COACH GREG ADAMS PROOF: SINGLE MOTHERS have DESTROYED AMERICA! The TRUTH about single moms...
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Father's are "abscent" because the mothers want them out of relationships so they can collect more welfare
Back in the 90s there was a story here in New York. A woman divorced her husband and got custody of their daughter. She began dating strange men and one of them raped and impregnated the daughter. The daughter kept telling the mom but she refused to listen. The teen daughter hung herself and the boyfriend went to jail. A year after the girl died the mother , her friends and a news crew went to the daughters grave. The ex husband jumped out of nowhere and emptied a clip of 9mm into the mother. He found out what happened and took out his revenge for the loss of his little girl.
Where was his ass when his daughter was being abused? He didn't do shit to stop it and don't even try and claim he didn't know. He is a parent it's his f*cking job to know. He is just as responsible to protect his kid as the mother is.
@@Slw1111 the ignorance here is astounding.
@@Slw1111 the mother likely kept the child from the father. Do you even think before you speak? It's clear you're hyper emotional about the issue but take the blinders off.
@@jessegoodyear5547 Oh please! The mother can't keep the child from the father unless she kidnaps the child. It's called visitation and can be arranged to have the child transferred to the non-custodial parent at the court house. If the mother fails to show up she, ends up with a warrant for her arrest. Furthermore, that does NOT excuse the fact that deadbeats owe S113 BILLION in back child support. You are literally trying to claim that the mother is kidnapping the child and therefore fathers have no responsibility to support their children. Do you even think before you speak? It's clear you're overly emotional and hyper defensive about deadbeats.
@@Slw1111 Sure protect his daughter when the feminist courts gave the mother full custody and the father could only see her two weekends a month and when she allows him too.
The only thing worse than an absent father is a toxic mother!!
Many times the father is absent cuz the mother is toxic.
@@danielcook11 you better stop telling the truth or they be after you.
@@danielcook11 and many times the father is absent because he doesn't want to be present. What she said is absolutely true but absent fathers are absent for many reasons and not just because of the moms
@@shoca3427 you are another feminist satanic Marxist indoctrinated 🐑!
Judge Judy even stated single fathers do better than single mothers.
As a former HS teacher, my behavior problem students were almost always boys raised without a father.
Reminds me of that Jenny Jones boot camp episode with the kid who wants the drill sergeant to be his dad.
The boys are coming in acting like their mothers in middle school. It’s sad
Yup, emotional Twain wrecks…
What did you do in those cases?
I'd disagree me and my two sisters were raised without a father and none of us have a alcohol problem drug problem or criminal record
As a single mother I can 100% there is nothing easy or positive about it. Choosing who to have your children with is the single most important decision of your life.
Yea definitely
A least you r honest. Most women, like my sister, will never admit that.
I agree that is why I'm taking my time in choosing a partner and not be pressured by society to have kids coz" time is running out" . Also it's not only about mothers. Years ago when a man impregnates a woman he had to marry her because they understood the value of family. Nowadays well🙄. Women need to close their legs too and choose a partner wisely. I think alot of ladies especially in their 20s and 30s allow society to influence them into thinking they need a man right now or they'll be single forever. They don't look at the qualities of a man and if he values marriage and keeping a family. I'm not against getting married young I just believe everybody's life is different and not all women or men find the right partner in their twenties. Others find their right partners even in their teenage years so I find it abit funny when people all over the internet say find your partner in your twenties.
I also think it has made alot of people go astray and made wrong choices. I strongly believe if I gave in to that pressure I would probably be a single mother myself.
@@thandicandy5452 age has nothing to do with it. its attitude
@@oliverduke1173 right
My eldest son brought his girlfriend to the house for dinner. Conversation came up about children. She brought up how she wanted to have my sons child. I asked when they were getting married. She looked at him then back at me. I said no children no marriage. I told her she had met a man not a boy in my son. This man she had been dating has values because he was raised by both his Mother and his Father together. After 3 years of marriage they both have a home and a beautiful daughter together.
I'm so glad you said that! It needs to be said by more and more parents and shared. Someone definitely needs to let fatherless young people know this because it's not understood or conceptualized
Thank goodness for that outcome.
good job...some mothers, tell their daughter (s) not to marry, but go ahead and have babies.
Well done
Sometimes it still works I guess.
My ex tried that sh!t. She said I want a divorce move out. Imagine her surprise when I said no and just moved to the spare room. She whined and cried. Said "why won't you do what you're supposed to do". Supposed to do? No I am supposed to be there for my kids. Long story short now she's gone and I still have my kids.
Thats yoo fault for having kids with her crazyy ass. Smh
@@BleuBelair this was after being married for 17 years. And other than wanting me to just give up the kids who said she was crazy?
Good for you! Hug them for me. I can't anymore.
