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  • SHOULD CHRISTIANS DO ONLINE DATING? Dating is one topic the Bible doesn't specifically address, but it does provide general principles of wisdom which can be applied to dating. That's what I hope to do in this video! I also may or may not be sharing something that happened to me that gave me a lot of clarity on the topic of #ChristianDating. 😉Oh, and there's a very special GIVEAWAY happening in this video-with 3 winners!
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  • @kacinicole
    @kacinicole  4 года назад +42

    I would love to hear your thoughts! 💛 If you're a Christian single, have you tried online dating? What was your experience like?

    • @MaSs030388
      @MaSs030388 4 года назад +4

      Hi Kaci, my act of boldness is to ask you if you would want to chat with me on Facebook or something. I think you are very charming and the fact that you love the Lord is the most important. Let me know :)
      God bless abundantly
      Sam

    • @adventureinlife7700
      @adventureinlife7700 4 года назад +3

      @@MaSs030388 Sam you just completely ignored what her post said. That is a red flag which she likely will not overlook.

    • @MaSs030388
      @MaSs030388 4 года назад +2

      @@adventureinlife7700 so is there anything wrong with what I did? :) God bless you man.

    • @megsterchick5
      @megsterchick5 4 года назад +4

      My brother found a really nice Christian girl on a dating app, they are still currently dating! And my cousin met his wife from christian mingle

    • @adventureinlife7700
      @adventureinlife7700 4 года назад +10

      @@megsterchick5 Thank you Megan for the encouraging words. I have tried dating apps, including Christian Mingle. Over the past few years I'd say I have spent around $1,500 dollars in subscription fees and in app purchases. All that came from it was a handful of "Cat-Fish" dates. One of which I drove 3 hours to meet. And then there's the plethora of fake profiles that you have to sift through as well. I have even connected with a few GORGEOUS-please-can-I-have-some-of-your-money women. I can count on hand how many real beautiful actual Christian women I have met through dating apps and Christian dating sites. With three of them I ended up not being tall enough for (I'm 5'9") and the other two we just ended up not being a good match for each other. But hey I could still pray about it and see if I get any guidance from God on it. Thank you again Megan. Cheers and God bless 😀

  • @adaliavasquez6552
    @adaliavasquez6552 3 года назад +54

    I just feel weird about dating online. It feels as though you are shopping for a spouse. I feel that meeting people in person is much easier, since you get to know the whole person and not just their profile picture/texts. I've also had some somewhat unpleasant experiences on christian dating sites. I'm praying that God will bring the right man in person and I continue to put myself out there and seek first the Kingdom of God!

    • @claribelmaysonet9372
      @claribelmaysonet9372 2 года назад +5

      I agree knowing the person in person is better for me to discern! I didn’t do to well online top.

    • @joemaxxcapri1799
      @joemaxxcapri1799 2 года назад +3

      So true just meeting someone while shopping or while walking and living in that moment you can feel that person vibes while on the app is a lot of text

    • @justlilly7653
      @justlilly7653 2 года назад +6

      A lot of people don't have a lot of options for meeting irl

  • @ThenSingsmyKids
    @ThenSingsmyKids 6 месяцев назад +5

    My husband met online dating site. When we first met online we weren't ready... We completly stopped talking. A few years later I was closer to God and praying daily God would help me find a godly husband. My husband found me again on a different site. I could see he changed for the better too during those few years. We both felt the timing was right. We got to know each other better and eventually married. We have been married 11 years and counting. 😊

  • @ashleyriggs6815
    @ashleyriggs6815 4 года назад +118

    This could not have come at a better time! I was trying out dating apps and realized it was out of desperation. This was really encouraging! I've really had to trust God in this season. #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +2

      I'm so glad this was encouraging! Thank you for watching. 😊

    • @kathrynebeyer6579
      @kathrynebeyer6579 4 года назад +5

      Yes! amen... I had a friend tell me recently that desperation always leads to sin. And I think that is so true. I've struggling with the same thing on and off. I think it's amazing that you can admit this and allow God to grow you through it

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад +1

      @@kathrynebeyer6579 Oh that's a wonderful advise 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад

      how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 2 года назад +2

      Are you still single ? I am looking for wife .

  • @jtan2010
    @jtan2010 4 года назад +34

    The example of Ruth and Isaac is so fitting, and I never saw it like that. Thank you for the wisdom.

