. We just pretend that it's New York and we build up. Shelves tall bookcases. Up. You reminded me of something else but I already forgot. Oh well. Dog food I'm sure it had something to do with the dog food. Oh I remember! Your dog is still alive! That's so good. One of my ducks died last October. She was nine. It's okay. The next day after we buried her, I heard little peeping noises and there were ducklings. I didn't expect ducklings. All of our eggs did not hatch. We threw away so many nests and then one duck in the corner had babies. So tiny and so cute. And at such an inconvenient time. But my brother helped a little. And Dennis was on vacation. But he got home the day after.
Thank you for sharing :)
Thanks for sharing the last days in New York, I can imagine it is a very emotional and stressful experience. Enjoy the time at home with family and friends and later have a wonderful summer in Europe!
Thanks Jeroen 🙏🏼
Thanks for sharing your last days in NYC before break. Moving is always very stressful and I always cry. Hope you have a great trip back to family and Lucky.
Thank you so much!
So excited to get an update from you! Moving in general is proven to be one of the most stressful, traumatic, situations one experiences in their lives. However, things will improve and you will find another nice apartment, I'm sure of lt. Just remember how doubtful you were before you found the first one and you finally found one after all.
Truuue! Thanks 😊
Ohhh dari I felt every emotion with this vlog, I has tears because of your tears but I've followed you for a long time now , and I've got to see what an absolutely amazing person you are ....so strong but more than that you are a great women and an example to all of us ...enjoy your time back at home ...God bless you always ...le over in the uk 🇬🇧 😊
Thank you so much!!
@@DariStep it's always a pleasure dari xxx
At least you got to stay a few months in NYC, which is longer than most of the world who would kill for that opportunity. Plus you made many friends. Good luck with your new job.
Ahahah I will be back :)
Wow , such an emotional video. Glad you are back with Lucky. Enjoy what you can while being ' home' .
Doing my best for that 😌
Thanks for sharing your adventures. Safe travels and hope you find a place for your own.
Thank you 🙏🏼
So glad Dari that you were able to travel back home and see your dog, family and friends. That's always a mood pick me up. Hope you have a great summer. Looking forward to future videos. Stay safe and well and above all stay positive.
Thanks a lot 😌
Hi Dasha, you have my thumbs up and here is my comment: You win the record for packing the most emotion into one vlog! Finishing things and moving out is super bittersweet and heart-rending and I can truly relate as I can still remember my last days in University. After four years, saying bye to your friends with whom you shared a special bond of common experiences was so enotional. You do such an amazing job communicating this. I'm so sorry you have to go through so much stress on so many levels and thank goodness for great friends by your side! Sorry your Amazon package for your friend was stolen, sorry you almost misplaced your passport with little time left before departure - that must have put you under so much duress. And I know it is extremely difficult to find housing in the heart of NYC! You have done an incredible job thus far and I hope and pray for your best in all things from here on out.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭
Have a lovely summer, Dari.
Thank you! You too!
Dari, enjoy your visit back home! I'm sure it will be great to see your Mom and family after being away for some time. Relax and enjoy your break! You will be back before you know it! I'm looking forward to all of your future video's. I love them all! You do amazing content!❤❤❤😊
Thanks so much ☺️
@@DariStep ❤️❤️❤️❣️☺️
Thank you for sharing your life Dari. This was another well put together, honestly emotional video. Best wishes going forward, ❤
Thank you 😊
You and my 7 year old daughter have the same tastes! Gelato, pizza, and “The Greatest Showman”!!! I’m serious. That’s her favorite. I’m so sorry you had such a challenging exit from NYC. Change is so very hard, but without change there is no growth and new adventures. As always, if you are ever back in DC area, know you have a friend if need be. Bon Voyage!!!
Thank you ☺️
have a great summer with your family 🥰 new york will be waiting for you in september 😋
please 🙏 keep yourself SAFE always and come back SOON!
