Perry's and Selleck's acting was top notch. The way Chandler yells at Richard really makes you feel like he hate that man. And Selleck's "You go get her Chandler", saying like it's the hardest decision he had to make in his life. "You had your chance with her. You had your chance and you blew it! And now it's my chance and I'am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for eachother." Yea, this scene is pretty epic.
+Zero Cool Exactly. Chandler especially went through a huge character development and I like how he become unafraid of relationship. Just another great aspect of this show, aside from the great sense of humour.
I prefer courtney cox with selleck and not perry.She and MP were goofy and silly together I never bought them together.I liked selleck and better.its was more of a mature relationship.
And he said to Joey, I’m going to get there and kick his ass. Will you help me? Joey: I don’t think we get us ass kicked is the solution. You just go and find Monica!
@@yunyun3610 I would’ve liked to see that lol Joey and Chandler fighting Richard. Specially since they were obsessed with him in one episode in season 2
The perfect blend of intensity, humor, and sadness. I think Mathew Perry was the most versatile actor in the series among the other main cast and the performance in this scene being the best.
Up until that moment he was nonchalant about no wanting to marry or have kids with Monica, which was fine. Then changed his mind years after, saw she was dating STEADY with someone else, and decided “oh I’m ready now” and fucking proposed. It wasn’t until he saw how heartbroken Monica was at the idea of Chandler not proposing that he understood. He’s garbage lmao
@@valentinafangirling i wouldn't say garbage, it's possible after time he realised he was willing to have kids with monica so they could be together. a little selfish to interrupt her relationship but i don't think he's a bad person
I just love that scene at the end with Richard already holding up the ring box for Chandler to grab when he runs back in. The thing is Chandler and Richard liked each other back when Richard and Monica were dating so it’s not like they can really hate each other in this scene, even though they’re both in love with her. In the end, Richard is just a decent guy.
As Chandler said correctly he had her chance with her and he blew it. He cannot just come back 3 years later and not only expect her to be waiting out there but ruin her existing relationship. What he could have done is not show up at all.
“You had your chance with her! You had your chance with her and YOU blew it!! Now it’s MY chance, and I’m NOT gonna blow it, ‘cause we’re meant for each other!!!!” That always makes me tear up... And the proposal of course!! ..... AND the wedding !!!!
In truth, they weren't made for each other. In real life you don't see Chandlers with Monicas together. And if you do, they're not happy and live seperate lives.
Richard was no doubt my favorite guest star on the show. I always liked the friendship between Chandler and him in season 2. I never liked the fact that Chandler hated Richard after this season. Made me feel bad for Richard, didn't deserve it. Then again, i didn't like it when he told Monica he still loved her. Lost a little respect for him
I can understand Chandler disliked him after that. Richard knew he was dating Monica, and even though they both got along back when he was still dating her, he tried to steal her from him.
As much as I did not like what Richard did in this episode, I love the fact it gave Chandler a platform to show his growth. Telling Richard he had his chance and scrood up, but he was never going to let any of his fears bleed into his relationship and screw it up. I always loved how Chandler was never afraid of committing to Monica.
I agree. It showed us that yes, Chandler was deathly afraid of commitment, but he was not, and never will be, afraid of *committing to Monica*. That is how much he loves her.
