I was in a horrible marriage! Abusive both physical and emotional. She literally tortured me for years! She was a narcissistic monster! Even after we had three children together she’d beat me and abuse me whenever she felt threatened with me showing any kind of independence. Her family saw it and she show tears and they’d support her. They made me the monster and I so wasn’t. It took the police and our 6 year old daughter calling the police when she had sat on me until I was unconscious that they realized I was telling the truth. I was put into a shelter and found help. I got my children as well. Men being abused is a real thing 😢
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've seen women be abusive to men and it's not right. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you shouldn't be believed. I'm glad you have your kids ( I think that's what your comment said). I hope you're safe now.
Bro its a female and your a man physically they cant overpower or even hit hard enough to hurt you ...dont get me wrong i believe men can be a victim of physical abuse but you can overpower that
The only thing worse than a Female Narcissist spouse, is a Male Narcissist spouse who has a position of authority. He has the physical strength And the backing of the system.
@@SoundsBogus yeah that does sound bogus. Females have the power of persuasion. I spent a year in a dangerous county jail fighting a case because a woman said I attacked her after she attacked me. They didn't give me a second to explain just back of the cop car i went followed by the most angry and biased interrogation I've ever seen. I can't even sue her because despite being released because of dropped charges, the protective order still stands
Right ! But I'd seen a video about a Karen princess messed with cops, who called daddy, daddy went to the scene and told her she would be in good place in jail and it's time to grow up... 😂
@@theresaslusher4305Right? I mean, yes she was crazy & OUT OF CONTROL for sure! But u could TELL she was in the midst of some episode & was REALLY not well! & For sure her yelling & SCREAMING was annoying, but she wasn't FIGHTING back aggressively or attacking. She was definitely resisting but that 1 officer, I felt like he was REALLY unnecessarily rough w\her AT LEAST 2X, maybe more! But when he 1st went to the car & pinned her down immediately w\his forearm across her neck, I 🤔 ummm 🧐 that's a tad excessive no? But THEN when he had finished cuffing her ankles together & went to put her seatbelt on & she leaned fwd to yell & he used his elbow on her neck & SLAMMED her head back REALLY FREAKING HARD had me😲😳🤯😤! I came to the cmts to see if anyone was saying anything Abt that & I must say, it's distressing that your cmt is the 1st I've seen!
As a woman, im glad the cops take these men serious. It takes a lot for a man to admit he was beat on by a woman and used to be he still went to jail as the aggressor bc "hes bigger/stronger/ect." Men can be victims too of DV and SA. Love that they were listened to and the cops werent manipulated by the women in these cases.
The police are definitely getting better with that but the courts sadly are not. My ex wife used to hit me all of the time. The cops even showed up but I couldn’t get myself to tell the police that she was constantly hitting me, scratching me, throwing things at me, etc. but I just couldn’t do it especially when my daughter cried and said she didn’t want Mama to go to jail. She was also a makeup artist for broadway plays, turns out one night she made a fake black eye and took pics, sent it to some girl who was in love with her who posted it all over social media. She even crashed our car on purpose screaming she was going to kill us, we flipped 3 times. Even after all of that I didn’t want to divorce and thought we could work it out for my daughter. Then one day I’m sitting in my living room and the cops show up and serve me a restraining order, made me leave my house. I produced videos and pics of her attacking me and threatening to burn our house down but the judge still put the restraining order on me & kept it going for like a year. After that I lost what little faith I had in the justice system. The judge was some angry woman who to me seemed like she just loves screwing men over. If I could sue I would. But that was years ago now so I’m just happy it’s over with. I went through hell for a whole year because of it. Her one redeeming quality was that she did tell the court that I’m a great father which is true but I also think it was just because she wanted her weekends free. Total narcissist. I haven’t been able to get into any meaningful relationships since out of fear I’ll have to go through that hell again. I date women but don’t allow myself to get close. So I guess you could call that ptsd. Even my lawyer was disgusted with the judge who didn’t even allow her to do her job. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
@@pinnacleproductions6275 I've been divorced for ten years now. I had my own issues in marriage as well. I actually did try to date for the first few years until I realized that my life is so much easier single. And now that I've made that decision I feel freer and happier than I ever have. For me once I took the time to work on myself and learn to love myself then I found that not only did I no longer get lonely but I realized single was sooooo much easier with no drama. Being in a relationship no longer made sense to me. So I hope that you learn to love yourself and learn to NEVER settle. Figure out what YOU want and what YOU need and you won't ever allow yourself to be in that again. I think often these people prey on those who aren't so confident and sure of what they deserve. Good luck to you both!
I'm really concerned about how ignorant she is to the law when she's in a position to be wearing an ankle monitor. She should be a pro at that s*** now. Anomaly is that how hilarious is it that she's worried about the ankle monitor detecting she's away from the house
And got illegal choked by a cop multiple times and almost killed it is illegal and prohibited for a cop in any state to use force on the neck so explain
It shouldn't happen either way,but I had a co worker that abused her husband. I knew her for a couple of years,and then kinda found out. Tough one, they divorced.
I had a GF that used to hit me regularly she broke my finger. She hit me with a 2 x 4 and knocked me out. She pushed me out of a window as I was trying to escape out of the house from her and I fell and broke my ankle three years after the relationship she found out I was having a baby had me charged with assault I had to sit there listening to her lie on the stand and even the judge taking sides with her saying that she was a brave woman. All of this made me sick to my stomach. In the end I received 18 months in jail, my child’s birth, and there was nothing that I could do about it. I’ve never hit pushed kicked abused a woman in my entire life, but it is what it is and I have moved on.
Time stamp 41.09 that officer who was talking to the lady who tried to attack the new girlfriend is very professional.. his explanation is perfect and he tried to make the lady feel more at ease considering the situation she is in. And how he said he will arrest her discretely away from her daughter is from the heart. It’s the first time I’ve seen an officer so professional 😊
@SoniaAchieng do you watch other videos like this? That woman got treated that way because she cooperated and didn't resist. That is rarely the case with these type of people. Fact is... you act like an asshole... you get treated like one.
I know a guy who can drink 1 tall boy beer and not drink nemore. He is not a drunk. I agree a lot of people simply cannot put down alcohol after 1 drink though. It is worse once you add a vehicle in the mix, black out, end up on the road, wake up in jail or worse.
@@shawnmendrek3544yeah I fall under the second category lol. I have been addicted to meth, heroin, and alcohol and I still say that alcohol is by FAR the worst of the three! More dangerous for the user and for others who interact voluntary or involuntary with the user. But this year marks 10 yrs clean and sober for me. I feel privileged everyday to have the strength, the environment, and the support structure to get my life back on track. Many aren't so fortunate to have the support I did which makes a HUGE difference.
Yet they legally sell it everywhere and promote it everywhere.Yet law enforcement and the system capitalize on incidents involving alcohol🤔🤔🤔🤔 Entrapment
Miranda rights are really only there to be a protective barrier to self-incrimination. You don't have to be read rights for detainment or arrest. But they ALWAYS know their rights, right?
Nice to see cops who know how to deescalate even when the person being arrested is drunk and hard to deal with. They deserve an A+ for a job well done.
How sad she clings to a garbage man,she crazy and he abused her vulnerability to benifit his peen. He doesn’t seem like a victim to me. And she didn’t assault him. Her being that mentally disabled MEAN SHE CANT LEGALLY CONSENT! I bet he’s a narcissist targeted a woman he could easily mentally hurt her with acting like he likes her , use her vagina then discard her then blame her for not being able to handle the hurt and letting it drive her to act out! He did that to her multiple times cuz he finds her reaction to discard entertaining!!!!
To the officer that arrested the mother without her kids seeing it. You sir should instruct classes on kindness. I know not all situations are the same but the level of kindness that you showed the mother and the whole situation was just amazing. Im not a supporter of LEO, but i am of that gentleman. Very kind.
