5 SIGNS He's Keeping You as an Option!🚩🤷‍♀️

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @andreakeener6378
    @andreakeener6378 9 месяцев назад +41

    Labels gives it Identity
    Identity gives it Structure
    Structure gives it Security.

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 10 месяцев назад +78

    Your precious TIME is your greatest asset. Let nothing or nobody waste your time and energy. ⏰

  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 10 месяцев назад +149

    I have constantly been the option way too many times until i realized im better off alone.

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 10 месяцев назад +23

      At least you figured it out and refuse to take crumbs.

    • @honeybrown3901
      @honeybrown3901 10 месяцев назад +4

      😢

    • @xoxobutterfly
      @xoxobutterfly 9 месяцев назад +2

      Same 😢

    • @SherriFlemming
      @SherriFlemming 4 месяца назад +2

      Single equals peace, solitude, freedom and stability.
      It takes a strong independent person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with just anyone just to say they have someone.
      Many people cannot be alone.
      Finding someone truly compatible is challenging.
      The older people become, the more stuck in their ways they are.😊
      Remaining single is a choice that doesn't require an explanation to anyone.

    • @mistydawn5061
      @mistydawn5061 3 месяца назад +1

      True

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 10 месяцев назад +48

    *Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.*

  • @fly_girl
    @fly_girl 10 месяцев назад +54

    People can only do what you allow them to do!! I have TOO MUCH respect and love for myself to be an option. 👸🏽🐝

    • @PreciousMethodMan
      @PreciousMethodMan 5 месяцев назад +2

      True fact. FlY grl
      WomaN knw what u worthy SET BOUNDARIES

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg 9 месяцев назад +32

    He is 41 and still has not put a ring on it! 23 years gone, I can not get back! 😢

    • @made432
      @made432 8 месяцев назад +10

      These men never grow up. Move on and put yourself first!

    • @lauraperkins6437
      @lauraperkins6437 8 месяцев назад +8

      Mine left me after celebrating our 23yr anniversary. The discard has been extremely painful. I understand the feeling. I pray for your healing.

    • @made432
      @made432 8 месяцев назад

      @@lauraperkins6437 I am sorry you went through that and I pray for you

    • @ebonylo.
      @ebonylo. 4 месяца назад

      Wow

  • @marlenamcghee
    @marlenamcghee 10 месяцев назад +64

    I was dealing with my ex on and off for years wasted my time years I can not get back..

  • @jackuemcintyre8970
    @jackuemcintyre8970 9 месяцев назад +41

    Say that again it's better to be with a empty bed than having the wrong sprit in the same bed wow

    • @ashleyburris7417
      @ashleyburris7417 7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly wasted time for the wrong one but the right journey

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 10 месяцев назад +65

    I'm not anybody option there is something I want but I shouldn't have to ask all I'm saying if you don't want me let me go

  • @anndewar4400
    @anndewar4400 10 месяцев назад +32

    I wish I had a brother like you.

  • @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
    @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 10 месяцев назад +45

    I Dropped him and have PEACE 😊❤

  • @ChereseElaine_Officially
    @ChereseElaine_Officially 10 месяцев назад +24

    Right On Point..The gift of discernment is priceless.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 месяцев назад

      Hey @GracefullyDriven_Officially, I just wanted to commend you for sharing your story and being vulnerable. It takes a lot of strength to open up like that. Remember, healing is a journey, and it's okay to have ups and downs along the way. You're not alone in this.
      If you're looking for more guidance and support, I just released a new master class that addresses some of the topics you touched on. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you are stronger than you realize. Take care.

    • @ChereseElaine_Officially
      @ChereseElaine_Officially 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for the words of encouragement. I’ve learned a lot from the men in my family by asking relationship questions at a very young age. I agree, experience is the best teacher. Will check out your masterclass. Take care 😊

  • @sherithapatton321
    @sherithapatton321 10 месяцев назад +25

    No one has ever heard this information and I’m 60 yrs old in June I needed to listen to this really a lot of your talks has helped and I wish someone had told me this before I was 30 yrs old

  • @sarrahfiler5993
    @sarrahfiler5993 10 месяцев назад +32

    Current situation!! And it sucks!! I am being ridiculous and not letting him go!!