And it also showed Monica's love and sincerity towards Chandler. She proved that she didn't stay with him just because she run out of options and settled for less. Having Richard to come back gave her a choice and chance to re-think her feelings. I hated how everybody in the show said things like Monica could have someone better. Deep down, I was like, how could you not want Chandler? He is handsome, smart, makes good money, witty, and understanding
i think this was the biggest character development for chandler. he’s so afraid of commitment but monica makes him not as afraid. he knows he wants to marry her and spend the rest of his life with her because they’re meant for each other. in another episode after this one monica asks if he’s afraid of being with the same person (her) for the rest of his life and he immediately says “no” without any hesitation. you know what i call that ? growth 👌
It's clips like this that makes Friends really good not just in comedy, but writing how complex the characters are. Let's face it, everyone could feel the chemistry between Monica and Richard, that by the end of their relationship the audience had to be reminded the issues couples with drastic age have to face. And while both Monica and Richard were a loving couple, both could not agree what they wanted their future to look like as Richard wanted to be done with fatherhood while Monica always wanted her chance to have motherhood. Later, as Monica hooks up with Chandler, she unknowing helps Chandler to learn overcome his issues that stemmed from an unstable childhood and helps him to learn to trust others, starting with her. It's because of this developing trust that Chandler really values Monica and it's obvious that he would never have the chance for happiness if she wasn't in his life. Chandler likely before didn't believe in marriage as he witnessed his parent's tarnished relationship, and he probably didn't want to think about it, till he realize how in love he was with Monica and why he fell in love with her. So while later after Richard spent time away from Monica, he came to regret letting her go willingly decides if having a baby with her will keep her in his life, so be it. Thankfully, while having a special spot for Richard, Monica knew that was not how she wanted her life to be and knew later on Richard would not be truly happy with that decision. She also understands that she could never put Chandler in a similar situation (to her surprise he genuinely wants to marry her and have kids with, just threw her off for the surprise effect,) but it's likely she was placing a lot of trust with Chandler hoping they could have a future together. After Richard was rejected for his offer, he knew that while he loved Monica, it's likely he lost her heart to Chandler and let's her be happy with someone who did want that future with her. Whether it's exhilarating, frustrating, funny, or tragic, this scene really shows to human side to this characters and it shows why this show is still well loved 20+ years later.
great scene. As far as I'm concerned Matthew Perry was Friends. Tremendous comic timing. He was the funniest and most likeable of them by far. RIP Matthew Perry.
“You had your chance with her. You had your chance and you blew it! And this is my chance and I am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for each other!” All I want in life is for someone to fight for me like that. 😭😭😭
This scene would have played out fine without the canned laughter. Richard was a genuinely good character. His final line was totally believable and sad. You knew who he was.
my favorite part is when chandler gives that whole big speech and him and richard have a bit of a bonding moment but then chandler almost forgets the ring 😂 it’s just so chandler
“You had your chance with her and you blew it! And this is my chance and I am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for each other!” This is probably the most heartfelt line in the entire series imo. Matthew Perry’s acting here is just top notch.
This scene forever sealed Richard as one of my favorite Friends characters. Literally everything his character did to win Monica’s heart I’ve done as well. Ever since this scene I’ve been a huge Tom Selleck fan. Truly a heart of gold and the fact he let Chandler be with Monica spoke really loud volumes about his character. I know how hard it was to let Monica go, as an identical experience happened to me. It’s actually fitting that this is his last scene as he goes out with an atomic bomb sized bang. Way to go Richard!!!!!!!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
This should have been an Oscar worthy performance. You could tell Chandler was hurting inside when he argued with Richard. He can't compete with Richard over Monica's love for him. But Chandler is willing to make Monica happy. When Richard said "You go get her, Chandler", you could also hear Richard hurting inside as well, sacrificing his love for Monica for someone who will give her a better life.
I really like richard. He wasn't the standard boyfriend character that's only around for a few episodes. You actually see him as someone who could get together with Monica. If Chandler and Monica never got together, I would have totally shipped Richard and Monica for the end game of the series.
This is a great scene - and I really think a Monica is one of those rare characters who IS worth fighting for and should have a million guys begging to have her. That may sound bad - but she’s an amazing woman
Chandler really had such a great surprisal proposal set up for Monica and then Richard showed up LOL. I won't hate on him though he was a good guy and I don't feel like he was trying to break them apart he was just stating his love.
He knew they are together yet still confessed his love anyway. He should've just sealed his feelings, then this whole thing wouldn't have happened in the first place. Makes up for good drama tho☺
This scene is just awesome. The way Chandler aka #MatthewPerry fights for his love is endearing. Although he never hated Richard as per se, he makes his stand clear where his love for Monica is concerned. Only Matthew Perry could have pulled this scene so well. Although Selleck is awesome, Matthew is simply outstanding.
Marry me Chandler Bing 😭😭😭 I don't know how many genuine guys are out there who would fight like this for a girl .. "You had your chance with her and you blew it .. it's my chance and I am not going to blow it" ❤️❤️ I am surrounded with a river of my tears .. so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I wish Chandler had hugged Richard one last time before leaving, ending their story on a positive and happy note. After all, it was a tough decision for Richard and also they used to be good friends in earlier seasons.
