They act like they don't have the same limbic system as we have. As if anger isn't an emotion that has clearly clouded their logic in many instances if the statistics Themis brought up are anything to go by.
And it's having the exact opposite effect that they hoped that it would. Granted there are still some black women trying to fall in line, but for the most part, black women seem to be turning away in disgust.
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
@@mufasa1794 aht aht, I’m 28 ig that qualifies me as apart of the elderly generations ctfu but people in my generation literally are jumping ship and have been since the 2010s . Even my generations mixed and black adjacent celebrities like Zendaya and Doja cat didn’t even bother with them and it makes bm punch the air ! I was turned off since I was a small child. Never got caught up, I watch this stuff for purely entertainment because I’ll never be apart of blackistan.
Hotepism makes them think that they have accomplished something. Its so pathetic, it's funny-claiming to have created everything, but ALWAYS losing- that just means you are a LOSER!!!!
@@sonyasees1022jealousy and envy, I wish they'd just go off and continue tap dancin and failin wit them others. My teen son told me statistically bm don't make it with non bw. Buh go awf😂😊
Exactly 💯 I don't identify with Bm and their weird anti-family, anti-woman, anti-education culture ...please don't claim because I most certainly don't claim you.
It just depends on where you go who you associate with the black people I know including my parents are married, emotionally open, communicate, I think we all fall victims of our life experiences and the media narrative. Although black people do have their traumas the differences between both groups and other races in terms of demeanour is only apparent in the extremes and that is what is promoted in media. Also our obsession with celebrities which live completely different lives that the average makes things even more extreme. The resulting nature is black men who obsess about non black women and black women non black men. Both ideologies are extreme and also the education stat is true across all races school has been biased towards women for a couple decades now but that is okay as well it is a problem we are going through now globally.
@@ThemisThoth do you realize in the Bible Adam blames Eve for everything? Even though he was tricked, and Adam shows the part in the disobedient behaviours again, God’s laws.
3:36 I can’t understand how a group of people can be doing the worst in every category out of every other group. Can possibly fix their mouths to critique anyone.
Exactly...Bw need to open up their options. Bm have been DESTROYING the dating pool since they decided to abandoned their women and children...so going on about 50 years now
He talking about "the father is clean and she sees him get up and go to work every morning but still choose the wrong guy" 🤦🏾♀️ like huh...is that all it takes to decide that someone is a good person or compatible with you? The bar is low!
@@muse5581 yes yes I agree. Also just because Dad was allegedly a unicorn doesn't mean squat about the character of other men in the community. Each man needs to stand on his own square- and meet standards boundaries and expectations. If that means going outside the community, so be it. Also not sure why these shmenz bring up a fictional character from a TV show (who was not a good guy for how he treated Mayra). They bring Urkel up and then act like they said something smart.
@@justme2272As bw we have had and continue to have our unique experience when it comes to oppression, but under the patriarchy every woman has been dehumanized. That's how and why bw deal with both isms.
@@daughterofyemoja Agree but we are black women so we will focus on our own. Those other women are smart enough and resourceful enough to resolve their own problems. I support Korean women but not with my labor, time or voice though. The fact that women could have silenced men *forever* if the reproductive enslavement of black women were the forefront reason of why men should keep their hands off of women's reproductive rights. But white women with the loudest voices and most agency only used black women as the face of repductive rights but not our reproductive enslavement. There should not be any discussion about reproductive rights until the reproductive enslavement of black women is 1st addressed.
The reason men couldn’t live with women whiles she’s on section 8 is bc they were not married, you had to marry her in order to live there while you both received section 8 or government assistance. Men moved out and received their own section 8 bc they didn’t want to marry the woman.
Agreed! Without question! Just 47:07 was too funny.💀 Beanie said, "Don't tell me about the bible, no God."😂 I think he caught on that Baldilocks uses the idea of predestination/spirituality to remove accountability from bm.
YOU DONT NEED THEM! BW. REMEMBER THAT! ( BM Can't Protect You but You Should Get Behind BM! DOES THAT MAKE SENSE BW? ) NEVER HEARD EITHER ONE SAU THEY WERE HUSBANDS! .DID YOU BW?
