I don't feel that Mo understands her in the way that's stimulating to have a great conversation. If I were Anne, I wouldn't find it easy to enjoy the convo, honestly.
This is one of my favourite podcasts. Both of you, Mo and Annie, are so lovely to listen to and I appreciate the cadence of words and their depth presented in so matter a fact way. It really all does make sense. Much resonance. Deep appreciation. On the topic of love as our nature, as our ground of being, yes. I see that love permeates all, for we are that which we are looking for. And recognising this in ourselves is the key to recognising it in our Beloved. ❤ “settling” therefore is not love, but fear of change, and destiny favours the brave.
Great conversion, loads of aha moments, thank you both for that. This explains why I feel so comfortable to live as a single and independent woman for years and would rather protect my peace, quiet and sanity than getting involved in a relationship that wouldn't provide that kind athmosphere for both of us... The greatest thing about working on our personal and childhood traumas is that make us more and more comfortable in our own skins, lives and circumstances... We're so well conditioned to aim to hit the one and only "right" partner for the rest of our lives that we're scared to go into a relationship that might not last that long, but still can be valuable in some way... it's especially so called reputation damaging for females... I love the philosophy that we learn something in every relationship, no matter how long or short that lasts... makes so much sense... a learning curve is a learning curve. Sometimes we're so focused on to find the perfect one for us that we forget to allow ourselves to be happy, love and loved right now, which can last for longer than we expect...and we don't want to see what's right in front of us...but every time I hear someone telling me "you can make someone so happy", can't help but think, yes and I need reciprocity as well from them, as I believe happiness can be real if happens both ways... Growing with someone is the greatest mindset....I don't believe that calculations and predictions work in measuring love as it is an ever changing and evolving thing. All we know there is a risk in it, but how many times we plan things that we have experienced before and our plans just fall apart that particular time? I believe in the good intentions far more than striving for perfection and prpredictable life between 98 to 100% of accuracy. I think God has send us here to learn unconditional loving by learning to fully accept all the differences between us as cultures, backgrounds, origins, beliefs etc... just allowing people be and love them as they are, with the changes that are happening on the way...
Yes, love does start long before you meet the person and stays after you depart. But yes, there is love and relationship that can both stay, together with happiness till the end of your life!
In order for there to be viable healthy choices for women to mate with...There needs to be an initiative to raise our sons to know they will be husbands and fathers someday, and to begin to train them in all areas of life... social media ,school, home support, to sports, and the armed forces. Women would love our heros and partners back.
I just want to hug you host, but you'd likely push me away...😂. You may not like women... You learned this from somewhere. You described women in such negative ways. Women are awesome and you might grow to like us😂 to your inner boys healing.❤
I’m amazed at how many just “settle” for less than they deserve. Some people are afraid to be alone. Perhaps that’s why I’m still single lol 😂. I’m like you Mo, I’m too picky ha! ha! Maybe like you I married young and after a long marriage, I’m selective about my next partner
In love or infatuation- oxytocin the love hormone is flowing- they are smitten so the couple don’t see all of the imperfections- the idiosyncrasies - till after marriage- as for childhood love - if you were given 50 percent love - unconsciously you’ll look for 50 percent love in another- “Love is total acceptance of another warts & all “ that’s a rare find
Dear Mo, to the question of so many 'draining' women in your life. That seems obvious, doesn't it? You are exploring the vast ocean of dating, women who choose to swim there by default seek love in the form of affection, attention, romanticism, quality time together. They are hungry for that warmth of togetherness, safety of a partnership, and if their partner wants a lot of space for himself, it just doesn't feel warm, feels wrong and hurts them. There are other women - oh, quite a lot - who would find it great to give you enough space. Spend some hours together each day, not most of the time - God forbid) they also value their space and try to protect their fragile boundaries. The problem is you don't meet them because they rarely date. For a self-sufficient human being of some wisdom who cherishes her precious little world of inner peace and beauty, dating can be such a chore. At times can be straight out traumatic. So they rarely try, no matter what their inner voice or guys like you ("if you are single, go to two or three dates a week") tell them to do. You end up with girls who bother to try because they firmly decide that its worth the risk (of potential pain/abuse/abandonment, whatever), they decide that they WANT LOVE, so why be surprised that they want a lot? And that they want it from you, a guy who seems to be seeking the same? I think it's fair that they drain you a little) it's the price you pay for feeling 'not so lonely'. So pay it and stop whining, or stay alone and protect the happiness (peace, joy, harmony, depth) you have within yourself, when not bothered.
Maybe Your attachment is dismissive avoidant, that’s why you felt your partners were needy. Maybe your absence triggered them to become anxious. Check it up.
“Why do I date the wrong type of person?” Perhaps there is both a large amount of randomness and people are complex. Either or both of these would give what you describe with out any deep meaning.
I can listen to Annie’s voice all day long!
I don't feel that Mo understands her in the way that's stimulating to have a great conversation. If I were Anne, I wouldn't find it easy to enjoy the convo, honestly.
This is one of my favourite podcasts. Both of you, Mo and Annie, are so lovely to listen to and I appreciate the cadence of words and their depth presented in so matter a fact way. It really all does make sense. Much resonance. Deep appreciation. On the topic of love as our nature, as our ground of being, yes. I see that love permeates all, for we are that which we are looking for. And recognising this in ourselves is the key to recognising it in our Beloved. ❤ “settling” therefore is not love, but fear of change, and destiny favours the brave.