Enjoyed the video.and Have a safe trip to Europe. I hope you are able to return. I only say due to bad relationships of our countries.
I hope so too!
I can relate to your stress, as someone who used to move around a lot. If you're not in a clear state of mind, sometimes other bad things start to happen because we're not focused. Sometimes it's best to just relax, and take things one step at time. You will see, things will get better, because in life, they usually always do. Good luck on your travels!
True 👌🏼 thank you
Oh Shit! Sophia is still alive! So good to hear🙂 Her channel just kind of disappeared.🤔 I was worried she got kidnapped, or worse, married😂
Thanks for sharing your journey with us, can't wait to see what happens next.
You can cook for me any day. Wait, that sounded rude, I mean, that looked delicious.
Packing dogfood is both super sweet and kinda silly. You're the best.😅
Hi Dasha. Greetings from Dallas, Texas. I myself in the in the process of moving to Moscow. Note: I lived there 2008 to 2014.
Good luck 🍀
Humm. Humm. Humm. Humming relieves anxiety and stress. Seriously, look it up. Sooth your vargas nerve: humm your favorite song.
I love classical ballet too vs interpretative dance. Russian ballet is excellent and one of the best!
Hi Dari,pleased you found your passport and arrived safly after the up and downs you had on you last few days in the USA ,hope your well,hi to your family,take care
Thank you!!!
🩰 Your pasta meal looks really interesting,I will try it 😊 Good luck Darli.
Hope you like it!
I just moved myself back in April after living for 20 years in another location, so I feel for you. Moving is a colossal pain in the butt. Rest and recuperate this summer. We all look forward to your future adventures. 😘
Thank you 😊
You got it done theirs a lot to take in I read one time that moving is one of the most stressful things they said on par with getting divorce even probably little harder when new York is so nice this time of year but Moscow allso looks like amazing weather and you get to baby boy so hoping all is better and look forward to seeing you from Russia and Portugal
Yeah I know how that feels. All of this video. Nije dobro 💔💔💔. Anyway, wish you all the best.
Thank youuu
Dari, I know you’re sad to be leaving your apartment and the US for a while. But you’ll have a great time this summer and will be back in the fall for more adventures. And we’ll be here waiting and happy you’re back. Sure you’ll find a good new apartment in the fall. Bon voyage, and until then 👍🏻 PS Feast of Corpus Christi June 16&19 & Nativity of Saint John the Baptist June 24.
That's the plan!
I hate apartment hunting by myself. I’ve always had kind people find me the place to live that wouldn’t have occurred to me. Dari, next time, use people you meet as a resource to find the best place for you…. don’t try to to do it all by yourself! Best wishes on your journey home to Russia! 😊
And there are also so many Russian women like you who are married to American men and they settle down in America and they says that they generally likes each and every things in America
I loved your outfit in the video! It really shows your open-mindedness, which is such a great quality for you.
Chicago has everything New York has but As a rule it will be half as large
I see you have the same video light I do.
If you are in Chicago again we have a war memorial, A WW2 plane ( The same type used by butch O Hare ) The plane has been moved though. Not quite sure where it is now, And We have a catholic chapel in the airport. I think this all is in terminal 2
I enjoyed this video be well...
Glad to hear it :)
Ya, I truly hate moving. It's just the worst. It probably won't be as it was the first time. Maybe some subscribers could help line you up with apts to look at before you get back.
Being Grateful for your travels and the the cool things and people you met will help you with your anxiety. Have fun Dari
Thank you!
That sandwich would be two meals for me as well Dari. It's huge! 🥪
my greatest fear is misplacing my passport - I was freaking with you -
Its such a relief when you find important documents that you've misplaced. When it happened to me I felt like going out and celebrating!
Thanks!
Jeez, I could feel your passport stress. Good Luck. Greetings from the Netherlands.
Thank you!!!
Oh, I was crying with you when you thought you'd put your passport in storage. I'm glad it turned out okay.
