It’s totally normal to want to look good for your significant other! That doesn’t mean we are letting them dictate our choices, but choosing what we like with them in mind. ❤
I had a guy who i had just started dating. I said he looked good in the green shirt he was wearing. After that he almost always showed up in green. 😂. So it works both ways.
@@mignotmaxime2409 i knew him from seeing him around town. He generally wore blue and sometimes green. But wore green alot more after i said that. I think it is normal for both sexes to do it
That's adorable! It absolutely it works both ways. My husband is always asking my opinion on his clothes and I value his opinion for mine. We've been happily married 24 years. The first year we dated I bought my husband a flannel shirt that looked so nice on him. He still has that shirt in our closet. 😊
I’m 29 and I think my generation has let the pendulum swing too far in the direction of resentment for men. I understand women have endured many terrible things at the hands of men, however, we need to find a middle ground to heal and move forward 🙂
The men with their manosphere podcasts would need to get with the program too, then, but you don't see men calling other men out for their "toxic woman bashing"
@@AliceVFameactually many men do correct those men. Keep acting like women are oppressed by men, and women will actually believe it and not bother to try. The only oppression today is in the mind. Best wishes. 😊
@@AliceVFame Unfortunately, women have to be the one to lead men away from these manosphere channels. There are some who are too captured & won't escape, but many young men are just confused. Like many young women they come from broken homes, so lack proper role modeling. When I was growing up, my mother stressed that a woman was responsible for guiding a man & the success of a relationship rested on a woman. I rebelled against that growing up, I thought that's a lot of work to put on a woman. Now that I'm married, I see the wisdom in that advice. I give my husband 100% of my attention regarding his business & plans for our future. I'm honoring him as a man and the protector of our household. He does all the cooking & we share the cleaning of the house together. So, we are equal partnerships & he does listen to my business challenges as well. Many young women spend 10+ years of Tinder trying to find a connection & many are left cynical and bitter. Embrace some of our past nurturing, compassion, and sweetness and you might find that you are richly rewarded. Most men are willing to meet one halfway, but they don't want to sign up for losing 70% of their income for a cynical bitter woman.
My husband always remembered the fuchsia dress I was wearing when we met. He always mentioned that dress and how good I looked in it!! Men do notice and I feel it is nice to look good for both me and them. Even my now adult sons compliment me when I am wearing something I look good in.
There is nothing wrong with wearing a color that your man likes. Goodness. It doesn't mean you always and only wear what he likes and it certainly doesn't mean wearing a color you hate. It's just acknowledging and caring what your partner likes. Women certainly have opinions on what men wear and we would appreciate a man dressing nice for us. Honestly I found in my single years that dressing for the male gaze (horror) has actually helped me dress in more flattering ways.
I would have assumed red, pink and black in the top three. I think it also depends on the fit as the Scandinavian masculine tailoring doesn’t usually bring attention to a woman’s figure. Men are visual creatures and I agree it’s fabulous that women dress as they please but it’s nice when men and women give you compliments 😊. Interestingly, women compliment me most in green and I get most compliments when in pink, red and black. My Husband seems to like a lot of colours on me but has an aversion to masculine styles. I do think we should say that to be fair, most women like men in suits, to balance this 😁
Seriously. She's definitely got some man issues. I find myself thinking less about colors and wondering what her relationship with her father is like, lol.
@@zsuzsuspetalsor her husband. Is he allowed to find her attractive? 😅 I mean, I'm sure he saw something he liked about her physically. Men are typically more visual when it comes to attraction after all.
I do keep in mind my husbands favourite colours on me. I like to dress in what he likes me in especially for special occasions - but I really could not care what men in general like. Just one man! lol
My partner has always been vocal about what colours look good on me, particularly soft earth tones = good, my love for crisp optic white = bad. After a few years of exploring seasonal colour analysis, I have leaned towards colours of the autumn palettes (still not settled on which subseason and also enjoy some Warm Spring colours). Ultimately he was right all along, I look great in warm and earthy colours! I don't 100% dress for him, but I respect his opinion as he's always intuitively worn Deep Autumn colours and they look amazing on him.
Years ago I wore an ice green dress that leaned toward a mint green. I thought I looked cute, and my husband later told me he hated the color of the dress. Men do have colors they like and dislike. He also told me I needed brighter lipstick. He was right about that.
I secretly want to be a natural redhead with blue green eyes but I am a natural brunette with brown eyes who has been dying her hair red for twenty years. My favourite palette is deep winter though. These are the colours I wear anyway.
I feel that a particular colour is not important in this sense. I love to see a colour that completes the picture for that person and makes them feel good, because confidence and self security is most attractive
I love the dynamic between you two in all of your videos - this one is sweet. Only people who really like each other can bicker in such a healthy way 😊
It makes a pleasant change to talk about Elizabeth Taylor, Audrey Hepburn and other beautiful women - who usually were dressed in their best colors - than Zendaya et al whose stylists do not seem to have a clue.
