My father once told me: "No one cares how a man's life is or what he feels, Everyone wants to know what are you and what's your worth... Don't ever loose yourself in building yourself "
Sir मैं भी 30 का हो गया हूँ , life में कुछ नहीं कर सका , Govt job के कारण साल अलग बर्बाद हुए कोई pvt job का भी experience नहीं है , कई जगह से interview में ही out कर देते है because I don't have experience ,,, समझ नहीं आ रहा की क्या किया जाए लाइफ़ में ।।।।।
I m a 43 year old man , going through same phase and in pursuit of true happiness. U r great in expressing ur inner feelings. Your video was quite meaningful. Hats off.
Takes a lot of guts to talk about oneself openly, keeping ego aside and stating things which are sensitive. Hats off to you!! I remember such things in the book "My Experiments with Truth". I can relate to a lot of this in my life as well.
Sir i am 37 and lost all family and others just due to this midlife crises, I had now started with zero, bit difficult but doing by myself, Without anyone arround, But one day will achieve, Thank u sir for talking and all this relatable
Bro, I wish you all the best. No doubt you will encounter lots of challenges. Your own people will not support you and leave you in middle of path. But then you will start supporting yourself and first only divine power will come for your support. I am in the same phase. Fight it. At least you will have satisfaction that you fought. Be your hero. Be only your hero. Become better version of yours only. All the best.
I'm bankrupt...and i relate ur feelings..wealth is most important...no one is helping..i gave lots of money to my relatives..frnds..bt now... no-one is going to give me 500bucks...these are thee PPL who i gave lakhs of rupees...just bcoz of my emotional connective..... ...nikal gya iss daur se to aapse jarror milunga....nhi to..mRNA hi h mujhe. ...nice videos.i wish..you live ..very happy lyf. .....take care SIR....
@@Indusxstan thnks...pr jesi Raja jesi lyf mene jee hai... I made fortune...from scratch...and now I'm on road...no money...no help...i can't explain...meri shadi toot gyi... bhgwan kisi ko ese din n dikhaae....first help yourself...make enough savings...thn ...think about to help anyone
@@kumarlovendra if you made a fortune earlier, you have what it takes to make it again. Bad days come for everyone. Dont give up. Keep trying and good days will come back again 100 percent. These bad days have shown you who will stick with you. Learn from these lessons. All the best!!
Sir, I'm 30 and your words resonate like a bell for me. Please never stop making videos, you have a reservoir of knowledge that thousands of people need just like myself.
Bahot hi honest. Aaj ki duniya me itna honestly koi apne aap ko nahi share karta hai. Sun k bahot achha laga or life k liye aage maagdarshan bhi rahega.
I am 48 years old having loving wife college going daughter and son.All going good. But I feel so much satisfied with my life and family (including parents) that it feels that if death comes today I will go peacefully without any thought. I don't know what it is
Sir. You were not fair to your wife by your hard talk. I was in Printing and Advertising field ((Prepress, Print Production) )and Yes it is a thankless job with high stress and sometimes a feeling of meaningless. After 10 years I changed my line to IT but the same cycle of high activity, good money but no meaning in life is there. had chance to work aboard for many years.But I realize this is life - we all cant be conquerors and leaders.. I now give more time to family and kids. I travel more. See my old parents more often. I now mentor younger guys in IT and keep my specialization in few areas deep to keep myself useful. Today you are doing a great job in educating us on builders and markets. This tenacity and passion that you show in this work is surely a capability acquired due to the firefighting in past professions.
Hi there, I am in procurement since last 18 years it's again a thankless job which is full of stress, anxiety and never ending targets, I literally feel giving up but I can't as I have got kids to feed, I thought about changing my profession and someone suggested get into IT but how? Can someone pls guide me.
I am going thru credibility crisis & inferiority complex, i can't muster up courage to talk to people who are above my position. Pls help me or guide me🙏
@@Shaktobengalee choose not to choose to be afraid of others even if they may be more intelligent or have more money or anything. As you dislike being afraid, choose to not be afraid even if you feel afraid. By choosing to be afraid, perhaps you may not be able to stop the feeling of fear or it may take longer instead of choosing not be afraid in terms of intention. You will know it is your intention to not be afraid or respect yourself less than others so you may feel good that you care about yourself or respect yourself enough to do so even if you still FEEL afraid or insecure. Also fear and insecurity may dissipate with experience. The intention of not being afraid or insecure may help with the dissipation or ending of fear or insecurity from others as well.
Strange world .... people only realise after 60s..ideal way of life...... Life is simple...we complicate it... It never about reaching the destination......just enjoying the journey..whichever u hv chosen or destined
I am 27 and I have always wondered about my life and future at emotional level. I feel that I am prone to similar kind of thoughts in future but your story is acting as a caution. Thanks for that.
