I recently changed all clocks in our house (except my phone and watch) so the kids think its 20 minutes later than it is. This way, they go to bed earlier and get ready for school sooner. It's the best thing I've done to help things to run smoothly around here!
My top tip is “never leave a room empty handed”. Whenever you are going somewhere in the house, car or garden, always have a look if there is anything you can take with you. It keeps the clutter down. My husband and son join in now too and it’s really made a difference.
One day my daughter asked how I cleaned up so fast in our living room and I told her " because everything has a place to go." Makes the process so much easier
For me one of the main organizing "goals" that works great for me is to not cause extra work for myself. - I hang the laundry straight, so I don't have to iron it, and just fold it neatly. - I clean the tip/corner and bottom of the ketchup, maple sirup, milk, honey ... before putting it away (this way, I don't get the fridge/ cupboard dirty as fast) - If I do a big shopping and the fridge is emptier than usual, I quickly wipe down everything that I feel could use that extra sweep (so I then place clean objects into an always-clean-fridge) - I clean surfaces after using them (or dishes while cooking) so I don't dirty other things from them - I have a special way for fast-folding clean clothes I either tried on in a hurry and decided not to wear, or clothes I wore for only a small period of time and that are clean; I also have a dedicated spot for them (this way I don't have extra unnecessary laundry and damage my clothes less by washing them less. I often opt for a "worn but not stinky" shirt when I'm going to work out etc) - I fill in the dishwasher in a way that it will be easier or faster for me to unload - I also tend to match clothes (category-wise or person-wise) in the laundry so I feel like I have less piles when folding it - If my shoes are dirty I wash them along with my hands when I come home (the thoroughness of the wash depends partly on the time and how soon I will need to wear them again), so they have time to dry out but also aren't "left unattended to" It's a bunch of silly little things but I have marketed to myself (as a lazy person) as ones that will spare me some work and make my life easier :D and they keep me calmer and happier ! ^^
Im a single parent and studying midwifery full time and I have barley any energy left for cleaning and basic house work stuff. I needed this video to get back into being organised. Thank you!
I was a student nurse with a 1 year old and I won’t lie, I lived in total mess and filth lol. Prioritise your studies and baby :) rest can wait. Now I’m a health visitor and can afford a cleaner :) will all be so worth it xx
I have very little help during the working week and what works for me organisationally is after the child falls asleep for the night to do only what's necessary for the night and for right after waking up and shift the rest to the morning and rather wake up earluer before the child in the morning. Cause in the evening I'm so exhausted that everything takes 2-3 times longer. Also I combine food delivery or half pre-made foods(frozen veggies, fish sticks, baby purees etc.) with home made food to save some time and energy. But I obviously have some level of help around so I cannot imagine how difficult it is to be the only parent, big respect for that and all the best!
Hi Emily! My four year old daughter and I love your channel so much! We look forward to your videos and she always asks “can we watch an Emily video please??” Thank you for all you do, you always cheer me up 🥰. We love your family!
I need this in my life more than anything else 😭😭 I've written down some of ur points and try to do them as much as possible from now .... I feel better even watching this 😍🥰
I love this, particularly that it includes a section that emphasises that being organised and prepared is a family effort. Dads can help, kids can help and everyone should feel this is their family space that can and should contribute to. There are lots of amazing tips in here - so motivating - but as much as we all want to be super mum, we should aim to be super families, super parents, super kids. It'd be amazing if your hubby could make a video on how he helps, I feel some families lack this inspiration.
After I watched your video I just realized that just waking up before my one year old boy, I think everything would be much easier for me. I am a 46 years old woman with a small very active baby and my energy is not as much as yours. But you give very nice tips and ideas that I can swear will help a lot. xoxo!
Hi Emily, I just want to say thank you for all the tips that you share. Motherhood is sometimes overwhelming and your smile and your videos keep me motivated and organized. Thanks again, love your family 😘
-The ‘one touch rule’ is amazing. Basically means that when you pick something up put it away in its designated space immediately. -Have a stair basket at the top of the stairs and the bottom! Makes transporting items so easy -Taking out the kids outfits the night before -Setting up a breakfast tray with all the required cereal, cutlery, bowls etc the night before (for busy mornings) -Fold tumble dried laundry immediately after drying. It will all be softer and less creasy. You can even get away with not ironing some things
Since becoming a mum last year Iv just absolutely loved allllll of your videos - everything is so thorough and well thought out and helpful. Really appreciate all of your ideas 😀 xx thank you xx
I always hear my grandmother's words "don't go empty handed" in my mind so I try to combine tasks or take things where they need to go. It reminds me of your tip some time back of the "one touch method" that stuck with me. Thank you, Emily for all the tips and life lessons, they make me feel more prepared as a mum of two boys 4.5 years and 9 months)💙 love your channel and keep up the great content
This video couldn’t of come at a better time! Really struggling at the moment being a single mummy to a 1 year old! My house is an absolute mess and it’s having an effect on my mental health. Amazing tips & information, thank you!!!
