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Комментарии • 580

  • @mav1877
    @mav1877 8 месяцев назад +189

    It's improved, but it still has a long way to go. As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes, it will continue to hold us back. Asians need more solidarity like some other minority groups.

    • @itsatrap4986
      @itsatrap4986 8 месяцев назад +19

      "As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes" - Exactly, SOFT POWER. That's why POSITIVE image and representation matters. It's the world including Asian females vs Asian men.

    • @sayyanhmuong737
      @sayyanhmuong737 8 месяцев назад

      Fax up on fax and get your passport as well

    • @sayyanhmuong737
      @sayyanhmuong737 8 месяцев назад

      @@itsatrap4986 fax upon fax

    • @britneyt9253
      @britneyt9253 8 месяцев назад

      @GentleTraveler-999just curious, why?

    • @meixingmichael2480
      @meixingmichael2480 8 месяцев назад

      true , its all about the impression

  • @Eric-gp3hi
    @Eric-gp3hi 8 месяцев назад +277

    As a Hispanic/Latino male I’m happy to see my fellow Asian brothers dating life become hugely improved. I’ve always felt that Asian men got the short end of the stick when it comes to the media representation and dating. I hope one day we live in a society where race won’t matter when it comes to dating.

    • @UnstableYT-u7k
      @UnstableYT-u7k 8 месяцев назад +19

      Right now Asian men are monopolizing the dating scene. For a woman to have an Asian boyfriend, is the equivalent to finding gold.

    • @yellowantonio-nado7761
      @yellowantonio-nado7761 8 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks Senor Goku 👍

    • @Eric-gp3hi
      @Eric-gp3hi 8 месяцев назад +16

      @@yellowantonio-nado7761 No problem I’m just here supporting my fellow minorities.

    • @xmistaxcashxcoll
      @xmistaxcashxcoll 8 месяцев назад +2

      Mind your own business

    • @fluffybunni1276
      @fluffybunni1276 8 месяцев назад

      @@UnstableYT-u7kstop

  • @MedalionDS9
    @MedalionDS9 8 месяцев назад +64

    I have no doubt that dating for asian males is way better than it ever has been in the past 15 years but at the sametime... it still has a ways to go as well

    • @adelb7897
      @adelb7897 8 месяцев назад +6

      Dating for men in general is kinda crappy

    • @Xrpxlm7
      @Xrpxlm7 6 месяцев назад

      It’s bad for all men. That’s why everyone’s leaving the West.
      But Asian American men live on hard mode in americas dating market. Leave america

  • @jialian93
    @jialian93 8 месяцев назад +100

    Latinas always gave me muuuuch more love than any other race

    • @letzgow6110
      @letzgow6110 8 месяцев назад

      There is a lot of internal racial hate from Asian women. When I was in Thailand, almost every Asian girl would flock to non-Asian men and they would ignore all Asian men. Only when I spoke to them and having perfect English did they even consider engaging in conversation since they knew I was an America and not a local Thai.

    • @TheOne_isGOD
      @TheOne_isGOD 7 месяцев назад +8

      yeah and viet girls since im viet/chinese american but getting latinas is soo easy, white chicks.... not so much especially americans and im 167cm

    • @googlegmail9888
      @googlegmail9888 26 дней назад

      Depends where you’re from

  • @JTXBUFFY
    @JTXBUFFY 8 месяцев назад +51

    I'm 46 year old Asian male. In HS I was pretty much invisible. I hit the gym when I started college, my confidence and self worth improved. The window opened up for me with different races (majority Latina). Looking back, it's more the confidence and personality that attributed to my change. Being Asian was a secondary thing to the girls. Even at 46 I still get looks from girls much younger than me.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад +4

      You were the beta male until you hit them weights 😂. Good 👍 job.
      But always remember whats real will always be there in the end dont change your character and physiques to fit in. Happiness is something that should come naturally.

    • @JTXBUFFY
      @JTXBUFFY 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@youtubeguest5494 No doubt. At my age I can care less of what people think and what's trending.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад

      ​@JTXBUFFY At around our age group its all about being happy for the remainder of our lives lol.
      Caring about how people/society thinks of you how they view you and say about you was back in the teenager/young adult days. Just like how this video doesn't validate anything for me doesn't define asian males in american society and the world as a whole.

    • @proTRUMPproREALMADRID
      @proTRUMPproREALMADRID 8 месяцев назад

      boo hoo im sorry, anyway, go get a $180 flight to Lima Peru, enjoy the coastline, and having over 1000 matches on bumble tinder and tantan

    • @KennethFuller-ko4cx
      @KennethFuller-ko4cx 7 месяцев назад

      Im a mixed Blackman and a huge shout out to my Asian brothers. We are all in this together whether Black, White, Asian or Latino males. I'm glad dating is getting better for my Asian brothers but for our Asian sisters, please stop hating on Asian males if you are dating outside your race. We are all human beings 😊.

  • @MrPurge11
    @MrPurge11 8 месяцев назад +63

    As a black man, I saw shout out to the Asian wave. Much deserved!!

  • @gaia3196
    @gaia3196 8 месяцев назад +60

    CMB data isn't typical. Most users are Asian, with 80% being Asian males, so naturally, they get the majority of the likes.
    Instead of looking at total likes by race, the ratio of being liked back or likes per person might give a clearer picture. But I do agree, dating life is improving for Asian males.

    • @adelb7897
      @adelb7897 8 месяцев назад +4

      True, I think that data doesn't make sense as white men still seem to be seen as the most attractive. I think Asian men have become number 2 though or on par with Hispanic looking men.

