Your Child's Behavior Isn't The Problem with Ginger Hubbard
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- Опубликовано: 8 апр 2024
- This week’s guest has been one of the most influential voices in our parenting - Ginger Hubbard! You can have all the parenting books and study all the articles, yet if the Word of God is not your source of wisdom it will accomplish absolutely nothing. Ginger has taken principles found in the Word of God and teaches practical approaches to raising children that don’t just obey you, but most importantly honor the Lord. This conversation was an absolute honor!
Ginger’s Wise Words for Moms chart and books referenced in this episode can all be found here www.gingerhubbard.com/collect... (www.gingerhubbard.com/collect...) AND she has given our listeners 10% off her resources using code ‘PARENTING’ at checkout!
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I was listening to ginger on 89.9 fm here in Australia 🇦🇺
Really!
I’ve been praying for a resource for biblical parenting that is conviction based instead of condemning based. Thank you so much ❤❤
Thank you for this!! I’ve been looking for a resource like this
I NEEDED this!! Thank you ❤
The collaboration I’ve been waiting for 🙌🎉
I cannot tell you how critically important seeing this video was today. In the most unexpected way. Thank you both so much for your obedience to the Lord ❤
Thank youuuu, I haven’t watched it yet but I’m so excited 😂❤️
You look so beautiful Melina! Your glowing ❤great lesson I so needed this pray for me I’m a mom of four sweet girls and I’m trying my best with the Lord and I need all the prayers I can get❤
This is one of the best and most informative episodes on mothering. Great work and great questions
This was such a wonderful interview! Thank you So much! Ran and count the kids books and the chart!
This was the one I was most excited for! I LOVE Gingers podcast. This was such a great video!!! Thank you!!!
I’m SO grateful for these conversations ❤
This video was an answered prayer 😭💗 I’ve been asking God for months for direction on mothering my children, 2.5 year old and a 1 year old and this was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you both ❤
Praise God!!
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What is the name of the podcast where Ginger reads the books you had mentioned ?
Woohoo! I have been a fan of Ginger for a while! So cool to see you have her on the podcast!
Just ordered the chart and ‘I can’t believe you just said that’. Great episode today, thanks Milena ❤️
Yay! You introduced me to Ginger Hubbard & I'm so thankful. You both have given me so much Bliblical Parenting wisdom & I'm so grateful ❤
So thankful for this channel.
Wow! Thank you both for this!
This episode changed me as a mother for the better. Thank you so much!!
This was so needed! I’m about to welcome baby #2 in a few weeks and have been feeling so overwhelmed with this new season as my 2 year old has been having a lot more tantrums recently. Thank you Milena and Ginger for your encouragement and practical advice.
Milena your content is always so perfect in timing with my prayers and struggles.
So much gratitude to the Lord for answered prayers and to you for alwayyyyyyyys coming with exactly what I need.
I have been waiting for this! LOVE Ginger!
Fantastic episode! Loved this ❤
Thank you for this ❤
Thank you. I'm gonna look more into this. Thank you God. I've been struggling.
I found my way to Ginger as a direct result of Milena talking about her. Such a God send. This is a very exciting interview to see pop up on my feed today!! ❤
Thank you so much for this! An answer prayer in this season.
I heard one time that just because your children behave doesn’t mean they will go to heaven. Our job is to point them to Jesus and know they need a savior.
Oof, the conviction! Thank you both for taking the time to make this video. God bless ❤️
Thank you for sharing this! Doing the Lord’s work, truly. God bless you both!
Goosebumps ❤ after all the sharing of Gingers podcasts, here she is 🙏 What a blessing. Cannot stop listening to her podcast. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤
Thank you!!!
Such a great episode!!!!!!!!! Thank you Ginger and Milena!
So glad you enjoyed it ☺️
Wise words for moms changed my life and I've been implementing for several months now. It taught me patience, even when my chart is out of reach. Such a great reminder... remember moms: we all still fail. It just provides an opportunity to teach our children apologies, repentance and forgiveness ❤
Love you Ginger and Milena
Beautiful!