@@ThemisThothI feel bad for you Themis .cause you got to watch ,create ,notes ,edit and maybe rewatch or listen to since you are commenting .here 🍲💊 💐 hope you feel better 😘
Its like its hard to even argue with them because they’re dog on remedial like they’re so slow its painful they have NO clue what they’re talking about 😭
You don’t want to pay child support? Then put a condom on. It’s as simple as that. A lot of these types of Black men are pro-life/anti-abortion but don’t want to provide for the child once they’re here. I actually love when they tell on themselves like this.
They literacy rate collectively are at a 3rd grade level. Their low vibrational conversations should tell you everything that you need to know. Rarely do you meet one who impresses you with their intellect.
@@PurpleGalaxies123 You are so right, Myra was Urkel's counterpart who loved him the way he was yet Urkel didn't like her. As a matter of fact Myra detested Stefan. THEY NEVER WANT TO TALK ABOUT THAT!!!!!!
Doesn't the bald guy have two kids by two different women, I don't think any guy like that should have anything to say about a women with one child or 20 children by however many men.
39:16 When you are highly uneducated but believe your words are correct because YOU are saying them, you WOULD be baffled when people treat you like you're talking shxt. They really believe they're having an intellectual conversation.
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
I hate the claim we choose to stay on government assistance. To quality, you have to be in poverty and you lose it once you start improving yourself since there's income AND savings limits. No one WANTS to live like that and stay that way.
Exactly! Plus there’s nothing wrong with receiving assistance when you need it. Especially when you’re paying into these social services through your taxed paycheck.
I honestly believe yellow shirt was GENUINELY trying to convey a message of true concern and understanding. Regardless of him not poessesing the appropriate vocabulary. I won’t speak ill of him. But shiny tip next to him - 🗣️ GET HIM OUTTA HERE!!!
NO, HE PLAYING" GOOD COP" STOP TRYING TO "FIND COMPASSION" FOR "MALES" TRYING TO "LOCK "YOU UP IN MISERY THATS WHAT RUINING YOU BW! (If I was a Woman I would Never be "attracted "to Someone who openly says " I CAN'T PROTECT, YOU! GET BEHIND ME.") FOOD FOR THOUGHT!
There are plenty of men on section 8 lol foodstamps all that. It goes by income. If you dont make enough money as a family unit, you qualify. If you make too much YOU need to put your baby mama in a house not us. These men did ZERO research and expect women to listen to them.
Men get this twisted a lot, it may require you to protect your woman out in the world, we can understand at times why you can't...but the one place we cannot understand is why the protection is not in the home. That is the first place we should feel protection, but instead, we have our men running after everything else, his admiration, his gaze, his energy is focused outside... leaving the entire household unprotected... a woman who is afraid of being hurt is annoying to a man, but she's losing the safety she needs to be what men say "feminine." I had an ex ask my why I was being defensive and "masculine"...if I'm constantly in fight or flight mode, then you have become my opp, I will guard and defend myself and children to the death...even if it a broken heart or a broken promise ✌️
I apologize for the long post. I have questions. 1. So they are embarrassed by black women because they are rendering them societally useless?? I didn't get the explanation of why Black men are so embarrassed by black women. And I am baffled at the contradiction; Beanie said Black women, or "most" of them anyway, were bitter, jaded, and broken, and they start the convo by saying black women are far too embarrassing, which is why black men are dating out. But at the end, he said, "Y'all need us" and we need you." BM do need BW, BW want BM, there is no need there, and even if there is a scenario where maybe a need, most BM aren't offering to fix it or want to be needed by BW, heck frequently, the BM is the root cause of the issue. "y'all said y'all are strong and independent, so you do it" so what need?? 2. Was the word he was looking for "grace"? We need to give black women grace as they give us grace. Because he said, I'm not necessarily trying to praise them. BW deserves both grace and praise! For what they have endured at the hands of not only the system globally but also the mistreatment at the hands of their male counterpart and community that treats them more like adversaries and cannon fodder than allies and to turn around and become supreme court judges and consistently beat the odds is nothing short of extraordinary. 3. when these dusties say that men are logical creatures and women are emotional, what does that mean because?umm, this whole video was their emotions combined with revisionist history and misinterpreted data statistics... like is that byproduct of patriarchy that men's emotions are now in men's mind facts or logical and women's are illogical?