'It was working until you showed up, you big tree' - kills me everytime that line!
😂😂😂😂
1:20😁😁😁😁😁
😂😂😂😂 you big tree...that was hilarious
I heard "big treat".
🤣
"and I'm not gonna blow it because we are meant for each other!"
That made me tear up
I saw a tiktok sound of it, I used it xD chandlers my fav
"You know Richard you are a good guy."
"I know that. I hate it. "
😂🤣😂🤣
It's actually "I know, I hate that"
Perry's and Selleck's acting was top notch. The way Chandler yells at Richard really makes you feel like he hate that man. And Selleck's "You go get her Chandler", saying like it's the hardest decision he had to make in his life.
"You had your chance with her. You had your chance and you blew it! And now it's my chance and I'am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for eachother."
Yea, this scene is pretty epic.
+Zero Cool Exactly. Chandler especially went through a huge character development and I like how he become unafraid of relationship. Just another great aspect of this show, aside from the great sense of humour.
You alwant to say that Richard should get Monica , fuck off
I prefer courtney cox with selleck and not perry.She and MP were goofy and silly together I never bought them together.I liked selleck and better.its was more of a mature relationship.
@@chriskorman6565 nah, selleck is too mature, monica isn't. She and perry is better for each other
Assahn
Where is she? I'm not scared of you!
*Walks in scared* LOL
thatoneguy the only time a man can be brave is when he is afraid.
She's not here (after Chandler has already walked in) and please come in
And he said to Joey, I’m going to get there and kick his ass. Will you help me?
Joey: I don’t think we get us ass kicked is the solution. You just go and find Monica!
That means he's brave. Doing something you're afraid of doing, but you're doing it anyway bc it needs to be done
@@yunyun3610 I would’ve liked to see that lol Joey and Chandler fighting Richard. Specially since they were obsessed with him in one episode in season 2
The perfect blend of intensity, humor, and sadness. I think Mathew Perry was the most versatile actor in the series among the other main cast and the performance in this scene being the best.
Richard right?
Well said
Well, of course. Selleck is among the last of a dying breed.
True.
i always felt acting wise David was way ahead!
"you made my girlfriend think!" always kills me
so impressive line
True. And who else could have delivered this line as perfectly as Matthew Perry?
Richard's line of "Chandler, if you do get her, don't let her go." Always gets me.
This just makes me wonder how people can possibly hate on Richard he's just so great
He's a gentleman.
He is great, if Monica and Chandler failed, I would ship Monica and Richard so much
He proposed to Monica knowing she’s with Chandler, that was kind of disrespectful
Up until that moment he was nonchalant about no wanting to marry or have kids with Monica, which was fine. Then changed his mind years after, saw she was dating STEADY with someone else, and decided “oh I’m ready now” and fucking proposed. It wasn’t until he saw how heartbroken Monica was at the idea of Chandler not proposing that he understood. He’s garbage lmao
@@valentinafangirling i wouldn't say garbage, it's possible after time he realised he was willing to have kids with monica so they could be together. a little selfish to interrupt her relationship but i don't think he's a bad person
I just love that scene at the end with Richard already holding up the ring box for Chandler to grab when he runs back in. The thing is Chandler and Richard liked each other back when Richard and Monica were dating so it’s not like they can really hate each other in this scene, even though they’re both in love with her. In the end, Richard is just a decent guy.
man i love richard...
I kinda feel bad for Richard, I personally would be devastated in his position, but he did the right thing
Yeah, Chandler couldn’t even bring himself to badmouth him and called him ‘you big tree’
they hate the actions but not the person
"You made my girlfriend think": Words to live by
This scene gives me goosebumps
"You go get her Chandler"
He's the ultimate man.
It takes quite a man to do what Richard did
dating a woman who has a boyfriend?
As Chandler said correctly he had her chance with her and he blew it. He cannot just come back 3 years later and not only expect her to be waiting out there but ruin her existing relationship. What he could have done is not show up at all.
@@blutwurst4360 Prioritize the happiness of the woman he loves over his own happiness.
He was already married so it wouldn’t be fair
@@blutwurst4360 to let go of a girl you love dumbshit
Always loved this scene. This whole episode is so strong in every way.