I appreciate the courage you have shown to share about your life so openly and with clarity. I am 44 now and married with kids etc. Was in the same boat and somehow I am trying to remain sane, hold on to my job and life. Else it does not take much to destroy it. Mid life crisis is a real thing especially for those for whom success comes easily.
Don't confuse yourself with the mid life crisis and spiritual awakening being the same. One doesn't hunt for a soul mate while on a spiritual path is one example.
I am a 30 year old boy. Idk why, but I am suddenly getting addicted to your content, and becoming a fan of your thoughts and points, and bold way of expression.
WE are taught to look outside right from our child hood. We search all our solutions and satisfaction outside world. Be is material possesions, relations or positions, social status. These are all temporary things which change with time. Most important is to learn to see inside. All help and support is inside. One who learns to look inside will get all answers and guidance in every stage of life.
I think sir talking about that stage when all your priorities starts looking dumb and stupid to you.. those who cannot gather enough courage and vision even to try or think and crossing it may console themselves all their life that they are very much right and prioritised.
This came right from the bottom of your heart. Loved the honesty and rawness. The world needs more of this kind of honesty, especially with oneself. May Allah help you fulfill your true purpose. Thanks for sharing the wisdom.
Apki soch ekdum mere jaisi I m 40yrs old lady I proud of myself just becse of you app jaisa bde admi ki tarah meri soch hai kya so I m special I m sure very special thankyu shairiing a good content 🙏
i dont know how i am end up here but as a young man in his late 20s , i absolutely applaud you of being so open to younger generation and giving us new perspective on life. thank you sir i just have a one question can you answer how to deal with toxic mother?
Same I m 21 🙄 I already feel this ' Kuch Karo yar 😭" phase cuz even graduation would be by 25/26 trying to figure out if I can make up the lost time somehow
It could be because of high cortisol levels from stress..which cause low testosterone and thus emotional imbalance in men..so basically stay stress free
Aap ka vichar is very practical and one can learn from your life experiences..lekin could u please tell aap urban naxal kyu kahte khud ko...govt of India to urban naxal anti india logo ko kahti jo white collar hain lekin desh virodhi agenda chalate. But Aisa kuch hai ni aapke video me...that's I thought to ask you why do you call urself as urban naxal
we are never taught reality of life by our parents. They either show us dreams or stay quiet on real frustrations of life and about the fact that after 40, any chance of attaining your ambitions diminishes by over 99% - just the way the real world functions.
Going through mid like crisi. Currently living in New Zealand, working in a bank, early close to $100,000/year but living an unauthentic life, away from my soul. But one day I will take the plunge, it will be hard to step into unknown but it’s better than regretting on your death bed.
I am 40 years old, I believe these thoughts come when you only work be too much materialistic and does't give yourself time. The solution is easy: 1: Give your body some time through joining a gym and join some yoga group 2: Be a part of some social service NGO groups, do something for others 3: Read religious books and join some groups like art of living or isckon or any religious group People don't know how to manager their time actually
I am so relieved that you came back to your family. Also, it is delightful to hear that your wife did not think about life just as you did at that point in time. I am so happy for your son as well. I am finding solace in kirtan, bhajans and reading the Bhagwat Gita. May be I will go on a pilgrimage in the coming years.
What does midlife crisis feel like? Signs of midlife crises can vary (like stressors and the crisis itself), but some indicators include feeling depressed or anxious, having low motivation, having difficulty sleeping, struggling with questions of identity or purpose, and feeling overwhelmed or dissatisfied. What are the 5 stages of midlife crisis? One goes through six major stages when handling a midlife crisis: denial, anger, replay, depression, withdrawal, and acceptance. How do you fix midlife crisis? You can take four steps to overcome your midlife crisis: talking to someone you trust, reframing your situation, carrying out a life audit, and setting new goals. If you're managing someone who's showing these signs, try to strike the right balance between being empathic and addressing any negative behavior directly.
It is a result of ignoring our rishis , read vidya avidya concept in ishavasya upanishad , the root cause of mid life crisis is given in very beautiful way. lovely cat though😘
Believe me or not but you are very spiritual person, You don't want any bondage or something to control you, you also very aware what is happening in your life, you are have a strong urge to "FIND" fulfillment but you realized or discovered that you couldn't find this in this material or physical, finally you decided to throw your energy in activism (Seva) which is best, universe will takecare of your "Fullfillment" if not this life then may be some other life, best wish to you even I don't agree with some of your other videos"
Krish correct me if I’m wrong but I can relate to your thoughts and it seems like you are going through an existential crisis. Let me know if you’d like to take this discussion further…I work in end of life care area, sometimes hear and sometimes sense the regrets that they carry with them. Breaks my heart. We are here to LIVE our lives but alas, end up just SURVIVING until our last day on this planet. Let’s change it. Midlife crisis is existential crisis.
