Do I need to ask my Spouse for Permission?| Marriage Assumptions and Myths| Let's debunk

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Before getting married, we all have assumptions and expectations of how married life will be like. Some of these assumptions are certainly not true, at least from my experience so i debunked some of them.
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Комментарии • 79

  • @BennyKBeauty
    @BennyKBeauty 9 месяцев назад +24

    Let’s take a moment to GUSH on Lisa’s beauty! Hair on fleek, makeup glowing, accessories check, outfit popping… MARRIAGE on fleek! Here are you flowers darling 💐💐💐

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes please! Awww thank you so much 🥳🥳 you’re so kind

  • @Robinnah
    @Robinnah 9 месяцев назад +13

    It's so timely for me ❤. Feels like a bridal shower here. I'm getting married this Friday, 3rd Nov
    23. And this is all I needed to hear! Thank you, Lisa. ❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад +1

      Anha right timing🥳🥳🥳👏🏾👏🏾 wishing you all the best my dear

    • @rachellorna5109
      @rachellorna5109 9 месяцев назад

      Aww congratulations! ❤🎉

  • @mildrednakaayi
    @mildrednakaayi 8 месяцев назад +3

    This was really helpful especially the point you made about marriage being a prison. People say these things and those of us that are not yet married are scared. Thank yiu Lisa ❤❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад +2

      It’s a lie from the enemy. Just choose right and things will be good

  • @jeanninek_rabo
    @jeanninek_rabo 8 месяцев назад +4

    My assumption was that my husband would help in the kitchen because he knows how to cook. Only to find that, he prefers to eat food that I've made instead. His hands "forgot" how to do housework 😂!! It used to bother me at first, until I decided to make peace with it and accepted my role as the wife in the home.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      Hoooo😂😂😂
      Dangerous 😂😂😂 glad you accepted

  • @douglasmartinssemaganda
    @douglasmartinssemaganda 9 месяцев назад +7

    I am a second born, so i came in thinking i will keep living a low key second - born lifestyle. Man, thing is about LEADING a home like a First born.😂😅. Thank you Lisa for the episode

  • @Momo-xb5cu
    @Momo-xb5cu 9 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Lisa, the Lord God led me to your channel a month ago. I have learnt so much from the various discussions and i love your authentic and bubbly personality. Sending love from South Africa. God bless you.

  • @doreenblessed9472
    @doreenblessed9472 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Lisa for inspiring the women community

  • @charlottenatumanya4168
    @charlottenatumanya4168 9 месяцев назад +2

    You are a wise woman Lisa, thank you for sharing your wisdom with us

  • @phionakyalikunda4541
    @phionakyalikunda4541 9 месяцев назад +2

    Lisa, so stunning! we are cutting the expectations down😂😂😂thank you

  • @yourstrulydenise7272
    @yourstrulydenise7272 9 месяцев назад +1

    I really assumed
    surely ooh it was sad …. This Marriage is Humbling…..thanks Lisa 🙏🏻God bless you

  • @nakamatte.brenda.blessed
    @nakamatte.brenda.blessed 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great conversation 👏👏 thanks for sharing Lisa

  • @kihumuronash951
    @kihumuronash951 8 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful topic lisa. Inspired here

  • @nabukaluharriet3026
    @nabukaluharriet3026 9 месяцев назад +1

    Haaaha..this is encouraging to know that iam not alone..i feel overwhelmed...from being a wife..a mom..employee..student..trying to start a side hustle also..kwegamba

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Surely you are not alone

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 9 месяцев назад +3

    But Lisa, please don't burst our bubble like that 😂😂. But on a real, all the points you've shared are so true oh my 📌. Thank you for the insights

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад +1

      Today I came to burst all the bubbles 😂😂😂

    • @rachellorna5109
      @rachellorna5109 8 месяцев назад

      @@LisaKusiima whew! 😁😁

  • @rachealnjogu
    @rachealnjogu 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lisa, Always on point👌👌👌. When I grow up..😊😊😊.

  • @stellanantongo4682
    @stellanantongo4682 9 месяцев назад

    Good message Lisa n thxs for being smart am coming for that dress 😂

  • @NDS119
    @NDS119 6 месяцев назад

    😂😂😂True that marriage in movies confuses us a lot.

  • @user-wn4tj3iq2w
    @user-wn4tj3iq2w 9 месяцев назад

    Mob love from kenya 🇰🇪 you inspire me alot,more blessings 🙌

  • @KamusiimeSharon-di8yo
    @KamusiimeSharon-di8yo 9 месяцев назад

    I can't wait being married 😂😂 Lisa nkwegomba

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Hahaha Amen! May you find the right one

  • @ritahnamakula745
    @ritahnamakula745 9 месяцев назад +1

    This videos has re-emphasized the fact that "the things you hate when dating, you'll grow to hate them even more and the things you seem to love, you'll also get to hate them."

