Great tips! The biggest and most destructive mindsets is the need to impress people, fear of looking like a fool/failure and a need for instant gratification.
As a guy who grew up with strict parents, this is what's taking over my life rn. Need to impress them so i don't look like/feel like a disappointment for them.
habits which creates a learning mindset Reading books on education Learn new languages Meet New people around the world to know their definition of life Learning historic Arts and culture like dance, musical instrument Writing a journal, book in your own methodology Participating in stage performance Indulging in any sport event like badminton, athletics etc
Ive got ADHD and a physical disability, plus I suffered emotional abuse as a kid. Learning was never fun for me.as a child because it was associated with arguments and criticism. Because I couldn't concentrate like my peers, I was told off a lot by teachers, who would tell my parents, who would yell and scream at me and call me lazy. This made me rebellious and bitter, unwilling to learn from people in authority and unwilling to put much effort into stuff. With time and therapy I have managed to overcome this to an extent. I am a self employed therapist now and I am good at it. But I still feel like my bitterness and my fixed mindset is holding me back. "I won't take on that extra client, I have too much stress." "Why should I do this paperwork? Its hard and boring. You can't make me." Ect. I could be more, earn more money, have nice holidays and stuff, help more people. But I stop myself with my fixed mindset and my resentment over the past.
Just know you're an inspiration for having overcome all that. Don't be too hard on yourself. You're human, not a robot, you're allowed to feel. Just remember not to wallow... N then get yo n chase your dreams
11 GROWTH MINDSET STRATEGIES (1) View challenges as opportunities (2) Prioritize learning over seeking approval (3) Focus on the process instead of the end result (4) Cultivate a sense of purpose (5) Choose learning well over fast (6) Making mistake does not mean you are a failure (7) Learn from mistake of others (8) Learn to receive constructive criticism (9) Cultivate grit (10) Set a new goal for every milestone you achieve (11) Remember that it takes time to succeed in anything Hope this will help...
I am so thankful for coming across this channel! I am going to challenge myself to change 1 small habit for the next 30 days. To drink a glass of water every morning BEFORE I have my morning cup of coffee. ☕️
"believe on the process" this is hard especially when things goes routinary and repetitive thus becoming boring.. But I guess this is where the plot thickens lol
I noticed that with only one exception, bearded gentlemen were positively portrayed as examples of growth mindset. I appreciate that accuracy. Well done!
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My problem is staying motivated when I make the same mistake over and over again during practice. Anything that is an art requires that you make the same mistake over and over again to get it right, even if you KNOW how to do it right. That is what discourages me.
Excellent S.J scott I have been following your web page for somewhile. I think it is awesome. The content of the articles, the books , your web page are really inspirational and very useful for me. Even better to have this great content on your youtube channel. I suscribe at once. I have made develop good habits my main and favorite web page. It is always there. thank you very much for your great work. Greetings from medellin Colombia.
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can you still believe in growth mindset when at 50, you start to forget things more often and doestnt have the energy need to think things through with patience?
You can have a growth mindset even at 80 there is no age for it.Albert einstein had it,thomas edison had it, gandhi and jinnah had it.All the people that have achieved BIG things in life had it and people remember them for their preservation,which is not possible without a growth mindset
Most of the platitudes in this video would be nothing but harmful to anyone looking for genuinely useful information on how to alter a detrimental mindset. It's akin to telling someone who wants to climb Mount Everest that they should just start climbing and they will reach the top, without any of the extensive preparations required for potential success. Shame on you
Wouldn't call anything in here a platitude, cliches yes, but platitudes no because they are obviously useful if you can move past the fact that you've heard them a million times and can actually take them seriously, (which to your one good point that you failed but I can see were trying to make), it is difficult to get past that. Your ironically cliche comparison to climbing mount everest really doesn't work in this situation, no where does she say or even imply that simply believing means you're guaranteed success. It's stated very plainly that you will fail often and things will be hard, the point which you missed by a massive margin isn't that you can do anything if you try, it's that you're limited to what you can do if you don't. Maybe youre projecting your insecurities, maybe youre trying to sabotage others, or maybe your intuition decided to take a break the day you wrote this post, but but either way:This post you wrote is doing more harm to people than good, shame on you.
Great tips! The biggest and most destructive mindsets is the need to impress people, fear of looking like a fool/failure and a need for instant gratification.
Instant gratification, comparing yourself to others and fear of failure are the WORST. Especially if you have a learning disability or are atypical.
As a guy who grew up with strict parents, this is what's taking over my life rn. Need to impress them so i don't look like/feel like a disappointment for them.
habits which creates a learning mindset
Reading books on education
Learn new languages
Meet New people around the world
to know their definition of life
Learning historic Arts and culture like dance, musical instrument
Writing a journal, book
in your own methodology
Participating in stage performance
Indulging in any sport event like badminton, athletics etc
Ive got ADHD and a physical disability, plus I suffered emotional abuse as a kid. Learning was never fun for me.as a child because it was associated with arguments and criticism. Because I couldn't concentrate like my peers, I was told off a lot by teachers, who would tell my parents, who would yell and scream at me and call me lazy. This made me rebellious and bitter, unwilling to learn from people in authority and unwilling to put much effort into stuff. With time and therapy I have managed to overcome this to an extent. I am a self employed therapist now and I am good at it. But I still feel like my bitterness and my fixed mindset is holding me back. "I won't take on that extra client, I have too much stress." "Why should I do this paperwork? Its hard and boring. You can't make me." Ect. I could be more, earn more money, have nice holidays and stuff, help more people. But I stop myself with my fixed mindset and my resentment over the past.