    • @goodbad-boy
      @goodbad-boy 8 месяцев назад +5

      girls on CMB are the worst at replying compared to. the other apps

    • @marvinsulzer8258
      @marvinsulzer8258 7 месяцев назад

      @@goodbad-boy Not for me it ain’t… lol I have the highest response rate on CMB. The only reason I gave up on it and switched to Hinge is cause CMBs app is terrible. Hinge has been pretty good too but not as good as CMB. I bet if I tried the same test again I’d get a different results. So it all depends on the timing, and the city you live one There are surges and dips in any app

    • @josephyang1599
      @josephyang1599 7 месяцев назад

      No that's bullshit. They released their demographic data and asian people make up around 40% which is alot but that also means asian men make up 25% of that amount

  • @Gnomesmusher
    @Gnomesmusher 8 месяцев назад +57

    I'm a 52 year old asian dude and you young dudes have it easy compared to when I was young. Even an old dude like me is doing pretty good in dating nowadays. Don't slack off. Get out there.

    • @Baiyoubai
      @Baiyoubai 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yup, back in our days bro we were viewed as either nerds or gangsters, gullible or feared. Dating a non-Asian girl did not even cross my mind because that was simply impossible or at least extremely unlikely to happen.

    • @mocheen4837
      @mocheen4837 8 месяцев назад

      It was difficult to date non Asian girls but not impossible. You just needed to be more outgoing and social.

    • @proTRUMPproREALMADRID
      @proTRUMPproREALMADRID 8 месяцев назад +1

      boo hoo im sorry, anyway, go get a $180 flight to Lima Peru, enjoy the coastline, and having over 1000 matches on bumble tinder and tantan

    • @Gnomesmusher
      @Gnomesmusher 8 месяцев назад

      @@proTRUMPproREALMADRID LOL Who's crying here? But sure fly on out of here, Peter Wu

  • @en-zh-lyrics
    @en-zh-lyrics 8 месяцев назад +16

    I do admit that there is an element of risk-averseness in Asian parenting, because part of filial piety requires making parents feel secure, which discourages risk taking as it may make parents feel insecure, and in case of failure, make them feel ashamed

  • @RklssPOSEIDON
    @RklssPOSEIDON 8 месяцев назад +25

    The reason asian men do very on CB is because its a serious dating app, and asian on average where 25% more likely to put down ''looking for a serious relationship'', they also spent 18% more time on the app than any other group. So, in essence CB is a more traditional dating service, the women on CB (unlike tinder) are actually looking for a relationship rather than a hookup. And asian men are looking for the same more than any other group. so asian men do much better there, which is great!

  • @chengliu872
    @chengliu872 8 месяцев назад +32

    I actively avoided dating apps for years and tried to meet women irl. After years of fruitlessness, I signed up for Coffee Meets Bagel and within a year I met my now wife.

    • @adelb7897
      @adelb7897 8 месяцев назад

      Omg all this is making me wanna try it, I've only ever used bumble, tinder, OkCupid and tantan where I had some success.

  • @Superumbreon
    @Superumbreon 8 месяцев назад +16

    It has happened to Asians, the same thing that happened to Latinos in the past with the “Latin Lover” stereotype. In the case of Asians, it is largely driven by Kpop and Kdrama.
    I just think this romanticization is kind of dangerous, and this applies to any ethnic group.

  • @larryher1
    @larryher1 8 месяцев назад +11

    As an Asian-American, I use to feel underrated when it comes to this type of stuff, but now looking back I’m actually glad that I was over seen, and it doesn’t bother me anymore. I just do me and my own thing. Keeping it 💯 #iykyk

  • @cceichhorn1
    @cceichhorn1 8 месяцев назад +12

    I think like most forms of racism, we need to have two thoughts in our head at the same time:
    1) Yes, things have gotten better for Asian men on the dating scene
    2) It's still not perfect and we still have a long way to go
    We need to be able to appreciate the progress we've made while still trying to push to make the world even better. 60 years ago interracial marriage of all kinds was explicitly illegal in the US; getting interracial marriage legalized was a huge step forward, but wasn't as if people woke up the next day and everything was fixed and there was no more racism in America.
    One step at a time. We've taken several steps forward for Asian men, but we're done climbing yet, at the same time.

    • @Baphomet-bk7cx
      @Baphomet-bk7cx 6 месяцев назад

      You need to thanks to korea Without them you e at the botto.

  • @samrouter965
    @samrouter965 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am asian american and been married to my latina wife for 23 years. We recently went to mexico for mission trip and many asking my wife how it was married to a korean, so much more interest than it was 10 years ago.

  • @Blah951
    @Blah951 8 месяцев назад +17

    I’m not even Asian, yet I’m hooked. You guys are very naturally entertaining and I’ve always been interested in other cultures, but the Asian cultures were ones that I didn’t hear a lot of information on. Almost like a mystery. Keep the videos coming please. 👍

  • @toyintoy
    @toyintoy 8 месяцев назад +32

    As a black Jamaican woman, I can say us Jamaican women have been riding for asian men from jump

    • @MichaelWadhwania
      @MichaelWadhwania 8 месяцев назад +7

      lol no

    • @toyintoy
      @toyintoy 8 месяцев назад +8

      @MichaelWadhwania who you? Everyone knows about our cultural fusion. My family Is from st Elizabeth it's common. I'm from Montego Bay I know many mixed kids

    • @jacksonmashionadamjuanitol117
      @jacksonmashionadamjuanitol117 7 месяцев назад

      @@toyintoyas representation of the Asian Asian community we appreciate you Miss Jamaica big black woman but we don't think we can handle y'all😂

    • @binks69
      @binks69 6 месяцев назад +1

      Cap

    • @hannah60000
      @hannah60000 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@jacksonmashionadamjuanitol117 Most black women are not “big”. That’s an American stereotype.

  • @letsdofinance
    @letsdofinance 8 месяцев назад +47

    Coffee Meets Bagels isn't representative at all of dating apps in USA. Asian guys get a lot of matches there because 50%+ of their userbase is Asian.

    • @DiamondFlame45
      @DiamondFlame45 8 месяцев назад +19

      They acknowledged that.

    • @fungbros
      @fungbros  8 месяцев назад +15

      Yep. The data is there for one app. What you do or how you feel about it...is up to you! Maybe it's encouraging and maybe it doesn't mean much *shrug*

    • @Wolf1979
      @Wolf1979 8 месяцев назад

      ☕️+🥯=❤

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 8 месяцев назад +5

      It's still an improvement, so what ur logic? Improve still not happy?

