What Husbands and Wives NEED in Marriage | Things to avoid

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2023
  • In this video we share our thoughts on a husband's needs and a wife's needs in marriage. Women and Men are different and therefore its important that we each learn our partners so that we can serve in the best way possible.
    Steve and I make 6 years in marriage and thought we would share our thoughts on this with you.
    Get the Health check tool here mailchi.mp/e985195c04dd/marri...
    #husbandwife #marriageadvice #lisakusiima

Комментарии • 355

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe Год назад +57

    Lisa's first point should be put on the billboard

  • @flexwithlaura
    @flexwithlaura 16 дней назад +1

    "If servanthood is beneath you, then leadership is above you" 🤭🤭. How am I just finding you Lisa!!! I love this conversation ❤❤❤❤

  • @wafiworld1
    @wafiworld1 Год назад +11

    Stumbled on this today, I'm glad I checked it out, Steve represented us Men very well, and Lisa made clear what women want. This is something I'll be sharing with my friend friends. Oh, I'm 7 yrs married and I endorse this content.

  • @droliatashobya
    @droliatashobya Год назад +17

    It's comforting to know that we all similar in this marriage thing. Thanks Lisa for yet another lovely video 😍

  • @ninakatungi9568
    @ninakatungi9568 Год назад +7

    I loved watching this and it’s so relatable - Very well done to you Lisa & Steve…❤

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt Год назад +8

    Women also want to be respected. Sometimes the men enjoy the respect given to them so so much that they forget to reciprocate it, and rather begin to "look down" (in luganda to kujooga) their partner.
    And on the point of communication, men should remember to also communicate in our love language/ be more attentive to our needs.

  • @mofahloshichuene4935
    @mofahloshichuene4935 Год назад +2

    Thank you to the both of you for being so candid. I am here taking notes as I'm preparing and( in waiting) for this godly institution. More grace in your marriage...💝

  • @happysoul5501
    @happysoul5501 Год назад +2

    Honest and Open communication, yes!!yes!!

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +1

    Mr Steve and Lisa thank you so much for this wonderful knowledge we are waiting on Steve again he is a blessing

  • @ceciliaakellonokrach4287
    @ceciliaakellonokrach4287 Год назад +1

    Beautiful thank you so much for this discussion

  • @asiimwebrenda6129
    @asiimwebrenda6129 Год назад +3

    I enjoy watching couples come up and encourage us who hope to get married interesting topic Lisa and Steve.

  • @marliekweika
    @marliekweika Год назад +3

    “Just give, you won’t die”. 🤣🤣🤣 wow Steve

  • @pat1998
    @pat1998 Год назад +4

    Yes more Steve on the show but Lisa is really good at this!

  • @presht5596
    @presht5596 Год назад +16

    Let's not skip ads. So that Lisa can earn.

  • @ninahloy9396
    @ninahloy9396 Год назад +3

    Well done Lisa. This is so nice.

  • @Callmehildaglosh
    @Callmehildaglosh Год назад +7

    Yes to having Steve more on the channel. Your views are all valid 🎉

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 Год назад +1

    This was really insightful! More STEVE on the show most def💯. Very humble guy!

  • @mourinieenatukunda
    @mourinieenatukunda Год назад

    Thank you Lisa and Steve.

  • @ruthkabugho6386
    @ruthkabugho6386 Год назад +7

    The accuracy in this talk👌and yet my eyes are glued on Lisa's makeup.

  • @preciousprimaguma4057
    @preciousprimaguma4057 Год назад +3

    I like this conversation, getting ready to get to that stage in life

  • @barbraayesiga2036
    @barbraayesiga2036 Год назад +2

    This is nice and educative Lisa. I love❤

  • @heavenacloe
    @heavenacloe Год назад +2

    Thank you Lisa
    I'm in love with the post💞

  • @user-co3io2fg3k
    @user-co3io2fg3k 7 месяцев назад +1

    This has been so educative.thanks I pray I put all these into action

  • @daisytuape5328
    @daisytuape5328 Год назад +7

    Lisa this is good may God bless you and give you more thoughts ...you are indeed speaking our thoughts

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 Год назад +1

    This is awesome, really opens my mind as a soon to Wed.