They are embarrassed by black women because our success makes them look bad. The Brookings Institute did a report back in 2018 that basically said BW are doing great, It’s broken BM keeping the black community down.
I am 100% happy I stumbled across you and not that clip. I would never click on a video titled "Dear black women". Sick of men addressing women just to shame and lie on them, talk to other men about men; leave women out of it. Nevertheless, love what you said about logic not being based on gender (I agree), agreed on how they say one thing then say another. They smeared and lied on a whole group of women just to end up being a basic podcaster. They all repeat themselves. Losers I tell you. Gonna watch more of your videos ^_^
This is a convo with dumb and slightly dumb. Granted Dumb kept changing the subject and asked random questions which threw slightly dumb off but this was hard to watch.
Omg baldy a 2 parent household means nothing if the parents arent teaching the child how to conduct themselves outside of the home. If you shelter your child from the way the world is.,.your children will go buck wild and engage in unhealthy ppl actions etc. hell a shelter is a roof over many ppl heads so they are provided for huh?
They’ve always been more concerned about protecting their image while absolutely love dragging BWs image/reputation thru the mud especially for all to see. They’ve never hid their opinions of how much they devalue and despise BW.
Do you notice that everytime baldy is held accountable on whats happening with the boys and girls, he swiftly changes the topic but pretends he will answer the previous question? He did that a little after 45 minutes. He brought up Color Purple to distract from the question about the state of young black men.
They were living a different lifestyle because of what their men provided that black men couldn't because we were in the same boat, and still for the most part do not have control of economically, politically, and socially.
I was enlightened within the first 12min of this video. ( I didn’t know I needed this!) A major lightbulb turned on immediately. Thank you for this video Themis… continuing to watch the entire video now
You can stop resenting them by not giving them your energy and not expecting leadership from them. It helps when you realize that xys like this have been so thoroughly mentally conquered and buy into yt supremacy so deeply that they are willing to actively perpetuate their own oppression/NAB status to please their yt masters. It’s very 1984.
23:25 no matter what they're talking about, they always want us to be to blame for something... its never clear what, but it's our fault. Leaders take accountability. These men do not take accountability for anything.
I think both these men need to READ MORE INDEPTH LITERATURE. Beanie guy knows what he means but isnt articulate enough to convey his points accurately. They both watch to many videos to get their information. Baldy is typical i.d. i.o. t believing what he was told not what he knows.
This pic of you is giving very much demure, very cutesy, very glamour shots 😂
Purrrr
Agreed🫶🏽♥️
A letter to black women???? Dear black women?????? Ladies…return to sender…unopened!!!
Right. They need to Write to their Preferences instead.
half of them cant read and write anyway..Damn right-RETURN TO SENDER!!!
😂😂😂
On comma @@sonyasees1022
Obsession. Returned to sender😂😂
You wanna be the leader but don’t want the responsibility…. Sounds about male to me
Sounds black male. They want to spread their seeds but don’t want the responsibility of father husband LEADER.
They endlessly complain about child support 🤦♀️
But constantly want adult relations with women. 😒
But cant stop abandoning their women & children...these losers are full of drama. Real men are not drama queens-they fix things and bring the order.
But won't stop having sex
At every turn
But won't stop making children.
Not the morons telling me that it's impossible for me to be logical because I have emotions!
😂lol 😂!
Man! They are duuuummmbbb like big duuuummbb
They act like they don't have the same limbic system as we have. As if anger isn't an emotion that has clearly clouded their logic in many instances if the statistics Themis brought up are anything to go by.
@@nokoshadung5257yup, s3x and gun violence are prime examples of male emotions
Whole time they're more emotional than us😂
Why can’t they just stop trying to shame black women and hold each other accountable, like damn .
And it's having the exact opposite effect that they hoped that it would. Granted there are still some black women trying to fall in line, but for the most part, black women seem to be turning away in disgust.
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
@mufasa1794 I'm older (62) and I been. over bm since 2015. not waiting.for them to get nothing together....I'm done
@@mufasa1794 aht aht, I’m
28 ig that qualifies me as apart of the elderly generations ctfu but people in my generation literally are jumping ship and have been since the 2010s . Even my generations mixed and black adjacent celebrities like Zendaya and Doja cat didn’t even bother with them and it makes bm punch the air !