@@jeffpotipco736 so sorry to hear that it worked out that way for you!! I will.
Right on. I told my ex wife from the jump my daughter is staying right here with me. Ex living in a low income trailer park now, alone with a cat. Can't make this up
Kids not having Dad's is what has destroyed Ameriva
you cant even spell worry about that
@@paulette3269 Capital Y (You), 'Can't' - apostrophe after the 'n' and you forgot the full-stop at the end. Your Grammar is crap. Worry about that!
@@QuadriviumNumbersBro said ratio’d in an elegant format😂
*SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* did destroy society.
Use the proper wording. No PC bullshit
I'm proud to be a dad who raised my kids for the last 18 years on my own. "It's not easy" is an understatement but it's worth every minute.
Lots of single mothers probably agree with you.
As a woman I afree with you.
Yep and everyone will see you as a hero for doing it on your own instead of the downfall of society apparently.
But in reality I'm assuming you sent you kid to the public school school system, so you really have very little impact of actually rasing and shaping molding your kid the state and tick tock and social media did....if all firnees if you had to work you were prob with your kid maybe a few hours a day and prob weren't even really totally engaged with them that whe time....the best way to raise a child is the women do the brunt of raising small children and men disciplined teenagers, ying and yang for the best possible version of an adult...since that is not the case you get what we have now....each generations is more disrespectful has less and less morals and self respect.
@@sunowl5301 did the government subsidize him? That's the question.
Truth...seen many women telling pregnant friends.."You don't need no man, you can do it". Yeah but the kid needs a man (Father).
Hahaha,is that what you came down to😅😅😅😅😅Having no father is better than having a delusional narcissist who cooked that silly conclusion up....Of course the children inheret the genes and so are as disastersous.
They don't. They just benefit from two parents.
@@tynj4173 it's not. Having two parents is.
If you're referring to two parents that need to be biologically parents, then yes, you're right. It doesn't have to be a mother and a father.
But a child need one man and one woman as parents.
If you believe two women or two men can do the same job as a man and a woman. Then you're not only wrong, but you're a lost case.
A child needs his mother until they are about 6-8yo, then the father is the most important parental figure. Without one of them, the child is guaranteed some sort of emotional failure in life.
Single mothers are extremely selfish
Facts.. I came from a single mother. I spent years in prison. I'm overweight. I struggle w discipline. I've had to learn everything the hard way. I've been in and out of poverty my whole life, mainly because my record stops me from getting consistent employment. When people give me a job, I overdeliver. When they find out abouty record, they always fire me. If I tell them ahead I get politely declined.
I paid for an $8000 mentorship, was in for two years. Became a leader in the community. When an ex gf deliberately told my mentor abouty record, they immediately kicked me out.
It's fucking depressing.
I take responsibility for my life now. I'm doing well. It's always an uphill battle.
People can't destroy what they don’t know. Learn your lessons and never divulge your past to any best friend, girlfriend, wife or whoever! Trust no one. It's your past that's why it should remain there! If you can't keep your own secret why then do you expect another to keep it for you? I would advice you start your own business and see how things will fall in place for you. Shalom.
Wow thanks for your transparency
You can help break this generational curse
Men need to own up their responsibility
My heart breaks hearing your story
Women need to raise their children in the Lord
People need to go back to Loving fearing and obeying the King of Kings and Lord of Lord's
It's all in Bible
This is what happens when people don't follow the good Lord direction instruction wisdom...
God bless you 😇🙏😇🙏😇🙏 God will restore everything the enemy stoled
@@onyekachi9662 he said people will find out! his ex gf rated om him!
men have to live in reality!
@@maxpawa9282 No people won’t find out unless they ask for a background background check. He also said to not tell anyone of your past regardless of who it is. That advice is also helpful.
@@thedarkplague1475if you really want to find out you can! hire a PI
I have been put through hell by my ex-wife with the cooperation of the courts. But I fought and continue to fight a crazy battle to keep them 50/50. It has ruined me financially but my kids are more important to me than anything else in this f’d up
World I am not going anywhere. They know their father loves them and wants them to be happy. False accusations just get swept under the rug
It sucks that you had to go through that but I applaud you for doing what you should as a father. Not sure if you were a decent husband or not but I we need more men like you doing what needs to be done to raise their kids.
Yeah that's really a tough situation I went for almost 2 years not even knowing where my children were but now there's a good chance we'll all be in the same room when I die then boys of yours will know who their daddy is a man of principle God bless you
Seeing your post I'm going to start a Non profit to assist single Dads as yourself. You just reminded me of the hardships I went through. I had my son as a toddler and he's an honor roll 9th grader now. I can tell you it's not easy but with God's grace you'll get through it. I have to figure how I'm going to go about it.
