How To Raise Godly Children
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We are not experts, but these are some effective ways we have learned to train our children. This short video tutorial / guide will walk you through some of the basic steps to work with your children on obedience, character issues and discipline. We are a Bible-based family, and we welcome you to share your POSITIVE thoughts on Biblical parenting inthe comments below. God bless!
00:00 - Welcome
00:45 - Family Music Update
01:41 - Are Our Children Well Behaved?
02:17 - Introducing Our 6 Boys
02:55 - Our Parenting Inspiration
03:47 - Our Child Training Philosophy
07:18 - 10 Child Training Tips
07:22 - Tip 1 // Start Early
08:06 - Tip 2 // Make it a Priority
08:25 - Tip 3 // Start with the Basics
10:00 - Tip 4 // Be Consistent
11:20 - Tip 5 // Show Them Praise
12:12 - Tip 6 // Catch Them Being Good
13:05 - Tip 7 // Get To The Heart
13:48 - Tip 8 // You Are Raising Adults
14:43 - Tip 9 // Admit When You're Wrong
15:03 - Tip 10 // Pray With Your Children
15:42 - Bonus Tip
16:28 - Thoughts From The Boys
17:14 - Lindsay's Closing Thoughts
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Wow, you all are so close to 100K! Your channel has grown so much, it's so nice to see a wonderful christian family youtube channel reach this milestone. God bless you in all you do!
You all have the most wonderful voices would love to hear you all sing "Way Maker"
@@ataylor3581 YES!!! That is such a good idea, I hope they see that.
My respect to your hard work together! But it's too early teach others...wait until they are growing up and still follow Jesus, then you 'll have right to teach others
@@alejandraalejandra4700 ur right
One blessing that you did, but didn’t mention, was praise your spouse in front of your children and make it real.
That is so key!!!! You may not even realize it, but it's absolutely mission critical, the way you respect each other as spouses and coparents in front of your children totally sets the example for them of how to regard and honour their future wives (if someday you have a daughter her future someday husband), and it teaches them how as a spouse they are to be treated Great Job!!!!
That is very true!!
You are an amazing family!
GREAT point :)
Why are youBJ so picky. Stop finding fault. That is your problem not theirs.they love each other. You are not perfect. Don’t expect everyone to be perfect. My parent didn’t praise each other but we knew they love each other.
I am 81 yrs old, had 4 children, buried my first husband after 37 yrs of marriage. Every word they say is true and if you follow them blessing will flow.
God bless you!
Shalom shalom 🤲🕊
Thank you for your sharing!
May God bless you!
If everyone in the USA brought their children up like you both are doing our world would be a wonderful! Great job! 🙂🙂👍👍
Amen to that. So very true. Many parents destroy their children's character by spoiling them and withholding correction from them
@@donnamiller631
Sad but yet so true
Definitely
I had to pause and write down those four stages, Actions, Attitude, Character, Discipleship. I've never heard it described like this, but it makes so much sense. We have kids in each of those age groups, and that outline is spot on! Love watching your sweet family
Yay! Julie! Good to see you here as well 😊
I am a mother of 7 children. 6 sons and 1 daughter. I am a homesteader and a firm believer in our Lord and Savior. We raise ours much the same and I want to say thank you for making such a good video to help the public see that it's not all that complicated, its dedication and keeping God most high. Be blessed and be the blessing.
It's also takes committed parents. One of the hardest parts is when one spouse is in and the other is not. That's where the struggle is
We are a young Romanian family and we gladly watching your vlog. You inspire us to get closer to Jesus and to raise our children. You are such a simple and yet powerful family. Thank you for this material and stay blessed!
Era frumos dacă făcea și traducerea din engleză în română îmi plac foarte mult familia aceasta și este conform biblic
Hi, My name is Sarah. I am from Kenya, in Africa. I love the Lord Jesus as my saviour and I love children!
