Why go home? She paid for a trip to Croatia. I would put my feelings on the back burner. I would make a readjustment. I would say I’m going to enjoy myself, and I would find places to go. That would be enjoyable. I’d flirt with whoever and not give it a single thought. Then go home.
He's been flat-out lying to her on line. Why else would she even go to see him if she didn't think there was a relationship? What a waste of a plane ticket.
Go home Vanja. There are tons of unemployed, short men, who live at home with thier mom in the US. They will be perfectly happy to use you for your money.
He needs to get his life together first, he doesn’t have a job, lives with mother and aunt.(🚩🚩) Vanja can do a lot better with someone who puts her first.
That was disgusting! Don’t they realise that even if it was a Disney fairytale love story she’d find out about it. He’s a creep and I reckon he’s happy to take her money
@@jillgosk8806I think that was just him trying to be funny. It wasn’t, but I highly doubt he pulled the flowers out of the dumpster. Joking in such a way, though, is the telling part. But, that is just my own opinion
I hated the build up, he really made it look like he was into her offering to introduce her to his parents etc, only to friendzone her within the same paragraph. She's just an option to his broke azz
WoOoo😮 I feel bad for her... That's soooooo embarrassing ....sucks when you have chemistry online and when you meet in person no chemistry....she needs to go find someone else
On one hand props to the dude for telling her off the rip. But it’s so obvious this guy isn’t over his ex. I feel bad for Vanja, cause even though I get that sometimes chemistry over text doesn’t match in person. I think it’s kinda crazy to friendzone someone after you already told them that you love them… especially if the way they act in person is the same over text. The only thing I can think is either this guy is still not over his ex or he’s not physically attracted to Vanja after meeting her in person or both.
That is why in a way it's bad to have a relationship online and then moving it to real life relationship. Online people can be anything (or feel one way), but differently in person. He should have been honest with her before she got there. He is 🗑️
It’s not “bad” to meet online then in person. My bf and I are very happy and we met online first. So many people have met their long term significant other through dating apps. Some people are just trash, and that’s regardless whether you meet online or not.
He couldn't have told her before , because he didnt know he'd feel this way in person .. I've been in his shoes , when a man traveled from France to come see me in canada. I tried to force it , and nothing made it click again after it unclicked at the airport , when I picked him up
Maybe she should have left him alone when he left her and came back again. Online and in person are two different things. Seems like he just wasn't feeling her when he saw her in person.
I appreciate his “transparency” as hurtful as it is cus clearly she visited him expecting more based on their online relationship. Ish happens.. not everything is meant to be…I wished after hearing what he said that she would superwoman up and be fabulous and go on to enjoy the rest of her trip without him.
He was not transparent in any way. He said I love you, allowed her to come out on the trip knowing there was a romantic implication, and he’s broke with no job. He’s a piece of shit.
He isnt feeling it for her, won't change....what a shame for her, I really like her, very sweet girl....she needs to go home and honestly his X hopefully will walk away too, karma....
You can be enthusiastic though, however he‘s probably still into his ex so he‘s not really open to her. You can just tell he‘s not into it. I‘m not saying he should force it. It‘s just a fact that he‘s not enthusiastic at all and this will fail.
@@Joleenzy when u finaly see someone u like for the first time .. and they look different then what u expected , it changes everything ! I've been there, and I did try to force it .. bad move! I turned out pregnant ( this man had a plan ! I never had unprotected s3x with him !) So, u gotta follow ur gut when meeting irl for the first time .. So, no he's not enthusiastic, because it's not a fun feeling , to be excited to meet someone, and for that feeling to change when u lay ur eyes on them
He Shouldn't have let her travel all over the world to see him & should have been completely honest to him front day one,cause he's back with his ex girlfriend and doesn't have a job & lives woth his mother and grandmother & continues to lie to her,WHAT A JERK 😡
The thing is, she didn’t catfish him, like a lot of these people do, using heavy filters and fake lives. She is the real deal. I think he likes being the center of attention and she actually is naturally. He’s intimidated.
Is it just me or does Vanja seem like a Cortney Reardanz 2.0 & the reason why I'm asking this is because the same thing happened to Vanja like it did to Cortney which was in their own separate scenes they BOTH showed up at the airport ONLY to be stood up, Vanja & Cortney are both BEAUTIFUL women HOWEVER as I said before with Vanja, they BOTH need to women up & start focusing on themselves & NOT become desperate asf when it comes to men in general frfr💯
Cortney is dating colt.. that says a while lot about her lol These women are average looking , and as far as cortney goes, she's slow af .. vanya, is making herself less attractive with her makeup and style.. I bet it was a shock after all the filtered pics .. so now he's gotta try to look past all that .. but first impressions are very important when u transition from online to in person and have used so many filters .. I met a guy from France online ,and when I picked him up at the airport , I knew it wasn't gonna go anywhere
I know we're not supposed to say it due to culture but is he gay? If he likes her emotionally, honestly, we've all been with people who weren't crazy hot but had great personalities. I wondered this with Chidi too (chicken lady was cray but still).
