You have changed my life the past year and I appreciate it more than I can ever adequately express. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. One of the changes that I have made already in 2021 is to unsubscribe to about 90% of the “beauty and fashion” channels that I used to follow who were constantly encouraging the endless purchase of makeup hauls, skincare hauls, fashion hauls, shoe hauls, etc. I didn’t unsubscribe in a hateful way at all, but solely to help me continue to change my mindset to a healthier place because I found myself having a hard time trying to live the minimalistic life that I was dying to live when I was constantly being bombarded with new “content” encouraging more and more consumerism. Thankfully, I found your channel January of last year along with Dawn from The Minimal Mom and the two of you have helped me make some major changes to my life. Thank you so much. Happy New Year to you and your family.
I did the same thing Michelle. All those hauls made me feel like I was missing out and needing to run to the store! Glad I’m not the only one who felt that way
I know what you mean. Since I started watching her videos I changed in a very good way I am much more intentional about what I buy and how much I buy. I also started my decluttering journey. Because I am a student and live at home with my mother I could not just throw things away that I thought were not used our unnecessary so I had to include my mum and try to encourage her to declutter to which is still a struggle but at least she sometimes gets rid of some small pieces. and I am so proud of her when she does.
What you said about ‘it doesn’t put money back in the bank to keep it in your wardrobe’ is so brilliantly and succinctly put - I wish I’d known that as I began my minimalism years ago. 💖✨⭐️
Natalie, I was watching your video in bed, getting ready to turn in for the night... but you inspired me to jump out of bed, into my closet, and spend an hour getting rid of almost 1/3 of my wardrobe! (Who needs sleep, right?! ;) ) Pulled soo many items that I pass over every single day because I don't love them... they have no business being there! Thanks for the inspo'!
I remember getting this awesome black dress in high school and wearing it to like 2 or 3 dances in a row on purpose because I loved it that much. No one even knew I repeated it until I told them, and I got compliments each time. So fun.
“If someone does care, that’s their issue, not mine!” PREACH! I love the way you’ve transitioned from the messy to minimal series to these amazingly helpful videos!
Natalie, you are a born teacher and so fun to listen to. You speak to me and make me want to run to my closet to rid myself of more. You address things like “variety” that is not on any other channel. It was meant for me because I have been known to buy an item in 4 different colors. You are so specific and such a beautiful explainer. Thank you.
This video is inspiring me to let go of my "just in case" clothes. None of them were clothes I specifically loved, and I think when/if I can fit back into them, the style will have changed and the quality of them will have deteriorated just sitting in my closet. THANK YOU!
I love keeping a minimalist wardrobe. It's so much easier getting dressed in the morning. Also, I absolutely love the thrifted sweater! It's so pretty with your skin tone!
I went back to school shopping with my 15 year old daughter this morning here in Australia, we only bought what was needed and she wanted a corkboard to go over her desk, we walked around with it for a while and then she said "mum, I don't think I'll get it, I probably won't use it!". She is slowly coming around in regards to intentional purchasing. We felt so so good, walking out and saving money on things we didn't need to buy, not cluttering the house more, and feeling like we are in control and not impulse buying. This was a great video Natalie!.
I’m greatly influenced by color in my wardrobe. My year-round basics are gray, black, leopard, and blue denim. In spring I add blush pink and tan. Summer, red. Fall, olive and camel. Winter, burgundy. It keeps things fresh and easy to store. Plus, I can bypass like 98% of the offerings around me, then realize I have enough and turn down the 2% that is tempting to me.
I’ve come a long way and decluttered an amazing amount in my home. This was a message I needed to hear today. Thank you. I keep moving forward but every so often I find that I’ve gone a bit off course. Hearing this message helped me to reset. I’ve started making a list of things I can declutter during this video to get back on track.
Love the things you said about the versatility over variety thing, makes so much sense because I never understand why people buy clothes and shoes then say they can’t repeat wear it, like isn’t that why I bought it? To wear it? Lol
I've been listening to your videos while decluttering the last few hours. It's been SO HELPFUL because of how much you motivate throughout your videos!
Thank you for your motivation. The thing that I learned from decluttering my closet is that I got rid of so many fancy style clothes, then I kept the basic color and basic style clothes. I have a little black dress from 10 years ago and I still keep it there. I realized that I have too many clothes and now I'm way happier with less clothes and more organized closet.
Hello Natalie. Although its 2 January 2023 and I've literally watched/ listened to this series as well as your Messy to Minimal series over and over again as I have been following you for many years, i think i mentioned it in one of your most recent videos. THANK YOU again for making these. I appreciate so much the effort you put in even when you aren't physically talking to the camera that you add voice overs. I absolutely love Chatty Natty 😉 helps so much when i have so much to get through or like now, trying to get everything sorted for the new year. Happy New years to you and your family. May God continue to bless you ❤️
Forgot to mention that things have really changed as in these videos you talk about a capsule wardrobe not working for you but maybe in the future and how you dont know how many pieces you have. How wonderfully more simple things have become as you have grown and its so refreshing to see and hear.
