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  • Опубликовано: 7 авг 2024
  • let's try to feel better and get out of a slump 🎀 This video is brought to you by Charles Schwab Investing Themes™, invest in what you believe in. Learn more at www.schwab.com/thematic-investing
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    00:00 getting out of a slump
    00:09 shower
    00:59 put away phone
    01:12 write todo list
    01:59 cleaning & organizing
    03:23 finishing todo list
    03:47 lunch & hair update
    04:29 prepping for volleyball
    05:57 sports & friends
    06:35 reflecting on content
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    09:46 feeling behind in life
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Комментарии • 144

  • @ataraxia2098
    @ataraxia2098 4 месяца назад +67

    Rebecca I love your videos your vlogs and it's not boring. You are a shy influencer and i accept that actually it's really calming to see your Vlogs there is no rush nothing but i truly appreciate a change and you are already so beautiful so graceful your talks your aesthetic everything is just peaceful. If you are comparing yourself with other RUclipsrs please don't they have there different vibe you have your different vibe and you entertain us without doing much as I said you are like a long distance bestfriend who always keep us in place in a hustle love you and will really appreciate your every effort you put in your videos love you girl byeeee😁❤

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +12

      awww thank you for your comment💗 you’re so sweet and it def makes me feel a lot better ☺️💗😭

    • @emily_k-pop.
      @emily_k-pop. 4 месяца назад +2

      Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @ilda380
      @ilda380 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes meee!!!! Tooooo😊😊😊😊😊

  • @a.personofficial
    @a.personofficial 4 месяца назад +6

    have this „in a rut/feeling behind“ phase rn and in a weird way im kinda glad this video had no complete „happy end“. Because all these videos are like „duh i got out of a rut in 1h! just stand up“
    Lets get out of the slump together step by step 💕

  • @Naysaworld
    @Naysaworld 4 месяца назад +6

    I really like your content and I have not gotten bored. Your voice and videos are always so calming and motivating and realistic it keeps me grounded. Don’t compared yourself to others because different does not mean bad ❤️❤️❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      aww thank you so much for your comment 💗

  • @user-bt9mb5en8x
    @user-bt9mb5en8x 4 месяца назад +16

    this video came out at the perfect time... been struggling with grinding for finals and not doing my normal routine but now its over have to get back on top of my life. Thank you Rebecca

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +5

      Congrats on finishing your finals!💗

    • @Mini.Hermine
      @Mini.Hermine 4 месяца назад

      Yes absolutely

  • @ataraxia2098
    @ataraxia2098 4 месяца назад +19

    I am watching you from a really long time like when you were fighting with acne life struggle and i mean it really felt like I am growing with you love to see you do this good in life sis ❤I hope you have all the happiness in the world 😊

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +5

      awww thank you for sticking here for so long 💗💗 I appreciate you!

    • @emily_k-pop.
      @emily_k-pop. 4 месяца назад +1

      Yesssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love this Rebecca Jay videos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @merianswart
    @merianswart 4 месяца назад +7

    You have no idea how amazing the timing for this video is. I finished High school in December and I've been feeling very lost. I don't have a job and have no passions or dreams so I have no idea what to do, whether study or work. My father and older brother want to force me into any job they can find so I can bring money to the house (most likely to either afford more alcohol or to pay off my dad's debt) ,but I don't wat to forced into something just to give them everything I earn. Luckily me, my mom and younger brother are already preparing to leave and move away so they cant torment us anymore and I can hopefully get therapy or smt. But my dad and brother have gotten worse recently which resulted in me entering a big slump where I don't see the point in life and just lie in bed all day, only doing my chores so I don't get extra trouble from my dad. This was the motivation I needed to get up, try to fix my health and hopefully clear my acne soon so that I've already made progress once we get out of here. Thank you so much

    • @merianswart
      @merianswart 4 месяца назад +3

      I've already managed to clean my whole room, I wont be here for much longer, but I feel so much better with a clean space.