@@sabbymw he loved her, despite a lot of things , that's why.. He's being cautious .. she threatened him a lot before going .. And he did brake up with her in 2020 because of her behavior.. they didn't talk for 3 whole yrs , until she got a callback from the show in summer 2023 He was being safe , and had all the reasons for doing so
Yup.. I think he was in shock .. and first impressions are so important when meeting in real life after being online for months. I've been there , when a man from France flew to Canada to meet me . And when he landed , I was just like bozo .. I knew it wasn't gonna work . Everything changed
I am finding Vanja difficult to watch. She's hooked herself into some kind of fantasy of what she dreams their relationship to be, groveling for Bozo's attention and settling for the crumbs from his table as he serenades her with platitudes.
I am sad for her..... She should be someones No.1 !!! Too good for him and his games....
He does find her attractive but he is already enamored with his ex. Dudes a jerk
I agree.
I like Vanja but she gives off this desperate energy.
EXACTLY 💯%!
He's no prize.
She is in what way?
I would go home. . Not worth it😂
I know poor thing, she should just have a great holiday and put a hold on meeting his family
No, she booked 3 weeks. Enjoy the rest of the trip! But without him!
Why go home? She paid for a trip to Croatia. I would put my feelings on the back burner. I would make a readjustment. I would say I’m going to enjoy myself, and I would find places to go. That would be enjoyable. I’d flirt with whoever and not give it a single thought. Then go home.
@@Kingslasher-eh5loYes..exactly!👍
He's been flat-out lying to her on line. Why else would she even go to see him if she didn't think there was a relationship? What a waste of a plane ticket.
Bozo the bum ain't all that, to be putting her or any woman through all that..
Go home Vanja. There are tons of unemployed, short men, who live at home with thier mom in the US. They will be perfectly happy to use you for your money.
I think She just needs to leave well alone, find someone who wants her for her.
No one wants to be Bozo the clowns second choice…BOY BYE
He needs to get his life together first, he doesn’t have a job, lives with mother and aunt.(🚩🚩) Vanja can do a lot better with someone who puts her first.
Exactly! He gave her a flower that he found in the dump. She can do so much better!!
That was disgusting! Don’t they realise that even if it was a Disney fairytale love story she’d find out about it. He’s a creep and I reckon he’s happy to take her money
@@jillgosk8806I think that was just him trying to be funny. It wasn’t, but I highly doubt he pulled the flowers out of the dumpster. Joking in such a way, though, is the telling part. But, that is just my own opinion
I hated the build up, he really made it look like he was into her offering to introduce her to his parents etc, only to friendzone her within the same paragraph. She's just an option to his broke azz
WoOoo😮 I feel bad for her... That's soooooo embarrassing ....sucks when you have chemistry online and when you meet in person no chemistry....she needs to go find someone else
She's Beautiful. I am sure she will find the right Person.
She is average looking.
Bozo will ever grown up, too many red flags. Vanja is on a different level, she needs to dump his ass & go home. It's painful to watch them! 🤬😡🥵🤡
Yeah!
I think I would just fly home.
You can bet he’s happy to take her money though. She needs to RUN!!!
He’s pretty cold…has no chemistry, no attraction towards her whatsoever! He’s not even able to fake 😞
On one hand props to the dude for telling her off the rip. But it’s so obvious this guy isn’t over his ex. I feel bad for Vanja, cause even though I get that sometimes chemistry over text doesn’t match in person. I think it’s kinda crazy to friendzone someone after you already told them that you love them… especially if the way they act in person is the same over text.
The only thing I can think is either this guy is still not over his ex or he’s not physically attracted to Vanja after meeting her in person or both.
That is why in a way it's bad to have a relationship online and then moving it to real life relationship. Online people can be anything (or feel one way), but differently in person. He should have been honest with her before she got there. He is 🗑️
It’s not “bad” to meet online then in person. My bf and I are very happy and we met online first. So many people have met their long term significant other through dating apps. Some people are just trash, and that’s regardless whether you meet online or not.
@WafflePancakes1314 Yes some people work out. But look how many 90 day couples failed and they meet online.
@@WafflePancakes1314 No need to brag
He couldn't have told her before , because he didnt know he'd feel this way in person ..
I've been in his shoes , when a man traveled from France to come see me in canada.
I tried to force it , and nothing made it click again after it unclicked at the airport , when I picked him up
@@azazello1784 that's not bragging .. stop being miserable 😂
Maybe she should have left him alone when he left her and came back again. Online and in person are two different things. Seems like he just wasn't feeling her when he saw her in person.
I appreciate his “transparency” as hurtful as it is cus clearly she visited him expecting more based on their online relationship. Ish happens.. not everything is meant to be…I wished after hearing what he said that she would superwoman up and be fabulous and go on to enjoy the rest of her trip without him.
He was not transparent in any way. He said I love you, allowed her to come out on the trip knowing there was a romantic implication, and he’s broke with no job. He’s a piece of shit.