Same as your thought but not too strong as you. I want to control my own life but couldn't. After sometime in career, i just closed my eyes and continued.
You have put your thoughts into words so eloquently and honestly. This takes both skill and guts. Thanks for this journey through your heart and mind. Just one question - do you regret that phase of life? And, how are your relations with your son now (sorry if this is too personal)?
My kids (both my son and my daughter) and I spent lots of quality time together. To answer your question directly, my son and I have a great relationship. He is now 22 years old. We are more of buddies, and less of father-and-son. And no, I don't regret anything because life is a learning experience. Still, if I could go back and change some things about that phase of my life, I would.
Dear Krishnaraj, I admire you a lot and learned so much from you. I am an engineer and your big fan. you are the second person who like the most to watch after OSHO. I want to take selfie with you. Thanks for creating this channel. My best wishes.
KIND CORRECTION, it's called CONSUMERISM & ESCAPISM. Meditation, Deep Breathing, Walking on green grass/hills will help. PLEASE drink water that was stilled in round soil matka (for 2+ days), then drink. The stress that people experience is due to processed/stressed water.
I am 40 yrs old, and I felt the same crisis ever since I was 32. I took early retirement and just did nothing for 5 years, except some traveling, writing, and weight training. You are right there is no unconditional relationship in this universe. However, at some point we all feel that we are getting less from our relationship and workplace, whereas we are giving away our precious time or/and efforts for them. Believe me, the other side also feels the same. Neither we, nor they are completely satisfied with each other. The pleasure, the purpose, the love, everything seems to fade away with time. We hang on due to some kind of fear, due to our laziness, due to conscience, even if we believe we can have a better life. By better I don't mean more money or a perfect relationship. It may be as simple as taking a long sabbatical and enjoying the time, traveling, spending the money on ourselves without having to fulfill anyone's demands.
ये जो दिमाग है सर हमारा भगवान ने हमे अपने फायदे के लिए ही दिया है.. आप का अपना (स्वस्थ) दिमाग आपका कभी नुकसान कर ही नहीं सकता..जो आज दिखाई दे रहा है नुकसान..वो कल या एक ना एक दिन फायदा दिखने लगेगा। समय दीजिए बस l
Basically! You wanted to express yourself and get accepted by someone. And were not happy with your Job. Not happy with your wife. Wanted to change things. Great. But the things you did was wrong. Afterall when you realise that everything is just not what it should be or it's a waste or getting lost in responsibilities and relationships. Then it's your inner calling that is getting yourself slowly detached from the material nature. Material world "Maya" it's the nature of it to keep you in bondages. You should have explored spirtual side of yourself rather than ending things in a brutal way. Bhagvad Gita will help you in this nothing else. Also according to Chanakya one should always be satisfied with his wife, food and wealth. Also Gita says don't get "Aasakt" too much attached to anything in this material nature as it will end you in suffering and pain. Not with family, business, society, your body, money etc. Anyone if going through this instead of taking any bold steps seek spiritual guidance from Gita once. Try to calm your mind in such situations. Seek Shiv... Because he is the only soulmate. Everything else is worthless 😌 Har Har Mahadev ❤️
Shiv the imaginary guy who wears animal skins is my soulmate. Yeah right. It's a gay fantasy, but unfortunately, gay fantasies don't give me the googly woogly woonsh feelings.
I’d request you to put your point of view on us women too (if you’re comfortable). Currently in my late 20s and struggling between my mom’s view and my own inner thoughts (I am unmarried). I want to understand my mom so bad but can’t relate since she’s been distant lately and gets annoyed as her POVs and ours doesn’t match. Women these days do not know themselves as a matter of fact hence listening to them on social media mostly seems a waste to me. It would be nice to see a unbiased perspective on women too.
