@No-qb1qb yeah but songs aren't always based on reality. she came up with some lyrics based on real life and then came up with a story that can be singable. the topic of emotional abuse in relationships is important, but you can't really write a bop about it
Yeah, taylor's writing is what got her fame. Singing, not as much. While she can sing well, her voice isn't very powerful. There's still Beyonce, Shakira, Jennifer Lopez etc etc. But I admire Taylor's full knowledge that she can write well and doesn't try to be something she's not.
I'm not even a Swiftie and I don't understand the hate in the comments. She's an artist, she's meant to be inspired to write a song from her interactions whether it's about her life or not. That's what writers do 😂😂
I don't think people understand how a writers brain works. Stories made through song or something through literature aren't usually inspired by some super specific situation, or if it does, it doesn't have to involve them personally. It's then written in a way to resonate with the audience. Not everything they make is super personal and psychologically analytical to their lives or relationships.
@@Julia-yi7mj When I first saw this video, there were a few comments saying this song is a 'pick me' anthem and that it's none of Taylor's business to talk about someone else's relationship, and other stuff like that. They're probably at the very bottom of the comment section now since there's a lot more views than when I viewed it
Ok this is like bare minimum for people who make singing their career though. Being able to sing a line or two IN TUNE, without filters or autotune? Should be a given. Heck, the average person could sing that line no problem. The real test is whether you can do the same during a concert for like 3 hours..
That's not a 'crazy level of creativity and talent'. That's simply creativity and talent. That's how the creative process works. One's monetary success comes from connectedness of your audience to the end result of that process. Hozier writes and sings better by accident than Taylor Swift could ever hope to on purpose. He doesn't connect with as many people as she does, consequently he's not a household name and probably never will be. That, however doesn't diminish the quality of his wotk. By the same token the 1/2 bil net worth and nation of Swifties doesn't raise the quality of hers.
Dont get me wrong, I love taylor swift. But this isnt a crazy level of creativity or anything. Most artists have stories behind their songs. Eminem, juiceworld, billie eilish, post malone, just to name a few.
@@localobug3034 yeah Ik that you aren't a hater or smthng and respect your opinion as well as other artists you named they are also amazingly talented and creative I love them all too🥰🥰
True it's a sign of a supportive friend than anything, its just the whole song was a bit y'know- but its understandable considering those times, honestly girls who don't prefer to carry themselves in a feminine manner are cool but the type who tries to put the other girls down for embracing their femininity is pretty annoying, it's like everyone is a different individuals with unique and lovable characteristics, we are already different than each other.
she wears short skirts, I wear T. shirt , that's a pick me. but just stating, "hey you shouldn't be treated like that, you deserve better" without your best interest of him dating you.
@@nataliesparks4829the “she wears short skirts I wear t-shirts, she’s cheer captain and i’m on the bleachers” points to knowing he wouldn’t acknowledge her because of that, but w/out full context & just that line it may seem that way
AGREE🎉WE, out here in human land, ARE SO BLESSED that she shares so openly and freely. GRATEFUL. FYI TAYLOR SWIFT DEMONSTRATES LOVE, in her music, in her actions (ZERO SLEEZE) and in her conversation here. She's at the TOP of her game and she still holds true to her values. THAT, right there is pure LOVE. The entire world needs this divine love right now. We all need to learn how to demonstrate love to one another. ❤❤❤
@@rinmondu that’s my question too though? 😭 like there are more comments going like “I don’t understand the hate comments this is derived from blah blah not pick me blah lala” LIKE GURL WHAT COMMENTS-
I'll take on the role of the absent complaint comments. It is a song that shaped the minds of millions of adolescent girls to think that sort of thing is an appropriate way to view the world. If you see a movie advocating incel ideology, you wouldn't dismiss it as "just a movie".
I don't listen to much of her music but I think she is so talented and a very good person and very intelligent. I don't understand why so many people cut her down.
Because people aren't able to connect with the lyrics of her songs. She is a fabulous singer, best among the top but the lyrics in her song's aren't powerful enough.
A girl pointing out when a girl is being unnecessarily mean to someone who happens to be a man is not being a pick me *edit:* i didnt expect to start a whole war in the replies like can yall chill out????
Pick me girl would be "omg that Sophie is soo annoying like why couldn't she be more chill.. omg, like me, i am literally the chillest person you know right?". Addressing someone's behaviour is actually supportive.
What I love about this beautiful girl is her ability to write a song about the everyday things in life. It makes her music relatable and that's why she's loved by billions of people! ❤
@@GhostyGhouli she has over 100 mil monthly listeners on spotify and if u devide that by 10 (1 fan is atleast listening the song 10 times) then u get 10mil which is nowhere close to a billion (just for a reference this is what a billion "1000000000" looks like)
@@royal7.980Taylor will become a billionaire after this television deal involving her tour, Eras and as she's taking this concert overseas I think you'll be able to see that her fame does involve billions, mark my words because they'll be talking about it by the beginning of next year! I'm not wrong about this; shes had a huge effect on the NFL in the past couple of weeks just by showing up for two games! I do believe you're underestimating Ms. Swift!