I stumbled on your videos during this pandemic season, about two months ago. I just love what you people are doing. We have a lot in common and so I subscribed to your channel. I have been following since then. I love the music too! It blesses my heart every time I watch and listen and most of the time it leaves me with tears in my eyes.
The episode that touched me the most was when Daddy went out with your eldest son for a hike as you prepared him for baptism. I do Discipleship for Children and my heart was warmed by the video. I have 4 kids 3 boys...youn men now n a teenage girl. God bless the work of your hands. Amen.
Sarah W koine Maiywa, jambo, am from Kilifi County, we have 4 children and I have learnt alot from them. I love them too. Do you know any family from Kenya who might have same values as this I go follow them? I am searching and I will appreciate. Nice meeting you here.
@@homesteadingwiththeangafam2158 good work will come to learn from you..I live in Kilifi too
Grace Kavene, wow, small world indeed so this channel is this popular among Kenyans. Great meeting you here and hopefully we meet in Kilifi too.
I am also often touched by their videos the sincere honesty the respect the children give them the respect they give one another and how beautifully they honoured their child who didn't make it.
Hi my name is also Sarah and I'm from new York, I'm christian and I love there covers as well. I have a RUclips channel would love if you check it out
I'm not yet married but I am grateful to learn about parenting. God bless you all
God bless you Riya. The Lord sees your willingness to learn how to raise children for His glory. When the time comes, He will guide you to raise your children in His love, wisdom and understanding.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy steps.
The Lord will be gracious to you. Marry a believer who loves the LORD and keeps His commandments with the faith of Jesus.
God bless your future family 🙏🏼
Now you'll know how to raise your children. Lucky you!
Yeah, same here. ✝️🇮🇳
Ezra: I'm Ezra, and I'm seven, and ..... I.. like my brothers! _/\_
The cutest answer... Awww
@@freakishyj and
I was going to say the same thing!
That is a sign of good parenting! :) Love it!
I know, he was so sweet! Such a selfless heart at a young age ❤️
@@freakishyj ikr
This video has been a blessing 🥰 I have cried at one point, I felt the power of the Holy Spirit on me when the father was praising his kids..I have been praying about this on how to raise my daughter..this is an answered prayer 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You have voiced my same thoughts! This has been a timely vlog as I've been praying for wisdom. 🙏
I agree. The same. So important a daddy praises his children. You are both doing a wonderful job and so patient Lyndsey. I agree with saying sorry too. You explained it so well.
Sweet lady you have the most beautiful voice! I love to play your music while I'm sitting in my office at First Baptist Church. I've been a secretary there for 23 years. Thank you for being obedient and sharing your God given talent.
“Stay tuned” how adorable! Noah you’re a cutie pie! You are very blessed with your boys.
You guys are wonderful! We could go on and on about what a Godly home you are building. No family is perfect, we all know that. But, you are doing a great job with your boys. I would have liked these tips 25 years ago when we raised our 2. I would also add a huge tip for mom and dad, is to pray for, and with your children daily. You must have the Spirits covering, and do your best to keep them from negative peer pressure. This was a huge struggle for us, but your boys have a great foundation. You are a loving, humble Godly family. God's grace will cover your weaknesses. We love you even though we've never met you. 🥰👍. Jesus is King!
We love you & adore you guys, ea & everyone! You are very smart parents! Praise God forever for families like yours!!
I love You!!! Wen
Tricia, dear sister in Christ, Abba Father is waiting for you with open heart full of love for you....no, He does not hate you, this is a LIE. GOD LOVES YOU! Just go to Him, approach Him where you are.. you will see how much He has been waiting for you. With sisterly love for you from far away :)
You would have liked them 25 yrs ago. I say 40.
But you know what?, No matter the age, our God is a Restorer and Repairer.
No matter the age, no matter the condition or situation, prayer, confession, repentance and faith in God, brings the victory. Amen
I have four children and they all love your music. Especially my 3 year old daughter and 6 year old son. What a blessing to have found you guys! I am pentecostal but totally respect everyone's jouney in loving Jesus!! I can't wait to watch more of your videos
So happy to see another video of your wonderful family. Your oldest has gotten so tall!!!