Just know you're an inspiration for having overcome all that. Don't be too hard on yourself. You're human, not a robot, you're allowed to feel. Just remember not to wallow... N then get yo n chase your dreams
11 GROWTH MINDSET STRATEGIES
(1) View challenges as opportunities
(2) Prioritize learning over seeking approval
(3) Focus on the process instead of the end result
(4) Cultivate a sense of purpose
(5) Choose learning well over fast
(6) Making mistake does not mean you are a failure
(7) Learn from mistake of others
(8) Learn to receive constructive criticism
(9) Cultivate grit
(10) Set a new goal for every milestone you achieve
(11) Remember that it takes time to succeed in anything
Hope this will help...
Thank you so much!
I just wrote them down. Guess I should’ve checked the comments first. 🤦🏻♂️🥴
@@yohanesliong4818 welcome
@@dharnett75 next time, check first 😉
I am so thankful for coming across this channel! I am going to challenge myself to change 1 small habit for the next 30 days. To drink a glass of water every morning BEFORE I have my morning cup of coffee. ☕️
I love this idea! Actually, I do something similar where I drink at least 16 ounces of water before my morning cup of my tea. Thanks for the comment!
I will develop a growth mindset
I am motivated. I am leaving a bit of my fixed mindset behind today. Thank u for sharing 😌
"believe on the process" this is hard especially when things goes routinary and repetitive thus becoming boring.. But I guess this is where the plot thickens lol
This video is really nice.
I noticed that with only one exception, bearded gentlemen were positively portrayed as examples of growth mindset. I appreciate that accuracy. Well done!
It's hair on your face my dude, don't make it a weird cult.
Thank you ma'am
You've done such a great job. This video has really been very helpful. Thank you :)
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Very useful information..
Beautifully narrated Joy!
Great list to share .Thank you for the amazing video :)
Super Learning for Mindfulness.. Thank you 🙏
Great tips! Keep up the good work!
Great and helpful insights. Thank you.
Great Video. Learned a lot and enjoyed. Thank you.
thats great especially don`t look what other people does they have
This is #TheoryOf5 thinking love it. Awesome Book
My problem is staying motivated when I make the same mistake over and over again during practice. Anything that is an art requires that you make the same mistake over and over again to get it right, even if you KNOW how to do it right. That is what discourages me.
Same, shit gets me depressed. Keep going tho, ya got this 💪
I love this it is on point I was thinking about this today and just like that I discovered this article and I did not even search this
Excellent S.J scott I have been following your web page for somewhile. I think it is awesome. The content of the articles, the books , your web page are really inspirational and very useful for me. Even better to have this great content on your youtube channel. I suscribe at once. I have made develop good habits my main and favorite web page. It is always there. thank you very much for your great work. Greetings from medellin Colombia.
Hey Leo -- Thanks for stopping by and checking our channel. It's great to hear that you got value from the books, blog posts, etc. If you have any questions or need help with a specific aspect of your life, feel free to comment here and I'll try to create a video around it. :-)
I’m so pissed I keep beating myself up for making mistakes
Nice one
Awesome!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!.!!
what is the link for the full article? Am I overlooking it?
Powerful
can you still believe in growth mindset when at 50, you start to forget things more often and doestnt have the energy need to think things through with patience?
You can have a growth mindset even at 80 there is no age for it.Albert einstein had it,thomas edison had it, gandhi and jinnah had it.All the people that have achieved BIG things in life had it and people remember them for their preservation,which is not possible without a growth mindset
You can believe in anything. Age is a number that doesn't define you.
The difference between the two mindsets is consequent. Better get a growth mindset to move forward in life.
great
1+1=3 haha this is what they’ve been drilling into our heads for so long now that most believe that’s the correct answer lol.
anybody else here from spps online school 👀
I love books of Scott. I am wonder Joy are Scott’s wife?
Nukber 2 is so impossible for me
Nothing is impossible
@@jazzybear2054 thank u man
Anyone else here for school work 😐✋
2:31 looks like coal to me
Hi i am 11years old
NEVER MIND
Not complete to me
Most of the platitudes in this video would be nothing but harmful to anyone looking for genuinely useful information on how to alter a detrimental mindset. It's akin to telling someone who wants to climb Mount Everest that they should just start climbing and they will reach the top, without any of the extensive preparations required for potential success. Shame on you
Wouldn't call anything in here a platitude, cliches yes, but platitudes no because they are obviously useful if you can move past the fact that you've heard them a million times and can actually take them seriously, (which to your one good point that you failed but I can see were trying to make), it is difficult to get past that.
Your ironically cliche comparison to climbing mount everest really doesn't work in this situation, no where does she say or even imply that simply believing means you're guaranteed success. It's stated very plainly that you will fail often and things will be hard, the point which you missed by a massive margin isn't that you can do anything if you try, it's that you're limited to what you can do if you don't.
Maybe youre projecting your insecurities, maybe youre trying to sabotage others, or maybe your intuition decided to take a break the day you wrote this post, but but either way:This post you wrote is doing more harm to people than good, shame on you.