Hi Pooja. I hope you will consider me unbiased when I speak my mind on this important matter. I will definitely be entering into a discomfort-zone, for three reasons: (1) Many modern women including my own daughter consider my views to be male-chauvinistic or patriarchal, or just plain wrong (2) I feel that feminism has strayed too far from its original objective of procuring equal rights for women, and it has become entangled & confused by its own rhetoric, rather than being being guided by logic and facts (3) When I speak my mind, male right-wingers i.e. Incel & MGTOW guys wrongly think I am supporting their cause, and they start cheering, diverting the discussion towards themselves and confusing women into thinking I am hostile to them. Still, I will stick my neck out and see if I make sense to you 😁😁
@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal I agree your 2nd point so much. This may be off topic but tbh all the expectations that I created in my early 20s watching these “successful” feminists, brainwashed me to an extent that even though I desperately wanted to start a family back then, I didn’t. Reason being poor judgments and actions. Now when I am reaching the peak of my biological clock, the panic is creeping in. The quality and quantity of attention/proposal that I used to get in my early twenties is not the same anymore. I think that’s when you know karma is hitting you. This is something a late 20 something can relate to. One thing I understood that a man doesn’t really wants a “real” woman rather a “true” woman who has been known to nurture a family and their children rather being successful and forgetting her purpose. The only confusion I am currently in is should I wait more for a partner I can connect with or just connect with the one my mom selects.
@@barmanpooja If u don't mind me Crawling in between ur discussion, Just look for a decent minded supportive man and secondly expect least from ur partner. The moral I have learnt from my life is the less we expect from other people the smoother our internal psyche becomes otherwise today Stress is the biggest happiness buster not poverty or hunger. Thirdly don't just wait for u mom to bring marriage proposals u might Approach ur colleagues or old school college friends Even just one Generation back men were more bold to approach girls and take effort to impress them today they remain hesitant in fear of false cases that might befall if the relationship doesn't work. Our present generation seems worst in both career wise and relationships wise. Previous generation had at least good family life if not present facilities Today we r High on expectations low in reality we live in our bubble most of the time.
@@barmanpooja marriage is huge decision shouldn't hurry so many ppl marry at 30+ if u have kid young u ruin the body young and if the guy leaves u r screwed forever taking care of kids nothing else financially emotionally ruined early 20s is not the right time I am 21 myself
My father once told me: "No one cares how a man's life is or what he feels, Everyone wants to know what are you and what's your worth...
Don't ever loose yourself in building yourself "
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Sir मैं भी 30 का हो गया हूँ , life में कुछ नहीं कर सका , Govt job के कारण साल अलग बर्बाद हुए कोई pvt job का भी experience नहीं है , कई जगह से interview में ही out कर देते है because I don't have experience ,,, समझ नहीं आ रहा की क्या किया जाए लाइफ़ में ।।।।।
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I m a 43 year old man , going through same phase and in pursuit of true happiness. U r great in expressing ur inner feelings. Your video was quite meaningful. Hats off.
Correct 💯
Focus on the positives in your life on a day to day basis...purpose in life is greater than materialism!
Takes a lot of guts to talk about oneself openly, keeping ego aside and stating things which are sensitive. Hats off to you!! I remember such things in the book "My Experiments with Truth". I can relate to a lot of this in my life as well.
Mahatma gandhi ki jai
the name of book was experiments with erectile dysfunction
Thank you for expressing my exact sentiments for this video.
So true 🙏
Sir i am 37 and lost all family and others just due to this midlife crises,
I had now started with zero, bit difficult but doing by myself,
Without anyone arround,
But one day will achieve,
Thank u sir for talking and all this relatable
Hit the gym man, u will feel better and see the change
Bro, I wish you all the best. No doubt you will encounter lots of challenges. Your own people will not support you and leave you in middle of path.
But then you will start supporting yourself and first only divine power will come for your support.
I am in the same phase. Fight it. At least you will have satisfaction that you fought.
Be your hero. Be only your hero. Become better version of yours only.
All the best.
37 is not midlife
I'm bankrupt...and i relate ur feelings..wealth is most important...no one is helping..i gave lots of money to my relatives..frnds..bt now... no-one is going to give me 500bucks...these are thee PPL who i gave lakhs of rupees...just bcoz of my emotional connective.....
...nikal gya iss daur se to aapse jarror milunga....nhi to..mRNA hi h mujhe.
...nice videos.i wish..you live ..very happy lyf.
.....take care SIR....
I think his point was different. He isn’t saying that money is most important…
@@nikhilck629 Don't think of suicide. Make better friends by learning from your past mistakes.
sir, don't give up! Never give up!
@@Indusxstan thnks...pr jesi Raja jesi lyf mene jee hai... I made fortune...from scratch...and now I'm on road...no money...no help...i can't explain...meri shadi toot gyi... bhgwan kisi ko ese din n dikhaae....first help yourself...make enough savings...thn ...think about to help anyone
@@kumarlovendra if you made a fortune earlier, you have what it takes to make it again. Bad days come for everyone. Dont give up. Keep trying and good days will come back again 100 percent. These bad days have shown you who will stick with you. Learn from these lessons. All the best!!
Sir, I'm 30 and your words resonate like a bell for me. Please never stop making videos, you have a reservoir of knowledge that thousands of people need just like myself.
