The Pros and Cons of Passport Bros, from a passport bro in thailand

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  • @wallacewong5374
    @wallacewong5374 Год назад +46

    Totally agree . I am a asian American baby boomer who did marry a traditional Asian American woman, and we have been happily married for over 40 years, with adults kids and grand kids. I have a Son who is 36 , good looking , pretty tall ( 5' 9 " ) and he saids its difficult for him to get a date with any American woman . Unfornately , most American women under 40 , because of Holywood, or social media have just turned into something that does not lead to a long term relationship and my son recognizes that . I have been encouraging him to go overseas. Like you said, a woman has a right to go to college, get a career and be what they want to be , but a man has a right to search the world for that person who he can spend the rest of their lives with .... its just a little more complicated logistically and takes a few more bucks, but its well worth it.

    • @watamutha
      @watamutha Год назад +9

      It's called Hoeflation. Men have to work harder for a worse quality woman. I can't believe they still have the gall to tell us to "up our game."

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад +1

      Well said Sir. He should explore his options in Asia where he will be chased after by those pretty, educated Asian women. Social media is to blame.

    • @ihatemyjob418
      @ihatemyjob418 Год назад +5

      You are an excellent father.

    • @SevenMontoya
      @SevenMontoya 11 месяцев назад

      @@watamuthanaw it’s called u don’t have game and losers have a louder voice now. Nothing really changed except social media tells u , it’s not u. 1000 of women don’t want u but it’s all their fault, got to a poor country where they’re just trying to survive and dangle the bracket in front of her face. She can’t say no…. To the money.

  • @Bubs-Travels
    @Bubs-Travels Год назад +65

    Great video, Forrest. I gave up on dating in the US. Too many Karens and overall toxic environment. See you soon bud.

    • @DT-gs3wi
      @DT-gs3wi Год назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @144k_Kingdom_Living
      @144k_Kingdom_Living Год назад +9

      I left the U.S. almost 3 years ago. Get out while you can!

    • @allietarasova3560
      @allietarasova3560 Год назад

      Yeah America is a shithole, maybe come to Europe and try to act like a normal person.

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад

      Great video. I dated overseas as well. Mostly positive because the women can cook and clean. I'm not going to sugarcoat this. Most modern North American women don't cook or clean yo. They order food, go to expensive restaurants and stuff all the dishes in the dishwasher. My ex girlfriend was this modern accountant, quite smart and attractive but she was a slob. I dumped her.

    • @144k_Kingdom_Living
      @144k_Kingdom_Living Год назад +3

      @@mcentepede Western women are not worth the investment most of the time.

  • @martyh4777
    @martyh4777 Год назад +78

    I met my Thai lady 32 years ago and been happily married for 30 years.

    • @colc8535
      @colc8535 Год назад +1

      Did you bring her to your country to settle ?

    • @martyh4777
      @martyh4777 Год назад

      @@colc8535 Nope, my wife lived & worked in Germany in her family's Thai restaurant. So, she knew how to win the heart of a hard-working German Engineer and keep the marriage happy & healthy for years to come.

    • @JoFa876
      @JoFa876 Год назад +5

      I am happily married to a beautiful Thai woman, 11 years.

    • @JoFa876
      @JoFa876 Год назад +6

      @@colc8535 Contrary to popular belief, most Thai women want to stay in Thailand. The "with you for the Green Card" nonsense is just that.

    • @colc8535
      @colc8535 Год назад

      @@JoFa876 ya I’ve a friend who had his Thai wife move to the west . I have talked to her she prefers life In Thailand it’s more relaxed lifestyle there and from a beach town . Are you living in Thailand with your wife ?

  • @caburnham1
    @caburnham1 Год назад +36

    As a farang that moved here after retiring from the Army…I disagree on the types of women that Americans attract. If you go looking for a relationship in the trash (Nana, Pattaya, Patong) that is exactly what you will find “trash.” If you look for educated women with professional careers, it is easy to find here in Bkk. Does money matter… hell yeah. I don’t want to date some broke ass girl that can’t afford to travel or do anything either. I am not looking for a parasite. Money always matters… don’t lie to yourself. Just like a woman’s weight matters.

    • @Loff3t
      @Loff3t Год назад +3

      Agree, when i start dating apps in BKK, inbox get full in one day. So its like night and day compared to my home country.

    • @itsteej
      @itsteej Год назад

      it also shows that she has a real connection with you rather than just being a gold digger

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for your honesty.

  • @danlu9377
    @danlu9377 Год назад +49

    As a Vietnamese American dude I approve of this message 💯

    • @stephencirving
      @stephencirving 3 месяца назад +2

      As a white Australia (weird way to start a sentence) it is exactly the same no matter what race if you are in a western country.
      I kind of think of it like this: Never date someone in your group, as in the group you are average, unless you are the top 1% of that group.
      So in the gym, all gym members are top 1% of the population, but you’re probably middle of the pack IN the gym.
      If you’re at uni, it’s the top 1% (well more like to 25% now) of IQ, but inside uni you’re probably more like top 60% of the top 1%.
      So date outside the gym, outside of university and outside the country.

    • @Riza20462
      @Riza20462 Месяц назад

      ​@@stephencirving 🎉❤

  • @austincoachk479
    @austincoachk479 Год назад +21

    About 10 years ago I began to see major shifts in the way young women behaved, and today I am appalled with what many men have to go through to find a decent human to be in a long-term relationship. So many women are classless or lack self respect, yet are under the assumption that they are entitled to everything. It truly boggles my mind. Good for you gentlemen. Go find your joy.