Zendaya and her stylist Law Roach, method dress for the movie she's in, so for Dune, she wore a sculptured, beige dress that looked like sand dunes, for that tennis player movie, she wore a tennis inspired outfit etc. Not sure if they follow color theory, but they believe in method dressing, reflecting the theme of the movie she's in.
After 51 years of marriage to the same man, I have to say that a lasting loving union is based on care and respect for each other. Both have responsibility to stay in a place of respect and attraction to the other. I’ve seen for so many years that as time passes, many lose care for what their partner, whom they say they love, thinks about the way they look and behave. This shows neither love, care, or respect. I would encourage consideration of this principle if one wants a successful relationship rather than disdain and dismissal.
Color is definitely a factor in attracting one's significant other regardless of the gender. I thought the idea of purple being selected was quite interesting. In the case of Elizabeth Taylor who had violet eyes, dressing her in purple and blue made sense. Maureen O'Hara was a beautiful woman and looked captivating in green, of course she had an amazing body too!
I’m a True Winter and even before learning about color theory I always gravitated toward hot pink, fuchsia, lots of black, high contrast. I’ve definitely had partners in the past who wanted me to wear softer colors to fit their idea of femininity. Luckily my current bf loves my style and tells me all the time how good I look in all my favorite colors from my palette. I even taught him about color theory and helped him figure out his palette! Now he buys new stuff only in his colors and we coordinate for special occasions. It’s so much more fun this way!
I think the answer is to teach more men about color analysis! It's almost always geared toward women!!! When I first told my husband about color analysis, he said, "that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard." One year later, after I've fully embraced my autumn colors, he sincerely tells me (daily) that the colors I wear now make me look better than I've EVER looked...and we met when we were baby faced 18-year-olds! I wear my new colors for me...but it also feels good knowing that my spouse notices as well. There's nothing wrong with that. We've decided he's probably a winter, and so he's trying to incorporate winter colors in his wardrobe, and its adorable (and also he looks better than ever, too!).
I'm sorry but this was so negative. Some people like to dress up "attractive" for a date night, there's nothing wrong with that. Plenty of other times to wear our favorite colors.
I did not have Lucinda needing to be bleeped out on my bingo card. 😂 my significant other doesn't care for my palette but finds confidence attractive so he's just gonna have to let me wear what I want. 🤷♀I'm sure I can find a happy medium for special events like our anniversary. Thanks for the info ladies
It's great to dress for your husband. It's not to be subservient but just as he should take care of himself for his partner, a woman can showcase things he likes. If your husband says he likes when you wear a certain pair of pants or a dress why would you not wear something that is attractive to him? What's the point of getting married if ,"you don't need no man"?
Yes there is a red for every one of the 12 or 16 seasons, but I agree with the OP. Red is not an everyday color. It's a power color/ "look at me" color. I think if one wore it everyday, then it would lose its ability to be a special/ power color.
HA! I did a survey with a friend when we were 13. We started by asking random men on the mall what their least favorite colors were on women. In the process we found out that most of them liked blue, and most disliked yellow. Of course, that was in 1968, so maybe it's a generational thing, too..
I certainly don’t care what men IN GENERAL like because they usually like all the colors that look terrible on me - black, deep red, etc. I think that is what Sara means is pleasing men in general versus her husband or close circle. Men IN GENERAL have historically seen women as conquests. Obviously not all men 😊, but women dressing more with dignity and for what THEY feel right wearing is better than trying to please men in order to be a good catch. I am happy to hear when my husband or a close friend or relative likes the colors I am wearing but I don’t use that as the basis for the colors I choose. I have to feel good in it or I feel yucky the whole day.
I’m a pale skinned dark auburn haired woman who wears a lot of olive green, black, and burgundy. However I constantly dip into “winter” pallet with deep jewel toned blues, magenta, purple, and bright turquoise (my favorite ❤️)
"It makes me not want to wear green anymore." Hey, if it doesn't matter if Random Man #23 thinks you look bad in a certain color, then it doesn't matter if Random Man #23 thinks you look good in green!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY SARA! Women have always dressed for other women, imo. Never paid attention to Dr. Laura. She was very judgmental. There was a funny episode of the tv show, Maude, where Vivian is wrapped in Saran wrap to meet her husband at the door but when she opens the door, it isn't her husband. My husband's favorite clothing color is blue because it highlights his eyes, lol. My favorite color to wear depends on the day. Sara, your red tinted lipstick looks amazing on you. Buy a dress or have one made in that color.