Great conversion, loads of aha moments, thank you both for that. This explains why I feel so comfortable to live as a single and independent woman for years and would rather protect my peace, quiet and sanity than getting involved in a relationship that wouldn't provide that kind athmosphere for both of us... The greatest thing about working on our personal and childhood traumas is that make us more and more comfortable in our own skins, lives and circumstances...
We're so well conditioned to aim to hit the one and only "right" partner for the rest of our lives that we're scared to go into a relationship that might not last that long, but still can be valuable in some way... it's especially so called reputation damaging for females... I love the philosophy that we learn something in every relationship, no matter how long or short that lasts... makes so much sense... a learning curve is a learning curve.
Sometimes we're so focused on to find the perfect one for us that we forget to allow ourselves to be happy, love and loved right now, which can last for longer than we expect...and we don't want to see what's right in front of us...but every time I hear someone telling me "you can make someone so happy", can't help but think, yes and I need reciprocity as well from them, as I believe happiness can be real if happens both ways...
Growing with someone is the greatest mindset....I don't believe that calculations and predictions work in measuring love as it is an ever changing and evolving thing. All we know there is a risk in it, but how many times we plan things that we have experienced before and our plans just fall apart that particular time? I believe in the good intentions far more than striving for perfection and prpredictable life between 98 to 100% of accuracy. I think God has send us here to learn unconditional loving by learning to fully accept all the differences between us as cultures, backgrounds, origins, beliefs etc... just allowing people be and love them as they are, with the changes that are happening on the way...
Yes, love does start long before you meet the person and stays after you depart. But yes, there is love and relationship that can both stay, together with happiness till the end of your life!
Love this
Many thanks as always!
One Love!
Always forward, never ever backward!!
☀️☀️☀️
💚💛❤️
🙏🏿🙏🙏🏼
You are the Best… I am a BIG fan ❤️
In order for there to be viable healthy choices for women to mate with...There needs to be an initiative to raise our sons to know they will be husbands and fathers someday, and to begin to train them in all areas of life... social media ,school, home support, to sports, and the armed forces. Women would love our heros and partners back.
I just want to hug you host, but you'd likely push me away...😂. You may not like women... You learned this from somewhere. You described women in such negative ways. Women are awesome and you might grow to like us😂 to your inner boys healing.❤
Ohhhhh yiu are a Gemini makes sense now😂
Many blessings from Israel my friends.And many thanks.
I’m amazed at how many just “settle” for less than they deserve. Some people are afraid to be alone. Perhaps that’s why I’m still single lol 😂. I’m like you Mo, I’m too picky ha! ha! Maybe like you I married young and after a long marriage, I’m selective about my next partner
In love or infatuation- oxytocin the love hormone is flowing- they are smitten so the couple don’t see all of the imperfections- the idiosyncrasies - till after marriage- as for childhood love - if you were given 50 percent love - unconsciously you’ll look for 50 percent love in another-
“Love is total acceptance of another warts & all “ that’s a rare find
Annie is the best
Dear Mo, to the question of so many 'draining' women in your life. That seems obvious, doesn't it? You are exploring the vast ocean of dating, women who choose to swim there by default seek love in the form of affection, attention, romanticism, quality time together. They are hungry for that warmth of togetherness, safety of a partnership, and if their partner wants a lot of space for himself, it just doesn't feel warm, feels wrong and hurts them.
There are other women - oh, quite a lot - who would find it great to give you enough space. Spend some hours together each day, not most of the time - God forbid) they also value their space and try to protect their fragile boundaries. The problem is you don't meet them because they rarely date. For a self-sufficient human being of some wisdom who cherishes her precious little world of inner peace and beauty, dating can be such a chore. At times can be straight out traumatic. So they rarely try, no matter what their inner voice or guys like you ("if you are single, go to two or three dates a week") tell them to do.
You end up with girls who bother to try because they firmly decide that its worth the risk (of potential pain/abuse/abandonment, whatever), they decide that they WANT LOVE, so why be surprised that they want a lot? And that they want it from you, a guy who seems to be seeking the same?
I think it's fair that they drain you a little) it's the price you pay for feeling 'not so lonely'. So pay it and stop whining, or stay alone and protect the happiness (peace, joy, harmony, depth) you have within yourself, when not bothered.
Maybe Your attachment is dismissive avoidant, that’s why you felt your partners were needy. Maybe your absence triggered them to become anxious. Check it up.
Want to know why people cheat if in a committed relationship opportunism?
“Why do I date the wrong type of person?”
Perhaps there is both a large amount of randomness and people are complex. Either or both of these would give what you describe with out any deep meaning.
I get the feeling that Mo does not really want to find the one and only.. He is enjoying the process of looking but not finding.. 😉
Why do people cheat?
Love does not last forever… so sorry 😞
مو ما بعتقد حسيت كيمياء بينك وبين المحاوره . للاسف وما بحب قول هل الشي عم تحكو من محلين مختلفين ونظرتك للحياه اعمق وواقعيه اكتر ❤