all about my stims (a tag video ?!)
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
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Here’s the 25 questions if you’d like to do this yourself!
Why do you stim?
When did you realize what stimming is/why you do it?
Have you ever made a stim toy? What’s your favourite to make?
What’s your go to stim for...
Being happy and/or excited?
Anxiety or stress?
Upset?
Overwhelmed?
Sensory-seeking?
Any other strong emotions/feelings that make you stim?
What’s your favourite texture?
Do you stim with your mouth at all? Do you have a chew toy or do you use something else?
Do you use a weighted blanket, vest, plush, etc?
What’s your favourite stim toy you have?
Is there something on your stim toy wish list?
Do you remember the first stim toy you had/have?
What’s your favourite body stim?
Favourite visual stim?
Do you have pets you like stimming with? (Petting them, cat’s purrs, etc)
Do you have echolalia and do you use it to stim at all?
Do you watch stimmy videos and if so what’re your favourites?
What’s something not made to be a stim toy, but you use it for stimming?
Favourite simple stim toy, like rocks or buttons or fabric?
Is there an everyday action you find stimmy, like skipping or brushing your hair?
Are you more of a sensory seeker or avoider?
What’s your go-to stim you do without thinking about?
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Flappy hands are happy hands!!!
My friend used to laugh because I was super cold all the time. One time I was rocking back and forth and shivering like a madman, and she called me a stimsicle. So I guess that's what I am now.
Whenever I flap my arms my girlfriend calls it my happy penguin
that's so... pure.. i'm love
@@cottontaelle sometimes when I turn off my brain I just kinda make vowel noises instead of words and my boyfriend always says “I DONT SPEAK CAT”
Are you still together?
that's so wholesome omg
@@occasionalfan-content4771 lol that is wholesome
My go to stims are:
•rocking back and forth
•flappy hands
•popping my joints/cracking my fingers
•doing this weird thing with my fingers where I'm angrily playing a piano
so yep
Whooaaa!!!! I didn’t realize I had stims until this vid! So like I wanted to see who else rocked back and forth and stuff because I’m starting to do that? Idk what it means. Also also, I noticed when my mom tells me no when I want something, I wiggle my arms around. This blowed my mind :0
I RELATE TO THE PIANO ONE SO MUCH HOLY CRAP
• I rock back and forth
• flapping hands
• clenching fists
And more but I forgot
I've got ADHD, OCD, anxiety, and a lot of sensory issues but my mom refuses to listen to my requests for professional help with my sensory stuff ahahaahh,,
but either way, I've noticed my favorite stims are chewing, rocking, tapping, and petting soft things! I'm crazy in love with stuffed animals and I have way too many of them but I love the textures.
Same everything
I have anxiety sensory processing disorder a neurdovelopment disorder insomnia and depression and I love to rock side to side back and forth happy hands and holding crystals or ice
my doctor told me i can’t stim if i have adhd yet i stim 24/7 and it’s very much annoying to me because i know what is happening!!!
@@abbyrose8550 stimming is usually a thing a lot of ADHD people use/have I-
@@morguesouls my doctors suck then because they’ve yelled at me for saying i stim
I love how cold Crystals stay, i like feeling cold things in my hands its super weird
I have a stimmy rock for this exact reason!
Yes! I love smooth objects.
I love cold things as well! It’s super soothing to me
I collect rocks because I like the texture
A stim video!! *happy flaps*
Maybee Not yas bb!🖤 😘
If you’re happy an you know it flap your hands! *flap flap*
I was feeling anxious and sad but this video is a great distraction. I love seeing other ND people on the internet talking about these things.
so you said you like to sleep with weighted blankets, and that you like the pressure. it got me thinking, I know you should NEVER sleep with your binder on, but I like the comfort of it like the pressure of it to fall asleep. I'll set a timer for a half hour and then take it off and I can go right back to sleep. I have insomnia and this seems to be the thing that works the best for me.