So much food for Lucky. He'll have enough for a year. 😂
Good luck Dari.
Ahahah it’s just for a month and a half 🥲
Gorgeous noggis!
Was Lucky happy to have you back home?
Ohhh so happy 😁
Moving and packing home is just horrible. Not knowing where you are going to live is also very stressful. I´ve just been through all this too so can totally sympthasize. But you will figure out bit by bit.
Thank you!!!
@@DariStep Sorry if I missed it, but what will you be doing from August? Will you be coming back to NY and continuing to study?
I'm enjoying your journey. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
I liked the pasta!
Living and learning 👍
Dari, good luck in obtaining a new visa! I wish you the best! ❤ ❤ Continued safe travels.
Thank you so much!!
@@DariStep 👍👍
I wish you stayed here in the USA best of luck in scholarship in Europe we loved having you here in the USA
I’ll be back 😎
Do you think you would move to the States and live there permanently or would you miss your home in Russia too much?
I’m not sure I’ll end up settling down in any of these countries 😊
Dari, My eyes were watering after seeing what you cooked. I look forward to the future streams. Please take care of yourself and be safe!
Customs is going to have some questions about that bag of dog food. They may have to test a few nuggets! 😂
Fortunately there were no questions 😂😂
Damn you have the best videos , that was amazing . All I can say is that somehow, don't know how but things always work out for you. Same thing happens to me . We have the same luck. Sorry about the stolen gift . I hate people that steal. I always have Amazon deliver to a drop box now and it's worked out. I also do the free delivery and 9 times out of 10 it shows up early. Have fun in Russia . I think it's around that time when we should all buy you some coffee.
Thank you ☺️ it means a lot!
Thankyou for posting a link to @CrazyRussianSergey's video in your community page about the day you spent showing him around Moscow. I now feel that I know what you did after you shot this video.
I was wondering if you'd be coming back to the US to finish your studies. You've barely dipped your toe in the ocean that is the US. You couldn't see it all in a lifetime.
Last night I made this recipe exactly as it's shown except I didn't have a kitchen torch.
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I had a one pound piece of salmon which I didn't cut up. I always like lots of sauce. It was so delicious I ate the whole thing, it was the only think I ate all day. It was slightly spicy probably due to some chilli in the BK seasoning. I'm no fan of chardonnay (I'm in the ABC club, Anything But Chardonnay) but with salmon it's a match made in heaven.
So, have a nice summer and I'm looking forward to following your adventures.
Das Vadalia.... Vidalia is a mild sweet yellow onion grown in Georgia in the USA 🐕🙂
Thanks!
I hope you have a wonderful summer with your family and Lucky. Look forward to your return back to NY.
Thank youuuu
I enjoyed this video. Wherever you are, enjoy the summer.😊❤
Thank you! You too!
Arr Dari I just wanted to come and give you a big hug and cuddle and make all your problems and worries, so hope to see yoou very soon .
Thanks for your support ☀️
You are very strong and very beautiful. Respect.
Thanks and I hope you back to the USA in the next year or two. Be Safe.
Will be there in two months 😃
Safe Travels Dari, when you get home please give us a tour of your hometown, and the eateries and unique places there 👍
Will do!
I see a American Russian couple, the Russian woman was married to a American guy almost 16 years ago and they are living with happiness and they have three kids
Dari, moving places is always stressful, especially when you’ve been in one place for a while. It’s always fascinating how much one can accumulate “junk” in a short period of time. Sending you good vibes for your next abode hunt! 🍀
Thank you 🙏🏼
did the rent include utilities (gas, electricity)? Excellent editing, btw.
No :(
So nice to be thinking of a gift for your dog, to be filling an entire suitcase with it! 🙂
Moving is one of the most stressful things. 😖
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Enjoyable video, Dari. Sad to see you leave for a while , but we definitely want you to return! I have learned so much about New York City by watching your videos. So happy you found your passport! So mad that someone stole your Amazon package. You certainly did go through an emotional roller coaster, but you're now home with family and friends and Lucky. You titled your video, "Goodbye New York." Did you know that there was a Hollywood film titled "Goodbye New York?" Released in 1985, it's a charming movie about a smart, adventurous, independent woman. Sound familiar? I think you'll enjoy it if you haven't seen it already.