We always get a Christmas ornament too from our travels in lieu of other souvenirs. It is fun to remember the trips each year when decorating the tree!
Absolutely loved this video. I love that you thoroughly describe your process and you don't ignore the psychology of all this. Clearing space is definitely a mind, body, spirit thing. :) I have one of those square ikea shelves and, while watching this video I went through my bin or workout shirts and bin of pajamas.
I just love every video you do. You’re so calm and kind and never come off as judgmental. Your decluttering series has been my favorite and has helped me purge so much!
I just stumbled on your video by accident, when trying to find tips to declutter my closet, and I have to say, I have watched A LOT of videos, but this was the most helpful video I have ever found. Thank you, because of this video I was able to get ride of half my things without feeling regret, or guilt. Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
Thank you so much for this video and mostly for the advice to buy quality over quantity. It is well worth it, not just for our wallet but also for the environment. I enjoyed watching, you have a very nice style of delivering your message.
Oh thank you! You've been my biggest inspiration for striving for a minimal lifestyle, and I'm in the very daunting process of decluttering our bedroom/closet. I've donated so much more from my kitchen than I ever expected, and I'm hoping for the same transformation in bedroom!
So informative! That is so true about being more intentional because nothing is worse than buying a clothing item and having nothing to go with it. So many times in my life I have bought a top thinking it would go with a skirt or pants that I have and it doesn't so it just hangs in the closet, taking up valuable space. You have such a lovely way about you!
You have really influenced me over the past year to declutter and think about what I buy. I am not a minimalist But I have gotten rid of a lot of stuff I am not in love with.
I can’t wait for a minimal closet one day!!!! I’m minimal in decor and other areas in my life but my weight has changed drastically the last few years with marriage and pregnancies. As soon as I lose this baby weight, I’m going to maintain a small wardrobe of all casual mom clothes in my style with a few church outfits.
Long time subscriber of The Minimal Mom. I did ALOT of decluttering over the past year during Quarantine but I had yet to touch my closet. Thanks to Minimal Mom’s Fantasy Self video and your following it up, I FINALLY started decluttering my closet. Yay! Helped me make the decisions that I have dreaded so long. Guess it is determination but the decisions were not nearly as difficult as expected.
Hello, Dawn sent me, from the minimal mom! You brought out so many great tips for decluttering my clothes and being more intentional. It’s definitely a lost art in the times we live in! I just subscribed to your channel and looking forward to watching more of your videos! ❤
I'm so stuck in a rut with my clothing. I'm a nursing mom and because I'm a larger size, I don't find a ton of clothes that I think are stylish that are also comfortable, especially jeans. I don't even think about my clothes and just throw on hoodies or flannels. While I don't think I'm gonna give up my leggings and nursing tank tops as my staple items, I'm going to work on tops, shoes, and accessories that will jazz up my wardrobe, without breaking the bank. Thank you for being so informative and inclusive of all situations ♡
😆 the show you were talking about reminded me of Bridgerton on Netflix, they wear a new dress every event. This video came at a perfect time, I'm trying to cut down on my clothes. Thank you.
Natalie, this was the best video on clutter free wardrobe! I do like having a winter/summer seasonal "capsule" wardrobe, because where I live the summers and winters are dramatically differently so I can't wear the same clothes in each season. But I really associated with everything you said about buying duplicates in a shirt you like or buying anything that remotely fit. I used to be that way and I am excited to be learning more about how to improve my wardrobe!
My husband and I decluttered our closet the other day after seeing one of your videos and caught the bug! Our home feels so much lighter and cleaner because of you! Thank you!!! 💖
I knew a very sweet seamstress my senior year and I saved up money so she could make me a dress for prom/graduation. I had only planned on wearing it to those 2 events, but there were some other little get togethers around the same time that I decided to wear it a few more times. I did have a classmate point it out and she asked "are you just going to wear that dress for every event?" And I said yes proudly! I wasn't well off like them! I didn't have a ton of dresses to choose from. But I worked hard to buy my one of a kind dress. I still keep it in my closet to this day. It doesn't fit so well now, and I'm happy I wore it quite a few times before I couldn't anymore!
I used to put emphasis on quantity over quality in my early 20s. I was in college and I could only afford fast fashion clothes. I did take good care of them though, I kept some items from Forever 21 (maybe 6-7 years old) until last year. I wear a lot of sweaters during colder months and I realized that I just need different blouses to layer them with. I once wore 3 different sweaters with the same blouse as layering (sometimes I show the sleeves, sometimes I show the collar and sometimes I tie/hide the bow) and the same pair of pants 3 days straight. Since the outfits gave different vibes, my co-workers all think I have a lot of clothes. It was really fun to be creative with what I have :D
As I'm watching, I can't stop staring at the burgundy sweater behind you. It's beautiful. Also the sweater you are wearing is lovely. The entire color palette of your closet that you are sharing, all my color faves: the browns, grey, black, creme, and burgundys. Excepting I also love dark teal and olive green and usually go back to those as well. Thanks so much for sharing! xo
I recently got rid of over 75% of my clothing. It’s been a couple of weeks now and I couldn’t be happier. I definitely think I can get rid of more moving forward. It also felt SO GOOD to see my clothes be given new life with someone else who needs them/wants. I’m going through the rest of my place and getting rid of a lot. You’ve definitely helped me with this process because your process is so realistic and you make it look achievable. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. There’s a lot of good that comes from your videos.