I was turned off since I was a small child. Never got caught up, I watch this stuff for purely entertainment because I’ll never be apart of blackistan.
What crown?! This fascination of these males thinking they some type of royalty is grade A delusional. They could’ve kept this hotep letter.
Right. Smh.
Hotepism makes them think that they have accomplished something. Its so pathetic, it's funny-claiming to have created everything, but ALWAYS losing- that just means you are a LOSER!!!!
Whenever I hear them say crown ,I think of the Burger King crown 😂😂😂
😭😭😭
But in the same breath are VICTIM of Mr.whytey
Black women are not damaged, nor are we damaged goods! Get it together 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Their jealousy has no end...sad
!!!
@@sonyasees1022jealousy and envy, I wish they'd just go off and continue tap dancin and failin wit them others. My teen son told me statistically bm don't make it with non bw. Buh go awf😂😊
I said the same thing, I'm over here like, what did he just say🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Right, WTH
I really don't like when they say "our women" please stop claiming me. Or im not a bw anymore I'm strictly ebony an ebony women.
Exactly 💯 I don't identify with Bm and their weird anti-family, anti-woman, anti-education culture ...please don't claim because I most certainly don't claim you.
The word ebony is so cute to me
Right 👏 👏 👏
I like that. Ebony. I can get behind that.
@@chinaking918 gurl that us now , we ebony.
BW own more home than bm. Get behind me cause I’m one of those women. 😂😂
Same and all of my sistas got their homes within 5 years time span, me being the latest. It’s 8 of us.
😭😭 log out hahahahahaha
Congrats sis, keep going, keep striving, and be good to yourself
I'm 64 and I bought my first house in 1998. Paid it off. Rented it out for 10 years. Sold it, then bought another smaller house.
Get thee behind me Satan!
Black men. What have yall done for your community? 😂😂😂😂
And what are they doing all day in the 'black' community , because it sure aint building and making life better.
They enjoy talking about women's hair and makeup, that's what they have done for the community. They are extremely useless
Ask again!
@@KierrasWorld they have discussed wigs and makeup
They hunching all day.
So the bm's image is tarnished by a movie, but not his dereliction in his duties- not by his fear and avoidance of marriage and family committment?
damn
❤
Sheesh
Exactly. Priorities are always in the wrong place.
It just depends on where you go who you associate with the black people I know including my parents are married, emotionally open, communicate, I think we all fall victims of our life experiences and the media narrative. Although black people do have their traumas the differences between both groups and other races in terms of demeanour is only apparent in the extremes and that is what is promoted in media. Also our obsession with celebrities which live completely different lives that the average makes things even more extreme. The resulting nature is black men who obsess about non black women and black women non black men. Both ideologies are extreme and also the education stat is true across all races school has been biased towards women for a couple decades now but that is okay as well it is a problem we are going through now globally.
@@tonytanner3048 school has been biased toward women how?
Imagine yelling we are providers then don’t want to pay child support
"Men do not see women as full human beings."
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏿👍🏽💋😉
Shid, some don't even see us as humans at all! We might as well had been appliances!
I’ll never understand their way of thinking. It’s just so…. I don’t get it 😢
@ElegantPaws01 They aren't either, then. They are in a woman's uterus for 9 months.
This is ridiculous. 🙄 I'm so glad I'm single. These men are just loud and wrong.
Ignorance at it's highest level
@@Virgoflower-h2w exactly. No facts. Lack of education.
@@Virgoflower-h2wit’s actually logical to protect your peace. You can play in dust if that makes you happy, but some women want happiness.
This. Every time they open their mouths it keeps me grounded in the single life.
@@chinaking918 Yes! 🙌🏾
I’m missing all this logic that men like this are supposed to have. The bald guy need to take his grievance to the white man, but I know he won’t.
Tell him again
Exactly
@@ThemisThoth do you realize in the Bible Adam blames Eve for everything? Even though he was tricked, and Adam shows the part in the disobedient behaviours again, God’s laws.
Bald-head guy is highly emotional and his thoughts are immature.
