Another new video coming this weekend! (psst don't forget to subscribe) You can go say hi to the 2 that open up in this video at their channels over in my description. Let me know in the comments about your past breakups and how you handled it.
I remember talking to a girl at a party and asking her l if she'd ever heard of Hayayo Miyazaki, she hadn't. So i grabbed my friends laptop, torrented Spirited Away and we started watching it together and we ended up fucking in the middle of it. This isn't the 90s anymore guys, the popular guy in the class can also be a hardcore gamer.
Hey guys, thanks for having me! We obviously filmed this video some time ago, before some recent.. Uh.. Events... But I figured the messages inside could be helpful to people. So please, enjoy the video!
RubberNinja I hope things get better for you, you’ve gone through a lot but you have so many good people and fans who genuinely care for you. Don’t forget that you can reach out to them when you feel like your breaking down.
Glad you're doing better Ross, thank you for sharing the "article intended for 14 year old girls" it made me realize that my past relationship...was...abusive yet I didn't pick up on the red flags, on a side note I can't wait to see future Mario Maker 2 streams.
I’ve found that’s the best way to deal with other guys. Throw in those jokes alongside talking about your thoughts. Somehow we connect better that way and it basically tells both parties we have our defenses down and we’re listening to each other.
It can apply to any relationship. Even relationships with animals (Like owner and pet relationship like best friends type shit) but non verbally could apply to this if you think about it. Like, my rabbit attacks my parents when they try to pet him but he loves me so much that he grooms me at 3:00 AM every morning. It's really strange how animals attatch to a specific person and struggle to interact with others.
Seriously my friend he is like that to me but not. Because friends you know just kinda tease at eachother and like we just make fun of each other but sometimes it actually hurts me :/
....some of them also happen in all non abusive relationships, often the dose makes the poison y'know. Conclusion: Humans are shit at being human. Just tryna balance the bleak end out a little bit. What matter is the stuff you and your partner consent to, to listen to each other and respect each others wishes as best as you can.
Dont forget that chronically twitching knee! Noticed it only a time or two in this vid, but you'll see it in others. Makes me chuckle even when things are sad and intimate.
@@Sir_Cumference314 lol too many people have already pointed it out to me, and is something I likely would've never taken importance in otherwise. Its It's cute, c'monnn
Her: "I'm living in my car because my dad is a meth addict and it's not safe at my house, plus my boyfriend is really abusive and I....." Me: "Are we going to study for this test or not?"
Poor ross and wobbles both of them deserve to be treated right Edit:dang 3k+ likes i just went to see all the vids i liked and i remembered this and rewatched it, and checked the comments damn idk if i deserve likes on this simple comment tho...
"Last year was a bummer" Feel sad for Ross for being in the situation he was in with relationship, not just going through a divorce. Seems like he got "coerced" (manipulated) into accepting being cheated on, or at least that's how it seems. Hopefully he got support to get over that well.
I feel like the Grumps and the rest of his/their friend group was there for him throughout, I’m sure that helped a ton. I’m sure it still sucked but he seems so fucking happy in his new relationship and I couldn’t be any happier for him if I tried
I love the fact that they just started talking like "Man, Bros Before Hos man, but you're not like, beating her up, right? Naw man, I mean, I used to be bad. Alright. Wanna get a Pizza?"
i feel like the last dude’s way of talking and mannerisms downplayed his whole situation like this girl took advantage of the trust he put into her and took a complete truth he believed and completely flipped the little sense of control he had in the relationship like wtff?!?!? i want to hug this man
The dragon Ball z guy has some pretty solid advice. I never in my life would've expected serious relationship advice holy hell. I feel lucky watching this, oh man.
Dude this is so powerful rn. Went through a rough breakup a few months ago. That part that Ross mentioned about loving yourself first is soooooooo true
honestly this video really helped me I had a terrible heart break over the last 3 months and she is none back with her abusive ex she kept telling me about how bad he was and she mentions him every time I ask her what she is doing. I honestly needed this
Just for all of you out there, if someone ever tells you “if you love me, you’ll do *insert whatever you think is uncomfortable*” GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP I know too many people that think that if they don’t do certain things with their S/o then it doesn’t show their love. That’s bs. If THEY love you then they won’t force you to do anything you aren comfortable doing. Never let whoever your with dictate how you feel or what you do. Stay safe everyone 💕
Thank you for this, I had an incredibly abusive ex girlfriend who tore me apart in every way above and in the video. She tried to kill me too lol but I prevailed and I'm at the happiest point of my life!
I feel for Rubberninja when he says "when youre younger youll just take the first thing that comes along" having someone who you THINK cares about you in a relashionship is a nice feeling. However it blinds you, you miss the red flags that pop up and you give that person the benefit of the doubt that maybe theyre acting a certain way for a legit reason. You give that person time/energy/affection and they end up just kinda throwing you away.