I wore the same blue dress for a few wks. - found out later it meant I was going through a spiritual awakening. That was a few years ago. Brought many new clothes this year. Made 2 bags of clothes for charity n it's the best thing.
When you keep something that was an expensive “lemon” it hurts more to have to look at it every time you are going to get dressed....a constant reminder of the mistake. I’d rather it be gone from my life.
Great video! I love the one-in-one-out rule. I’ve gotten so used to this rule that if I’m in the store and see something I really like enough to try it on I think then and there what I want to get rid of. If I’m standing there and think ‘Oh! I can get rid of that blue shirt that isn’t very comfortable and is a pain to iron!’... that’s now the ‘ah, hah’ moment for me. Then if the new item doesn’t even work out - I still move the item in my closet along when I get home. Clearly it’s not working if I’m subconsciously looking forward to getting rid of it.
Loving the free song! It’s so catchy and true to the feeling of minimalism 😍 Also another great video! I have saved so much money the last couple of months between going minimal and being forced to work from home. I just recently bought some clothes for the first time since last summer!! It felt so good and I only bought online things I actually needed in my wardrobe with intentional focus - feels so good 😊
I had my colors done (online and it was FREE), and also got real about my body type, and it really helps me to avoid a lot of the fashion “donts” that turn into clutter. I’ve been guilty of the excessive multiples issue with T shirts. I managed to find a fit of jeans that looks and feels amazing, and that is my fit, period...I have four pairs: black, medium, light, and distressed. I have two pairs of neutral yoga pants/leggings. I also have I thought about the types of sweaters and shirts I buy, and allow myself ONLY items that go with at least 3-4 items in my wardrobe. You’re 100% correct about the price, that it’s possible to find good staple pieces without spending a ton of money. I’ve scaled back my makeup, and stick with neutrals, with an occasional pop of color. Some of my extra makeup was passed on to my teenage daughter, who definitely uses it. THANK YOU for digging deeper on *how* you’re intentional about what you own. It really helps on this journey, and my goal is to get to where you are within the next several months!
ok, now I need to declutter my socks ;-) I love your wardrobe-color . I'm a green-lover person. So my little 'black' dress is always green. Thanks for sharing and stay healthy !
My house is literally a cluttered mess. Watching your videos has given me motivation to start on one small space at a time. I purged so many things that I didn’t need. I filled my van with donate and my truck with trash. It’s hard with 5 kids but it feels great!
Oh my goodness you ROCK! Remember, even small progress is STILL progress! I know how kiddos (and all their stuff) can slow you down but keep you chin up! It gets easier and easier!
You have been my inspiration in my minimal life style yesterday I declutter makeup box and I was so amazed of how many palettes I had and didn’t used so I gave them to my nieces and I don’t feel guilty ♥️ I love my cleaner house. Take care, love your videos
@@NatalieBennett YES, simpler and I feel that since I have less things I have more time for my family. I also de clutter my social media I logged off for a bit to focus on me and my family, and I love it don’t missed it
I finally got to the point of realization that if others are watching what I am wearing often, that is on them. It is baggage from my High School time when the teacher had us observe a person and write notes and the person wrote that I was wearing the same shirt often. She was gracious and said "well if that is what she likes". So, for the longest time, I didn't want to repeat the same outfit too frequently.
love this. one of my 2021 goals is to thoroughly evaluate my closet and pare down significantly! especially since I go nowhere as a stay at home mom during a pandemic. haha.
Amazing video! I was seating down with my notebook and pen to get educated! I am about to have another baby and I need to de clutter before baby comes. ❤️ love your work Natalie. It’s what I look forward every week. It seems to me like a coach in a gym that helps you to keep up with your goal! God bless you!
Whoa. The part about how we wear clothes for other people hit home. I have so many trendy outfits that are a one-and-done deal and it's solely for other people to think that I'm fashion forward. Those outfits literally go with nothing else and just sit there. Half of them are from before I had kids and don't even flatter me anymore!
Your videos have really been helping me. I'm a hoarder. Not like the TV show, but I have a really hard time throwing things away. I was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2012 and I lost everything. I was left with some cognitive difficulties from my brain surgery and short term memory issues so I haven't been able to return to full time work. And I'm a single mom of a son who was only 6 at the time. I have taken a good look at myself and realized that my hoarding comes from fear of not having something that I or my son needs because I have struggled financially since my diagnosis. I'm currently planning an out of state move and I am committed to purging the majority of the stuff that I can't let go of. I'm always stressed out because it's so cluttered and it gets out of hand really quickly and I don't have the energy to deep clean the way I used to.