Beanie & Phantom Follicles sounds like the name of a cartoon 🤣
Sounds like the reboot of Beavis & Butthead, the black version lol
Omg right😂
3:36 I can’t understand how a group of people can be doing the worst in every category out of every other group. Can possibly fix their mouths to critique anyone.
It's because as a collective Black Women do not compare them to other races of Men.
As far as the daughter with the good dad who picked the wrong guy---- maybe she needed to have expanded her options outside of the community.
Exactly...Bw need to open up their options. Bm have been DESTROYING the dating pool since they decided to abandoned their women and children...so going on about 50 years now
He talking about "the father is clean and she sees him get up and go to work every morning but still choose the wrong guy" 🤦🏾♀️ like huh...is that all it takes to decide that someone is a good person or compatible with you? The bar is low!
@@muse5581 yes yes I agree. Also just because Dad was allegedly a unicorn doesn't mean squat about the character of other men in the community. Each man needs to stand on his own square- and meet standards boundaries and expectations. If that means going outside the community, so be it. Also not sure why these shmenz bring up a fictional character from a TV show (who was not a good guy for how he treated Mayra). They bring Urkel up and then act like they said something smart.
🤫😶
@@muse5581emotional absence can make a girl do that
Letter to black women or whatever😂😂😂😂, love this😊
Hahahahha lol
Girl-that child support chat with RFK will always brought up. 😂😂😂😂
The guy in white just like to hear himself shout and holla.
Hahahahaha
They love chasin y tness.
The biggest failures world wide. Embarrassing, aren't they tired!
That part 💯 I'm shocked that Bw are still entertaining these Kangz of Child Support Debt and Broken Homes.
Child support cause division?!?! NO...absenteeism does
Yea these two don’t need to telling black women anything with that kind of perspective … it all goes back to the dehumanization of women .
Very much so!!!
Only bw have been.
@@justme2272 I said Dehumanization of Women.
@@justme2272As bw we have had and continue to have our unique experience when it comes to oppression, but under the patriarchy every woman has been dehumanized. That's how and why bw deal with both isms.
@@daughterofyemoja Agree but we are black women so we will focus on our own. Those other women are smart enough and resourceful enough to resolve their own problems. I support Korean women but not with my labor, time or voice though. The fact that women could have silenced men *forever* if the reproductive enslavement of black women were the forefront reason of why men should keep their hands off of women's reproductive rights. But white women with the loudest voices and most agency only used black women as the face of repductive rights but not our reproductive enslavement. There should not be any discussion about reproductive rights until the reproductive enslavement of black women is 1st addressed.
The dust from these two men is making me sick...
The reason men couldn’t live with women whiles she’s on section 8 is bc they were not married, you had to marry her in order to live there while you both received section 8 or government assistance. Men moved out and received their own section 8 bc they didn’t want to marry the woman.
Right! The no man in the house rule was for substitute dad(stepdad/boyfriend) , not biological fathers.
they dont care. more than that, they cannot comprehend. so they are just going to keep saying the same shxt like robots.
@@ra1nydr0psthis. If they acknowledge it that means they’ll have to acknowledge the abandonment which they will not.
@@ra1nydr0ps it’s a deflection from them taking responsibility. Blame the white man.
@@ra1nydr0psYep, that part!!!
They say women aren’t logical so much because they are trying to convince themselves 🤣🤦🏾♀️. I have a redpill brother in law who does this.
Brother in law? Damn 🤦🏾♀️
Must be lol😭😭
Girl, couldn't be me. I'd leave the room every time he came around.
@@Heat_Rush I do
@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217I do too! I will argue with that fool though lol! I love him, but man he is screwed up!
"Can anybody walk in your house hold and change your kid's view of you?" Trick question: he doesn't have a household.
Ding ding ding you have answered correctly 🎉🎉🎉
He doesn’t have a house. Everybody knows that’s the woman’s house.
Yet they pretend everyday that they don't know the history of afro hair in America. 🤔
Even in Africa, girls in boarding school have to shave their heads bald to attend.
Ijs but these the same men who won’t acknowledge anything Ebony women have been through as a whole.
They both could've kept that dusty letter
Exactly. Nobody asked for this.