+bevofan123 sorry, but *scene.
Agreed ^ :)
Which episode?
Janina Feldmann i’m kind of late but i believe it’s called “the one with the proposal” it’s a two part episode
I loved this seen when I had seen it too
"You know, Richard, you are a good guy."
"I know. I hate that!"😄😄😄
“Scotch on the rocks, blue twist, on a coaster, heh. Monica, MONICA?” 😂😂😂
Richard is a good guy
+Abraham Hagos I hate that!
I know.
He is the best
@@ulamumafarciaporpial no, chandler is the best, go away
Abraham Hagos you need help if you think that
Unspoken line: "And if you ever hurt her, I'll kick your ass."
This is line from Ross 😂🤣
Yeah, I think the unspoken line from Richard is more like, “And of you ever hurt her, I’ll finally have my second chance.”
I always cry when Chandler talks about Monica
You big tree! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
1:20😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way Chandler says "Monica! Monica!" @ 0:23
Cute af🥺
I loved how Richard held up that ring for Chandler to grab and run. That showed Richard really gave up his love to Chandler 😀
2:30 - This is the last shot of Richard ever in the show! XD it's perfect
“You had your chance with her! You had your chance with her and YOU blew it!! Now it’s MY chance, and I’m NOT gonna blow it, ‘cause we’re meant for each other!!!!”
That always makes me tear up...
And the proposal of course!! .....
AND the wedding !!!!
And the speech about monica being a mother without a baby!!!!
@@karishmachaudhary9953 ikr
In truth, they weren't made for each other. In real life you don't see Chandlers with Monicas together. And if you do, they're not happy and live seperate lives.
Richard was no doubt my favorite guest star on the show. I always liked the friendship between Chandler and him in season 2. I never liked the fact that Chandler hated Richard after this season. Made me feel bad for Richard, didn't deserve it. Then again, i didn't like it when he told Monica he still loved her. Lost a little respect for him
+RandomVideos It seemed more like jealousy rather than hatred. Few men would ever want a guy like Richard to be their girlfriend/wife's ex-boyfriend.
Kelaiah01 Good point.
Agreed he had a major impact on the story
I can understand Chandler disliked him after that. Richard knew he was dating Monica, and even though they both got along back when he was still dating her, he tried to steal her from him.
True, very true. Well Tom Selleck sold all of it perfectly!
As much as I did not like what Richard did in this episode, I love the fact it gave Chandler a platform to show his growth. Telling Richard he had his chance and scrood up, but he was never going to let any of his fears bleed into his relationship and screw it up. I always loved how Chandler was never afraid of committing to Monica.
I agree. It showed us that yes, Chandler was deathly afraid of commitment, but he was not, and never will be, afraid of *committing to Monica*. That is how much he loves her.
And it also showed Monica's love and sincerity towards Chandler. She proved that she didn't stay with him just because she run out of options and settled for less. Having Richard to come back gave her a choice and chance to re-think her feelings. I hated how everybody in the show said things like Monica could have someone better. Deep down, I was like, how could you not want Chandler? He is handsome, smart, makes good money, witty, and understanding
i think this was the biggest character development for chandler. he’s so afraid of commitment but monica makes him not as afraid. he knows he wants to marry her and spend the rest of his life with her because they’re meant for each other. in another episode after this one monica asks if he’s afraid of being with the same person (her) for the rest of his life and he immediately says “no” without any hesitation. you know what i call that ? growth 👌
1:59 "You go get her Chandler", I get goosebumps every time I hear this! I mean, come on, it's the most epic line of Richard!
It's clips like this that makes Friends really good not just in comedy, but writing how complex the characters are. Let's face it, everyone could feel the chemistry between Monica and Richard, that by the end of their relationship the audience had to be reminded the issues couples with drastic age have to face. And while both Monica and Richard were a loving couple, both could not agree what they wanted their future to look like as Richard wanted to be done with fatherhood while Monica always wanted her chance to have motherhood.