All in all you are so amazing! After watching your video I don’t watch anything else and just start doing something. Can be tidy up, cooking, me time or even just spending time with kids. Absolute Therapy 😘
Some things that work for me; LISTS ARE EVERYTHING!! always wrote everything down that needs to be done or reminders Don’t leave anything for ‘later’, while u have the energy get as much done so end of the day u can relax
I loved when I first learned the toy rotation and I like the idea of ten minute tidy up. Also I like the idea of laying out clothes the night before - I used to do it but then I kind of lost it and now got reminded to do it again
I still can't get over how amazing Jackson's room looks! You did such a great job and I'm sure he will treasure it for a long time Edit: I think I get that elephant thing. Get the big, looming job done first instead of doing lots of little things to delay it, like getting rid of an elephant instead of trying to delay the ants for a while.
Omg Emily our handwriting is almost IDENTICAL. I literally had to replay your list and look at it again because I felt Ike I was looking at one of my own lists!! So crazy! These are great tips too. I definitely need to work on improving my mindset!
Some good tips there thanks 👍🏽 I like to sort the washing into piles on a Sunday evening (as I don’t tend to do any on Sat & Sun’s) in the utility room and get the first load into the machine on a “delayed end” so in the morning it’s washed and ready to go out on the line. I also often make blueberry and banana muffins and pop them in the freezer. I then get one out for each of my daughters each evening to defrost and they have that with a glass of milk and a piece of fruit for their breakfast. If we’re in a rush they can always eat them on the way to school!👍🏽👍🏽
I always ever since you mentioned it waaayyyy back when follow the "one touch" method, i can't tell you how something so simple has helped me so much! I have 2 little boys Frayser(3) and Freddie (8months)and your channel has changed my life 🥰😍👍xx
@@charntellamb3980 its basically touch something once... for example if your coat needs putting away instead of hanging it on a bannister put it straight away so its only been touched once.. your then not doubling up doing things (if that makes sense?!) X
💯 toy rotation! Also saves me money because my kids feel like they are getting new toys. We change out the bins on the first of the month. It’s faster to clean too.
Really grateful for this video. it helped me address a personal need to conquer this area. Love your HAPPINESS top and the big SMILE on your pillow. Positive reinforcements. BLESSINGS
My top three things to do each day when I had a baby were 1. Having a shower and getting dressed 2. Feeding and looking after my baby and 3. Listening to the news (so at least I knew what was happening in the world)! I found those first years terrifying and I sometimes struggled to get through the day but we made it. My girls are now 23 and 27! I did many of the things you mentioned but it took time to figure out how to get (some of the stuff) done. I swear it took me 20 years to figure out I could get so much done in only ten minutes. It really is a lifesaver!
The don't sit down thing is so very true, especially after work when I'm tired. I get everything done then I can sit knowing everything is ready for the next day.
Thankyou so much for this video very much needed as just recently been feeling a little overwhelmed and unmotivated with the organisation of family life and household tasks an trying to manage it all just feels like a mammoth task right now but having watched this video now as always when I watch your videos just get that new found inspiration again and motivation to get back on track again. so Thankyou 👍 (iv even saved it to look back on for the next time) lol 😂
Your videos are the besttttt. Thank you for the great tips. Hard to get out of a rut sometimes. I’m also a mum of 3. And it can get chaotic at times 😂 really enjoy having 5 minutes to watch your videos and relax xx
How lucky are you that Matt helps you in the house and actually does the food shopping. My husband is very old fashioned. He works so a woman’s role is to see to the house, kids, food and shopping. Lol 😂 it’s definitely non stop. I have 2 year old twins too and 2 older kids the house never feels completely tidy. Love your tips though 😘
Thank you, great video. The thing that helps me the most is doing one job each day eg the bathroom,food shop, hoovering. I always make Sunday’s a no housework day. It works for my family 😊😊 The best thing is to do what works for your family as all households run slightly differently.