    • @joanjohnson9821
      @joanjohnson9821 10 месяцев назад +8

      Please reevaluate this situation. I’ve been in the same boat for too long. It’s hard to brake free, but you really are strong enough.

    • @MG-gq2rs
      @MG-gq2rs 10 месяцев назад +7

      You can do it!!! Girl power 💪🏼

    • @moniamonia5396
      @moniamonia5396 10 месяцев назад +4

      He pushed me away but I still crawled back

    • @amykohn8405
      @amykohn8405 10 месяцев назад +4

      I'm right there with you

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 10 месяцев назад

      @@moniamonia5396
      Emotional thinking is a powerful drug! Work on your (E.I.) emotional intelligence and restore your personal power, energy and peace. Blessings 🌸

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 9 месяцев назад +5

    Thats very important to know if he's wanting to be on the same level as you being serious about where things are going or wants it he needs to know that security is Real yeap LABLES DOES MATTER GOT IT YES THEY DO MATTER!!

  • @ZONDRAHARPER-i1q
    @ZONDRAHARPER-i1q 7 месяцев назад +9

    THANK YOU! OUR RELATIONSHIP JUST ENDED!

  • @livia1174
    @livia1174 8 месяцев назад +8

    I gave my best! Lost everything... now i just want peace of mind!!!

  • @ronnietoni819
    @ronnietoni819 8 месяцев назад +10

    This one hit home, made me tear up 😢

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 9 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you brother, I am so grateful to have found you to listen to. I was adopted by evil people. 😢

  • @christinesimon7392
    @christinesimon7392 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm understanding , you help me let go , I'm happy and feel like myself again❤

  • @PeggySueSmith-h9j
    @PeggySueSmith-h9j 10 месяцев назад +9

    I really have never had a good male role model who would have a girls back You are special to share this light for protection and peace I have been healing and trying to learn

  • @maggiewanjiru2807
    @maggiewanjiru2807 10 месяцев назад +12

    I love listening to your amazing topics. However, relationships aren't for the faint. I think you only get stuck when you think somebody other than yourself can make you important to them. Thank you, Derrick.

  • @genetterichard9934
    @genetterichard9934 10 месяцев назад +9

    Yesssss😊 very true my brother,63 and loving it being single is beautiful. Yes you are making sense😊

  • @b.tilson5198
    @b.tilson5198 6 месяцев назад +4

    Lord help me be strong and set my boundaries strong!
    Thank you for being a great brother and speaking the truth. I understand now. I just need to get it into my thick skull that there is no future with him.

  • @Cc-qv4dc
    @Cc-qv4dc 5 месяцев назад +5

    He hurt me and moved on with other women and he think that he have me as an option but the little he knows karma is a real bitch I’m hurting like hell but I will make it through this this too shall pass

  • @SandraDepriest-q6t
    @SandraDepriest-q6t 9 месяцев назад +8

    Keep on preaching Big Bro because you are telling us what our intuition tells us, but somehow we just give these guys the benefit of the doubt!!!Now l have been given the tools to know how to still be loving, nurturing, understanding, while being awake to the games that might be played and how to navigate so that l know when to be on Super Protect Mode while still being kindred!

  • @ebonyhill8266
    @ebonyhill8266 10 месяцев назад +8

    I wish I had seen this 5 years ago! All facts!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 месяцев назад +1

      Dear @ebonyhill8266, I can sense that you're going through a tough time right now. It's important to remember that setbacks are a normal part of life and can actually lead to growth and self-discovery. Keep your head up and stay positive - you have the strength to overcome this!
      If you're looking for support and guidance during this challenging time, I would recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below the video. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward and never give up. You've got this!