Oh, I remember when that book came out, making a bandage dress out of Saran Wrap. A woman in the neighborhood did exactly what the doctor said to do. The problem is, the husband brought his boss home to work on documents. I can still remember my dad chuckling about the situation. You were so right to make a face, Sarah. 😅
I have only 1 red dress, because it’s very hard to find a good red colored dress for true summer leaning into soft. I don’t know what it is, every time I wear at least somebody gives me a compliment. I don’t know how it clicks every time- but it works
I read the book but I don’t remember the Saran Wrap. 😂But I do remember her saying you should never say no when he wants to sleep with you. I’ve been married 12 years and my husband thinks that’s ridiculous. Everything I do for my husband is out of love and he does the same. He’s always worried about what I think of his hair and clothes. Nothing wrong with that, I love him the way he is but I appreciate that he cares. He feels the same.
Y’all are funny bickering back and forth 😂. I mean, there are a lot of women who like this kind of thing, and I won’t judge them for it. Everyone do your own thing! I personally don’t care what men think of the colors I’m wearing, but I do like to wear my bf’s favorite color sometimes. Guess that puts me somewhere in the middle 😊
The bleeps and the grumbling MAKE this video haha. Well, now we know. I'm gonna have to sign up for your Patreon for 'our' version, that's interesting! I think the answers will be all over the place.And maybe more detailed (rust orange, soft green, warm yellow, lavender!)
I enjoyed this video so much, especially the parts where Sarah gets upset, hehe, I laughed a lot. Well, to me colours matter a lot. I'm cool in the 6 palette system and... I once rejected a guy that was all dressed in yellow including his underwear 😂
Hi ladies at 52 I'm probably age wise between you both. I think this was supposed to be a fun thing and is very reminiscent of magazine surveys in the eighties and nineties. Wearing a colour or clothing item your partner (of whatever gender) likes isn't offensive or unusual and is really just part of being in a relationship. Dressing entirely for someone else's opinion is a different matter altogether and not healthy at all. My partner has never ever said he doesn't like any specific colour on me, but has said a particular garment wasn't his favourite of what I own 😂. It's not something I pay too much attention to however it's usually something I am not a hundred percent sure of either 😂. Red was always going to be the favourite and has been for as long as I can remember in this type of survey. Best wishes x
1 in every 13 men are colorblind… my theory is that many man can’t see green… and red is seen as a beautiful color when you don’t see greens… yellow and orange did not get to the list and color blind people confused green with yellow and brown….
You two are so funny together 😂 if it's any consolation Sarah, I'm 60 and I'm with you all the way. Yuck. Men's opinions aren't anywhere on my radar regarding colour or much else tbh. Love you ladies! ❤
It's a totally normal thing for a women (or a man) to want to be attractive and look good for their partner. Wearing something you know they like is a sign of putting effort into a relationship. Sara's attitude toward this topic and whole video was really disappointing and annoying. How about promoting some positive femininity instead of bashing on men?
It’s a little annoying to those who have outgrown it and cringe recognizing it in another but most women have been there sometime in their life. What disappointment has to do with it I don’t know. Her coping mechanisms to the societal expectations for women have literally no bearing on anything. It’s her experience and has nothing to do with you.
Not a fan of Dr. Draculaura but also why equate femininity with weakness? I’m secure enough to wear colors freely and yes, sometimes for my husband. So what?
Hmm, neither yellow nor orange made the list, lol. Now, I think every person has their favorite colors, and of course, you can influence your SO to prefer wearing those colors. However, I also think it flows the other way: If I look fabulous in a pumpkin color, my SO is going to start liking me in pumpkin, because of how radiant I look. On the other hand, these "male-preferred" (so problematically binary, btw) colors aren't exactly ground-breaking: the human eye prefers shades of green, red has always been eye-catching and a symbol of danger and desire, purple dye was hard to get a hold of in antiquity, and the other colors complete the rainbow, so... duh. I'm not going to cut off my nose to spite my face, and say that I won't wear these colors only because a bunch of throw-backs showed a preference for them. As a 58-year-old feminist, I can relate to both points of view: I want to look attractive in my husband's eyes, and I also want to wear the colors that suit me best. Hubby loves this vicious, intense, purple blue color, but I'm never going to wear it- it doesn't suit me. He knows it, and we admire the color from afar :) BTW, I love reading/remembering and laughing at snippets of womanly advice from yesteryear (and not so long ago): Helen Gurley Brown, Gloria Vanderbilt, and a darling little list from the 50s(?) that went viral about having the children bathed and putting on a fresh dress to greet your husband when he gets home because he's had a hard day and doesn't want to hear screaming or fighting when he walks through the door :) The saran wrap thing was gold, though (like she's a piece of meat or something?) I'm surprised they didn't suggest opening the door in just and apron, lol!