    • @chengliu872
      @chengliu872 8 месяцев назад +5

      Really? I guess that's why 4/5 women I met on that app were Asian. Funny enough the 1 who wasn't Asian was black and she is the one I married.

  • @LaughingWolf18
    @LaughingWolf18 8 месяцев назад +31

    i know that one race of women who always gave love to the asian dudes were black women. I remember David Choe once said the same thing, saying how in the dating pool the LEAST desirable to date in each gender was Asian males and Black females, respectively.

    • @FizZ2864
      @FizZ2864 8 месяцев назад

      No offence but Asians want Asian or white.

    • @MichaelWadhwania
      @MichaelWadhwania 8 месяцев назад

      black women can be hot, nice curves, butts and will defend you aggressively

    • @KennyboyGM
      @KennyboyGM 8 месяцев назад

      Weak genes is real with this one.

    • @ghhhggrtes-rx1gx
      @ghhhggrtes-rx1gx 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@NoName-bt6xd you're an asian woman trying to lie your way out of this

    • @vlima7164
      @vlima7164 6 месяцев назад

      thats the only reason they want asian men. Its cause its two of the bottom of the barrel matching up with each other out of desperation.

  • @muyeonglee2682
    @muyeonglee2682 8 месяцев назад +7

    Im no social scientist but the youth culture was definitely the most favorable to asians and asian males in late 2021 and especially early to mid 2022. That was the real rise of asian masculinity imo, without the signs of insecurity and pretense of asian americans beforehand. After that the old culture kind of flared back, around when andrew tate blew up. I think its still that way but I see signs of it washing away recently. All I can say is the more redpill-ish and netflix emo vintage style people and social cultures are, the more hostile to asian guys. While the more "tiktok" like and generally the less alternate & nerdy the social atmosphere is, the more favorable to asian guys. A strong pattern I've seen.

  • @airfryerdeluxe5543
    @airfryerdeluxe5543 5 месяцев назад +5

    This is why I never sweat the game, I knew time for Asian men to shine would eventually come thru. Right now our light skin Asians are getting love, soon it'll be the southeast dark guys too.

    • @RandyDungcaRJ
      @RandyDungcaRJ 5 месяцев назад +2

      Some southeast Asians are really pale. As a Filipino I have fair skin. 🇵🇭I hope my South Asian brothers and sister succeed as well and I’m talking about countries like INDIA 🇮🇳.

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 5 месяцев назад +2

      Filipino guys dont need help tbh. they be pullin the most imo lol

  • @shamman781
    @shamman781 8 месяцев назад +9

    I think the main reason is just that people are more progressive and less racist nowadays and asian men benefit the most from that

    • @OGtruthserum
      @OGtruthserum 7 месяцев назад +2

      People weren't racist in the past. Asian men, especially East Asian men are just shy. You need to approach white girls if you want to date them, and you need to be able to socialize with them. As a Vietnamese guy, white girls approach me all the time.

    • @R4GNAR0G
      @R4GNAR0G 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@OGtruthserum People WERE racist in the past. Tf you're talking about.

    • @OGtruthserum
      @OGtruthserum 6 месяцев назад

      @@R4GNAR0G Never experienced it then.

  • @attysthoughts3253
    @attysthoughts3253 8 месяцев назад +24

    east asian men moving up, south asian men stuck at the bottom

    • @andylu6150
      @andylu6150 4 месяца назад

      How does it feel to have all the tech CEO's in the west being Indian? 5 million strong diaspora in the USA and one of the largest and fastest growing global diasporas on the planet? JD Vance's wife Usha, Vivek, Tulsi, etc.?
      Chad and upper level genes Indian men can easily get hot white women. Of course the really ugly guys are stuck at the bottom, but that's true of all races

    • @kwolf2145
      @kwolf2145 4 месяца назад

      That's funny since in the U.S indian men are married 10k more then Indian women but for east asians the women are married 500k more then the men so there's a huge difference between east asian guys and Indian guys, which shows that East asian guys have problems getting women in general. Also where's the proof that east asian men are "moving up" as a whole, using specific examples doesn't prove what the situation is in general.

    • @Phaminator525
      @Phaminator525 2 месяца назад +1

      🤔 so you gotta put down other Asians to make yourself feel better ? East Asians are in more developed countries so is southeast Asians aren’t really out here worrying about media and culture.

    • @attysthoughts3253
      @attysthoughts3253 2 месяца назад

      @@Phaminator525 how am i putting them down, you incel!? East asian especially korean men's stock has increased in the dating scene, while indians/pakistanis decreased if anything

    • @Gdg195
      @Gdg195 Месяц назад

      no one wants south asian just ew disgusting

  • @WaynesWorld12
    @WaynesWorld12 8 месяцев назад +29

    It's about time, my brother's been getting disrespected one too many time's!

  • @CP4Z167
    @CP4Z167 16 дней назад

    The thing that blew my mind the most is how younger Asian women are more willing to give an Asian guy a chance now. It’s night and day how different Asian women over 30 and under 25 view Asian guys

  • @stacie1595
    @stacie1595 8 месяцев назад +20

    I've seen so many women tune into physical 100 and walk away changed.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад +1

      Really?? China olympic weight lifters 🏋️‍♂️ 💪 👌 been dominating the weight lifting olympics for the past 10 15 years. Lu Xiaojun, Li Dayin and many more. They're not Hollywood movied they're the real stuff.

    • @stacie1595
      @stacie1595 8 месяцев назад +6

      @youtubeguest5494 I'm not saying there hasn't been great athletes from Asia, I'm saying the popularity of the TV show made Western audiences pay more attention. The average woman in the US probably doesn't watch weight lifting competitions enough to know that Chinese athletes are successful.
      Also, physical 100 isn't Hollywood, it's a competition show with real people.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад

      @@stacie1595 so you're saying that athletic, masculine, tall and average height asian male changed the perception of western none asian womens on how they think of asian males??