I totally sympathize. My ex was obliviously strained in our relationship, but I was so desperate for the attention and clouded by my own affection that i couldn't see things from her perspective. I'm still reeling from the break up 7 months later, even knowing that it was for the best, because I relied on the relationship too much for my feelings of self-worth. I have to focus on learning to love myself first and foremost, or I'll always be dependent on others.
@@SleepyGiant22 Stay positive, things in your life could be a lot worse im sure. Always look at the brighter side of situations. It sounds corny but its true, everything could always be x10 worse IMO. Took me a while to get over my last relashionship, got a new job and a new car and was instantly better. We all will find someone at somepoint in our lives, its just a matter of when. Be strong, move on, and learn from mistakes.
David Garcia it’s hard to admit you was abusive in past relationships. I didn’t realise me saying ‘if you don’t I’ll do this’ but more as a playful thing was starting to upset her. Same with being randomly moody, random outbursts of anger at normal things, making fun of her, not letting her enjoy herself with friends for fear that she was the same as before I met her (she actually turned out the same lol so I had a reason to be cautious and she lied the whole time and I basically got cheated on but worse). What I’m getting at is that as men we don’t like to admit to our wrongs especially when it effects our egos and our status to others, but admitting and working on it is the best we can do. Lots of emotionally abusive people don’t get help or realise they are probably suffering mental health issues and just put it aside.
This short film is, on the surface, a cautionary tale of the need to have one’s best interest in mind above all. The audience is presented with two vastly different subjects who recount their experiences with failed relationships. Despite their differences, the audience is intended to receive the same message from both subjects. The first subject is someone who would be considered a bit of a “loner” (to use contemporary descriptions). Their avatar (in this case, a hyper-metaphoric representation of their reality) is disheveled, slouched, and devoid of animation aside from the occasional restless leg. This subject describes their own obsession with foreign cartoons and a certain distaste for outward social interaction. By all accounts, this person would generally be outcasted. The other subject dons an extremely muscular and well postured character with orange skin and chic attire. This subject is significantly more confident sounding, talented, and obviously thrives in social interaction. (I believe the orange skin and friendly mannerisms are a political criticism to some regard; unrelated to this short film but still important to Syrmor’s filmography nonetheless). This subject is, without a doubt, a figure that many crave to be. However, they share a motif with the other subject. Both characters describe their close calls with people in their life who craved something in bad faith. Whether it be revenge for infidelity, security, money, or some other dastardly motive, these characters were the victims of some desire. Syrmor has often used duality or dialectics in the past to describe a particular theme. In this case, I believe Syrmor is cautioning against the participation of romantic and/or sexual relationships. The muscular character provided a lengthy list of symptoms for toxic relationships and there’s a reason for that length. It is because every single relationship is filled with these dangerous minefields that ultimately end terribly. Like a minefield in Cambodia, one begins to cross into a relationship thinking that everything is okay until meeting a tragic end previously veiled. The theme of such relationships is shared with a song by Tool, one of Syrmor’s greatest influences. “Swamp Song” from Tool’s “Undertow” album describes such a warning. One particular set of lyrics describes it perfectly: “This bog is thick and easy to get lost in / 'Cause you're a stupid, belligerent fucker!” Although abrasive, this warning describes a clear and present danger of relationships by referring to them as a bog. It is well known that love makes people stupid and belligerent, as well. This song, and this short film, serve as a warning to avoid groups and individuals who may mean harm by such entrapment.
Someone in one of my precious commentaries decided to baselessly attack the depth of my arguments by saying that Syrmor’s short films are not inherently political. I challenge anyone to prove me wrong with this work of Syrmor’s. Even the lowest sea creature could grasp even the scent of an ideological charge with this short film.
Wow. It's refreshing to see Ross talk about this in some extent. He hasn't gone into any details as far as I know of. Nice to see he knows signs of an abuser
i give respect to Austin. u don't have hate the person they cheated on u with. its the person that cheated on you that you have to dislike bc they cheated on u.
this has gotten me through my first breakup and i dont talk to other people out loud so i can relate to his story, my ex said she loved me and i loved her yet i kept going back even though she didnt seem interested, till i decided enough is enough no more BS. im so thankful i just came across your channel, thank you.
I’ve never watched a RUclips video where everything said... hit every nail in my life on the spot. If I wasn’t already subscribed this individual video would have made me a lifer. Thank you...