Hope she cut her loses and embarrassment and went home!
I wonder if she used filters?
Her energy is intense and is overpowering his energy and it feels very uncomfortable and unbalancing to him like he's been hit by a runaway truck.
He isnt feeling it for her, won't change....what a shame for her, I really like her, very sweet girl....she needs to go home and honestly his X hopefully will walk away too, karma....
Why does TLC choose people who can’t even take care of themselves? Nevermind getting married and needing to support each other!!! TLC
This is normal. Chemistry is important. You can't determine it online.
You can be enthusiastic though, however he‘s probably still into his ex so he‘s not really open to her. You can just tell he‘s not into it. I‘m not saying he should force it. It‘s just a fact that he‘s not enthusiastic at all and this will fail.
Not true.
@@Joleenzy when u finaly see someone u like for the first time .. and they look different then what u expected , it changes everything !
I've been there, and I did try to force it .. bad move!
I turned out pregnant ( this man had a plan ! I never had unprotected s3x with him !)
So, u gotta follow ur gut when meeting irl for the first time ..
So, no he's not enthusiastic, because it's not a fun feeling , to be excited to meet someone, and for that feeling to change when u lay ur eyes on them
He wrong for that he could have told that girl that he was on was going to friend her he still like his ex he wrong for that he really wrong for that
I mean come on…dude brings her flowers from a dumpster!🤦 Loser. He is not a bit interested in her…she needs to move on..
He Shouldn't have let her travel all over the world to see him & should have been completely honest to him front day one,cause he's back with his ex girlfriend and doesn't have a job & lives woth his mother and grandmother & continues to lie to her,WHAT A JERK 😡
Vanja is a definite Single Life spin off. She's amazing.
This is an issue with online "relationship"......it doesn't always translate irl. Vanja, he's just not into you!!!!!! Cut your losses & go home.....
SCRUB/BOZO : listen to the song Vanja ..that was my mantra back in the day😅😅😅😅
She should ask to meet his friends, & then pick a cute one to spend the next couple of weeks with 😆
Vanya needs to work on herself first. She has serious trauma. She doesnt need a bum in her life. She is ambitious and needs someone successful too.
Not sure what she sees in him!
At least he’s been honest a guess
He hasn’t though! What is with people saying that?
The thing is, she didn’t catfish him, like a lot of these people do, using heavy filters and fake lives. She is the real deal. I think he likes being the center of attention and she actually is naturally. He’s intimidated.
Having so.much in US and going after a looser is mind boggling
She is pretty much a loser herself if she is young as she is and successful as she is and haven't beeb able to find a man in the US in 6yrs DAMN.
Is it just me or does Vanja seem like a Cortney Reardanz 2.0 & the reason why I'm asking this is because the same thing happened to Vanja like it did to Cortney which was in their own separate scenes they BOTH showed up at the airport ONLY to be stood up, Vanja & Cortney are both BEAUTIFUL women HOWEVER as I said before with Vanja, they BOTH need to women up & start focusing on themselves & NOT become desperate asf when it comes to men in general frfr💯
Cortney is dating colt.. that says a while lot about her lol
These women are average looking , and as far as cortney goes, she's slow af .. vanya, is making herself less attractive with her makeup and style.. I bet it was a shock after all the filtered pics .. so now he's gotta try to look past all that .. but first impressions are very important when u transition from online to in person and have used so many filters ..
I met a guy from France online ,and when I picked him up at the airport , I knew it wasn't gonna go anywhere
The fact she got back with him after he dumped her for someone else. She dumb.
So you is telling the truth because he did so the first time for his ex that's what he want his ex-girlfriend back
I know we're not supposed to say it due to culture but is he gay? If he likes her emotionally, honestly, we've all been with people who weren't crazy hot but had great personalities. I wondered this with Chidi too (chicken lady was cray but still).
👏🏼
Gay because he made a vow to not have s3x again till marriage ??
@@annicklagace7414 no, not because of that. I'm just wondering why he's saying he has no chemistry with someone he also says he loves. It's a bit off.
@@sabbymw he loved her, despite a lot of things , that's why..
He's being cautious .. she threatened him a lot before going ..
And he did brake up with her in 2020 because of her behavior.. they didn't talk for 3 whole yrs , until she got a callback from the show in summer 2023
He was being safe , and had all the reasons for doing so
@annicklagace7414 oh. That's a lot more context. So he already wasn't really into her. That makes so much more sense. Thank you
Shes too much especially all the pink and pink makeup
Yup.. I think he was in shock .. and first impressions are so important when meeting in real life after being online for months.
I've been there , when a man from France flew to Canada to meet me . And when he landed , I was just like bozo .. I knew it wasn't gonna work . Everything changed
I am finding Vanja difficult to watch. She's hooked herself into some kind of fantasy of what she dreams their relationship to be, groveling for Bozo's attention and settling for the crumbs from his table as he serenades her with platitudes.
She is too pushy
How many guys has Vanya probably put in the "friendszone" during her "drought"? Karma really is the b-word.