I am very sorry to hear that! But I have the confidence that you will manage and your son will be so proud of his fighting mom! Love, and a big hug, from Romania! :)
Love this! I have a walk-in closet and i'm ridiculously embarrassed of how much stuff I have. Trying to get my life together one room at a time, beginning with the laundry room and eventually making my way to the closet! Thanks for the inspo!
What a great video! I was doing laundry while watching it. And instead of just putting away my clothes I decided to actually look at what was left in the drawers and closet. I ended up doing my dresser too. Funny thing I was actually going through my socks when you mentioned the sock drawer lol.
I just want to thank you! My way of thinking has changed entirely after watching your entire minimalist series... I catch myself thinking before I purchase anything now... do I really need this? Do I already have this or something like it and honestly 9 times out of ten I don’t purchase it!! My wallet thanks you! 🤑 I thank you! I feel more peace with less clutter! 🧘🏻♀️🙏🏼 💖
Not sure why someone would thumbs down this video! I really enjoyed the tips on how to have a clutter-free closet. I was so excited to watch them because I actually working on my closet this week! Thanks for the tips!
I know that I have a ton of clothes, but everything fits, is current and I love it. I make a lot fewer purchasing mistakes now, than I did when I was younger, I just have to stop buying! My online shopping really increased during this last year of lockdown, out of boredom.
7:30 It may have changed in recent years, but one thing I love about Eastern Europe is that women dress nicely everyday but from a wardrobe of fewer but better quality items. Women would just rewear the same outfit throughout the week. It’s so refreshing to me. Plus, you don’t just wash your clothes after each wear, so your clothes get more mileage.
This last year I have entered my second (and last planned pregnancy) and so I will be working really hard to find things that work for my changing postpartumn body in the next couple months. My plan is to live in leggings for the better part of 3 or 4 months and then do a serious over haul of my closet. I find it really hard though to do one big shop because I find it difficult to find exactly what I want when I go to the store so now I have learned to make a list of the deficiencies in my closet so I can remember what it is I actually need and can look over time. Thanks for the wardrobe goals 😊
You have changed my life the past year and I appreciate it more than I can ever adequately express. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. One of the changes that I have made already in 2021 is to unsubscribe to about 90% of the “beauty and fashion” channels that I used to follow who were constantly encouraging the endless purchase of makeup hauls, skincare hauls, fashion hauls, shoe hauls, etc. I didn’t unsubscribe in a hateful way at all, but solely to help me continue to change my mindset to a healthier place because I found myself having a hard time trying to live the minimalistic life that I was dying to live when I was constantly being bombarded with new “content” encouraging more and more consumerism. Thankfully, I found your channel January of last year along with Dawn from The Minimal Mom and the two of you have helped me make some major changes to my life. Thank you so much. Happy New Year to you and your family.
This just warmed my heart! Thank you for the kind words and for sharing your story! Here's to the next year of learning together! ♥️♥️♥️
I did the same thing Michelle. All those hauls made me feel like I was missing out and needing to run to the store! Glad I’m not the only one who felt that way
I know what you mean. Since I started watching her videos I changed in a very good way I am much more intentional about what I buy and how much I buy. I also started my decluttering journey. Because I am a student and live at home with my mother I could not just throw things away that I thought were not used our unnecessary so I had to include my mum and try to encourage her to declutter to which is still a struggle but at least she sometimes gets rid of some small pieces. and I am so proud of her when she does.
Yes whenever I watch amazon hauls I hop on over there right away 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Shouldn’t have clicked on this video right before bed time. Now I am so inspired to get my closet in order that I might not get any sleep tonight! 😅😅😅
Haha tomorrow's a new day with the possibilities to simplify and improve your space!
Ha! I felt the same; actually did walk in and do one drawer.... at 11 pm❣️
I always think of Kate from Lizzie McGuire saying “Lizzie McGuire! You are an outfit repeater!!” So funny how those things stick with us!
Same! Lol
What you said about ‘it doesn’t put money back in the bank to keep it in your wardrobe’ is so brilliantly and succinctly put - I wish I’d known that as I began my minimalism years ago. 💖✨⭐️
Dawn from the minimal mom has the same mind set and mentions that in her videos! 💞
"More Pieces don't equal more options" - so true! Thanks for sharing!
Natalie, I was watching your video in bed, getting ready to turn in for the night... but you inspired me to jump out of bed, into my closet, and spend an hour getting rid of almost 1/3 of my wardrobe! (Who needs sleep, right?! ;) ) Pulled soo many items that I pass over every single day because I don't love them... they have no business being there! Thanks for the inspo'!
I remember getting this awesome black dress in high school and wearing it to like 2 or 3 dances in a row on purpose because I loved it that much. No one even knew I repeated it until I told them, and I got compliments each time. So fun.
“If someone does care, that’s their issue, not mine!” PREACH!
I love the way you’ve transitioned from the messy to minimal series to these amazingly helpful videos!
Thank you so much! I'm glad you're enjoying them!
Natalie, you are a born teacher and so fun to listen to. You speak to me and make me want to run to my closet to rid myself of more. You address things like “variety” that is not on any other channel. It was meant for me because I have been known to buy an item in 4 different colors. You are so specific and such a beautiful explainer. Thank you.
