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whose's watching this with me!! this show makes me value and love myself .... you cant have a significant other, if you don't have respect for yourself.
She definitely had a nasty attitude and disposition and I’m a mother of a two males and a female sooo having grown children you can voice/address your opinion & feelings without being nasty and rude with your words and disposition! As a black woman and mom that was distasteful and snooty.
@@leichaurellelux7547Her Mom Exudes Snobbiness And She’s Mean Spirited . Seems Set In Her Ways . The Parents Weren’t Giving Him A Fair Chance . He Didn’t Lie . More So Don’t Go In With High Expectations. Be Fair And Open Minded . He Was Trying To Appease Them And He Seemed A Bit Intimidated By Them Or AtLeast Their Expectations Of Him .
At first glance her parents are coming off as very unlikable, judgmental and pretentious - probably b/c of their delivery, but they do have valid concerns about him being a husband however they should also look at how unprepared their daughter is to be a wife.
Her parents need to look in the mirror way more instead of excessively criticising Vidal. From this video, I don't see someone ready to be a wife. Being a wife is not easy and you can't run to Mummy and Daddy when you and your husband get into it. She needs to grow up and cut the cord.
Yes...I would be happy to have him as a son-in-law you can tell that he loves their daughter and him being fake the man is trying to live up too their standards.
She dating a ADOSan doesn’t she know he’s a descendant of slaves and we have a negative net worth because we haven’t been made whole by reparations… she seems like she living a fantasy life the average blacks person has no money she even said she likes to use credit cards that tells me she don’t have it like that and her parents appear to be boomers so they might be work 300lbs it’s thier house included and about 50k liquid .. thiers no upperclass black people we have been sold a lie by celebs your net worth is all your debt minus ur assets 10/10 she’s living above her means
That's also the issue. He needs to step back and allow her to ask. And then even with her getting married, her parents should be the last people to call.
I haven't heard a single thing about what Laci brings to the table. Nothing about her character. Her loyalty. Her talents. Nothing. All we know is she knows how to spend money and receive gifts.
Her Dad is a good man. At the end, her Mom was suprise that her Dad gave the blessings. That look look said it all. I love the hug the Father gave them
Yes 😂 it was very “that is NOT what we discussed!” LOL and mama did what a good wife should and followed suit. she had to get her dig in but she definitely made sure that they looked like a unit.
That is the saddest thing sometimes when parents want things for their children based on when themselves are. Not allowing them to have a journey. They are missing out here on a man raised by 2 parents, educated, with solid friends. I just don't get what they want
That’s my question too! Her parents have the benefit of being established by virtue of their age. It’s unreasonable to expect a 24 year old to have the resources of folks in their 50s.
That mama…boyyyy! Nobody is ever going to be good enough for Laci. I like the groom’s crew much better. Laci’s dad was more palatable and forgiving. He gave Vidal a chance to redeem himself which he did. Still don’t know about Laci’s mom, but I hope Laci and Vidal make it❤.
What's crazy ISIS her mom once her fiancée to be so perfect and have it all together but she was a young mother and she didn't have it all together she had to work multiple jobs this man has graduated college one of the biggest accomplishments a person can have in their life and he sings so sincere and everything that comes out of her mouth is so negative about him She should be ashamed to herself
Vidal is so handsome wow. I can tell their marriage is going to be a blessed one. And as far as the father, I can see that when everyone is on the same page, he will go above and beyond for both of them.
I actually like them too together Vidal seems to be a good guy he was just trying to hard to get approval from her parents just be yourself everything else will work out
Nah he probably doesn’t take any crap from her, that’s why she is so messy otherwise. I love that he is still a strong masculine figure but allows his wife to be herself. He probably loves her and spoils her rotten that’s why she is so “high falutin” lol
Listen!!! When Vidal was talking to her dad while fishing, I got goosebumps! And I could see why she fell in love. Also, I can tell that he comes from a good family
@@daniellemckinley1046Only fools spend that kind of money on one day. After 25 years of marriage, my advise is to invest in the marriage (homeownership, businesses, investments), NOT the wedding day. I’ve seen very EXPENSIVE weddings end in less than two years. I’ve also seen modest weddings that lasted a lifetime. Some people are too caught up in the show of it all. That wedding day doesn’t NOT make a successful marriage. The work you put into your marriage is what makes it work.