Thank you a lot ☀️
Very beautiful and emotional vlog.
Thank you!
Did you all lose your deposit since you moved out before lease end?
No, it was returned :)
@@DariStep the landlord was not mad that you left before the year lease was up? Usually landlords keep the deposit if that happens.
Moving is rough. I’ve made a number of moves across the United States and the work and logistics involved can feel overwhelming. You can’t help but get emotional over it. Glad you made it home, safe and sound. Enjoy your time among family and friends, and enjoy your summer in Europe. Don’t get too anxious about having to find a new apartment in NYC in August. Just take it as it comes and enjoy your current adventures.
Thank youuu
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I'm actually at Niagara Falls right now as I write this message. I was inspired to go by your visit earlier this year, so thanks! Best wishes to your family and Lucky
So cool!
Lucky is lively and healthy looking, great ! 😸
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I wish you had a fundraiser because your followers could probably have helped pay for the rent through the summer. I think you once said you wanted to move to another part of town though. You’ll find something nice when you return. Have a wonderful time in Russia and Portugal) with your summer course. Love you! ❤
Thanks a lot Elyse! I really appreciate it 🙏🏼
Truly have a safe journey I for one cannot wait for you to come back sending my love..🌹❤️🌹🖖
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As a life long Nyoker upper east side Manhattan...and older about to retire...New York city is gone. I lived the great greed is good era of the 80's but I believe it all died in the mid 2000's. The 1970's were rough to but I was young and didn't have anything to compare it to. I'm going to move to Italy in a few years......America itself isn't recognizable to me anymore....its getting to be one giant strip club. There is the facade of if ..but its just everyone is trying to get at your money.
Good luck with your move 🍀
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It was so nice to see you reunited with your baby boy. And you thought you might not ever see him again. Stay safe and best wishes.
Thank you so much!
You are not staying in America?
I feel so sorry
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Good luck. You work so hard all the time. I, we, know you will succeed. Have a great time with family, friends and of course with your dog.
Thank you so much!
It is always better to sellout heavy items and carry cash, instead hiring a storage. 80% of people will never comeback and claim 😂
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Glad you got to see your dog again! 🐶 Also glad you’re missing the horrific hot weather in NYC (1 week of 95 degree weather 🥵)
Ahahah happy to be out of the city at this weather lol
My wife needs to go to Moscow, yet since July 1st, we can not exchange the US dollar for the Russian Ruble because of the Russian counter-sanction against the confiscation of Russian assets in the EU. A credit card issued in Japan doesn't work because of the sanction, thus she needs to bring Chinese Yuan.
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Very happy Dari to see that everything went well in the Usa and naturally also your uni studies. I think you''ll find another nice flat in New York! Wish you to spend some wonderful days in Europe and in Russia, too. Wish you all the best Greetings from Italy💕🌷⚘️🪻
Thank youuuu
We will miss you sweet Dari
Did you check if any of your friends are looking for a new apartment to room with? Or maybe someone needs a new person for someone who mived out? I would spread the word for all your friends to ask their friends to consider you. Alot of great apartments are found through friends, contacts, word of mouth. This way the other roommates could do the initial review and send you the final picks to help decide. Enjoy your summer🌞☀️🌞
You are amazing! Bon voyage and have a beautiful summer!
Thank you so much!!