He made this bad situation good for everyone involved. He respected them all. What a great guy!! Definitely need more cops like him!! You rookies take notes!!😊
Why would anyone not be a supporter of LEO? I'm not a supporter of corrupt people no matter what they do for a living. But to generalize leo's into one category isn't any more fair than it is to generalize white people, black people or blue people. There are both good people and bad people everywhere! Besides, what alternative would you propose? Should we do away with leo's completely and allow the citizens to police themselves? What do we do when people make their job so horrible by they way they are treated (even the good ones) that you can't pay anyone enough to be a leo? We're not far away, I know I wouldn't do that job in these times.
@villain-de-cat first of all lawyers aren't involved. The police press charges for the victims. 2nd if a victim is dumb enough to post bond for an abuser instead of getting a restraining order and getting gone then they are enabling the abuse. Not very smart.
I have two daughters and seeing this woman cry for her daddy kind of upset me. I know she was the one causing the problem but she obviously needs mental help.
This girls dad is at least 50% responsible for the way she is, arguably more. I know I hold myself to an even higher degree of responsibility than that for my daughter, she would never act like any of the young ladies. If she did the cops would be the least of her problems.
Cops overeached immensely when boyfriend said he was fine and nothing happened, why did they arrest her? He wasn't pressing charges, it just makes yout think twice when calling the cops for help, they should train to diffuse not escalate
In some states they have to arrest whoever has the least damage to their body, it’s the law to keep the peace because it may turn into something more dangerous or even deadly.
I thought the way the police officer spoke and explained things to her was really good. That's because she was willing to listen to what he said.@@HelenRoseOfLOI
Yeah, her ex-husband's girlfriend was telling the cop that she must be on drugs because she's lost 50 lbs in a few months. As if not being able to see your kids, your husband leaving you, not having a job, and being broke couldn't possibly be a reason for losing weight.
@@michaelharrington75She was saying that they were wanting the eldest daughter to live in the big house with the dad because the eldest daughter is loosing weight and they aren't sure if it is drugs or something else. I'm guessing they are also concerned about the daughter having an eating disorder. But they never stated eating disorder.
@@Ryns.16688 Could be that she was talking about the daughter, but it sounded to me like she said they've been trying to get her because her mother has lost a lot of weight in a short period of time, needs testing for drugs, and a mental evaluation. But, she very well could have been talking about the daughter? It wouldn't be surprising for a teen to turn to drugs, or lose weight because of the stress of her parents divorce, and all the fighting between them.
@@wendybarber5347 and what puts this woman into your “certain people “ category I’m sure you can see that the majority by far emphasize with her, so your unique perspective on her puzzled me
@@Fleshpuppet67 It's okay that you are puzzled and that people empathize with her. I've seen far many videos (police) and others to know that many women play victim when caught. Never take accountability for their actions because they are female. We can see it more now because of YT and such. And the last time I checked, I have a right to my opinion from my information. I've been around and seen a lot. From family, friends, friends of family and yes, that makes my perspective unique.
31:35 ... Cops could've at least let her just "See" her kids and make sure they are all ok. Since there is No Legal Custody Yet and most Importantly since her teen Daughter says she doesn't Want to STAY there... How many times we have seen terrible things happening to children in these situation. Her Mother's Intuition didn't kicked in for nothing. And even the Cops did not checked on the Kids well being. Anyhow, I Truly have respect to the Officer who kindly deal with the Mom.
@@D1722eieioyup that red flag told a lot. The daughter is literally begging. I’m sure that’s why the cop went easy, even aside from her cooperation, I think he really felt for her situation. He gotta do what he gotta do, though.
She literally was beating on him and trying to beat up his girlfriend. She is trashy. The daughter set it up and told the mom where the dad and girlfriend were. The mom is the problem here. Did we watch the same video. The mom and the daughter set up a scenario to beat up the girlfriend. It even said the teenager doesn’t live there she just stayed the previous night to set them up. She even knew she was at fault. Sometimes I feel like I’m watching a different video than you all. When my husband and I first started dating his ex would do shit like this. She had broken up with him months prior but when she found out when had a new girlfriend she got my address and tried to fight me at several different locations. She threatened to stab me. She threw bricks through the window of our car. She injured my 3 year old daughter one of these times. She called my employer said she was me and cussed my boss out and told her I quit my job. I lost my apartment because she kept stalking us at my apartment complex and causing damage. She finally was arrested for robbing and kidnapping an elderly woman. 4 years later when she was released from prison she was on my door step the next day. Jealousy is a hell of a drug. Women who show up and assault other women they have never met because their x is with someone else are truly crazy. She a truly dangerous woman. Thank good for cameras she would have lied and sent him to gel.
@@hermonorossco7988 Its the sisterhood. They could give a crap about the truth. They will always back the other women probably because they are like minded i.e trashy woman who love to play the victim.
These abuser women always manage to put on a victim front. Most guys they abuse haven't a chance of being believed. Nice to see some police who can see through to the facts regardless of gender.
Not always the case I was accused of been the female abuser cause of his smart mouth… luckily i got cctv to prove it wasn’t me I was the victim and now he is serving the time he deserves for the nose he broke twice… for the broken ribs he broke for the broken toes he broke for the broken fingers he broke…. For my kids still struggling… MEN AND WEMON ARE BOTH VICTIMS
This woman is obviously having a mental health crisis. It's very sad really. I have mental health conditions, I battle bipolar type 1, severe PTSD and impulse control disorder. There needs to be a mental health unit within the police department that are equipped to handle situations like this. Most officers unfortunately are NOT equipped to deal with this. In fact dealing with a mental health crisis, most officers react improperly. I pray that woman actually gets the help she so desperate needs.
At least the lady who said she was at hubby’s house to see her kids didn’t cause more trouble when the nice officer told her she was under arrest. I’m sure all LEO wish for every arrest to be like that.
The first lady really honestly needed a doctor not jail. It's so sad to see when a person with a real illness is treated like a criminal when in fact she just needed someone to care enough to try and help her. This is a real issue for many men and women who have psychological problems that may be undiagnosed or not treated. I know it's a very difficult thing to deal with from the outside and it's just easier to write them off but imagine if it was someone who you loved that was found in a situation where they are not in control of their own minds. You would want someone to show them kindness and get them whatever help they needed instead of sent into a broken system that will only send them deeper into an abyss where they can't even recognize themselves. I know I would want someone to help me.
What’s bothersome is that nobody noticed that the officer put an elbow up to her throat, choking her on multiple occasions, especially towards the end, where he elbowed her right in the throat, and one particular time before then when she was leaning back, the last time was when she was sitting up you saw that right with the seatbelt on he had her held up by her throat with his elbow the time before, then she was leaning back, laying down on the seat, and he had her by the throat with his forearm, crushing her windpipe you could hear her sound of your voice changed when she did that
10:43. That was a hard elbow to the face/throat as a result of the officers frustration, It’s very easy to see that the first woman is in some sort of psychosis and needs help instead of being brutalized.
So many Florida cases 😂😂 We should have our own dam channel. 41:29 that cop was awesome w the momma. She knew she fd up. And caused no additional issues. I believe she acted out of love for her kids. Not an excuse. But kids are definitely NOT pawns.
Most deadly abuse happens when someone tries to leave. My husband tried to kill me three times. I broke free 30 years ago but I still have nightmares. Woman can be just as abusive as men.