  • @teamthurman594
    @teamthurman594 4 года назад +38

    My husband and I met online. In my profile I was specific about my faith and the person I prayed for. We’ve been married for a year already and currently serving together in youth and children’s ministry. 💕

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +4

      What an amazing, encouraging story - thank you for sharing! 💛

    • @karuragirljustus5555
      @karuragirljustus5555 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations 🎊

    • @aquafishes
      @aquafishes 4 месяца назад

      Same. We started 9,000 miles apart. After 3 years of dating and 7 visits we got married. We've been together over 25 years now😊 God Bless🙏

  • @andytheindividual3862
    @andytheindividual3862 4 года назад +108

    Dating is tough as a Christian. Even if you're good looking, inside and out!

    • @Disneygirl3715
      @Disneygirl3715 4 года назад +20

      Andy Gerdesmeier Actually, there are single people out there who share our Christian values if we really search hard. Dating is hard for everyone, not just us. I guess my problem is traditional church has little or no help for singles as much as they have for married couples.

    • @MRSTYL-cc6sl
      @MRSTYL-cc6sl 4 года назад +1

      Get the app salt

    • @DFmar1986
      @DFmar1986 3 года назад +5

      I like pretty girls, but Christian gals prone to be superficials (Let me explain: they thing that being bless is their beuaty and they diserve the best talking about money istead of salvation and God's grace ). And there is where i have issues because The non-christians pretty women with christian values (they) like me, but their not accept the gospel. I'm pretty frustated btw.

    • @MRSTYL-cc6sl
      @MRSTYL-cc6sl 3 года назад

      Mekeishakayla if you want a Christain wife

    • @seanmacnair4994
      @seanmacnair4994 3 года назад +5

      Dating is tough for us ugly guys too

  • @hannahhh19
    @hannahhh19 3 года назад +37

    It’s interesting because I have tried EVERY SINGLE DATING app and the 40+ dates I’ve been on... well, they did not work. I finally feel like God is telling me “trust me outside the online dating”

    • @Shotzzilla
      @Shotzzilla 3 года назад +2

      Same 😭😭😭

    • @saramartinez1112
      @saramartinez1112 3 года назад +1

      Same here... online dating is not for me lol I can't wait till corona is over, then I'll be able to meet people (including new friends) in person

    • @krumstoilov2352
      @krumstoilov2352 2 года назад

      Nope. It’s more simple. You all made terrible selections. I don’t know a girl looking seriously for a relationship and unable to find a man in a dating app up to 2 months going on few dates.

    • @tabithadoughty5101
      @tabithadoughty5101 Год назад +1

      I think it is individual I personally have been doing online dating for years with no success when I got closer to God and asked for guidance I realized that it was not for me and I should stay away from that personally.

  • @sterlingchanell
    @sterlingchanell 3 года назад +13

    I loved how God just used this video to put me at ease and provide clarity for other areas of my life completely outside of dating. Not to mention, it’s an on-time word to share with a close individual in my life. Great content; I will definitely be subscribing. Btw, you have such a beautiful gentleness about you that made this that much more pleasant. Blessings, Kaci! 💛

  • @dianefu6372
    @dianefu6372 10 месяцев назад +1

    Spot on. So true. God is indeed so much bigger than our human endeavors (or lack of them). He is sovereign.

  • @kme3894
    @kme3894 3 года назад +19

    this is the best and most thorough discussion on this topic I’ve ever come across. And I’ve been struggling with this for years. Thank you

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  3 года назад +2

      I'm so happy it was helpful to you!

  • @janeg1575
    @janeg1575 Год назад +2

    ThankYou🙏🏻 needed this. Focused on my education/ career in my 20-30s and just thought God would work everything out w/ re to my love life. I just told God today I don’t know how to be found, and this was His answer❤

  • @youtubeaccount-yr6hb
    @youtubeaccount-yr6hb 3 года назад +13

    I personally don't like it (not the dating app kind anyway) because I believe it's normalized turning companionship into a shopping experience/objectification and place of entitlement. People used to live in villages or towns and they'd have a few people to pick from if not an arranged thing and it was about forging a community/putting strengths together. Now it's focused on filling a sense of emptiness and idealizing.
    We don't live in a chivalrous world anymore. It's normal for men to expect sex in return for a meal or to get harassive and crazy if they are rejected. Women have to be extra careful who they trust themselves with. Discernment is key.