hi emily loved the video, i was just wandering if you would be doing a diary this year, i’ve had your previous ones and i’m really missing this year! it’s been such a help x
I have a weekly planner on the fridge that has daily jobs on it. I have 1 room dedicated to each day and that is all the jobs I HAVE to get done and I get sundays off 😂 With only 1 room to focus on I can usually get it all done during one of my daughters naps :) gonna be a massive help when her baby brother arrives this summer! 😂
Wow! Thanks so much you are such a super mum and I love how great you are with your children. I also would love to know what your skincare is?! Thanks for making these videos they are such a sanity restorer to a frazzled mum! X
there are a few things that I'm already doing this video is so good and helpful i like the most that u said to have one day for the big clinging sheds bath clinging and and just today i made something for myself like along fun bath it change my day so i thing that its great u Manchin that can't weight for the next one also like when u said don't sit on the couch its harsh but also thrue
This point of asking the partner to start doing things that they don't notice or offer to help, I tried when I had my baby, and he just said I was always asking for stuff... 🙄
Something that worked for me was when I'd ask (and I mean ask nicely...don't ask when you're mad or be passive aggressive) and he'd do it, I would thank him profusely and genuinely. After a while he started doing the chores without me asking! It's easy to get into the mindset that you shouldn't "have" to ask or "have" to thank him for what we consider the bare minimum, but for some it just doesn't come intuitively. Think about what makes a good boss at a regular job - a good boss sets clear expectations and then show appreciation when you meet those expectations well. For example: "Babe, when you get a chance in the next hour, can you empty the dishwasher and load the old dishes please?" Later.... "Hey, really appreciate that you took care of those dishes earlier. I was super busy with the baby and it helped ease my mind so much. Thank you!" Hang in there, it's definitely hard on your marriage having kids - it's like you gotta start over figuring out how to communicate. My husband and I fought a lot until we hit a new stride.
@@surlespasdondine lol we thought we were on the same page too, and turns out that things that bothered me didn't bother him at all so we definitely had to work on our communication! Good idea trying to suss it out before kids too - a good foundation helps :)
I try to stay organized (when I can) 21 month old and 11 week old.. my goal is the 5 minute rule. Most task take around that amount of time so when I catch myself having a five minute window I try to do what is visibly needing done first.
Love the tips! I try to never leave a room empty handed. So either rubbish or something that doesn’t belong in that room. It keeps rooms a bit more in order.
I would say get up early . I do miracle mornings .....im more productive in the morning . My kids are adults so i dont have that worry but ive still lots to do. Oh and be consistent religiously it becomes so easy and becomes a habit x
I absolutely love that you let mum's know it is impossible to do everything and that is ok! Too much pressure for mum's to think that if their not perfect at everything their not a good mum. Keep doing the best you can. That's all that matters ☺️☺️☺️
You are so organised Emily, well done you. I’m a bit OCD! And love a clean and tidy house but do you have any tips for people who work full time and have a family to keep? During the last 12 months I’ve also become a carer for my 91 year old mom but I have a big house, two teenagers and a partner who only stays a few nights a week but it still means cleaning up and providing meals for 4. Now the gyms are open, I’m trying to go there 3 times a week too but it’s all a bit mad! I’ve taken on a lot of your tips but it’s hard when working full time
I've been watching your videos for a while...but one thing I don't understand is, How do you get enough clothes for a full load of laundry every single day? I have a family of 7 and we only need to do one load a week or sometimes 2 weeks. It's just something I've been wondering about...no judgment intended :) LYSM Emilyyyyyyy!! 💜
Hey Emily Love this as a mum to two boys (8 and 6 months) I was finding hard to find the right flow to us but giving it time and watching a few of your vids has been a big help. Thank you x Your Amazon link isn’t working x
I’m so trying to be organised but does anyone else have a “Monica” cupboard? Feel overwhelmed sometimes that I just throw things in there to sort later and it never happens 🤦♀️ thank you for more inspiration Emily! Love your videos x
I sometimes put a load of laundry on timer that finishes when I am due to come downstairs to make breakfast. Only trouble is,that was more helpful when I was working from home lol
Hi emily. I am always up at 5am. This gives me time to do housework meal prep and sort my dogs before work if i am on days/earlys. Your videos are just great. X
Thanks a lot for these great tips. My take home tip is meal planning and meal preping. Its something i have been trying to do and i always find that the weeks i meal plan am normally more orgnaised and have peace of mind.
I truly needed this! I have a 2.5 yr old and an 8 month old and I struggle to find enough time to juggle work, the house, the kids, the hubby etc! Happy 7 years on youtube Emily! ❤️ xx
Wow Loredana you have a lot to deal with. You shouldn't be juggling a husband though!! 7 years, thank you, I cannot believe it! Thanks for watching and always commenting xx
hey Emily, I love your videos, they are always fun to watch and your tips are highly appreciated. You have such a lovely and happy personality. Please continue producing such helpful, fun and genuine content. I have to ask where you got your jumpers from...? (yellow with "happiness", black and grey with the rainbow) thanks 😁
My top tip ••• get ahead of it.. literally everything! Always be one step ahead of your baby’s needs and your kids, and time so yes I agree with getting everything ready the night before and always always leave earlier than later so your never rushing and snapping 🙈! Lol usually we get caught out and we know we could have prevented it. Missed watching your videos saw you pop up on Instagram and I’m so happy your video is here ready to give me a kick up the backside lol Feeling such burn out at the moment 3 kids, starting a new business from home I’m also missing making videos for RUclips I literally have no time edit at all! Like how in hell did you do this when your boys were small ? I’m so overwhelmed and tired. Your so right about the feeling resentful when the hubby’s don’t offer lol they totally need us to just ask out right because they don’t usually think 😂 I need a cleaner my house is a bomb site my toddler is ruling the house at the moment. Thanks for a great video again emily ❤️
I’m trying to get into the habit of “do it now” which saves time instead of putting something down before actually putting it away. I also like to set timers to get things done
I use lots of these tips but one that really works for me is I have my home divided into 9 zones. Our school terms are 9 or 10 weeks long so each week during I'll do those irregular chores in one of those zones. So it might be week one kitchen and I'll do the oven and pantry, week 2 lounge so I'll pull all the furniture out and vaccumm behind. How much gets done may depend on my week. Then in the holidays I get my kids to help do their rooms.