    • @stacie1595
      @stacie1595 8 месяцев назад

      @youtubeguest5494 ... yes. Is that not what the video was talking about? That the visibility of Asian men in western media has changed the way women perceive them? Is that not the thesis?

    • @itsatrap4986
      @itsatrap4986 8 месяцев назад

      Yes and it's called soft power. China does have soft power but it is not welcomed in wRacist Murika. I mean, look how impressive the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympics was. No one can top that. And right now, we have Tik Tok taking over the other apps where they're trying really hard to ban and the EV automobile and mobile industry where they won't allow to step foot here. KPOP/DRAMA is not a threat to US hegemony or else they'll ban it too. But it's also that SK and Japan are US vassals. @@youtubeguest5494

  • @sanchozarchicha1064
    @sanchozarchicha1064 8 месяцев назад +6

    For sure. Asian guys killing it rn

  • @yootoobvyooer
    @yootoobvyooer 8 месяцев назад +5

    Watching the local news in a town with significant Asian population, half are black, half are white (or hispanic), not a single Asian news person. If not for the internet, Asian men would still be seen as "hey hot stuff" Dong.

  • @MrPookiexL3oi
    @MrPookiexL3oi 8 месяцев назад +7

    The bestest it's ever been bro. Got laid from several different European woman during my trips to both Europe and South East Asia. It was the best time of my life. Go travel my asian brothers you might get lucky like I did.

    • @tweeze123
      @tweeze123 2 месяца назад

      I think outside of the USA it has never been of a big issue....

  • @brentgarcia7759
    @brentgarcia7759 8 месяцев назад +33

    I'm enjoying being "undesirable and underrated" lots of peace and more money in the bank 😂

    • @adelb7897
      @adelb7897 8 месяцев назад +5

      Dating doesn't have to cost much money if u find the right women

    • @wizeyy
      @wizeyy 8 месяцев назад

      @@adelb7897extremely rare

    • @eugenechin2863
      @eugenechin2863 7 месяцев назад

      @@adelb7897 To finally find that special lady you have to spend..lol

    • @adelb7897
      @adelb7897 7 месяцев назад

      @@eugenechin2863 then she's not the special lady by definition (at least not in my book). Or I guess both of you spend on each other which is fine. If I feel like I have to spend a lot of money to keep a girl then it proves she doesn't like me enough.

  • @SamGarcia
    @SamGarcia 7 месяцев назад +4

    That shade on suburban Ohio is uncalled for, when there are whole suburbs filled with Asian Americans here, mostly Indian, but still.

  • @briandong5293
    @briandong5293 6 месяцев назад +4

    Black women rank Asian men over black men is something that surprises me.

    • @hannah60000
      @hannah60000 6 месяцев назад +5

      I think a sub-sec of black women will, but I suspect it’s not the majority.

  • @JohnLee-db9zt
    @JohnLee-db9zt 8 месяцев назад +35

    All thanks to Korean Wave😂

    • @HakeemNana-mc9cz
      @HakeemNana-mc9cz 8 месяцев назад

      Who's this Korean wave that you speak of?

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@HakeemNana-mc9czHallyu Wave, spread of Korean culture via Kpop, kdramas and movies. Started in early 2000s and really exploded when gangnam style and BTS came out.

    • @Xrpxlm7
      @Xrpxlm7 6 месяцев назад

      Nope, the attractive white girls are still not into Asian men.
      Leave America, it’s way better in europe

  • @ROADTRIP2024-ve3ec
    @ROADTRIP2024-ve3ec 8 месяцев назад +5

    I can't help but be intrigued by the impressive shoe and basketball collections in the background. That's cool. 😊 It's great to see Asian men receiving the recognition they deserve.😊

  • @makthepharack
    @makthepharack 8 месяцев назад +4

    You guys are right on dating landscape is changing for Asian men

  • @alexl0890
    @alexl0890 8 месяцев назад +16

    Thank you kpop, kdrama, Steven yuen, Simi Liu and many others in the early days. But these 4 folks stand out the most initially. Glad there's alot more Asian figures in Hollywood media than who we started with

  • @tuffgong2568
    @tuffgong2568 8 месяцев назад +13

    No post on Zhilei Zhang, as boxing fan and a fan of your show have been really hoping for one.

    • @user-fb6hy2eh5y
      @user-fb6hy2eh5y 8 месяцев назад +3

      At 41, Zhang is a dinosaur in boxing. I hope he gets the AJ fight and wins as a last hooyah retirement fight.

  • @JF-vw9lv
    @JF-vw9lv 8 месяцев назад +34

    At the end of the day do you really want to date a woman who gets her views of the cultures from just media?

    • @itsatrap4986
      @itsatrap4986 8 месяцев назад +12

      We're taking about frequency and being talked about and being desired, and considered as an option. Do you want to keep hearing yt/blk/Hispanic/Arab men and ASIAN women talking shit about East Asian men? It's EVERYONE vs Asian men.

    • @starwalk3r
      @starwalk3r 8 месяцев назад

      You're describing the overwhelming majority of the Western women out there. They don't have a mind of their own. They're all a part of a hivemind. Whichever way the wind blows, that's the direction they're going in regardless of what their personal feelings are on the matter. Women ONLY care about perception. Wake up, man.

    • @Globeguy1
      @Globeguy1 4 месяца назад

      Everyone is impacted by what they see. That's why advertisers pay big money to get their product seen by the most amount of people.

  • @SK-ql3yf
    @SK-ql3yf 8 месяцев назад +68

    Shout out to Korean Wave!

  • @dakinebrah6246
    @dakinebrah6246 6 месяцев назад +2

    As an Asian man, growing up, dating was easy for me. Dated all kinds of women, white, latina, black, asian, European... 90% of people still to this day, mistake me for Japanese...I'm like bruh, I'm full filipino 😂.