Right?? And even if it was a thing, this isn’t being a pick me!! A pick me girl is more manipulative and has different intent, Taylor wasn’t saying “pick me I’m the only girl” it’s “ok that’s not a healthy relationship, I wish you would see that I would give you a healthy relationship”
@@taylorstyles137yk ppl can't reach her level and cause of her success ppl are making something out of nothing! let them it doesn't affect taylor at all
her pr reps buried them. there are services that make thousands of comments, all you have to do is pay 20,000 which is nothing to a multimillionaire. Johnny Depp used them. like 10 bucks to us.
she told that so specifically that i am now convinced there is a woman in pennsylvania who has been silently living with the knowledge that she’s the “cheer captain” girl who inspired one of taylor’s biggest hits 😭
Not if the guy didn’t tell the gf that he was hanging out with Taylor. She might’ve had no clue who was near him during the call. I don’t know which is worse though…being part of such a huge song and being able to tell people such a cool story…..or knowing such a huge song was made totally calling you out for being a crazy, jealous, gf……I honestly don’t know which one I’d chose haha
@@Sara-xk1nswell if she didn't know n he lying about being with another girl, then her anger would've been justified. How would like your man to lie to you and go hang out with another female, or better yet THE TAYLOR SWIFT🤣 I THINK NOT, unless we're ALL friends, however I THINK NOTTT.
But imagine how weird it is for the guy. You just got berated by your girlfriend, then your friend sees you and maybe talk that that's not normal. The all of the sudden she starts humming a song about your situation.
@@Aevalina a disposable pop tune stolen from another artist. If you want to get deeper into her twisted mind, than listen to this. Taylor stole this song from Saving Jane, later on sued her for defamation by Taylor legal team after she confronted her of completely ripping off her song. Shortly after Olivia Rodrigo was going to replace Taylor swift record and become the youngest female artist win a Grammy. Oddly enough Taylor congratulates Olivia on Social Media and wrote this whole comment of girl empowerment. Behind the scenes she sent her legal team to sue Olivia Rodrigo for copyright for a song that Taylor stole from another musician. This is wild, to think about and I had to research this after I heard about this because I thought there was no way this could have happened.
Why are people acting like this isn’t a normal teenage feeling… Also, why are y’all trying to bash Taylor?! Clean your ears because she didn’t even have a crush on this guy. She simply overheard a conversation, the girl was screaming her head off, & it inspired her to write YBWM. Why are people acting surprised by the fact that songwriters take inspiration from their life or others? Hell, they could watch a movie & get an idea for a song. Now, are there some who can be extreme about things like that, sure. However, even in YBWM the girl, Taylor, isn’t even extreme about it. She simply loves her best friend from the side, wishing he’d notice that he deserves better. Her teenage brain making up teenage reasons why doesn’t change that fact. Anyway, y’all stay bothered & complaining about everything. Go touch some grass.
@@eldaguadiana6927 No, it’s me asking why people feel the need to hate on her for everything, even stuff they make up. But hey, whatever helps you sleep at night.
That’s why she is where she is today, she draws inspiration from the most random occurrence in her life. I’d just shrug those moments off and carry on with my day. She turns it into music many girls could relate to, and sing along to.
Exactly. Music doesn't always have to be about deep political stuff. We have the news for that. Obviously if you like that in your music, good. But I prefer to listen to music to cool off and have a better mood. I don't listen to songs for political commentary usually
You mean like everyone else in the entire world? Wow. What a feat. Swifties literally be out here taking pre-sliced bread and slamming it on the desk claiming they made something new while the rest of us are like ‘ma’am, this is our quarterly meeting and you don’t even work here.’
I don't dislike her music, it's just not my thing, but when I hear people disrespect her talent, I want to pick them up by the throat and shake some sense into them. Every artist has their own target audience, and she is as good at that as anyone, and WAAAAAY better than most! Writes he own stuff too?! She's a beast, in the best way....
This is pretty much how I felt. I really like her last 2 albums but before that I wasn't really into it. But to say she doesn't have talent... Do these people even know what talent is? I don't like classical music but I can admit Mozart was crazy talented. I don't like country but Carrie Underwood is a powerhouse. But Taylor sings pop, so people feel the need to diminish her success. It's crazy. It always happens when a female pop artist is super successful. ALWAYS.
I just hate the fact that she acts like she cares about the planet or other people in general she uses 1200 times the amount of an average person in gas emissions every year
Yall can call it a pick me song but we all know how it feels to watch our crush get into a relationship and watch the partner treat them like shit when you wanna treat them like a king/queen
The pick me part just comes from “she’s cheer captain and I’m on the bleachers. she wears high heels and I wear sneakers” not this part lol stop fighting against ghosts
@@madisnzz yeah because shes literally just comparing herself to her not in a pick me way but she's the popular girl and she's not it's that simple. Some of u are slow
Ngl I love this song but hated it at the same time. It's a "pick me" girl song cause, she was practically a homewrecker in the video and the guy was a cheater. There's a difference between 1: breaking up cause you don't love your gf and 2: breaking up cause you fell in love with another girl who tried to make a move on you while you're still in a relationship.