Yes, looking good. It was nice to hear Cyn G yesterday on your live.😍
I like when she comes iver
47:07 The way Beanie shut down Baldilocks when he wanted to go on that hotep/hebrew-lite/biblical diatribe tickled me waaaay too much😂💀
Loved that. But they were both horrible to me.
Agreed! Without question!
Just 47:07 was too funny.💀 Beanie said, "Don't tell me about the bible, no God."😂 I think he caught on that Baldilocks uses the idea of predestination/spirituality to remove accountability from bm.
YOU DONT NEED THEM! BW. REMEMBER THAT! ( BM Can't Protect You but You Should Get Behind BM! DOES THAT MAKE SENSE BW? ) NEVER HEARD EITHER ONE SAU THEY WERE HUSBANDS! .DID YOU BW?
Side bar….thank you Themis….now my allergies have flared up from all of this dust!
Hahahaha. Same, I had to share the dust😭😭😭
@@ThemisThothI feel bad for you Themis .cause you got to watch ,create ,notes ,edit and maybe rewatch or listen to since you are commenting .here 🍲💊 💐 hope you feel better 😘
I didn't know there was a "need love" chromosome
“Love” for them is enduring ay bee use, mistreatment, disrespect etc., for the women whom THEY see as valuable.
Hotep biology
My friend got with an urkel and now she’s a baby mama and he cheated on her and had twins.
Its like its hard to even argue with them because they’re dog on remedial like they’re so slow its painful they have NO clue what they’re talking about 😭
You don’t want to pay child support? Then put a condom on. It’s as simple as that. A lot of these types of Black men are pro-life/anti-abortion but don’t want to provide for the child once they’re here. I actually love when they tell on themselves like this.
Ar no time did they talk about starting businesses, investing, education.....what a waste!
They’re not trying to build their community, they just want to lean on patriarchy to guilt BW into being their submissive providers
They literacy rate collectively are at a 3rd grade level. Their low vibrational conversations should tell you everything that you need to know. Rarely do you meet one who impresses you with their intellect.
Themis is giving FACE!!!!!
Face card never decline, my god😭😭😭
He's so easy on the eyes make his medicine easier to swallow.
They're kings, they're leaders, they have the hottest podcast. Never heard of them. The delusion is real.
Dear blackmen your worried about the wrong thing right now, the Venezuelans are coming.
He said date the urkel, BUT urkel wasn't a nice guy. He was invasive, stalkerish and held double standards
Urkels either want baddies or non-black women. They never want a nerdy type black girl. Smh
@@PurpleGalaxies123you beat me to the punch.
@@PurpleGalaxies123 You are so right, Myra was Urkel's counterpart who loved him the way he was yet Urkel didn't like her. As a matter of fact Myra detested Stefan. THEY NEVER WANT TO TALK ABOUT THAT!!!!!!
Doesn't the bald guy have two kids by two different women, I don't think any guy like that should have anything to say about a women with one child or 20 children by however many men.
39:16 When you are highly uneducated but believe your words are correct because YOU are saying them, you WOULD be baffled when people treat you like you're talking shxt. They really believe they're having an intellectual conversation.
You better give us a rap, Themis😂
Purrrrr
✨Phantom Follicles✨will forever be a simple yet epic read.
Return to sender! Don’t type me anything.
I have finally gave up on bm at 24 and i pray more women my age do this. The older generations still holding on to them. I pray not gen z black women. Im only talking about fba women tho. ❤
1:01:31 shocker who would’ve thought that his father wasn’t in his life 😐
Log out😭🙃
So black women need to evolve from being pillows and pillars to being necks now? 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣 The goal post changed?
@@mizzpoetrics Yep, according to the guy with the beanie hat the man is the head and the woman is the neck…🥴
@@sephy7733I thought that the Women were the body 🤔
I hate the claim we choose to stay on government assistance. To quality, you have to be in poverty and you lose it once you start improving yourself since there's income AND savings limits. No one WANTS to live like that and stay that way.
Exactly! Plus there’s nothing wrong with receiving assistance when you need it. Especially when you’re paying into these social services through your taxed paycheck.
A person that doesn't have emotions is a demon! Then you wonder why people are losing love ones to violence.
30 minutes in: it seems they refuse to accept the logical conclusion.