  • @Davidpark1010
    @Davidpark1010 8 месяцев назад +19

    You guys should check out walking vlogs of Seoul on youtube such as Hongdae night walk. You'll see so many white girls and foreigners with korean guys and not vice versa. Tables are definitely starting to change

    • @mikloridden8276
      @mikloridden8276 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah in woman go to Korea for the guys, while the foreign men have trouble there. It’s definitely changed, to give perspective 20 years ago Korea was still selling themselves to men.

    • @YightLagami-zt4mv
      @YightLagami-zt4mv 8 месяцев назад +5

      Idk I’ve watched those videos and I’ve seen a lot of vice versa

    • @jasonw3055
      @jasonw3055 8 месяцев назад +3

      Because in 2023, 10 million foreign women visited S Korea vs 3 million foreign men

    • @YightLagami-zt4mv
      @YightLagami-zt4mv 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@jasonw3055 Guess it’s time to start pushing the narrative that those women “couldn’t get a man in their own country”.

    • @Davidpark1010
      @Davidpark1010 7 месяцев назад

      @YightLagami-zt4mv I've been to Korea too lol. Have you?

  • @1xm_mx1
    @1xm_mx1 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think it has something to do with the apps' algorithms being racist against Asian men, and I think that was gradually corrected, and after Hollywood released Crazy Rich Asians and other films favorable to Asian men, it definitely helped for Asian men, and with the increasing popularity of Kpop music, that also boosted the appeal for Asian men.

  • @twinningintokyo5487
    @twinningintokyo5487 8 месяцев назад +24

    Said myboyfriend (now husband) is Asian, people lost their minds negatively… now some of those same people are like “does he have a brother?“ brahhh 👀 😅😂

  • @pjscafe
    @pjscafe 8 месяцев назад +3

    When I was in school, I was basically invisible. Glad to see the scene is changing for the younger generation. 😎😎🎉🎉

  • @Ginslice27
    @Ginslice27 7 месяцев назад +3

    Every year has been great. Attractive men have their own race. Stay fit and get your game up.boys. remember you are the prize.

  • @Razear
    @Razear 8 месяцев назад +10

    I think you're making a spurious correlation between media representation and dating outcomes. I'm not saying it's not an influence, but having more Asian male faces in Hollywood doesn't necessarily mean women IRL will suddenly be more open-minded if they weren't already considering Asian men as potential suitors before.
    Did some cursory research on CMB, and apparently it's only available in metropolitan cities like SF, Boston, and NYC? Not sure you can really extrapolate the data to dating patterns in other American cities, especially in more rural areas with very few Asians.
    If I had to guess, I would assume most non-Asian women would be open to the idea of dating an Asian guy, but the biggest barrier pertains to Asian men being more reserved in terms of making sexual advances. Since women generally don't approach or make the first move, they occupy the passive role of vetting their incoming options. Asian men are probably shooting their shot at a fraction of men of other races.

    • @ponuni
      @ponuni 8 месяцев назад

      Yup, Asian guys are just not as outgoing compared to other guys.

  • @ResidualSelfImage
    @ResidualSelfImage 8 месяцев назад +5

    The current generation of young Asian men are richer, taller, and better looking ...than my generation... the bar is higher still given K pop's influencers. I just hope they are smarter, wiser, and better negotiators than my generation.

  • @asnpride
    @asnpride 8 месяцев назад +55

    I'm still enjoying my passport bro lifestyle. It's better overseas. Trust me.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 8 месяцев назад +6

      well it's mostly younger generation asian guy benefited it. Not so much for older generation like us.

    • @yellowantonio-nado7761
      @yellowantonio-nado7761 8 месяцев назад +2

      Where you had your biggest success overseas? Where would you recommend we go?

    • @StanleyBps
      @StanleyBps 8 месяцев назад +4

      Wtf 18 years old acc

    • @tzenzhongguo
      @tzenzhongguo 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@yellowantonio-nado7761I bet Eastern Europe.

    • @sayyanhmuong737
      @sayyanhmuong737 8 месяцев назад +1

      You sure are right about that

  • @MichaelWadhwania
    @MichaelWadhwania 8 месяцев назад +4

    you make these videos every week

  • @patrickdakis4437
    @patrickdakis4437 8 месяцев назад +7

    Yes. It rising and getting better!

  • @jtw10192
    @jtw10192 8 месяцев назад +3

    I've been active on the asian subreddit since I was 14 when everything I heard about dating as an asian men was terrible with all the Lu's and Trans making it worst for us to get not just Asian girls but girls of all races. Safe to say 10 years later, dating hasn't been hard at all as long as you strive to make the best version of yourself. For gen Z, dating is just as hard as men of other races imo.

  • @JackDaws0n
    @JackDaws0n Месяц назад

    all i gotta say as an CA is
    get you a black/latina queen
    your life will absolutely change,

  • @larryly3613
    @larryly3613 8 месяцев назад +4

    It has gotten better for me on CMB, but honestly it is a mixture of many things. For one i am older so i feel i am more desirable because most likely one has their shit together by now. The other thing is online is the norm now so most people have to use the app. Finally dating in general is toxic filled with uncommitted. So yes overall more matches, but better matches? Probably not. Better for asian representation? Probably but not only due to asian representation (the pull part) but also because toxic dating culture (the push part)

  • @Rikhradouhr
    @Rikhradouhr 4 месяца назад +9

    As a White German Male no Matter what the girls think, you are my asian Brothers🔥🤝

    • @wcrx2000
      @wcrx2000 3 месяца назад

      Great ❤

    • @tienvuongnguyen2655
      @tienvuongnguyen2655 3 месяца назад

      Fellow german bro 👊/ I am one of those german born vietnamese

  • @AM-uk7jv
    @AM-uk7jv 3 месяца назад +1

    I feel like Asian American men are the least likely to have children due to having an incredibly difficult time finding a partner in the past. Now these single, childless Asian men who focused on themselves and made money, are sought after by the women(now with kids and baggage) who turned them down way back when. I’m a single mom magnet and while I appreciate the advances, I don’t want kids or step kids. I’ve no problem with casual though. I want to thank the women who’ve ignored me and rejected me in the past for allowing me to be the best possible version of myself with even more room to grow.