Too many moves in my life and the first few were stressful. Then I learned to buy a U-Haul truck and car carrier and even pay people to pack and unpack my stuff or to get a few friends to help pack. First to Warren, OH area of Ohio then to Canton area of Ohio then to Cleveland then to Milwaukee, WI then New Castle, PA and then back to Cleveland then to Ft Wayne, IN and then finally to the Marysville area of Ohio to get married. I have been here the longest of anywhere in my life because my wife won't leave her daughter. We did move to Oklahoma for about 3 years but then right back to our house in Ohio that we never sold. ( we rented it to our daughter. At the same time she needed to move out we just happened to need to move in) After so many moves you become numb to moving and leaving friends and acquantances. Not exactly the way to become in your emotions as it is worse in some ways than becoming emotional about a move. It does make you a resilant person who can make new friends easily and adapt to new places. Seemingly, moving from place to place has become part of modern life as life has become unstable. I am not the only person to move so many times in a life time , especially if a person is in a technical profession. Life is a journey, not a destination. What counts is how well you travel the journey, what kind of person you become & how you treat others. Always remember that on your death bed you are not going to bemoan the fact that you did not spend enough time at work to get a few extra dollars or the fact that you kept in contact with all the people you met along your journey. If anything you will regret not keeping in contact with the people you met along the way.
Thanks for sharing ☺️
Aw dari this is so bittersweet!! I empathise with how mixed the feelings would be. It seemed like such an amazing experience! Sending love
Thanks for your support 🫶🏼
Really, 10 months is all you need for NYC. I personally was ready to leave after the first week.
Well I believe we all are different! I lived NYC
The last time I moved, I had lived in the apartment for 13 years. Everything before that was one year or two years the maximum was 2 years and 4 months and then all of a sudden 13 years. Do you know how much stuff I had? It took forever to pack it and it was a good thing I worked at a moving company. A friend of mine came over and helped me just throw away years and years worth of TV guides which somebody probably would have wanted if I had had time to put them on eBay or something but I didn't have time and I'm not good at selling things. Never know about prices. Anyway we just put them in trash bags and put them on the sidewalk because we could do that then and my salesman at the moving company he drove past my house and he saw all the bags and he said that it was like 500 lbs. It wasn't all TV guides. I'm sure there were other things. But I don't remember and I don't miss them. And now I have even more things because now I have been living in this house for 23 years!? Even the house I grew up in was only 16 years. We moved a lot when I was little and then my brother was born and lived in the same house until he was 16. And yes it's really sad to leave. It was sad to leave that place and I had to leave my friends Well whichever friends I had left. Maybe three or four. But there was a lot of stuff going on. It was a good idea mostly. And now I have a roommate - the guy who helped me throw out all the TV guides, and another roommate that's my brother, because his landlord sold his house and here we are again. Except that we are 30 or 40 years older than the last time. And I haven't finished watching the video. But you reminded me of the last time I moved. And not only that but I have stuff in boxes in the garage that haven't been taken out in 20 years and I have my silverware that I can't get at and I finally figured out the name of it and so my brother just went on eBay and bought some more. But there are some things in the garage that I would like to get out but I can't because all my boxes are in there and then all of his stuff is in front of it. And then there's bins in my bedroom that were supposed to be sorted out but they weren't. So many things that never got organized although when Dennis moved in he wanted to organize things but I was busy... And now it's hot and he's busy and we have his things my things and Jay's things and leftover furniture and things from my mother and somewhere - I think I finally found some of the things from my mother in a bin on the back porch so at least they're not soaked. My brother has so much junk. And I have less but still a lot and Dennis has less than that and he's more organized but I'm number two. And on top of all of my things I have dust. Hooray. Oh well. We have a nice little backyard and I think it's just the right size. It's not enormous it's not tiny and it's flat. Back home our yard was on a hill. And for the first several years that I lived here I didn't even go outside in the backyard but now I have ducks so I have to go outside. My father was always trying to get me to go outside. He should have gotten me some ducks. They're cheap when they're babies. And then you have to feed them. And clean up after them. They're so pretty. The first batch was more friendly but the second batch is more pretty. And Colette She likes to bite me. The other ones when I come out the door they just come up to me and they look at me like do you have food? I'm going to watch more video now