I'm proud of you for having such courage to leave 💝 for the nightmares - RUclips " 8hrs psalms , Psalm 23 & 91 " they are protection prayers, the vid plays quietly the whole night. Whenever I have a couple nights in a row I automatically know to play that. And it works EVERY time 🙏
U guys are disgusting that gave them no reason to be touching her like that and to be tasering her ass like wtf literal pigs I can’t believe this people that believe everything they read but don’t pay any attention to what’s actually going on and what they’re watching
Blondes and alcohol 🙄🫣 yeah an absolute nightmare blackout and no1 is there and then it gets crazy.. I'm sure there's nice Blondes out there but the 5 I've ended up with.. look attractive innocent then a few years go bye 🙈 this is not normal your younger there attractive use end up living together then the drinking starts and 😳 yeah this isn't the same women I met thought she was .. so yeah now I avoid Blondes 👱♀️ but unfortunately I have two sons to one and her mother was an alcoholic used to hit her .. found out her grandfather had abused her and as the years went past she went from this innocent attractive 20yr old woman to drinking until she was blackout drunk and 🙄 yeah wasn't fun my youngest son lives with me and my gf of 4yr she's petit ginger haired women privately educated comes from a nice family.. and our first year together she noticed thing's she would give me compliments and id automatically 🤨 why you trying to be sarcastic 🙄😦 I'm not your looking really nice .. and when she would open a bottle of wine I'd leave 🤚 no I no what happens next .. took over a year to relise yeah she was different wouldn't blackout get aggressive but yeah it took time. Then my ex would phone at 4am send love songs 🎵 old videos of us together.. say I miss you sorry it just comes in waves then two nights later she would be phoning saying she was going to beat up that little ginger bitch 🙈 ffs I'd have to say you come near this house it's recored I will tell the police and I'll tell them everything I no where you keep your cocaine ect .. then she would hang up and then my gf 😮 now I understand that's not normal.. Well that was my life and yeah according to my ex I'd been seeing my new gf for years behind her back .. yeah it was crazy so I used to find Blondes attractive but now it's a red flag 🙈
That last one really got me. She did the right thing by first leaving the restaurant to remove herself from the argument and then when it got too heated she called the police and they arrested her. There was so many clues that he was the aggressor and the small things she did was reactive to what he was doing.
That girlfriend saying that her boyfriend's wife has lost 30 to 40lbs the past cpl months doesn't necessarily mean she's on drugs. It could be because her husband of many years and father of her 4 children and 1 on the way, left her for another woman and took everything because he's the one with the job so he has the kids. So, it could be her nerves...I could be wrong...just saying🤔
Agreed. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, I lost 50lbs in 3 months just from anxiety, depression and utter devastation. I barely ate or slept, and when I did eat, I would get sick from the ulcers that had formed, so I could barely keep anything down. Exercise was a way for me to try to manage stress, so I dropped it fast.
@@justme240Stress doesn’t actually cause ulcers, but it can exasperate ulcers caused by other medical issues. The weight loss is so common during divorces. My neighbor and best friend went from 175lbs to 98lbs in six months due to not eating and paranoia of what he would do. He’s a diagnosed malignant narcissist and as bad as they come. I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now.
I think by that stage the cops should've been aware that she had some serious mental health issues. Not an open and shut case. You can see that she is seeing something else
How the hell does that woman think she’s a Kid??? I was a married mother of a child at her age😂 sick of these goofy Adults acting like they should be considered kids. Cringy as H.
I applaud that male victims are being taken seriously by authorities now, and while none of this behaviour can ever be condoned or excused, it is worth considering how tame much of the violence in this video is, when compared to levels of common male against female DV. How far we have come in recognising that all DV is wrong, and it’s great to see a crack down on all perpetrators.
1st female: drunk or high or mentally ill or a combination or all. Her excuses are lame. I just cannot be a cop. The patience that is needed to deal with this situation is just beyond me. 2nd female: she's been getting away with treating people like dirt and did not suffer any consequence and was surprised when she got tazed. Tsk tsk
Jesus that girl not wanting him to leave is insane. She needs to just shut up and calm down. No wonder that guy wanted to leave. Edit: As i watch more of this i have decided drunk chicks are literally the worst thing ever. Like dealing with emotional toddlers. Makes me lose my mind. Some of these cops have the patience of a saint.
😂 that first girl was throwing out everything in the book on that guy. Anything in hopes the cops would believe her. "Hes got a bomb, ah hes a terrorist, um ah.. hes got drugs in there, ah illegal stuff... um ah hes an alien!! Did you hear me! HES A GODAMN ALIEN GOD DAMMIT!! 😂😂😂 she even had pink cuffs on suiting
Good brief charlie brown! Ain't no way. Lol. Nope. Going to need a nap after I watch this cuz this lady is exhausting! There is something in the water in Florida and in Wisconsin 😂
95% of the time I am commenting on how immature or crazy these people are acting and how a lot of these police officers do a great job but that first video was just disturbing
That second cop should take a walk once a week or get a desk job😂. That little girl almost whipped his butt. He would of been in trouble if back up hadn’t arrived😂. He was so scared he tasered her after she had cuffs on😂😂😂
Those cops were AMAZING by making sure her kids didnt see her arrested. Im sure how calm and cooperating she was helped the situation and made it easier for the police to be so respectful to her regarding her children and not traumatizing them. Best exapmle ever of an actual good cop
The first lady was suffering psychosis. She didn't abuse her boyfriend. She needed a psychiatrist not jail. I heard Dayton does this all the time to ppl.
"Why are you doing this to me?" They aren't doing anything to you!!! You did it to yourself!!! Take some responsibility for your actions lady!!!! You made your choices!!! And NO MA'AM you cannot put your hands on anyone!!! Men need to stop letting these women get away with putting their hands on them just because they dont wanna "look weak" or whatever!! Men can be victims of DV just as much as women can!!!! Most men suffer in silence and just deal with it, which is so not ok!!!!
As a male that's been thru this, the most painful part is your male friends calling you a p*ssy & laughing at you. With a really toxic partner calling the cops is out of the question bc b4 they get there she'd lock herself in he bathroom & smack herself in the face with a curling iron or something. You are absolutely correct, it's not a gender thing. People shouldn't hit people, especially those you lay your head down next to at night. Peace
Absolutely. I must have grown up "different" cuz when a police officer was asking "those" questions, I would be as kind as possible, knowing at this point they are my enemy (they're gathering evidence against me, so not a friend). I learned quick to shut up, comply & later talk to my lawyer. Some of these hot heads have a, no joke, "I wish u would" attitude. I had a cop who during our interaction kept making his gun completely up for grabs. 1st, no, 2nd it was in a 3 step holster so even if, I wasn't gonna get it, 3rd NOO. these peoples have hard ass jobs no doubt. But a lot of them, to make life easier, put u in 3 catagories. Best to shut up, keep your wits & tell the PD, this guy needs a win as bad as you do. Peace
I believe the Depp/Heard case has a lot to do with men being believed with regard to domestic v cases. Are rightly so. All the years that men were immediately thought to be the perportrators without question is sad. No one deserves to be abused. In my humble opinion.
Absolutely agree! I truly believe it set a new precedent for male victims everywhere. I’m so happy JD got some justice for what he endured. Props to all guys finally being “heard” …. 💙
4yrs of hell for me. She will never be held accountable. I'm lucky I'm alive today after being stabbed and had guns pulled on me, being attacked in my sleep ect.
Do not agree how rough he was with a 22 year old half the size of him and teasing her that much was ridiculous. She may have been an idiot but did not deserve to be wrecked around and pretty much dragged down the stairs that’s supposed to be professional police officers not bullies
What do you know? The perp was calm, and she realized she screwed up. Cop treated her reasonable and respectful. Why can't both sides be like this more often?
Good grief. What I’d do for a boyfriend and these “women” abuse theirs. They were lucky to have had a boyfriend but $¢rewed it the f*** up. 🤦🏻♀️🙎🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Cherish your freedom. When people in relationships speak of envy over people free of such bondage, they do so for good reason. The grass always seems greener on the other side until you get there & realize it's a wasteland. Please try hard to be happy to be free of such shackles.
I've been married for almost 40 years, relationships are hard and it doesn't stop after the wedding. The trick is to find someone that is honest and under stands the word loyalty. You must also have other things physically, emotionally, and morally. Also watch out for the drinking habits, to drink to ease emotional turmoil, or for fun is a super big red flag. If that's all you're seeing find a different circle of friends and potentials.