Noah: "Stay tunned!" That's so cute!
We only have two, but I’ve found that each child needs different discipline styles-wanting the same end result - because they have totally different personalities. Age & developmental enters into it of course
I love this! It’s so rare to hear Christians mentioning to train your children (even though the Bible tells us to). This video is a great example of how to do it lovingly!
When Elijah reaches out and grabbed your chin and looked like he was going to kiss your face... adorable! I have an almost 3 month old (my fourth) and those slobbery kisses are too sweet!
The ones when they kiss you with their mouth open and their tounge out lol...and then rub it in lol
7:46
Such a beautiful family ❤❤❤
& that cute little finger just touching the scissors.
Many parents today are too busy being their child’s “friend” instead of their parent.
very true. Grew up with that...very destructive and i really dont like it!!!
I think that you can be a friend and a good parent to your child. To guide/discipline them when needed, and to both love AND like your child, too. Children are more likely to obey their parents if they know that their parents actually like them. It is good for a child's emotional well being to feel liked by their mum and dad.
Sadly, I have seen that for decades
I think you can be both and SHOULD be both.
I think what Gloria means is to be a friend to your child, neglecting the structured guidance which includes discipline etc. I’ve also seen parents be so nice to their kids that the kids grow up thinking everyone wants to be their friend when they are overly spoiled and selfish thinking the world revolves around them (I did kids ministry and was a nanny for many years). Of course it’s important to be your child’s friend but being their parent involves so much more. Get Gods “balance” and you’ll raise amazing people!!
I woke up this am so saddened by the way the world is going.I was given such a joy in my heart from your beautiful voices and the love of Jesus that shines from your faces.I was led to listen to your beautiful boys sing. I am so thankful you share your gifts with the world.
They grow so very fast. Enjoy your time with them.
In order to raise happy children, we need to be happy parents. We all have issues more or less. We need to pray, sing, worship talk to God, ask for help, be grateful...
Your children are cute and well behaved. I like your channel because it comes from sincere hearts.
Yes. Being consistent is very important. My grandbaby is 11 months old and she knows, No No, when I say it and she puts her hand up and shakes her head No and listens. I love it. God bless you guys!
Your children look like angels they are so blessed being raised in a family full of love
You guys did a great job with your vlog. Excellent advice. One thing I have been so impressed by was when you took your oldest on the hike/camping trip. You had been so observant as to realize he was feeling the nudge of the Holy Spirit and then giving him the time and closeness and reach out with guidance so he could come to the point of receiving Him into his heart and life. Great job!!
God bless all your family
I have three grown sons, and sadly, although I tried, I was in an abusive relationship, and none of them are saved. I messed up badly too.
I pray for them every day, my heart is broken. I have so much guilt. So please pray for their salvation.
Your children are blessed to have you both as parents. They are such sweet boys. You are right when you say each child needs time & attention, & appreciation for good attitudes & behaviour. Lots of love, but training too. Bad attitudes do begin in the heart.
Thanks for sharing.
Much love in Christ.
His grace is sufficient for us! His power is made perfect in our weakness! God is a redeeming God! He is in the business of redemption so fear not! There is nothing too hard for Him. Fear not, believe only! Where sin abounds, grace does much more abound! He is so much greater than our mistakes! God bless!
Psalm91 you are not alone, I’m right there too. My three boys were treated horrible by their father and we wound up in a battered woman’s shelter. So, I raised them as best I could, never any child support, nothing from dad. Now they are grown but still wounded and not saved. Guilt has been my burden too. Wish I could hug you and make it all better! You are my sister in Christ and I didn’t want you to feel you are the only one struggling. My verse is Ps. 91, too.
@@bettylane6982 Aww bless you Betty, thank you. I will pray for you & your children too.