    • @danc8458
      @danc8458 Год назад +1

      Well said

    • @stephencirving
      @stephencirving 3 месяца назад

      I agree, but Thai girls are the same, lets just be honest. We just have a hypergamous relationship here. Thai women are career focussed and want to be in charge just like the US or Australia. They are clearly woke…

  • @theeschatechannel2854
    @theeschatechannel2854 Год назад +65

    Nailed it. It’s not “exploiting” anyone, that would imply that there is malicious intent. it’s about being happy and trying to form a solid relationship with someone. Western women will always look for a “better deal” no matter what commitment they are in. It’s a race to secure that top 1%, 8 figure earner.

    • @RandyLibertadF
      @RandyLibertadF Год назад

      thats imposible, less than 10k people earn 8 figures in america

    • @theeschatechannel2854
      @theeschatechannel2854 Год назад +13

      @@RandyLibertadF I know. That’s why there is currently a “loneliness crisis” amongst American men. Tinder and social media have ruined dating in America… but my point was American women will leave their partner in a heartbeat to be with someone who makes more money if the opportunity arises and they are always looking for that chance.

    • @tpoppy9303
      @tpoppy9303 Год назад

      @@theeschatechannel2854 Thats not true if you are compatible with her. MOST men arent taught how to be IN relationships. Nowadays with the manosphere/redpill iy just going to get worse. Alot of that stuff is garbage.

    • @keith4826
      @keith4826 9 месяцев назад

      @@tpoppy9303 No ... Young Men today ( in the west ) have not been taught how to be in a relationship. They were taught not to be Men. Not to be " toxic ". Taught to be feminine.
      Most of these young Men were raised by Mothers that divorced their husbands. Without the influence of a positive male role model... These young Men got relationship advice from a woman. And as Al Bundy so wisely stated.... Even Women hate Women.

  • @1wsmithson
    @1wsmithson Год назад +37

    If you're fishing in a Lake and the fish are not biting, there is nothing wrong with moving your boat to a different part of the lake. Women will pretty much always hate on something that benefits men but does not benefit them. Their plan is to try and use shaming tactics on you to reel you back to the Plantation.

    • @ardentglazier2867
      @ardentglazier2867 Год назад +1

      “Shaming, insults, and the need to be right.”

    • @pol-u7l
      @pol-u7l 2 месяца назад

      Well put.

    • @Riza20462
      @Riza20462 Месяц назад +1

      Facts 🎉

  • @waylinnelson
    @waylinnelson Год назад +14

    I always appreciate your brutally honest videos! You always say it like it is and basically love me or hate me! Great video!

  • @Hikmah1995
    @Hikmah1995 Год назад +11

    I never had problem with girls in the US, but ironically I found love outside of the US. Women in the states, and women abroad are very different.
    My wife is a computer scientist, and my business partner. Most caring women I ever met whose not afraid of having an opinion.
    Unfortunately all those dorks who go abroad to use women give us a bad name. That needs to be spoken about.

    • @bhopirl4552
      @bhopirl4552 8 месяцев назад +2

      yeah i think passport bros and sex tourists get confused

  • @Akdon67
    @Akdon67 Год назад +189

    This is so true “Go where you’re treated best”

    • @joyceflorencia4235
      @joyceflorencia4235 Год назад +1

      😊

    • @hubertcumberdale2651
      @hubertcumberdale2651 Год назад +9

      While I like that slogan from the Nomad Capitalist, at the end of the day he's just a dorky Marketing weasel. He wants you to pay his organization obnoxious sums for residency related services you can look up yourself for free.

    • @nofood1
      @nofood1 Год назад +4

      Nomad Capitalist 💪

    • @decTac
      @decTac Год назад +1

      I found it in Malaysia..

    • @hubertcumberdale2651
      @hubertcumberdale2651 Год назад

      @@decTac I like Malaysia too, it's so much harder to stay there long term now though

  • @richiemochi
    @richiemochi Год назад +74

    Forrest well spoken about this subject. Modern women here in America have completely destroyed the value of relationships. Modern feminism is completely different than what it was 20 years ago. The video of self hating Asian women seem like they were adopted and raised in California by the look of the hairstyle. Men have woken up and realize there are other options outside of U.S. and will go where they are treated with respect. Recently been thinking working 9 months and staying in Thailand 3 months till I reach retirement. Hoping to reach better financial position and head to Thailand to retire. If lucky enough maybe find a lifetime partner there.

    • @AurioSmoke
      @AurioSmoke Год назад

      Not only America….also goes to Western Europe it’s getting worse here. I can’t wait to get the f*ck out of here. (I’m 24 years old)

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 Год назад +1

      It's possible !

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад

      Yes Mr Lee is quite correct. Very articulate and well argued. But he's too nice. Let's get to it. The modern women don't cook, don't clean, spend too much money on purses and I phones and overall lacking in emotional values. They say that they're God fearing good women only to find out her body count is in the hundreds. Lots of women in the world, we'll find them elsewhere.

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад

      Do what makes you happy. Just watch out for the Ladyboys in Bangkok...at Club Futanari

  • @MikeFromWork302
    @MikeFromWork302 Год назад +44

    Asian guy here and he is not lying. They see us as cousins or brothers. Keep up the good work love your videos. Proud of you!

    • @andreww3621
      @andreww3621 Год назад +4

      I can't think of any other race that has that issue. It's so odd.

    • @Danji_Coppersmoke
      @Danji_Coppersmoke Год назад +2

      Not they "see". They "use" but without respect as one.

    • @pkim07
      @pkim07 11 месяцев назад

      Indian men also seem to rule out their own...

    • @marvinsulzer8258
      @marvinsulzer8258 4 месяца назад

      Imagine every white girl stopped dating white men cause “they are like my cousin” lol it seems it’s not just white people that can’t tell Asians apart. Even Asian American women can’t tell Asians apart. They think they all look like their cousin! Just like for awkward white people or fed up black people… most Asian Americans find success in Asia way more. Even the low confident nerdy engineer gets female attention. It’s a snow ball affect, a few Asian women approach the nerdy Asian dude. This gives him confidence and swagger that leads to more women. They return to America a new person.