I hope they had all the answers when they were young the way they're putting all this pressure on this young man. Like pull him in, guide him. Why give him such a hard time?
What I love is that there is genuine love and great chemisty between them both. They deserve the blessings and I wish wish all the best. They're still young and I'm sure their union will continue to grow.
Lacey parents seems as though they have their nose too high up in the air. And what about Lacey's OWN money? If something happens to her parents,God forbid, then what? Can she stand on her own without Vidal?
Right. If she calls and asks for a Gucci purse, like she said, the answer should be no u want it, u buy it. She can't stand on her own because she's never had to. So u can't expect her to lean on her man if she doesn't even know what it feels like to do it herself. Would she actually have this super extravagant wedding if it was only her and Vidal paying for it? Could she have actually afforded that Range without her parents? That she doesn't even know.
She's literally acting like she finally gave in and settled for him. But to me I think he would have the most options if they split. She seems chubby and spoiled whether it could be editing or not 😅
This the type of father in law I want and it’s amazing to see both couples have parents that are married that’s rare . My parents are married and it’s hard to be in a relationship who hasn’t seen relationships
I can’t give my mom or dad that much say in my marriage nobody is perfect and we have what he like and tolerate and need all the extra stuff the mom said was very uncalled for smh she giving hater
I've watched this show since the beginning...this the only one brought tears to my eyes 😭...I'm happy for them... I've been married 24 years they got this
They are Not compatible at this stage. This girl is still in a kindergarten level of a relationship, she need to be independent before getting marriage to any valued man. She is not ready to set up a UNION without her parent input. She is desperate to be seen to having all the trimmings of a funfair wedding BUT Not in the long term real Committed Marriage. Just waste of money to show off to society.
Why is all about material things. Thats not what the foundation of a marriage should be standing on. Just how much he can provide for her, what is she bringing?
That Mother! Wow! Seems very controlling! She acts like he is going to be her Husband! Seems like her future Son-in Law is going to have to live up to the Mother’s judgement , expectations and rules forver! She is so harsh and doing too much! 😢
I never understand this, God is giving you, the green light, to see who the person is and who they family is, before you marry them and giving you the opportunity to leave. Job 33-14-33 For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceived it not 😩
She’s still a kid, her mom is a mess, groom’s mom is beautiful,and it’s great to see both sets of parents together ❤❤❤Love all the beautiful, traditional names. Nice. You can spell them, and pronounce them.😊
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whose's watching this with me!! this show makes me value and love myself .... you cant have a significant other, if you don't have respect for yourself.
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I AM! 😊
I am! And I'm addicted 😅
I am watching all the way in South Africa 🇿🇦!!!!
I'm here with you all.
Mom has a nasty attitude
She definitely had a nasty attitude and disposition and I’m a mother of a two males and a female sooo having grown children you can voice/address your opinion & feelings without being nasty and rude with your words and disposition! As a black woman and mom that was distasteful and snooty.
She is when I seen the haircut nd nose in the air I knew what we was working with
I disagree she was pretty calm, just raised her concerns, wasn't rude about anything like that. I do think they should waited just a bit maybe though
@@leichaurellelux7547Her Mom Exudes Snobbiness And She’s Mean Spirited . Seems Set In Her Ways . The Parents Weren’t Giving Him A Fair Chance . He Didn’t Lie . More So Don’t Go In With High Expectations. Be Fair And Open Minded . He Was Trying To Appease Them And He Seemed A Bit Intimidated By Them Or AtLeast Their Expectations Of Him .