It's very hard, I know - because I made the wrong choices, my children (& I) suffered. Only, I had been saved at 9..went my own way for years. But God is faithful & brought me back to Him.
The tears flow, often at night, as I plead for my children's salvation.
Jesus makes beauty out of ashes
Be encouraged my sister. My 4 sons also strayed but God is bringing them back into the fold. He has done miracles in their lives and mine. He loves them more than you do. They belong to Him. His children. Just say ok God I didn't do everything right but I know you've forgiven me. So I put them into your hands now. The best place to be. Guilt be gone. Nobody is good. The Bible says that. Each person gets to make their own choices. Even Gods first children Adam and Eve sinned. That's just life. But I ask you Father God to now give me your peace and joy as I trust you completely to perfect all that concerns me..amen
Those are the most precious boys! I enjoy seeing them and sending them virtual hugs. God bless you all.
YES, VERY BLESSED THANK YOU.
Hello how are you doing today 😊😊
Ohhh they are SO precious!! Thank you for this video, I have three boys. I would love more in-depth videos on how to develop character, good attitude, etc for the older kids. Maybe some more examples.
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
proverbs 22:6
My dad use to rcite this to me everytime.Esp when Im naughty.He will smack me at times.And few minutes later he would sit me dwn and explained to me why he had to smack me and say sorry and that he loved me thats why he had to correct me and let me knw that what I did was wrong.After that he will recite that verse to me.
I love my dad.May He Rest In Peace.
Hustle Fanatic no no no. There is never an excuse to hit a child.
@@bethatasitmay5405 spare the rod you spoil the child. This is not talking about abuse.. abuse is WRONG. But, a little pop on the hand or a pop on the but or leg is needed
Diamond Ansong I didn’t say it was abuse but regardless if you did the same thing to an adult or an animal it would be considered inappropriate but ok to do it to a child? No no no. Never.
I understand... everyone has a different parenting style. But, I just believe there is a difference between disciplining with love and abuse. I have to say I'm appreciative of my spankings now that I'm older... we had a beautiful balance of love all the time and spanking when need be. Everybody doesn't spank some people yell, some people put in the corner, some people ground, some people may give work, and some people talk... i feel all have their place in raising a child... thats a village of personalities and it takes a villiage
Diamond Ansong l agree! "Spare the rod, spoil the child" is one of multiple Scripures that address discipline. Spanking is used on younger children and other measures are used for older children.. The disobedient behavior should be explained to the child, and the child should be told/shown love after. Yah chastens those He loves and we should do the same. No one is talking about physical abuse here, and discipline is reserved for outright defiance and rebellious behavior, NOT for teaching/training.
Love to see you hug your boys. What a lovely family. Beautiful boys.
I’m Muslim but I definitely got some good tips how to raise my children I’m having difficulty with one of my child who has adhd how to teach him to be an independent and kind individual. I am keeping patience I know God will help me to help him that’s why he was sent to me so I can help him with his struggles. Please pray for my family xx
I saw some episodes on "Super Nanny" where she taught families with ADHD children, how to engage them, relieve their stress and get a closer relationship to them. You can find those episodes here on RUclips.
Your kids are growing up so fast--so cute and handsome! Love your content. May God continually bless you.
Excellent. I'm 65 years old and our children are long gone now. I've realized more in the past several years, though we thought we raised them in a godly home, we were not careful with our one on one relationship building, and definitely not enough of praise given. We were brainwashed into the American dream theory -- build a house, have 2 cars, wife works to help it all happen. Sadly, though Christians, we did not see the detriment of my working as a mother instead of being in the home more to lovingly rear our children. This isn't a judgement, sincerely at all, upon others who both work outside the home. I'm only saying for my husband and myself, we now believe that it's more a blessing to have the wife in the home.
I hope I didn't say anything I shouldn't. I don't want to cause conflict.
I'm thankful so much for your family and your example of love and godliness. Blessings to you all.