😊😊🙏🏻🙏🏻
Me 43 years software engineer going thru the exact same phase.Not enjoying my office job at all.
Bahot hi honest. Aaj ki duniya me itna honestly koi apne aap ko nahi share karta hai. Sun k bahot achha laga or life k liye aage maagdarshan bhi rahega.
I am 48 years old having loving wife college going daughter and son.All going good. But I feel so much satisfied with my life and family (including parents) that it feels that if death comes today I will go peacefully without any thought.
I don't know what it is
It's going good, touch wood 😊🙏🏻
Yehi moksh hai sir. I felt this in my late 20s...aap moksh me ji rhe God bless of you.
Sir. You were not fair to your wife by your hard talk. I was in Printing and Advertising field ((Prepress, Print Production) )and Yes it is a thankless job with high stress and sometimes a feeling of meaningless. After 10 years I changed my line to IT but the same cycle of high activity, good money but no meaning in life is there. had chance to work aboard for many years.But I realize this is life - we all cant be conquerors and leaders.. I now give more time to family and kids. I travel more. See my old parents more often. I now mentor younger guys in IT and keep my specialization in few areas deep to keep myself useful.
Today you are doing a great job in educating us on builders and markets. This tenacity and passion that you show in this work is surely a capability acquired due to the firefighting in past professions.
Hi there, I am in procurement since last 18 years it's again a thankless job which is full of stress, anxiety and never ending targets, I literally feel giving up but I can't as I have got kids to feed, I thought about changing my profession and someone suggested get into IT but how? Can someone pls guide me.
I think media self the idea of conquering and high achievement etc
People hate common life
I am going thru credibility crisis & inferiority complex, i can't muster up courage to talk to people who are above my position. Pls help me or guide me🙏
@@Shaktobengalee choose not to choose to be afraid of others even if they may be more intelligent or have more money or anything. As you dislike being afraid, choose to not be afraid even if you feel afraid. By choosing to be afraid, perhaps you may not be able to stop the feeling of fear or it may take longer instead of choosing not be afraid in terms of intention. You will know it is your intention to not be afraid or respect yourself less than others so you may feel good that you care about yourself or respect yourself enough to do so even if you still FEEL afraid or insecure. Also fear and insecurity may dissipate with experience. The intention of not being afraid or insecure may help with the dissipation or ending of fear or insecurity from others as well.
@@kingearth3672 🙏
Very rare case of YT Algorithm working just fine 💯
Hats off to u Sir, it takes a lot of Courage to come and talk about all this in front of the Entire World
Strange world .... people only realise after 60s..ideal way of life......
Life is simple...we complicate it...
It never about reaching the destination......just enjoying the journey..whichever u hv chosen or destined
Words of a true man.
Conflicts within and what you come learn of it.
Well said.
This is an eye opener, seriously! Thanks for posting this Mr Rao
I am 27 and I have always wondered about my life and future at emotional level. I feel that I am prone to similar kind of thoughts in future but your story is acting as a caution. Thanks for that.
I appreciate the courage you have shown to share about your life so openly and with clarity. I am 44 now and married with kids etc. Was in the same boat and somehow I am trying to remain sane, hold on to my job and life. Else it does not take much to destroy it. Mid life crisis is a real thing especially for those for whom success comes easily.
Thank you for sharing your raw self and experiences. It is very insightful :)
You are doing great sir! U have helped many people through ur videos 👍
sounds like a spiritual awakening happening. I'm very happy for you.:)
Don't confuse yourself with the mid life crisis and spiritual awakening being the same. One doesn't hunt for a soul mate while on a spiritual path is one example.
What a confession. Lot's of love and respect sir for the power you have and the power you bestow upon others ❤
I am a 30 year old boy. Idk why, but I am suddenly getting addicted to your content, and becoming a fan of your thoughts and points, and bold way of expression.
Don't become anybody's addict or follower, but think about it independently
WE are taught to look outside right from our child hood. We search all our solutions and satisfaction outside world. Be is material possesions, relations or positions, social status. These are all temporary things which change with time. Most important is to learn to see inside. All help and support is inside. One who learns to look inside will get all answers and guidance in every stage of life.
Deep truth, meaningful and enlightening
Life really does begin at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.
Carl Jung
Excellent Excellent Excellent analysis explained in simple words....Every word you said is relatable to a lot of men
Good life story. Good message. Good realisation ❤.
Thanks for sharing your experience. This is useful for younger men who relate to your story and are going through same phase.
Thank you for posting your valuable experience for us
You are spot on !! What many are going through !!
During late 30s Men realise of their own mortality and many dreams unfulfilled!!