OMG Did you name him Phantom Follicles? 😂😂😂
I fell out😂
Real men don't blame others
Excellent breakdown and analysis, Themis. It would be interesting to have these 2 guys on your show, especially "beanie guy".
Thank you and I would like to interview them
I honestly believe yellow shirt was GENUINELY trying to convey a message of true concern and understanding. Regardless of him not poessesing the appropriate vocabulary. I won’t speak ill of him. But shiny tip next to him - 🗣️ GET HIM OUTTA HERE!!!
NO, HE PLAYING" GOOD COP" STOP TRYING TO "FIND COMPASSION" FOR "MALES" TRYING TO "LOCK "YOU UP IN MISERY THATS WHAT RUINING YOU BW! (If I was a Woman I would Never be "attracted "to Someone who openly says " I CAN'T PROTECT, YOU! GET BEHIND ME.") FOOD FOR THOUGHT!
The hotep of it all 🙂↔️🧐
😂😂
Pure Hotepery! 😂😂
There are plenty of men on section 8 lol foodstamps all that. It goes by income. If you dont make enough money as a family unit, you qualify. If you make too much YOU need to put your baby mama in a house not us. These men did ZERO research and expect women to listen to them.
Is emotional wise akin to statistical wise 😂
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Men get this twisted a lot, it may require you to protect your woman out in the world, we can understand at times why you can't...but the one place we cannot understand is why the protection is not in the home. That is the first place we should feel protection, but instead, we have our men running after everything else, his admiration, his gaze, his energy is focused outside... leaving the entire household unprotected... a woman who is afraid of being hurt is annoying to a man, but she's losing the safety she needs to be what men say "feminine." I had an ex ask my why I was being defensive and "masculine"...if I'm constantly in fight or flight mode, then you have become my opp, I will guard and defend myself and children to the death...even if it a broken heart or a broken promise ✌️
STOP PITYING "MALES"( It Creates Resentment!) GET OFF THE LOYALTY TO TREASON! STOP SETTLING FOR EXCUSES!
Yes you can have section8 with ya man and public assistance. 😂
Themis this picture of you is very James Bond🥰
Very mindful😭😭😭
@Themis Thoth❤Come through James Bond. Lemme find out that's why Idris Elba was snubbed for the part 😅.
Wild! BM embarrassed by BW??? 😂 what?
I apologize for the long post. I have questions.
1. So they are embarrassed by black women because they are rendering them societally useless?? I didn't get the explanation of why Black men are so embarrassed by black women. And I am baffled at the contradiction; Beanie said Black women, or "most" of them anyway, were bitter, jaded, and broken, and they start the convo by saying black women are far too embarrassing, which is why black men are dating out. But at the end, he said, "Y'all need us" and we need you." BM do need BW, BW want BM, there is no need there, and even if there is a scenario where maybe a need, most BM aren't offering to fix it or want to be needed by BW, heck frequently, the BM is the root cause of the issue. "y'all said y'all are strong and independent, so you do it" so what need??
2. Was the word he was looking for "grace"? We need to give black women grace as they give us grace. Because he said, I'm not necessarily trying to praise them. BW deserves both grace and praise! For what they have endured at the hands of not only the system globally but also the mistreatment at the hands of their male counterpart and community that treats them more like adversaries and cannon fodder than allies and to turn around and become supreme court judges and consistently beat the odds is nothing short of extraordinary.
3. when these dusties say that men are logical creatures and women are emotional, what does that mean because?umm, this whole video was their emotions combined with revisionist history and misinterpreted data statistics... like is that byproduct of patriarchy that men's emotions are now in men's mind facts or logical and women's are illogical?
They are embarrassed by black women because our success makes them look bad. The Brookings Institute did a report back in 2018 that basically said BW are doing great, It’s broken BM keeping the black community down.
BM SOLD BW TO WP OUT OF SELFISH GREEDY PRIDE! AND NOW WANT TO BLAME BW &WM!
I am 100% happy I stumbled across you and not that clip. I would never click on a video titled "Dear black women". Sick of men addressing women just to shame and lie on them, talk to other men about men; leave women out of it. Nevertheless, love what you said about logic not being based on gender (I agree), agreed on how they say one thing then say another. They smeared and lied on a whole group of women just to end up being a basic podcaster. They all repeat themselves. Losers I tell you. Gonna watch more of your videos ^_^
Themis is the only BM whose content I can tolerate. He actually has something thoughtful to say and not regurgitated talking points.