  • @MG-gq2rs
    @MG-gq2rs 10 месяцев назад +22

    OMG!!! You just gave me so much clarity!!!
    Thank you!

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 10 месяцев назад +5

    Thank God I am not dealing with anyone. Until I get what I want my set goal is my weight. And I am waiting as well

  • @pt5594
    @pt5594 8 месяцев назад +8

    I protected toooo many men with my loyalty

  • @janicetorto887
    @janicetorto887 7 месяцев назад +7

    Right now, I thought I wasn't good enough, I am worth so much now,

  • @sheilamohammed8306
    @sheilamohammed8306 9 месяцев назад +5

    Say it! Nothing wrong with the Truth!

  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 10 месяцев назад +12

    So right on brother!!

  • @pamelabeaton6667
    @pamelabeaton6667 10 месяцев назад +13

    I'm tired of being a shack up honey as Dr Laura would say no more of that for me I'd rather be single

  • @camillemcconnell8504
    @camillemcconnell8504 8 месяцев назад +3

    Yes!. thank you for the specific age time frames for a monogamous relationships, so that we protect ourselves fr the option category and helping us discern.

  • @carolynfields434
    @carolynfields434 7 месяцев назад +3

    I am 62 years old . And yes they are men out there use you and your an option.

  • @SandraDepriest-q6t
    @SandraDepriest-q6t 9 месяцев назад +8

    Come on you are giving to us as REAL DEAL HOLYFIELD!!!

  • @AmaraLeak
    @AmaraLeak Месяц назад

    hearing what u are saying is blowing my mind as a woman. the only thing we can do is learn the lesson and do better next time🙌

  • @jacquelineward7421
    @jacquelineward7421 9 месяцев назад +2

    You’re are making the whole world of sense to me.

  • @jalisas.698
    @jalisas.698 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love this! Yes you make sense. Thank you for the honesty.

  • @danaford-soares2521
    @danaford-soares2521 9 месяцев назад +3

    This class is bomb loving your intensity

  • @LamarVivian
    @LamarVivian 10 месяцев назад +52

    U. Have. Old. People in there 60s. Playing. Games. To

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 10 месяцев назад +3

      😮

    • @elaineclark4653
      @elaineclark4653 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yes indeed

    • @Glow-q1k
      @Glow-q1k 7 месяцев назад

      👎Old SUCKERS ✅

    • @livinmylife5025
      @livinmylife5025 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yep just dumped mine.

    • @cc1k435
      @cc1k435 4 месяца назад +3

      Those people have always done that and always will. 😮

  • @kimaskew6904
    @kimaskew6904 10 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for the clarity. Everyone needs to listen to this.

  • @azmaritafari
    @azmaritafari 10 месяцев назад +4

    You are definitely making sense to MI!!! Thank you!!!

  • @SmashMaster
    @SmashMaster 9 месяцев назад +12

    Truth hurts because I’ve wasted 20 years on players 😢

  • @yolandasession8158
    @yolandasession8158 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you❤ Iv wasted 8 years.. only for him not to marry after living together.. Made the decision not to continue living together unmarried.. .. slowly growing apart

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 10 месяцев назад +5

    I have made it happen for years. I did it out of love

  • @joannab1692
    @joannab1692 4 месяца назад +1

    One of your best videos big bro. Thanks. 🎉

  • @cynthiataylor5793
    @cynthiataylor5793 10 месяцев назад +2

    Your hitting the Nail on the head!

  • @mattiegrant54
    @mattiegrant54 10 месяцев назад +5

    Been there did that yes that was me

  • @Anitajonse
    @Anitajonse 10 месяцев назад +75

    I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $25,000 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is absolutely more than enough!

    • @harlenajones5721
      @harlenajones5721 10 месяцев назад +1

      Same here, with my current portfolio made from my investments with my personal financial advisor I totally agree with you

    • @JacobMuhammad-fe6nq
      @JacobMuhammad-fe6nq 10 месяцев назад

      Elizabeth Ann has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in the UK as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life's

    • @andymclain2117
      @andymclain2117 10 месяцев назад

      I use to work 3 jobs, full time at Walmart, a server at night and Lyft on the weekend, untill Elizabeth Ann graney change my story.