@@anndennis7163 That's also really fair advice especially about the drinking. I allowed drinking to take a lot of opportunities from me. These days I can't even believe it's a legal thing. I think I'm done trying to ever trust anybody else though lol. That's all on you people Good luck
I say this in a lot of videos but technically you can be arrested without your rights being read and you can be read your rights without being arrested so people saying this is illegal you haven't read me all rights The only time anyone needs to be out of their rights red is when they are going to be asked questions or they could incriminate themselves by telling the police something so again you do not need your rights read to you because you're in cuffs and just because you're not in cuffs doesn't mean you can't get your rights read to you.
In a court of law, if you’re not read your Miranda rights, then you cannot be detained and you cannot be held in that is actually been held up in court and people have been released because the cop forgot to read somebody their Miranda rights
That cop in the first case REALLY loved choking tf out of that woman who was cuffed😑 First choked her w his forearm w her hands cuffed behind her back, then choked her w his elbow hard w her hands and legs cuffed......... Ik she was acting really weird but she was clearly having a psychotic break or drugs or both.. I heard the boyfriend saying her dad took her to the mental hospital. I think that was excessive force and he needs to keep his hands/arms/elbows off of peoples necks, especially if they are already cuffed.
I agree 100% Officers need to be taught empathy. That woman was either mentally ill or affected by drugs and needed help. If the officers had taken their time to talk to her, and allowed her to feel heard, they probably could have gotten her to agree to go in an ambulance to get checked out at the hospital. These police officers need to learn how to Protect and Serve.
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I was in a horrible marriage! Abusive both physical and emotional. She literally tortured me for years! She was a narcissistic monster! Even after we had three children together she’d beat me and abuse me whenever she felt threatened with me showing any kind of independence. Her family saw it and she show tears and they’d support her. They made me the monster and I so wasn’t. It took the police and our 6 year old daughter calling the police when she had sat on me until I was unconscious that they realized I was telling the truth. I was put into a shelter and found help. I got my children as well. Men being abused is a real thing 😢
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've seen women be abusive to men and it's not right. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you shouldn't be believed. I'm glad you have your kids ( I think that's what your comment said). I hope you're safe now.
Evil DOES not discriminate! Peace and BLESSINGS to You and Yours
From an OLE BIRDIE HERE IN MI
Bro its a female and your a man physically they cant overpower or even hit hard enough to hurt you ...dont get me wrong i believe men can be a victim of physical abuse but you can overpower that
The only thing worse than a Female Narcissist spouse, is a Male Narcissist spouse who has a position of authority. He has the physical strength And the backing of the system.
@@SoundsBogus yeah that does sound bogus. Females have the power of persuasion. I spent a year in a dangerous county jail fighting a case because a woman said I attacked her after she attacked me. They didn't give me a second to explain just back of the cop car i went followed by the most angry and biased interrogation I've ever seen. I can't even sue her because despite being released because of dropped charges, the protective order still stands
Parents. Stop treating your girls like they're princesses and can do no wrong. Because, then society has to deal with it.
Right ! But I'd seen a video about a Karen princess messed with cops, who called daddy, daddy went to the scene and told her she would be in good place in jail and it's time to grow up... 😂
@@MrsSandycat I saw that too.
True 😢
Truth though.
Very true
The First Lady was really crazy. That was so sad. She needs a mental home.
They treated her poorly as well.
She was complaining about the monitor, but she walked away from porch then sat down in front of police car. Does that make her legit crazy or a karen?
Mental Illness is often traumatic .
@@carolynmotley3112mental illness
@@theresaslusher4305Right? I mean, yes she was crazy & OUT OF CONTROL for sure! But u could TELL she was in the midst of some episode & was REALLY not well! & For sure her yelling & SCREAMING was annoying, but she wasn't FIGHTING back aggressively or attacking. She was definitely resisting but that 1 officer, I felt like he was REALLY unnecessarily rough w\her AT LEAST 2X, maybe more! But when he 1st went to the car & pinned her down immediately w\his forearm across her neck, I 🤔 ummm 🧐 that's a tad excessive no? But THEN when he had finished cuffing her ankles together & went to put her seatbelt on & she leaned fwd to yell & he used his elbow on her neck & SLAMMED her head back REALLY FREAKING HARD had me😲😳🤯😤! I came to the cmts to see if anyone was saying anything Abt that & I must say, it's distressing that your cmt is the 1st I've seen!
As a woman, im glad the cops take these men serious. It takes a lot for a man to admit he was beat on by a woman and used to be he still went to jail as the aggressor bc "hes bigger/stronger/ect." Men can be victims too of DV and SA. Love that they were listened to and the cops werent manipulated by the women in these cases.
The police are definitely getting better with that but the courts sadly are not. My ex wife used to hit me all of the time. The cops even showed up but I couldn’t get myself to tell the police that she was constantly hitting me, scratching me, throwing things at me, etc. but I just couldn’t do it especially when my daughter cried and said she didn’t want Mama to go to jail.
She was also a makeup artist for broadway plays, turns out one night she made a fake black eye and took pics, sent it to some girl who was in love with her who posted it all over social media.
She even crashed our car on purpose screaming she was going to kill us, we flipped 3 times. Even after all of that I didn’t want to divorce and thought we could work it out for my daughter.
Then one day I’m sitting in my living room and the cops show up and serve me a restraining order, made me leave my house.
I produced videos and pics of her attacking me and threatening to burn our house down but the judge still put the restraining order on me & kept it going for like a year.
After that I lost what little faith I had in the justice system. The judge was some angry woman who to me seemed like she just loves screwing men over.
If I could sue I would. But that was years ago now so I’m just happy it’s over with. I went through hell for a whole year because of it.
Her one redeeming quality was that she did tell the court that I’m a great father which is true but I also think it was just because she wanted her weekends free. Total narcissist.
I haven’t been able to get into any meaningful relationships since out of fear I’ll have to go through that hell again. I date women but don’t allow myself to get close. So I guess you could call that ptsd.
Even my lawyer was disgusted with the judge who didn’t even allow her to do her job. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
@@pinnacleproductions6275 I've been divorced for ten years now. I had my own issues in marriage as well. I actually did try to date for the first few years until I realized that my life is so much easier single. And now that I've made that decision I feel freer and happier than I ever have. For me once I took the time to work on myself and learn to love myself then I found that not only did I no longer get lonely but I realized single was sooooo much easier with no drama. Being in a relationship no longer made sense to me. So I hope that you learn to love yourself and learn to NEVER settle. Figure out what YOU want and what YOU need and you won't ever allow yourself to be in that again. I think often these people prey on those who aren't so confident and sure of what they deserve. Good luck to you both!
In the first case...am I the only one who questioned why the officer's hand cuffs were pink?😮
I think they are a smaller set of cuffs. Some women have small wrists and hands and they can get out of the cuffs
He shopped ALOT at Adam and Eves 😉
its to support breast cancer .
"is you LGB cuz yo gun pink"
He got them at the slip and slide 😘
If you're wearing an ankle monitor honey you are state property
She was legit concerned about being sent to jail for the ankle monitor due to being transported to jail for something else.
I'm really concerned about how ignorant she is to the law when she's in a position to be wearing an ankle monitor. She should be a pro at that s*** now. Anomaly is that how hilarious is it that she's worried about the ankle monitor detecting she's away from the house
What do you think is wrong with her? Drugs? I’ve never seen anyone this batshit crazy before 😱
Humans can't be anybody's property no matter what they did wrong.
@@nervsouly
12:50 "This is a studio apartment, so the wine fell off the fridge." The hazards of living in a studio apartment 😅.
😂😂😂😂...
Female logic
"My ankle monitor, I'm gunna be in trouble" you're in the back of a cop car dear. You're already in trouble
And she was the one who walked away from the porch.
and refused to go back to the porch when the officer ordered her to, leading to her detainment.
Typical reaction from a woman who isn't getting her way and thinks she's always the victim.
And got illegal choked by a cop multiple times and almost killed it is illegal and prohibited for a cop in any state to use force on the neck so explain
I think it's great that male victims of DV are getting more attention.
500 years too late but oh well.