Later, as Monica hooks up with Chandler, she unknowing helps Chandler to learn overcome his issues that stemmed from an unstable childhood and helps him to learn to trust others, starting with her. It's because of this developing trust that Chandler really values Monica and it's obvious that he would never have the chance for happiness if she wasn't in his life. Chandler likely before didn't believe in marriage as he witnessed his parent's tarnished relationship, and he probably didn't want to think about it, till he realize how in love he was with Monica and why he fell in love with her.
So while later after Richard spent time away from Monica, he came to regret letting her go willingly decides if having a baby with her will keep her in his life, so be it. Thankfully, while having a special spot for Richard, Monica knew that was not how she wanted her life to be and knew later on Richard would not be truly happy with that decision. She also understands that she could never put Chandler in a similar situation (to her surprise he genuinely wants to marry her and have kids with, just threw her off for the surprise effect,) but it's likely she was placing a lot of trust with Chandler hoping they could have a future together. After Richard was rejected for his offer, he knew that while he loved Monica, it's likely he lost her heart to Chandler and let's her be happy with someone who did want that future with her. Whether it's exhilarating, frustrating, funny, or tragic, this scene really shows to human side to this characters and it shows why this show is still well loved 20+ years later.
You need to get out more
Very well written analysis
Beautifully explained 😢❤👏
great scene. As far as I'm concerned Matthew Perry was Friends. Tremendous comic timing. He was the funniest and most likeable of them by far. RIP Matthew Perry.
Totally agree!
Chandler coming back for the ring and Richard holding it up gets me every time 😂
“You had your chance with her! You had your chance, and you blew it!” Sorry but the power of these words
“You had your chance with her. You had your chance and you blew it! And this is my chance and I am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for each other!”
All I want in life is for someone to fight for me like that. 😭😭😭
I've been watching so many Friends' clips. Chandler was always my favorite. So so sad to have heard of his passing. Very sad.
Chandler is the only one who can can make these type of serious scenes funnier
greatest show of all time. and anyone who disagrees is wrong.
+reverseometer wrong
no that is Al Bundy
Hi IllBeDARNd Drums, I'm Wrong.
i agree with you
That would be Seinfeld. But Friends is a great show nonetheless..
I love how Chandler knew that Monica was there. He's a true lover.
This scene would have played out fine without the canned laughter. Richard was a genuinely good character. His final line was totally believable and sad. You knew who he was.
I just love chandler and Monica...but I loved when Richard and Monica were dating...I just loved them sooo much
Richard was always 1 of my favourite characters in the series even during this episode where he was the antagonist you still can't help but like him
hahahaha "You made my girlfriend THINK!"
I love Richard’s dry humor lol. Cracked me up.
Both Mathew Perry and Tom Selleck did this scene justice.
I like how Richard is just so calm and matter-of-fact.
I can see why monica Likes Richard. He is so like mature.
my favorite part is when chandler gives that whole big speech and him and richard have a bit of a bonding moment but then chandler almost forgets the ring 😂 it’s just so chandler
“You had your chance with her and you blew it! And this is my chance and I am not gonna blow it, because we are meant for each other!” This is probably the most heartfelt line in the entire series imo. Matthew Perry’s acting here is just top notch.
Friends is the only thing that makes me happy whenever I am sad
Akanksha Rana Me too...Friends got me through many rough times ! Incredible, but True !!!
😉😊😋
The way they talk about monica it shows that how valuable woman she is.
Goodbye Mathew Perry. Im REALLY Gonna miss u.😔😭
"You made my girlfriend think!!! " 😂😂😂😂🔥🔥
I love how Chandler knows Monica has been there because he recognizes her preferred drink and habit of using a coaster. He knows her so well.
This scene always makes me tear up
Me too!! The most in the show
This scene forever sealed Richard as one of my favorite Friends characters. Literally everything his character did to win Monica’s heart I’ve done as well. Ever since this scene I’ve been a huge Tom Selleck fan. Truly a heart of gold and the fact he let Chandler be with Monica spoke really loud volumes about his character. I know how hard it was to let Monica go, as an identical experience happened to me. It’s actually fitting that this is his last scene as he goes out with an atomic bomb sized bang. Way to go Richard!!!!!!!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Yeah Richard is really the best guy Monica dated minus Chandler
Great acting from Matthew - may he rest in peace
Even as a kid when I watch this I thought Tom Selleck looked like the coolest guy ever.