  • @yaboi4326
    @yaboi4326 Год назад +174

    Im an invisible dork in the usa and found it astonishingly easy and fun to date when i visited thailand last year. It was like living on a different planet. If i could i would live there. Life as an average man in the states is hell

    • @ptroy72blue
      @ptroy72blue Год назад +8

      Yeah its sucks

    • @chuck1011212
      @chuck1011212 Год назад +11

      I cannot agree more. If someone is watching that is getting few dates of value in America, then find a way to leave. See how the real world works and you will be changed forever.

    • @martyb4404
      @martyb4404 Год назад

      Don’t forget……most of these girls in the US r just average too. They just think they aren’t and give attitude, but they are. Remember how good these IG filters are 🤣😂 Keep ur head up and give attention to the girls that treat u well and don’t pay attention to those that don’t.

    • @allietarasova3560
      @allietarasova3560 Год назад +1

      Life is painful for everyone and everywhere.

    • @DaBooster
      @DaBooster Год назад +6

      @@allietarasova3560 not really, it all depends on your attitude

  • @DaBooster
    @DaBooster Год назад +88

    Hell I’m 57 & I became a passport bro lol, my Thai GF is an amazing GF. She is 49 & really takes care of me & is genuine. Before you go off on that she’s doing it for the money. She actually has a very good job of her own as a hotel manager.

    • @bijanbayne3259
      @bijanbayne3259 Год назад +10

      I'm moving to Jomtien in October. Will be dating girls who work in offices, malls, hotels, real estate or beauty salons. I already know tons. Visited Hua Hin, Pattaya, Bangkok & Jomtien for two, month long visits this year. Cost of living, safety, grub, respect level > U.S.

    • @dutchylondon
      @dutchylondon Год назад +4

      Do you pay for everything ?

    • @bijanbayne3259
      @bijanbayne3259 Год назад +3

      @@dutchylondon Me or @DaBooster? I date normies. They bring ME food, or invite me to eat @ their apartments. Thai women (even strangers or hotel staff) are always offering me eats, or to hang out w/ them or their gf's. They work long hrs. 6 days a week- and they get bored. Plus I'm handsome to them.

    • @chuck1011212
      @chuck1011212 Год назад

      They love to harp on the 'she is just dating you for the money' BS. Find a woman anywhere in the world including America - The main question is "What is your job" Then you are sized up as to what life you can provide her. Women are choosing men to better their life. That is the same anywhere. Anyone that says otherwise is an alien. Also, the reason we get better women in other countries is that our money has more value there. A middle class guy is upper class in most of the countries Forest listed. Every relationship is a negotiation. Us Males just ignore the fact that women are after our money because that is the cost of doing business. It is a fact of dating and relationships.

    • @stevenponte6655
      @stevenponte6655 Год назад +5

      @@dutchylondonI went out on 3 dates with your typical feminist, liberal girl in Cali. She never once reached for her wallet on the 3 dates. Yes I admit it was my fault, it was 2 dates too many, but just saying that can happen anywhere.

  • @davidwright2706
    @davidwright2706 7 месяцев назад +3

    Asian American women looking down on Asian American men as if they are not worthy, that's really sad.

  • @creatureunderthebed7083
    @creatureunderthebed7083 Год назад +31

    Chinese American man here....happily married to a Chinese American girl from college for 29 years with two boys. She embraces the traditional family values and we share conservative viewpoints. An absolute gem of a woman.
    Looking at most of the female friends and family in my life, a majority of them are feminist, angry, men-hating liberals. Shockingly, they're also very much single with little to no relationship progress...and have no idea why.
    If I didn't find my wife early on, I'm pretty sure I would struggle to find a woman like her today and might have to look overseas. Western liberalism has made most young women in this country poor relationship partners. Not difficult to understand when their own definition of what a woman is can't be well defined and includes dudes in dresses.

    • @stevenponte6655
      @stevenponte6655 Год назад

      intersting I was curious when he talks about American women, was he including Chinese American women who would have grown up in the same way he did as well?

    • @josebrown8060
      @josebrown8060 Год назад

      That was 30 years ago, yiur kids will not experience the same

    • @Xilladan093
      @Xilladan093 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@josebrown8060 clown

    • @Xilladan093
      @Xilladan093 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@josebrown8060 and u have no 1

    • @Xilladan093
      @Xilladan093 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@josebrown8060 ya mam

  • @kevinboehm1615
    @kevinboehm1615 Год назад +8

    good for you brother. Glad to see someone living their best life, going where you are treated best, voting with your feet, ect.

  • @user-jp6if2gm7x
    @user-jp6if2gm7x Год назад +34

    As a middle class thai lass id say it’s extremely low chance for foreigners to get decent girls to date. First of all, if u live in bkk long enough you probably can tell that independent ladies who can take care of themselves won’t chase after foreigners. Since financial reason is not major factor here they will choose someone in their circle. And when it comes to choose a life partner there are way more complicated. Im not being racist here but if you are a foreigner who hangs out at cheap bars and eat cheap street foods and expect to meet well-off girls it seems illogical. There are certain places for certain people.

    • @ForrestLee
      @ForrestLee  Год назад +14

      Agree, Thai women that come from good families and from affluent backgrounds will choose Thai men from similar socioeconomic backgrounds due to established culture… if not Thai, then Asian.

    • @ElephantWhisperer222
      @ElephantWhisperer222 Год назад +1

      Guess I was one of the lucky ones

    • @SevenMontoya
      @SevenMontoya 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@ElephantWhisperer222no u weren’t.

