My Ex Is Happy Without Me : Does That Mean We Are Done For Good?

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  • My Ex Is Happy Without Me. Hearing that your ex is happier since you broke up can be extremely painful. It can really hurt our ego and make us scared that we will never get them back. However, it's important to understand that happiness is a state and only temporary. They can easily miss you and revisit the idea of getting back together with you.
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  • @georgehathaway1590
    @georgehathaway1590 2 года назад +65

    Funny thing though is exes are never truly ‘done’ with you, even if the relationship was Rocky. They will think about you and if the breakup is relatively new, they might not think about you but the Dumpee has two weapons. Time and space, I can assure you that no matter the situation, you will hear in some form from them.

    • @Miswhitness0520
      @Miswhitness0520 Год назад +13

      Yup especially if you were a respectful person in general

    • @LanceM-11314
      @LanceM-11314 Год назад +3

      @@Miswhitness0520 yes! try to be mature. In my case, as a male, always, no matter what, be a gentleman. Sometimes you take it on the chin, but you walk away knowing you did the best you could. And your ex will never forget you. And it's never 100% truly over.

    • @SNEAKVS
      @SNEAKVS 5 месяцев назад

      I wish this was the case for me… she left me for someone I thought was a friend. She looks healthy and happy. Has me blocked on everything I acted out and was really disrespectful when I found out. I think she will never speak to me again and I shouldn’t ever forgive her. And as well we were very rocky due to me messing up early on

  • @markmichaellepianka5598
    @markmichaellepianka5598 6 лет назад +106

    Whether we are done or not is the wrong question to ask yourself. If your ex- broke up with you, your move is to be happy for your partner and thankful for the experience.
    Any move you make that is fear based is always the wrong move.
    Do the personal work and you will be ready if they return. If they don’t come back you’ll be in a healthier place for your next opportunity.
    Be well my friends.

    • @26jnaidu
      @26jnaidu 6 лет назад

      Mark Michael LePianka you are right. Wish I am strong.

    • @chrispatterson1019
      @chrispatterson1019 5 лет назад +7

      I like that idea. A refreshingly upbeat take, on what can be a upsetting time.

    • @bbycortez1587
      @bbycortez1587 5 лет назад

      What if I’m the reason we broke up? I’m younger than him by 3 years... He thought I was his age which I lied about... I should have been honest... I love him but he is doing so much better without me, or that is what I think..

    • @kori4580
      @kori4580 Год назад

      I can't be happy for him because he abandoned me for the "grass is greener". But what I can do is let go and be neutral towards him and forget.

  • @samantaarcangioli4609
    @samantaarcangioli4609 5 лет назад +48

    It has been 9 weeks of hell. He looks happy, focused on his job and he blocked me from everything. He blamed me but that s not accurate. Since i have started to watch your videos i have found out i have an ambivalent-anxious attachment with all the consequences. I am crying every day. The thought that i wont ever seen him again in a romantic manner it is torturing me althought i know i have to work on myself. I wonder if he knows he has to work in himself too cause he had issues. He is avoidant. Coach i listen to your video everyday. They make me feel better. I am crying while i am typung this. Xxx

    • @sunshineq4496
      @sunshineq4496 4 года назад +2

      Any update on this?, how has it been since ? I am currently going thru the same feeling and he has blamed me for everything. I can't help but think that he is right at times and all i do is cry.

    • @alexandrachirila1917
      @alexandrachirila1917 4 года назад +1

      i am in the same situation, it's been 3 weeks and i am feeling worse now. he is FA i think....crying too and sending you all the love! :(

    • @sunshineq4496
      @sunshineq4496 4 года назад

      I am so sorry to hear that, i pray for you the feeling sucks.

    • @samantaarcangioli4609
      @samantaarcangioli4609 4 года назад +6

      @@sunshineq4496 i am fine now. Single. I wont ever getting him back even if he beg. He was a manipulative sick man. I couldn't see it at the time. Now i can. Sometimes we let the feeling and what we think to see blind us. He was that one who needed help. I am fine now. Happy. I am lucky to had a lucky escape. Hope you ll find peace

    • @xMikeyHardyx
      @xMikeyHardyx 3 года назад

      @@samantaarcangioli4609 This is my fear I think, my ex doesn’t remember me fondly, but as a psycho because we argued a lot near the end 🤣

  • @ginag7844
    @ginag7844 6 лет назад +106

    I’m not hopeful about getting back with my ex, I don’t want to get back. However, sometimes I do experience the cycle of missing the relationship and it helps to listen to this. Thank you both.