Wait why cant you sleep with it on
Wait why cant you sleep with it on
Caro Rio it’s too tight and can mess with your breathing. Not to mention it can crack your ribs
Yeah they say you shouldn't even wear bras to bed, and binders are even tighter
i used to chew the front of my shirts so bad i would almost always have a huge wet spot on my shirt. it was gross as hell but luckily i've found other ways to stim and plan on getting a chewy necklace
i didn’t know what stimming was until recently, and i’m just noticing how much i do things. for example when i’m under social pressure or i’m in an awkward sutiatuion i cross my index and middle finger, and fourth and pinkie finger at the same time. i also shake my leg under the desk and flick my pen between my fingers a lot to. i keep my fidget cube in my pocket at all times and use mainly the light switch side. i’m not a fan of fidget spinners though, i find they’re too big for my hands. i also rub my phone screen too. and pass my phone between my hands. i have a rubix snake toy that i learned how to make shapes with, but my mother took it away from me because the clicks annoy her. i rub my fingers between eachother too. thank you for making this video ashton !
the light switch on the side of my fidget cube is my favourite too. im always anxious to use it in public though because of the noise
sorry this isnt related but omg its STUPID DEATHS i love your pfp
This is such a cool video idea! I’ve never seen a video like this before. I’m autistic, but I didn’t actually hear the term until a little over a year ago. I totally relate to the happy flapping though, I do it whenever I get super excited and sometimes jump up and down too. I don’t have any stimming toys, but I usually play with my hands, my clothes, or clench and unclench my hands a lot. I also touch my hair a lot and pull on it or rock back and forth or from side to side on my feet.
He as another video like this one I suggest you watch that too
When im having a panic/anxiety attack i like to squeeze my hands and shake my head but my mom thinks i need to go to the doctor but for me its just a way to calm myself down. Idk how to tell her that
!! i was wondering who else also did the hand squeezing as an anxiety/distress stim!!
Hi it fine because it I have anxiety attack. Because I have it and Adhd and and tics and trade autism But. If u don’t know how to tell your mam that. U need to because she might get worried bad
Try explain to your mam I have adhd soon getting diagnosed with anxiety
Hey ashton! This is my first time hearing about stimming, and I learned a ton! I feel like I can definitely relate to wanting a weighted blanket and the way that would feel. And having things to do with my hands in a constant. And chewing. Never tried it but I feel like it would help me out. I always do origami whevever I sit down for a long period of time or suring class, it helps me focus. Anyway thanks for this, I'm gonna do a little self explpration because of this video!
When I’m exited I flap my hands lol and my nans like what on earth are you doing are you a penguin
I flap when I'm happy, my tounge moves inside my mouth a lot when I'm stressed and flick my fingers.
i love tangling my fingers in my dog's fur, she always has like pieces sticking out because of that and it looks really cute
Do you stim with your necklaces? I found myself fidgeting with mine a lot, and when I would forget to put it on it would drive me crazy not having it in my hands. Also, can the words stim and fidget be used interchangeably? Have a great day! ❤
hey! stimming and fidgeting are pretty similar, but there is a difference. stimming is something that is repetitive and expresses emotions or regulates sensory input, and fidgeting is something that just about everyone does - it doesn't have to be repetitive and it isn't necessarily needed for the person to function. hope this helps!
hannahbeee Thanks! I don't want to use the wrong word, so I appreciate your response! Have a great day/night! ❤
A Person me too exept i chew on them no matter what the matirial i chew on them im actually thinking of getting one of those chew neclaces ( they make them specificly for autism) and there is a website deticated to making fidget jewlery that also looks hood too
luminolmortis everyone stinms sometimes
Happy-happy flapping arms squiling clapping
Stress/anxious- rocking back and forth spinning
Upset-opening and closing hands cracking my knuckles clenching my jaw
is it stupid of me to do all of those things when reading it? like i do that every time. if someone says hand flapping then i will flap my hands, if someone says jaw clenching, that's what i'll do. it's so confusing and i can't even help it???
My son stims are a happy dance he dances with his feet and flap his hands around whenever he is truly happy and relaxed.
omg the boyfriend wiggle is so cute
when im nervous or overwhelmed i shake my hands or play with my hands, little small things like that, mostly with my hands since im very awkward and when i hear loud noises i cover my ears but also after the noises go away i have to shake my hands in order to calm down :D i need more stim toys i literally have no stim toys D:
3:23 i was cracking my knuckles right when you said this lmao
WHY DO YOU HAVE SO MANY TANGLES AAA i only have one and it's yellow, green, and orange (cirtus colored!!)
Your gaining so quickly!! I love it!! And I love u. I also love stim vids. Gosh I’m living for u
My nan made me a Hufflepuff blanket and it is heavy so it is like a weighted blanket
It's exactly like this for me... I am so happy I found this
i'm currently trying to get diagnosed with adhd. i stim to certain sound and songs, i mainly stim when i hear a song or audio that makes me really happy and triggers my stim.