    • @SevenMontoya
      @SevenMontoya 11 месяцев назад

      Ya try to tell them that, they’re too busy watching corn with a p. They think that women in the USA are haters when really they just aren’t desirable and don’t try to be. I don’t get how one can think, I’m a complete boob over here but I’ll be a hit somewhere else. Not how it works. A guy who gets women in the USA can get women anywhere and vice versa

    • @steveb7600
      @steveb7600 10 месяцев назад

      @@SevenMontoya true but let him find out himself

  • @user-wt5jc6nb9b
    @user-wt5jc6nb9b Год назад +10

    shaming men for wanting what and who they want and insulting the women they want to persue is ignorant and racist.

    • @stephencirving
      @stephencirving 3 месяца назад

      In feminine run countries they shame men for everything. Date someone younger you’re a pedo. Don’t do everything your girlfriend asks you, you’re w mysoginist. Don’t just shut up and do what you’re told, you are toxically masculine.
      There IS masculine run countries though, where women’s behaviour is primarily shamed, like Iran, South Korea and Japan.
      You won’t find the soltion to that in Thailand, in my observation living here, but you will get more matches as you are richer

  • @CreativGaming
    @CreativGaming Год назад +30

    I personally have been traveling overseas to meet women, haven't been to Thailand yet but for the most part I'm treated way better as a Black American anywhere outside of American than in American. And that's by everyone. Even other American men are more respectable and approachable than they are in the states. If it wasn't for my Job, I would completely leave America. I'm currently working on it though as I work in Tech. Eventually, I will be leaving completely.

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 Год назад +8

    I have been dating in Asia, since 2015. The women over there are so nice to me. It makes me feel great to be wanted and it makes me want to treat them great as well and they are so fun to be around and go out to the movies or just stay at home. I love that old school dating scene!

  • @ponyhaly6131
    @ponyhaly6131 Год назад +4

    I was born and raised in Thailand (bangkokian). I met my husband when I was studying in the US. We met each other offline through a mutual friend. I’ve heard about men saying don’t bring your foreign wife to the west because she will be westernized. I disagree with that. It depends on the person! My husband is the main provider of our household while I take care of our home as a traditional wife, but that’s what works for both of us. I’d not say that most women in Thailand or Asia in general value a traditional relationship like many passport bros tend to assume. Especially, many women in Bangkok or in big cities in general.

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад

      Well said it depends on the person. However don't ignore that many people will exploit this phenomenon to their benefit. Many older men have the money to flaunt and exploit the financially impoverished women. As some of the women might see this as a way to go to America and adapt the lifestyle by overspending and doing little else. It depends on the person.

    • @ponyhaly6131
      @ponyhaly6131 Год назад +1

      @@mcentepede That makes sense! I would like to add that people who are more likely to overspend in Thailand have always been that way. From my experiences, Thai people from lower economic background tend to have a problem managing their finances, not everyone, but from my observations. Also, those middle-class white collar in Bangkok (most likely the younger generations) Thailand is a melting pot in many ways. Many foreigners tend to marry a certain type of Thai women without knowing that they have to provide for a woman's family. These group of women usually send the money to their families back home, which often leads to many problems in a marriage. We don't do that in my family, which is pretty common among Thai Chinese families.

  • @eac26114653
    @eac26114653 Год назад +5

    I'm a Chinese American man born and raised in Hawaii with Libertarian views. I live and work part time in China. I can relate to alot of your views. Thanks.

  • @Btn1136
    @Btn1136 Год назад +5

    I ended up marrying a Filipino woman from LA (her parents are from Manila) and she is very conservative. I wonder if I was born 10 years later I’d be a passport bro. I’m glad these guys are finding women and likely able to provide a better life for the women if they settle down.

  • @AlexLancuba
    @AlexLancuba 8 месяцев назад +2

    Coming from someone who lives in the US (Las Vegas). I was in Bangkok over the Christmas period and man, the general demeanor from women over there vs here is night and day. You can almost immediately feel the absence of the gynocentric toxins you are accustomed to in the west. You covered this perfectly. The west is in deep shit in my view. The situation over here will unfortunately only continue to decline. Glad to hear you’re in a happy relationship over there!
    Men in the west, get your passport, take a trip and see it for yourself. There are great women outside of the west. In Thailand particularly, there are plenty of beautiful traditional good natured women! Take the leap!

  • @JeanGuyRiouxJr
    @JeanGuyRiouxJr Год назад +9

    Good topic. Let's put it this way: I moved to Japan in 1990 after a failed marriage that required way too much work, travelled the world (121 countries for work), vacationed in Thailand and the Philippines almost once a year for 30 years, and never regretted dating Asian women and marrying one. I am now retired and enjoying life to its fullest with my wife, best friend, and lifesaver. I feel sorry (not really) for all those millennials, men and women, stuck in humdrum lives because of their self-imposed ignorance.

    • @SevenMontoya
      @SevenMontoya 11 месяцев назад

      Lmao we re not stuck u just couldn’t figure it out. Thailand 30 years? How’s the ladyboys?

  • @wgnorman2
    @wgnorman2 Год назад +7

    Had physical issues. My caregiver was absolutely amazing. 8 months together and I married her. We have some language issues but everything is great

  • @kristinaalmazan2678
    @kristinaalmazan2678 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Forrest, I've been watching your videos every now and then and really enjoy them. Just recently started learning about this new term Passport Bros and I think it's so sad. As a Filipina American, I'm embarrassed to hear about all these women bashing men for wanting to find a suitable partner, someone that loves and respects them just as much as they would be willing to love and show respect in return. I think the bottom line is that these newer attitudes that some women are adopting are actually toxic. Being in a committed relationship requires consistent effort, dedication, and thoughtfulness, no matter where in the world you live. And if that is something you really want as a woman, rather than just some quick hook-up, it's time to evaluate how you're treating men and reflect on whether or not you're putting out into the world what you're looking for in return ❤.