    • @kakakakakka3826
      @kakakakakka3826 Месяц назад

      @@merianswartur amazing!! As someone who is still in school but feels similar!! U prove that great things can be done🎉🎉❤

  • @muziciscool
    @muziciscool 4 месяца назад +18

    already now this video will be AMAZING

  • @Jessie20032
    @Jessie20032 4 месяца назад +9

    Love this ❤ so good to have a reset after feeling a bit blah

  • @ilanaandrev9481
    @ilanaandrev9481 4 месяца назад +5

    never usually comment but I loved the reflexitive chat in the middle. you are doing such a great job!! ❤

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +3

      aww thank you for your comment 💗☺️

  • @brendahermes9923
    @brendahermes9923 4 месяца назад +5

    I wake up at 6 am to work and your videos really give me a boost especially these days that I haven't been feeling myself lately ❤❤❤

  • @Swantsfood
    @Swantsfood 4 месяца назад +3

    i just wanted to let you know that whichever content path you choose i’ll continue to watch you ❤❤
    i wait every week to see if you’ve uploaded or not, you’re one of my favorite channels on youtube, and i love every single one of your videos :DD
    hope you get to 1M-you deserve it for all the hard work you put into your channel ☺

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +3

      awww thank you for being here💗💗💗

  • @AnaHernandez-cf1lz
    @AnaHernandez-cf1lz 4 месяца назад +3

    I don't usually comment on yt but I really need to tell u
    Thank you so much Rebecca, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this
    I have been feeling the exact same way lately and I been watching a lot of your videos trying to get some motivation
    Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings and helping me feel less alone
    It's so true that it's easy to feel so lost in life when you keep comparing yourself with the perfect lives you see online but this video felt like just what I needed to come back to reality and the motivation to not give up
    I think you are totally going to reach all your goals on RUclips since your content does feel like this different refreshing realistic type of content we need and we can really feel you talking from your heart in it which I think is the most important and beautiful thing
    Thank you so much for your videos
    Love ya

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +2

      thank you for your comment💗💗💗 I appreciate you so much

  • @sivani1183
    @sivani1183 4 месяца назад +4

    Rebecca you always got the perfect timing... ❤

  • @user-tf3ph9hv8t
    @user-tf3ph9hv8t 4 месяца назад +39

    The first ones 👇

  • @Sunflower03122
    @Sunflower03122 3 месяца назад

    I don’t know how to explain how much I love her calm vlog❤❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 4 месяца назад +3

    Rebecca your vlogs is like a therapy for me Thank you so much. Watching your vlogs makes me so happy.😀 Sending you Love💗💗✨

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +2

      thank you for ur support always☺️

  • @GillianGural
    @GillianGural 4 месяца назад

    I love your videos! I’ve started watching them before bed so I can be excited about my new morning routine! Thank you

  • @isha09
    @isha09 4 месяца назад +1

    your videos have helped me so much in getting my life back together! ilysm for that 🩷

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 4 месяца назад +1

    Just by posting regularly your halfway there. You will get there. I’m trying to learn to post regularly and better footage. ❤

  • @user-do4cm1os5i
    @user-do4cm1os5i 4 месяца назад +4

    I love you so much ❤❤❤❤
    Thank you for all❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-ng1wj7dp7r
    @user-ng1wj7dp7r 4 месяца назад +3

    You are the best!!!!!!❤❤

  • @maryamhussain1902
    @maryamhussain1902 4 месяца назад +2

    Great timing i love your vlogs!

  • @PQ_497
    @PQ_497 3 месяца назад +1

    I really admire your honesty at the end, thamk you

  • @angelmaeestrelles6691
    @angelmaeestrelles6691 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Rebecca. I needed this so much right now💗

  • @fangirlcocoa975
    @fangirlcocoa975 4 месяца назад +1

    This video came out at a really good time as I’ve been trying with the whole trying to stay positive when life gives you negatives as well as not knowing what I want in life as a freshman in college.
    But your talk really helped just a bit so thank you Rebecca❤😊

  • @AngelinaPro-uq9lp
    @AngelinaPro-uq9lp 4 месяца назад +2

    Ты потрясающая и вдохновляющая! Спасибо за видео 🥰

  • @user-gj9wl8vj8p
    @user-gj9wl8vj8p 4 месяца назад +3

    love your videos❤

  • @it_girl716
    @it_girl716 4 месяца назад +2

    omg why are her videos so inspiringggg

  • @simonashopova7428
    @simonashopova7428 4 месяца назад

    I find your videos both motivating and comforting. Thank you! 💐

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 4 месяца назад +1

    Enjoying your aesthetic lifestyle vlog, Rebecca! ❤

  • @GoodyBaker
    @GoodyBaker 4 месяца назад +2

    Hi sunshine! Thank you for the new video, as always you make us happy ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @blytheduff5012
    @blytheduff5012 4 месяца назад +2

    Love your videos! 🩷

  • @priyanshishree7947
    @priyanshishree7947 4 месяца назад +2

    Your videos are so simple and comforting,, Lovely! 💗☁️✨

  • @nab000
    @nab000 4 месяца назад

    girl your vlogs always give me so much motivation and sollace

  • @Res123-l1s
    @Res123-l1s 4 месяца назад

    I love your videos because you make me feel that I need to do better but at my pace and show up as myself, not copying anyone else. I love your personality. ❣

  • @yasmineddie6446
    @yasmineddie6446 4 месяца назад

    LOVE!!!