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 6 лет назад +5

      Overcomer 2017 same here. I don't want to go back anymore. It's been a year now. My anger will never go away. The best thing she can do now is to stay away as far as she can. My anger will never go away. Never.

    • @abrahamjaleel9463
      @abrahamjaleel9463 6 лет назад +1

      same

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      Update??

    • @Byku010
      @Byku010 2 года назад

      update?

  • @ashleytrujillo9425
    @ashleytrujillo9425 6 лет назад +51

    I absolutely adore you Margaret and coach Craig ! You guys crack me up even on my saddest days . Thank you 💜

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 лет назад +6

      You are awesome too Ashley! You should see us when the camera's aren't on lol

    • @lols5851
      @lols5851 4 года назад

      Update??

  • @Willowman70
    @Willowman70 5 лет назад +26

    Margaret is so awesome, I kinda wish she was my mother 😁 keep up the good work guys 👍🏻

  • @thorgetsthegirl
    @thorgetsthegirl 5 лет назад +52

    i definitely feel forgettable.

    • @christiancarr8566
      @christiancarr8566 5 лет назад +12

      But don't think that. You're not forgettable. You're very memorable. At some point you made this person happy

    • @thorgetsthegirl
      @thorgetsthegirl 5 лет назад +4

      @@christiancarr8566 thank you for that. Cheers me up.

    • @peachblossom.phlox3403
      @peachblossom.phlox3403 4 года назад

      I feel the same 😞

    • @lols5851
      @lols5851 4 года назад

      Update?

    • @thorgetsthegirl
      @thorgetsthegirl 4 года назад +4

      @@lols5851 well i feel better. I am focusing on myself and have started again looking for the love of my life. Thank you, lola...for asking.☺

  • @lexadecimal3089
    @lexadecimal3089 3 года назад +6

    the two of you are really great together, margaret made me feel a lot better.

  • @earthman0x
    @earthman0x 3 года назад +54

    I keep hearing about the applebees girl, I’m curious about the whole story 😅

  • @talon.brigade8366
    @talon.brigade8366 6 лет назад +7

    This is EXACTLY what happened to me a few days ago! Only the other way around. There was no excuse for my behavior. At all. I really want her back once I sort things out

  • @tuperladelcariberodriguez8453
    @tuperladelcariberodriguez8453 4 года назад +4

    I can't get enough of the grand gesture and the handwritten letter, lol. Love you guys. Thanks to you I have survived these horrible 6 months. I have learned so much about myself and other's behaviors. Thank you both

  • @evangreen5643
    @evangreen5643 6 лет назад +10

    The counseling/anger management bit was super funny!

  • @ryanminor2334
    @ryanminor2334 Год назад +3

    I can relate to the scenario used in this video. One of the main reasons my ex left me, was because I didn’t go to counseling enough. Mainly for anger management and childhood trauma. I was stubborn about it and lost her because of not following through with it. She was willing to stay with me and help me work through the personal struggles I had. Since she left a few months ago, I’ve been serious about counseling and I’ve been getting better with controlling my anger and emotions. She did reach out after 2 months. She is with someone else, so I’ve been careful about my messages. The messages have been indirect. But I feel like I still may have a chance

    • @meleciamegan
      @meleciamegan Год назад +1

      How long were you guys in NC?

    • @Alchemist_171
      @Alchemist_171 Год назад +1

      Hey man, I hope you find yourself through this. It's a great feeling.

    • @ryanminor2334
      @ryanminor2334 Год назад

      2 months

  • @donniesdesertcannabis9246
    @donniesdesertcannabis9246 6 лет назад +30

    I feel like my ex is completely done with me. We were together for 9 years, we never fought and got along. Out of the blue, she left me because of a thousand reasons... like she's missing something inside, she's never lived alone, she loves me but NOT in love with me and the list goes on. I went no contact for a week and she texted me to see how i was doing. I asked her to lunch and she said yes. When we met for lunch, she was watching a facebook live video of her friends the whole time. I feel that her new group of friends have been guiding her away. She just doesn't give a shit about me anymore and I'm pissed at myself for still feeling sad.

    • @beastifiedification
      @beastifiedification 6 лет назад +11

      Donnie Rowe same for me bro,My ex and I broke up around 2 months ago,and I found out about 3 weeks into the breakup she started seeing a coworker of his.It hurts and angers me that she seems really happy while I think about her all the time

    • @LaoSoftware
      @LaoSoftware 6 лет назад +8

      People fall out of love all the time.

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 6 лет назад +5

      Ixayan Rios brother she didn't just started seeing that coworker. Sounds to me like that was planned.