Gayle! Thank you so much for the kind comment! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video, dear! ♥️
"Here's a little secret about minimalists: We still buy stuff!" lol! That made me laugh. :-) It's true, though; it's all about that intentionality.
This video is inspiring me to let go of my "just in case" clothes. None of them were clothes I specifically loved, and I think when/if I can fit back into them, the style will have changed and the quality of them will have deteriorated just sitting in my closet. THANK YOU!
It's very freeing! I'd honestly rather buy things here and there that I need rather than pay for the space a ton of "just in case" stuff takes up!
This is perfect timing! I was about to do a clothes declutter so this should hopefully encourage me to be ruthless!
Yes! You got this!
I love keeping a minimalist wardrobe. It's so much easier getting dressed in the morning. Also, I absolutely love the thrifted sweater! It's so pretty with your skin tone!
I went back to school shopping with my 15 year old daughter this morning here in Australia, we only bought what was needed and she wanted a corkboard to go over her desk, we walked around with it for a while and then she said "mum, I don't think I'll get it, I probably won't use it!". She is slowly coming around in regards to intentional purchasing. We felt so so good, walking out and saving money on things we didn't need to buy, not cluttering the house more, and feeling like we are in control and not impulse buying. This was a great video Natalie!.
So true! Now that I’m on the other end of things, I still shop but just intentionally. Love that you brought that up.
I’m greatly influenced by color in my wardrobe. My year-round basics are gray, black, leopard, and blue denim. In spring I add blush pink and tan. Summer, red. Fall, olive and camel. Winter, burgundy. It keeps things fresh and easy to store. Plus, I can bypass like 98% of the offerings around me, then realize I have enough and turn down the 2% that is tempting to me.
Me too! my basics are black, gray and denim and add orange and yellow and red ...sunset colors !
@@Aprilmarielove oh pretty!!
This is fabulous. I've never thought of it this way. Seriously inspiring me toward better curated clothes. Thank you!
I absolutely love your mindset! It's so motivating and really brought so much clarity for me! Can't wait to see your sentimental box!
I’ve come a long way and decluttered an amazing amount in my home. This was a message I needed to hear today. Thank you. I keep moving forward but every so often I find that I’ve gone a bit off course. Hearing this message helped me to reset. I’ve started making a list of things I can declutter during this video to get back on track.
Love the things you said about the versatility over variety thing, makes so much sense because I never understand why people buy clothes and shoes then say they can’t repeat wear it, like isn’t that why I bought it? To wear it? Lol
Found you from The Minimal Mom - these collaboration videos are great.
You have a very calming voice!!! I absolutley love watching your videos. Thank you so much for sharing!!!!
Since I found your channel ive got rid of over 500 items and I'm still going. Thank you
You become even more beautiful the more you talk... your inner beauty comes out so much
I've been listening to your videos while decluttering the last few hours. It's been SO HELPFUL because of how much you motivate throughout your videos!
Watching this fun playlist while I purge! Thank you wonderful ladies for helping me while I purge my closet!
“The GREAT TALENTS OF LIFE are not to be great at something, it’s to actually give that away” which you do pretty well!
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Awww thank you so much!
Thank you for your motivation.
The thing that I learned from decluttering my closet is that I got rid of so many fancy style clothes, then I kept the basic color and basic style clothes. I have a little black dress from 10 years ago and I still keep it there. I realized that I have too many clothes and now I'm way happier with less clothes and more organized closet.
I really like this. You are so calm. Keeping things all tidy always stresses me out!
Hello Natalie. Although its 2 January 2023 and I've literally watched/ listened to this series as well as your Messy to Minimal series over and over again as I have been following you for many years, i think i mentioned it in one of your most recent videos.
THANK YOU again for making these. I appreciate so much the effort you put in even when you aren't physically talking to the camera that you add voice overs. I absolutely love Chatty Natty 😉 helps so much when i have so much to get through or like now, trying to get everything sorted for the new year. Happy New years to you and your family. May God continue to bless you ❤️
Forgot to mention that things have really changed as in these videos you talk about a capsule wardrobe not working for you but maybe in the future and how you dont know how many pieces you have. How wonderfully more simple things have become as you have grown and its so refreshing to see and hear.
We always get a Christmas ornament too from our travels in lieu of other souvenirs. It is fun to remember the trips each year when decorating the tree!
Absolutely loved this video. I love that you thoroughly describe your process and you don't ignore the psychology of all this. Clearing space is definitely a mind, body, spirit thing. :) I have one of those square ikea shelves and, while watching this video I went through my bin or workout shirts and bin of pajamas.
I actually recently got 1 of those but did i do the right thing? Only to buy more things
I just love every video you do. You’re so calm and kind and never come off as judgmental. Your decluttering series has been my favorite and has helped me purge so much!
I just stumbled on your video by accident, when trying to find tips to declutter my closet, and I have to say, I have watched A LOT of videos, but this was the most helpful video I have ever found. Thank you, because of this video I was able to get ride of half my things without feeling regret, or guilt. Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
I love seeing that same sweater 😅 it inspires me to find a comfy sweater like that to add to my closet.