Having correct priorities in life is important.... thanks for sharing your life experiences.... it's helpful..... You are great story teller
I think sir talking about that stage when all your priorities starts looking dumb and stupid to you.. those who cannot gather enough courage and vision even to try or think and crossing it may console themselves all their life that they are very much right and prioritised.
I admire your courage! It takes courage to express oneself completely on social media.
This came right from the bottom of your heart. Loved the honesty and rawness. The world needs more of this kind of honesty, especially with oneself.
May Allah help you fulfill your true purpose.
Thanks for sharing the wisdom.
Jai Maharashtra Saheb ❤
You are very courageous to share all this👍🏻
Apki soch ekdum mere jaisi I m 40yrs old lady I proud of myself just becse of you app jaisa bde admi ki tarah meri soch hai kya so I m special I m sure very special thankyu shairiing a good content 🙏
It requires a great confidence to come out so transparently.
amazing video sir,,,,,,thanks for this guidance
It's your autobiography in raw. Whatever you do, don't leave us. Please continue your crusade in favour of the masses.
Brother I don't know who you are but I advise you to listen to Lao Tzu in words of Osho and you will find the truth of life.
i dont know how i am end up here but as a young man in his late 20s , i absolutely applaud you of being so open to younger generation and giving us new perspective on life. thank you sir i just have a one question can you answer how to deal with toxic mother?
Same I m 21 🙄 I already feel this ' Kuch Karo yar 😭" phase cuz even graduation would be by 25/26 trying to figure out if I can make up the lost time somehow
can you elaborate on what you mean by "toxic mother"
It could be because of high cortisol levels from stress..which cause low testosterone and thus emotional imbalance in men..so basically stay stress free
Aap ka vichar is very practical and one can learn from your life experiences..lekin could u please tell aap urban naxal kyu kahte khud ko...govt of India to urban naxal anti india logo ko kahti jo white collar hain lekin desh virodhi agenda chalate. But Aisa kuch hai ni aapke video me...that's I thought to ask you why do you call urself as urban naxal
we are never taught reality of life by our parents. They either show us dreams or stay quiet on real frustrations of life and about the fact that after 40, any chance of attaining your ambitions diminishes by over 99% - just the way the real world functions.
Your urge to explore yourself and live a Life to your fulfillment away from Kachi Ghani lifestyle was an inner call of character and blessings.
Going through mid like crisi.
Currently living in New Zealand, working in a bank, early close to $100,000/year but living an unauthentic life, away from my soul.
But one day I will take the plunge, it will be hard to step into unknown but it’s better than regretting on your death bed.
U r truly amazing person ....In fact partially you expressed my thoughts...
Midlife crisis i faced and decided to stroll on the path of earn less and live more healthy.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ,it really impacted me and I probably will remember it for years to come.
Meeting new women is not only in midlife crisis its always stays with men 😢😢
It needs guts to speak your heart out
I am 40 years old, I believe these thoughts come when you only work be too much materialistic and does't give yourself time. The solution is easy:
1: Give your body some time through joining a gym and join some yoga group
2: Be a part of some social service NGO groups, do something for others
3: Read religious books and join some groups like art of living or isckon or any religious group
People don't know how to manager their time actually
Me 44 yrs ..woman feel the same
I am so relieved that you came back to your family. Also, it is delightful to hear that your wife did not think about life just as you did at that point in time. I am so happy for your son as well. I am finding solace in kirtan, bhajans and reading the Bhagwat Gita. May be I will go on a pilgrimage in the coming years.
I think you misinterpreted a few things, or gave more weightage to those things. I didn't exactly desert my family at any point of time.
I am 32. Liked it very much. Thank you so much for guidance 🙏
What does midlife crisis feel like?
Signs of midlife crises can vary (like stressors and the crisis itself), but some indicators include feeling depressed or anxious, having low motivation, having difficulty sleeping, struggling with questions of identity or purpose, and feeling overwhelmed or dissatisfied.
What are the 5 stages of midlife crisis?
One goes through six major stages when handling a midlife crisis: denial, anger, replay, depression, withdrawal, and acceptance.
How do you fix midlife crisis?
You can take four steps to overcome your midlife crisis: talking to someone you trust, reframing your situation, carrying out a life audit, and setting new goals. If you're managing someone who's showing these signs, try to strike the right balance between being empathic and addressing any negative behavior directly.
Thanks a lot for opening up your heart to us. I have learnt so much from you. Can't thank you enough.
Wow Krishna Ji is a Very Brave Man, My Respect for Him has Increased even more now.
TRUE there is no unconditional love in the WORLD.....
Salute you sir, for talking abt it so openly. You have shown path to many new comers, god bless you sir & Thank you 🙏
Thank you for sharing about your hard days.. it was really learning for me.