You crazy if you believe everything you see on TV
At first glance her parents are coming off as very unlikable, judgmental and pretentious - probably b/c of their delivery, but they do have valid concerns about him being a husband however they should also look at how unprepared their daughter is to be a wife.
This👏🏾💯
Yes! I think they’re pushing all the weight theyve been shouldering onto him when it should be equally distributed
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They don’t need to look outside and judge. They need to finish raising their daughter. She not done.
Her parents need to look in the mirror way more instead of excessively criticising Vidal. From this video, I don't see someone ready to be a wife. Being a wife is not easy and you can't run to Mummy and Daddy when you and your husband get into it. She needs to grow up and cut the cord.
The crazy part is...the mom is trying to be her daughter's biggest advocate and protector but the whole time the mom is the one making lacy cry!
This is a prime example of parents with too much input..
LITERALLY
Yes...I would be happy to have him as a son-in-law you can tell that he loves their daughter and him being fake the man is trying to live up too their standards.
She dating a ADOSan doesn’t she know he’s a descendant of slaves and we have a negative net worth because we haven’t been made whole by reparations… she seems like she living a fantasy life the average blacks person has no money she even said she likes to use credit cards that tells me she don’t have it like that and her parents appear to be boomers so they might be work 300lbs it’s thier house included and about 50k liquid .. thiers no upperclass black people we have been sold a lie by celebs your net worth is all your debt minus ur assets 10/10 she’s living above her means
Waaaaay too much
Wasn't the parents INVITED & ASKED for their opinions?
The dad hugging them both at the end 🥰♥️🙏🏾 they needed that and i honor him for that ✨
Yes, that was beautiful
I can't get enough of this show! They need to bring it back!
They are sometimes this month
I luv the connection she has with her father. He's a protector and a provider. He can sense when she needs him without her saying a single word 🩵
❤wish I had my dad still here, I'm 50, my sister on my dad side, she cremated my dad without me knowing, no body no ashes. Hi,from Chicago South Side
OMG I am sorry to hear that. My daddy transitioned last year, it's been hard but just know your daddy is with you ❤@@ms.peaches2834
@@ms.peaches2834 Hi Ms. Peaches, I sympathize with you & my prayers go out to you 🧡
That's also the issue. He needs to step back and allow her to ask. And then even with her getting married, her parents should be the last people to call.
@@ms.peaches2834😢😢😢😢you are strong babe! Your dad loves you and I’m sure he’s by your side most of the time!
I haven't heard a single thing about what Laci brings to the table.
Nothing about her character. Her loyalty. Her talents. Nothing.
All we know is she knows how to spend money and receive gifts.
Do your research! She IS the table!
@@daniellemckinley1046what research? lol this was her chance to show up. Nothing to see further.
@salome9124 you do know this was edited!
She was sent off with a credit score above 800, a maxed out IRA, and the only debt was her mortgage!
That part!
I was thinking the saammmmee thing!! All it seems she can do is spend🤦🏾♀️
Her Dad is a good man. At the end, her Mom was suprise that her Dad gave the blessings. That look look said it all. I love the hug the Father gave them
Right!! You can tell she gave her blessings because the dad did. She was not expecting him to give her is blessing
Yes 😂 it was very “that is NOT what we discussed!” LOL and mama did what a good wife should and followed suit. she had to get her dig in but she definitely made sure that they looked like a unit.
I’d love to know what her parents’ financial situation was when they were 24. This seems like a lot to expect from this young man at his age.
That is the saddest thing sometimes when parents want things for their children based on when themselves are. Not allowing them to have a journey.
They are missing out here on a man raised by 2 parents, educated, with solid friends. I just don't get what they want
I agree. I'm glad they leave their blessings
Exactly
That’s my question too! Her parents have the benefit of being established by virtue of their age. It’s unreasonable to expect a 24 year old to have the resources of folks in their 50s.