Exactly! If Sarah is going to be so insufferable on this topic, she should have let Lucinda host it without her. She is acting like a little girl who is still in her cootie phase. Some women out there want to attract their future husband. She is fortunate to have found hers.
I'm sure she was trying to be funny, she didn't mean it, but she doesn't realize its 2024, the past 10 years and more is the age of toxic man hating feminism all over America and social media. She must be in a bubble. Just look at the election, and you can see the toxic feminists are all Democrats.
I am 35 and married with two boys. I am a modern woman but guys let me tell you - the proper care and feeding of husbands is the best book ever written haha I live for it and tell everyone to read it.
So...we want to wear what looks good on us (in others' eyes)...EXCEPT our significant other? Doesn't that defeat the purpose? Don't get me wrong; I'm a feminist, I bring home the bacon, and I dress the way I want (and my husband is fine w/ it). But if I'm trying to put my best appearance foot forward, he'd be the 1st one whose opinion I'd care about. Just sayin'.
I can't believe Sarah's man hating attitude! I'm on here to figure out wife's coloring so I can buy her flattering Christmas gifts. I cherish my wife but if she acted like this I sure wouldn't! I thought you were a nice girl at first because you seemed kind and sensitive to say things like, "let's not say your WORST color....." and then this vlog!! It's a wonder you're even married!! I feel sorry for your husband if this is how you treat him! And you're very disrespectful to your mother! And she let's you get away with it because she loves you. Unsubscribed and definitely NOT joining patreon now!
I wear the colors that I personally like so I'm with Sara all the way! If my partner likes my colors then that's a bonus, but I only dress to impress myself. 😉 You ladies look beautiful in your green&blueish outfits!
Why does sarah hate men ? Ha ha. These are all my favorite colors. I'm a bright winter.These are the colors that look best on me. I loved this video minus the negativity. I will be very curious to see what the differences from the woman's list to the men's list.
THUMBS DOWN - to send a message to SARAH, that in 2024, we are in the era of toxic feminism, we don't need comments, even in jest bashing men. America is so divided, the gender war is getting even worse, let's try and be positive and not cringe.
@@gobyfish1399 Because you’re the one who came after Sarah. If you don’t like a video, just don’t watch it maybe? It’s their channel, they can say whatever they want and if you’re not happy, just move on. Don’t push your stupid opinion on others.
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It’s totally normal to want to look good for your significant other! That doesn’t mean we are letting them dictate our choices, but choosing what we like with them in mind. ❤
I had a guy who i had just started dating. I said he looked good in the green shirt he was wearing. After that he almost always showed up in green. 😂. So it works both ways.
That’s actually pretty sweet.
Did he buy it after you said it, or maybe he knew and owned several green clothes already?
@@mignotmaxime2409 i knew him from seeing him around town. He generally wore blue and sometimes green. But wore green alot more after i said that. I think it is normal for both sexes to do it
That's adorable! It absolutely it works both ways. My husband is always asking my opinion on his clothes and I value his opinion for mine. We've been happily married 24 years. The first year we dated I bought my husband a flannel shirt that looked so nice on him. He still has that shirt in our closet. 😊
I love wearing colors that look good on me- but I absolutely love when my guy thinks I look good in that color.
My husband loves it when I dress in peach/coral colours and now that I know I’m a spring, I wear them more often and love them too!!
My husband has never criticized what I wear, and we’ll celebrate our 37th anniversary in December. ❤😊
I’m 29 and I think my generation has let the pendulum swing too far in the direction of resentment for men. I understand women have endured many terrible things at the hands of men, however, we need to find a middle ground to heal and move forward 🙂
The men with their manosphere podcasts would need to get with the program too, then, but you don't see men calling other men out for their "toxic woman bashing"
And this is just a woman wanting to wear colors she likes. How "anti-man"! No man was offended by this
@@AliceVFameactually many men do correct those men. Keep acting like women are oppressed by men, and women will actually believe it and not bother to try. The only oppression today is in the mind. Best wishes. 😊
@@AliceVFame Unfortunately, women have to be the one to lead men away from these manosphere channels. There are some who are too captured & won't escape, but many young men are just confused. Like many young women they come from broken homes, so lack proper role modeling.
When I was growing up, my mother stressed that a woman was responsible for guiding a man & the success of a relationship rested on a woman. I rebelled against that growing up, I thought that's a lot of work to put on a woman. Now that I'm married, I see the wisdom in that advice. I give my husband 100% of my attention regarding his business & plans for our future. I'm honoring him as a man and the protector of our household. He does all the cooking & we share the cleaning of the house together. So, we are equal partnerships & he does listen to my business challenges as well.
Many young women spend 10+ years of Tinder trying to find a connection & many are left cynical and bitter. Embrace some of our past nurturing, compassion, and sweetness and you might find that you are richly rewarded. Most men are willing to meet one halfway, but they don't want to sign up for losing 70% of their income for a cynical bitter woman.