Matthew Perry's acting in this scene is incredible
"She's not here & please come in". Funniest line of the whole scene!!!
This should have been an Oscar worthy performance. You could tell Chandler was hurting inside when he argued with Richard. He can't compete with Richard over Monica's love for him. But Chandler is willing to make Monica happy. When Richard said "You go get her, Chandler", you could also hear Richard hurting inside as well, sacrificing his love for Monica for someone who will give her a better life.
Its so wierd to think that Chandler used to view him as a father figure in the early seasons lmao🤣
Goosebumps in this scene
Got this recommended after the news RIP KING 😢
Chandler has always been my favorite character from Friends but I could not help fallen for Richard. Tom Selleck is THE MAN! 😍
I love how Chandler knows Monica's drink.
Probably one of the better episodes of this show.
I really like richard. He wasn't the standard boyfriend character that's only around for a few episodes. You actually see him as someone who could get together with Monica. If Chandler and Monica never got together, I would have totally shipped Richard and Monica for the end game of the series.
I started crying at “you had your chance!”
Richard is like the father chandler never had .
Richard being the best until the end 😊
This is a great scene - and I really think a Monica is one of those rare characters who IS worth fighting for and should have a million guys begging to have her.
That may sound bad - but she’s an amazing woman
Every time I watch this “you big tree 🌲” has me dying 🤣
Chandler really had such a great surprisal proposal set up for Monica and then Richard showed up LOL. I won't hate on him though he was a good guy and I don't feel like he was trying to break them apart he was just stating his love.
OQ asking her to let go off Chandler and marry him instead. Hell yes he wasnt trying to break them appart
J Will he said “ what does chandler have that I don’t offer you” or something like that
He knew they are together yet still confessed his love anyway. He should've just sealed his feelings, then this whole thing wouldn't have happened in the first place. Makes up for good drama tho☺
This scene is just awesome. The way Chandler aka #MatthewPerry fights for his love is endearing. Although he never hated Richard as per se, he makes his stand clear where his love for Monica is concerned. Only Matthew Perry could have pulled this scene so well. Although Selleck is awesome, Matthew is simply outstanding.
“Scotch on the rocks with a twist on a coaster” uh-huh”. Monica Monica
🤣
Tom Selleck the absolute legend
Hello fellow railfan!
Richard should have appeared one more time in season 10. Would have been nice to see him one more time before the show ended.
Rest in peace Mathew
A really great scene, brilliant acting
richards voice is awesome
“Don’t let her go, trust me”
Hits hard
man I love Richard
Every line Tom Selleck had in friends was hilarious 😂
This was one of the most stressful episodes of the whole series. But the ending made it all worth it.
Am I the only one who feels incredibly bad for Richard?
Yeah , as said he himself lost her so he was regretting
Yes, I just feel happy for Chandler
Yes.He is a stupid jerk.
awww...chandler ..
love you .☺
I love Chandler’s insult, “you big tree!”
“scotch on the rocks… with a twist.. on a coaster? HAHA, monica monica ??” 😂😂😂 the way he’s sound so eager to find her 🥺🩷
Tom Selleck is one of the greatest actors of all time!
Marry me Chandler Bing 😭😭😭
I don't know how many genuine guys are out there who would fight like this for a girl ..
"You had your chance with her and you blew it .. it's my chance and I am not going to blow it" ❤️❤️ I am surrounded with a river of my tears .. so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am one of those genuine guys, but I’m already taken
Chandler ❤
YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE, YOU BLEW IIIIIITTTT....(singing)
This scene after watching again the other night hit different, RIP MATT x
I think this like the only grown man conversation that happened on this show. Basically a Love Triangle that didn't contain the "physical" part.
I call everyone a big tree because of this...
I love how grumpy he is.
Matthew Perry could have learned a lot from his own character.
I wish Chandler had hugged Richard one last time before leaving, ending their story on a positive and happy note. After all, it was a tough decision for Richard and also they used to be good friends in earlier seasons.
Chandler and Monica were golden together, but Richard and Monica were FIRE together. Same as Kathy and Chandler
Man Tom Selleck is good looking!
"YOU MADE MY GIRLFRIEND THINK!"
when chandler gets serious ... he's pretty mature