  • @kaddumarvian1257
    @kaddumarvian1257 Год назад +12

    I hear your Husband, Steve is it . When he says peace is key to men. I respect that.... but I also believe that men should be willing to invest peace in the home. Don't be wanting peace but your always creating opportunities for unrest. Some men's interpretation of peace is doing all the things that ensure unrest and expect the woman to keep silent and shock absorb. So peace is key, but it's an investment aswell.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +2

      Oh yes🎉🎉 you have said it well

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +4

    Yes Lisa am with you on security it is so true

  • @samaliekisakye1158
    @samaliekisakye1158 Год назад +4

    Yes to that 1st point Lisa... Thank you for this ☺️

  • @Mat2max
    @Mat2max Год назад +3

    The episodes keep getting better. Well done 👏

  • @kentechsoft7265
    @kentechsoft7265 Год назад +1

    Great representation for men from Steve, great content Lisa. Keep them coming

  • @mutembeisallykendi8384
    @mutembeisallykendi8384 Год назад +6

    I've literally been listening to videos from this you tube channel the entire day! I wonder why I did find such helpful christian content early, but anywho, am glad am here. Mob love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @mamazara7743
    @mamazara7743 Год назад

    So nice make up Lisa.thanks for such good words

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 10 месяцев назад

    Lisa has said it all for all of us!!! You’ve said all the points I’d have said if asked

  • @NyawiD.o.a.K
    @NyawiD.o.a.K Год назад

    That leadership point. This one is VERY KEY 100%. Men need to be leaders not authoritative but taking Charge

  • @ainembabazisusan-evidentbe7066
    @ainembabazisusan-evidentbe7066 Год назад +3

    I love this 😂 ... How many times am going to rewatch I cant mention

  • @ankundaliz9124
    @ankundaliz9124 3 месяца назад

    May God bless your marriage Lisa and Steve,u really bless us alot

  • @doreenblessed9472
    @doreenblessed9472 Год назад +1

    Yeèeeeyiiiiiiiiiii we are happy to have Steve around.

  • @DearDora
    @DearDora Год назад +1

    ♥️♥️♥️ 1st point from Lisa is 💯💃

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +2

    Yes Mr Steve should come to encourage men and always help us women to know how men think

  • @butetsiracheal3608
    @butetsiracheal3608 Год назад +3

    Good job Lisa I love this topic

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +3

    Wow I love Lisa your so real

  • @kantengwabarbra4685
    @kantengwabarbra4685 5 месяцев назад

    Lisaaaaa, you are just the best!! You should do more of these conversations with your Cheri!! I loved this particular one!! Watching from the US.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ayesigalasto2446
    @ayesigalasto2446 Год назад

    Am really enjoying this, thanks guys

  • @kokundavanessa7031
    @kokundavanessa7031 Год назад +1

    Thank you the Mugisa's, really loved this and enjoyed watching the chemistry between you two. Now let me go and put Steve's points into practice. Especially the one that "oils" the marriage.🤭

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      Hahahah oils the marriage 😂😂

  • @SamorahJAkanye
    @SamorahJAkanye Год назад +1

    Very informative. Thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @chisomomussa2304
    @chisomomussa2304 Год назад +2

    Lisa this is so wowww like the break down of the conversation is so clear and helpful. Like i just came across your channel today like now now and it's on time this is something i was longing to hear i had some struggles but now i know what it is thanks alot 🙏 and yeah we need Steve more in the channel you both are a bomb 💣 together 🙏🥳🥳🥳

  • @nantongomargret5124
    @nantongomargret5124 Год назад

    Thanks Lisa and Steve ❤ am praying to God one day I find my soul mate too 🙏

  • @agabamartha4912
    @agabamartha4912 Год назад +2

    Amazing👏👏👏👏👏and so much to learn, I think we should have Steve come on the shows every month to give us that angle of the men.

  • @soniabukirwa6522
    @soniabukirwa6522 Год назад +15

    Yes, please have more of Steve on the channel. You two are a fire combination together! Happy New Year.