    • @anjalisartistry870
      @anjalisartistry870 Год назад

      In India , many a times, attractive profiles will come but they might be old age people or bad men. They can throw acid too

  • @Morgain03
    @Morgain03 4 года назад +16

    I honestly felt God speak to me when I watched this and realized something within myself. This video just helped me listen to God and I know what he wants me to do. Thank you so much and God Bless♥️ I’m 4 min in the video and I’m already subscribed :)

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +2

      Wow that's amazing! I'm so happy God used this video in your life and so happy to have you here!

  • @camoOC
    @camoOC 4 года назад +2

    This video was extremely edifying and much needed. I know I’m a little late but just wanted to thank you for making it. You have yourself a new subscriber..ty!

  • @kathrynebeyer6579
    @kathrynebeyer6579 4 года назад +3

    love love LOVE this! I loved how you centered on obedience and not about our "feelings".

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Yes! So hard to do but so necessary! 🙌🏼

  • @lovex3pinkk
    @lovex3pinkk 4 года назад +13

    3:00 Girl! You did not have to call me out like that 😂 that was spot on! but seriously great video as always!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      Haha whoops 😳that is too funny 🤣 thank you so so much! 💛

  • @virtuouswoman7554
    @virtuouswoman7554 3 года назад +2

    The motivation issue is key! Thanks for sharing this.

  • @Chinstrap-99
    @Chinstrap-99 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for the advice! God bless you!!!

  • @amandaholley8068
    @amandaholley8068 4 года назад +10

    This was perfect timing for me! I needed the reminder that nothing is wrong with me if I am currently single and God has a plan. #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Amen! I'm so glad this video reminded you of that because it's TRUE. 💛

    • @abrahamlincolnmen
      @abrahamlincolnmen Год назад

      Hi dear I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you

  • @karenraynor8562
    @karenraynor8562 4 года назад +1

    Dear Kaci, My goodness ! U are spot on for me, in particular ! I'm certain God directed me to your video because everything U said pertains to me.
    I was taking things into my hands way too much to the point I was terribly neglecting Him by even dismissing the importance of keeping His day holy attending Sunday service n keeping it a rest day. So your emphasis on obedience really hit home with me, especially. Thank U so much, K. A.

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @ablewongtsaijing5629
    @ablewongtsaijing5629 4 года назад +1

    thank you sister Kaci~! I've only just worked through lots of fears, shame, insecurities, worthlessness & hopelessness in this whole realm of relationships .. & come into my true identity as a gift to be given away & not just kept to myself .. tried a few Christian dating sites but kinda feels like a time waster at the moment :S .. maybe just need to persevere & be patient =)

  • @bellaisia5893
    @bellaisia5893 4 года назад +4

    #stillsingledevotional Really helpful! I really think God spoke through you and I agree with the fact that the motivation behind our actions can say a lot about whether we trust the Lord or not! God Bless you Kaci!!!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      It's so true! I'm so so glad you found this video helpful - and thanks for entering! 😊

  • @robingreen9227
    @robingreen9227 Год назад +1

    Thank you. I never feel like I am doing enough. Looking toward God and waiting.

  • @Yomidances
    @Yomidances 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing this, I came accross your video and it has really encouraged me where i am at the moment, Blessings x

  • @matthewhughes3749
    @matthewhughes3749 4 года назад +2

    i am so glad i watched this video i have tried to use online dating for many years and in my heart i just don't feel any peace at all and i think what you said about for some it is just a matter of obeying God if he has told you just wait on him that is what the lord has said and i will obey even though that is tough

  • @eliz954
    @eliz954 Год назад

    Thank you for talking about this topic, I am learning english and about the bible with you. My dream is to have my family, I am praying God for this. A hug from Brasil!

  • @idtweapons86
    @idtweapons86 4 года назад +1

    Wow your video was truly an answer from the Lord. I personally have never been a fan of dating aps, because I enjoy going up and meeting people. But now I'm getting ready to go back into the dating scene, made me consider trying it. But for some reason I felt uneasy about this and when you suggested the self analyzing "why's". Helped clarify the exact things you mentioned. This video definitely was a strong answer I was exactly looking for. Thank you for the time in making this content.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Wow, praise God - I'm so happy this video could speak into your decision making process in this area. May God guide you in this chapter as you go about dating! Thank you so much for this kind and encouraging comment 😊

  • @robertprice6881
    @robertprice6881 4 года назад +14

    Exactly what I needed to hear, thanks for the video!