You better guess again sister!@@AliceVFame
My husband always remembered the fuchsia dress I was wearing when we met. He always mentioned that dress and how good I looked in it!! Men do notice and I feel it is nice to look good for both me and them. Even my now adult sons compliment me when I am wearing something I look good in.
There is nothing wrong with wearing a color that your man likes. Goodness. It doesn't mean you always and only wear what he likes and it certainly doesn't mean wearing a color you hate. It's just acknowledging and caring what your partner likes. Women certainly have opinions on what men wear and we would appreciate a man dressing nice for us.
Honestly I found in my single years that dressing for the male gaze (horror) has actually helped me dress in more flattering ways.
I would have assumed red, pink and black in the top three. I think it also depends on the fit as the Scandinavian masculine tailoring doesn’t usually bring attention to a woman’s figure. Men are visual creatures and I agree it’s fabulous that women dress as they please but it’s nice when men and women give you compliments 😊. Interestingly, women compliment me most in green and I get most compliments when in pink, red and black. My Husband seems to like a lot of colours on me but has an aversion to masculine styles.
I do think we should say that to be fair, most women like men in suits, to balance this 😁
I cant even finish this video with Sarah's attitude.
Seriously. She's definitely got some man issues. I find myself thinking less about colors and wondering what her relationship with her father is like, lol.
You take things too seriously then
@@zsuzsuspetalsor her husband. Is he allowed to find her attractive? 😅 I mean, I'm sure he saw something he liked about her physically. Men are typically more visual when it comes to attraction after all.
You mean shallow
I do keep in mind my husbands favourite colours on me. I like to dress in what he likes me in especially for special occasions - but I really could not care what men in general like. Just one man! lol
Yes, dress for yourself and your man. Don't be, I dress for no man attitude, including my husband.
Great video. I been married for 40 years. I do wear colors that my husband likes on me!!! Greetings from Arizona.
My partner has always been vocal about what colours look good on me, particularly soft earth tones = good, my love for crisp optic white = bad. After a few years of exploring seasonal colour analysis, I have leaned towards colours of the autumn palettes (still not settled on which subseason and also enjoy some Warm Spring colours). Ultimately he was right all along, I look great in warm and earthy colours! I don't 100% dress for him, but I respect his opinion as he's always intuitively worn Deep Autumn colours and they look amazing on him.
Years ago I wore an ice green dress that leaned toward a mint green. I thought I looked cute, and my husband later told me he hated the color of the dress. Men do have colors they like and dislike. He also told me I needed brighter lipstick. He was right about that.
You guys have such good chemistry!
I secretly want to be a natural redhead with blue green eyes but I am a natural brunette with brown eyes who has been dying her hair red for twenty years. My favourite palette is deep winter though. These are the colours I wear anyway.
I feel that a particular colour is not important in this sense. I love to see a colour that completes the picture for that person and makes them feel good, because confidence and self security is most attractive
You two are hilarious together! Thank you both ❤
Yes dressed in Saran Wrap and he says “Leftovers Again”. 😊
I love the dynamic between you two in all of your videos - this one is sweet. Only people who really like each other can bicker in such a healthy way 😊
I'm loving Sarah's enthusiasm 😂😂😂
I’m too old to care about what “they” like! LOL!
Looking forward to the results of your Patreon survey!
First, wear a color that brings you joy and Confidence. Sara, congratulations on 10 year anniversary. Like the interaction, as always.
That's a very becoming one shoulder top in a great color for you, Sara.
It makes a pleasant change to talk about Elizabeth Taylor, Audrey Hepburn and other beautiful women - who usually were dressed in their best colors - than Zendaya et al whose stylists do not seem to have a clue.
Zendaya and her stylist Law Roach, method dress for the movie she's in, so for Dune, she wore a sculptured, beige dress that looked like sand dunes, for that tennis player movie, she wore a tennis inspired outfit etc. Not sure if they follow color theory, but they believe in method dressing, reflecting the theme of the movie she's in.
After 51 years of marriage to the same man, I have to say that a lasting loving union is based on care and respect for each other. Both have responsibility to stay in a place of respect and attraction to the other. I’ve seen for so many years that as time passes, many lose care for what their partner, whom they say they love, thinks about the way they look and behave. This shows neither love, care, or respect. I would encourage consideration of this principle if one wants a successful relationship rather than disdain and dismissal.
Love green! Now to find the right green for a cool, white haired, green hazel eyed, neutral skin 63 year old lady
I'm 64, and I'm with Sarah on the matter of not caring what men think about what I wear 😂😂
I love your top and the color, Lucinda 😊
Color is definitely a factor in attracting one's significant other regardless of the gender. I thought the idea of purple being selected was quite interesting. In the case of Elizabeth Taylor who had violet eyes, dressing her in purple and blue made sense. Maureen O'Hara was a beautiful woman and looked captivating in green, of course she had an amazing body too!