@@jessicamoylan I literally cannot believe how tough some days can be - I don’t know how I’ve got through this many already lol 😆! Almost 2 is such a lovely age isn’t it? My eldest is a complete charmer & a complete tornado all at the same time! x
@@jodekelly7861 yess your right it’s so tough. But so are us moms 🥰 I’d like to say it gets easier as they get older but we seem to just get more and more challenges handed our way 🙈 parenting really moulds us grown ups too. Your eldest sounds just like my daughter at the moment she is so funny and sweet like butter wouldn’t melt then she is a complete different person, sometimes I have to laugh or I’ll cry lol 😂 it’s nice to know I’m not alone lol xxx
Love the idea of the snack boxes for the children, I often hear my daughter saying the kids have eaten her out of house and home so I have shared this with her and she loves the idea 😊😊
Definitely needed to hear its ok to not finish everything in one day, I’ve been tryna figure out how to make things flow easier as a mother of 3 and balance other things , this video was very helpful, thank you!
Swapping house cleaning with you and a friend is a good thing to do aswell. Because we never like cleaning our own house, but we are always happy to help a friend :)
The best thing I did was build a morning/daytime and evening routine that helps me keep on track. Recommend The Secret Slob RUclips channel if you’re a beginner 😊👍🏼
I recently changed all clocks in our house (except my phone and watch) so the kids think its 20 minutes later than it is. This way, they go to bed earlier and get ready for school sooner. It's the best thing I've done to help things to run smoothly around here!
Genius! Totally stealing that idea in a few years! 😂
I do the same thing! No more running late 😂
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My mom does the same thing for many years already.-)
Wish there had been organizing and cleaning videos 30 years ago. I think it would have helped! Great video 😊😊
Best tip (that works for me as a Christian mom) waking up at least an hour earlier than my toddler to read my devotional and do my prayers. ⭐️✌️
I do this too. I find spending time immersing myself in scripture before my four kiddos aged between 9-2 wake up really helps me have a great day.
Amen
Love this.
As a Muslim I do the same,praying early morning and reading my holy book
@@arshirashid7240 yup. Thats why we have subuh prayer..
My top tip is “never leave a room empty handed”. Whenever you are going somewhere in the house, car or garden, always have a look if there is anything you can take with you. It keeps the clutter down. My husband and son join in now too and it’s really made a difference.
Soooo hellful
That’s SUCH a good tip! 🙌🏼 it would help so much if all the kids and hubby did this too.
Thankyiu for sharing this 🥰
Such a good tip! Defo going to try this one x
You are totally right about it. Unfortunately, I am the only one is having this habit at home.
My mum used to say never go upstairs empty handed, its stuck with me for 50 years
Ahh this woman, just listening to Emily makes me feel more organised. Really enjoy your videos. Super friendly non-judgemental vibe. Love it
Amen to that
Having a dedicated space for everything, helps just speed o the cleaning process
One day my daughter asked how I cleaned up so fast in our living room and I told her " because everything has a place to go."
Makes the process so much easier
For me one of the main organizing "goals" that works great for me is to not cause extra work for myself.
- I hang the laundry straight, so I don't have to iron it, and just fold it neatly.
- I clean the tip/corner and bottom of the ketchup, maple sirup, milk, honey ... before putting it away (this way, I don't get the fridge/ cupboard dirty as fast)
- If I do a big shopping and the fridge is emptier than usual, I quickly wipe down everything that I feel could use that extra sweep (so I then place clean objects into an always-clean-fridge)
- I clean surfaces after using them (or dishes while cooking) so I don't dirty other things from them
- I have a special way for fast-folding clean clothes I either tried on in a hurry and decided not to wear, or clothes I wore for only a small period of time and that are clean; I also have a dedicated spot for them (this way I don't have extra unnecessary laundry and damage my clothes less by washing them less. I often opt for a "worn but not stinky" shirt when I'm going to work out etc)
- I fill in the dishwasher in a way that it will be easier or faster for me to unload
- I also tend to match clothes (category-wise or person-wise) in the laundry so I feel like I have less piles when folding it
- If my shoes are dirty I wash them along with my hands when I come home (the thoroughness of the wash depends partly on the time and how soon I will need to wear them again), so they have time to dry out but also aren't "left unattended to"
It's a bunch of silly little things but I have marketed to myself (as a lazy person) as ones that will spare me some work and make my life easier :D and they keep me calmer and happier ! ^^
Im a single parent and studying midwifery full time and I have barley any energy left for cleaning and basic house work stuff. I needed this video to get back into being organised. Thank you!