I need to know what brand it is since it has lasted so long and kept up so we'll! 😂
@@samanthab3292 me too lol I wish she would've mentioned it
She said in a comment that it was from Forever 21 about 5-6 years ago. :)
Love your authenticity! Realistic and helpful!
Thank you so much for this video and mostly for the advice to buy quality over quantity. It is well worth it, not just for our wallet but also for the environment. I enjoyed watching, you have a very nice style of delivering your message.
Thank you, Natalie! So blessed to have found your channel!
Natalie, I found you through the "January Clutter free . . .". So glad I did. You have such a kind and soothing voice.
Oh thank you! You've been my biggest inspiration for striving for a minimal lifestyle, and I'm in the very daunting process of decluttering our bedroom/closet. I've donated so much more from my kitchen than I ever expected, and I'm hoping for the same transformation in bedroom!
So informative! That is so true about being more intentional because nothing is worse than buying a clothing item and having nothing to go with it. So many times in my life I have bought a top thinking it would go with a skirt or pants that I have and it doesn't so it just hangs in the closet, taking up valuable space. You have such a lovely way about you!
You have really influenced me over the past year to declutter and think about what I buy. I am not a minimalist But I have gotten rid of a lot of stuff I am not in love with.
It doesn't matter what you label yourself, simplifying can help so much!!! ♥️♥️♥️
My kid's closet is under control today, while I am listening to your colab. thank you all, much love ❤️❤️❤️
I can’t wait for a minimal closet one day!!!! I’m minimal in decor and other areas in my life but my weight has changed drastically the last few years with marriage and pregnancies. As soon as I lose this baby weight, I’m going to maintain a small wardrobe of all casual mom clothes in my style with a few church outfits.
Long time subscriber of The Minimal Mom. I did ALOT of decluttering over the past year during Quarantine but I had yet to touch my closet. Thanks to Minimal Mom’s Fantasy Self video and your following it up, I FINALLY started decluttering my closet. Yay! Helped me make the decisions that I have dreaded so long. Guess it is determination but the decisions were not nearly as difficult as expected.
Your videos are helping me out of an anxiety depression spiral.
Hello, Dawn sent me, from the minimal mom! You brought out so many great tips for decluttering my clothes and being more intentional. It’s definitely a lost art in the times we live in! I just subscribed to your channel and looking forward to watching more of your videos! ❤
I'm so stuck in a rut with my clothing. I'm a nursing mom and because I'm a larger size, I don't find a ton of clothes that I think are stylish that are also comfortable, especially jeans. I don't even think about my clothes and just throw on hoodies or flannels. While I don't think I'm gonna give up my leggings and nursing tank tops as my staple items, I'm going to work on tops, shoes, and accessories that will jazz up my wardrobe, without breaking the bank. Thank you for being so informative and inclusive of all situations ♡
😆 the show you were talking about reminded me of Bridgerton on Netflix, they wear a new dress every event. This video came at a perfect time, I'm trying to cut down on my clothes. Thank you.
I keep hearing about this show! We ditched Netflilx this year, though.
This is exactly what I need. Tomorrow I am doing a huge Winter/Spring cleaning taking down Christmas decorations and cleaning out closets. ♡♡♡♡♡♡◇
Thank you for the motivation! Absolutely the fuel I needed to go through my closet! I cleaned out 2/3s of the stuff and feel so much lighter.
Natalie, this was the best video on clutter free wardrobe! I do like having a winter/summer seasonal "capsule" wardrobe, because where I live the summers and winters are dramatically differently so I can't wear the same clothes in each season. But I really associated with everything you said about buying duplicates in a shirt you like or buying anything that remotely fit. I used to be that way and I am excited to be learning more about how to improve my wardrobe!
This is the most intelligent video on decluttering and being intentional on our clothing I’ve seen. Excellent video.
My husband and I decluttered our closet the other day after seeing one of your videos and caught the bug! Our home feels so much lighter and cleaner because of you! Thank you!!! 💖
Decluttering your closet is an excellent and very gratifying place to start!!!
Your channel has helped me de clutter and have a new mindset of less is definitely more.
I am loving your content since last year. Love to you and your family♥️
I knew a very sweet seamstress my senior year and I saved up money so she could make me a dress for prom/graduation. I had only planned on wearing it to those 2 events, but there were some other little get togethers around the same time that I decided to wear it a few more times. I did have a classmate point it out and she asked "are you just going to wear that dress for every event?" And I said yes proudly! I wasn't well off like them! I didn't have a ton of dresses to choose from. But I worked hard to buy my one of a kind dress. I still keep it in my closet to this day. It doesn't fit so well now, and I'm happy I wore it quite a few times before I couldn't anymore!
for sentimental clothing (I have a good amount of sport t shifts from HS) I had them turned into a t shirt quilt that I use daily
I’m loving this... I have lost my parents in my 30’s and I’m still finding it hard to let go of things.
That must be so hard! I'm sorry for your loss!