If it's got tits or tires it's gonna cause you problems.
-Dalai Lama
‘I don’t need no man!’
Maybe not, but your child certainly does.
( while she gets a child support check that pays all her bills. From a man)
@@thomasjdm7388or welfare and section 8 also paid for by mostly mens taxes
When there were survivors in a reality show in two teams (Men vs Women), the women were complaining they won't survive while the men at the other hand, were going on just fine and having fun like it's a boy's party.
Dads must STOP the people in government NOW!!!
I remember when there were so few single mothers, that they were looked down on with disgust. Now they think it's normal.
👁
Right is now wrong. Good is now bad.
The world is changing drastically. Everything is falling apart tremendously. It’s high time we start realizing what we’re doing to ourselves or and wake up to reality! The system don’t want us to win
It really isn't falling apart, this is literally the most peaceful and clean time in all of human history. The internet is just making you paranoid.
@@TheRagefires War and what’s happening inside of a country is not the same my boy
@@FreshKiidTv10 doesn't change my point. Yall just paranoid
@@TheRagefires Lol it’s not being paranoid is just a realization. Maybe some may be paranoid Forreal but again you should always watch who you talking to not everyone the same. Just a life lesson to you my brother
@@FreshKiidTv10 What? You used a bunch of words but ended up saying nothing. Didn't make much sense
Single mothers and fathers has been around since the dawn of our kind. Back then it was because the husband went off to war or got sick and died. Women died a lot in childbirth.
I heard there was a great figure from the bible who's the son of a single mother
Either Jephthah or someone else
My mom always told my brothers when growing up that they re not picking girlfriends but the mothers of their future children. I guess old school would save ‘dramas’ for long term
Absolutely
not having a father made my life harder in a way, but my mom taught me how to be a good loving person.
I'm from a single mother and the absence of a father has definitely been a factor in my life. Not for the good either.
Fathers need to be there to discipline young boys to men otherwise they stray from the correct path.
Yea ,true.
And now we have to praise single moms that tried their best,
I wonder where did these kids father went?
@elizabeth silverio cheaters drinkers. Nowadays divorce is common.
Yep and they cancel people like Andrew Tate for trying to talk about it
They wanna cancel anybody and anything that talks about the truth and sometimes the cold hard reality of life. That's why they use the race card excuse so often.
Yup. You're not allowed to have as much influence as him without being on a short leash. He doesn't have one.
The guy who is under arrest for trafficking people? He's your inspiration
@@RebeccaEvans With what proof the support that claim?
@@chonkulous7405 he is literally under arrest for trafficking, dude. No claim necessary
I was a single teen mother. I raised my son well. Now he's a single dad, he has custody of his daughter. He's a good dad n a good son.
My parents stayed married until my brother and were adults and on our own then they divorced. They never fought but my mother really was a single mom because my father worked long and hard hours to provide us a good home. I am a single mother now of a very fine young man - he is in college. My son's father chose to leave the family but I always insisted that he will be a part of of our son's life and he is. I have told my son his father is a wonderful person. I never degraded his father to him. I never fought with his father. It is better for a person to be raised in a nuclear family but it is possible for a single parent to raise fine children. I know plenty of single fathers and mothers and they have wonderful children too. I know nuclear families and they have problematic children just as equally as they have wonderful children. Parents have to instill values into their children. And parents need to not only protect their children they need to provide them with skills and resources and if the child starts to act out the parent/s need to start looking for the cause. Is counseling needed, is God needed, is mental health needed, is interaction needed ...because some problems are beyond good parenting. We should celebrate parents that raise good children whether they are single or co-parent.
That’s why a lot of guys are just staying single and staying away from the system
Stay single and get women pregnant🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was a single mom with two children. My kids are good kids. No teen pregnancy's. Neither of my children have been in trouble with the law. I raised with the Lord in there lives, with a lot of love and communication. My children are grown now. Oh yeah, they were raised old school. My kids were my world. They came first.
Chad parenting
Chad mom 🔥🔥
God bless you...
I'm 39, my Grandma had 4 children and her husband left her. She's from Philly and neighbors weren't allowed to play with my Aunt's or Mom. Even my Mom's engagement was difficult. My other grandma claimed divorce would be contagious. Amen my parents on are 44yrs together. GMom bought a bright red coat and refused to be ashamed. She had a very hard life. Single motherhood is nothing to be proud of. It was extremely destructive.
It's amazing she refused to be ashamed. Happiness is your own responsibility and needed even more when people look down on you.
I was just going thur the
Website hoping to meet someone
nice and your profile just made me halt at your
I'm fighting this battle now, it's dreadful
21 is a scam
Sorry to hear bro
Sorry to hear that. I went through a hell of a battle. Ya want fifty fifth custody. Most states have it now. Zero child support. You have your rights and so do the children.