Ross as Jeice is everything I needed. also thank you for this, I was wondering how he's been holding up since the recent incident; even though they're already divorced I heard they were still friends. _points cheekily_ "I got divorced and it was a bummer~" god what a hero honestly
well for them it was more a divorce since she moved to seattle and he had to stay in LA rather then them seperating because they didnt love eachother anymore
I was sitting in my kitchen cleaning dishes and i Heard rubberninja say these flags and i am screaming YES YES YES in my kitchen. They are right, and these people that put you in these relationships will mess you up. My Ex wife did this to me for 8 yrs and it took 13 months of therapy to get better. These relationships are not worth it, and if someone is going to cheat on you, then all they are doing is using you and abusing you even more. Leave them. Dont deal with it, and sadly, people very rarely change. Dont let it toxic people that come in your life, stay. They will only hurt you and affect you as an individual. Syrmor, Rubber, all of you, keep doing this cause people need to know, i sadly did not see these flags until it was too late and now after the stress and abuse, i only see these flags and its hard to turn off. Love your work, and much love to you all. I know btw i am in a good place now, my current GF that i have been with for 13 months, she said she would if she meet my Ex wife is give her a hug and say thank you. That woman i am with now has such a big heart that she would say that to a complete stranger knows the kind of man i am and what she put me though. Thats love right there. Meeting her has really changed my life.
I have to say the Mr. Wobbles story is so relatable. Because I dated a girl who never told me she was in a relationship with somebody but still dated me regardless. Obviously I was not okay when I learned that and it really made me a little bit of a bitter person, but I got over it and moved on.
With everything that's been going on with Ross lately, I hope he's doing okay. He's so genuine and sweet. All around such a nice guy. Keep it up, Ross.
I love how in these videos the people are just so genuine and sincere and you can just have chill conversations. In other games it's rare to find people like that. Such a contrast.
just want to point out that the video is really well made. The way the eddits are done feels natural and engaging. The way the storys are told with the cuts between are well done. Great story's, Great content
i love how intimate it is as if you're there sitting with them too. its really nice because you can relate to some of it and the experiences they go through, letting you know that you're not alone.
This channel is so good, I love how your showing problems people have in a way people want to listen and understand. This is definitely going to be one of my favorite channels on this site
If anyone is in a relationship like the guy in black then you NEED to read the book "Attached" by Amir Lavine and Rachel Heller. I dealt with the same thing and always thought it was my fault, and that something was wrong with me. But that book explained my relationship to a tee, so much so that it was almost eerie, and really helped me accept the circumstances and move on.
I just clicked up this video to chill on in the background. All of the sudden. God damn it Ross, love ya man. And him talking about his mom, man that stings now.
This is a neat sort of panel. Stories that are sad but you get to see how they're still going. Giving people a voice and giving others the knowledge and inspiration to keep going.
those were random interjections, he is in pain even when he thinks about it, what she did to him, "the other boyfriend" it started as a joke but it was actually the truth, i find myself in these random interjections, the guy might do them to release the emotional pressure or he has some mental problems, I totally empathize with him and I hope he is better now and finds the person he deserves.
I thought I recognized the voice at first so I checked the description and sure enough it's my boy Wobbles!! I've been pals with the guy online for years and never knew any of this, the things you never know about people......
My simple advice for dealing with a breakup: Try your best to remember that you had a life before that person and try to get back to that. Sometimes we invest so much of ourselves in a relationship that when it’s over and the relationship is no more, it can feel like there’s not enough of you, for you, yknow?
RubberNinja 1 day ago Hey guys, thanks for having me! We obviously filmed this video some time ago, before some recent.. Uh.. Events... But I figured the messages inside could be helpful to people. So please, enjoy the video!
Sometimes I feel like I have no one to talk about my issues with, or that I need to just be glad I don’t have it worse, so watching people express there pain actually helps quite a bit.
Another new video coming this weekend! (psst don't forget to subscribe)
You can go say hi to the 2 that open up in this video at their channels over in my description. Let me know in the comments about your past breakups and how you handled it.
I officially did not forget to subscribe
Syrmor your the best keep up the good work ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your title is messed up, you're missing the ")" at the end
@@YT7mc woops fixed it! Thanks mate
Comment so you live
"Had to show her the nar" i will now only refer to naruto as The Nar
Tristate 𝚜𝚊𝚖𝚎
naruto= nar
sasuke=sas
Shred the nar lol
narsas
Sakura = Sak
the dynamic between ross and pooh is way too funny
Taygon45 Eh... fuck off
@@mrmess171 lmao
@@mrmess171 you are definitely Canadian
fish it's a literal reference from the video
@@skidy5578 why?
"(Finger guns) I got divorced!"
Should I laugh or cry?
i did both😂😭
I'm thinkin' bof
Both
Carbon Copy Ross has always been more level headed and genuine in comparison to some of his cohosts
Why not both?! Random audible cheering in the background*
“What happened last year?”
**makes finger guns**
“I got divorced.. it was a bummer haha”
:(
Madison Houle that’s what my dad said
Watery Moth 3094 Anna oop
sad times :(
"Had to show her the Nar" and got laid after. What an absolute Chad.
But seriously, that guy seems cool as hell. Sucks that he had to go through that.