One quality of genius is being able to see things that others don’t. To be able to express it is another. That her genius comes wrapped as a beautiful young woman makes it all the more remarkable❤️
So focused. On her family. On her talent. On her friends. On her fans. On her goals. On the world's condition, on the people's condition. On who she wants to become. The way to any success - focas. I'm a senior who's a fan. A Swifty. I use the y because I'm too old to be part of the energetic Swifties! Yet I have been a huge fan since her rebuttal song to that Kanye. This Lady ain't fluff - she has integrity and is willing to do battle!
Taylor is one of the sweetest celebertys and is so talented without autotune and has such a kind loving heart,i love her so much and not just for her voice but i love her for her ,and her sweet beatiful personality.💕🤗 :👇🏼💅🏼😝SWIFTIES
I don't see in the comments anything about how this is just a small sample of the way Taylor is inspired by so many things in life and can just start a song like that. It's genius!
@@merykhan97 yeah but in my experience and opinion, no one can know their relationship better than the girl and the boy themselves. There's a lot more in between the lines emotions and experiences involved in every relationship and more than what meets the eye. Sometimes the other partner themselves don't realise it so I don't expect much from best friends.
The pick me thing can go out of hand when its about good people/teenagers who may be jealous, have a crush, and know that the person they ljke is dating someone that isn't kind at all. How you go about treating that friend and how you act in resposne to your feelings can make it "pick me", but not those feelings in and of themself, because feeling jealous, thinking you would be a better partner, etc-- are all normal human emotions that many feel. Taylor does a great job and writing things that can be relatable to many ppl, and be inpsired by the "what if?" That is all arpund us. some of these things she doesnt experience herself, and many artists do this (i do this as a writer/poet). She may not have had an actual crush on her friend, but to be inspired by the conversation is very creative. (If she did, thats fine too).
This literally happened to me...back around 2009 when this song first came out...the good girl was the same height as Taylor, same hair color, and just as beautiful and intelligent and sweet...I'm glad that I picked her...hopefully we can all learn lessons from this!!!
Taylor is beautiful, talented and brilliant. When it comes yo composing so gs I would love to be just like her ❤🎉🎉🎉 It takes me a month to compose one song but it seems she can do it within a minute ❤💫
She’s only seeing one side. I can tell you from years of experience some people hide their true self to the world. And only their significant other sees who they really are. Kinda sad but true. I’ve never been upset at my husband for no reason.
If a man was screaming down a phone at a woman for not calling him back soon enough and you overheard, your reaction would be “he must have his reasons” and not “coercive control” then??
I had to scroll way too far to find this comment. Taylor's friend could have been treating his gf like total garbage, and her yelling on the phone to him could have been what's known as "reactive abuse". You never know what might be going on behind closed doors.
That’s because Taylor has a brilliant musician’s mind! Their are so many people who are special in so many ways - I’m sure you’ve all met someone who walking & The Idea The Sound The Rock The Wind That thought that has to be processed now so it’s not lost. These are our Thinkers Our Doers Our Future!!! Empower them!!!
It feels like country music, especially then, used to pit women against each other when it came to a guy. I like how vocal Taylor has been when admitting that she's had to learn to stop scapegoating other women for a man's bad behavior. This song isn't really a good example, but just in general. Like Better than Revenge.
Y’all the song wasn’t about trying to get the guy and saying she’s better cause she “isn’t like other girl” it’s that she’s always been there with the guy whereas his girl is always treating him bad yet he never seems to notice her but rather always goes for the traditional popular girls in school. It’s the girl self-deprecating herself to try and understand why the guy doesn’t want her.
@@eavye95 well guess what girl the story isn’t about her. The song is inspired by a toxic relationship that she had nothing to do with, hence the story is made up💀
She didn’t even say she wanted him, she just said he deserved better 😭
In the song she did that’s what’s ppl are talking about
@@No-qb1qb I guess so
@No-qb1qb yeah but songs aren't always based on reality. she came up with some lyrics based on real life and then came up with a story that can be singable. the topic of emotional abuse in relationships is important, but you can't really write a bop about it
You belong with me 😅
It is about how he belongs with her-as in Taylor and him
Some people just naturally have the ability to write songs. It's such an amazing talent.
i have that talent, kinda wrote few songs cause of that
Yeah, taylor's writing is what got her fame.
Singing, not as much.
While she can sing well, her voice isn't very powerful. There's still Beyonce, Shakira, Jennifer Lopez etc etc.
But I admire Taylor's full knowledge that she can write well and doesn't try to be something she's not.
While Taylor has the ability to write songs she doesn't have the ability to write good songs.
Not trying to be mean or 1 up someone (just want to make that clear) I wrote 4 songs in 2 days but I was on a roll and they sucked tho
@@ItsNova13reputation_4evadamn
I'm not even a Swiftie and I don't understand the hate in the comments. She's an artist, she's meant to be inspired to write a song from her interactions whether it's about her life or not. That's what writers do 😂😂
I don't think people understand how a writers brain works. Stories made through song or something through literature aren't usually inspired by some super specific situation, or if it does, it doesn't have to involve them personally. It's then written in a way to resonate with the audience. Not everything they make is super personal and psychologically analytical to their lives or relationships.