Same here. It's a brutal fight, and it drains the very soul.
@@josephtracey4411 I've learned a whole bunch and I'm pretty lucky, I'll win in the end because the courts have no jurisdiction in my case and I'm not worried about child support.
Child support is a contract that is voluntary but they trick the majority of people into thinking it's not a contract but an obligation by law.
The Government needs to stay out of our lives. This mess has gone on for much to long.
This is what happens when america wants to "spread democracy!" When in fact america was founded truly as a "republic." There's a huge difference. I cringe whenever I hear politicians talk about "our democracy." Mob rule.
I agree! I hope you have this same energy when it comes to women’s health.
The government needs to stop rewarding people for having kids.
@@3dsmaxrocks699And instead be son'd by the children who realis they were raised by terrible single mothers.
My wife made false allegations against me and the state immediately backed her up to the hilt and made damned sure that I don’t see my kids anymore, they want fathers out of the family because they don’t want stability in our countries.
My mother worked two jobs and brought in work to raise us on her own, we went with out and always had what is needed, not always what we want, I'm thankful for our mother
I literally have this as a chapter in my book, it's literally the biggest detriment in our country.
I knew all this… and yet… after ten years of counseling with my toxic husband… divorce was the healthier choice for my kids and I. We are thriving now.
And I haven’t taken government help
Why did you have kids with a "toxic" husband?
@@jimmydavo249 he didn’t start out that way. Unfortunately, people change, and it’s out of our control.
Hello
I was just going thur the
Website hoping to meet someone
nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot
Those step dads can be awful abusive to children. They can't replace the real dad.
The real dad can be equally abusive
@@wyleecoyotee4252 that's true too
@Wylee Coyotee true but according to the stats step fathers are more likely to harm the kids then their real fathers
I hate when single mothers are praised but then it turns out she has 5 different baby daddies
This is true. Even if you have the best intentions, the system that we have in place almost near guarantees that at some point you will no longer live with your partner. When the relationship breaks down with the baby mommy, the system kicks in to ensure your life is a living hell, trying to be involved in your children’s lives becomes the most difficult thing you can do.
I say this because I had to buy a house a few kilometres from where my ex is staying, leaving an area I’ve been very happy before I even met my ex.
Unless you move closer to her you’ll be reduced to every second weekend visit dad! Your kids might as well call you uncle!
I believe everyone's circumstances are unique to them and their lives. My mother raised 3 kids pretty much by herself. None of us are a static. We turned out just fine. Shout out to all the single mothers. Keep your head up.
You turned out just fine...
.and with two parents in the household you prob would be way better then just fine.
@@JohnSmith-bx5fg lmao wow
@@texasmade3372 you cannot deny a child with two married parent in the household for their whole upbringing who were married before conception and the mother stayed home and actually did the raising of said child instead of dumping the kid off on a bunch of strangers to raise it is better for the child because it just is
I'm 56 , no children and single 5 years ,had one 1 year relationship in the past 10 years that lasted a year to the month before I threw her out.
Men can't get with women with children because in some states like Washington State, living 2 months in a home with a woman with children the man can be forced to pay child support when she leaves
Single is best now
What the hell!? Really? That's crazy bro! Better to stay single or marry abroad.
@@mariomedinafitness exactly.Patty Murray helped get that law years ago.The woman can get child support from up to 3 men.
It's because you've built a bond with the children.
So ya,it's better to avoid women with children.you can end up paying out of your pocket for it when it's over
2 months!???
@@YoungWarZ66 wouldn't matter if it's 2 months or 1 year...if the children aren't yours why can you be made to pay for her children? And up to three men including the children's real father.
Women today having children just to collect welfare....it's all sick
What state do you live in?
Its not single mothers alone but our own Government that makes it possible and even encourages women to avoid marriage
You were right on the first Sentence but the Government Encourages more women to get married cause it’s a Huge Money Maker for Them.
They want marriage it gives them money once she's not happy
Of course these baby mamas are not talking about HUSBANDS walking out on their WIVES!! 🙄
That does happen, but in America: 80% marriages are ended by the woman. We're only talking 20% of men ending marriages. As unfortunate and impactful as a man leaving is, that's a minority of the cases.
As a woman who has been married with kids and single with kids. who has both gotten government assistance and who makes too much to qualify I can say that this man is ignoring many factors that play into single motherhood. Most women who get divorced are because of the inequality in distribution of work load. In the 1950's the cost of living was low enough for a husband to work while the wife took care of everything at home. Today a husband would have to make over 6 figures to afford a household alone and most men do not. So now wives also have to work to contribute to the household income. However despite this women take care of most of the household needs. Which means both mom and dad have to wake up and go to work outside of the house. married women who work wake up before the household and go to sleep later to take care of everything needed.there are studies that show that even though more wives work outside of the home they still take care of 80% of the household needs. the households where husbands take care of 20% are few. Households where women stay married the husband is an active participant in the household workload. meaning he also does laundry cook dinner put kids to bed. So maybe if men are present in their households this trend can reverse. If your going to compare today to the 50's compare everything.