That mama…boyyyy! Nobody is ever going to be good enough for Laci. I like the groom’s crew much better. Laci’s dad was more palatable and forgiving. He gave Vidal a chance to redeem himself which he did. Still don’t know about Laci’s mom, but I hope Laci and Vidal make it❤.
I’m trying to figure out what her hang up is!
Her father is amazing. When he got up and hugged both of them I cried 😢❤
Me 2...the strangers on this show always get me in tears everytime
That mom is a piece of work.
Her mom needs to check herself and her attitude… she is not the prize she thinks she is.
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With that wanna be Tboz hair do 😂😂
What's crazy ISIS her mom once her fiancée to be so perfect and have it all together but she was a young mother and she didn't have it all together she had to work multiple jobs this man has graduated college one of the biggest accomplishments a person can have in their life and he sings so sincere and everything that comes out of her mouth is so negative about him She should be ashamed to herself
@@Ginaaaa555 her hair looks terrible😂😂😂
Her mom thinks she living her daughters life.
Take ya daughter and go on..they getting on my nerves ..that overgrown and over spolied bs is not cute it causes issues later in life
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Right!!!!!
It sure does
Any man that Laci dates she is
Always going too compare Her parents
To her man.
And always
Having to fill those shoes.
Exactly!
Vidal is so handsome wow. I can tell their marriage is going to be a blessed one. And as far as the father, I can see that when everyone is on the same page, he will go above and beyond for both of them.
I actually like them too together Vidal seems to be a good guy he was just trying to hard to get approval from her parents just be yourself everything else will work out
I agree‼️Nice looking couple.
Me too!!!! Yes, they both have growing to do, but no major issues that they can't resolve together. They get my blessings too🫶🏾
That’s a real Dad. She is twice blessed
When the dad gave them both a hug at the same time, that really touched my heart❤
I love the fishing trip ❤ her dad just needed to separate from his wife. She too negative.
Nah he probably doesn’t take any crap from her, that’s why she is so messy otherwise. I love that he is still a strong masculine figure but allows his wife to be herself. He probably loves her and spoils her rotten that’s why she is so “high falutin” lol
He’s letting her parents intimidated him and he’s panicking. He needs to man up and be himself
Listen!!! When Vidal was talking to her dad while fishing, I got goosebumps! And I could see why she fell in love. Also, I can tell that he comes from a good family
She’s not spoiled. Instead of buying her the Range Rover we’re paying for the wedding 😂
That's also a move to get her to cancel the wedding. See if she'll bite.
Have you priced weddings lately? You do know that they are about the same cost as a range rover.
@@daniellemckinley1046 my point exactly
@@daniellemckinley1046Only fools spend that kind of money on one day. After 25 years of marriage, my advise is to invest in the marriage (homeownership, businesses, investments), NOT the wedding day. I’ve seen very EXPENSIVE weddings end in less than two years. I’ve also seen modest weddings that lasted a lifetime. Some people are too caught up in the show of it all. That wedding day doesn’t NOT make a successful marriage. The work you put into your marriage is what makes it work.
@@GinoBlackOfficialAnd you're implying that they can't have both??
Mama is a tough cookie. Damn, what is really the issue? Vidal seems like a great catch. He treats Laci with respect and obviously loves her.
She's a piece of work...
He's a good guy. You're daughter is not a prize.....
Well hopefully the family sees the show
Lacey is definitely gonna have to give her mom boundaries! And be very careful of what she shares what goes on in her married home with her mom.
I have both a son and daughter and i truly pray that I get to know the difference between guiding and controlling and shielding them.
I hope they had all the answers when they were young the way they're putting all this pressure on this young man. Like pull him in, guide him. Why give him such a hard time?
Her mother acting like she better than the young man. Wow
What I love is that there is genuine love and great chemisty between them both. They deserve the blessings and I wish wish all the best. They're still young and I'm sure their union will continue to grow.