I dont see hate comments here tho. But fr she's amazing 😭
@@rachel5399stories, poems and songs are more drawn from real life that you might think
POV: You’re trying to find the hate comments
@@Julia-yi7mj When I first saw this video, there were a few comments saying this song is a 'pick me' anthem and that it's none of Taylor's business to talk about someone else's relationship, and other stuff like that. They're probably at the very bottom of the comment section now since there's a lot more views than when I viewed it
Taylor Swift is such a talented songwriter and performer. Her creativity and storytelling are truly amazing.
Lol you're literally everywhere 😂
“tired of drama” the most relatable thing i’ve ever seen.
I read tired of Obama ☠️
@@rogerodipo3499 💀💀💀
@@rogerodipo3499Uhhh WHAT??
@@rogerodipo3499that made my day ngl😭😭
Is it? Not "I breathe air" or "I eat food" but "Tired of drama" is the most relatable thing ever? You must be all of 12 years old.
I'm not a Swiftie. But this was likely my favorite song as a kid. I used to sing it nonstop. I DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK ENGLISH AT THE TIME.
Love this
So you didn’t know what you were singing 😂
@@Gizmosnitto13 well I sing blackpink - Japanese 😂 I don't understand a word 😂😂😂
The power of Taylor Swift
This was actually the first Taylor swift song I ever listened to and I came upon it by accident 😊 I love it so much
IS NO ONE GOING TO TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD SHE SOUNDED WHILE SINGING. LIKE NO AUTOTUNE!!!
Ok this is like bare minimum for people who make singing their career though. Being able to sing a line or two IN TUNE, without filters or autotune? Should be a given. Heck, the average person could sing that line no problem.
The real test is whether you can do the same during a concert for like 3 hours..
That's because she sings? This comment is silly
@@Mykes25you genuinely think every singer can sing
Because she’s doesn’t she basically talks the lines 😂
@@User38344 I mean in a perfect world...
She literally has a story behind her every song that's a crazy level of creativity and talent
That's not a 'crazy level of creativity and talent'. That's simply creativity and talent. That's how the creative process works. One's monetary success comes from connectedness of your audience to the end result of that process.
Hozier writes and sings better by accident than Taylor Swift could ever hope to on purpose. He doesn't connect with as many people as she does, consequently he's not a household name and probably never will be. That, however doesn't diminish the quality of his wotk. By the same token the 1/2 bil net worth and nation of Swifties doesn't raise the quality of hers.
Dont get me wrong, I love taylor swift. But this isnt a crazy level of creativity or anything. Most artists have stories behind their songs. Eminem, juiceworld, billie eilish, post malone, just to name a few.
@@localobug3034 yeah Ik that you aren't a hater or smthng and respect your opinion as well as other artists you named they are also amazingly talented and creative I love them all too🥰🥰
Haters always think she all wrote songs about her own stories 😂. And I wondered if she really did experience a lot of things in her life 😂
@@localobug3034 she was so creative. She wrote a complete song based on a small piece of a true story.
And that’s what creative people do. She’s lovely, talented and witty. And a really great role model for positivity and kindness
She’s literally built a career off of bullying people
@@lilbit2321 "comparing all the girls who are killing it"
@@lilbit2321how
Her Dad bailed out a record company which then pushed his hack daughter. Great role model for girls with millionaire daddies, lol.
If you only knew what Hollywood turned this poor girl into. To date.
calling out toxic behaviour isn’t Pick me behaviour that’s being a decent human being
True it's a sign of a supportive friend than anything, its just the whole song was a bit y'know-
but its understandable considering those times, honestly girls who don't prefer to carry themselves in a feminine manner are cool but the type who tries to put the other girls down for embracing their femininity is pretty annoying, it's like everyone is a different individuals with unique and lovable characteristics, we are already different than each other.
What’s crazy is that if this was any other celebrity you people would call them pick me
she wears short skirts, I wear T. shirt , that's a pick me. but just stating, "hey you shouldn't be treated like that, you deserve better" without your best interest of him dating you.
@@nataliesparks4829how is that a pick me i wear t shirts and im the oppisite of pick me
@@nataliesparks4829the “she wears short skirts I wear t-shirts, she’s cheer captain and i’m on the bleachers” points to knowing he wouldn’t acknowledge her because of that, but w/out full context & just that line it may seem that way
She's a masterpiece herself
AGREE🎉WE, out here in human land, ARE SO BLESSED that she shares so openly and freely. GRATEFUL. FYI TAYLOR SWIFT DEMONSTRATES LOVE, in her music, in her actions (ZERO SLEEZE) and in her conversation here. She's at the TOP of her game and she still holds true to her values. THAT, right there is pure LOVE. The entire world needs this divine love right now. We all need to learn how to demonstrate love to one another. ❤❤❤
No she ain’t
@@lovelylove1449 that’s ur opinion but u rlly didn’t have to comment that lol what did taylor do to u??
her voice was so calming here
fr
Agreed. Fearless album had calming vocals, but at that time I crushed on someone at university.