Sharon Mooney, thank you so much for your comment, it's a very timely,edifying comment. We the younger mothers should learn from the older ones and there you have shared your life lesson and I appreciate, I quit my job to raise our 4 children as my husband goes to work and to make our home. We live in the kenyan coast.
Lots of love from Kenya.
I’m in that rat race and feel guilty after reaching home late in the night from work. Missing my kids and missing the opportunity to train them in the Lord. Don’t know how to q
I always look forward to seeing the videos of this wonderful family, who loves to serve God
Mr. Daddy,,, even you vlog your family for an hours i wont get tired watching your family, Noah's cuteness is overload 😍
😭😭😭😭 i just love this familly .LORD i thank you for beautiful familly thank you JESUS HALLELUJAH
I love dis beautiful familly
Parenting for service and responsibility both to man and God, Amen...
Hi Forest! Am waving back to u and I gave u a thumbs up. I see u in the background waving and doing this👍🏾!
May God bless you all.
I admire you guys..and as a grandma taking care now of 3grandkids ages 10-12, I find it really difficult at times. Their Dad lives w us too. PLS PRAY FOR ME..
Beautiful well behaved children! Credit goes to these wonderful parents.😍
All glory be to God!
Your family is such a blessing in today's world. Thank you for your beautiful music, I listen to it everyday. I find my teenage girls singing along in the car with me. God bless you and your beautiful family.🙏
Hello how are you doing 😊😊
This was so helpful. The format made it easier to learn and pay attention when you labeled things on the screen. Validating too as God has led me with these tips. Imperfectly following, but it's worth the intention. Thanks for emphasizing the positive in the approaches and joy in parenting.
I wish I had understood the stages. I think it would have relieved a lot of pressure on myself and them. Feels like I jumbled up the stages and now mine are already 10+. God has made it work.
Thanks also for firmly clarifying physical discipline and that there's a line not to be crossed. I carry much righteous indignation towards professed followers of God who take advantage of their personal authority to fulfill their penchant for power and control. Devastating lifelong effects. No justification for abuse in any form. Thankfully, God truly has much better ways.
Thank you for your humility with us and your children. Your family has been a blessing to me for several years now.
awwww thank you so much for this video, your family is simply wonderful, God Bless all of you!
Yes thank you GOD BLESS YOU
I love how honest y'all are
Beautiful family. Well explained.
Hello how are you doing 😊😊
Love this precious family and your wonderful beliefs ❤️🤗🙏
I love this Godly family, especially the 6 boys! They are so handsome and sweet
It was so sweet how Forest waved in the back ground! Hey Forest!👋 y’all are doing such a good job with your kids
Eu amo essa familia. DEUS continue abencoando vocês.
Love you more this family
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR HONESTY.
God bless you and your children
Thank you for this video. We have two young boys and homeschool as well. I love your videos and your music is such a Blessing. I often have Lindsey singing in the background. I couldn't help but smile at Noah's little fingers so badly wanting to touch those scissors. Life with boys is exhausting but such a blessing all the same!
Your family is so great. Love watching how you love you kids and teaching them about life and god
I just love this family for sure God bless you
Thank you for pointing out the different between training and discipline. Thank you.
Amen, Amen &,Amen.Sweet Family, much appreciation & love from germany💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you all so much for what you do! I discovered your vlogs & music a few days ago and have been really encouraged by them!
Sooooo BLESSED to watch this precious family of God.
Love you all 😘
Thank You! Very encouraging! God bless
This was a wonderful video about raising your boys 💙. When my 1st child was born, we were not following the Lord and it breaks my heart to think of how things could have been. Your children are very blessed to have a Godly Mom and Dad. Wish I had examples like you when my son was growing up. I pray for him every day but he is still of the world. God Bless You Always and I look forward to your next video 🙏🏻
I can relate, same situation here. Blessings!