That's wrong ! ❤ women Can be equally as violent
Be nice if women got some justice too. O they talk a good story,but victim blaming exists and the courts don’t believe us.
Pussies
It shouldn't happen either way,but I had a co worker that abused her husband. I knew her for a couple of years,and then kinda found out. Tough one, they divorced.
There's a big black battery, a bike, no a bomb!!! There's a bomb in there 😂😅
Thought she was going for a big black 🐓lol
Some sort of mental problem I guess maybe a mix of drugs on the side.
And she was cool wit it up till now😂😂😂😂😂😂
She wants to take the dog to jail
This really makes me wonder how many mentally ill people cops have no choice but to detain. It's sad for all involved 😞
I had a GF that used to hit me regularly she broke my finger. She hit me with a 2 x 4 and knocked me out. She pushed me out of a window as I was trying to escape out of the house from her and I fell and broke my ankle three years after the relationship she found out I was having a baby had me charged with assault I had to sit there listening to her lie on the stand and even the judge taking sides with her saying that she was a brave woman. All of this made me sick to my stomach. In the end I received 18 months in jail, my child’s birth, and there was nothing that I could do about it. I’ve never hit pushed kicked abused a woman in my entire life, but it is what it is and I have moved on.
Im srry but you are a man right??? Women are not physical stronger then us
Holy crap dude I am so sorry
Sounds like you aren’t the brightest and didn’t make a case. All you can do now is learn from your mistakes.
Do not worry. What goes around comes around. She will have her comeuppance.
Thanks God you moved on and another man will prove it trust me.
Time stamp 41.09 that officer who was talking to the lady who tried to attack the new girlfriend is very professional.. his explanation is perfect and he tried to make the lady feel more at ease considering the situation she is in. And how he said he will arrest her discretely away from her daughter is from the heart. It’s the first time I’ve seen an officer so professional 😊
Literally came to the comments for this exact thing! It’s not hard to be professional and empathetic
I bet he wouldn't have been as patient had the woman been black or brown
@@SoniaAchiengI bet he would have !
@SoniaAchieng do you watch other videos like this? That woman got treated that way because she cooperated and didn't resist. That is rarely the case with these type of people. Fact is... you act like an asshole... you get treated like one.
Same here I was amazing cop @@wheresmyparade
Well, the 1st woman is obviously insane.
The first case is always a hoot. You can see her actually trying to think up excuses in real time to try and avoid the situation.
I have a suspicion that she might be more schizophrenic than a hoot xD
"HE'S GOT A...A...A BLACK BAG"...."IT'S A... A BOX..A BLACK BATTERY...IT'S A ... A BOMB....HE'S GOT A BOMB" ...."HE'S YOUR SON" ..."DADDY HELP!!!!"😏
That whole Houshold was just lying.
she got the tat on the one arm/side started, not finished, that's expensive.
@@sandralee8855 I REALLY hope everyone in her home town sees this so they can whisper, sneer, and point and laugh at what a freak she is! Lol. 😂😂
So far at least one of the cops showed understanding and compassion. Props to that officer
The first woman should get an additional charge for wearing a black strapped bra with a tube top dress.
😂 fr
can I also add her voice is annoying
She needs a trip to that gravel pit like Cricket got lol
Dumb
But she's got some pretty pink handcuffs, so it all worked out.
Alcohol wastes lives
TRUTH it destorys
I know a guy who can drink 1 tall boy beer and not drink nemore. He is not a drunk. I agree a lot of people simply cannot put down alcohol after 1 drink though. It is worse once you add a vehicle in the mix, black out, end up on the road, wake up in jail or worse.
@@shawnmendrek3544yeah I fall under the second category lol. I have been addicted to meth, heroin, and alcohol and I still say that alcohol is by FAR the worst of the three! More dangerous for the user and for others who interact voluntary or involuntary with the user. But this year marks 10 yrs clean and sober for me. I feel privileged everyday to have the strength, the environment, and the support structure to get my life back on track. Many aren't so fortunate to have the support I did which makes a HUGE difference.
Meth
Yet they legally sell it everywhere and promote it everywhere.Yet law enforcement and the system capitalize on incidents involving alcohol🤔🤔🤔🤔 Entrapment
“Are not gonna read me my rights first?!”
Savage Cop: “NOOPE” 💀
Right?! It's hilarious that people think that they have to be read their rights to be arrested etc. Lmao 🤣 #IgnoranceIsBliss?
Miranda rights are really only there to be a protective barrier to self-incrimination. You don't have to be read rights for detainment or arrest. But they ALWAYS know their rights, right?
They only have to read Miranda rights BEFORE THEY QUESTION YOU. they don’t have to at arrest or before 😊
That I always thought had to be done.
@@davinahorton4999nope. They only have to read them to you before asking you questions about the crime you are suspected of committing. That's all
Nice to see cops who know how to deescalate even when the person being arrested is drunk and hard to deal with. They deserve an A+ for a job well done.
1:38 "We have sex occasionally and that's as far as our relationship goes" like dang it 🤣
How sad she clings to a garbage man,she crazy and he abused her vulnerability to benifit his peen. He doesn’t seem like a victim to me. And she didn’t assault him. Her being that mentally disabled MEAN SHE CANT LEGALLY CONSENT! I bet he’s a narcissist targeted a woman he could easily mentally hurt her with acting like he likes her , use her vagina then discard her then blame her for not being able to handle the hurt and letting it drive her to act out! He did that to her multiple times cuz he finds her reaction to discard entertaining!!!!
Did you ever notice alot of domestics involve alcohol?
And it's.legal.
Yes .drugs also.
Yes! It's uncanny 😅
Nah it's all pothead fighting over the last snack
Na alchol doesnt effect your brain does it? 😂😂😂😂
To the officer that arrested the mother without her kids seeing it. You sir should instruct classes on kindness. I know not all situations are the same but the level of kindness that you showed the mother and the whole situation was just amazing. Im not a supporter of LEO, but i am of that gentleman. Very kind.
Most Definitely, he did everything with HUGE respect and kindness!!🐾🐾
She didnt fight, scream, and holler like an idiot. Thats the difference
Yeah the kids are innocent. They don't need to see that.
He made this bad situation good for everyone involved. He respected them all. What a great guy!! Definitely need more cops like him!! You rookies take notes!!😊
Why would anyone not be a supporter of LEO? I'm not a supporter of corrupt people no matter what they do for a living. But to generalize leo's into one
category isn't any more fair than it is to generalize white people, black people or blue people. There are both good people and bad people everywhere!
Besides, what alternative would you propose? Should we do away with leo's completely and allow the citizens to police themselves? What do we do when
people make their job so horrible by they way they are treated (even the good ones) that you can't pay anyone enough to be a leo? We're not far away,
I know I wouldn't do that job in these times.
Guys have to press charges. It's not doing the abusers any favors if they aren't held accountable.
Yea so I can then pay lawyer court cost an bond money to get my spouse out cause we had a argument
@villain-de-cat first of all lawyers aren't involved. The police press charges for the victims. 2nd if a victim is dumb enough to post bond for an abuser instead of getting a restraining order and getting gone then they are enabling the abuse. Not very smart.
I have two daughters and seeing this woman cry for her daddy kind of upset me. I know she was the one causing the problem but she obviously needs mental help.
This girls dad is at least 50% responsible for the way she is, arguably more. I know I hold myself to an even higher degree of responsibility than that for my daughter, she would never act like any of the young ladies. If she did the cops would be the least of her problems.
Must be nice for to have parents to call to bail you out. My dad died when I was 8 and my mom deleted herself in 2007.
I like the way you have race loyalty! You'd defend any monster if they were your race
@@SoniaAchieng says the person that comments about race on every single post they can find. Seek help.
@@SoniaAchieng Sounds like you have some "race loyalty" too. Getting triggered by the fact that the police didn't brutally murder a white woman.
Cops overeached immensely when boyfriend said he was fine and nothing happened, why did they arrest her? He wasn't pressing charges, it just makes yout think twice when calling the cops for help, they should train to diffuse not escalate
In some states they have to arrest whoever has the least damage to their body, it’s the law to keep the peace because it may turn into something more dangerous or even deadly.