I used to put emphasis on quantity over quality in my early 20s. I was in college and I could only afford fast fashion clothes. I did take good care of them though, I kept some items from Forever 21 (maybe 6-7 years old) until last year. I wear a lot of sweaters during colder months and I realized that I just need different blouses to layer them with. I once wore 3 different sweaters with the same blouse as layering (sometimes I show the sleeves, sometimes I show the collar and sometimes I tie/hide the bow) and the same pair of pants 3 days straight. Since the outfits gave different vibes, my co-workers all think I have a lot of clothes. It was really fun to be creative with what I have :D
You have insipired me to de-clutter my home and become more of a minimalist. Thank you for sharing your journey!
As I'm watching, I can't stop staring at the burgundy sweater behind you. It's beautiful. Also the sweater you are wearing is lovely. The entire color palette of your closet that you are sharing, all my color faves: the browns, grey, black, creme, and burgundys. Excepting I also love dark teal and olive green and usually go back to those as well. Thanks so much for sharing! xo
I recently got rid of over 75% of my clothing. It’s been a couple of weeks now and I couldn’t be happier. I definitely think I can get rid of more moving forward.
It also felt SO GOOD to see my clothes be given new life with someone else who needs them/wants. I’m going through the rest of my place and getting rid of a lot. You’ve definitely helped me with this process because your process is so realistic and you make it look achievable. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. There’s a lot of good that comes from your videos.
Awww! You're so kind! Thank you for the opportunity to share with you!
I wore the same blue dress for a few wks. - found out later it meant I was going through a spiritual awakening. That was a few years ago. Brought many new clothes this year. Made 2 bags of clothes for charity n it's the best thing.
When on vacation I satisfy the desire to buy by buying gifts ahead for Christmas gifts and birthday gifts. You’re welcome 😉 Thanks!
I have decluttered so much. I have a walk in closet and it’s fairly empty. Love it!!
I love the idea of buying Christmas ornaments as keepsakes. I think I will incorporate this once we can travel again.
I love your practical advice. Your voice is pleasant and I love your videos. Your kindness shows through. ❤️
When you keep something that was an expensive “lemon” it hurts more to have to look at it every time you are going to get dressed....a constant reminder of the mistake. I’d rather it be gone from my life.
Great video! I love the one-in-one-out rule. I’ve gotten so used to this rule that if I’m in the store and see something I really like enough to try it on I think then and there what I want to get rid of. If I’m standing there and think ‘Oh! I can get rid of that blue shirt that isn’t very comfortable and is a pain to iron!’... that’s now the ‘ah, hah’ moment for me. Then if the new item doesn’t even work out - I still move the item in my closet along when I get home. Clearly it’s not working if I’m subconsciously looking forward to getting rid of it.
New subscriber here ❤️ Love your channel, love your chill vibes! I am all about “minimalism” with a family & intentional living.
Loving the free song! It’s so catchy and true to the feeling of minimalism 😍 Also another great video! I have saved so much money the last couple of months between going minimal and being forced to work from home. I just recently bought some clothes for the first time since last summer!! It felt so good and I only bought online things I actually needed in my wardrobe with intentional focus - feels so good 😊
I had my colors done (online and it was FREE), and also got real about my body type, and it really helps me to avoid a lot of the fashion “donts” that turn into clutter. I’ve been guilty of the excessive multiples issue with T shirts. I managed to find a fit of jeans that looks and feels amazing, and that is my fit, period...I have four pairs: black, medium, light, and distressed. I have two pairs of neutral yoga pants/leggings. I also have I thought about the types of sweaters and shirts I buy, and allow myself ONLY items that go with at least 3-4 items in my wardrobe. You’re 100% correct about the price, that it’s possible to find good staple pieces without spending a ton of money. I’ve scaled back my makeup, and stick with neutrals, with an occasional pop of color. Some of my extra makeup was passed on to my teenage daughter, who definitely uses it. THANK YOU for digging deeper on *how* you’re intentional about what you own. It really helps on this journey, and my goal is to get to where you are within the next several months!
Just decluttered even more yesterday- feels good! :) walking into my space just feels... more refreshing?
Yes! Refreshing is a great word for the feeling of peace in a simplified space!
Thank you for the encouragement ⭐️ I can’t wait to declutter my closet now.
Those peachy pinks make you look so healthy and vibrant! I wish I could wear those colors!
Awww you're so kind! What are your favorite colors to wear? ♥️
ok, now I need to declutter my socks ;-)
I love your wardrobe-color . I'm a green-lover person. So my little 'black' dress is always green.
Thanks for sharing and stay healthy !
My house is literally a cluttered mess. Watching your videos has given me motivation to start on one small space at a time. I purged so many things that I didn’t need. I filled my van with donate and my truck with trash. It’s hard with 5 kids but it feels great!
Oh my goodness you ROCK! Remember, even small progress is STILL progress! I know how kiddos (and all their stuff) can slow you down but keep you chin up! It gets easier and easier!