Thank you so much! God’s timing is perfect and this was just what we needed to hear today. As a Christian mom trying to do the biblical teaching and training daily with a toddler (and facing new struggles) this stepped on my toes and not only provided such good insight to a better way to discipline, but also that “mom” herself needs to consider these heart probing questions in some areas of my own life and really strive to model what would honor the Lord in every situation. Children see it all and they soak things up so easily so it’s crucial to model what you want them to be. It reminds me of the children’s song (that applies even in adulthood) He’s still working on me to make me what I ought to be. Thank you so much for this today as it will sure help our home and has shifted my mindset towards a more Godly approach concerning discipline. So thankful for the gift of a child and the gift it is of being a mother and I know that ultimately our daughter belongs to the Lord and we want to always point her to Him that she may come to know and accept him as her personal Savior at an early age! I am so amazed at this perspective, didn’t realize some key things I have been missing, and didn’t fully grasp that discipline is a big opportunity to point her to Jesus!
Oooooo I’ve been looking forward to this! 😊👏❤️
Just ordered the chart, her book & 6 weeks study guide and the 3 books for my children!! What a beautiful episode today! Praise the Lord for Ginger and Milena
May I ask where I can find these books ? I'm a single mom with 3 kids I love to read and learn I believe we all could use some wisdom in this area.
This interview is pure gold! THANK YOU both this is probably one of my favorite episodes!🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
So glad to hear! 🤍
Sooo good! What an incredible blessing and answer to prayer to see my two fave mothering/shepherding podcasts collide into this beautiful half hour of straight fire and wisdom!!!
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The literal GOOSEBUMPS I had when I saw this podcast pop up. The Lord’s timing is perfect! The past month I’ve been praying for something like this and today just broke down in my emotions. This is such an answered prayer. Just bought the chart!
I could cry listening to this
Two of my favs!
I tried the discount code here in New Zealand, it didn't work😅 brought the resource anyway really grateful!
Genuine question here.. “you told a lie but you are not a liar”… but how does that work with sin?? You sinned but you are not a sinner? But we ARE telling them that they are sinners. I am genuinely confused here please help me understand.
We are born into sin and sinful by nature BUT I believe once we come to Christ and follow Him, we are no longer labeled “sinners” because He died for our sin- it’s covered in the blood so that’s no longer our identity. We may fall into sin, but we are not defined by sin. So for our children, since we believe in faith that they will be saved (if they aren’t already) we don’t address them by their sin. We speak LIFE, not death (proverbs 18:21)! We tell them the truth, that they were born into sin and theyre sinners by nature BUT, again, because we know that salvation exists in Christ, we don’t call them “liars” “thieves” etc. if we call them that it shapes their mindset and how they view themselves and it negatively impacts them as they grow older. We can address the sin and address that their FLESH craves sin without making the sin their identity
Because even if you’re a person who does not lie, you’re still a sinner.
Telling a lie but not being a liar is not the same thing as not being a sinner.
It’s like helping your child establish their inner dialogue. If you call them a name like a liar when they tell a lie, that becomes their view of themselves. That becomes their inner monologue. Then they think “I can’t help it, it’s who I am” and then they become comfortable with lying because they feel like they can’t control it because that’s become their view of themselves.
Does that make sense?
So help them to say “you made a mistake, but that doesn’t define you, repent and learn” instead of “you told a lie and that makes you a liar” and they view themselves as that
girl, I’m with you. that makes absolutely no sense. Paul called himself the CHIEF OF SINNERS all while being an Apostle. i hate to say it but that was grave error on behalf of Ginger, and i hope she sees that.
@@thediaryofkenI love the way that you explained this! ❤
@@jarie9689but Ginger actually called herself a sinner, too.
I don’t think she meant it that way
Thank you for thiisssssss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I bought the pamphlet and don’t have kids yet but did not want to miss out!
Me when this popped up 🏃🏻♀️➡️🏃🏻♀️➡️🏃🏻♀️➡️
Saaaaame
Same!!! I love her!!! And you!!!!
Me too! I wish I could have an episode every day hahaha
as someone who is very familiar with ginger and her podcast, i was excited for the episode! i was a bit disappointed though, i was hoping for some more depth. if you've never heard of her, this could be a nice introduction, but i'm sure most of the parents who listen to your podcast are already subscribers of hers or have heard her POV on these things. in the future it would be more interesting to go deeper with your guests and draw out things they haven't already talked about at length. i think it could be more beneficial!