“Had to show her the Nar” made me lose it
Its really cool how the other guy and him realized they were being played and updating each other on the real situation
I remember talking to a girl at a party and asking her l if she'd ever heard of Hayayo Miyazaki, she hadn't. So i grabbed my friends laptop, torrented Spirited Away and we started watching it together and we ended up fucking in the middle of it. This isn't the 90s anymore guys, the popular guy in the class can also be a hardcore gamer.
@@MagnuM2980 What kind of party was that?
Hey guys, thanks for having me! We obviously filmed this video some time ago, before some recent.. Uh.. Events... But I figured the messages inside could be helpful to people. So please, enjoy the video!
Thanks for sharing! You've been an awesome part of RUclips for as long as I've watched videos on this platform xD
Thanks again for coming to talk!
RubberNinja I hope things get better for you, you’ve gone through a lot but you have so many good people and fans who genuinely care for you. Don’t forget that you can reach out to them when you feel like your breaking down.
Glad you're doing better Ross, thank you for sharing the "article intended for 14 year old girls" it made me realize that my past relationship...was...abusive yet I didn't pick up on the red flags, on a side note I can't wait to see future Mario Maker 2 streams.
Love ya ross. And thanks for the wee adventure animation series you recommended! Loving it
"hah aha AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH you know what I mean?"
Sadly yeah 😔
I really do
That got me in tears laughing when he said it
ℑ 𝔣𝔢𝔩𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔰𝔥𝔦𝔱 𝔬𝔫 𝔞 𝔰𝔭𝔦𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔩 𝔩𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔩
@@OniMane666 Same
I'm glad Ross is doing good. He's a really swell guy. Wobbles seems cool too.
weird that this is his first exposure in a loooong time.
@@jiffylou98 not really but, okay
I love Ross he’s so wholesome
"Ross is a swell guy"
Arin and Danny would disagree when they play Mario Maker.
@@frank2437 until Mario maker is being played
7:08
"Auuuh. aAauUUhh. AAaAUUUUuuUHHHHHHHHH!!!!!.....you know what I mean?"
*MOOD*
Ella Drutarosky dude that shit killed me😂
Big mood
yea that.... thats pain : (
i really felt that
Ella Drutarosky I’ve been in an INSANE relationship and the weird way he screamed just made so much sense to me 😓
"So you *did* do your mum."
"....fUk you"
Holy dang I'm dying xD
In all seriousness, I wish the best for these dudes.
same man 🤣😂
I’ve found that’s the best way to deal with other guys. Throw in those jokes alongside talking about your thoughts. Somehow we connect better that way and it basically tells both parties we have our defenses down and we’re listening to each other.
All the signs of abusive relationships that Ross mentions... also apply to non-romantic relationships and even close relatives.
EmberFlower 𝚢𝚎𝚜 𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎
It can apply to any relationship.
Even relationships with animals (Like owner and pet relationship like best friends type shit) but non verbally could apply to this if you think about it.
Like, my rabbit attacks my parents when they try to pet him but he loves me so much that he grooms me at 3:00 AM every morning.
It's really strange how animals attatch to a specific person and struggle to interact with others.
Yea i'm going through some shit right now realising my mum that passed in 2016, in her own way, did a lot of these things.
Seriously my friend he is like that to me but not. Because friends you know just kinda tease at eachother and like we just make fun of each other but sometimes it actually hurts me :/
....some of them also happen in all non abusive relationships, often the dose makes the poison y'know. Conclusion: Humans are shit at being human. Just tryna balance the bleak end out a little bit. What matter is the stuff you and your partner consent to, to listen to each other and respect each others wishes as best as you can.
Wobbles screaming and then asking "Ya know what I mean?" is a big mood
HappiiKandy bruh
Yeah
such an ethan klein moment and a big ass mood
fat mood
Man's should've seen that from a mile away.... if your girl going to eat steak at 2 am lmao mf was blind
I've always loved how Pooh just stands there and listens.
Me too i love pooh!
Dont forget that chronically twitching knee! Noticed it only a time or two in this vid, but you'll see it in others. Makes me chuckle even when things are sad and intimate.
Zachary Lawler and you think it’s just okay to point that out huh you just gonna make that the focal point of the video now okay
@@Sir_Cumference314 lol too many people have already pointed it out to me, and is something I likely would've never taken importance in otherwise. Its It's cute, c'monnn
@@Sir_Cumference314 sir do you play Mordhau?
Her: "I'm living in my car because my dad is a meth addict and it's not safe at my house, plus my boyfriend is really abusive and I....."
Me: "Are we going to study for this test or not?"
Dude really decided to ignore the communist parade of red flags...
Everyone says "damn it Ross"
But has anyone said "Damn, Ross"
Yo. You fuckin' right.
yeah
OMG, yes!! 😂
Who knew that studying could go so wrong, oh so wrong
The lesson here is that we shouldn't study if we dont want our hearts broken
Dawa, Minecraft and Tetris aren't "studying" no matter how hard you try to convince us its your geometry homework.