I respect your case but we can agree that you are exception to the rule.
You can explain your case but the data shows a diferent situation around us.
Women and men need to choose wisely who they pretent to be with and understand the consequences for a bad choice.
This! It’s like all the men complaining about the divorce rate and blaming women refuse to discuss this. It’s not like women wake up and dream about getting a divorce. Marriage to extremely lazy men is killing women everyday. Yet it seems so much easier to blame women for all their problems.
@spinwheel100 She is not an exception to the rule. What she said is the rule. Many men who are even present in their family's life are not active with their children. Some don't even know their kids birthdays or the name of their children's school. All they do is provide and think it is enough and pin the household responsibilities on the wife. There is an epidemic of Married Single Moms too, not just Single Moms.
I was born in 71. I'd say this started in the 80s
The child support laws were created in 1975. So yeah, the early 80’s is where this started to really take hold in America.
My wife and I have raised 5 wonderful kids together we have been together for 28 years and married for 22 trust me the marriage was hard the whole way but I would do anything for my kids I don't understand y a father or mother could be so selfish
salute to you brother, id have to find a unicorn in the states in order to have kids with her
Unfortunately based on the data, statistics and Facts it's not the Men. We just started to break ground on how women use the system to keep or make themselves single Moms. Some modern women Glorify & Praise being a single🙆♂️🤷♂️🤦♂️ mom
TRUTH. I have lived it. Ten years in family courts. Attacked by CPS, Parental alienation, Slander. NEVER GIVE UP!!!
This happened to me with my father in 1988 and it happened to me with my kids in 2018! These magistrates are getting kickbacks for their attack on the American family for money!!!!!!! It needs to stop!!!
Unfortunately she passed 3 days after being born, but the woman who birthed my daughter told me 4 months before she was born, that she didn't want me to be a part of their life and she was a strong independent mother and our daughter was going to be raised to be the same. I was in no way a bad person or unfit to be a parent. She was just a narcissist and wanted to look strong in front of everyone. She even threatened lawsuits if I tried to see my own child which of course I told her to try. After she died, she tried to keep me from the funeral because again, she didn't need a man there. Women these days are brainwashed and it's terribly sad.
We need to start teaching children when they are young what a strong, loving family unit is! We do that by the power of example and talking about it! At this point we need to teach the adults.
IF THE MEN STOPPED CONSENTING TO THEIR SYSTEMS. THEIR SYSTEMS WOULD SHUT DOWN IMMEDIATELY...
The welfare system contributed heavily to the breakdown of the nuclear family.
Thanks Mom and Dad for staying together. I'm pretty messed up but the reality is my parents kept me based
So my parents got divorced when I was 5 however I was extremely lucky because I have 2 older siblings and my parents were and still are quite civil they even consider themselves friends but I know I got the long stick and a lot of kids can and do get fucked I was just one of the few lucky ones
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I bet the women argued with him over these fact 🤦♂️
Of course, women would let the whole world suffer and burn to ash before they would even think about having a conversation that maybe it's not true that they "don't need no man"
What facts(stereotyping)?
My husband passed away and left me a single mother in 2016. I haven't dated, brought a man home, definitely not moving any man in. I'm not woke, on drugs, my child is not fat or misbehaving or any destruction behavior.
@@AkronkangarooWOW, so going straight to name calling. That's charming
@@nodnachangeforme6986
Majority of SMs are not like you.
He is not talking about widows.
@@nodnachangeforme6986
These are "stats", 73% of inmates - IT'S A FACTUAL STATISTICS.
Also, you literally proved the point of 'Mario Medina fitness'.
The problem is everyone having sex and not even married.
50% of marriages end in divorce, it may even be 65% now. Women initiate 70-80% of divorces, 90% if their college educated... yeah, I'm absolutely stumped as to why people don't marry
Women: leave the marriage ~80% of the time.
Also women: typical men, always leaving their kids.
Just because your wife divorces you doesn't mean you need or have to leave your kids?
🙏🙏🙏 for all the children suffering!
We need to reverse this! We need to go back to the two parent blueprint in raising children. The government needs to stand aside and stay our of our families
Women don't want that they want to have whatever man they want
Woman need to go back in the home to raising children for that but unbacked promisary notes has mad that impossible..
Hello
I was just going thur the
Website hoping to meet someone
nice and your profile just made me halt at your spot
Uh hello. There is an agenda to destroy America.
Fathers are not absent. They are PUSHED out.