Lacey parents seems as though they have their nose too high up in the air. And what about Lacey's OWN money? If something happens to her parents,God forbid, then what? Can she stand on her own without Vidal?
Im sure she will have inheritance…she’ll be alright…her dad provided for her💀
It's called "PREPARED" Lacy has her own finances/career...we PREPARED her before sending her off like ALL PARENTS should!
I agree fully. Her parents are very arrogant and full of themselves. They aren't perfect and nor is she.
@@daniellemckinley1046Can you share the things you did to make sure that she was prepared?
Right. If she calls and asks for a Gucci purse, like she said, the answer should be no u want it, u buy it. She can't stand on her own because she's never had to. So u can't expect her to lean on her man if she doesn't even know what it feels like to do it herself. Would she actually have this super extravagant wedding if it was only her and Vidal paying for it? Could she have actually afforded that Range without her parents? That she doesn't even know.
Mom feels betrayed😒 Love Dad’s hug at the end🫶🏼
Love this show. It allows ppl to see issues without compromising dignity
Laci is spoiled rotten and Vidal is clueless.
Spoiled is right, ugh!
They’re happily married now boo
@@__Forever27 👻
@@cevanbrown2314Lol Your Hilar .
😂
The hug from her father is a powerful statement. Great job dad.
That hug at the end made me love this couple more and more and its okay to ask for help or time out
Danielle is too extra, Vidal is someone's child too.
I don't understand why everyone gets so excited ab out a house that does not belong to them. I mean it's nice and everything but....
I’m sure the producers ask them to do that every time.
Babygirl you need a backbone you cant have your mom intimidating your future husband
Her parents give off ‘my daughter should marry a basketball 🏀 player or lawyer’ not him …… they act as if he wasn’t worthy of her.
Muma needs her wig changin😂
They have genuine love.
I love how her dad embraced them both❤❤❤
The way Vidal talked about his bride …. ❤❤❤❤ so loving. He is such a good guy
Y'all got me crying 😂 I pray this marriage becomes all you guys desire❤
❤ Yes the tears🥹! Beautiful spirits Laci and Vidal 💕now that momma!🫣 I kinda feel bad for the daddy😂
The way Mom looked at the husband when he gave his blessing...babyyyyyyy🤣🤣🤣
Lacy MOM: I did not expect to give my blessings
Also Lacy Mom: if it doesn’t feel right you can get out 😂
Absolutely loved the moment with him and the dad.
The mother is judging too hard...Vidal is a young man who does not have all the answers as an older man...
Laci dad really heals a part of me that I will never get from my dad but I love to see my own people receive love!
The I was in Miami drunk and I decided to hit him up was a big throw off for me. 🤦🏾♀️
literally!! especially after friend zoning him for two years
She's literally acting like she finally gave in and settled for him. But to me I think he would have the most options if they split. She seems chubby and spoiled whether it could be editing or not 😅
Yea he should’ve curved her he’s a simp for that
Materialism is wild. It never appealed to me.
Right
With all that damn $ mums got ratchet tripped out wig 😂
This the type of father in law I want and it’s amazing to see both couples have parents that are married that’s rare . My parents are married and it’s hard to be in a relationship who hasn’t seen relationships
❤❤ SO many people have bad examples!
The hug at the end was beautiful.
That mama of hers….chile.
Her mom 😮
That wigs trippn 😮
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When she said, “there’s no budget. My dad cannot tell me no”, he made a face. That was a loud moment that set the tone of the episode for me.
The mom acts like it’s herself trying to approve to be in a relationship with Vidal. SMH. Laci got to set boundaries
The bride's mother isnt the prize that she thinks she is and neither is her daughter. Need to humble herself
Fo Sho
Big facts
They got money so they are the price fytb 😂
Nah they definitely are the prize lol. Vidal knows he wants to be next to money
@@Makavellah001not everybody wants to be bought
He seems like a really cool young man. Her Mom is looking for any reason to dislike him. Unfortunate situation.