Ah yes! There’s a few sounds that will absolutely make me stim. One of them is fairly embarrassing but I still love it-
can u do more vids on derma? Do u think cheek biting because of anxiousness can be a sign of derma?
cheek biting is definitely a bfrb! from the research i've done it doesn't really have it's own name, but i'd say it's most similar to dermatophagia, which is skin biting.
@@luminolmortis5927 i have dermatophagia (outer and inner lips, cheeks, knuckles, nailbeds) and this is certainly a part of it!
Flappy hands are my favorite. I need to get more stim stuff for when I’m at school because rocking isn’t enough haha
yayy!! love your stimming videos so much!
Something. . . Not meant to be a stim toy----
*Does my best friend count? She's also my favorite texture*... _I just- pet her... hands or hair- ..._
Oooooh! I love using one of my friends as a weighted blanket (she’s a great hugger and I just d r a p e her over me) I also love playing with her hair
same 😭
I think you might like to stim with silly putty. I use it all the time and it really helps me out. I can't go anywhere without some silly putty and you might like it cause it is squishy.
you have a standard poodle!! OMG yassssssss!!
I super enjoyed this video. Thanks!!!
Also one of my favorite stimtastic toys is a stretchy squish ball. You should look it up...it's a stress ball with a silly putty-like interior!!! It's one of my favorites
Him/them: you can pick a random video I’ll be rocking back and forward
Me: yeah me too- WAIT your doing it right now XD
I'm early! But, good video and you look great.
I see that mcr poster in the background and my special interest alarm is yelling at me
I also love lots of blanket piled on top of me
that blue sponge thing- yes!
off topic and i may be wrong, but i believe i have the same blue sweater as you !! i swear it looks the same; the zipper and the fuzz on the inside and everything abt it looks the same as yours :0
Love you so much ashton! I really appreciate this video❤️❤️
chewigem is really good when you can get new chew toys! some ones that would be good for you are the skull pendant, tread bangle, wave bangle and hexichew x
Hey just a word of advice, my dentist told me chewing on your cheek could lead to cancer. I don’t mean to make you panic you’re probably fine and the chances are likely small, but I just wanted to let you know. Wonderful video by the way! You seem so sweet.
Wait it can WHAT
Looks like I'm screwed then, I've been doing that for almost 16 years
I have an all black fidget cube and it is awesome! I have echolalia when I am overwhelmed I just repeat everything said to me, and then half answer the question, like yes/no or just erm. I got overwhelmed in class today so walked out of maths crying towards the end, and then had to take a time out of English because I was so overwhelmed at the start. 😕 my anxiety is through the roof at the moment and my sensory system is totally out of whack, to the point I hate school so much I don’t want to go. Any advice?
I just made a video bc of you inspiring me :)
i like to stim using a hot glue gun. i make a ball with different textures out of the glue and stim with that. most of the time i rub the smoothest side.
I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU
I have a very soft unicorn that's very fuzzy and soft and I suck my thumb while rubbing the material against my face. I also chew on my shirts and water bottle caps sometimes.
i used to pick the slime in my ears but older toddler me concluded nose buggers are way more stimulating. my opinion hasnt changed since. nobody catches me... just for fun, when im enjoying myself
also banging my hands agaisnt the tabme, shaking my hand(s) or my whole bpdy or left leg when im ecstatic, also just stomping and jumping everuwhere, spinning
when im angry i like to bite and chew things to destruction :)
OOOh and playing wioth my hair so so much
when i was smaller i used to push my chin agaisnt things, i still like to flex my chin muscles
im not diagnosed with everything i probably have, but i do know i have autism and adhd
FUR. i aDORE FUR real and faux fur. yes i am a plsuhie junkie
I binged a ton of your videos and i kept thinking that you reminded me of someone and i finally realized that you remind me of connor franta!! Like your voice reminds me of a young connor franta, and the shape of your face and mouth? Not tryna be weird sorry ahh 💛💛
@ Lily Elisabeth But No!!!!!!???????? Oogly-Woogly??????........Or was it Groggy-Oggy ???????