  • @wilron776
    @wilron776 Год назад +10

    Hey Forrest, I really appreciate the vlog. It’s an absolute shame to hear and experience in my own country the disrespect and ruthless practices that are apparently expressions of equality. Ive been coming to S.E.A for a few years now and have spent most of my time in Thailand. I come here not to exploit or even date but to take a rest and to feel human again away from the ridiculous culture of the country I grew up in. I am not saying I am not against ‘fairness’ etc but the extreme behaviour and constant redefining of gender, cultural, age or even class relations that is played everyday that results in actually confusion, doubt, immobilisation and even harm. The key element here is gender and relationships. Some have redefine what is acceptable but is unattainable for some, ok that may be the case , but to then totally disregard and make invisible those individuals in not acceptable. At least here in Thailand, people will still engage politely even if you are not their ‘type’. So to all you men who want to be rejected beautifully come here- you walk away with nothing but still feel like a million dollars and still human🤣🤣

  • @victorkh7
    @victorkh7 Год назад +3

    Thank Forrest, I like you bro... You are naturally yourself, easy going, no pretension. Thanks for sharing these insights! Planning to soon touch down on Thailand, would be great to meet you! :)

  • @ewstuber
    @ewstuber Год назад +5

    Love it. People are free to have whatever opinions they want to have.
    There is a large cross-section of travelers like us who won't hesitate to pack up and go where the money is, where taxes are reasonable, where women appreciate us, and where there is a community of other like-minded individuals who get up and do rather than remain stagnant and complain.

  • @varocalifa
    @varocalifa Год назад +10

    I didn't know there was a term for it, but I guess I'm also a passport bro, I'm so lucky to have found the girl I'm currently with; a complete 180 to the ladies I was dating here in CA. No offense, there are probably some great women here with great values, but they're probably all taken. Cheers Forest! Hopefully I bump into you at a bar in Thailand someday

  • @jaythay4716
    @jaythay4716 Год назад +2

    Spot on Forrest! Another wonderful presentation! 200% totally agree with you. GO GO Passport Bros! Go where we're treated best!!! 😁😁😁

  • @RUSTY-A-L
    @RUSTY-A-L Год назад +12

    This might be the most important video yet Forrest, to address the topic with intelligence and a bit of humor I wish you well.

  • @Samsaraindo
    @Samsaraindo 11 месяцев назад +2

    What no one talks about in the passport bro conversation is how hard it is to date in america as an asian (or in my case, Indian) man. Half our women are dating white or black guys, leaving us to compete over an even smaller pool of girls of our kind. Yes, we can try to date white, latina or black women. But lets be real, we are seen as bottom of the totem pole even if as an individual we might be worthy.

  • @tcams76
    @tcams76 Год назад +1

    Great video, not too long and on point. I watched until the end.

  • @ReallyRileyTravels
    @ReallyRileyTravels Год назад +6

    Just like anything in life, go where life is best and you're treated with respect.

  • @edjtenl
    @edjtenl Год назад +5

    Thanks for you view on it.
    I've been traveling for 20 years now (not as a nomad).
    Got called a passport bro because I was black and traveling to places others weren't.
    I went there to see the country. Meet friends I had met online or who had moved abroad.
    Enjoy the food and yeah going out and meeting woman, just like at home.
    Initially it was just (middle class) guys who had a passport (more uncommon in US than else where) and were traveling to countries that required it.
    They experienced live outside of their country. Able to do more with your money (for less).
    The woman and relationships they cultivated there were just a bonus.
    The term passport bro got changed into something else in the last 5-10 years due to the internet and social media..
    Now everybody and their mother is jumping on it because it's a buzz/trigger word. Or trying to profit off it.

  • @MarkOw-dt6is
    @MarkOw-dt6is Год назад +1

    So true, well stated Forrest. Glad you have found a wonderful relationship with someone.

  • @surfingpenguin2279
    @surfingpenguin2279 Год назад +3

    Good video as always man very well said especially the warning on women coming from less well off families

  • @dealerslicenseops
    @dealerslicenseops Год назад +2

    American women better cut their hair short and start buying cats, it is over for them. The black men that were in Medellin customs last week was crazy. Young guys have given up on dealing with the drama and lack of offerings from American women.

  • @MarcLarsson-b8l
    @MarcLarsson-b8l Год назад +2

    I was sorry to hear the American woman say she would not date an Asian man. I am caucasian and I find Asian men delightful to date. They are intelligent, interesting, nice looking, fun, etc. The woman doesn't know what she is missing. I would say. That is her loss not yours.

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад

      American women dating Asian man is rare tho. I always wanted to know why. I guess it depends on the man cuz my good friend is Filipino and his wife is Italian. Even I think it's an odd looking matchup, but he's my good friend and I know he's a great dude. A cool dude. But he's tiny Asian guy and she's a pretty Italian woman with jet black hair and expressive family. But it is rare to see

  • @Mercenary-1914
    @Mercenary-1914 7 месяцев назад +1

    10:34 part broke my heart. To hear those women diss their men like that is frustrating.

  • @phuocnguyen7571
    @phuocnguyen7571 10 месяцев назад +2

    Mr Lee, let try Siberia , Far East Russia, women there look so magical, beautiful 😍 .
    I regret that I didn't decide to go there, mixing between Asian and European , they really hold a lot of family values

  • @mrsb6611
    @mrsb6611 Год назад +16

    I just don't know why these Western women would have a problem with men going overseas to find love they couldn't get back home. You have to give in order to get. What's so hard to understand?

  • @monkeymoo87
    @monkeymoo87 Год назад +2

    I cannot wait to be a passport bro. As an Asian American I’m getting multiple bags then I may never come back to the US lol

  • @harbonip
    @harbonip Год назад +2

    Passport bros/ gentleman are American men, period not just Black ,Brown or White , there all Americans seeking dating and fair treatment in marriage .