  • @Randomthings9132
    @Randomthings9132 4 месяца назад

    I love these videos they are so motivating and I defo need it right now ❤

  • @Evelyndiary
    @Evelyndiary 2 месяца назад

    You motivate me so much! ❤🎉

  • @user-yw3fr8uo1c
    @user-yw3fr8uo1c 4 месяца назад +2

    Love your vids ❤

  • @sisteranastasia9101
    @sisteranastasia9101 4 месяца назад +1

    THANK U SO MUCH for sharing with us more about you journalling, love love LOVE that :) you have an amazing peaceful energy, thats why i specially love your vlogs . Hope you feel all the warmth im sending you xxx

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      thank you for listening to it 💗☺️

  • @Juen-gene
    @Juen-gene 4 месяца назад

    Rebecca I love you and love your videos, you're such a good person, thank you for inspire me❤

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      thank u for watching 💗

  • @nayacerola
    @nayacerola 4 месяца назад

    I love your videos, they made me feel so much better

  • @mariannaproenca6332
    @mariannaproenca6332 3 месяца назад

    I love that in your last videos you’re putting songs in Portuguese ❤ sending love from Brazil 🇧🇷

  • @Lotta20212
    @Lotta20212 4 месяца назад +3

    Love this❤so nice❤and amazing❤

  • @juliameijering
    @juliameijering 4 месяца назад +1

    I love your videos ❤

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic 4 месяца назад +1

    Oh I needed this soo bad 😢😢the title is truly how I feel

  • @Imnotsoo
    @Imnotsoo 4 месяца назад

    I love your channel is so calm and good to watch, it gives me comfort when I watch your videos🎀🎀 kisses from Brazil🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @user-ry8pq3hk5r
    @user-ry8pq3hk5r 4 месяца назад +2

    this has helped me 😊😊😊

  • @DarlinMarleneVeVo
    @DarlinMarleneVeVo 4 месяца назад

    Love your channel!

  • @DanaDayream
    @DanaDayream 4 месяца назад

    I was just lazing around for the whole day so this really motivated me!

  • @smkeong
    @smkeong 4 месяца назад +2

    Happy new vlog 😊

  • @shimmerngspirit
    @shimmerngspirit 4 месяца назад +1

    your goals are big, but we're here and we have your back. Love to you.

  • @marverted6921
    @marverted6921 4 месяца назад

    I knew something’s different! Your hair!!! Its much fresh and the dark color gives you a glow 😍 suits you so much ❤️

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      awww thank you!! yes I like it a lot better too 💗💗

  • @tamarapetrova8440
    @tamarapetrova8440 4 месяца назад +1

    I think that small steps help already with getting out of a slump. I have just sorted a huge pile of papers on my desk and it already feels satisfying and like enough for today. If I have such goals like cleaning the whole apartment while I am in a slump, I easily get demotivated. I think that's too much especially considering the other goals on the list and that no one can help me with cleaning in the moment. But I mean if it helps you and others, that's great :) Just sharing my experience.

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      the small steps are so important! you’re doing so well 💗💗

  • @paolasview
    @paolasview 4 месяца назад

    Girlyyy I wanted to start a little channel for so long. And I just keep avoiding it. Today I said to myself: 'Alright gurll tomorrow you're just gonna film the day!'. And now I see your video with the cute message. Must be a sign right🫶🏼

  • @JennixKim47
    @JennixKim47 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi rebecca l luv this. It really motivates me💕

  • @Birthdaycakepreteen
    @Birthdaycakepreteen 4 месяца назад

    I’m in a slump tooo so I get it that is hard also I am so grateful that I’m a subscriber to you. You have helped me through out the past two years and as a 11 year old with A.D.D. It’s hard so thank you Rebecca for making these videos possible for me love you ❤😊