Are you still looking for your danny devito avatar?
@@bradybishop285 yes
@@Dawabvle i know what youe next video ahould be about then
Whoa this is a crossover i didn’t expect
cross over of dbz and minefcaft?
huggleskuishy what is this a crossover episode of Mr.Peanutbutter and bojack horseman
Poor ross and wobbles both of them deserve to be treated right
Edit:dang 3k+ likes i just went to see all the vids i liked and i remembered this and rewatched it, and checked the comments damn idk if i deserve likes on this simple comment tho...
THEY NEED TO MEET UP!!!
Agreed
sad
I agree
Don't worry, Ross is dating a sexy demon girl with teeth for abs.
“Fucken bit-“
So deep.
You could make a religion out of this
"Last year was a bummer"
Feel sad for Ross for being in the situation he was in with relationship, not just going through a divorce. Seems like he got "coerced" (manipulated) into accepting being cheated on, or at least that's how it seems. Hopefully he got support to get over that well.
I feel like the Grumps and the rest of his/their friend group was there for him throughout, I’m sure that helped a ton. I’m sure it still sucked but he seems so fucking happy in his new relationship and I couldn’t be any happier for him if I tried
Wanna be my study buddy syrmor
ok fine
👀oooooooo 🍕dont forget the pizza guys
Can i be your study buddy 👀🍆
Man, your story really hits close to home, kinda went through a similar experience, hope you get well mate.
you gotta do the arm thing tho
"cause I don't wanna scare someone," ross is a sweetheart tbh
I just farted
Noice
Soon as I saw (ft RubberNinja) I had to immediately click. He’s such a good dude
@@platinumboi88 such a good dude.
"Domination and control."
"What?"
.....
.....
"Nothing, we're moving on"
*Winnie the Pooh shakes head rigorously* hahahahaha
Pooh is serving "the Office" vibes lmao
@@tiffanypham8746 the office is the 💣
13:32 y'all
"Well, you know, some people are into that."
Russ: “feeling positive abt this year”
Poo: “what happened last year?”
Russ “I got Divorced”
Me: oop
Gotta show her the Nar' is one of the funniest goddamn lines I've ever heard in my life
Me: hey babe, want to come over?
Her: what for?
Me: I want to give you The Nar.
I love that Ross is Jayce. Even in VR, he's Australian.
CAMERON KELLY i was waiting for that tfs reference
More specifically Space Brisbane
@@RisingJay Go space Broncos!
I commend this for the reference
@@loix5754 or also jheese
I love how for the most part it was so calm and laid back, then just suddenly
"Fu**in' bi-"
true though
... well I would get mad too. Im really wondering why the other guy was still dating her.
"Fucking bi-"
Ahhhhahhhhhhh
@@VaultTecc dude, if you have enough charisma you can get that from anybody.
that screamed legitimately freaked me out i was like “is he ok??”
Me too lol
"Someone actually wants to touch me, this is fantastic!" Mood
"Are you batman? my name is Austin dude what's up?" Man I wish I had that level of chill.
Bro easy just be Austin, channel his energy, call upon it
🤣😭
pretty sure austin has a channel called luna
I love the fact that they just started talking like "Man, Bros Before Hos man, but you're not like, beating her up, right? Naw man, I mean, I used to be bad. Alright.
Wanna get a Pizza?"
7:08 my man broke for a second. I've been there dude 👊
PainHertz man that’s so sad
That was oddly relatable.
Really hurt to hear that because I know what it’s like.
Mood.
Same
Aye Ross I do feel bad for him though with everything going on in his world
Holy shit the likes thank you
What was the last video he was in?
sdjkdh none on symor that I’m aware of but I follow him on grumps and Twitter
@@myshreksbox ahh okay
I love the messages Ross gave out. Also, I adore how his Australian accent bleeds through still in some of his words. It's adorable.
14:31 Ending sentence of this video was priceless😬😂💀
You are a wise man
Ross deserves everything good in the world tbh.
What would the positive version of "godammnit Ross" be?
Dapper Crown The same thing but in a different tone and maybe a comma.
“Goddamnit, Ross”
When Ross talks about his divorce I am just thinking in my head. About clowns
What
*has stroke
Youraveragedude A BrOkEn MaRrIaGe oUTtA TeN
Only clowns play with balloons
*clown*
7:06
**weird noises**
"Ya know what I mean?"
I fucking felt that
When he said 🗣🗣🗣 I felt that
Yo I felt that in my S O U L
That scream... Only a man who has been cheated before knows what it means... It comes from such horrible places deep in our souls...
I really do know what he means though
All I wanna say is thank you for doing this for people. We appreciate it. More than you can imagine ((: hope your day is going well
i feel like the last dude’s way of talking and mannerisms downplayed his whole situation like this girl took advantage of the trust he put into her and took a complete truth he believed and completely flipped the little sense of control he had in the relationship like wtff?!?!? i want to hug this man
The dragon Ball z guy has some pretty solid advice. I never in my life would've expected serious relationship advice holy hell. I feel lucky watching this, oh man.