  • @kellyeggers8015
    @kellyeggers8015 Год назад +1

    SPOT ON brother!

  • @bradebronson8835
    @bradebronson8835 Год назад +3

    In the West, 80% of the women date 20% of the men. Those men rarely look at these women in a serious relationship manner. Those women will end up settling or growing old, alone, with a boss babe mentality. 99% of those women will end up very depressed.

    • @barbellsamurai8014
      @barbellsamurai8014 Год назад

      and inkwells like you are not depressed? keep coping

    • @bradebronson8835
      @bradebronson8835 Год назад +2

      @@barbellsamurai8014 LOL I got you mad mad with facts... I basically said the sky is blue and you got mad at that. Keep coping.

    • @misutasutanto6312
      @misutasutanto6312 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@bradebronson8835you're a weirdo😂

    • @bradebronson8835
      @bradebronson8835 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@misutasutanto6312 You hit the wall 5 years ago... LMAO

  • @Originalman144
    @Originalman144 Год назад +3

    Yep, great points. Military men in the US from all backgrounds have known about foreign women for decades, especially since WWII. There were black American soldiers or pilots who never came back from Europe after the war and married German, French, and Italian women and stayed. Why would they want to come home to a place that was hostile towards them in the Jim Crow south? They fought for the country then come home to a place that won’t even serve you a meal or a beer.
    Then you have the Korean War and the bases in Japan, guys have been dating and marrying foreign women for decades.
    Liberal feminists Western women are in for a rude awakening. Eventually all the decent men will be gone and the children of low level men will wreak havoc. Already seeing this in SF and LA.
    Save yourself and if need be go to the ends of the earth to find your happiness ✈️ ✈️ 🌍

    • @mcentepede
      @mcentepede Год назад +1

      Well said and accurate. The military guys would stay where they were accepted and not discriminated against

    • @pvnlouie
      @pvnlouie 3 месяца назад

      What did you mean here, " the children of low level men will wreak havoc. Already seeing this in SF and LA"?

  • @marcellodivincenzo
    @marcellodivincenzo Год назад +2

    Forrest you explained it well about us “Passport Bros” 👏👏 the authenticity of women in America has gone nowhere but downward in my views with their feminist attitudes and the all about me, me, me first attitudes!! I’ve enjoyed traveling to Southeast Asia for its cultures, respectful quality of people and not to mention the beautiful exotic ladies second to NONE in Thailand and Philippines

  • @Ramon51650
    @Ramon51650 Год назад +1

    This topic seems to be an indictment of Filipino, Vietnamese, and Thai men. "If" Asian woman are hunting outside of the camp it's because they see a flaw in there, so they're willing to take a risk with a foreigner. I think that a red flag is how "culture-less" USAmerican people seem to be.

  • @michaelorfanos7416
    @michaelorfanos7416 Год назад +1

    Excellent! You said it perfectly!!

  • @arg888
    @arg888 Год назад +2

    Passport bros should learn the local language and know what these women really think.

  • @user-le8ws2qy1r
    @user-le8ws2qy1r 5 месяцев назад

    Just subscribed! Good job! I'm Asian and I think those two Asian females talking about not dating Asian guys are the minority. Asian guys are picky and I don't think those two would stand a chance. Hey, thank you for your service! I'm a retired Army myself.

  • @Bob-mn7ob
    @Bob-mn7ob Год назад +2

    I’ve been following this trend since COVID for several years and very true. Women in the USA do not respect the average guy and are actually quite rude and gold diggers.

  • @gary8772
    @gary8772 Год назад

    Great job explaining this issue. I think you hit all the important points.

  • @Ale_on_Tour
    @Ale_on_Tour Год назад +13

    OMG who cares.
    Women who seriously care about things like passport bros have issues.
    Let the people do whatever they want as long as it is consensual.

  • @BobGoodi
    @BobGoodi Год назад +1

    Lived and studied att one International Uni Camp there for some time and have obviosly observed just about everthing you just said there bro. Spot on and actually very well explained here.

  • @TheUndertakerVII
    @TheUndertakerVII Год назад

    I love you for putting this video together bro be blessed in your journey

  • @truhust1az1
    @truhust1az1 8 месяцев назад

    Forest Lee be speaking truth 💯. Thailand 2024 👊🏿

  • @Rivergooch
    @Rivergooch 10 месяцев назад +1

    it started in the 1990's with Cosmo then Oprah which became a demand I gave up and watched how it affected the divorce rate. It is about having respect for each other. A lot of Chinese families are dominated by the eldest woman in the family. My thai GF is from Surin, lives in Bangkok and does not have a college education but, she is raising 3 kids and working and I have a lot of respect for her doing that after her husband walked away. And fortunate for me she's 5'9" tall so I can look at her eye to eye. I had never dated anyone that tall but, I kept hoping to find someone that tall. 15 years looking, I knew I would never find it in Japan. nor find someone in the US. I got lucky. Your observations are right on the head. l am from a different generation but, I am at the same affect that you experienced.

  • @aging1847
    @aging1847 Год назад

    Quiet interesting Forest. Can we expect a Lee Dating App soon? Seriously, great video. I respect both sides of the coin.

  • @cottonlarry8470
    @cottonlarry8470 2 месяца назад +1

    Meanwhile i am an Southeast Asian who can't even be a passport bro because i am born in a country where passport bro goes.
    RIP me...

  • @hagakuru
    @hagakuru Год назад +3

    That's harsh when an Asian girl says she wouldn't date an Asian dude. Ouch

    • @aniwee17
      @aniwee17 Год назад

      Because colonial thinking is deep rooted. Unfortunately. Cross cultural and race marriages don’t last long based on what I see.