  • @myrrhsense
    @myrrhsense 4 года назад +1

    I'm a bit late to the deed, but this is exactly the video I needed. Thank you so much.

  • @taylorw.4572
    @taylorw.4572 3 года назад +2

    Everything you said was spot on. I've used an online dating app before because the Lord told me to. He used that experience for me to be open to going on dates in real life. Thanks for the video By the way, you're gorgeous 💙.

  • @tdatrim
    @tdatrim 4 года назад +25

    I've giving up on the "search". Online dating is a horror show. I'll let the Spirit guide me to my match, however long that takes. 3 years single now and Im good with that 🙏

    • @tamerab3124
      @tamerab3124 3 года назад +1

      Same here too! Our time will come soon💕🙏

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад

      @Janel you should learn to open up your heart to possibilities dear 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

    • @rosendanu5047
      @rosendanu5047 3 года назад +3

      Same here. Online dating is exhausting! Waiting on God now.

    • @viron6734
      @viron6734 3 года назад

      You're going to be waiting a long time...

  • @aheatherw88
    @aheatherw88 3 года назад

    Thank you, I needed to hear this!

  • @mooosebrains1615
    @mooosebrains1615 4 года назад +12

    wow honestly this was really helpful thank you i think i was over thinking this , if i’m obedient and serving him then Gods working his plan whether I download the apps or not

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +7

      Yes! As you are seeking Him, He will guide your steps!

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 3 года назад

      RIGHT. Absolutely same here. Like, just seek and obey. It’ll all just happen as you do.

  • @gwendytequiere
    @gwendytequiere 4 года назад +13

    Needed to hear this. Thank you.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Aw praise God! I'm so glad it was helpful 💛

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 3 года назад

      Same here.

  • @247worship
    @247worship 2 года назад +1

    This was so encouraging! Thank you.

  • @graceannetadaya2747
    @graceannetadaya2747 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for those words. I was just enlightened about my real motivation on using a dating app and quite felt guilty about it. God is really amazing. He even uses this youtube to enlighten me about this thing. You are such a blessing to many. May He grant all the desires of your heart. God bless you more!
    Ps. New subscriber here from the 🇵🇭

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @meghanbronkema8381
    @meghanbronkema8381 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for your words Kaci! #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Ahh thank YOU so much for this comment! 💛

  • @faridaramzan9987
    @faridaramzan9987 2 года назад

    Good words of encouragement we should keep praying let the lord have his way

  • @spikyplant
    @spikyplant 3 года назад +4

    I need to know how you do your hair color, I love it!!

  • @ellona3645
    @ellona3645 3 года назад +2

    Met someone on Bumble since I live in a small town & in my church it's all older people. I'm very straight to the point that I'm looking for a guy who has a personal relationship with Christ & I keep on asking him about his theology. So far he's been promising. But still praying about it. Also, told him all my boundaries.

  • @proscovianalubega3524
    @proscovianalubega3524 2 года назад +1

    Thank you. Now i know the answer to my question becouse God just answered me through you.

  • @elijahj-l825
    @elijahj-l825 3 года назад

    Thanks, Nicole! This really helped!

  • @meanwhome
    @meanwhome 4 года назад +27

    Online dating my way always lead to pain and disappoint me. Im a introvert so i dont go out party, or do anything in public area. Now during covid 19 theres nothing to do go out. Theres no church open to even go to..Even thinking of online dating gives me anxiety and uncomfortable feeling.

    • @GeorgePenton-np9rh
      @GeorgePenton-np9rh 4 года назад +1

      Are you dating on a Christian site?

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад +2

      You should learn to open up your heart to possibilities dear 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

    • @saramartinez1112
      @saramartinez1112 3 года назад +1

      I feel the same way.

    • @saramartinez1112
      @saramartinez1112 3 года назад +4

      no need to use online dating, God will make it happen if it's His will :)

    • @andreamaldonado7039
      @andreamaldonado7039 3 года назад +1

      Same feeling jajaja

  • @CDFFdating
    @CDFFdating 3 года назад +1

    This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on Christian Dating 🕊️🙏🏾✝️💓

    • @checkingoutgypsymike2075
      @checkingoutgypsymike2075 3 года назад +1

      This video popped up in my feed after i looked at some Christian dating apps, even checked out yours it has terrible reviews. Talk about coincidence's. Guess maybe God wanted me to point out your app is not good at all lol. Not a surprise to see your trolling for customers after reading your reviews, very disturbing of you!