Wish the best for you...! Take it one step at a time
Stay strong. You will pull through..remember to prioritise well.dont be harsh on yourself.
I was a student nurse with a 1 year old and I won’t lie, I lived in total mess and filth lol. Prioritise your studies and baby :) rest can wait. Now I’m a health visitor and can afford a cleaner :) will all be so worth it xx
All the best! So amazing what your doing x
I have very little help during the working week and what works for me organisationally is after the child falls asleep for the night to do only what's necessary for the night and for right after waking up and shift the rest to the morning and rather wake up earluer before the child in the morning. Cause in the evening I'm so exhausted that everything takes 2-3 times longer. Also I combine food delivery or half pre-made foods(frozen veggies, fish sticks, baby purees etc.) with home made food to save some time and energy. But I obviously have some level of help around so I cannot imagine how difficult it is to be the only parent, big respect for that and all the best!
I always quote your “be kind to your future self!”.....so easy and important!
Hi Emily! My four year old daughter and I love your channel so much! We look forward to your videos and she always asks “can we watch an Emily video please??” Thank you for all you do, you always cheer me up 🥰. We love your family!
Oh bless her Ashton 😘 Thanks for both watching xx
It all seems impossible with a toddler running around behind you 🙈😂
Or baby crying
I need this in my life more than anything else 😭😭 I've written down some of ur points and try to do them as much as possible from now .... I feel better even watching this 😍🥰
I love this, particularly that it includes a section that emphasises that being organised and prepared is a family effort. Dads can help, kids can help and everyone should feel this is their family space that can and should contribute to. There are lots of amazing tips in here - so motivating - but as much as we all want to be super mum, we should aim to be super families, super parents, super kids. It'd be amazing if your hubby could make a video on how he helps, I feel some families lack this inspiration.
After I watched your video I just realized that just waking up before my one year old boy, I think everything would be much easier for me. I am a 46 years old woman with a small very active baby and my energy is not as much as yours. But you give very nice tips and ideas that I can swear will help a lot. xoxo!
Hi Emily, I just want to say thank you for all the tips that you share. Motherhood is sometimes overwhelming and your smile and your videos keep me motivated and organized. Thanks again, love your family 😘
-The ‘one touch rule’ is amazing. Basically means that when you pick something up put it away in its designated space immediately.
-Have a stair basket at the top of the stairs and the bottom! Makes transporting items so easy
-Taking out the kids outfits the night before
-Setting up a breakfast tray with all the required cereal, cutlery, bowls etc the night before (for busy mornings)
-Fold tumble dried laundry immediately after drying. It will all be softer and less creasy. You can even get away with not ironing some things
Since becoming a mum last year Iv just absolutely loved allllll of your videos - everything is so thorough and well thought out and helpful. Really appreciate all of your ideas 😀 xx thank you xx
I always hear my grandmother's words "don't go empty handed" in my mind so I try to combine tasks or take things where they need to go. It reminds me of your tip some time back of the "one touch method" that stuck with me. Thank you, Emily for all the tips and life lessons, they make me feel more prepared as a mum of two boys 4.5 years and 9 months)💙 love your channel and keep up the great content
This video couldn’t of come at a better time! Really struggling at the moment being a single mummy to a 1 year old! My house is an absolute mess and it’s having an effect on my mental health. Amazing tips & information, thank you!!!
All in all you are so amazing!
After watching your video I don’t watch anything else and just start doing something. Can be tidy up, cooking, me time or even just spending time with kids. Absolute Therapy 😘
You are such a diligent and hardworking mum. Wow thank you so much for these wonderful tips ❤
Some things that work for me;
LISTS ARE EVERYTHING!! always wrote everything down that needs to be done or reminders
Don’t leave anything for ‘later’, while u have the energy get as much done so end of the day u can relax
I loved when I first learned the toy rotation and I like the idea of ten minute tidy up. Also I like the idea of laying out clothes the night before - I used to do it but then I kind of lost it and now got reminded to do it again
You are a life changer . Great video!
I’m pleased RUclips suggested this and you! Love being an organised mum but need all the tips!
I still can't get over how amazing Jackson's room looks! You did such a great job and I'm sure he will treasure it for a long time
Edit: I think I get that elephant thing. Get the big, looming job done first instead of doing lots of little things to delay it, like getting rid of an elephant instead of trying to delay the ants for a while.
Omg Emily our handwriting is almost IDENTICAL. I literally had to replay your list and look at it again because I felt Ike I was looking at one of my own lists!! So crazy! These are great tips too. I definitely need to work on improving my mindset!