    • @QODHardasiandickBAC
      @QODHardasiandickBAC Месяц назад

      In my view asian men facing all these tough time and tough environment and tough attitude for them but still manage to rise , I call this a racial supermacy. I even think that is because asian men are actually very sexy no matter which field so the white boy feel insecure so to break down asian men confidence by being racist

  • @MrGMaster1000
    @MrGMaster1000 3 месяца назад

    As a Vietnamese/Chinese American Asian Man 1st generation in US in his late 30s, I have recently married my American/American that sounds like a white woman in her early 30s. I do agree that I've seems a lot positive Asian male representation on the screen more often vs 10 years ago. It is day and night different. Over my dating career, I did have a lot more "luck" with black women, than latin, asian then white.

  • @tyronewalker5764
    @tyronewalker5764 4 месяца назад +3

    As a BM, I've yet to have any such luck. Don't blow it fella's!😮

  • @redone4691
    @redone4691 7 месяцев назад +3

    White women most common intermarriage was with Filipino males (12,000)

  • @stillcovalent
    @stillcovalent 8 месяцев назад +5

    The Hongdae fboys love them meme stock matches 😂

  • @KennyboyGM
    @KennyboyGM 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nothing to do with stereotypes, but with physical attraction. Musclinity, height, face, eye colors are things that are more important to women than men.

  • @UnstableYT-u7k
    @UnstableYT-u7k 8 месяцев назад +30

    Now Asian men have become the number one most desired men. I also noticed that Asian men who are in relationships with non Asian women are much happier and have healthier relationships.

    • @artsho
      @artsho 8 месяцев назад +8

      cope

    • @JOHNDOE-ry6rd
      @JOHNDOE-ry6rd 8 месяцев назад +10

      @@artshothey are not most desired but are doing lot better than before. Seen lot of AMWF. You are coping

    • @eisernherz3929
      @eisernherz3929 8 месяцев назад

      that didnt sound asian

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 8 месяцев назад +1

      Only the young generation asian guys, not older generation like me. Funny, although I am 32, but I look 21.

    • @yannickjohn6930
      @yannickjohn6930 8 месяцев назад

      Like Andrew said, they want commitment and cute and softer masculinity than the average American. Asian K-pop idols and K-dramas display this so much. We wouldn't see them being fuckboys...

  • @Constellasian
    @Constellasian 5 месяцев назад +1

    It seems to me like certain Eastern Europe countries were always more accepting of Asian dudes. I visited Poland around 9 years ago. This was before the rise of KPop in the Western audience. I received more attention than usual from Polish women. I was in Poland because a friend invited me on his trip there to visit his Polish wife's family. Her best friend was also getting married so I got to attend the wedding. Many of the single Polish girls were pulling me to dance with them. They wanted me to drink Vodka with them too.

  • @MacBaby2208
    @MacBaby2208 6 месяцев назад +3

    I think Asian men are handsome. Always have.

  • @iNeverSimp
    @iNeverSimp 6 месяцев назад

    It's definitely easier for Asian guys these days but it depends on where you are. In Canada, it wasn't too much of a problem for me. I'm a bit taller than most Asian guys and mostly looked really fit in my younger years. Had dates and stares from beautiful women. Don't walk around with achip on your shoulder. Just go out and be confident and don't take dating too seriously.

  • @themi6sportsnetwork171
    @themi6sportsnetwork171 8 месяцев назад

    It just keeps getting better and better. Imagine how invisible Asian men were from the 1920s-1980s compared to now! Interracial marriage wasn't even allowed for the majority of that time period.

  • @dingleberry4234
    @dingleberry4234 8 месяцев назад +3

    Shout out to yall for putting Indians in there with Asians lol. I’m not Indian but it’s nice to see 💪

  • @Baiyoubai
    @Baiyoubai 8 месяцев назад +2

    It makes me feel better for my son as he is a second generation Asian American. The trend is positive, but surveys are surveys, in reality I'm still not seeing a lot of Asian guy and non-Asian girl couples out there.

  • @r123-y5x
    @r123-y5x 5 месяцев назад

    WE UP!! 🗣🗣🗣

  • @joemancini2988
    @joemancini2988 8 месяцев назад +2

    Good on y’all.

  • @tgo007
    @tgo007 7 месяцев назад +3

    Compared to the early 2000's it's a night and day difference. But it's still difficult. Asian guy with another race used to be very rare. Today, I wouldn't use the word common but you see it a lot more. I think it's because of kpop/anime/kdrama/asian influencers/youtubers.

    • @Baphomet-bk7cx
      @Baphomet-bk7cx 6 месяцев назад

      Only in america in korea 70% of korean dude got white gf and even in europe all young gen z asian dude have white european gf

    • @tgo007
      @tgo007 6 месяцев назад

      @@Baphomet-bk7cx I'm not surprise about Europe as I think they are more open minded compared to America. The Korea example doesn't really count. Any white girl in Korea doesn't have much choice to date Korean. That's all there is. But the fact that they're in Korea means they like the culture.

    • @Baphomet-bk7cx
      @Baphomet-bk7cx 6 месяцев назад

      @@tgo007 I just replied your words about typing "Asian guy with another race is rare". Yeah it's rare in the US but the world it's not only America lol. That's why i told that place outside america like Korea, Russia, Europe, turkey even china AMWF is much more common Than WMAF especally for the Gen Z

  • @canto_v12
    @canto_v12 8 месяцев назад

    There's a difference between being diligent and being a nerd. They are mutually exclusive things. Being nerd doesn't guarantee any measure of financial security. But being hardworking does. And security leads to success. And success leads to confidence. And projecting real confidence is key in dating for dudes.