  • @tanisha_tlc
    @tanisha_tlc 4 года назад +4

    Thank you just what I needed! 🕊❤️🙏🏾

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Ah I'm so glad!

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @Goltzer88
    @Goltzer88 4 года назад +1

    Really nice thoughts on the subject Kaci!

  • @EdenCalling
    @EdenCalling 3 года назад +1

    Amen to all that!❤️

  • @Dellamae99
    @Dellamae99 3 года назад +1

    I have tried online dating and I will admit that it was out of desperation. It hasn’t been easy for me to trust god during my single season since I’ve gone through healing from a toxic relationship three years ago. I know for a fact that God will bless me with the right person in his timing. I won’t allow my flesh to control my desires 💛

  • @jordanmoravenov
    @jordanmoravenov 3 года назад

    Thank you a lot for this video!!!

  • @FOTWC
    @FOTWC 4 года назад +57

    I’ve found somebody online that is serious about God and we have known each other for 2 months we taking it slow rn planning on meeting sometime in March of 2020 #PRAYFORUS

    • @FOTWC
      @FOTWC 4 года назад +6

      And she had brought me closer to God we read the Bible together and alone bc That’s mandatory

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +7

      Praying God gives you two wisdom and direction as you pursue a relationship!

    • @FOTWC
      @FOTWC 4 года назад +2

      Kaci Nicole thank you ❤️

    • @usarmyisthebest9193
      @usarmyisthebest9193 4 года назад +3

      How's it going?

    • @lupeavalos9791
      @lupeavalos9791 4 года назад

      SRFK SNIPEZ cool

  • @m.j.6511
    @m.j.6511 3 года назад

    I did enjoy this video and thanks for your insights

  • @kitlan01
    @kitlan01 4 года назад +2

    You are so wise my sister.God bless you thanks for the advice.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      I'm so thankful this was helpful to you 😊

    • @kitlan01
      @kitlan01 4 года назад

      @@kacinicole ok

  • @stacedoggkyles2019
    @stacedoggkyles2019 3 года назад

    Thank you kaci for this video god bless you your family and your friends you have a wonderful fantastic awesome bless safe beautiful day enjoy the rest of your day🙏📖😊❤

  • @nabbosabeldine8885
    @nabbosabeldine8885 Год назад

    Thanks soooooo much wise advise 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Andrew-ig2dk
    @Andrew-ig2dk 2 года назад +1

    Pray to God and use gods word to decide if you should use a dating site not man's word or these videos. But very good explanation. I use u- tube now in lockdown to spread the message of the cross.

  • @germanibradley4514
    @germanibradley4514 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for this sharing this video, I’ve been struggling with this for awhile now. #stillsingledevotional 💜💜💜

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      I'm so happy to hear it was helpful 💛

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @rundodongrun1351
    @rundodongrun1351 4 года назад

    Thank you for this video Kaci

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @laurenbarca4661
    @laurenbarca4661 3 года назад

    Thanks for this video! Your thoughts on this helped me today. 🙌🏼😋

    • @abrahamlincolnmen
      @abrahamlincolnmen Год назад

      Hi pretty I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you

  • @cassiopia2712
    @cassiopia2712 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for this Kaci! #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Thanks so much for watching and entering! 😊

  • @greggsingletary8777
    @greggsingletary8777 3 года назад

    Such great wisdom!

  • @danielchavira9968
    @danielchavira9968 4 года назад

    I am trying it and being faithful that one will like me back just staying patient

  • @jamesdunn9744
    @jamesdunn9744 2 года назад

    That's very good advice very wise for someone your age you seem to be wise beyond your years I believe that for everybody there is someone made by God in my case I have to use Christian dating sites because where I live I don't think there's any dating clubs you can actually go in and join for speed dating that I know of so I'm listening to your advice and find it very interesting because I'm new on the internet so keep up the good work I enjoy the knowledge of learning cuz this is something I don't know much about

  • @catherinekabasiita9800
    @catherinekabasiita9800 2 года назад

    I just found your channel today n the video has been helpful to me ...

  • @heyitskendra8973
    @heyitskendra8973 2 года назад

    Loved how you put this out to understand.
    Is the devotional still available?

  • @joshkamyszek9385
    @joshkamyszek9385 4 года назад

    #stillsingledevotional
    Love this video! Such an amazing girl, I love everything you put out there for us!!