It's a song. It's catchy. It's cute. People need to calm down.
They're being too loud 😂💃🏼
where are the comments ur talking about?
@@rinmondu that’s my question too though? 😭
like there are more comments going like “I don’t understand the hate comments this is derived from blah blah not pick me blah lala” LIKE GURL WHAT COMMENTS-
@@katdoestuffYTBecause those get more likes so they get boosted, click on ‘newest first.’
I'll take on the role of the absent complaint comments.
It is a song that shaped the minds of millions of adolescent girls to think that sort of thing is an appropriate way to view the world. If you see a movie advocating incel ideology, you wouldn't dismiss it as "just a movie".
“She yelled at him because he didn’t call her in 10 mins and called her in 15 mins” POV: My father every time I hangout with my friends.
You better call your damn DAD...He carried you in his balls for 74 frigging days!!!
😑 it's different
Literally
Mother for me
Wow...
YOU’RE ON THE PHONE WITH YOUR GF SHE’S UPSET-
SHE'S GOING OFF ABOUT SOMETHING THAT YOU SAID
@@p_olina_starCUZ SHE DOESNT HET UR HUMOR LIKE I DOOOO
@ijustdiedmydogkeylimegreenI'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like
@ijustdiedmydogkeylimegreen she wears short skirts I wear t shirts she cheer captain and I’m on the bleacher
dreamin bout the day when you wake up and find that what your lookin for has been here the whole time
I don't listen to much of her music but I think she is so talented and a very good person and very intelligent. I don't understand why so many people cut her down.
Because they are jealous and envious
Jealousy is a weak disease man 👑💎
Because people aren't able to connect with the lyrics of her songs. She is a fabulous singer, best among the top but the lyrics in her song's aren't powerful enough.
A girl pointing out when a girl is being unnecessarily mean to someone who happens to be a man is not being a pick me
*edit:* i didnt expect to start a whole war in the replies like can yall chill out????
Calling girls pick-me is one of the lamest insults ever tbh. People almost always say it in situations where it doesn't apply.
Pick me girl would be "omg that Sophie is soo annoying like why couldn't she be more chill.. omg, like me, i am literally the chillest person you know right?". Addressing someone's behaviour is actually supportive.
Real
@@not-a-ghost2206stop why the name Sophie 😭😭
Felt like a personal attack 💀
Exactly
Taylor is one of the millions of people who can compose a song in just a minute, like😍
What I love about this beautiful girl is her ability to write a song about the everyday things in life. It makes her music relatable and that's why she's loved by billions of people! ❤
Not billions for sure
@@royal7.980do you even know how famous Taylor Swift is bro 💀
@@GhostyGhouli no hate or smth but dude 1 bil is like 12.5% of the world's entire population
@@GhostyGhouli she has over 100 mil monthly listeners on spotify and if u devide that by 10 (1 fan is atleast listening the song 10 times) then u get 10mil which is nowhere close to a billion (just for a reference this is what a billion "1000000000" looks like)
@@royal7.980Taylor will become a billionaire after this television deal involving her tour, Eras and as she's taking this concert overseas I think you'll be able to see that her fame does involve billions, mark my words because they'll be talking about it by the beginning of next year! I'm not wrong about this; shes had a huge effect on the NFL in the past couple of weeks just by showing up for two games! I do believe you're underestimating Ms. Swift!
I don't want Taylor Swift to get old🥺
She will write awesome songs for old people then!
“Come on, Baby! Put that walker in drive!
Time to get going while we can still jive!”
@@louisegentry2585this is your way of cheering her up😂 lmao the internet is so funny
POV: ur trying to find the hate comments everyones talking abt
I found them
Look at newest first and you’ll find them
@@Colind_ yep! Found em
@@Colind_didn't even know you could do that
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Why are people hating?? 😭😭 YBWM is a classic, this dumb “pick-me” shit wasn’t even a thing back then. Times were simpler.
Nope. It's always been a thing. It just took longer to have a term for it. 😂
Right! Times were simpler back then
Right?? And even if it was a thing, this isn’t being a pick me!! A pick me girl is more manipulative and has different intent, Taylor wasn’t saying “pick me I’m the only girl” it’s “ok that’s not a healthy relationship, I wish you would see that I would give you a healthy relationship”
So iconic !!!!!😂😂😂😂
Pick me don't need to be trend to exist. It existed always, just not everybody acknowledged
The comment section didn't pass the vibe check
Fr 😭
So Fr tho. Cuz why is everyone saying the song is trash.
@@vonschermerAnd somebody called it the “Pick Me Girl Anthem”
@@taylorstyles137yk ppl can't reach her level and cause of her success ppl are making something out of nothing! let them it doesn't affect taylor at all
yeah
@@Mariyabrykailo_sun
Such a talented artist. Song writer, singer, dynamite performer.
Imagine being that girl and watching this and realizing it’s you 💀
I would sue so she can give me money
She would be proud for being the inspiration for that song 😅
@@BabyboyAsaelYou won't win, you'll only make a fool of yourself and you'll probs lose everything like your job, current bf...etc.