  • @QueenB2022
    @QueenB2022 Год назад

    Wow that was beautiful and interesting to watch Steve should come often 👍🏽

  • @wanyanapatrisha6753
    @wanyanapatrisha6753 Год назад +2

    Not me making notes as i prepare for the journey thanks Lisa you have made my research about marriage before i enter easy.

  • @niwenshabagloria1055
    @niwenshabagloria1055 Год назад +1

    Thank u Lisa...this is so impressive...I have learnt alot from u

  • @hidayahnakiguli3658
    @hidayahnakiguli3658 Год назад

    Thank u so much Lisa for sharing I really feel changed.

  • @namugerwajuliet4633
    @namugerwajuliet4633 Год назад

    Yes just like we have the lovely Rissa &Quan couple ohhh wow❤❤❤ u guys can as well name the channel Lisa&Steve❤❤ have just found this channel but wow its helpful , kudos Lisa😘

  • @sherrywilliams3691
    @sherrywilliams3691 Год назад

    These episodes with steve are really mwaaa....pliz steve come more often

  • @Fattahssesanga9747
    @Fattahssesanga9747 Год назад +1

    Love u both. ❤❤ And yes to having Steve more often

  • @kigsvicky5357
    @kigsvicky5357 Год назад +2

    well said Lisa darling.... thank you sooo much
    am picking and learning alot from ur channel
    am a work in progress♥️

  • @rotondwasigama8700
    @rotondwasigama8700 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ We see you from 🇿🇦
    Keep it up, we love to see this content often.

  • @namudduhaliima4126
    @namudduhaliima4126 Год назад +1

    Steve is a whole vibe, we definately want more of steve here banange Lisa

  • @mumkhloe5803
    @mumkhloe5803 Год назад

    Thank you Lisa🥰

  • @ROLLWITHLIZ
    @ROLLWITHLIZ Год назад +1

    I like this conversation ❤ but Steve is so funny 😂 with his answers

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 Год назад +1

    Lovely video... I'll surely do better for my husband ❤️

  • @i_amrlestiahn
    @i_amrlestiahn Год назад +6

    Hi Lisa , this is amazing. Am soon getting married this year to my best friend and all these points are valid . Totally appreciate 🙏🏼 🙌🏾

  • @celineopido7903
    @celineopido7903 10 месяцев назад

    I love these kinds of conversations esp btn hubby and wife.

  • @user-cy5rj4hg7q
    @user-cy5rj4hg7q 10 месяцев назад

    LISA YOU ARE THE BEST INSPIRATION FOR ME EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  10 месяцев назад

      I see you girl😍😍 binging 😍

  • @flaviassali6163
    @flaviassali6163 Год назад

    Such a supportive husband

  • @ritahtayebwa5752
    @ritahtayebwa5752 Год назад +2

    This was so interesting

  • @mujunistephen1122
    @mujunistephen1122 Год назад

    Lisa's points are superb

  • @zamzamssalih
    @zamzamssalih Год назад +5

    All ur videos are so educative Lisa, the jolly ness in u attracts me more to watch every single video.But this one i hv laughed ,eee.Steve isn't shy anymore 😛

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Год назад

    I’m sharing this with my friends ❤

  • @stellakatendenakitende6200
    @stellakatendenakitende6200 Год назад

    eeeeh thank you guys for this💕💕me I have learnt someting from the other side of men😊

  • @user-gx5up9bk1w
    @user-gx5up9bk1w 5 месяцев назад

    Thank u, lovely couple❤

  • @florencebuwembo9409
    @florencebuwembo9409 Год назад

    We really need Steve more Lisa ,his vybe

  • @ssentongojoshua5185
    @ssentongojoshua5185 11 месяцев назад

    Great conversation, waiting for the tool payment is done

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 месяцев назад

      Kindly check your email now.

  • @twakiireprim8562
    @twakiireprim8562 3 месяца назад +1

    This hair makes you look good🎉you should repeat it sometime

  • @reginahnakibuule6444
    @reginahnakibuule6444 6 месяцев назад

    Lisa you spoke my mind 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @faithmiracle6314
    @faithmiracle6314 Год назад

    😍😍😍Lisa You really amazing.i love your content.