The hug the father gave was so simply but so strong and loud ❤❤❤
Bride dad gets it as long as he can keep his wife reeled in, and dad supports this young couple they will be ok.
Her momma makes him sound like a random dog Laci found around the hood😮 RUN Vidal!!!!
Update: They got married September 2021
how did you find their update
That's wassup ❤
@Userrandom44477 I just saw it at the end of the video 😊
Her Dad loaning her his strength made me tear up.
She wants to be married to say she’s a wife & he is floating through life. He needs to get some direction & that may help his insecurities.
Yep
She might be spoiled but she is not selfish. She is loving.
You can’t be loving and attempt to intimidate your man to be like two other people
This was a great episode, thank you for no more rachetness going on...level head communication.
Her parents got too much input
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Poor Vidal. Her parents don’t like him 😢
I can’t give my mom or dad that much say in my marriage nobody is perfect and we have what he like and tolerate and need all the extra stuff the mom said was very uncalled for smh she giving hater
Her wig giving cra cra😂
I've watched this show since the beginning...this the only one brought tears to my eyes 😭...I'm happy for them... I've been married 24 years they got this
They are Not compatible at this stage. This girl is still in a kindergarten level of a relationship, she need to be independent before getting marriage to any valued man. She is not ready to set up a UNION without her parent input. She is desperate to be seen to having all the trimmings of a funfair wedding BUT Not in the long term real Committed Marriage. Just waste of money to show off to society.
Absolutely...The total recipe for Disaster!! Grow up!
Vidal needs to run!!
Concerning the provider concept, a lot of men can grow into those roles. Things happen with time!
This is one of the best couples I’ve seen , he really loves her and she’s still just a little scared . I hope they make it
He is a true father. I love that.
Omg who else is crying!! God bless this union I believe they truly love each other..
Love how her Dad embraced them both. That was beautiful. They loved each other, and I hope they have a long lasting wedding.
Her family is way too controlling especially her mother. Let him breathe and what about her, what kind of wife will she be?
It's a no for he was in a friend zone for 2years until she got drunk and decided to call him,she's too spoiled.
Lacie: LIGHTS, CAMERAS, LIGHTS & MORE LIGHTS!!! LOL😂
They didn’t catch a single fish 😂 they holding their fishing poles the wrong way.
Daaaaad🙌🏽🥰🙌🏽
YOU ARE AMAZING🙌🏽🥰👊🏽🥰🙌🏽
Why is all about material things. Thats not what the foundation of a marriage should be standing on. Just how much he can provide for her, what is she bringing?
He needs to do a forest gump and run, her parents will keep their noses in the marriage.
That Mother! Wow! Seems very controlling! She acts like he is going to be her Husband! Seems like her future Son-in Law is going to have to live up to the Mother’s judgement , expectations and rules forver! She is so harsh and doing too much! 😢
Imagine being called high maintenance because someone else can’t afford it and having supportive parents 😂💅🏾
He don’t have a chance! Her parents are too much.
Wow two beautiful families!
I love this show need more the 3days
Ppl need to stop trying to start a new family by including their old one. Like i laws are PURE PROBLEMS.
Her mother is obnoxious
I never understand this, God is giving you, the green light, to see who the person is and who they family is, before you marry them and giving you the opportunity to leave. Job 33-14-33 For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceived it not 😩
She not asking for designer stuff right now. He won’t measure up. This the 1st 2 minutes in the video
Facts 👊🏽
The mom is jealous of her daughter.
She’s still a kid, her mom is a mess, groom’s mom is beautiful,and it’s great to see both sets of parents together ❤❤❤Love all the beautiful, traditional names. Nice. You can spell them, and pronounce them.😊
Laci’s daddy was everything
He’s marrying a dependent child….Run….
That marriage is going to be a nightmare for him. Good luck with that.
This was such a cute couple and the colour coordination throughout was so cute
They don’t need to be on this show. Her parents are rude af.