    • @marthamalcom604
      @marthamalcom604 10 месяцев назад

      Such a genuine personality!!, Sincerely speaking. I will continue to trade and stick to Elizabeth Ann daily signals and guides as long as it works well for me.

    • @WillSmith-or6uy
      @WillSmith-or6uy 10 месяцев назад

      This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, is there any way I can speak with her?

  • @Queen-sw8zp
    @Queen-sw8zp 10 месяцев назад +3

    Speak it my dear speak it.....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🔥

  • @nedailic2139
    @nedailic2139 7 месяцев назад +1

    Damn youre so convincing D.
    I just left him for real 😅😅😅
    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @jp-ov1sv
    @jp-ov1sv 10 месяцев назад +3

    You laid the law down! You should write a book!!

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 4 месяца назад +2

    If u have to convince and beg and bribe and cry to get him....
    He don't want you.

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield5110 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you kind soul♥️🌹♥️👁️

  • @michellewilson851
    @michellewilson851 10 месяцев назад +3

    Yes you're making perfect sense.

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you brother, sometimes I enjoy listening to give me peace of mind. Amen

  • @DianeWilson-b5p
    @DianeWilson-b5p 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thats mean to do🙏men to whom ever it may concern 🙏

  • @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
    @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 10 месяцев назад +1

    ON Point Mr D IAM GOOD WORKING ON ME AND MY PEACE AND STAY CLOSE TO THE LORD ❤😊

  • @lydiachavarria9596
    @lydiachavarria9596 8 месяцев назад +1

    You’re making sense. Thank you.

  • @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
    @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 10 месяцев назад +3

    OMG SO ON POINT ❤

  • @jenniferworth6156
    @jenniferworth6156 8 месяцев назад +2

    Been there! We would be out together he qould get up and go talk to another woman he did not know and leave me by myself

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 9 месяцев назад +1

    Woww I got that and you are speaking Truths DANGGG!!

  • @jp-ov1sv
    @jp-ov1sv 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you soooo much for you information. You have really made me look at my dating life differently.

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 4 месяца назад

    You are right in every way, everything you say resonates.
    Stick with me big bro ❤

  • @carolynfields434
    @carolynfields434 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen thank you

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 9 месяцев назад +2

    I DONE!!

  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 10 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you Derrick! Thank you!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 месяцев назад

      Hey @araceliscollazo5067, I can sense the pain you're going through and I want you to know that you are not alone. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but it's also important to focus on your own healing and growth. Take this time to rediscover yourself, build your confidence, and prioritize self-care.
      If you're looking for guidance and support during this difficult time, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. You deserve to be happy and loved, and I believe in your ability to create the life you truly desire. Stay strong and keep moving forward, you've got this. 💪🏼
      (PS: You can find the link to the master class in the description below)

  • @almaelyesthergarcia4060
    @almaelyesthergarcia4060 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for keeping it real with me

  • @RosieOfford
    @RosieOfford 10 месяцев назад +2

    Yea you are making sense

  • @heatherlynn3438
    @heatherlynn3438 8 месяцев назад +22

    I refuse to be part of the harem 🤢

    • @desiree2299
      @desiree2299 2 месяца назад

      Right! Full of chickens...🚫

    • @mmpopcorn8894
      @mmpopcorn8894 Месяц назад

      Why do they like having harems

    • @heatherlynn3438
      @heatherlynn3438 Месяц назад

      @@mmpopcorn8894 Power, Control, Bored, New Supply, Different Supply Needs, Triangulation, Drama/Trauma, Danger/Excitement, Addictions.. Just off the top of my head

  • @MaDameBeloved
    @MaDameBeloved 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you this game my own father should have given me. You truly are my big brother in Christ! I appreciate all that you do🙏✅💯🌹❣️💋💓💕🥲Thank you Thank you so very much. God bless you!