@@thatasiangirl0_039 ???
@@BabyboyAsaelthere’s no evidence it’s about her…
Ok im seeing sll these comments defeneding tay but i literaly dont see the hate comments lol 😂
Lol, I thought the same thing.
her pr reps buried them. there are services that make thousands of comments, all you have to do is pay 20,000 which is nothing to a multimillionaire. Johnny Depp used them. like 10 bucks to us.
I'm scrolling searching, couldn't find any 😅
@@PriscillaCookingBlog2019 OMG SAME 😭
lol, me too I'm still scrolling😂
she told that so specifically that i am now convinced there is a woman in pennsylvania who has been silently living with the knowledge that she’s the “cheer captain” girl who inspired one of taylor’s biggest hits 😭
She probably spent part of her life bragging lmao
Not if the guy didn’t tell the gf that he was hanging out with Taylor. She might’ve had no clue who was near him during the call. I don’t know which is worse though…being part of such a huge song and being able to tell people such a cool story…..or knowing such a huge song was made totally calling you out for being a crazy, jealous, gf……I honestly don’t know which one I’d chose haha
Its bc she cappin
@@Sara-xk1nswell if she didn't know n he lying about being with another girl, then her anger would've been justified. How would like your man to lie to you and go hang out with another female, or better yet THE TAYLOR SWIFT🤣 I THINK NOT, unless we're ALL friends, however I THINK NOTTT.
@@benjamin2151that's why she giggled
The way she sings the same in real life and in songs is incredible
Aww her young voice is so cute
Not as a grown woman in her 30's 😅
@@Wolverine1987she was not 30 when she was saying this she was in her 20s
Thus she created this masterpiece
Lol
Actually, the song is a direct ripoff of Saving Jane "Girl Next Door". She did not come up with this song.
But imagine how weird it is for the guy. You just got berated by your girlfriend, then your friend sees you and maybe talk that that's not normal. The all of the sudden she starts humming a song about your situation.
Masterpiece??😂😂😂😂
@@Aevalina a disposable pop tune stolen from another artist. If you want to get deeper into her twisted mind, than listen to this. Taylor stole this song from Saving Jane, later on sued her for defamation by Taylor legal team after she confronted her of completely ripping off her song. Shortly after Olivia Rodrigo was going to replace Taylor swift record and become the youngest female artist win a Grammy. Oddly enough Taylor congratulates Olivia on Social Media and wrote this whole comment of girl empowerment. Behind the scenes she sent her legal team to sue Olivia Rodrigo for copyright for a song that Taylor stole from another musician. This is wild, to think about and I had to research this after I heard about this because I thought there was no way this could have happened.
“that could be something” turned into a song everyone knows 💀💀😭❤️❤️
This is literally my favorite song by Taylor Swift
Love all her songs that she sing coz every lirycs are so real.. and it's coz she wrote the song from her true story❤
Right!
Why are people acting like this isn’t a normal teenage feeling… Also, why are y’all trying to bash Taylor?! Clean your ears because she didn’t even have a crush on this guy. She simply overheard a conversation, the girl was screaming her head off, & it inspired her to write YBWM.
Why are people acting surprised by the fact that songwriters take inspiration from their life or others? Hell, they could watch a movie & get an idea for a song.
Now, are there some who can be extreme about things like that, sure. However, even in YBWM the girl, Taylor, isn’t even extreme about it. She simply loves her best friend from the side, wishing he’d notice that he deserves better. Her teenage brain making up teenage reasons why doesn’t change that fact.
Anyway, y’all stay bothered & complaining about everything. Go touch some grass.
You just complained like everyone else lol
@@eldaguadiana6927 No, it’s me asking why people feel the need to hate on her for everything, even stuff they make up. But hey, whatever helps you sleep at night.
"Go touch some grass"? I never heard that term before, I say, "Go drink some water"
I probably agree but i stopped a few lines in , rant is too long
You've never heard "touch some grass" that's hilarious
It’s funny how some shower thoughts can make a masterpiece
Edit- not to be that person but thank you for the likes ❤
i agree
HIIIII :D
Omg, I was your 3,000th like (I don't even know if that's how it's written???)
that is very much true 😂 how many non existent songs have I made while I was in the bathroom even with new beats 😂
Fr
What an amazing way of thinking ❤
she’s got talent
That’s why she is where she is today, she draws inspiration from the most random occurrence in her life.
I’d just shrug those moments off and carry on with my day. She turns it into music many girls could relate to, and sing along to.
Exactly. Music doesn't always have to be about deep political stuff. We have the news for that. Obviously if you like that in your music, good. But I prefer to listen to music to cool off and have a better mood. I don't listen to songs for political commentary usually
I like Taylor's story telling songs 🥺🥺.
I love it how she takes inspiration from stories exisiting outside then give us combination of fiction plus personal mixed song
You mean like everyone else in the entire world? Wow. What a feat.