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Generally human beings are hard. Look to God to help hehe

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Dating and courtship are very different from marriage 😂

  • @febroniusbabirye571
    @febroniusbabirye571 8 месяцев назад

    It's the green and red for me😅

  • @tofarallen7285
    @tofarallen7285 8 месяцев назад

    I always thought it would keep burning going together for soccer and movies always together...hooo like, u said 4 years now, mature love here

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      Hahahaha real mature love

  • @charlottenatumanya4168
    @charlottenatumanya4168 9 месяцев назад +1

    Couldn't agree more 💯

  • @G_and_A_farm
    @G_and_A_farm 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Steve for giving away millions 😁
    Lisa please make us a giveaway 😀😀😀

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Hahahhahaha we must manage the budget

  • @urbanhennabyherlymer4512
    @urbanhennabyherlymer4512 8 месяцев назад +1

    I thought We wd be doing dates the way we did during dating 😂😂 but banange he prefers staying home

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      Hahhahahahah the chase stopped. Bambi try to squeeze in at least once a week

  • @ConquererAnita-ns7qu
    @ConquererAnita-ns7qu 8 месяцев назад

    Ts the light bulb for mi, surely i love my mixed cotton sheets surely

  • @carolineakello8849
    @carolineakello8849 9 месяцев назад +1

    Its your contagious laugh for me😅

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 I need to be more serious I think

    • @nabukaluharriet3026
      @nabukaluharriet3026 9 месяцев назад

      @@LisaKusiima you are doing great

  • @Nantumbwe-sarah
    @Nantumbwe-sarah 3 месяца назад

    The ka fire😂😂😂😂

  • @aggiekisakye674
    @aggiekisakye674 8 месяцев назад +1

    The truth is having sex all the time scares me. I think it's my biggest fear so hopefully you're right😅

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      I am telling you 😂😂

  • @allshehasisGod
    @allshehasisGod 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @asiatwikiriize5
    @asiatwikiriize5 8 месяцев назад

    I thought sex would be like food, like every time he would see me, it would be bed time . But hoooo sometimes it's me declining

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 9 месяцев назад +1

    It's not excuses Lisa. The responsibilities are overwhelming 😂😂😂😂Most especially the raising of young children. Once a woman gives birth, the maternal instincts kick in. Her children come first naturally. The brain space for sex is completely taken up by the babies 😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад +2

      And that’s what we have to work on. Ensuring our husband remain in first place. And communicating the support we need etc. I know it’s not easy but more service needed hehe

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@LisaKusiima That's right. I still believe there is a lot of unfair pressure on women to make marriages work. There is one major expection on a man ie to make money and if a man chose not to do it, he would still get away with it. They would say he has been bewitched. 😷😷 As his wife, it is your responsibility to pray and fast for him( Mind you, this is something he would still have to do with or without a marriage) I have never heard anyone tell men to be their wife's peace, to be emotionally there for them, to pray for them at midnight to make sure they are not snatched, to treat his inlaws well, etc. Meanwhile the expections on women keep piling up. Be a lady on the street, and a beast in bed. Be his peace. Make sure the children do not disturb his peace. Be the peace to his inlaws. Pursue a career. Etc. Lisa, who is supposed to be the woman's peace? It's a genuine question by the way. Why is it that when a man cheats, its never his Fault? 😁😁😁Could you kindly have a guest to discuss the role of a man in a marriage or you have done that already 🤔🤔.

  • @noreennakazibwe1435
    @noreennakazibwe1435 9 месяцев назад

    Sharing, accepting to change and am really scared of everyday sex 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌holy spirit you will have to come in almost everyday 😅like seriously

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад +1

      Hahah don’t worry it won’t be everyday 😂

    • @noreennakazibwe1435
      @noreennakazibwe1435 9 месяцев назад

      @@LisaKusiima 🤣🤣🤣🤣kale kangume but thanks for your educative content 🤝🤝🤝you are really blessing my future journey 🙌🙌 be blessed too Ka mama 🙏🏾

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад +1

      @@noreennakazibwe1435 here for you 🥳

  • @urbanhennabyherlymer4512
    @urbanhennabyherlymer4512 8 месяцев назад

    10:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 9 месяцев назад

    4:34 😂😂😂😂😂😂 They know he will go out of his way to get it. How that affects him, they don't care. A receiver will not set a boundary for you.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Ahhaaa dangerous 😅😂😂

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 8 месяцев назад

    💕💗💓💞

  • @uwasegrace3157
    @uwasegrace3157 9 месяцев назад

    The Jinjja jazz hahahaha.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 месяцев назад

      Imagine haha

    • @ConquererAnita-ns7qu
      @ConquererAnita-ns7qu 8 месяцев назад +1

      The way I loved to be taken out, hmm he loves home beta than out. And I have adjusted surely.

    • @urbanhennabyherlymer4512
      @urbanhennabyherlymer4512 8 месяцев назад

      @@ConquererAnita-ns7qusame here .. he prefers home food to outing food 🥹