Why we humans are so distracted by little things 🤣 . NICE VIDEO
Human life is not meant for living at animalistic level. This is why we think and have emotions.
It is a result of ignoring our rishis ,
read vidya avidya concept in ishavasya upanishad , the root cause of mid life crisis is given in very beautiful way.
lovely cat though😘
High respect for being so truthful!
Believe me or not but you are very spiritual person, You don't want any bondage or something to control you, you also very aware what is happening in your life, you are have a strong urge to "FIND" fulfillment but you realized or discovered that you couldn't find this in this material or physical, finally you decided to throw your energy in activism (Seva) which is best, universe will takecare of your "Fullfillment" if not this life then may be some other life, best wish to you even I don't agree with some of your other videos"
we love you sir full time content creater ban jao ,yahi youtube ko manzur hay shayad.waiting for your naya video byeee..:)
Krish correct me if I’m wrong but I can relate to your thoughts and it seems like you are going through an existential crisis. Let me know if you’d like to take this discussion further…I work in end of life care area, sometimes hear and sometimes sense the regrets that they carry with them. Breaks my heart. We are here to LIVE our lives but alas, end up just SURVIVING until our last day on this planet. Let’s change it. Midlife crisis is existential crisis.
Same as your thought but not too strong as you. I want to control my own life but couldn't. After sometime in career, i just closed my eyes and continued.
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You deserve a million subscribers
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have noted this. Also, Bhagwad Geeta helps anytime and at any place.
You have put your thoughts into words so eloquently and honestly. This takes both skill and guts. Thanks for this journey through your heart and mind. Just one question - do you regret that phase of life? And, how are your relations with your son now (sorry if this is too personal)?
My kids (both my son and my daughter) and I spent lots of quality time together. To answer your question directly, my son and I have a great relationship. He is now 22 years old. We are more of buddies, and less of father-and-son. And no, I don't regret anything because life is a learning experience. Still, if I could go back and change some things about that phase of my life, I would.
What would you change ?
I feel like I'll upload similar thoughts video after 10-15 years
Really true sir. Males have to face maximum burden. Respect you shared your personal experience
Why don't you make videos on life advices and life lessons anymore, they are so good. I binge watch them time to time
Thanks for speaking on this Krishnarajji.I can relate.
i'v never seen a women dealing with existential or midlife crisis
This is really good video 👍 keep it up
Dear Krishnaraj, I admire you a lot and learned so much from you. I am an engineer and your big fan. you are the second person who like the most to watch after OSHO. I want to take selfie with you. Thanks for creating this channel. My best wishes.
😊🙏🏻Hey thank you, my friend. Sure, come over and let's take a selfie 🤗
thx for being honest.. i had same crisis at 22 age and it sucked me for a decade..mind is such a thing that it can do anything..
Thank you sir for sharing this frankly.
KIND CORRECTION, it's called CONSUMERISM & ESCAPISM. Meditation, Deep Breathing, Walking on green grass/hills will help. PLEASE drink water that was stilled in round soil matka (for 2+ days), then drink. The stress that people experience is due to processed/stressed water.
My prayers are with you. God bless you
I am 40 yrs old, and I felt the same crisis ever since I was 32. I took early retirement and just did nothing for 5 years, except some traveling, writing, and weight training.
You are right there is no unconditional relationship in this universe. However, at some point we all feel that we are getting less from our relationship and workplace, whereas we are giving away our precious time or/and efforts for them.
Believe me, the other side also feels the same. Neither we, nor they are completely satisfied with each other. The pleasure, the purpose, the love, everything seems to fade away with time. We hang on due to some kind of fear, due to our laziness, due to conscience, even if we believe we can have a better life.
By better I don't mean more money or a perfect relationship. It may be as simple as taking a long sabbatical and enjoying the time, traveling, spending the money on ourselves without having to fulfill anyone's demands.
>40 you don't have the challenges you have in early life. So void comes up. Need to reinvent yourself
This a a truth that most man on your age feel but are too stuck in the rut to accept
Sir, Mein panr gujrati chooon pakistan thi, khushi thai tamaron dikro gujrati maa vaat karay chhay. Mara pita gujrat thi hata.
10:52 Nice example
Thats why work life balance is so important🙏
It’s an illusion. If it’s work for you, expecting to arrive at that imaginary balance can brought about an existential crisis.
At 41 i m a single woman who is going thru the same issues. But i feel this whole sesrch for meaning and purpose is not getting anywhere
Same here 🤗 Megha Vernekar here.