    • @gregh7457
      @gregh7457 Год назад

      i wonder how much of what they're saying is really their true opinions. that looked like trash tv. trash tv is defined as a genre of tv talk show with little educational content and a focus on controversy and confrontation

    • @LifeWithRilla
      @LifeWithRilla Год назад

      @@aniwee17explain what colonial thinking means because there aren’t many countries where Europe in general has colonized in Asia lol… Asians moving to the USA is immigration so I don’t think that can be said to be colonial thinking. I think it’s more tied to second and third generation Americans removed from their culture being influenced by western societal beliefs aka feminism than it has to do with anything in relation to “colonial” thinking lol

    • @aniwee17
      @aniwee17 Год назад

      @@LifeWithRilla You need to review 19th century colonial history in Asia. Dutch Indonesia, French Cambodia and Vietnam, British Malaysia, Burma, and India, Spanish Philippine, even China was semi colonized by unfair treaties with Russia, British, and French.

    • @LifeWithRilla
      @LifeWithRilla Год назад

      @@aniwee17 None of these countries besides The Philippines were heavily populated by the colonizers like any other country in modern colonialism. Hence the extreme lacking of diversity in all of these countries you mentioned.

  • @winnerwinnerchickendinner8809
    @winnerwinnerchickendinner8809 9 месяцев назад +1

    As an Asian male here in US, I don't necessarily have problems per say dating American females. Not bragging or anything here just being honest. I am pretty short dude at 5.7" by most wester standards but my personality makes up most how I go a out it. They seemed to attracted to me based on personality since I can make them laughs. However, I do must admit I do have hard time getting a date with Asian chicks since most of them here in US are into white dudes. That's something I can never understand why. I don't want to miss out of experiencing with an Asian chicks.

  • @toddsellars4694
    @toddsellars4694 Год назад

    Another excellent video Lee. Keep up the good work 👍

  • @jeremycairns6355
    @jeremycairns6355 Год назад

    This is one of your best videos ever keep it up bro 😎

  • @dexterspeights3484
    @dexterspeights3484 Год назад +1

    The 1st MEMBERS of PASSPORT BROs are RICH MEN, MILITARY GUYS and RETIRED EXPATS with PASSIVE INCOME who do not NEED to WORK > INFO provided by CURRENT > FULL-TIME MEMBER of PASSPORT BROs who is RETIRED 2023 in MALAYSIA!

  • @HairyPixels
    @HairyPixels Год назад +2

    Wait, as a foreigner dating in Bangkok you're at a disadvantage? I don't get this. Seems like everyone is doing really well compared to back home.

  • @stephencirving
    @stephencirving 3 месяца назад

    One message I would like to share is that there is only two cultures: 1. Masculine run. 2. Feminine run. And Thailand is feminine run, just like America, Uk, Australia, Vietnam, China etc. The opposite of masculine run is Taiwan, Iran, Japan etc. so the women here are not any different we just have the hypermagy advantage as we earn so much more and are perceived to earn so much more, so if we’re sexy as well, then we satisfy both the alpha and beta side immediately without needing to ‘prove’ it.

  • @liveourbest2067
    @liveourbest2067 Год назад +2

    I am 64 and became a passport bro 15 years ago...Dating an American woman doesnt even cross my mind...Its too easy in these other countries...

  • @samboni702
    @samboni702 Год назад +16

    I feel treated far better, not just by women but by the general public in Asia. I am so done with the west. Asia has culture of respect that isn't found in the west.

    • @huahin6149
      @huahin6149 Год назад +6

      💯 crime is almost non existent. It's generally a polite culture and very respectful compared to the s show the US has become

  • @aim-for-greatn3z947
    @aim-for-greatn3z947 Год назад +2

    And this is why im LOVING MY PASSPORT LIFE!!!
    i did what 90% WONT DO!!
    learn MULTIPLE LANGUAGES!!!
    And since spanish women are my 😍 im having massive success with women in D.R.
    Since i know spanish im always around local people and i rarely see or deal with "hoes".
    Knowing a new language gives you a MASSIVE advantage oppose to traveling to placeses where english language is common.
    Now my problem is SELF CONTROL!! Ihave so many good women to choose from unfortunately i CAN'T sleep around.
    Once you travel separate yourself from the average traveler the women will be available.
    But sexual control IS needed because if you start sleeping around with genuinely good woman then your just another pookie causing problems.
    But since im looking for something serious i date and take my time. Plus WORD WILL get around!!

  • @mistershuriken7744
    @mistershuriken7744 6 месяцев назад

    Honestly, it is possible to be, as the zoomers say, a „tradwife“ and still be a strong personality, also pursue a career, have kids and a wholesome family overall. The key is just supporting each other whenever you can and encourage each other to always do the next step. It‘s a give and take, and in the end it‘s simply a symbiosis that works. I know, because I‘m married to such a „tradwife“. If the trend goes against all that, the affected women will see eventually, where their attitude gets them.

  • @zachi1010
    @zachi1010 Год назад +4

    Yeah man, just be careful not buy house on your GF/wife name and not pay for sick buffalo that don’t exist 😅

  • @lafondawilliams
    @lafondawilliams Год назад +10

    literality traveled the world with no passport bc the military, only reason i got a PP was to go visit Thailand. working on my grind so i can make the move over.