Green's my fav colour too! But I love so many colours.
I’m a True Winter and even before learning about color theory I always gravitated toward hot pink, fuchsia, lots of black, high contrast. I’ve definitely had partners in the past who wanted me to wear softer colors to fit their idea of femininity. Luckily my current bf loves my style and tells me all the time how good I look in all my favorite colors from my palette. I even taught him about color theory and helped him figure out his palette! Now he buys new stuff only in his colors and we coordinate for special occasions. It’s so much more fun this way!
I think the answer is to teach more men about color analysis! It's almost always geared toward women!!! When I first told my husband about color analysis, he said, "that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard." One year later, after I've fully embraced my autumn colors, he sincerely tells me (daily) that the colors I wear now make me look better than I've EVER looked...and we met when we were baby faced 18-year-olds! I wear my new colors for me...but it also feels good knowing that my spouse notices as well. There's nothing wrong with that. We've decided he's probably a winter, and so he's trying to incorporate winter colors in his wardrobe, and its adorable (and also he looks better than ever, too!).
❤ I love to look good for my husband of 20 years
Love when my boyfriend tells me I look great!
I'm sorry but this was so negative. Some people like to dress up "attractive" for a date night, there's nothing wrong with that. Plenty of other times to wear our favorite colors.
Agreed! Why do a video just to make fun of the entire premise of the video the entire time and make silly faces and sighs
Agreed. Makes me not want to watch them again.
@@shelleymusleh439 And as soon as she sees that men like a color she likes, she doesn't want to wear it anymore...?
I did not have Lucinda needing to be bleeped out on my bingo card. 😂 my significant other doesn't care for my palette but finds confidence attractive so he's just gonna have to let me wear what I want. 🤷♀I'm sure I can find a happy medium for special events like our anniversary. Thanks for the info ladies
It's great to dress for your husband. It's not to be subservient but just as he should take care of himself for his partner, a woman can showcase things he likes. If your husband says he likes when you wear a certain pair of pants or a dress why would you not wear something that is attractive to him? What's the point of getting married if ,"you don't need no man"?
Men like red but red is difficult to pull off and is not an everyday color.
According to color theory, there should be a red for you.
Yes there is a red for every one of the 12 or 16 seasons, but I agree with the OP. Red is not an everyday color. It's a power color/ "look at me" color. I think if one wore it everyday, then it would lose its ability to be a special/ power color.
HA! I did a survey with a friend when we were 13. We started by asking random men on the mall what their least favorite colors were on women. In the process we found out that most of them liked blue, and most disliked yellow. Of course, that was in 1968, so maybe it's a generational thing, too..
Love Sara in Green 😉
This video was great fun, loved the teasing and sassiness 😂😂
1. Red
2. Black
3. White
4. Blue
5. Pink
6. Purple
7. Green
I certainly don’t care what men IN GENERAL like because they usually like all the colors that look terrible on me - black, deep red, etc. I think that is what Sara means is pleasing men in general versus her husband or close circle. Men IN GENERAL have historically seen women as conquests. Obviously not all men 😊, but women dressing more with dignity and for what THEY feel right wearing is better than trying to please men in order to be a good catch. I am happy to hear when my husband or a close friend or relative likes the colors I am wearing but I don’t use that as the basis for the colors I choose. I have to feel good in it or I feel yucky the whole day.
As a lesbian, I just find it depressing that this is just every color I wear except blue.
I’m a pale skinned dark auburn haired woman who wears a lot of olive green, black, and burgundy. However I constantly dip into “winter” pallet with deep jewel toned blues, magenta, purple, and bright turquoise (my favorite ❤️)
"It makes me not want to wear green anymore." Hey, if it doesn't matter if Random Man #23 thinks you look bad in a certain color, then it doesn't matter if Random Man #23 thinks you look good in green!
@@fairycat23 its funny because I asked my husband what color was his favorite on me he said green so green is sticking around forever!
2:15 Dr Laura. She was something else.
But she didn't suggest Saran Wrap. It was Marabel Morgan.
I’m impressed you know that 👏👏
I enjoy all these colors in this order as well .
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY SARA!
Women have always dressed for other women, imo.
Never paid attention to Dr. Laura. She was very judgmental. There was a funny episode of the tv show, Maude, where Vivian is wrapped in Saran wrap to meet her husband at the door but when she opens the door, it isn't her husband.
My husband's favorite clothing color is blue because it highlights his eyes, lol.
My favorite color to wear depends on the day.
Sara, your red tinted lipstick looks amazing on you. Buy a dress or have one made in that color.