That's true , some are also just cowards they go into hiding.
My dad was pushed out
Exactly. Us aging folk remember when a fictional tv character, Murphy Brown, saying she was intentionally choosing single motherhood as simply, "a lifestyle choice," was very controversial and made a big to do. There was a lot of fallout from that episode.
I COME FROM A BROKEN HOME
MOM beat me....often
Sorry . It's sad how women can be so abusive out of frustrating of their relationships not working out with their boyfriend or husband. It's not fair on the kids honestly. She needs to apologize to you but maybe she doesn't know it still hurts you so let her know first.
Interesting how the term is "single mothers" and not "absentee fathers". Accountability is key.
It's tricky coz not all of them are absent by choice. Some are pushed away because the mother has a grudge of some sort against the father which is totally wrong and selfish and totally unfair to the child and father. Others of course are just cowards they decide to go into hiding.
Accountability is pretty important isn't it. Just like women should be held accountable for analyzing what kind of man they're with before they decide to have a child with him. Terrible loser men exist in pretty large numbers, but how about women start being smarter about who they date and get pregnant with. Because the crazy thing is that those loser men more than likely were raised in a single mother household.
“Seventeen Shannon is pregnant
Young as her momma when she had her
The kid is never gonna have a dad
The same ol’ one that Shannon never had
What comes around, well it goes around…” ~ The Offspring, ‘Way Down the Line’
"Nothing changes, cuz it's all same!"
"The world you get is the one you give away!"
"It all just happens again... way down the line!" 🎶🚖🚕🎶
YOUR STATISTICS ARE ACCURATE.
AND THATS EXACTLY HOW THE HIGHER UPS DESIGNED IT TO BE.
This is a smart man. Listen up young people.
Maybe don’t incentivize women to get divorced. Our legal system paying women to leave marriages is ridiculous.
Man is not without woman nor woman without the man in the Lord
This is anecdotal but I was a single mom. I received a total of $125 for support for one of the 3. I was not a single mom by choice. Father #1 dipped out and ghosted. We were young so I understood. Father #2 was older and had a stroke. He is alive and maintains contact with his child but was not helpful in raising him. Father #3 had drug induced schizophrenia.
Results of my adult children:
Child 1: 28M - 5'8" and 120 lbs, stock market trader, no criminal history, no children.
Child 2: 23M - 5'10" and 125 lbs, BS in AP Bio-chem, no criminal history, vasectomy, no children.
Child 3: 20F - 4'11" and 95 lbs, AS in biology while getting HS diploma, currently in school for RN, no criminal history, no children.
While I recognize that my situation is not normal it is not impossible. I have never asked for child support, I never asked for support at all. My view was that if they didn't want to be responsible, forcing them only breeds resentment.
How about address this absentee father mess with the sperm donors who avoid their responsibilities. While I recognize that In my youth, I didn't make the best decisions and chose the wrong men, I am not to blame for their behavior.
If I waited until I found my soulmate to have kids, I would never have any. I was 38 by the time I first got married. We have been together for 15 years and I am still very happy. We are both sterilized and done having kids. We never had any together.
Start rallying the forces and pressure men into safe sex practices until they are ready. Maybe it's the men who shouldn't have sex until they are married. Maybe it's the men who should receive training and coaching on how to be responsible. Maybe its the men who should be ashamed for their behavior. Maybe we should be pushing a pull out agenda instead of an anti abortion one.
It is easier to take the bullets out of the gun than to shoot at a bulletproof vest.
Accept the responsibility or don't have sex.
If you had waited for your soul mate you wouldn't have had any kids... Maybe you should have. It was your choice to have the children, nobody made you and nobody could stop you. _"Your body your choice,"_ *majority your fault* as a repeat fornicator/breeder.
Maybe you should have fed the kids more. 120 & 125 pound _"men"?!?_ 🤔
@@Silkravage that is what I'm saying. I think she's lying. 5'10" 125 pounds🤣😂🤣 what does he do in his spare time? Go on month long fasts and eat a total vegan diet 😸😸
@@sdk4422 She's definitely lying... If she isn't someone should've called protective services on her for child abuse.
So what is the SOLUTION? Make child custody 50/50 unless abuse has been established. End child support payments, care for your kids when they are in your custody. Punish parental alienation, as the majority of those victims are men. End "No fault" divorce. Most importantly, make welfare temporary, 5 years max. Single motherhood is incentivized. Here in NYC, pregnant women will go into a shelter to get housing faster. When you can depend on the State to support your children, there is no incentive to act responsibly with your reproduction. They lock up men that can't afford their kids, but women that can't afford their kids get gov't assistance. The "systems" he referred to started with policies pushed by LBJ. It must end with policies.
So many irresponsible fathers out here...
When will Americans WAKE UP ?
