I fear rejection too so it's why I continue to avoid girls cause never know when one of them starts having a crush on me or likes me and I bolt because I'm too scared to deal with being turned down, never put myself at risk of that ever again
I hooked up with this guy 3years ago but he is still shy or scared of me. He even asked my friend to ask me out on his behalf. Crazy!!! Like dude I love you too
Ppl can be outgoing but when it comes to someone they find attractive or attracted to they can be SHY or have a hard to even just having a little bit of small talk
@@adrianchico8886 Absolutely correct, even hotshots like myself that get female attention everywhere and anywhere it is a totally different ballgame when I encounter a woman that I like so it is definitely a true phenomenon. This idea that it is because a guy is shy is utter baloney, I am not a shy guy at all but what happens in these situations is that I am mostly showered with female attention without doing anything for it and thus the few cases where I notice a female that has feelings for me and she invokes feelings in me as well I tend to put her on a peddelstool. To fix this one must come to terms with what is going on and mentally acknowledge the fact that she is not different from any other individual and that she too might be nervous thus making it more than okay.
We both admitted that we liked each other without saying the words. He and I are hardly ever alone we always have people around. He is only in one of my classes but God he is so hot he takes my breath away!
@@optimusprime8543 bro just accept that the fact that EVERYBODY is gonna get rejected I’ve gotten rejected to bro you’re not alone some girls will dig some won’t i don’t rlly care who likes me or who doesn’t don’t let one girl dictate you or feel as though you’re not good enough if she’s not feeling you ok then that’s her loss as long you did you’re part and took the initiative that’s all you can do
thats what i feel everyday , i feel like its only from my side but even some time she shows me she in to me but then later on i feel that its not like that in like 1sec i think no to myself and start feeling its just as in best friends and most of the time i have that feeeling its 100true and when i finaly get to asking if she in to me i start thinking dont ask you hurt yourself again and for what , then i ask and bam rejection my mind go,s like i told not to ask it, look at what you did now i lock myself up i dont know anymore what to do
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:-) Hi, Luke I have a question about guys and kissing. What does it mean when a guy that you have been flirting with ask why have you not kissed him yet? Thank you, Mr. Luke. :-)
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YES!! Rejection is a HUGE part of male self-esteem. This why we may not approach a woman we are interested in. Fear of rejection.
Good point
I fear rejection too so it's why I continue to avoid girls cause never know when one of them starts having a crush on me or likes me and I bolt because I'm too scared to deal with being turned down, never put myself at risk of that ever again
I hooked up with this guy 3years ago but he is still shy or scared of me. He even asked my friend to ask me out on his behalf. Crazy!!! Like dude I love you too
He's not shy, he is very outgoing and friendly with everyone else. I don't like small talk, I am very shy. I don't talk unless someone talks to me.
Ppl can be outgoing but when it comes to someone they find attractive or attracted to they can be SHY or have a hard to even just having a little bit of small talk
@@adrianchico8886 Absolutely correct, even hotshots like myself that get female attention everywhere and anywhere it is a totally different ballgame when I encounter a woman that I like so it is definitely a true phenomenon.
This idea that it is because a guy is shy is utter baloney, I am not a shy guy at all but what happens in these situations is that I am mostly showered with female attention without doing anything for it and thus the few cases where I notice a female that has feelings for me and she invokes feelings in me as well I tend to put her on a peddelstool.
To fix this one must come to terms with what is going on and mentally acknowledge the fact that she is not different from any other individual and that she too might be nervous thus making it more than okay.
@@Daurentius322 trust me bro I’ve had issues with rejection and overcoming the fear of rejection it’s hard bro it’s not easy
But what if you're shy tooo... Duhhh?
CalabarSweetii this is my problem too
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Take one step towards him. Two steps. Three steps. Eventually you're in front of him and he either starts talking or you start talking.
We both admitted that we liked each other without saying the words. He and I are hardly ever alone we always have people around. He is only in one of my classes but God he is so hot he takes my breath away!
My crush told me he likes me without saying the words. He complimented my singing and told me I look pretty
im a shy guy and I can never ask a girl it is the only reason I don't have a girlfriend LOL
I feel you cause I'm still a shy guy like always but luckily I have a girlfriend
You're not alone, but eventually either one of you needs to step forward
@@optimusprime8543 bro just accept that the fact that EVERYBODY is gonna get rejected I’ve gotten rejected to bro you’re not alone some girls will dig some won’t i don’t rlly care who likes me or who doesn’t don’t let one girl dictate you or feel as though you’re not good enough if she’s not feeling you ok then that’s her loss as long you did you’re part and took the initiative that’s all you can do
I am too shy to admit that I like a guy
Me to I’m having this problem as well why is it so fuckin hard I’m a guy btw and I’ve had a crush on this girl for a long time
I'm the shiest person alive, he should do something not me
thats what i feel everyday , i feel like its only from my side but even some time she shows me she in to me but then later on i feel that its not like that in like 1sec i think no to myself and start feeling its just as in best friends and most of the time i have that feeeling its 100true and when i finaly get to asking if she in to me i start thinking dont ask you hurt yourself again and for what , then i ask and bam rejection my mind go,s like i told not to ask it, look at what you did now i lock myself up i dont know anymore what to do
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Very goog explained. In my case, I think, we are both too shy. For me it is also very difficult to show my interess.
Yes… but a grown man is not. Stay away from shy guy maybe.
A guy have a crush on me but why rude with me only he will always stare at me everytime
I can do that i can be so kind and cute ❤ but i think i will scare him away when it come to bad mood i can be so bad i'm scared oh my😢
Thank you
ok i understand 😔
:-) Hi, Luke I have a question about guys and kissing. What does it mean when a guy that you have been flirting with ask why have you not kissed him yet? Thank you, Mr. Luke. :-)
Kiss your hand 10 times
Say your crushes name 15 times
Post this on another video
The next time you see him/her they will ask you out