It’s the intro and the red shirt for me 😂😂❤❤
This is a convo with dumb and slightly dumb. Granted Dumb kept changing the subject and asked random questions which threw slightly dumb off but this was hard to watch.
Projection strong
Omg baldy a 2 parent household means nothing if the parents arent teaching the child how to conduct themselves outside of the home. If you shelter your child from the way the world is.,.your children will go buck wild and engage in unhealthy ppl actions etc. hell a shelter is a roof over many ppl heads so they are provided for huh?
47:37 So... victims shouldn't speak up on the violence and sexual degeneracy of bm. Got it bro
The Color Purple tarnished BM image in America...😂
They’ve always been more concerned about protecting their image while absolutely love dragging BWs image/reputation thru the mud especially for all to see. They’ve never hid their opinions of how much they devalue and despise BW.
So how do women get degrees if we dont have any logic 😂
Themis you’re looking goodt! ❤😍
Thanks 🤗
Thank you 😊
🍿 ready. My boy Themis ah come true wid di facts di tea and di scandal this week!!!
just bc he didnt have an emotional connection with his father.....
oh, he cannot even see the irony
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Phantom follicles 😂
Is sending me! 😂😂😂
Do you notice that everytime baldy is held accountable on whats happening with the boys and girls, he swiftly changes the topic but pretends he will answer the previous question? He did that a little after 45 minutes. He brought up Color Purple to distract from the question about the state of young black men.
I missed this one! Ugh but i need to watch it to get over what happened to me today
Glad you are here now 🙏🏿
They were living a different lifestyle because of what their men provided that black men couldn't because we were in the same boat, and still for the most part do not have control of economically, politically, and socially.
I was enlightened within the first 12min of this video. ( I didn’t know I needed this!) A major lightbulb turned on immediately. Thank you for this video Themis… continuing to watch the entire video now
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Legit question. Black women how to not resent them (bm)? How does a black women not see black men as the enemy?
You can stop resenting them by not giving them your energy and not expecting leadership from them. It helps when you realize that xys like this have been so thoroughly mentally conquered and buy into yt supremacy so deeply that they are willing to actively perpetuate their own oppression/NAB status to please their yt masters. It’s very 1984.
I wish I had $1 for every bro.
23:20 why they making up statistics
When all the stats are against you, the logical thing to do is to invent your own stats 🙃
Cmon face!! I swear Themis whenever you post your pics i feel like i need a facial and to moisturize more 😅😅
Awwwww thank you 🙏🏿
1:10 how are they not responsible for their image in 2024?
8:42 I had to rewind because as soon as they started talking I tuned out.
Why do these men always bring SLAVERY, which they didn't experience???😅😅
Woy yoy , wah kinda bashment will this be...😂 Jesus tek di wheel.
The car already crash 😭
@ThemisThoth That thing was a wreck indeed. They are in a car with no bag based on those outdated talking points.
I’m so sick of them.
Did we damage ourselves???
He's tryna throw a spell on us. He needs to say that the ig bw he wants don't want him cause I can't relate to nothin he pretendin to h8t.
@@justme2272 Ikr
Yes. Always the woman’s fault.
No, the community failed you, the parents, etc.
Im not joking. The community has failed us both.
This is so sad
It really is
@@ThemisThothON ALL LEVELS
23:25 no matter what they're talking about, they always want us to be to blame for something... its never clear what, but it's our fault. Leaders take accountability. These men do not take accountability for anything.
I am so tired of them.
Or whatevah😏😏😏
Hahahahahaha
Yet the two of them destroying the bw image. Somebody make these two fools make sense..
46:00 - the man as the 'head' is leading by example, not authoritarianism
I think both these men need to READ MORE INDEPTH LITERATURE. Beanie guy knows what he means but isnt articulate enough to convey his points accurately. They both watch to many videos to get their information. Baldy is typical i.d. i.o. t believing what he was told not what he knows.
I could see that he was trying
@@jbell7105 you mean beanie, right?