Exactly how I feel man. Exactly.
Righttt, like that hit me when he said to "Not base your self esteem or self worth in a relationship."
This Episode Of Dragonball:
Jeice talks about relationships while Winnie the Pooh spectates him.
It takes him 30 mins to say a single sentence
With poses!
"That's bruce wayne's relationship with alfred"
I'm dead
That comment floored me
Dude this is so powerful rn. Went through a rough breakup a few months ago. That part that Ross mentioned about loving yourself first is soooooooo true
honestly this video really helped me I had a terrible heart break over the last 3 months and she is none back with her abusive ex she kept telling me about how bad he was and she mentions him every time I ask her what she is doing. I honestly needed this
Just for all of you out there, if someone ever tells you “if you love me, you’ll do *insert whatever you think is uncomfortable*”
GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP
I know too many people that think that if they don’t do certain things with their S/o then it doesn’t show their love. That’s bs. If THEY love you then they won’t force you to do anything you aren comfortable doing. Never let whoever your with dictate how you feel or what you do. Stay safe everyone 💕
Thank you for this, I had an incredibly abusive ex girlfriend who tore me apart in every way above and in the video. She tried to kill me too lol but I prevailed and I'm at the happiest point of my life!
Agree with you.
I just realized I'm being used and controlled to draw for free for someone I've been in love for ages... Fuck man, how do I even let go of this????
@@machineaphex ik how you feel dude...
If you love me you must stop taking drugs.
"I had to show you the Nar', you know"
The best way to impress a girl.
AHHHHHH HAHA AHHHHHH HAHA you know what i mean?
LMAOOOOOO
lost it at that
I finally watched one of these after seeing them in my recommended after ignoring them for the longest time and now I'm addicted
”Do You ever do your mom in-in a game”
”Who is this guy?? Did You bring him?”
Had me dying😂
Lots of big oofs, but it's good to see that these people have bounced back pretty well
*stops screaming* haha you know what I mean?
It be like that sometimes bro
That was funny
I actually, like, *DO* know what he means.
I feel for Rubberninja when he says "when youre younger youll just take the first thing that comes along" having someone who you THINK cares about you in a relashionship is a nice feeling. However it blinds you, you miss the red flags that pop up and you give that person the benefit of the doubt that maybe theyre acting a certain way for a legit reason. You give that person time/energy/affection and they end up just kinda throwing you away.
David Garcia dude, your right and Ross was right. I wish I knew that when I was younger. That would have helped me so much.
I totally sympathize. My ex was obliviously strained in our relationship, but I was so desperate for the attention and clouded by my own affection that i couldn't see things from her perspective. I'm still reeling from the break up 7 months later, even knowing that it was for the best, because I relied on the relationship too much for my feelings of self-worth. I have to focus on learning to love myself first and foremost, or I'll always be dependent on others.
@@SleepyGiant22 Stay positive, things in your life could be a lot worse im sure. Always look at the brighter side of situations. It sounds corny but its true, everything could always be x10 worse IMO. Took me a while to get over my last relashionship, got a new job and a new car and was instantly better. We all will find someone at somepoint in our lives, its just a matter of when. Be strong, move on, and learn from mistakes.
*Wanda’s quote from Bojack Horseman intensifies*
David Garcia it’s hard to admit you was abusive in past relationships.
I didn’t realise me saying ‘if you don’t I’ll do this’ but more as a playful thing was starting to upset her.
Same with being randomly moody, random outbursts of anger at normal things, making fun of her, not letting her enjoy herself with friends for fear that she was the same as before I met her (she actually turned out the same lol so I had a reason to be cautious and she lied the whole time and I basically got cheated on but worse).
What I’m getting at is that as men we don’t like to admit to our wrongs especially when it effects our egos and our status to others, but admitting and working on it is the best we can do. Lots of emotionally abusive people don’t get help or realise they are probably suffering mental health issues and just put it aside.
Rubber Ross, the man with the Rubber Soul. Keep on keepin' man.
"Do I ever do my mom in a game? That's disgusting! Who is this man?!" Had my dying
This short film is, on the surface, a cautionary tale of the need to have one’s best interest in mind above all. The audience is presented with two vastly different subjects who recount their experiences with failed relationships. Despite their differences, the audience is intended to receive the same message from both subjects.
The first subject is someone who would be considered a bit of a “loner” (to use contemporary descriptions). Their avatar (in this case, a hyper-metaphoric representation of their reality) is disheveled, slouched, and devoid of animation aside from the occasional restless leg. This subject describes their own obsession with foreign cartoons and a certain distaste for outward social interaction. By all accounts, this person would generally be outcasted.