I have mixed feelings on that one because I do believe cops overreached, but she kept acting so stupid and saying stupid things. Annoying AF.
It's cause he told the cops that she strangled him while attempting to keep him from leaving. That was enough said for the cops to take her.
The first woman might be nuts but ive seen no evidence that she abused her boyfriend/husband...she's just mental
Worse, the officer IMO used excessive force by slamming his arm into her throat twice. Totally uncalled for.
@@darothycrosby5084 she was kicking him..
Abuse can go beyond the physical
@@darothycrosby5084 No it wasn't. would not have happened at all if she was complying with them, instead of making an exhibition of herself.
@@maxthecat14 That's your opinion. My opinion differs.
That mother handled her arrest so well. We all make mistakes at times. She even knew she made a mistake.
I actually loved how she realized her mistake and co-operated. I felt sorry for her at that point.
I thought the way the police officer spoke and explained things to her was really good. That's because she was willing to listen to what he said.@@HelenRoseOfLOI
That poor lady snapped 4 kids one on the way and sperm donor rocking on.Id have done a proper job .🛑
Poor fragile human beings, all of them, all of us.
Aren’t drugs and alcohol great?🙄
I honestly don’t know how these cops deal with these people. Much respect to them.
I pity the lady who cooperated & admitted that she messed up ..
Yeah, her ex-husband's girlfriend was telling the cop that she must be on drugs because she's lost 50 lbs in a few months. As if not being able to see your kids, your husband leaving you, not having a job, and being broke couldn't possibly be a reason for losing weight.
I pity women, actually saw one girl the other day who could be a cross-country national champ. She was pretty cool.
@@michaelharrington75She was saying that they were wanting the eldest daughter to live in the big house with the dad because the eldest daughter is loosing weight and they aren't sure if it is drugs or something else. I'm guessing they are also concerned about the daughter having an eating disorder. But they never stated eating disorder.
@@michaelharrington75 I think you misunderstood. She was talking about the daughter.
@@Ryns.16688 Could be that she was talking about the daughter, but it sounded to me like she said they've been trying to get her because her mother has lost a lot of weight in a short period of time, needs testing for drugs, and a mental evaluation. But, she very well could have been talking about the daughter? It wouldn't be surprising for a teen to turn to drugs, or lose weight because of the stress of her parents divorce, and all the fighting between them.
"I'm literally 22" EXACTLY act like it. You're not a child. You're an adult.
Why is it almost ALWAYS Florida? LMAO
Something in the water?!? 😂😂
I live in FL. I thought the same thing. I’m 51. How much longer do I have before a serial k1ller gets me!?!
I like her reaction "i just put myself in a bad situation" you dont see alot of people owning their own BS
Nah, she got caught and they didn't believe her. She'll be sneakier next time and make sure ex pays for it.
@@wendybarber5347I’m sorry you see the world this way.
@@Fleshpuppet67 I don't view the world this way. Only certain people.
@@wendybarber5347 and what puts this woman into your “certain people “ category I’m sure you can see that the majority by far emphasize with her, so your unique perspective on her puzzled me
@@Fleshpuppet67 It's okay that you are puzzled and that people empathize with her. I've seen far many videos (police) and others to know that many women play victim when caught. Never take accountability for their actions because they are female. We can see it more now because of YT and such. And the last time I checked, I have a right to my opinion from my information. I've been around and seen a lot. From family, friends, friends of family and yes, that makes my perspective unique.
Don’t understand why women think they’re excluded from domestic violence arrest…
Love That Cop! " In the grand scheme of things, this is a blip on the radar". 😂
"there's uh uh, A BOMB" 😂😂😂😂😂
lmao bro i cracked tf up that chick is like a cartoon character
31:35 ... Cops could've at least let her just "See" her kids and make sure they are all ok. Since there is No Legal Custody Yet and most Importantly since her teen Daughter says she doesn't Want to STAY there... How many times we have seen terrible things happening to children in these situation. Her Mother's Intuition didn't kicked in for nothing. And even the Cops did not checked on the Kids well being. Anyhow, I Truly have respect to the Officer who kindly deal with the Mom.
I’m thinking the new girlfriend is causing a lot of the problems. The 14 yo Daughter crying to go with the mother speaks volumes.
@@D1722eieioyup that red flag told a lot. The daughter is literally begging. I’m sure that’s why the cop went easy, even aside from her cooperation, I think he really felt for her situation. He gotta do what he gotta do, though.
She literally was beating on him and trying to beat up his girlfriend. She is trashy. The daughter set it up and told the mom where the dad and girlfriend were. The mom is the problem here. Did we watch the same video. The mom and the daughter set up a scenario to beat up the girlfriend. It even said the teenager doesn’t live there she just stayed the previous night to set them up. She even knew she was at fault. Sometimes I feel like I’m watching a different video than you all. When my husband and I first started dating his ex would do shit like this. She had broken up with him months prior but when she found out when had a new girlfriend she got my address and tried to fight me at several different locations. She threatened to stab me. She threw bricks through the window of our car. She injured my 3 year old daughter one of these times. She called my employer said she was me and cussed my boss out and told her I quit my job. I lost my apartment because she kept stalking us at my apartment complex and causing damage. She finally was arrested for robbing and kidnapping an elderly woman. 4 years later when she was released from prison she was on my door step the next day. Jealousy is a hell of a drug. Women who show up and assault other women they have never met because their x is with someone else are truly crazy. She a truly dangerous woman. Thank good for cameras she would have lied and sent him to gel.
You are delusional.
@@hermonorossco7988 Its the sisterhood. They could give a crap about the truth. They will always back the other women probably because they are like minded i.e trashy woman who love to play the victim.
These abuser women always manage to put on a victim front. Most guys they abuse haven't a chance of being believed. Nice to see some police who can see through to the facts regardless of gender.
Yes cuz a lot of them laugh when a male is the victim of a female. I've seen it.
Correct! Men should be believed too!! 🇦🇺
Women like this are making it harder for real victims to be understood.
Not always the case I was accused of been the female abuser cause of his smart mouth… luckily i got cctv to prove it wasn’t me I was the victim and now he is serving the time he deserves for the nose he broke twice… for the broken ribs he broke for the broken toes he broke for the broken fingers he broke…. For my kids still struggling… MEN AND WEMON ARE BOTH VICTIMS
@@ashlingmcmechan1000 I'm so sorry that happened to you Ashling
I am female. Women today are crazy. I feel bad for men.
This woman is obviously having a mental health crisis. It's very sad really. I have mental health conditions, I battle bipolar type 1, severe PTSD and impulse control disorder. There needs to be a mental health unit within the police department that are equipped to handle situations like this. Most officers unfortunately are NOT equipped to deal with this. In fact dealing with a mental health crisis, most officers react improperly. I pray that woman actually gets the help she so desperate needs.
At least the lady who said she was at hubby’s house to see her kids didn’t cause more trouble when the nice officer told her she was under arrest. I’m sure all LEO wish for every arrest to be like that.
Those are NOT LADIES!
Case #1 .... Pink handcuffs..? LOL Love it.
To match her clothes and bag. Thank you
@@suchbolo5742 She has to be matching even on the way to jail.
The first lady really honestly needed a doctor not jail. It's so sad to see when a person with a real illness is treated like a criminal when in fact she just needed someone to care enough to try and help her. This is a real issue for many men and women who have psychological problems that may be undiagnosed or not treated. I know it's a very difficult thing to deal with from the outside and it's just easier to write them off but imagine if it was someone who you loved that was found in a situation where they are not in control of their own minds. You would want someone to show them kindness and get them whatever help they needed instead of sent into a broken system that will only send them deeper into an abyss where they can't even recognize themselves. I know I would want someone to help me.