Why’s are some people in the comments hating on single mothers? They’re the parent who stayed?
They are the parent default custody was given to. There is a distinct difference. According to your logic if the father wants to be in that category he has to stay with the mother. We all know women file for divorce and break up the family the most, they just get to take the kids when they leave.
It isn't hating, it is just truth is being exposed and women don't like it.
Just cause she stayed doesn't make her a good parent. If the situation was reversed then you would be berating the father for being a crappy parent (the parent who stayed) and upholding the mother who is the fun parent(the parent who left and had multiple kids by different men).
How many women were abused and nearly died because they didn't have birth control control. They were no restraining orders,
couldn't open a bank account, needed husband permission to get tubes tired..The OBGYN office was
only the doctor , no nurses were present!! Most blk women had there babies at home!! Segregation was the law!! 1950s was different and tough!! As for police brutality and corruption?
How many blk men went missing never to be found?
Don't forget the fathers were forced to leave them there by the government.
Yes early sixty’s when the problem started
I am 61 years old and I came from a broken home. My dad beat my mom almost everyday. For 16 years she put up with this abuse because she thought it would be better for us kids to keep the family together. She couldn't have been more wrong. All us kids have wives kids and good jobs. We have never been in jail. It's not all just the broken home. It's what you want out of life not what your given in life.
Children from fatherless homes account for:
*63% of youth suicides
*90% of homeless/runaway youths
*71% of high school dropouts
*75% of adolescent patients in substance abuse centers
*85% of children that exhibit behavioral disorders
*Girls from fatherless homes are more likely to be promiscuous/7X more likely to experience teen pregnancy
*80% of men who seggsually assault people come from fatherless homes and show misplaced anger.
*Children raised in single mother homes are more likely to encounter abuse.
This is exactly why ABW need to marry before they carry and choose better men to give children to. Being tall and having swag doesn't equate to being a good father.
To all non Pookie, law-abiding BM, is this what you want to clean up? Although unfortunate, we didn't make this mess and it's not our responsibility to fix it. My heart goes out to these children because they didn't ask to be in these circumstances. The reality is I'm not spending my life being a stepfather or clean up man for Pookie and Ray Ray nem. I deserve better and you do too. Get your passport immediately and live your life as you see fit. This is not your purpose in life.
#SYSBM #BlueBookGentlemen✈️
Family court creates this problem when they side with the mother 85% of the time. The news gets out. Every rational woman would go to court, with an 85% chance of winning...and every man would avoid court. And the court's bias ensures every divorcing couple would go through court, since it only takes one person to go to court. And the wife would usually be incented to go to court. And more couples going to court ensures more child support is awarded. And the courts then get incentives from the Federal Gov't for collecting more Child Support. Are we seeing the fraudulent scheme the courts are executing on our citizens?
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The women could stop this but will not.
God bless this man what clarity I grew up during the Civil Rights Movement and it was quite an experience and though things like the food stamp program welfare program initially were supposed to be help until you got on your feet but in order to receive this help the father could not reside with the mother and child that kind of thinking doomed people from having even a Fighting Chance this righteous man stands his ground and speaks truth
Men, get your passports.
Self-indulgence has increased proportionally with the rising single mother rates, along with a strong lack of impulse control- mainly because of hands-off non-parenting.
Most single mothers are in that category because they initiated divorce. Seventy percent of divorces are initiated by women and it is 90 % for college educated women. No fault divorce and single motherhood are the two main causes of the problems mentioned in this video. Women are behind these problems.
When is society going to learn that fathers are very important!?!
They know. It is meant to be that way.
Child abuse is likely because of the mother, NOT because of another man. Wow. How would anyone not know this?
I teach and raise my teenage son to become a husband before he becomes a father. Not promoting bm/bd culture in my home. Not promoting the "playa" culture either. Too many children are being raised without focus because their parents are over invested in social media
Repealing mandatory child support would fix this.
The facts are devastating💔😔😞
This reminds me; I need to make another golf reservation.
Thanks.
And when the Mom gets remarried and pops out more kids right away. Facts
I'm not disputing the statistics, or the deplorable state of child outcomes from single parent homes - however, please remember where some of this conundrum came from:
Back in the 70's & early 80's when divorce was becoming more popular, many wives were dumped for the hot young secretary and struggled to work full-time (usually at a low wage job), pay the bills, and take care of the kids (that dad might occasionally see on weekends for "fun time" ALL WITHOUT FAIR AND CONSISTENT CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE THOSE LAWS WEREN'T ENACTED/ENFORCED YET. There were far fewer social "safety net" programs, and certainly NO subsidized childcare. Heck, even court ordered restraining orders weren't enforced. Being raised in this era and under these circumstances, I couldn't understand why my mother had to struggle to scrape by in a tiny apartment, feeding us Kraft Mac-n-cheese, while my father lived in a lovely big suburban house with the new girlfriend and had plenty to eat. My mother eventually stopped petitioning the court for justice because she couldn't afford the lawyer's fees anymore (no legal aid back then either).