Great idea with this challenge I'm going to try
Some good tips there thanks 👍🏽 I like to sort the washing into piles on a Sunday evening (as I don’t tend to do any on Sat & Sun’s) in the utility room and get the first load into the machine on a “delayed end” so in the morning it’s washed and ready to go out on the line. I also often make blueberry and banana muffins and pop them in the freezer. I then get one out for each of my daughters each evening to defrost and they have that with a glass of milk and a piece of fruit for their breakfast. If we’re in a rush they can always eat them on the way to school!👍🏽👍🏽
Should I be watching this with a coffee and slice of lemon cake ?!🤣
Yes!!!
I always ever since you mentioned it waaayyyy back when follow the "one touch" method, i can't tell you how something so simple has helped me so much! I have 2 little boys Frayser(3) and Freddie (8months)and your channel has changed my life 🥰😍👍xx
Ah Emma I couldn't ❤️this message enough! Thank you, it means the world. Thanks for watching xx
Yes!!!! This one was a life saver
What is the one touch method please?❤️
@@charntellamb3980 its basically touch something once... for example if your coat needs putting away instead of hanging it on a bannister put it straight away so its only been touched once.. your then not doubling up doing things (if that makes sense?!) X
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I just finished thia video... well i was onlg listening to it while cleaning and i really think your should to podcasts!
💯 toy rotation! Also saves me money because my kids feel like they are getting new toys. We change out the bins on the first of the month. It’s faster to clean too.
Really grateful for this video. it helped me address a personal need to conquer this area.
Love your HAPPINESS top and the big SMILE on your pillow. Positive reinforcements.
BLESSINGS
My top three things to do each day when I had a baby were 1. Having a shower and getting dressed 2. Feeding and looking after my baby and 3. Listening to the news (so at least I knew what was happening in the world)! I found those first years terrifying and I sometimes struggled to get through the day but we made it. My girls are now 23 and 27! I did many of the things you mentioned but it took time to figure out how to get (some of the stuff) done. I swear it took me 20 years to figure out I could get so much done in only ten minutes. It really is a lifesaver!
Really love the tidy up tips that you implemented in your family! I need to try that so cleaning doesn’t always feel like a huge job
The don't sit down thing is so very true, especially after work when I'm tired. I get everything done then I can sit knowing everything is ready for the next day.
Thankyou so much for this video very much needed as just recently been feeling a little overwhelmed and unmotivated with the organisation of family life and household tasks an trying to manage it all just feels like a mammoth task right now but having watched this video now as always when I watch your videos just get that new found inspiration again and motivation to get back on track again. so Thankyou 👍 (iv even saved it to look back on for the next time) lol 😂
Love all your advice
Your videos are the besttttt. Thank you for the great tips. Hard to get out of a rut sometimes. I’m also a mum of 3. And it can get chaotic at times 😂 really enjoy having 5 minutes to watch your videos and relax xx
Can you do a video on “organising my pantry” I saw your video on how to organise a fridge and it got me wondering about a pantry xx
She has done a video about a pantry I thing
I need a pantry first, ask me again in about a year Halima! Thanks for watching xx
lovely
Thank you so much for Tipps and for sharing your experiences with us 💝 this video was exactly what I needed right now!
Lots of love from Germany 🤗
Don't put it down, put it away ! This is a new one I'm living by that I heard recently.
Thank you very much, I just lovved your ideas.
Planning ahead!!
How lucky are you that Matt helps you in the house and actually does the food shopping. My husband is very old fashioned. He works so a woman’s role is to see to the house, kids, food and shopping. Lol 😂 it’s definitely non stop. I have 2 year old twins too and 2 older kids the house never feels completely tidy. Love your tips though 😘
My sister just recently shares this with me ans I really find ut helpful thank u 😊
Thank you, great video. The thing that helps me the most is doing one job each day eg the bathroom,food shop, hoovering.
I always make Sunday’s a no housework day. It works for my family 😊😊 The best thing is to do what works for your family
as all households run slightly differently.
hi emily loved the video, i was just wandering if you would be doing a diary this year, i’ve had your previous ones and i’m really missing this year! it’s been such a help x
Hi. Not this year I am afraid, but trying to sort something in the future. Thanks for watching xx
So so helpful thank you!
I have a weekly planner on the fridge that has daily jobs on it. I have 1 room dedicated to each day and that is all the jobs I HAVE to get done and I get sundays off 😂
With only 1 room to focus on I can usually get it all done during one of my daughters naps :) gonna be a massive help when her baby brother arrives this summer! 😂
hey Emily ,my name is Sincla ,Im an adoptive mom from Brazil and Im here cause I love warching family vlogs ,......love from Brazil
I LOVE THIS SORT OF CONTENT!!!!!!!!!
Great ideas!!