  • @batzgameguru
    @batzgameguru 7 месяцев назад +2

    I disagree with #2 also isn't coffee meets bagel are mostly Asian men? And catered towards Asian men dating? During my time as a single Asian man my luck was not the best, and this was about 2 years ago, also I think it's more Koreans that women are interested. What also blows my mind is when Asian women say they won't date Asian men because it's like dating their "brother"

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist 8 месяцев назад +4

    It's gotten a bit better but still needs a lot of improvements.

  • @chadfox6030
    @chadfox6030 5 месяцев назад +3

    I see women with Asian dudes all the time in LA .

  • @HoTTT_cock_Rooster_Sauce
    @HoTTT_cock_Rooster_Sauce 4 месяца назад +3

    Go for latinas and hispanic girls. Love em mayne

  • @tejave0ojnc
    @tejave0ojnc 8 месяцев назад +7

    everybody needs to say thank you to K-pop

    • @KeePhengVue
      @KeePhengVue 8 месяцев назад +1

      K-pop, k-drama, Netflix wave.

    • @tejave0ojnc
      @tejave0ojnc 8 месяцев назад

      @radiofreeurope I agree, but your and my opinions do not matter. People in general like it very much

    • @tejave0ojnc
      @tejave0ojnc 8 месяцев назад

      @radiofreeurope I meant k-pop music sucks to no end, but korean movies/dramas are the best

  • @ultraeurasianationalist
    @ultraeurasianationalist 7 месяцев назад +2

    I have a question Fungbros , do you think us Asian guys are losers who cry about Asian women’s Choices???
    I think we should stop talking about yellow fever or Asian women and whatever , remember communities fall short when people don’t appreciate each other or talk down on each. Like the African American community, the women talk bad about the men and the men talk bad about the women. We are so fortified so people want in the community more so.

  • @rocketmangenesis
    @rocketmangenesis 8 месяцев назад

    One day they say yes, the next day they say no. It is best to ignore the idea of "Asian" or "xyz" and look and be your best.

  • @CarolineSolano-fo5ts
    @CarolineSolano-fo5ts 8 месяцев назад +5

    I’m a 45 year old Latina dating my first Asian 💛

  • @chengliu872
    @chengliu872 8 месяцев назад +7

    Oddly enough, there are more Asian players in hockey than one might expect. Jason Robertson (half Filipino) is one of the elite players in the NHL right now.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад

      Omg White caucasian females must be attracted to him. 😆

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 7 месяцев назад

      Halfs dont count lmao

  • @77Catguy
    @77Catguy 8 месяцев назад +2

    Good to know! As Asian guys' popularity increases I hope there will be more and more oportunities for their--and everyone else's--dating and marriage statistics to even out--hopefully trans-racially to strengthen the human genome and of course eliminate "racial" tensions in the long run.
    BTW, even though China happens to be viewed unfavorably or mostly unfavorably due to clashes of perceived nartional interests (77%), As of Feb 2024 Japan is currently viewed favorably or mostly favorably by 83% of Americans. For South Korea, 72%; Taiwan, 77%; and even Vietnam--whom we fought and lost a war with and which continues to be viewed negatively by many Vietnamese Americans--was still rated more favorably than unfavorably (43% to 39%). Anyway, note that given the popularity of Taiwan--as well as other Asian "allied" countries--most Americans are not basing their opinions on what has often been portrayed falsely as "Asian hate." Yes, race hatred does exist towards all races on a certain scale--including hatred of whites--but I would posit that "racial" hatred or prejudice is lower in the U.S. than in many Asian countries themselves.

  • @goku-pops7918
    @goku-pops7918 8 месяцев назад +2

    It's wild how muchedia Influences things. I swear if all the rooms and super hero movies pushed short guys.they would be popular with women within 5 years

    • @kimckawa
      @kimckawa 7 месяцев назад +2

      This is true. Back in 70/80s when Italian actors were all the rage (DeNiro, Stallone, Pacino etc..) Italian mens heights were never an issue.

  • @inthisone4ya
    @inthisone4ya 8 месяцев назад +1

    To me I felt like I wasn't the only one who was praying to Jesus that this would one day happened and I felt bless by his grace

  • @tommyh4116
    @tommyh4116 8 месяцев назад +11

    East Asians are still not part of the popular culture in the West. Kpop and Kdrama, maybe popular on the web but it's not integrated into mainstream Western culture like Black culture is. It still feels like a foreign import because that's what it is.

    • @ponuni
      @ponuni 8 месяцев назад +1

      Does it really matter though? Black American pop culture is killin' it, but it's not like it's helping black people dominate the dating world. Like, I'm very into hip hop/rap since I was in high school, but there was never a point in my life that it made me consider wanting to date a black girl. You know what I mean?

    • @tommyh4116
      @tommyh4116 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@ponuni I know what you mean because becoming popular does not necessarily make you more physically attractive. It just helps to break down cultural barriers, so that interracial relationships become less taboo.

    • @what3899
      @what3899 8 месяцев назад

      The amount of women being attracted to asian guys after being exposed to attractive asians from kpop, kdrama, or other American films/shows has def increased significantly. And it’s something I noticed a lot in real life too

    • @tommyh4116
      @tommyh4116 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@what3899 It's not all what you think though. When I asked females in the comment section of the BTS music video Dynamite, if they are sexually attracted to the group members. The common response was: "no, we just like them because they're cute" It's like females see them as cute puppy dogs but would not sleep with them. However the masculine attractive Asian males have always been attractive but only recently given exposure, so it's not surprising that more Western females are searching them out. So I agree with you that some Asian males are receiving more attention from Western females but how much of that attraction is superficial?

    • @what3899
      @what3899 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@tommyh4116 I think it just depends on the group, there are a lot of different ones and some are seen as more attractive while others are seen as just more cute. But yea physical attraction is superficial in general, although thats how dating starts for most people

  • @Danhansen699
    @Danhansen699 8 месяцев назад +3

    I swear it still sucks being Asian... I'm literally invisible everywhere i go

    • @cottagegymfun
      @cottagegymfun 8 месяцев назад +3

      Don't fret. Go somewhere else where it is not white centric. Try it :)

    • @npcsenpai1185
      @npcsenpai1185 8 месяцев назад +1

      Have you looked in the mirror? So many ugly Asian American men blame their race instead of some self-reflection.