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 4 месяца назад +3

    Good morning Rebecca happy Sunday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 4 месяца назад

    Nice job girl. Have a good weekend. ❤

  • @ayaworld1832
    @ayaworld1832 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @user-ry8pq3hk5r
    @user-ry8pq3hk5r 4 месяца назад

    Wake up the Queen 👑 has posted❤❤😊😊

  • @YourGirlShaylah
    @YourGirlShaylah 4 месяца назад +1

    Rebecca is so real and I respect her for it. Becca I love your content o much, you do a great job. I can't wait to see how you move forward. take care of yourself

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      aww thank u for your kind words 💗

  • @edanurermiss
    @edanurermiss 4 месяца назад +1

    I love you Rebeccaa❤

  • @PurpleSkiesxx
    @PurpleSkiesxx 4 месяца назад +1

    First!! Love your vids!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +2

      thank you for watching them💗

  • @user-be1sm4bq6p
    @user-be1sm4bq6p 4 месяца назад +1

    i appreciate this bc i’m in a scrolling on youtube slump rn 😂

  • @es_love1587
    @es_love1587 4 месяца назад

    You are the best❤❤❤❤

  • @Loneliness624
    @Loneliness624 4 месяца назад +1

    Literally rn i was searching for motivation to get out of a slump and i just got your video notification and i clicked immediately and will organize my clothes with watching your video thanks for making this video really needed this video love from India🇮🇳 Love from Roshni

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      you’re doing so well💗

  • @sabine6844
    @sabine6844 4 месяца назад +1

    sending love from the netherlands

  • @user-yx7pp1mz3s
    @user-yx7pp1mz3s 4 месяца назад

    Your apartment is so good and has a beautiful view outside

  • @Zaynura112
    @Zaynura112 4 месяца назад +1

    HIIIIII IM SO HAPPY TO BE BACK!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @wahidkitab8697
    @wahidkitab8697 4 месяца назад +2

    Rebecca,I don't know if you will be able to read this or not,but I'm saying this anyways.Your videos are so calming and realistic,while still being motivating.Such vlogs are so hard to find nowadays,but you always come in clutch!I have an exam in a few hours,and I was very nervous despite the fact I've studied,but now I feel calmer!!May you be able to experience a lot of happiness in your life!! Thankyouu!!!*ੈ✩‧₊˚༺☆༻*ੈ✩‧₊˚

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      aww thank you for your comment 💗 I hope the exam went well! ☺️☺️

  • @itspalvin
    @itspalvin 2 дня назад

    when you feel like you are in a slump for a really long time. not productive and just doomed scrolling all day, just start doing sport whatever you like. force yourself, no matter how lazy you are. you can go to the gym, jogging, or playing team sports with friends, choose what you prefer. Because in my case, once I forced myself to do sport, then I will get my energy and spirit after doing that. So I can start being productive.

  • @estefanyrodriguez4115
    @estefanyrodriguez4115 4 месяца назад +1

    No lo he empezado y sé que va a estar bueno❤ saludos desde 🇪🇨

  • @nisthakashyap5865
    @nisthakashyap5865 4 месяца назад

    I hope it'll also help me😊❤..thank you so much for this🌼☺️

  • @Tinadailyvlog9
    @Tinadailyvlog9 4 месяца назад

    This is cute ❤

  • @saritabapte5396
    @saritabapte5396 4 месяца назад

    I have been watching your vlogs ...your skin looks so good and healthy now... consistency is a key...every week i wait for your videos...i like your all contents and vlog style...its not boring...you going well...❤❤❤Love from India 🇮🇳🫶

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад

      thank you for ur comment💗

  • @noemyegiovannalima9685
    @noemyegiovannalima9685 4 месяца назад

    Vc é minha inspiração

  • @juliavargas8310
    @juliavargas8310 3 месяца назад

    new fan, i´ve loved the brazilian song, kisses from Brazil

  • @SoumiaTabbouche
    @SoumiaTabbouche 4 месяца назад +1

    Hii Rebecca I'm one of your subscribers who love you so much I'm from Algeria 🇩🇿 and we have a lot of deferences between you and us in language and many other thinks but I always take the essential from you like a big sister love you so mush and keep going I hope that you see my message ❤

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      hiii💗 thank you for being here!