I am praying for you and your family. I was not following the Lord when I began a family either. But He is good, and I put my faith that if He wills it, He will provide! I believe that the Lord will reach your son and I will continue praying for you both.
marisadaniela6 thank you so much for your encouragement 🙏🏻
Gloria Sheppard praying every day 🙏🏻
Allieville I just keep praying 🙏🏻
Your video just blessed my spirit. Like a breath of fresh , cool air. Everyone of your boys are so precious. I love the interaction between your family. Saw the boys helping take care of the little ones. So special! And Noah being adventuresome on the couch arm. Haha And mom saying she had to work a little more with him. Haha. I got such a laugh from that. Brought back a lot of memories of our children. Thank you so much for sharing your family with us. I appreciate how parents who love Jesus like you do are teaching their children about his love. Bracken, and Lindsey, I have to know our Saviour is smiling on you and all six of those precious boys of yours. Your family makes my heart smile.
May God bless your family more and more.
What a great family! Blessed.
You are such a beautiful family. God bless all of you. Thanks so much for sharing. Have a beautiful evening 💖🙏😊
Great tips! I have personally enjoyed Ted Tripp's Shepherding a Child's Heart, because as you stated, it is so important to work on the heart issues in order to change the undesirable behavior.
God bless your family.
Thank you very much ❤️ God bless you all!
Such great tips. You folks are so inspirational! As the Mother of five grown children I must say your doing all things righteous. Your fantastic parents! God bless 🙏
In these times this brought hope and joy to my heart!!! Thank you guys!!
✝️💕🙏🏻🌸🥰😃😃😃✝️✝️✝️
Your family is so beautiful, God bless you.
What a happy family God bless to all
Thank you, this is very encouraging. I have been having a hard time parenting lately
I love that your raising your children the GODLY way. Plus I am glad I found your channels I enjoy the music along with the vlogs.
Que bênção de família! Glória a Deus!
Beautiful! Your maturity and humility are rare and remarkable! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for opening your home and shining for all to see!
Beautiful family, thanks for encouraging me with my 5 children.
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊☺️
That was a great blog, I can't imagine having six children... I really liked the get to the heart advice. As I have a child that has reoccurring disobedience all the time. And smiling and having fun and praying are so important.
I simply love your family 🙏🏾🛐🙏🏾
You all bless my heart. God Bless you!!
This was very helpful. Thank you! And thank you for being honest about imperfections
Hello I'm new in this channel and I just want to say that I am so blessed with your family. May God continue to bless you more. Thank you so much for being such an encouragement. So excited to see these young boys turn into Godly men.
God Bless You!
I'm going through rewatching your older vlogs. So much gold! You have really encouraged me in so many ways to be a better Mother. Our family has benefited and we are so grateful for the work you do. Thank you!
Blessed family...The LORD guide you always.
Thank you for this wonderful video! God bless you!! Greetings from Brazil!!
Praise the Lord for this lovely family 🙌🏼🥰
Love your beautiful children, blessings.
There is so much unrest in our country right now. It is so nice to see a kind, loving family. People who want to raise good, kind, & loving children. God bless all of you. Thank you for sharing your goodness with all of us 💝
God bless you guys so much that was very nice .
What a blessing this was, I truely wish I knew you guys when my kids were young or at least thought of some of these tips, they are in their 20's now, I was definetly the drill sargent and totally regret it. God bless your beautiful family.
Thank you for posting this! May YASHUA continue to Protect & Guide yall Always in ALL WAYS,,,
Shalom from Florida
Interesting, God bless you I found this video very helpful.
I do love everything about your family. I can say that i have failed. I wish that i knew better. I have learnt so very much just by watching you all. Keep up the good works. God bless
You haven't failed! You still have breath to pray for your kids! God's grace is sufficient for you and His strength is made perfect in your weakness! Where sin abounds, grace does much more abound! Every good and perfect gift comes frim Him, so commit your children and your mistakes into His hands! He will perfect that which concerns you!!
We thank God for this blessed family.