What’s bothersome is that nobody noticed that the officer put an elbow up to her throat, choking her on multiple occasions, especially towards the end, where he elbowed her right in the throat, and one particular time before then when she was leaning back, the last time was when she was sitting up you saw that right with the seatbelt on he had her held up by her throat with his elbow the time before, then she was leaning back, laying down on the seat, and he had her by the throat with his forearm, crushing her windpipe you could hear her sound of your voice changed when she did that
Interesting I only saw him getting kicked by her
@@christopherallenpeer753 convenient isn't it... You a cop?
@@AuroraTheGoddess You mean in retaliation to her kicking? Yes he did.
10:43. That was a hard elbow to the face/throat as a result of the officers frustration, It’s very easy to see that the first woman is in some sort of psychosis and needs help instead of being brutalized.
Exactly, they arrest her for assault then do some of their own 🙄
So many Florida cases 😂😂
We should have our own dam
channel.
41:29 that cop was awesome w the momma. She knew she fd up. And caused no additional issues. I believe she acted out of love for her kids. Not an excuse. But kids are definitely NOT pawns.
Most deadly abuse happens when someone tries to leave. My husband tried to kill me three times. I broke free 30 years ago but I still have nightmares. Woman can be just as abusive as men.
I'm proud of you for having such courage to leave 💝 for the nightmares - RUclips " 8hrs psalms , Psalm 23 & 91 " they are protection prayers, the vid plays quietly the whole night. Whenever I have a couple nights in a row I automatically know to play that. And it works EVERY time 🙏
That first woman is ridiculous... "You can't put me in these handcuffs! It's illegal!"
"My Dad married us" That was probably the only thing he could think of to get to get the F out of his house.
I love that in the second video they actually checked the man out, good cops. Instead of just believing the lady
I guess Disney Princess syndrome era is finally coming to an end thank god.
U guys are disgusting that gave them no reason to be touching her like that and to be tasering her ass like wtf literal pigs I can’t believe this people that believe everything they read but don’t pay any attention to what’s actually going on and what they’re watching
There comes a time,in a woman’s life,when tiny shorts,and a crop top,are just not enough.
True LOL
True, but its Florida
Facts
Blondes and alcohol 🙄🫣 yeah an absolute nightmare blackout and no1 is there and then it gets crazy.. I'm sure there's nice Blondes out there but the 5 I've ended up with.. look attractive innocent then a few years go bye 🙈 this is not normal your younger there attractive use end up living together then the drinking starts and 😳 yeah this isn't the same women I met thought she was .. so yeah now I avoid Blondes 👱♀️ but unfortunately I have two sons to one and her mother was an alcoholic used to hit her .. found out her grandfather had abused her and as the years went past she went from this innocent attractive 20yr old woman to drinking until she was blackout drunk and 🙄 yeah wasn't fun my youngest son lives with me and my gf of 4yr she's petit ginger haired women privately educated comes from a nice family.. and our first year together she noticed thing's she would give me compliments and id automatically 🤨 why you trying to be sarcastic 🙄😦 I'm not your looking really nice .. and when she would open a bottle of wine I'd leave 🤚 no I no what happens next .. took over a year to relise yeah she was different wouldn't blackout get aggressive but yeah it took time. Then my ex would phone at 4am send love songs 🎵 old videos of us together.. say I miss you sorry it just comes in waves then two nights later she would be phoning saying she was going to beat up that little ginger bitch 🙈 ffs I'd have to say you come near this house it's recored I will tell the police and I'll tell them everything I no where you keep your cocaine ect .. then she would hang up and then my gf 😮 now I understand that's not normal.. Well that was my life and yeah according to my ex I'd been seeing my new gf for years behind her back .. yeah it was crazy so I used to find Blondes attractive but now it's a red flag 🙈
@Carson-pv4hr I'm a brunette and I'll stick to sesh lol
That last one really got me. She did the right thing by first leaving the restaurant to remove herself from the argument and then when it got too heated she called the police and they arrested her. There was so many clues that he was the aggressor and the small things she did was reactive to what he was doing.
Omg I love the one cop arresting the blonde and keeps saying walk walk walk lmao 😂😂😂
That girlfriend saying that her boyfriend's wife has lost 30 to 40lbs the past cpl months doesn't necessarily mean she's on drugs. It could be because her husband of many years and father of her 4 children and 1 on the way, left her for another woman and took everything because he's the one with the job so he has the kids. So, it could be her nerves...I could be wrong...just saying🤔
I agree. Weight loss during divorce is very common.
Agreed. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, I lost 50lbs in 3 months just from anxiety, depression and utter devastation. I barely ate or slept, and when I did eat, I would get sick from the ulcers that had formed, so I could barely keep anything down. Exercise was a way for me to try to manage stress, so I dropped it fast.
Absolutely I know from experience.
@@justme240Stress doesn’t actually cause ulcers, but it can exasperate ulcers caused by other medical issues. The weight loss is so common during divorces. My neighbor and best friend went from 175lbs to 98lbs in six months due to not eating and paranoia of what he would do. He’s a diagnosed malignant narcissist and as bad as they come. I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now.
Do police not have yearly physical fitness tests? Some of these officers are old and others are really outta shape
🤔 Of course the police 🚨 do. WTF, are you talking about exactly ?. Hard to believe we watched the same video !..
The last female officer is very kind & understanding 💙
8:36 man she really let her inner demon out
🤣🤣🤣
He had his forearm in her throat this girl saw something in the bald headed cop. Poor lady was TERRIFIED.
I think by that stage the cops should've been aware that she had some serious mental health issues. Not an open and shut case. You can see that she is seeing something else
And;6 mm
I like to know what she was saying when it was muted... suspicious, she was hysterical her.
How the hell does that woman think she’s a Kid??? I was a married mother of a child at her age😂 sick of these goofy Adults acting like they should be considered kids. Cringy as H.
People are so immature these days, they consider themselves children because they act like children and can’t handle responsibility of any kind.
Men have been letting them get away with it for centuries. Smh
The first girl was hilarious ! Did she say the cops were kidnapping her? LMAOO
She strangled him to try to keep him from leaving? Yeah, that’s gonna make him stay! Lol OMG, these people are CRAZY!
Dude that First Lady has some serious issues 😮
Those the ones that have the craziest sex though!!! but can str8 ruin your lives!!!
@@frankrizzo5155 to be honest i don’t think that would be worth it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
THAT is NO LADY.
And meth or opioids is one of them
@@nikkiwarbucks3410add that and a mental disorder. And you got her
I applaud that male victims are being taken seriously by authorities now, and while none of this behaviour can ever be condoned or excused, it is worth considering how tame much of the violence in this video is, when compared to levels of common male against female DV. How far we have come in recognising that all DV is wrong, and it’s great to see a crack down on all perpetrators.
That 1st chick 😂😂😂 How can the officers keep a straight face 🤣
Women abuse men but some men are too proud to talk.So sad.They have the same rights as women.Hope they start reporting them more often.
A big black bomb... it's inside.. LMAO!!.
Get the straight jacket for her.
Honestly, that first girl seems possessed
It's hard to believe someone that's drunk is a recovering alcoholic.
“He’s got your daughters and your wife’s stuff he’s got a big…black…uh battery ITS A BOMB HES GOT A BOMB!” 😂😂😂
14:15 'I'm literally 22, you didn't have to do that bro' 'I am a ****** kid bro'. When did the definition of adult start evolving?! Grrr 🥴
Yes I'm with you there..I was a mum to a 3 year old .working and paying bills at 22...at 22 your a grown ass woman 😅...in most cases😅
Rephrase that
@@biggestcomplainer There we go mia cara 😗
1st female: drunk or high or mentally ill or a combination or all. Her excuses are lame. I just cannot be a cop. The patience that is needed to deal with this situation is just beyond me.
2nd female: she's been getting away with treating people like dirt and did not suffer any consequence and was surprised when she got tazed. Tsk tsk
That loud bomb threat chic would get me fired. Good job to these cops 👮♀️ keeping their cool 😎
Jesus that girl not wanting him to leave is insane. She needs to just shut up and calm down. No wonder that guy wanted to leave.