Oh, the faces sarah made!!!😂 Loved the video.
Oh, I remember when that book came out, making a bandage dress out of Saran Wrap. A woman in the neighborhood did exactly what the doctor said to do. The problem is, the husband brought his boss home to work on documents. I can still remember my dad chuckling about the situation. You were so right to make a face, Sarah. 😅
I have only 1 red dress, because it’s very hard to find a good red colored dress for true summer leaning into soft. I don’t know what it is, every time I wear at least somebody gives me a compliment. I don’t know how it clicks every time- but it works
I read the book but I don’t remember the Saran Wrap. 😂But I do remember her saying you should never say no when he wants to sleep with you. I’ve been married 12 years and my husband thinks that’s ridiculous.
Everything I do for my husband is out of love and he does the same. He’s always worried about what I think of his hair and clothes. Nothing wrong with that, I love him the way he is but I appreciate that he cares. He feels the same.
You're right
They have the wrong book and author.
How do you get on the waitlist?
lol This video had alot of entertainment from Sarah's reactions 🤣🤣🤣
You 2 get better& better ❤❤❤
Y’all are funny bickering back and forth 😂. I mean, there are a lot of women who like this kind of thing, and I won’t judge them for it. Everyone do your own thing! I personally don’t care what men think of the colors I’m wearing, but I do like to wear my bf’s favorite color sometimes. Guess that puts me somewhere in the middle 😊
I remember that Saran wrap thing - I thought it was ridiculous at the time.
Red. The answer is red. 0:12
The bleeps and the grumbling MAKE this video haha. Well, now we know.
I'm gonna have to sign up for your Patreon for 'our' version, that's interesting! I think the answers will be all over the place.And maybe more detailed (rust orange, soft green, warm yellow, lavender!)
Most men would say that their favorite color is red or black so they also like to see people wear their favorite color 😂😂😂😂
My husband doesn’t notice me so I dress for me. Love love love Sarah’s attitude. And I’m your mother’s age😊😊
That's a warning sign, look into that further.
I enjoyed this video so much, especially the parts where Sarah gets upset, hehe, I laughed a lot. Well, to me colours matter a lot. I'm cool in the 6 palette system and... I once rejected a guy that was all dressed in yellow including his underwear 😂
Hi ladies at 52 I'm probably age wise between you both. I think this was supposed to be a fun thing and is very reminiscent of magazine surveys in the eighties and nineties. Wearing a colour or clothing item your partner (of whatever gender) likes isn't offensive or unusual and is really just part of being in a relationship. Dressing entirely for someone else's opinion is a different matter altogether and not healthy at all. My partner has never ever said he doesn't like any specific colour on me, but has said a particular garment wasn't his favourite of what I own 😂. It's not something I pay too much attention to however it's usually something I am not a hundred percent sure of either 😂. Red was always going to be the favourite and has been for as long as I can remember in this type of survey. Best wishes x
With Sarah all the way :)
Omg i remember hearing about the saran wrap. Nope..never. I'm a pink freak. I wear pink for me.
No dr. Laura didn't start the saran wrap! It was Marabel Morgan in "Total Woman".
You two are adorable!
I wonder how many men cracked up laughing if their wife came to the door wearing saran weap.
1 in every 13 men are colorblind… my theory is that many man can’t see green… and red is seen as a beautiful color when you don’t see greens… yellow and orange did not get to the list and color blind people confused green with yellow and brown….
You two are so funny together 😂 if it's any consolation Sarah, I'm 60 and I'm with you all the way. Yuck. Men's opinions aren't anywhere on my radar regarding colour or much else tbh. Love you ladies! ❤
I love your channel, I don’t have the other platforms, I wanted to get on email list and it’s saying it’s not valid 😢
Red? I figured green and blue would have been the top.
It's a totally normal thing for a women (or a man) to want to be attractive and look good for their partner. Wearing something you know they like is a sign of putting effort into a relationship. Sara's attitude toward this topic and whole video was really disappointing and annoying. How about promoting some positive femininity instead of bashing on men?
It’s a little annoying to those who have outgrown it and cringe recognizing it in another but most women have been there sometime in their life. What disappointment has to do with it I don’t know. Her coping mechanisms to the societal expectations for women have literally no bearing on anything. It’s her experience and has nothing to do with you.
My husband hates pink -- on anyone. I guessed red for number 1.
Not a fan of Dr. Draculaura but also why equate femininity with weakness? I’m secure enough to wear colors freely and yes, sometimes for my husband. So what?
It means w “Darling I have nothing else to wear! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Most men don't know more than 7 colors...