    • @danc8458
      @danc8458 Год назад

      Yea, it's part over excessive costs for nothing in return America

  • @h011yw00d
    @h011yw00d Год назад +2

    One of the best pros is the cost of living in these countries. Being able to pay 200-300 per month in rent if you're not so picky, cheap cheap street food so you literally never have to cook. Compare that to the high costs of living in the US or western countries. The ideal is getting a US salary and spending it in these countries. It pretty much doubles purchasing power to make an average US salary/income and spend it in places of lower cost of living. One of the cons is that the western feminism is creeping into these foreign countries and there is higher costs of living in the bigger cities of these countries. So I would advise everyone to stay away from the bigger cities (bangkok, ho chi minh city, medellin) because it will cost more to live in the bigger cities and the women are taught to work and be liberal. You should instead choose a smaller city to stay in and go out into the countryside of that smaller city. That's where you will more likely find a woman who's learned to cook and clean, understands how to be feminine and not masculine. Girls from the countryside should be way more humble, they would have been taught/learn to do things on their own. You will be the best option for the girls in the countryside. They will be more likely to want to start a family and not a career. They will understand the importance of family, not proclaim themselves independent women who don't need a man. The girls from the city will not only want to exploit your money but want to get married for green card status then divorce you or become the western women you fled from. So never marry, never flaunt your wealth. Look for a girl in the countryside who wants a family in that country, not to move to the West.

  • @martyb4404
    @martyb4404 Год назад +1

    Stay Strong Kings!!!!

  • @skeller009
    @skeller009 Год назад

    You’re on point! Great comments!

  • @aho5088
    @aho5088 Год назад

    Good video! Bro. Very true! Keep it real!

  • @mjdirectsydney
    @mjdirectsydney Год назад +15

    Great video Forrest. This woke agenda needs to be more exposed like this. Passport bros united 🎉

  • @davidboston4136
    @davidboston4136 Год назад +1

    For the record; my current Thai girlfriend is a university graduate and speaks excellent English.

  • @stephencirving
    @stephencirving 3 месяца назад

    Hey man, just saw your video on Thairish Times. I recommend checking out bangsaen beach where I live. Is half the price of Pattaya, with a huge nice beach. Almost no foreigners and the closest beach to bangkok. Clean air as opposed to chiang mai which I’ve heard is 6 months per year now. Also Taiwan would be a good bet maybe, especially Khaosiung. I didn’t like it as really felt like an outsider, but it has a $350USD gold card which is essentially permanent residency immediately. And formally in 3 years if you spend 6 months per year in the country and pass a chinese course.

  • @thesillyquestions
    @thesillyquestions 8 месяцев назад

    Awesome content man

  • @taterrhead
    @taterrhead Год назад +3

    the unsustainable welfare/nanny state enabled by printing fiat currencies in the West just erodes values in people overall

  • @sosopepper
    @sosopepper 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Forrest. Love this video. First, I am an American Black Woman. I have more degrees than a thermometer and I retired from the US Navy. That being said. I was raised by southern military parents to first be a wife and mother, then a career woman. I have been married 31 years and I have one son. It is unfortunate how "new" women treat men. I do not understand how "some" western women believe the mal behavior is appropriate or even right in any way. I have been so intrigued over the years that during my PhD studies I actually completed 2 years of research to determine the psychology of the current western culture of men, women and relationships. I would love to share with you once we settle in Thailand next year. All that said to say, I infactically support "passport bros" for various reasons and in its purest format. I even counsel men on the subject of relationship dynamics. I will reach out to you once we arrive and I support your channel as well. Michele

    • @ksimms4352
      @ksimms4352 7 месяцев назад

      Well I can seriously use your help I'm getting so lost in my feelings for black women that I feel it's changing me I don't like it God didn't make me like this but I almost hate them plz help 😢

  • @bgbusiness_
    @bgbusiness_ 9 месяцев назад

    Nice video, I really enjoyed it.

  • @simpleisthebest73
    @simpleisthebest73 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi! I'm also Chinese raised in the US, but my English isn't that good. Can I ask you what kind of visa status you have? Do you have to do the visa run every 30 or 90 days? Do you have any income staying in Thailand? I'm enjoying your blogs very much! Keep up the good work, and stay safe my friend.

  • @evadarkangel5399
    @evadarkangel5399 Месяц назад

    I want to be treated with respect and I would never stay with a narcissist or someone who was verbally and physically abusive to me

  • @wimsmedia
    @wimsmedia 5 месяцев назад

    awesome vid..

  • @user-zx1ip8mk8y
    @user-zx1ip8mk8y Год назад +1

    You are 100% correct, bro. I've been saying this for years, and I'll be over in your neighborhood in a few months. I'm done with this Banana Republic.

  • @Megaterranova
    @Megaterranova Год назад +2

    Exactly, which is why I don't want to trade up my Filipina gf.

  • @Miker1776
    @Miker1776 Год назад +1

    The Western women can complain all they want, being a Passport Bros is a great life. I'm glad to be alive in this time, even if I had to move half way across the globe to experience it.

  • @jeffreytowson2990
    @jeffreytowson2990 4 месяца назад

    They're trying the standard SIGN language (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be Right).
    Passport Bros are 100% not listening to them. Shame and insults won't work.

  • @zohtman
    @zohtman 11 месяцев назад

    One of your super videos i loved the contents.

  • @exnihilo415
    @exnihilo415 Год назад +1

    Pro Tip: Find girls fresh off the boat in your own country and it's like being a passport bro in your own country only with no massive geographic distance to your girl and no LDR nonsense when you gotta get back on that plane. That way you continue to make real USD and not laughable digital nomad wages so you can retire early and live that FIRE expat life with a fat 401k and a great wife. Worked for me. I've been with my Thai girl for 20 years now and retiring in my mid 50's to Thailand in about 8 years.

  • @ryanrobinson1362
    @ryanrobinson1362 Год назад

    Appreciate the honesty

  • @ezequielventura2632
    @ezequielventura2632 Год назад

    Good job Bro! TKS for sharing!

    • @jcsung761
      @jcsung761 Год назад

      Asian-Americans traditionally have unsavory feelings toward black and Latino community. Asian-Americans did not mind traditional USA that was ruled and dominated by the white. I guess that's why many Asian-Americans fell to MAGA Trump supporting bananas. But seriously, do you really think someone like Trump has any morsel of respect for Asian-Americans????