  • @tabithakeener6673
    @tabithakeener6673 4 месяца назад

    Absolutely right ❤

  • @sherrymiguel7052
    @sherrymiguel7052 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are making perfect sense

  • @mariaare9023
    @mariaare9023 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you !!! U are enlightening me!!!!😮

  • @kerrimagor5634
    @kerrimagor5634 4 месяца назад

    OMG you are ace! I can’t get enough, everything you say is so true

  • @AshtionHernandez-h1f
    @AshtionHernandez-h1f 2 месяца назад

    Lots of value

  • @lindahamilton935
    @lindahamilton935 8 месяцев назад

    I promise you this, the few videos that I've recently watched, I swear you are describing me and how I've been treated and all I've been through with ALL MEN every Husband n boyfriend I've had. I'm literally going through it this exact moment

  • @AmieLewis-t5q
    @AmieLewis-t5q 10 месяцев назад +3

    You are so right

  • @amymitchell1054
    @amymitchell1054 4 месяца назад

    Omg I so needed to hear this! This message is 100% for me!🙌🙌

  • @maryjom7261
    @maryjom7261 10 месяцев назад +4

    Truth!!!

  • @savannahkat-ls9zq
    @savannahkat-ls9zq 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your honesty is awesome

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for the info Big Brother!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hey Tiffany, I hear you and I understand how tough it can be to navigate relationships. Remember, you are worthy of love and deserve to be with someone who appreciates and uplifts you. Keep your head up and trust that the right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, why not check out my new master class on relationships? You can watch it by clicking the link in the description below. Take care of yourself!

    • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
      @JanetTuttle-cb3xx 7 месяцев назад

      God Bless you, you have made points no one has mentioned before, dating is a nightmare as their are so many dishonest men out there, I would rather be alone than wast my precious time at 67 yrs, too much time has already passed.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

  • @crymymindcruz8704
    @crymymindcruz8704 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you brother 😊

  • @marcelinaun3304
    @marcelinaun3304 10 месяцев назад +3

    Ty big bro

  • @spankynbossycompton
    @spankynbossycompton 5 месяцев назад +1

    I gave my baby daddy 12years of myself n on the first time he chose to entertain another female he up n left me n everything I did didn't matter

  • @Paulaemk4
    @Paulaemk4 6 месяцев назад +1

    I just went through this i honestly didnt think he was like that 2 years i gave him i did not know .

  • @KarenOverton-lw4if
    @KarenOverton-lw4if 7 месяцев назад

    Hey Brother everything you have said on this video, I been thru!

  • @SandraDepriest-q6t
    @SandraDepriest-q6t 9 месяцев назад

    Keep it Real!!!!

  • @Sondra13NY
    @Sondra13NY 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sadly fell into that 😢

  • @Debbiekahler
    @Debbiekahler 8 месяцев назад

    You are absolutely right 💯

  • @peggyoverbaugh9248
    @peggyoverbaugh9248 26 дней назад

    Going through that now

  • @sybilamuta6417
    @sybilamuta6417 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you Derrick.

  • @UYLhealth
    @UYLhealth 10 месяцев назад +2

    So good thank you!!🙏🏻 labels absolutely matter! Is this bleach or lemonade?!

  • @ruthrnk3826
    @ruthrnk3826 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this recording. It's an eye opener.

  • @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
    @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 10 месяцев назад +1

    TRUE TRUE ON POINT 😊

  • @wenyaknowbetter
    @wenyaknowbetter 10 месяцев назад +2

    I hope you’re on the Hardly Initiated Podcast!!!! 🙏🏽

  • @darlenecallins4513
    @darlenecallins4513 6 месяцев назад

    Yesss! Totally making sense! & thanks my big bro.😉

  • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
    @JanetTuttle-cb3xx 7 месяцев назад

    Definitely makes sense about his self awareness.