Edit: As i watch more of this i have decided drunk chicks are literally the worst thing ever. Like dealing with emotional toddlers. Makes me lose my mind. Some of these cops have the patience of a saint.
Was thinking the same thing.
Plenty of drunk man babies too
Why does dude look like he's wearing 6 bullet proof vests?
he ate them
😂 that first girl was throwing out everything in the book on that guy. Anything in hopes the cops would believe her. "Hes got a bomb, ah hes a terrorist, um ah.. hes got drugs in there, ah illegal stuff... um ah hes an alien!! Did you hear me! HES A GODAMN ALIEN GOD DAMMIT!! 😂😂😂 she even had pink cuffs on suiting
Good brief charlie brown! Ain't no way. Lol. Nope. Going to need a nap after I watch this cuz this lady is exhausting! There is something in the water in Florida and in Wisconsin 😂
95% of the time I am commenting on how immature or crazy these people are acting and how a lot of these police officers do a great job but that first video was just disturbing
best part of all this is the fact the firstvideo the officer has pink handcuffs lol
That second cop should take a walk once a week or get a desk job😂. That little girl almost whipped his butt. He would of been in trouble if back up hadn’t arrived😂. He was so scared he tasered her after she had cuffs on😂😂😂
Those cops were AMAZING by making sure her kids didnt see her arrested. Im sure how calm and cooperating she was helped the situation and made it easier for the police to be so respectful to her regarding her children and not traumatizing them. Best exapmle ever of an actual good cop
First one looked like schizophrenia to me...
Yeah at first I thought she was just high or something but she really comes off as mentally ill.
Nah worse
The first woman is a few fries short of a Happy Meal!!!
I am so sick of ppl using the word “bro”. Sure shows the intelligence level though.
The first lady was suffering psychosis. She didn't abuse her boyfriend. She needed a psychiatrist not jail. I heard Dayton does this all the time to ppl.
The last case was ridiculous. There shouldn't have been any arrest. That was uncalled for and a waste of money and time!
"Why are you doing this to me?" They aren't doing anything to you!!! You did it to yourself!!! Take some responsibility for your actions lady!!!! You made your choices!!! And NO MA'AM you cannot put your hands on anyone!!! Men need to stop letting these women get away with putting their hands on them just because they dont wanna "look weak" or whatever!! Men can be victims of DV just as much as women can!!!! Most men suffer in silence and just deal with it, which is so not ok!!!!
As a male that's been thru this, the most painful part is your male friends calling you a p*ssy & laughing at you. With a really toxic partner calling the cops is out of the question bc b4 they get there she'd lock herself in he bathroom & smack herself in the face with a curling iron or something. You are absolutely correct, it's not a gender thing. People shouldn't hit people, especially those you lay your head down next to at night. Peace
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You obviously aren't a man. You wouldn't understand.
1000%
Absolutely. I must have grown up "different" cuz when a police officer was asking "those" questions, I would be as kind as possible, knowing at this point they are my enemy (they're gathering evidence against me, so not a friend). I learned quick to shut up, comply & later talk to my lawyer. Some of these hot heads have a, no joke, "I wish u would" attitude. I had a cop who during our interaction kept making his gun completely up for grabs. 1st, no, 2nd it was in a 3 step holster so even if, I wasn't gonna get it, 3rd NOO. these peoples have hard ass jobs no doubt. But a lot of them, to make life easier, put u in 3 catagories. Best to shut up, keep your wits & tell the PD, this guy needs a win as bad as you do. Peace
Kaitlyn did not deserve that. Bad form for cops not to believe both of them when they told the exact truth , they never believe the truthful stories.
"Settle down" has worked exactly zero times with crazy women.
I believe the Depp/Heard case has a lot to do with men being believed with regard to domestic v cases. Are rightly so. All the years that men were immediately thought to be the perportrators without question is sad. No one deserves to be abused. In my humble opinion.
Absolutely agree! I truly believe it set a new precedent for male victims everywhere. I’m so happy JD got some justice for what he endured. Props to all guys finally being “heard” …. 💙
@@patriciadonoho2199 pardon the pun. 🤣
There was a movie about a man being abused in the 90s. It had high ratings and enlightened a lot of people.
4yrs of hell for me. She will never be held accountable. I'm lucky I'm alive today after being stabbed and had guns pulled on me, being attacked in my sleep ect.
@@Okunniger_Volker I'm sorry you suffered. I hope you're doing OK now.
my heart hardens when i see them crying and playing the victim and lying...don't believe all women...ever
Do not agree how rough he was with a 22 year old half the size of him and teasing her that much was ridiculous. She may have been an idiot but did not deserve to be wrecked around and pretty much dragged down the stairs that’s supposed to be professional police officers not bullies
What do you know? The perp was calm, and she realized she screwed up. Cop treated her reasonable and respectful. Why can't both sides be like this more often?
Good grief. What I’d do for a boyfriend and these “women” abuse theirs. They were lucky to have had a boyfriend but $¢rewed it the f*** up. 🤦🏻♀️🙎🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Cherish your freedom. When people in relationships speak of envy over people free of such bondage, they do so for good reason. The grass always seems greener on the other side until you get there & realize it's a wasteland. Please try hard to be happy to be free of such shackles.
@@RickMakely _ True talk !!!!
I've been married for almost 40 years, relationships are hard and it doesn't stop after the wedding. The trick is to find someone that is honest and under stands the word loyalty. You must also have other things physically, emotionally, and morally. Also watch out for the drinking habits, to drink to ease emotional turmoil, or for fun is a super big red flag. If that's all you're seeing find a different circle of friends and potentials.
@@anndennis7163 That's also really fair advice especially about the drinking. I allowed drinking to take a lot of opportunities from me. These days I can't even believe it's a legal thing. I think I'm done trying to ever trust anybody else though lol. That's all on you people Good luck
@@anndennis7163 Thanks. I'm single at 33 and I'll take your advice.
I’m a 22 year old kid. That ship sailed 4 years ago. 😂
the cop singing "hes not leaving, can i get your id please" made me laugh so hard.
Me too lol 😂
"You alright buddy"
This TANK of an officer. He looks so huggable though
I say this in a lot of videos but technically you can be arrested without your rights being read and you can be read your rights without being arrested so people saying this is illegal you haven't read me all rights The only time anyone needs to be out of their rights red is when they are going to be asked questions or they could incriminate themselves by telling the police something so again you do not need your rights read to you because you're in cuffs and just because you're not in cuffs doesn't mean you can't get your rights read to you.
Amen,so sick of hearing that
In a court of law, if you’re not read your Miranda rights, then you cannot be detained and you cannot be held in that is actually been held up in court and people have been released because the cop forgot to read somebody their Miranda rights
As a Native Floridian I can vouch that ALL the crazy chicks are in Florida! Or come from other states and catch the crazy!
lol
That cop really wanted to side with the mom even after hearing testimony from witnesses and then went light on her. Simpin hard!
Angela was very respectful. Nice lady. I hope out of all these crazy's, she got treated well. She deserved respect.
That cop in the first case REALLY loved choking tf out of that woman who was cuffed😑 First choked her w his forearm w her hands cuffed behind her back, then choked her w his elbow hard w her hands and legs cuffed......... Ik she was acting really weird but she was clearly having a psychotic break or drugs or both.. I heard the boyfriend saying her dad took her to the mental hospital. I think that was excessive force and he needs to keep his hands/arms/elbows off of peoples necks, especially if they are already cuffed.
She was kicking him.
I agree 100% Officers need to be taught empathy. That woman was either mentally ill or affected by drugs and needed help. If the officers had taken their time to talk to her, and allowed her to feel heard, they probably could have gotten her to agree to go in an ambulance to get checked out at the hospital. These police officers need to learn how to Protect and Serve.
@@katelinclaudson6196 so? I work in mental healthcare and I am able to restrain people who are kicking me without choking them. Poor policing.
When you don't comply that's what happens. Where I'm from that's normal.