  • @robinlight
    @robinlight 4 года назад +10

    I just want to find my forever. I put myself out there and thought that maybe he put someone in my life but it's pretty much back to the drawing board for me. Please pray for me. Thank You and God bless everyone.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +2

      Saying a prayer for you right now Robin. I know it can be so discouraging sometimes, especially when it seems like He may be answering the prayer then it doesn't turn out the way we want. But I know He is good and I believe with my whole heart He has good plans for you. 💛

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 2 года назад

      Are you still single Robin ?

  • @TonyTreece911
    @TonyTreece911 Год назад +1

    Your message is from God❗️Thank you for providing the truths from God’s Word❗️

  • @nataliahn.4922
    @nataliahn.4922 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for the encouragement. #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      I'm so glad it was encouraging! Thank you for watching! 😊

    • @abrahamlincolnmen
      @abrahamlincolnmen Год назад

      I love the simplicity of your profile and I would love to know more about you

  • @Marie_Garwood
    @Marie_Garwood 4 года назад +12

    Your dating story is crazy!! Thank you so much for sharing-what a reassuring and encouraging story! A personal love letter from God to you for sure!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +2

      Isn't that wild?! 🤯Haha thanks girl 🙈and I think so too! 💛

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

    • @abrahamlincolnmen
      @abrahamlincolnmen Год назад

      Hi there pretty

  • @margeorietamayo3492
    @margeorietamayo3492 3 года назад +1

    Wow. I just subscribed to this channel today.❤❤❤❤

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @GloryAndy
    @GloryAndy 4 года назад

    Thank you so much it's extremely helpful for me 🤗

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Praise God, I'm so glad!

  • @andreawilliamson6267
    @andreawilliamson6267 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for this! And spoke to me in so many ways! #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Andrea Williamson ah that makes me so happy to hear! Thank you for watching! 😊

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @arbeicas
    @arbeicas 3 года назад

    Hey that’s a good question.

  • @constanceroberts6906
    @constanceroberts6906 2 года назад

    I loved the video. I would like to get the Still Single devotional please. Thank you.

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  2 года назад

      I'm so glad! The devotional is linked in the description of this video 😊

  • @delehadecker1285
    @delehadecker1285 2 года назад

    This is sooo good!

  • @renatobeltrame5228
    @renatobeltrame5228 4 года назад

    Gostei muito do vídeo, muito construtivo!
    Obrigado!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      I'm so glad you liked it!

  • @zellylag
    @zellylag 4 года назад +3

    I’ve always had that question, so it was really great to hear about it! Thank you so much💕
    #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      That makes me so happy to hear! 💛

  • @earlethecanadian5470
    @earlethecanadian5470 3 года назад +1

    Nice video, Sister! Jesús loves us!

  • @brianstephens52
    @brianstephens52 4 года назад

    Thankful for your advice . Can I please have a work book and devotionals

  • @m.j.6511
    @m.j.6511 3 года назад +5

    One thing I do not seem to find is this: Why is it that everyone assumes that God has a mate/spouse waiting for them. What if God's plan for someone is to remain and grow old single? Is this an abnormal thought (or situation)? Arent'there any instances where individuals are not meant to be in a couple and pursue the traditional need to be married? Why does this scenario seem to inspire pity and the need from others who are well intentioned to reassure someone? What do you, a Christian woman, think about that scenario? Could you do a study on that?

    • @naominashson5942
      @naominashson5942 11 месяцев назад

      Because God said it is not good for a Man to be alone , so He created a mate for that reason , The Woman.

  • @ecorceparfumee8848
    @ecorceparfumee8848 4 года назад

    #stillesingledevotional Loved this vidéo. I realized that my motivations where wrong and I think that God wants me to trust him more and be dependant on him. Faith is looking as thing that arent visible yet ! I have faith in our Father! ❤️

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      YES! 🙌🏼 "Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we cannot see" - thank you for that reminder, and thanks for watching! 💛

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Hi again, you are one of the WINNERS of my #stillsingledevotional! 💛please respond to this comment with your email address, and I'll send a copy on over to you. 😊

