Joe Kort on Male Sexual Fluidity - Smart Sex, Smart Love with Dr. Joe Kort
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- Why would straight identified men have sex with other men? Are they gay, bi or somewhere in between? Do you really understand what sexual fluidity is, or, even means? This week Joe talks about his book, ‘Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?: A guide for women concerned about their men.’ Men are stigmatized for having one non-heterosexual thought, and women are fetishized for having one. Joe addresses the concerns of worried women who suspect their men are not straight. Listen to Joe help make sense of a confusing situation, plus make sense of ways couples can have sexual health conversations around the topic of sexual interests that don’t match one’s sexual orientation, and remain married, even with a ‘happy ever after’….
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The only thing I have to say is the world really really needs more experts like you who are finally questioning a rigid binary structure and left many youths and adults erased who don't fit neatly into either category. Carry on the good work sir!
This explains to me (a mostly gay man) what I have suspected about other guys...I am not concerned about labeling other guys, but often wondered why 'straight' guys don't always 'represent' straightness. In other words, I thought male entitlement was driving straight guys to do whomever they felt like doing...but this podcast explains people's motivations in better detail and understanding.
This podcast is very interesting to listen to and I wish more people would be open to listening to and accepting these concepts. I have one question though and it is regarding the men who visit you professionally and are worried about something that they may have done or felt, that it may make them gay or bi; the question is simply this, do you think (as I do) that society's beliefs are what cause these worries/concerns about one's self? I know as per my own experience, I repressed my true self until I was in my mid-thirties all because of society and family and "what would happen if someone found out I was gay". I guess what I'm saying is that if society weren't as hell-bent on labeling everyone, we wouldn't be looking to others such as yourself, for reassurances of ourselves. I am very pleased that I have stumbled upon you and I have subscribed to your podcasts. Thank you Dr. Joe Kort.
Yes I do agree with you here very much. Thank you for your feedback and glad my podcast helped you.
My only problem with male fluidity is that some of these men do use gay men soley for sex but like to distance themselves from us.
Sex for me is a S haring EX change...make sure your needs are being met as well. Negotiate a better result for yourself?
I've been trying to understand all of this for years. This is great. Thank you
I find everything you talk about enlightening and so needed!
Ok how do i know if i am gay or straight even after enjoying gay porn or getting turned on by older man in general. This is making me more confused about my sexuality because all my life i thought i was straight then recently realised that no i am actually gay, but just hiding my feelings.
This fluidity is basically bisexuality in it’s various manifestations. Most people have a bisexual nature to being with, which allows this fluidity to happen. Environment, culture experience all shape one to explore their sexuality in various ways.
Thank you for debunking healthy versus deviant sexual expression. I think it's safe, if not obvious, to conclude that sexual labels are religion-based, created by societal norms, and that all people are sexual animals who can derive sexual pleasure from anyone. "Love the one you're with" ?
Thank you! 🙏