    • @beastifiedification
      @beastifiedification 6 лет назад

      carlos cabrera thats what I was thinking too man,the only reason I found out though was because I still had her Instagram password after the breakup,but for some reason she hasnt made him public anywhere at all.Where when we were dating she was making me public everywhere.I’m confused as to why she hasnt made him public yet

    • @donniesdesertcannabis9246
      @donniesdesertcannabis9246 6 лет назад +14

      So, i saw her for the first time today and i gotta say, i wasn't very attracted to her. Her demeanor is totally different, she looks different and not in a good way. I can't believe that i lost all of those nights sleep, cried all of those tears for her. I can and will get someone WAY better looking and who can actually communicate. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and for the first time I'm ready to let go and never turn back. That bitch had a great life with me and one day she will realize it when she's with some douche bag. Disclaimer: this will be erased if we get back together one day.

  • @FreddyGaming
    @FreddyGaming 6 лет назад +16

    Allow me to tell you my story. I broke up with my gf of 13years because I met the love of my life "ex now". Even when I broke a very suffocating 13years relationship I still could't have sex with my new girl because I was thinking of my ex. 1.5years later I still think of my ex-ex and how would it be if we got together.

  • @vambo13257
    @vambo13257 6 лет назад +4

    I fell in love with the woman I thought she was! Went out with her a couple times years ago and after my wife passed and she got divorced we ended up in a relationship. I fell in love with the idealistic image I had of her and ignored the things that hurt me. Now we have probably wasted 2 1/2 years of our lives.

  • @jcmontana2154
    @jcmontana2154 6 лет назад +11

    Can you do a video on divorce? With kids? How to get her back?

  • @daisyg7822
    @daisyg7822 6 лет назад +11

    Coach u have the best stories! Laughed so hard! You and Coach Margaret are truly amazing! Please don't ever stop making these videos you have helped so many of us. I am forever grateful ❤

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 лет назад +1

      Daisy Gomez! You're alive!?!

    • @daisyg7822
      @daisyg7822 6 лет назад

      Coach Craig Kenneth 😂 Not Gomez...one day when I do a Skype I'll let you know what it is. As for right now you'll never guess 😜

    • @codydavis3100
      @codydavis3100 3 года назад

      @@daisyg7822 Daisy Gorgeous

  • @pabloponce6148
    @pabloponce6148 6 лет назад +3

    The reason of NC is work on yourself! Get the power back on you not of them! I only had done 15 of NC and I feel shamed for breaking it up she reached out to me just to play games going back and off! All I do is be confident and make her laugh I do a mistake ? I don’t even know but I’m tired of her BS and games! Now that I watched most of your videos Craig I realize I deserve so much better! I did way to much for this girl there was a time I stay a week without eating to help her! Haha another girl with value me as a man! I thought I did not deserve her but I’m wrong she don’t deserve me! It really hurts because I still love her but I just tired of her BS honestly! Moving on loving is hard but is for the best! Planing to do a letter for the last! Yes I know you said Craig a letter doesn’t work but that’s what I want! Nothing at all from her! Is just to say our last goodbye that’s all! After that I’m going to deleted her from my life!!!!!

  • @MrNPJM
    @MrNPJM 6 лет назад +7

    Thanks for this. It’s just turned a year since my break up! Should have moved on like she has, but still think about her every day. Sure it’s easier than this time last year, but damn I miss her.

    • @lols5851
      @lols5851 4 года назад +1

      Update??

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад +1

      Update????

    • @MrNPJM
      @MrNPJM 3 года назад +9

      @@dwightschrute8141 Well I never saw or heard from her again!!.. but in better news, 6 months after my original comment I met someone else, and 2 years later we're still together and I'm happier and more fulfilled in this relationship than I ever was with my ex. It goes to show that you've got to trust in the journey.. sometimes what you want isn't what you need. Best wishes

    • @stinky_bear
      @stinky_bear 2 года назад

      @@MrNPJM good to hear brother!

  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  6 лет назад +35

    Take a second to like the video if you enjoyed the topic or the info :)

    • @vioannisachannel9974
      @vioannisachannel9974 5 лет назад

      Coach please talk about long distance break up, are no contact still work for this problem?

    • @yetianouyang7673
      @yetianouyang7673 4 года назад

      @@vioannisachannel9974 I hope your question has got answered? I am having the same problem at the moment.

  • @samhill7471
    @samhill7471 5 лет назад +12

    I don’t know if he’s truly happy or not but he’s in a rebound relationship and it’s been over 3 months now. I also know him well and his relationships are never short when up to him. He has a tendency to stay in them even if they’re not going well. So I fear he’ll be with the rebound a really long time unless she chooses to end it

    • @hautemuse81
      @hautemuse81 5 лет назад

      Sam Hill any updates?