  • @themi6sportsnetwork171
    @themi6sportsnetwork171 8 месяцев назад +2

    Andrew and David have been high-key looksmaxxing. They've got to have lost 8-10% bf each over the past 2-3 years..

  • @onlythetruthformeandyou
    @onlythetruthformeandyou 6 месяцев назад +1

    How do you know that CMB isnt faking their data?

  • @ajtam05
    @ajtam05 2 месяца назад

    CMB don't count because all of the non-mainstream/non-hot women and/or wholesome or conservative girls who look for "real relationships" are on there. It's a common attitude towards the app so you'll fine more genuine people sure. But you 100% will not find down to earth that are mainstream-hot. But can't have your cake and eat it too. Anyways, CMB data makes sense, but also, the type of person vs just the ethnicities matters more.

  • @hal0hal0mc
    @hal0hal0mc 6 месяцев назад

    I think MMA particularly Onechampionship helps the positive athletic perspective as well.

  • @DK412724
    @DK412724 8 месяцев назад +12

    You can't just expect the media to improve your image.
    You have to work on yourself: fitness, fashion, finances, personality, etc.
    Once you look the complete opposite of the media stereotype of an Asian male, women can finally tell you apart and give you some attention

    • @UpInYourGrills
      @UpInYourGrills 8 месяцев назад +1

      Azn men shouldn't need to do that to get attention. Do you think Azn women need to do that? Or white boys? You could be an obese Azn chick or mid-balding white guy and still make out like a bandit lol

    • @Theophan123
      @Theophan123 7 месяцев назад

      The problem is that a lot of the Asian male doomers use the anti-Asian stereotypes as an excuse to not fix themselves. This is literally the same toxic mindset of white incels who blame all their problems on feminism

  • @Acord718
    @Acord718 7 месяцев назад

    Yes Queen's, NY has a lot of Asians especially on Elmhurst, astoria , Woodside, maspeth etc.

  • @zigghiggs
    @zigghiggs 5 месяцев назад +1

    Shoutout to my Asian brothas fr

  • @stateofsurvival8457
    @stateofsurvival8457 5 месяцев назад

    Hold on...The shift is related to the change in generation. 10 years removed, you have a lot. of people getting married...travelling....eventually, people discover other things than dating and usually, they stop using apps for one reason or another. The people using aps today have grown up with KPOP (and other content that exposes asian cultures to non-asians as a normal thing)..they are more comfortable with the asian culture..because women don't like us because we are asian..they didn't like us because of the culture they did not understand...that's why there was so much difficulty. Dudes..as a genx asian..I have so much wisdom to give 8). If you're interested, I would love to come on a podcast.

  • @TeamRedProductions
    @TeamRedProductions 8 месяцев назад +2

    Is this a re upload?

  • @titanblooded6222
    @titanblooded6222 8 месяцев назад +11

    Hey as a black man, I think it's a new century for the Asian brothers when it comes to the ladies, and I support 100.

    • @youtubeguest5494
      @youtubeguest5494 8 месяцев назад

      Naw. A majority of asian males tend to date/marry and breed their own species because it's been instilled in them it's an expectation from the asian species it's kind of like a duty. And asian males are less attractive and less appealing because they hold onto their culture and beliefs and have not yet allowed western influences western culture to completely dominate them and asian culture and influences is different from the west and the west is much more modernized compared to the east. As asian males progress and keeps assimilating to western culture asian males will look more common and have more in common with whites and blacks. The human species tend to go for commonness because commonness secures their faith and trust and confidence. Asian females on the other hand I think it all started after world war 2 when white men came to the asian continent to spread western influences like freedom democracy and to combat and oppose the differences which created hate and genocide which made asians percieved white men as the super hero and life saver. And asian females with white males is more like asian females gets the beta white males ive never seen an asian female with an alpha white male. Asian female is overhyped because white girls and some light skinned white mixed with black girls are the best looking and most attractive. And the asian female white male couple is exegerated western culture does a lot of exegeration too as eastern culture is mor humble.

    • @trendthis364
      @trendthis364 7 месяцев назад

      ❤🫂

  • @RyFo116
    @RyFo116 2 месяца назад

    isnt CMB a predominantly asian dating app? Of course its gonna be higher on there.

  • @gliver2549
    @gliver2549 6 месяцев назад +1

    miami we get love, look at kid trunkz the rapper , his gf is latina, he was on fresh and fit years ago

  • @fluffybunni1276
    @fluffybunni1276 8 месяцев назад +3

    You guys are cool but tou don’t think these kind of topics make Asian men look so insecure and desperate?

  • @thenattygorilla
    @thenattygorilla 8 месяцев назад +1

    And of course this video was sponsored by a dating app... I'm not trying to be black-pilled or pessimistic, but it's pretty obvious that we're just another market they want to capture. They know a lot of Asian guys earn more than their counterparts in other races, and that we don't do so well in dating. We're the perfect target. Take these statistics with a grain of salt. A lot of these findings are likely fluffed up to make the grass look greener for us on their app. They're just selling hope.

  • @Jay-im3ku
    @Jay-im3ku 19 дней назад

    I'm in the U.K, and although it's far from perfect, and the average common girl would still rather choose a white or black guy, and a bimbo will more often than not choose a black guy specifically, if she lives in one of the main cities; what I've noticeably seen in the last couple of years, is a lot more British girls dating Indian, and some east Asian too. Whereas before, it was extremely rare to see at all. These girls are always, always, always, with out fail, well educated middle class girls. And I do think the main reason for this change is that these well educated middle class girls are smart enough to see through the superficiality of media hyped status (dumbass entertainment industry hyped status, etc), and notice the real world status (who are the highest earners and most successful on average, in general society). But, in most cases they're meeting these guys in real life. Most Asian guys here, still get swiped left on dating apps.