Red
Hmm, neither yellow nor orange made the list, lol. Now, I think every person has their favorite colors, and of course, you can influence your SO to prefer wearing those colors. However, I also think it flows the other way: If I look fabulous in a pumpkin color, my SO is going to start liking me in pumpkin, because of how radiant I look. On the other hand, these "male-preferred" (so problematically binary, btw) colors aren't exactly ground-breaking: the human eye prefers shades of green, red has always been eye-catching and a symbol of danger and desire, purple dye was hard to get a hold of in antiquity, and the other colors complete the rainbow, so... duh. I'm not going to cut off my nose to spite my face, and say that I won't wear these colors only because a bunch of throw-backs showed a preference for them. As a 58-year-old feminist, I can relate to both points of view: I want to look attractive in my husband's eyes, and I also want to wear the colors that suit me best. Hubby loves this vicious, intense, purple blue color, but I'm never going to wear it- it doesn't suit me. He knows it, and we admire the color from afar :) BTW, I love reading/remembering and laughing at snippets of womanly advice from yesteryear (and not so long ago): Helen Gurley Brown, Gloria Vanderbilt, and a darling little list from the 50s(?) that went viral about having the children bathed and putting on a fresh dress to greet your husband when he gets home because he's had a hard day and doesn't want to hear screaming or fighting when he walks through the door :) The saran wrap thing was gold, though (like she's a piece of meat or something?) I'm surprised they didn't suggest opening the door in just and apron, lol!
Such a crabby attitude from Sarah made this video unwatchable if I wasn’t curious about the #1 color.
Exactly! If Sarah is going to be so insufferable on this topic, she should have let Lucinda host it without her. She is acting like a little girl who is still in her cootie phase. Some women out there want to attract their future husband. She is fortunate to have found hers.
If you think pleasing your husband is disgusting why are you married?
I'm sure she was trying to be funny, she didn't mean it, but she doesn't realize its 2024, the past 10 years and more is the age of toxic man hating feminism all over America and social media. She must be in a bubble. Just look at the election, and you can see the toxic feminists are all Democrats.
I am 35 and married with two boys. I am a modern woman but guys let me tell you - the proper care and feeding of husbands is the best book ever written haha I live for it and tell everyone to read it.
Not everybody is living in the Middle Age.
If you actually follow Dr Laura’s advice then you’d know it’s not the middle age haha
Red has to be 1. I cant wear it
How about “Hollywood Icon” in place of “sex symbol” 😉
I always say goth th0ttie was invented as a word for a reason hahaha. 😂 Guys swoon over black and red it never fails!
RED
Red❣️ My FAVE color ever!!!! Then, Turquoise or Teal, then Black 💖
So...we want to wear what looks good on us (in others' eyes)...EXCEPT our significant other? Doesn't that defeat the purpose?
Don't get me wrong; I'm a feminist, I bring home the bacon, and I dress the way I want (and my husband is fine w/ it). But if I'm trying to put my best appearance foot forward, he'd be the 1st one whose opinion I'd care about. Just sayin'.
Wow! so much disdain for men😒 Very disrespectful and... disappointing
Lighten up
@@AliceVFamesame could be said for Sarah. 😂
I can't believe Sarah's man hating attitude! I'm on here to figure out wife's coloring so I can buy her flattering Christmas gifts. I cherish my wife but if she acted like this I sure wouldn't! I thought you were a nice girl at first because you seemed kind and sensitive to say things like, "let's not say your WORST color....." and then this vlog!! It's a wonder you're even married!! I feel sorry for your husband if this is how you treat him! And you're very disrespectful to your mother! And she let's you get away with it because she loves you. Unsubscribed and definitely NOT joining patreon now!
I love her sassiness 🥰 You can leave if you don't.
I wear the colors that I personally like so I'm with Sara all the way! If my partner likes my colors then that's a bonus, but I only dress to impress myself. 😉
You ladies look beautiful in your green&blueish outfits!
Why does sarah hate men ? Ha ha. These are all my favorite colors. I'm a bright winter.These are the colors that look best on me. I loved this video minus the negativity. I will be very curious to see what the differences from the woman's list to the men's list.
What's wrong with considering your other half opinion weather Man or women 😂 we are not talking about strangers here😅
THUMBS DOWN - to send a message to SARAH, that in 2024, we are in the era of toxic feminism, we don't need comments, even in jest bashing men. America is so divided, the gender war is getting even worse, let's try and be positive and not cringe.
If you’re allowed your opinion, she’s allowed hers. Leave her alone.
@@emmamartin4045 If we're both allowed our opinions, why are you telling me I can't comment ? You leave me alone.
@@gobyfish1399 Because you’re the one who came after Sarah. If you don’t like a video, just don’t watch it maybe? It’s their channel, they can say whatever they want and if you’re not happy, just move on. Don’t push your stupid opinion on others.
The man bashing is so annoying at this point.
@@Maven_Morningstar Not as much as pick me behavior.