I'm NOT saying that there aren't injustices against fathers in the courts today, but to please be aware of the many historical injustices done to moms & kids in the past generation.
Facts is facts.
As a man raised by a pretty toxic single mother, I've had as much resentment towards single mothers as anyone. I do hope however, that we can come to a more reasonable middle ground where we are not placing blame on either side, but simply understanding how the enemy has come in to separate families & work together to make things right
That would mean that the women would need to take accountability also! Nice dream but it’ll never happen
You get the type of behavior you reward.
Feminism is to blame for this. The solution is mgtow.
"Some communitites, 70% of the children, born to unwed mothers."
He didn't say which community he was referring to. He should've said which community it is.
It's not a secret. Coming soon to a suburbia near you!
This man is right on the mark! Thank you for saying this and sharing this.
It’s sad, my husband has repetitively asked that he be able to see his daughter during child support hearings, he is literally told that has nothing to do with support obligation and he needs to hire representation, he said he has no money to due to having a family to take care of and the judge told him his first kid that he had when he was 16 (with a 21 year old woman) take presedence and he shouldn’t have had more children.
Men in this country are set up for failure and the systems in place are garbage. His babymomma literally told him he can take her to court and waste all our money because it’s a mother state and she’ll win anyways.
Shits sad.
No the judge was right....if you knew you fucked yourself and we're now in that situation of child support and couldn't afford that having more kids was just plain stupid...life choices put you where you are in life.
@@JohnSmith-bx5fg so because his baby momma has parents that can afford lawyers, she’s a raging bitch and uses his child every way she can to make his life miserable he should have lived alone and in misery or as she wants it with her and miserable not married someone or started a family that actually can make him happy? Yeah, no lol.
@@JohnSmith-bx5fg he was 16 and had a kid with a grown ass woman which she didn’t do by accident. He’s the youngest man she’s ever been with and only one she’s had a child by, she dragged him thru his teenage years because her father plays poker with the judge and prosecutor who oversees all the cases in our small town.
It’s called manipulation of the system. Women literally have it so easy, and men are set up to fail. Never said he didn’t pay his support, $200 a week for one school aged kid is pretty fucking outrageous tho especially when your told hand your money over and it’s not their problem that mom won’t even let you talk to her!. The same judge ordered my oldest two boys dad $77 a week for two kids still in diapers.
@@JohnSmith-bx5fg hiring a lawyer to see your kid should t be an expected expense and if you believe so your the issue lol
@@brittanyvaughn3691 no it shouldn't at all but that is the fucking law and you knew that, and had more kids so you have to deal with the consequences, I think any woman that collect child support is an unfit mother.
Is it being raised without a father, or being raised without God. I was a single mom. I did not want to be a single mom. As a matter of fact. I held on longer than I should have. Drugs, the thug Life, and in and out of jail got my kids Dad, and no I am not a toxic mom or woman. I pushed through, worked hard, and put God at the center of my home. I am so proud of the way my kids turned out. Both love God, and their family.
There's no system for a man to not be there for his child. Be more selective in who you get pregnant.
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Tell the dads to be fathers
No way you can blame 70% single mom household on just men
Tell the moms to stop alienating them
Where is the accountability for the father, no all of them are in jail.
As the daughter of a single mother, I can say that I really wish I had my father growing up. She never bad-mouthed him so I always wonder, then why couldn't you have made it work? Years later and my mother is in a rut: no man, bad health, loneliness (I live in another country with my husband and kids), not working, living on welfare afraid to come off because she really don't want to work and has low confidence now after all the previous men have left her. I feel bad for her, that the decisions she made are affecting her in her mid 50's now. I used to be her emotional crutch, but now she sees where she probably should have tried harder to get married and submit, as she's quite fiery in conflicts.
Have you ever considered talking to your dad to get his side of the story?
The system has messed the woman's mind up, told men to be hard, dealers, or have hoes, told women they don't need a man, to consider their self over their child.
Yes, the degeneration is programmed
one rule change. Daddy's get the babies by default unless they're proven to be incompetent. that will solve 70% or more divorces and a lot of prison populations. petition God
States receive a percentage of all child support.
Mn don’t want their kids tho. They don’t even know where their kids go to school.
@@Yomel123 stop lying women want the baby for a check that why most guys check out
@@rddubbwright6283 and he wanted a baby cause he has a breeding kink.
@Missa so every species on the planet aside from human women have a "breeding kink"? Rather then a biological urge to breed? You need some more tinfoil hats or something lady.
This so true and messed up and breaks my heart