Can you marry me iam also single
ये जो दिमाग है सर हमारा भगवान ने हमे अपने फायदे के लिए ही दिया है.. आप का अपना (स्वस्थ) दिमाग आपका कभी नुकसान कर ही नहीं सकता..जो आज दिखाई दे रहा है नुकसान..वो कल या एक ना एक दिन फायदा दिखने लगेगा। समय दीजिए बस l
Thank you sir for sharing your personal life experience.
Basically!
You wanted to express yourself and get accepted by someone.
And were not happy with your Job.
Not happy with your wife.
Wanted to change things.
Great. But the things you did was wrong.
Afterall when you realise that everything is just not what it should be or it's a waste or getting lost in responsibilities and relationships.
Then it's your inner calling that is getting yourself slowly detached from the material nature.
Material world "Maya" it's the nature of it to keep you in bondages.
You should have explored spirtual side of yourself rather than ending things in a brutal way.
Bhagvad Gita will help you in this nothing else.
Also according to Chanakya one should always be satisfied with his wife, food and wealth.
Also Gita says don't get "Aasakt" too much attached to anything in this material nature as it will end you in suffering and pain. Not with family, business, society, your body, money etc.
Anyone if going through this instead of taking any bold steps seek spiritual guidance from Gita once. Try to calm your mind in such situations.
Seek Shiv... Because he is the only soulmate.
Everything else is worthless 😌
Har Har Mahadev ❤️
Shiv the imaginary guy who wears animal skins is my soulmate. Yeah right. It's a gay fantasy, but unfortunately, gay fantasies don't give me the googly woogly woonsh feelings.
sir now is the time for spirituality , you will get new phase of life
Same kind of questions I'm also facing what I'm n for what I'm here n what I have to do!
I admire your courage to speak.
sir you are a real gem
I’d request you to put your point of view on us women too (if you’re comfortable). Currently in my late 20s and struggling between my mom’s view and my own inner thoughts (I am unmarried). I want to understand my mom so bad but can’t relate since she’s been distant lately and gets annoyed as her POVs and ours doesn’t match. Women these days do not know themselves as a matter of fact hence listening to them on social media mostly seems a waste to me. It would be nice to see a unbiased perspective on women too.
Hi Pooja. I hope you will consider me unbiased when I speak my mind on this important matter. I will definitely be entering into a discomfort-zone, for three reasons: (1) Many modern women including my own daughter consider my views to be male-chauvinistic or patriarchal, or just plain wrong (2) I feel that feminism has strayed too far from its original objective of procuring equal rights for women, and it has become entangled & confused by its own rhetoric, rather than being being guided by logic and facts (3) When I speak my mind, male right-wingers i.e. Incel & MGTOW guys wrongly think I am supporting their cause, and they start cheering, diverting the discussion towards themselves and confusing women into thinking I am hostile to them.
Still, I will stick my neck out and see if I make sense to you 😁😁
@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal I agree your 2nd point so much. This may be off topic but tbh all the expectations that I created in my early 20s watching these “successful” feminists, brainwashed me to an extent that even though I desperately wanted to start a family back then, I didn’t. Reason being poor judgments and actions. Now when I am reaching the peak of my biological clock, the panic is creeping in. The quality and quantity of attention/proposal that I used to get in my early twenties is not the same anymore. I think that’s when you know karma is hitting you. This is something a late 20 something can relate to. One thing I understood that a man doesn’t really wants a “real” woman rather a “true” woman who has been known to nurture a family and their children rather being successful and forgetting her purpose. The only confusion I am currently in is should I wait more for a partner I can connect with or just connect with the one my mom selects.
@@barmanpooja If u don't mind me Crawling in between ur discussion, Just look for a decent minded supportive man and secondly expect least from ur partner. The moral I have learnt from my life is the less we expect from other people the smoother our internal psyche becomes otherwise today Stress is the biggest happiness buster not poverty or hunger.
Thirdly don't just wait for u mom to bring marriage proposals u might Approach ur colleagues or old school college friends
Even just one Generation back men were more bold to approach girls and take effort to impress them today they remain hesitant in fear of false cases that might befall if the relationship doesn't work.
Our present generation seems worst in both career wise and relationships wise. Previous generation had at least good family life if not present facilities
Today we r High on expectations low in reality we live in our bubble most of the time.
My mom also going into 50s just impossible to tolerate her something is not right with her I hate her I m 20
@@barmanpooja marriage is huge decision shouldn't hurry so many ppl marry at 30+ if u have kid young u ruin the body young and if the guy leaves u r screwed forever taking care of kids nothing else financially emotionally ruined early 20s is not the right time I am 21 myself
Bahut Kam log Hai es duniya me jo legend tarah ki bate karte Hai...
thank for sharing
Great vide0