The other subject dons an extremely muscular and well postured character with orange skin and chic attire. This subject is significantly more confident sounding, talented, and obviously thrives in social interaction. (I believe the orange skin and friendly mannerisms are a political criticism to some regard; unrelated to this short film but still important to Syrmor’s filmography nonetheless). This subject is, without a doubt, a figure that many crave to be. However, they share a motif with the other subject.
Both characters describe their close calls with people in their life who craved something in bad faith. Whether it be revenge for infidelity, security, money, or some other dastardly motive, these characters were the victims of some desire. Syrmor has often used duality or dialectics in the past to describe a particular theme. In this case, I believe Syrmor is cautioning against the participation of romantic and/or sexual relationships.
The muscular character provided a lengthy list of symptoms for toxic relationships and there’s a reason for that length. It is because every single relationship is filled with these dangerous minefields that ultimately end terribly. Like a minefield in Cambodia, one begins to cross into a relationship thinking that everything is okay until meeting a tragic end previously veiled. The theme of such relationships is shared with a song by Tool, one of Syrmor’s greatest influences.
“Swamp Song” from Tool’s “Undertow” album describes such a warning. One particular set of lyrics describes it perfectly: “This bog is thick and easy to get lost in / 'Cause you're a stupid, belligerent fucker!”
Although abrasive, this warning describes a clear and present danger of relationships by referring to them as a bog. It is well known that love makes people stupid and belligerent, as well. This song, and this short film, serve as a warning to avoid groups and individuals who may mean harm by such entrapment.
Someone in one of my precious commentaries decided to baselessly attack the depth of my arguments by saying that Syrmor’s short films are not inherently political. I challenge anyone to prove me wrong with this work of Syrmor’s. Even the lowest sea creature could grasp even the scent of an ideological charge with this short film.
yes then gcse english am i right
edit: not enough quotes though, gotta back up your points man
"Why don't you watch where you're wondering?/Why don't you watch where you're stumbling?"
... favorite Tool song
Hell dude
Thank for the wise and thoughtful analysis, *Swaglord.*
"I'm pretty sure I showed her Naruto, cause she's never watched Anime. I was like dude, have to show you the Nar"
my favorite part
Wow. It's refreshing to see Ross talk about this in some extent. He hasn't gone into any details as far as I know of. Nice to see he knows signs of an abuser
i give respect to Austin. u don't have hate the person they cheated on u with. its the person that cheated on you that you have to dislike bc they cheated on u.
this has gotten me through my first breakup and i dont talk to other people out loud so i can relate to his story, my ex said she loved me and i loved her yet i kept going back even though she didnt seem interested, till i decided enough is enough no more BS. im so thankful i just came across your channel, thank you.
Ross: This year has started out reall good
Oh boi
this helped me recover from a past emotionally abusive relationship, thank you Ross.
I’ve never watched a RUclips video where everything said... hit every nail in my life on the spot. If I wasn’t already subscribed this individual video would have made me a lifer. Thank you...
This channel is amazing, keep it up
12:52, lol he was definitely just reading through the 14 yr old relationship site
Devy Project at least added some uhhhsss and examples
RubberRoss is a hero. He's giving ya all advice.
Modifckers was great
Ross as Jeice is everything I needed.
also thank you for this, I was wondering how he's been holding up since the recent incident; even though they're already divorced I heard they were still friends.
_points cheekily_ "I got divorced and it was a bummer~" god what a hero honestly
well for them it was more a divorce since she moved to seattle and he had to stay in LA rather then them seperating because they didnt love eachother anymore
I loved that dragon ball z dude who does voice acting. He seems like a guy you can meet for the first time and feel like old friends catching up
That's Rubber Ross him and his current GF Giwindo alot of VR videos together.
I was sitting in my kitchen cleaning dishes and i Heard rubberninja say these flags and i am screaming YES YES YES in my kitchen. They are right, and these people that put you in these relationships will mess you up. My Ex wife did this to me for 8 yrs and it took 13 months of therapy to get better. These relationships are not worth it, and if someone is going to cheat on you, then all they are doing is using you and abusing you even more. Leave them. Dont deal with it, and sadly, people very rarely change. Dont let it toxic people that come in your life, stay. They will only hurt you and affect you as an individual. Syrmor, Rubber, all of you, keep doing this cause people need to know, i sadly did not see these flags until it was too late and now after the stress and abuse, i only see these flags and its hard to turn off. Love your work, and much love to you all. I know btw i am in a good place now, my current GF that i have been with for 13 months, she said she would if she meet my Ex wife is give her a hug and say thank you. That woman i am with now has such a big heart that she would say that to a complete stranger knows the kind of man i am and what she put me though. Thats love right there. Meeting her has really changed my life.
I can't help but feel that Charlie is the best part of so many interviews.
I have to say the Mr. Wobbles story is so relatable. Because I dated a girl who never told me she was in a relationship with somebody but still dated me regardless. Obviously I was not okay when I learned that and it really made me a little bit of a bitter person, but I got over it and moved on.