  • @ronamonald
    @ronamonald 4 года назад +9

    I have tried dating apps and sites on and off for a while I guess haha Honestly it’s discouraging at times. I’m a pretty shy guy especially when it comes to putting myself out there but at times I do and there’s this surge of confidence until you see no matches haha so then you start doubting yourself and all that and when I do get matches they end up being people catfishing and asking for money and other things after they got you thinking “maybe this could be something.” I do know online dating does work as I’ve had friends and relatives meet on there but like you said it’s pretty much preference. Right now I have a mindset that I would love to meet someone someday and hopefully one day get married but I am happy where I am now and I’m ok with being single. Honestly I’ve never had a gf, so as bad as it may sound you get kind of used to it but I am praying all the time that God prepare me for my future gf/wife that I be the man He wants me to be first so that I can best serve her during our relationship. Right now, like you said I’m going to keep doing what I’m doing and what He’s called me to do 😁

    • @matthewhughes3749
      @matthewhughes3749 4 года назад +2

      yeah dating apps are certainly not worth the time because it's all based on looks for one thing and the fact we don't get matches is this they want to keep you on the app for as along as possible so the algorithms diliberatly don't give you lots of matches you may get one when you start up the app and than none at all that is the deception of these apps and lots of times the profiles are fake and not real so that is the reason not to trust these dating apps

    • @laura-sandy1492
      @laura-sandy1492 4 года назад +1

      matthew Hughes that’s a really good point, didn’t realise that at first, also I find the concept of judging based on looks really off-putting

    • @charlotteava7710
      @charlotteava7710 2 года назад +1

      Lol 🤣 same here too I'm a bit shy and dating apps are a bit stressful as well 😩.

    • @banurachristine7377
      @banurachristine7377 2 года назад

      Sorry about that Ronald. We trust God to do what He does best

  • @jamaljordan28
    @jamaljordan28 4 года назад +1

    The bible tells us For whether we be beside ourselves, it is to God: or whether we be sober, it is for your cause.
    2 Corinthians 5/13

  • @MASONpictures
    @MASONpictures 3 года назад +3

    I couldn’t do it. I just want to focus on Jesus

  • @taylor1721
    @taylor1721 4 года назад +1

    Love this! #stillsingledevotional

  • @thekiaradanielle
    @thekiaradanielle 4 года назад +1

    OMG I so needed this. Subbed! 💕

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Ah I'm so glad - praise God! Glad to have ya here 💛

    • @ronniewagner7552
      @ronniewagner7552 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @yashitanagpal1635
    @yashitanagpal1635 4 года назад +2

    I am a new subbie 😊.I really like the fact that you are open-minded and considered much about whats in the heart (intention) and not what restrictions and rules society puts sometimes, in your videos . That incident you shared tho🤪
    P.S- I would love to know more about your jouney and views on singleness #stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      Yay so happy to have you here and glad you liked the video! As for the incident...isn't that CRAZY?! 🙈😜

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Yashita, you are one of the WINNERS of my #stillsingledevotional! 💛please respond to this comment with your email address, and I'll send a copy on over to you. 😊

  • @onehitwarrior1708
    @onehitwarrior1708 3 года назад +1

    No. You dont have to put yourself out there. God will do whats best for you

  • @gheeman5800
    @gheeman5800 4 года назад

    Always been pursuing women without ever sitting down and pray as to whether or not they are the one God wants me to be with, but your point about God having the ability to guide the person he desires into our life has really waken me up. Hoping to be still and pray about this as i'm still maturing as a christian through scripture

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      Yes, I love that we can go to God and talk to Him in prayer about anything - even this!

    • @joywilliams6175
      @joywilliams6175 4 года назад

      Yes! Prayer is the key. Let us all Keep praying and waiting on God and he would bring us the perfect partners. While also waiting we should get to spend more time with God.
      Your God ordained woman is out there and my God ordained man is out there

  • @80sports20
    @80sports20 3 года назад +12

    My biggest issue with online dating/apps is that it just feels so unnatural. No matter how many times I try, I just can't knock this feeling. As a Catholic, some of the apps we have are good because you can make sure you are meeting people who are "practicing" (not just Catholic/Christian in name), but even still, online dating just does not feel natural to me.

  • @gracielamacaraeg9481
    @gracielamacaraeg9481 3 года назад

    Thanks for this vlog. Me and my boyfriend meet in Christian Dating App

  • @AntonioMendeSilva
    @AntonioMendeSilva Год назад

    You're right, we can't put God inside boxes, because He's bigger than the boxes.
    I'm an old man and I'm widow. I didn't find my wife online, because when I married her, there wasn't internet and the online dating didn't exist when I married her a long ago, but we were married for 41 years, till she passed away, and we had 3 kids, two girls and a boy. May she Rest in Peace 🙏!
    That doesn't mean that people can't find their soulmate online, the love of their lives, because God isn't, as you said, limited.