Swifties literally be out here taking pre-sliced bread and slamming it on the desk claiming they made something new while the rest of us are like ‘ma’am, this is our quarterly meeting and you don’t even work here.’
it's not just something,it's my childhood,it's my mood maker,it's absolutely banger and really nostalgic song🤧
the fact that it isn't just "something", it's one of the MOST iconic songs of all timeeeee
I love the song but it’s not iconic.😂
@@Gemmarose9012 it has 1B views i would say its iconic
@@Gemmarose9012it's one of HER iconic songs :)
And that's how she gave birth to a masterpiece
She's really something else.
Like can you even believe the way she gathers inspiration from literally anything and everything.😭🙏🏻
Soooo!!
@@foluzzy_wade6026
I think you misunderstood. It was a compliment lol.
That's how a star (song) was born!! ❤❤
And just like that she wrote the anthem of every childhood crush I ever had 😂
That’s exactly what Taylor Swift does.
that "crazy" is meme worthy 🤣 love u tay
She’s a walking hitmaker! Love artists who love their craft!
I really really love her back stories
She's so talented
I don't dislike her music, it's just not my thing, but when I hear people disrespect her talent, I want to pick them up by the throat and shake some sense into them. Every artist has their own target audience, and she is as good at that as anyone, and WAAAAAY better than most! Writes he own stuff too?! She's a beast, in the best way....
PREACH
Agree and if she had no talent ; she wouldn't be as famous or successful as she is rn
This is pretty much how I felt. I really like her last 2 albums but before that I wasn't really into it. But to say she doesn't have talent... Do these people even know what talent is? I don't like classical music but I can admit Mozart was crazy talented. I don't like country but Carrie Underwood is a powerhouse. But Taylor sings pop, so people feel the need to diminish her success. It's crazy. It always happens when a female pop artist is super successful. ALWAYS.
I just hate the fact that she acts like she cares about the planet or other people in general she uses 1200 times the amount of an average person in gas emissions every year
Right, Michael. Every musician, author, director etc has their target audience.
Yall can call it a pick me song but we all know how it feels to watch our crush get into a relationship and watch the partner treat them like shit when you wanna treat them like a king/queen
The pick me part just comes from “she’s cheer captain and I’m on the bleachers. she wears high heels and I wear sneakers” not this part lol stop fighting against ghosts
@@madisnzz yeah because shes literally just comparing herself to her not in a pick me way but she's the popular girl and she's not it's that simple. Some of u are slow
@@hoshie5788yeah she’s comparing by acting like she’s better by not wearing/doing those things
Ngl I love this song but hated it at the same time. It's a "pick me" girl song cause, she was practically a homewrecker in the video and the guy was a cheater.
There's a difference between 1: breaking up cause you don't love your gf and 2: breaking up cause you fell in love with another girl who tried to make a move on you while you're still in a relationship.
@@jadekai8208 hahaha why is she the homewrecker? didn't her current gf just kissed another football player while theyre still in a relationship 😂
One quality of genius is being able to see things that others don’t. To be able to express it is another. That her genius comes wrapped as a beautiful young woman makes it all the more remarkable❤️
Very well said.
This girl is really talented she can just make a masterpiece from day to day life.❤
a talented composer ,singer and all etc.shes literally a master of arts
Yes, she is a master
So focused. On her family. On her talent. On her friends. On her fans. On her goals. On the world's condition, on the people's condition. On who she wants to become.
The way to any success - focas.
I'm a senior who's a fan. A Swifty. I use the y because I'm too old to be part of the energetic Swifties! Yet I have been a huge fan since her rebuttal song to that Kanye.
This Lady ain't fluff - she has integrity and is willing to do battle!
She's such a talented writer and musician
One of my favorite TS song 😊😊😊 and I envy of her songwriting ability
This is my favorite song… HOW DID SHE THINK OF THE BEGINNING SO QUICKLY 😂
She's so cute omg
Her voice is just wow😮😊
Lmfao😂
Wow you sound amazing. And what’s more you got a song out of this. I bet it’s going to be a Mega Hit ❤
She's a legend ❤
She seems like a genuinely awesome person
Greatest song writers get inspiration from every day conversations
Taylor swift is an icon ❤❤❤💯
Taylor is one of the sweetest celebertys and is so talented without autotune and has such a kind loving heart,i love her so much and not just for her voice but i love her for her ,and her sweet beatiful personality.💕🤗
:👇🏼💅🏼😝SWIFTIES
No
I don't see in the comments anything about how this is just a small sample of the way Taylor is inspired by so many things in life and can just start a song like that. It's genius!
She's one of the most authentic, down to earth and ridiculously talented people on the planet. Period.
Can't agree more she's the whole music industry she's such a rare artist ❤
TAYLOR IS A TRUE MASTERMIND her talent ✨✨✨✨
People dont really know the meaning of pick me , do they??