With everything that's been going on with Ross lately, I hope he's doing okay. He's so genuine and sweet. All around such a nice guy. Keep it up, Ross.
I love how in these videos the people are just so genuine and sincere and you can just have chill conversations. In other games it's rare to find people like that. Such a contrast.
I’m actually in love with rubberross’s personality
just want to point out that the video is really well made. The way the eddits are done feels natural and engaging. The way the storys are told with the cuts between are well done. Great story's, Great content
Damn no wonder I haven't had any luck with relationships, I was not aware you really just have to show them the Nar' on the first date. Thanks Syrmor!
Josue Lopes what if you show em “The Nar” n they end up living a double life
Double win 🥵
Ross is so content in what he says and actually seems like a thinker, that’s cool af man. Keep going rosssss
i love how intimate it is as if you're there sitting with them too.
its really nice because you can relate to some of it and the experiences they go through, letting you know that you're not alone.
Thank you so much for what you do man. Listening to these videos help me get through the day sometimes so thank you
I love how Rubber Ross picked the best Australian alien in anime history.
i love watching these, cuz i feel like im taking part in talking to someone and learning a lot more about them
*Heavy Breathing intensifies*
Jesse12489 are you me?
@@jesse3269 Maybe....
Bro Ross is damn Saint in relationship advice
This channel is so good, I love how your showing problems people have in a way people want to listen and understand. This is definitely going to be one of my favorite channels on this site
If anyone is in a relationship like the guy in black then you NEED to read the book "Attached" by Amir Lavine and Rachel Heller. I dealt with the same thing and always thought it was my fault, and that something was wrong with me. But that book explained my relationship to a tee, so much so that it was almost eerie, and really helped me accept the circumstances and move on.
it’s very topical that ross is in this video
Ross is a true blue Australian hero mate
From space Australia no less
He's red....
@@adamsanchez1805 have you never watched dragon ball z bruh?
DepressoDoggie OP said “true blue” and Adam made a joke about Jeice’s skin
@@frogerzard6606 space Brisbane specifically. Lol
I like how you can hear bits and pieces of Ross' Australian accent through his speech like when he says relationships
I just clicked up this video to chill on in the background.
All of the sudden. God damn it Ross, love ya man.
And him talking about his mom, man that stings now.
This is a neat sort of panel. Stories that are sad but you get to see how they're still going. Giving people a voice and giving others the knowledge and inspiration to keep going.
"ya know Ahhh ya know? *AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH* "
😢 I do bro, I do.
That was extremely visceral @_@ The feels were DEEP
those were random interjections, he is in pain even when he thinks about it, what she did to him, "the other boyfriend" it started as a joke but it was actually the truth, i find myself in these random interjections, the guy might do them to release the emotional pressure or he has some mental problems, I totally empathize with him and I hope he is better now and finds the person he deserves.
Gotta show em’ the Nar’ , ya know?
I agree
Nah i show her corspe party.
Ross: “My first relationship didn’t end too great. I discovered I was cheated on”
Irony
I don't get it
BOBA 5445 After Ross’ divorce, it was discovered that his wife was cheating on him for the better part of a year before they separated.
Yeah taknaka people have awful grammer these days
it would be Ironic if ross did that at some point. but he has not.
Mark Elkhatib Grammar*
I thought I recognized the voice at first so I checked the description and sure enough it's my boy Wobbles!! I've been pals with the guy online for years and never knew any of this, the things you never know about people......
Mad respect for Mr.Wobbles being able to talk with the Boyfriend in such a chill way, about how fucking crazy the whole situation was.
My simple advice for dealing with a breakup:
Try your best to remember that you had a life before that person and try to get back to that.
Sometimes we invest so much of ourselves in a relationship that when it’s over and the relationship is no more, it can feel like there’s not enough of you, for you, yknow?
When was the RubberRoss part filmed?
That's what I want to know.
A few months ago
Chances are it was at the time shortly after everything started stacking on each other
RubberNinja
1 day ago
Hey guys, thanks for having me! We obviously filmed this video some time ago, before some recent.. Uh.. Events... But I figured the messages inside could be helpful to people. So please, enjoy the video!
@@Chaossage wait what happened?
The fact that he continued to talk to her after knowing she was dating the entire time with another one blows my mind.
Just RUN my dude, RUN !
Zlebouffon love man you know it makes us do dumb stuff
@@aldorodriguez4839 he wasn't still dating her tho he just said she tried to play both sides
@@timothykehoe8836 she was he said the whole she was dating wobbles her and the other guy were fucking and going on dates
This is very helpful, just got out of a relationship of two years through highschool and i understand it now
Sometimes I feel like I have no one to talk about my issues with, or that I need to just be glad I don’t have it worse, so watching people express there pain actually helps quite a bit.