Here in South Africa we have house maids who live actually on the property or come daily, it's such a huge help! Especially with kids
Wow! Thanks so much you are such a super mum and I love how great you are with your children. I also would love to know what your skincare is?! Thanks for making these videos they are such a sanity restorer to a frazzled mum! X
You're excellent mother keep going best wishes.
Regarding Tip nr 3, Brian Tracy call it and wrote book about that: "Eat that frog" ;-)
Why do i love your videos🥰🥰🥰🥰
Morning is Chaos relate much.,,but i learn to enjoy it now
there are a few things that I'm already doing this video is so good and helpful
i like the most that u said to have one day for the big clinging sheds bath clinging and and just today i made something for myself like along fun bath it change my day so i thing that its great u Manchin that
can't weight for the next one
also like when u said don't sit on the couch its harsh but also thrue
Super useful.
Yes, definitely MATT would help if he made a video about why he is helping out in his family. Maybe my husband would learn from it...
This point of asking the partner to start doing things that they don't notice or offer to help, I tried when I had my baby, and he just said I was always asking for stuff... 🙄
@@surlespasdondine yeah. That's what I would expect. But since he didn't do any at all, I thought, maybe if I ask, he'll understand. But nope...
Something that worked for me was when I'd ask (and I mean ask nicely...don't ask when you're mad or be passive aggressive) and he'd do it, I would thank him profusely and genuinely. After a while he started doing the chores without me asking! It's easy to get into the mindset that you shouldn't "have" to ask or "have" to thank him for what we consider the bare minimum, but for some it just doesn't come intuitively. Think about what makes a good boss at a regular job - a good boss sets clear expectations and then show appreciation when you meet those expectations well. For example:
"Babe, when you get a chance in the next hour, can you empty the dishwasher and load the old dishes please?"
Later....
"Hey, really appreciate that you took care of those dishes earlier. I was super busy with the baby and it helped ease my mind so much. Thank you!"
Hang in there, it's definitely hard on your marriage having kids - it's like you gotta start over figuring out how to communicate. My husband and I fought a lot until we hit a new stride.
@@surlespasdondine lol we thought we were on the same page too, and turns out that things that bothered me didn't bother him at all so we definitely had to work on our communication! Good idea trying to suss it out before kids too - a good foundation helps :)
@@surlespasdondine this is a fab idea! I think I’m going to go on strike too!
Love you Emily..... you are my number one always! 💓💓💓
I try to stay organized (when I can) 21 month old and 11 week old.. my goal is the 5 minute rule. Most task take around that amount of time so when I catch myself having a five minute window I try to do what is visibly needing done first.
Love the tips! I try to never leave a room empty handed. So either rubbish or something that doesn’t belong in that room. It keeps rooms a bit more in order.
I would say get up early . I do miracle mornings .....im more productive in the morning . My kids are adults so i dont have that worry but ive still lots to do. Oh and be consistent religiously it becomes so easy and becomes a habit x
I absolutely love that you let mum's know it is impossible to do everything and that is ok! Too much pressure for mum's to think that if their not perfect at everything their not a good mum. Keep doing the best you can. That's all that matters ☺️☺️☺️
You are so organised Emily, well done you. I’m a bit OCD! And love a clean and tidy house but do you have any tips for people who work full time and have a family to keep? During the last 12 months I’ve also become a carer for my 91 year old mom but I have a big house, two teenagers and a partner who only stays a few nights a week but it still means cleaning up and providing meals for 4. Now the gyms are open, I’m trying to go there 3 times a week too but it’s all a bit mad! I’ve taken on a lot of your tips but it’s hard when working full time
Could you please do a video about screen time for kids
I've been watching your videos for a while...but one thing I don't understand is, How do you get enough clothes for a full load of laundry every single day? I have a family of 7 and we only need to do one load a week or sometimes 2 weeks. It's just something I've been wondering about...no judgment intended :) LYSM Emilyyyyyyy!! 💜
Can’t wait 😊
Hey Emily
Love this as a mum to two boys (8 and 6 months) I was finding hard to find the right flow to us but giving it time and watching a few of your vids has been a big help. Thank you x
Your Amazon link isn’t working x
Toy rotation is a game changer! I have 4 children and this has made my life 100 times easier !
OH MY GOSH!!! Where is that mini dyson from!!!??? HOW CUTEEEE
I’m so trying to be organised but does anyone else have a “Monica” cupboard? Feel overwhelmed sometimes that I just throw things in there to sort later and it never happens 🤦♀️ thank you for more inspiration Emily! Love your videos x
I know exactly what you mean! It's this one cupboard, which is waiting for me since last year, before all of this stuff about covid evan started🙈🙀
Show me someone who doesn't have a Monica closet and this person is a liar😂😂xx
Yes we all have one of those Verity! Thanks for watching xx
yes!!!
I have a whole spare room, we just pretend it doesn’t exist 😂
I sometimes put a load of laundry on timer that finishes when I am due to come downstairs to make breakfast. Only trouble is,that was more helpful when I was working from home lol
You had a lot of great tips! Thanks so much for sharing!