Fr
Literally
Ikr
They do, she's implying that she's better than the other girl that's what makes her a pick me
@@moondust2839 How tho? She just mentioned that they were different not like she's better
She is so cute when she says “crazyyyy”😂😂😂
That “tired of drama” sign is so real 😭
LMAOOO
Love when she tells stories behind her songs ❤
I'm sure it wasn't just that he didn't call her back on time... it was probably a bunch of mini rejections built up over time
exactly
@@cataguti0 she does look 19ish here? Kids are dumb
Yeah it's built on things over time
She knew the friend and his girlfriend better than any of us. She clearly doesn't like her for a reason
@@merykhan97 yeah but in my experience and opinion, no one can know their relationship better than the girl and the boy themselves. There's a lot more in between the lines emotions and experiences involved in every relationship and more than what meets the eye. Sometimes the other partner themselves don't realise it so I don't expect much from best friends.
Taylor Swift can literally turn everything into song!!! What a talented human being ❤️❤️❤️
Milktoast
The way she said crazy... ❤
I just literally love this woman❤🫠
The pick me thing can go out of hand when its about good people/teenagers who may be jealous, have a crush, and know that the person they ljke is dating someone that isn't kind at all. How you go about treating that friend and how you act in resposne to your feelings can make it "pick me", but not those feelings in and of themself, because feeling jealous, thinking you would be a better partner, etc-- are all normal human emotions that many feel. Taylor does a great job and writing things that can be relatable to many ppl, and be inpsired by the "what if?" That is all arpund us. some of these things she doesnt experience herself, and many artists do this (i do this as a writer/poet). She may not have had an actual crush on her friend, but to be inspired by the conversation is very creative. (If she did, thats fine too).
She is absolutely talented
she sounds so so good! this is proof that Taylor doesn’t use autotune!!💗💗
This literally happened to me...back around 2009 when this song first came out...the good girl was the same height as Taylor, same hair color, and just as beautiful and intelligent and sweet...I'm glad that I picked her...hopefully we can all learn lessons from this!!!
She is one of the best song writers ever
She is so talented
Everyone saying to stop hating in the commentes.
Me still searchijg for the hate comments cause I see none.
real
Same
Real help
Taylor is beautiful, talented and brilliant. When it comes yo composing so gs I would love to be just like her ❤🎉🎉🎉 It takes me a month to compose one song but it seems she can do it within a minute ❤💫
She’s only seeing one side. I can tell you from years of experience some people hide their true self to the world. And only their significant other sees who they really are. Kinda sad but true. I’ve never been upset at my husband for no reason.
If a man was screaming down a phone at a woman for not calling him back soon enough and you overheard, your reaction would be “he must have his reasons” and not “coercive control” then??
I agree. However sometimes one goes overboard.
I usually don’t call😂
If she truly golden no man would ever let her go. 😂 only the man close door can see the real truth what she is.
I had to scroll way too far to find this comment. Taylor's friend could have been treating his gf like total garbage, and her yelling on the phone to him could have been what's known as "reactive abuse". You never know what might be going on behind closed doors.
That’s because Taylor has a brilliant musician’s mind! Their are so many people who are special in so many ways - I’m sure you’ve all met someone who walking & The Idea The Sound The Rock The Wind That thought that has to be processed now so it’s not lost. These are our Thinkers Our Doers Our Future!!! Empower them!!!
Gosh she’s such a genius in her work. It’s actually insane when you think about it
He doesn't deserve her (not Taylor swift) he deserves better🗣️💯🔥💯💯
What’s wrong with Taylor?
@@marigrafsI think it was the mean gf
That person talking about
The way she said 'crazy~'❤
😂
Love story behind the song thanks a million for sharing❤
She is talented, beautiful and very humble person ❤❤
She is so talented ❤❤❤❤
@@BobPaganPaganBob how would you know you're old 😆
and this was her idea 14 years ago
????
Wdym this was her idea 14 years ago
@@kiachan4562 ik..that’s why i said it..
This was over a decade ago. It's heart warming to see that she has become more supportive of other women's struggles. 💗
It feels like country music, especially then, used to pit women against each other when it came to a guy. I like how vocal Taylor has been when admitting that she's had to learn to stop scapegoating other women for a man's bad behavior. This song isn't really a good example, but just in general. Like Better than Revenge.
So even if a guy is being mistreated, you absolutely still have to support the girl in the name of "women's rights"? What a joke 😂
@@forciaroandha9855She did use to be a country singer, so that’s probably why.
It was so sweet and amazing. Naturally, a born singer writer
Y’all the song wasn’t about trying to get the guy and saying she’s better cause she “isn’t like other girl” it’s that she’s always been there with the guy whereas his girl is always treating him bad yet he never seems to notice her but rather always goes for the traditional popular girls in school. It’s the girl self-deprecating herself to try and understand why the guy doesn’t want her.
She was 16 when her first album came out, so she was probably pretty popular, at the very least after that.
@@eavye95 well guess what girl the story isn’t about her. The song is inspired by a toxic relationship that she had nothing to do with, hence the story is made up💀
It's a pick me tone
@@13579hee The song does have a Pick-Me tone, but it doesn't have Pick-Me origins.
I love this video. It's like every teenage girl's story ever. My second favorite is Blank Space. Most 20-something ladies story.
The fact that she got it in the exact same pitch
You’re joking right?
That 'crazy' was adorable!
Her No Autotune voice is so good 💞