Agree - lacks depth
Loved this!
The Bible verse than can be used for whining is Philippians 2:14-15 🙏🏼
“Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure…”
I have been watching Milena since her channel first started around 2016 when i was 15. Now I am 23 and getting married in September - I have loved almost growing up with Milena. Milena - thank you so much for your encouragement and wisdom in my life 🧡
So sweet 🥹 congratulations on your upcoming marriage!!
LOVE Ginger
Can I ask at what age can you start implementing this chart, when is the child able to understand this principles? My daughter is 18 months old and we are expecting baby #2 in August.
Appreciate this but frustrated at the lack of virtual electronic printable chart once purchased. Wise Words for Moms selling at 4.99$. Don’t know why she doesn’t have the option to sent the PDF by email of the chart. The only option is mail? This adds a whopping 27$+ for international shipping to Canada and with 2024 modernization, sending the chart electronically would help reach a wider audience. I really love the concept for parenting Biblically but am feeling frustrated at the lack of electronic version of this resource.
The TIMING
What is the chart they're talking about?
Hi! Does she have a pdf version of the Wise Words for Moms Chart that I could buy from Europe???😮 It doesn't make much sense for me to pay for USPS from here.😢
Do you have an email? I'll send you pictures of mine!
🙋♀️ Chat / Milena / Ginger 🚨
Can you point me to some scripture to help with “victim mentality”? My son struggles so much with offense and victimhood.
💔 My heart is breaking for him.
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Philippians 2:14 do everything without grumbling or complaining. (Not exactly whining but so so close) 10:30
The way I clicked on this video so fast!
Is there any way we could get the Wise Words for Moms as a pdf? To ship it to Australia would be an extra $35 😭
Do you have an email? I'll send you pictures of mine!!
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Would have loved to buy the chart but also $43 for postage to New Zealand :(
Do you have an email? I'll send you pictures of mine!
There is an app you can download that has all the same information on it!
Ok, question... If we bring our childrens sinfulness to light and make them aware of it, doesnt that cause them to come to the "age of accountability" a lot sooner?
You're training in anticipation of that. I think most people think they age is 12, but I suppose it's between the child and God since He knows what their maturity and comprehension levels are.
I love this! But I’m worried this wld turn kids off to God too. Did your children ever hate that you pulled these things out and tell them what God says is right/wrong. As milena said being shamed I guess. I wouldn’t want them to start resenting me teaching them these things about God and using it every time they did something wrong. How do your kids feel about it now?
I think we should be repenting as a daily habit. Many Christians practice something called Examine, I think it's called. You pause at the end of every day and ask the Holy Spurit to help you examine your day and your heart and repent. It's a good and necessary habit.
what do you call a person who lies? a liar. whether you’re calling them a liar or saying that they lied, that still makes them a liar in the yes of God, and the promise of forgiveness as a child of God is only true if they are genuine believers. your toddler (speaking to everyone in general) is most likely not a believer so saying that they are a a forgiven child of God would be wrong. thoughts?
I've always wondered why people parent their children as if they are already believers.... in my experience, forcing Biblical beliefs and standards on children who haven't claimed Christ yet, seems to make children either legalistic, if they become believers, or completely reject Christ later on. :/ Idk if that was related to your quesiton, but that is something I've thought about too
@@bmylove4444 The Word of God asks us to instruct and discipline our children. Ephesians says "don't provoke your children to anger but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." In Deut 6 God tells the Israelites to teach his commands diligently to the children and to talk about them pretty much all the time. Deut 4 and 11 also say this. Our job as parents are to teach children about God and raise them up to be believers. If they grow up and, God-forbid, walk away from the Lord, that's between them and God. But the Bible makes it clear we are to raise our children to be believers.
@@MissMuffin-dv4rm totally agree about the teaching them about God and raising them up to be believers. I definitely think we 100000 percent need to do that. But isn't there a difference between talking with someone who already is a believer vs someone who isnt? That was my main point.
@@bmylove4444 my thought process is, there are only two sides, believers and unbelievers. If we are raising them up to be believers, then we talk to them like believers.
Children are under grace because the bible and God has an age of accountability. Given your logic do you think toddlers are in hell suffering for sin because they weren’t “confessing believers” ?
Awesome video!