Do the things you need before school or work the night before.
Hi emily. I am always up at 5am. This gives me time to do housework meal prep and sort my dogs before work if i am on days/earlys.
Your videos are just great. X
Great tips Emily!
Love the ‘quiet time’ tip. Mum guilt is the worst!! You’ve made me feel better 😘
The shooting with a vacuum cleaner :-) ha ha It got me lolling :-)
My best tip is the one touch method : once I touch something I need to put it in its place !
Exhausted just watching this video!
Thanks a lot for these great tips. My take home tip is meal planning and meal preping. Its something i have been trying to do and i always find that the weeks i meal plan am normally more orgnaised and have peace of mind.
I truly needed this! I have a 2.5 yr old and an 8 month old and I struggle to find enough time to juggle work, the house, the kids, the hubby etc!
Happy 7 years on youtube Emily! ❤️ xx
Wow Loredana you have a lot to deal with. You shouldn't be juggling a husband though!! 7 years, thank you, I cannot believe it! Thanks for watching and always commenting xx
You’re doing a great job Mammy! 👍👍
Can you make a video about how to cook on your own food as a kid without a grownup? Thank you 😇
hey Emily, I love your videos, they are always fun to watch and your tips are highly appreciated. You have such a lovely and happy personality. Please continue producing such helpful, fun and genuine content. I have to ask where you got your jumpers from...? (yellow with "happiness", black and grey with the rainbow) thanks 😁
My top tip ••• get ahead of it.. literally everything! Always be one step ahead of your baby’s needs and your kids, and time so yes I agree with getting everything ready the night before and always always leave earlier than later so your never rushing and snapping 🙈! Lol usually we get caught out and we know we could have prevented it.
Missed watching your videos saw you pop up on Instagram and I’m so happy your video is here ready to give me a kick up the backside lol
Feeling such burn out at the moment 3 kids, starting a new business from home I’m also missing making videos for RUclips I literally have no time edit at all! Like how in hell did you do this when your boys were small ? I’m so overwhelmed and tired.
Your so right about the feeling resentful when the hubby’s don’t offer lol they totally need us to just ask out right because they don’t usually think 😂
I need a cleaner my house is a bomb site my toddler is ruling the house at the moment.
Thanks for a great video again emily ❤️
Snack basket great idea. Plus you burn 300 cals an hour just standing up
I’m trying to get into the habit of “do it now” which saves time instead of putting something down before actually putting it away. I also like to set timers to get things done
I Made My Mom, Donna's Bed And Put The Smell Goods Out This Morning, Emily Norris.
I use lots of these tips but one that really works for me is I have my home divided into 9 zones. Our school terms are 9 or 10 weeks long so each week during I'll do those irregular chores in one of those zones. So it might be week one kitchen and I'll do the oven and pantry, week 2 lounge so I'll pull all the furniture out and vaccumm behind. How much gets done may depend on my week. Then in the holidays I get my kids to help do their rooms.
So happy u made a fab video
I.will tell my husband darling u after first elephant hunting amazing idea
God I could not need this more right now with a 22 month old and a 7 month old! Can’t wait!
My boys are the same age gap! Theyre now 12 & 11 but my gosh I remember it well! My 3rd is 21months and she is ruling the house atm 😩🙈 x
Wow Jode that is a small gap!! You're doing great. Thanks for watching xx
@@mrsemilynorris thanks! It feels like being at a zoo sometimes lol 😆! Love your channel ♥️ xx
@@jessicamoylan I literally cannot believe how tough some days can be - I don’t know how I’ve got through this many already lol 😆! Almost 2 is such a lovely age isn’t it? My eldest is a complete charmer & a complete tornado all at the same time! x
@@jodekelly7861 yess your right it’s so tough. But so are us moms 🥰 I’d like to say it gets easier as they get older but we seem to just get more and more challenges handed our way 🙈 parenting really moulds us grown ups too. Your eldest sounds just like my daughter at the moment she is so funny and sweet like butter wouldn’t melt then she is a complete different person, sometimes I have to laugh or I’ll cry lol 😂 it’s nice to know I’m not alone lol xxx
Love the idea of the snack boxes for the children, I often hear my daughter saying the kids have eaten her out of house and home so I have shared this with her and she loves the idea 😊😊
Don't sit down 💯 So so true, if I sit down I don't get anything done and spend the whole day checking emails, etc.
Definitely needed to hear its ok to not finish everything in one day, I’ve been tryna figure out how to make things flow easier as a mother of 3 and balance other things , this video was very helpful, thank you!
Swapping house cleaning with you and a friend is a good thing to do aswell. Because we never like cleaning our own house, but we are always happy to help a friend :)
The best thing I did was build a morning/daytime and evening routine that helps me keep on track. Recommend The Secret Slob RUclips channel if you’re a beginner 😊👍🏼