  • @heatherlovelett5571
    @heatherlovelett5571 4 года назад +1

    #stillsingledevotional :) this was great kaci!

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад

      So encouraging, thanks Heather 😊

    • @charlesrichardson6573
      @charlesrichardson6573 3 года назад

      Oh that's nice 😊....how are you doing today hope you are having a wonderful time over there ....I guess so

  • @meganmindcreates
    @meganmindcreates 4 месяца назад +1

    I did a dating app cause of my sister, I really wasn't looking for someone. I got response from a guy and we met a couple of times but I had to move back to utah. We stayed connected but I felt pushed with some of his responses thus we stopped talking but recently he texted me of our deeply sorry he was and that he regretted what he did. Got to admit it made me blush. I could see a change but I think I am scared. My life is a Tangled story. I have been closed off from everything and Idk how to take the leap of faith. I need to hear from God cause idk what to do.

  • @badr576
    @badr576 Год назад +2

    Nice video and sentiments... it can definitely be inspiring to some. But let's be real... a highly attractive girl will NEVER have a hard time finding someone. So of course you've already met the people you matched with... because EVERYONE wants to know you. God gave you the gift of outer beauty. The Bible uses beauty as important. How many times does it discuss a woman as beautiful and that beauty was essentially a prize.
    I think you have a good heart. But whatever you think was difficult for you in dating... it doesn't come close to what others go through. What about the ones that can't find anyone at all ever? What about the ones that the opposite sex doesn't even give them a chance? They go through this their whole life. It's very sad.
    Most women can easily be married. We live in a man approach woman society. So you sit there and wait and you take your favorite person, best looking combination with personality, to say hello and I guarantee you ignore the rest. If you are a woman... you don't have a man because you think you are settling for that last man that said hi. You don't look at him the way he looks at you. You think you can do better, while he knows he can't.
    Hate sounding negative but women these days don't actually value the men they describe they want. They window shop men far worse than men do to them. Even the Christians. I've literally had multiple Christian women online tell me that if I didn't read the Bible every day... that they would be interested in knowing more about me. Even the seemingly real Christians window shop men just the same. Looks first, everything else second. If you are a single woman... it's most likely your own fault. Especially if you are attractive like this woman in this video.

  • @dolycontrerasatencio9819
    @dolycontrerasatencio9819 4 года назад +1

    I needed this video, nowadays it’s really difficult to be patient but as daughters of the KING of kings, we have to work for it, be patient, trust in him, in his timing it’s hard I know but we have to, he knows more than anyone what’s the best for us. So I decided to trust, remain single and wait for the spouse God has for me. #Stillsingledevotional

    • @kacinicole
      @kacinicole  4 года назад +1

      He truly does know best! Thanks so much for watching. 💛

    • @dolycontrerasatencio9819
      @dolycontrerasatencio9819 3 года назад

      @@brandon556 I’m good thank you, how are you?

  • @heaventalk8709
    @heaventalk8709 4 года назад

    Obrigado me ajudou muito, por mais que conhecemos a palavra do Senhor, há momentos na vida que queremos pegar os nossos planos das mãos de Deus e tentar fazer acontecer com as nossas próprias...
    Ótimo exemplo de issac.
    Thank you, God bless you.

  • @EvinNazya
    @EvinNazya 3 года назад +1

    Super duper helpful 🤍

  • @joshkaye5303
    @joshkaye5303 Год назад +3

    My personal experience on dating sites is that God did not bring me close enough to even a single coffee date. It was so uncanny how many times I got ghosted or the one I wanted to initiate contact with simply disappeared OR logged on for the last time the day BEFORE I joined. Not to mention all the rejection I had to inflict onto people interested in me also. Online dating just didn't work out so I've now resolved to go to different church groups around my city. Someone please pray that I can at least find someone to start a friendship with. It's been an agonizing ride, but I still trust in God's timing.... just like Joseph in the dungeon I just gotta keep trusting this has all been for a reason no matter how much I mourn and lament the time that I've lost.

    • @RaeAria
      @RaeAria 10 месяцев назад

      Online dating is not great 😅
      Hopefully you found a good friend by now 🙏