You have been my inspiration in my minimal life style yesterday I declutter makeup box and I was so amazed of how many palettes I had and didn’t used so I gave them to my nieces and I don’t feel guilty ♥️ I love my cleaner house. Take care, love your videos
I'm so glad! It's an amazing feeling to have a simpler space, isn't it?!
@@NatalieBennett YES, simpler and I feel that since I have less things I have more time for my family. I also de clutter my social media I logged off for a bit to focus on me and my family, and I love it don’t missed it
I finally got to the point of realization that if others are watching what I am wearing often, that is on them. It is baggage from my High School time when the teacher had us observe a person and write notes and the person wrote that I was wearing the same shirt often. She was gracious and said "well if that is what she likes". So, for the longest time, I didn't want to repeat the same outfit too frequently.
Something like that from our formative years will certainly stick with us!
love this. one of my 2021 goals is to thoroughly evaluate my closet and pare down significantly! especially since I go nowhere as a stay at home mom during a pandemic. haha.
Amazing video! I was seating down with my notebook and pen to get educated! I am about to have another baby and I need to de clutter before baby comes. ❤️ love your work Natalie. It’s what I look forward every week.
It seems to me like a coach in a gym that helps you to keep up with your goal! God bless you!
I really need this video. I'm using up both of the closets in the bedroom and also in the spare bedroom. It's out if control!
I absolutely love Dawn the Minimal Mom. 🤩
Whoa. The part about how we wear clothes for other people hit home. I have so many trendy outfits that are a one-and-done deal and it's solely for other people to think that I'm fashion forward. Those outfits literally go with nothing else and just sit there. Half of them are from before I had kids and don't even flatter me anymore!
Your videos have really been helping me. I'm a hoarder. Not like the TV show, but I have a really hard time throwing things away. I was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2012 and I lost everything. I was left with some cognitive difficulties from my brain surgery and short term memory issues so I haven't been able to return to full time work. And I'm a single mom of a son who was only 6 at the time. I have taken a good look at myself and realized that my hoarding comes from fear of not having something that I or my son needs because I have struggled financially since my diagnosis. I'm currently planning an out of state move and I am committed to purging the majority of the stuff that I can't let go of. I'm always stressed out because it's so cluttered and it gets out of hand really quickly and I don't have the energy to deep clean the way I used to.
I am very sorry to hear that! But I have the confidence that you will manage and your son will be so proud of his fighting mom! Love, and a big hug, from Romania! :)
Love this! I have a walk-in closet and i'm ridiculously embarrassed of how much stuff I have. Trying to get my life together one room at a time, beginning with the laundry room and eventually making my way to the closet! Thanks for the inspo!
No judgement here!
Would you do a video about how you do your nails? They always look so pretty! Love the messy to minimal series ❤️
What a great video! I was doing laundry while watching it. And instead of just putting away my clothes I decided to actually look at what was left in the drawers and closet. I ended up doing my dresser too. Funny thing I was actually going through my socks when you mentioned the sock drawer lol.
I just want to thank you! My way of thinking has changed entirely after watching your entire minimalist series... I catch myself thinking before I purchase anything now... do I really need this? Do I already have this or something like it and honestly 9 times out of ten I don’t purchase it!! My wallet thanks you! 🤑 I thank you! I feel more peace with less clutter! 🧘🏻♀️🙏🏼 💖
One of your absolute best minimalism videos, mama! Absolute LOVE everything you said. Thank you for sharing.👏👏👏
Not sure why someone would thumbs down this video! I really enjoyed the tips on how to have a clutter-free closet. I was so excited to watch them because I actually working on my closet this week! Thanks for the tips!
I do take thumbs down as constructive feedback! I know sometimes they're just trolls or haters looking to be negative though!
I know that I have a ton of clothes, but everything fits, is current and I love it. I make a lot fewer purchasing mistakes now, than I did when I was younger, I just have to stop buying! My online shopping really increased during this last year of lockdown, out of boredom.
Thank you so much for this video! I live in a small apartment, and am looking forward to how decluttering will help open up the space!
It sounds like the show you’re talking about is Bridgerton. Thanks for this video.
Your videos are very motivating me. Thank you so much. 💜
Greetings from Germany
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7:30 It may have changed in recent years, but one thing I love about Eastern Europe is that women dress nicely everyday but from a wardrobe of fewer but better quality items. Women would just rewear the same outfit throughout the week. It’s so refreshing to me. Plus, you don’t just wash your clothes after each wear, so your clothes get more mileage.
Thanks Natalie. You're very encouraging. :)
This last year I have entered my second (and last planned pregnancy) and so I will be working really hard to find things that work for my changing postpartumn body in the next couple months. My plan is to live in leggings for the better part of 3 or 4 months and then do a serious over haul of my closet. I find it really hard though to do one big shop because I find it difficult to find exactly what I want when I go to the store so now I have learned to make a list of the deficiencies in my closet so I can remember what it is I actually need and can look over time. Thanks for the wardrobe goals 😊
I have found that curating a few pieces over time helps me find better, long-lasting pieces in my collection rather than bigger hauls!
Just ordered dresser drawer organizers. Excited to get started! Thanks for the inspiration!