  • @Anitah.k201
    @Anitah.k201 Год назад +2

    You guys are becoming my favorite couple 💑 😍

  • @shamimnabayiki6842
    @shamimnabayiki6842 Год назад +4

    I love it weneva I see a post of u too guys❤️

  • @ankundaadella6410
    @ankundaadella6410 Год назад +1

    Hullo LK am new here I like your duet already hopefully your channel will help mend my unstable marriage.amen

  • @ahimbisibwegloria8660
    @ahimbisibwegloria8660 Год назад +1

    Lisa, this your first point aaah may God bless u

  • @namusaazijuliet8831
    @namusaazijuliet8831 Год назад +3

    A big yes for me coz I would like to hear alot from the men side before going to marriage. Just make a plan at least once in a month and bring Steve in these spaces

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Hehe Steve will come back many months to come.. I’ll bring other men

  • @asiimwebrenda6129
    @asiimwebrenda6129 Год назад

    Spiritual leadship is very important actually leadship generally is key to me if he doesn't lead if feel like he doesn't care

  • @gloriakemunto9490
    @gloriakemunto9490 Год назад +1

    I hardly comment. But this was very insightful. Thanks Lisa and Steve. From Nairobi 🇰🇪

  • @preciousprimaguma4057
    @preciousprimaguma4057 Год назад

    Love u Lisa ur really good @ what u do

  • @MelusiZiqubu-yq3nn
    @MelusiZiqubu-yq3nn 5 месяцев назад

    Communication is the most key Aspect in marriage. I would like to hear you guys dwelling much on it. Believe you me lacked communicative mechanism is Divorce....

  • @dorisoreko
    @dorisoreko 8 месяцев назад

    I thank God the day i discovered you❤❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      Aww that’s so encouraging I am glad

  • @lovejoymaseko470
    @lovejoymaseko470 4 месяца назад

    Learning Learning ❤❤watching from zim

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 месяца назад

      Wow glad to have you here

  • @williamslauraanwuli662
    @williamslauraanwuli662 Год назад

    Weldon sir & ma🤗🤗🥰

  • @nellymakode8724
    @nellymakode8724 Год назад +1

    Steve should come more on the show, he brings the male perspective- which is appreciated

  • @rachealthechosen6061
    @rachealthechosen6061 Год назад

    Thanks ,am learning how i will handle my home before getting marriage 😌 ,God bless you

  • @zeeckymande1084
    @zeeckymande1084 Год назад +1

    Lisa, you are very correct. This locking of doors, it seems a small thing, but it plays a major role. A lot of women later complain in their marriages that the man leaves everything in the home for them, I always say if you start locking the doors, he interprets it as you being able and not needing his help.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +2

      He will let you do everything 😂😂

    • @ahimbisibwegloria8660
      @ahimbisibwegloria8660 Год назад

      Oh God, I have been locking doors since and he even has to ask me if I have closed everywhere. I may lock them forever because eeeh

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      @@ahimbisibwegloria8660 😭

  • @jemidovemelysa2248
    @jemidovemelysa2248 Год назад

    Banange friendship is key..thanks lisa

  • @nasasiraronah2947
    @nasasiraronah2947 Год назад

    Waoo wat agreat moment with you guys

  • @Winniemac_
    @Winniemac_ Год назад +1

    Awesome👏👏👏

  • @chrisnkundizana7029
    @chrisnkundizana7029 4 месяца назад

    But Steve, nedda can't stop laughing at the bit of helping home. lol🤣

  • @kyomuhendoannah995
    @kyomuhendoannah995 Год назад

    I never miss Steve's vlogs

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Hahah bambi even mine don’t miss them😂😂

  • @ritahnamakula745
    @ritahnamakula745 Год назад +4

    Glad to see Steve opening up and getting more comfortable and confident

  • @cordeliaakahirwa6249
    @cordeliaakahirwa6249 Год назад

    😂😂🤣 Yahh, Lisa's point 1 is It for me. As for Steve's response mbu we will Try.lol.🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @JAYC-U8G
    @JAYC-U8G 3 месяца назад

    Aky I laughed soo hard on the you cannot die part🤣🤣🤣. Proud of you both, from Kenya💡