So this is yr stim ? - Name-play, and change? Enjoy findin' you hidin'..... Regards
I’m getting the stretchy squishy ball from stimtastic I’m sooo excited
I have a citrine point and I love it so much
My Name's Blurryeeface is that a birthstone?
Oh my god my friend sam recommended stimtastic to me march fifth! But I’d forgotten about it! I’m gonna look them up now
i find hand stimming is mainly what i do. my gf gave me a d4 and it helps a lot to hand stim without hurting my hands. i have issues with squeezing my thumb and hurting it. so rolling the d4 between my fingers stops me from doing that.
i dont really like toys made specifically for fidgeting.
i like pen caps. d4. keys. loose change. they're my favourite.
also i am stimming so so much just watching this video 😊
Great idea. I’ve been planning on starting a RUclips channel anyway. I’m totally up for doing the stimming tag. I’ll post a link when I’ve done it and credit you in the description.
I bought a Chewie from stimtastic, it helps so much
Love the highlight x
I like clicky things and what I carry around is an apple headphone mic that I cut off of my headphone when they broke
I have the purple metallic tangle too! It actually came in a pack of 3 with the fuzzy tangle and the pan colored texture tangle but idk where they went ;
I HAVE THAT BAT!!
I like to play with never drying clay it feels nice in my hands it helps me think and it gives me something fun to do
I also do the happy flappys
I’m getting a fidget cube and chewerly cause I constantly fidget and need to chew on stuff
@@sznofficial9642 same
I chew on my hand when anxious
I’m for sure gonna do this on my YT channel
I PLAY FLUTE TOOOO!!!
Im 15 and my stim still is and always has been sucking my thumb and chewing on everything which never did anything to my teeth so for now I think I'm ok
im 16 and still suck my thumb and chew a lot. im happy to see someone else who does the same
hannahbeee Omg yay I'm happy to find someone else too! 😊
I sucked my thumb until I was 8 and when that stoped I picked up chewing and I’ve been chewing for years now
I WAS LATE MANNNN
Do you script and if so what's your favorite topic to script work for word
Sorry for spamming comments I commented in the middle of watching haha but I had a small unused diaper cloth that was super worn and sofffft that I called my fwankie and I think my parents got rid of it but I was so attached to it and I couldnt sleep without it ahhh I miss it
Can you make a stintastic haul?
I like to stim
I pick at my fingers and bite my nails and have bad anxiety and adhd and I know I shouldn't eat my fingers but I don't know what to do
I kinda really wanna make a video on these questions, too, but I've never recorded or uploaded any videos before, so I'm insecure about this ^^"
when im really excited and happy i like to squeeze my hands or vibrate my body idk and then when im scared i clench my teeth alot and just grind and tap my fingers or just tap my fingers when im bored and then bouncing my leg when im bored i also squeeze my hands when im nervoud or really excited i guessi just squeeze my hands when i feel really emotional and flop my hands when im feeling really hyper.... i think it got to a point where i punched my friend oops
is it abnormal to flap with your hands when you're anxious or stressed?
no
I like rocking
It's great seeing more girls talking about this stuff. Although I'm realizing that it's usually girls on RUclips rather than guys with things like this. But anyway, it's great that girls are just being heard anyway, so you keep doing what youre doing!
I’m a boy.......
Oh. Sorry, mate.
I squeeze up my face
How old when you diangnosed ASD?
Is sucking your thumb a stim? Cause I've sucked my thumb and did the nose rubby thing for all my life (I also have other stims and tics btw)
Sucking on your thumb can be a stim!
I hate the feel of foam soap used to make felt acorn ornaments
Darnit I’m late >:( that’s upsetting
I have a trans, pan and bi colours tangles
i have a tangle with the pan colours :D !! i want one with the trans colours on it ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ
I also have autism
I have adhd .anxiety.tics . Trade autism
Hi, you are very cute
oh my god r u on t lol haven’t visited in a while
Hah no worries. I’ve been on T the whole time I’ve had a youtube channel !
Ashton Daniel oh wow sorry your voice has gotten a lot deeper 😁☺️😛😂👍
Omg am I the first commenter? So early
I bit my cheeks a lot
You should check out evtheveg (:
Hi Ashton! I did a stem tag video of my stems eith your questions on my channel. Hope you check it out!
Whenever I get affection from partners I put my shoulders near my ears and flap my hands and make little noises
balloon
I was thinking of how you give off trans/enby vibes and then I saw the flag lol
Is dat a guy
Yes