How to Be Less Defensive During Tough Conversations

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • This video is for those who struggle with staying present and open during a tough conversation. If you implement these suggestions consistently, it may help be less defensive in those uncomfortable discussions.
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Комментарии • 20

  • @Destiny_J_87
    @Destiny_J_87 Год назад +10

    Sara Lena, I know you probably hear this all of the time, but you really are a Godsend! Please keep the content coming. It’s helping me in my relationship more than you realize.🙌🏽

  • @LocdNNaturalOdyssey
    @LocdNNaturalOdyssey 9 месяцев назад +3

    I'm definitely going to practice these tips at every opportunity with people in general. I'll be more ready in my next relationship. Gratitude!

  • @Justritamich
    @Justritamich 11 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this!!

  • @JulianaRamirez-f1i
    @JulianaRamirez-f1i 2 месяца назад

    This is extremely helpful. Thanks Sara!

  • @chrissythecrafter3972
    @chrissythecrafter3972 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is very helpful, thank you 🙏🏾

  • @TessieDobey
    @TessieDobey Год назад +2

    Yup, my husband is Mr. Know it all and believes he has the right to analyze everything and everyone. Everything sounds like "Wonk Wonk Wonk Wonk"

  • @janeseisrael1240
    @janeseisrael1240 Год назад +4

    You knocked it out the park with this one. I have been practicing some of these techniques and it’s helping in all my relationships!!! Thank you 🎉

  • @bunnygirl3357
    @bunnygirl3357 9 месяцев назад

    I just love this. I'll be booking very soon. All your videos have been so helpful to my development. GOD BLESS

  • @_a_dubya
    @_a_dubya Год назад +1

    This was so helpful... tuning in for more.😊

  • @ashleypriceHopefulfElect
    @ashleypriceHopefulfElect 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much again for a a wonderful video! I literally took note and some ah ha moments!

  • @JesusLover0001
    @JesusLover0001 Год назад +1

    Thank you for posting more!!! 🎉❤

  • @shonquenesec6974
    @shonquenesec6974 Год назад +2

    😊😊❤❤❤ so glad to be hearing this from you; this journey has been so helpful but lonely and yet I’m not alone❤❤❤😊😊

  • @nadaabdu9080
    @nadaabdu9080 11 месяцев назад +1

    hi beautiful lady! thanks for your videos they have helped me a lot. I wonder if you could make a video about interacting and dating a healthy masculine man. I have always been feminine but dated a guy for some time who wasn't the most masculine and who I tried to help shape into being one but eventually left. He was sweet and kind but lacked leadership skills at times which only frustrated me.
    Now that I am dating again, I am finally meeting and going out with masculine men but I find it a bit challenging and different in some ways. I have always wanted a man with protective and leadership capabilities. Some I find can be a bit self-centered and all about themselves and emotionally unavailable or do silent treatments to where they are not wanting to engage in difficult conversations or open up. Idk what to do. I am very kind, understanding, and patient with them but it is draining to meet a man who looks good on paper but is closed up and hard to get through. Would like some advice on navigating through courting a masculine man and how to still maintain my calm when dealing with them lol. thanks

  • @MinieO746
    @MinieO746 Год назад +1

    Where were you when I got married? I signed up for the group call and will also sign up for coaching.

  • @damck
    @damck Год назад

    Big fan of your work sister. I watch you all the time. I struggle with my husband’s response whenever I tell him I need him to be less abrasive with me sometimes. He always tells me “if you do the right thing, you won’t have to worry about that.” Once every blue moon he’ll say “you’ll have to forgive me for giving it to you raw” and kinda sorta apologize that way. I struggle with this response from him because I know that it won’t always be peaches and cream. And when it is not, I don’t want him to feel like it’s my fault that we got there in the first place and he justifies getting out of pocket. How do I convince my husband and insist that he does have things that he needs to address?

  • @anyamiranda9452
    @anyamiranda9452 Год назад +1

    Can you please make a video about how to find a protector and provider as a tall woman? I'm very tall and, no matter how obviously feminine I look, talk and act, I'm still treated like a male. Even though I'm not looking for height in my partner. It's beyond frustrating.

    • @fredchuks2219
      @fredchuks2219 Год назад

      I'm very tall too maybe we can get to meet and talk

  • @Bigchip30886
    @Bigchip30886 10 месяцев назад +1

    I was wondering if you stopped making videos…

  • @michaelacherrell
    @michaelacherrell Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for making this video! I needed this and I will definitely apply this to when tough conversations arise. I can say this is the biggest thing I struggle with and I want to change it. 🩵 I appreciate you & your wisdom and even your vulnerability to express your personal experiences with you and your husband.