    • @SoumiaTabbouche
      @SoumiaTabbouche 4 месяца назад

      @@RebeccaJayy thank you dearly for answering my message I hope you more success and I love you 💕

  • @PQ_497
    @PQ_497 4 месяца назад

    I will catch up after Ramadhan 🥰

  • @angelaruth9509
    @angelaruth9509 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-ng1wj7dp7r
    @user-ng1wj7dp7r 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤oh baby!!!!!i love you so much and forever!!!!!!!!!!❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @isha09
    @isha09 4 месяца назад

    im in love with your videos Rebecca 🫶🏻🩷 you're amazing~

  • @Sanismom
    @Sanismom 4 месяца назад +1

    😊😊😊😊

  • @elainaw.1308
    @elainaw.1308 4 месяца назад +1

    FINALLY FIRSTTTT 😁

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +2

      HIII💗

    • @elainaw.1308
      @elainaw.1308 4 месяца назад

      @@RebeccaJayy HIIII i love ur videos ssssm 🤧🤧🤧

  • @remedyisinyou
    @remedyisinyou 4 месяца назад

    Rebecca, I love your videos the way they are because I can relate to you and they calm me down so much. Personally, I'd not want you bring a lot of change:(
    It's totally okay to experiment sometimes though!

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      aww I appreciate your comment 💗

  • @eddiemartinez7555
    @eddiemartinez7555 4 месяца назад +1

    Happy St Patrick’s Day Rebecca 😊😅😊🎉🎉😂😂❤❤❤🍀🍀☘️☘️☘️☘️love you dear dear friend

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      happy st Patrick’s day!!☺️☺️

  • @purplepeeler9955
    @purplepeeler9955 4 месяца назад +1

    i was wondering if you need a thumbnail designer
    too improve your click through rate
    would love to work with you

  • @Dark_preppy
    @Dark_preppy 4 месяца назад

    Rebecca you are the best motivation person ever !!! I watch u every single day !!!! Plz pin ♡♡♡♡♡

  • @rayhanebelakhli
    @rayhanebelakhli 4 месяца назад +2

    You look so beautiful 💕🎉❤

  • @Hangwriver
    @Hangwriver 4 месяца назад +2

    What’s the robe/hoodie called in the thumbnail ? 🎀

  • @felicitasdieterle4563
    @felicitasdieterle4563 4 месяца назад

    .Rebecca, I LOVE you ! Just for you being you, for your braveness to speak about your depression and for your very valueable contend here on YT. I also am depressed and right now on my revovery way with mental health pros, coachesses and also some nature´s path medication. . #not judging: In that discussion circle, I jparticipate, in, , there is a young man. When you look at him, he seems to have won the jackpot in life: Entepreneur, married, one daughter, a house. But when I heard what issues brought him to joining our circle-oh boy ! You can look at someone and not knowing AT ALL, what is going on inside of that person-it is unbelieveable...

  • @Jessicadh
    @Jessicadh 4 месяца назад +1

    Love your video.❤ But please, focus on quality, not quantity. Better to have a small audience with people that are really involved. I believe connection is far more important. And you are doing great! You are so open and honest, that inspires me the most. Being vulnerable = strenght. That’s what you are showing and motivates me to also be myself. Keep up the good work and remember you don’t have to be perfect. 🍀💕

    • @RebeccaJayy
      @RebeccaJayy  4 месяца назад +1

      yesss love this💗 thank you for your comment I really appreciate you ☺️💗

  • @sarahgabrielle1960
    @sarahgabrielle1960 4 месяца назад

    💖💖💖🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @-Dush_Nila-
    @-Dush_Nila- Месяц назад

    My God, what beautiful eyes she has!😍

  • @parkmelika8785
    @parkmelika8785 4 месяца назад +1

    Good🤍💫

  • @ashiriigames6774
    @ashiriigames6774 4 месяца назад

    Mr. Hubby you missed a spot ❤

  • @MarthaHuber_regenbogmaus
    @MarthaHuber_regenbogmaus 4 месяца назад +2

    How old are you? I'm new in your community and want to know more about you 😊

  • @WritingandMore
    @WritingandMore 4 месяца назад

    the camera woke up and decided to give someone a heart attack. Please tell me your camera is ok and if it fell that you caught it.

  • @lubnaawad2672
    @lubnaawad2672 4 месяца назад

    Why don't you read about Islam? That will change your life for the better. Try and you will never regret it. and I love you ❤️😊