    • @samhill7471
      @samhill7471 5 лет назад +1

      He’s been back in my life but still has her around as well. Trying to be a friend with benefits. Sigh.

    • @hautemuse81
      @hautemuse81 5 лет назад

      Sam Hill i am so sorry he’s acting this way with you. You deserve much more than that

    • @SuperUNREALX
      @SuperUNREALX 5 лет назад

      Sam Hill any recent updates sam? I’m going through the same thing with my ex girlfriend except they are still recently together dating 2 months almost now . Blasting social media almost everyday how good they are together

    • @samhill7471
      @samhill7471 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah. We’re back seeing each other and he’s now just friends with the rebound. We’re taking it slow. No “l love you’s” like before. I’m trying to just lean back and take it slow. So far so good

  • @clandestineclara9355
    @clandestineclara9355 6 лет назад +20

    I have panic attacks every now and then. I miss her so much. She seems so much happier without me as though she forgot all my sacrifices. It's been only two weeks but feels like 2 years I've been going out dating but my heart and mind kept going back to her. She was the girl of my dreams and we wanted to start a family together. But somehow she fell out of love and I'm so devastated and despairing about the break up. It hurts so bad

    • @roman4892
      @roman4892 6 лет назад

      Raza Amri 😓

    • @betareybill9400
      @betareybill9400 6 лет назад +2

      Find someone else asap...it helps with the attacks I promise...or talk to someone going through the same situation...it will calm you down...time will be your best friend.

    • @cosmos6077
      @cosmos6077 5 лет назад

      Updates please? Did yo get her back

  • @gloriavita9389
    @gloriavita9389 6 лет назад +10

    Thanks for being amazing Margaret and Craig !!

  • @tukku4417
    @tukku4417 4 года назад +7

    It's been 4 months to our breakup. And I have stopped using social media for my own mental peace. But mutual friends of me and my ex tells me that why am I punishing my self by not using social media while my ex is constantly uploading happy pics of herself.
    This makes me feel more sad. She is happy while I'm here constantly missing her.

    • @babybee4261
      @babybee4261 3 года назад

      Im on the same boat. She's moved on with a new person and she can careless about how I feel. Knowing I have really bad mental issues. I'd always be there for her through her mental problems. This really sucks. So much.

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      .update?

    • @zackkickboxer4837
      @zackkickboxer4837 3 года назад +4

      You guys need to understand that just because they upload these photos of them seeming happy doesn’t mean they are. I actually done something like that before to make it seem like I was having a great time and living how I wanted but inside I was still sad. People have different ways of coping and obviously for some putting up pictures is a way that helps them. Your ex will think of you regardless wether it was good or bad they will still think about you but your mind is telling you that they’ve moved on because of how you’re feeling but trust me, they are hurting just like you

    • @freddyjafar1490
      @freddyjafar1490 Год назад

      @@zackkickboxer4837 even if they cheated on you and forced you to break up with them?

    • @obiej17
      @obiej17 Год назад

      Tukku any update

  • @samchakriya9634
    @samchakriya9634 3 года назад

    Same problem, but he didn’t tell me to break up, he instead cheated on me and left for the widow who is older than him. I think she treats him way better than me. He looks so happy in their relationship and it kills me inside, not that I want him back, but I feel unworthy and not enough. I feel so devastated.

  • @Thebestfoquintha
    @Thebestfoquintha 4 года назад +1

    I split up with my first serious girlfriend of 6 months in mid January. I can’ say for absolute certain that has hands down been the toughest period of my entire life. Nothings stings more than loving someone, seeing someone, texting someone, having the girl of your dreams by your side for 6 months, only for in the blink of an eye gone completely. It’s honestly as if they have passed away. I made all the classic breakup mistakes as it was my first, now I’m blocked on absolutely everything. Only way to apologise is a hand written letter but it’s a huge risk.

    • @ryanthompson9697
      @ryanthompson9697 4 года назад +3

      Dan Wright don’t do the letter bro. Don’t do it. Just give it time , work on yourself !

    • @Thebestfoquintha
      @Thebestfoquintha 4 года назад +2

      Ryan Thompson I never did the letter in the end man! We contacted each other via text just to see if each other was safe with the virus pandemic. She said she’d be upset if something happened to me so for now I’ve just left it at that. I’ll only ever contact her again for something serious.

  • @jassonkhoo1223
    @jassonkhoo1223 2 года назад +5

    hey coach craig, i realise most of the stories you told us is about the ex boyfriend coming back wether their avoidant and anxious, i woild like to know do avoidant ex girlfriends ever come back as much as avoidant boyfriends?

  • @BritishBiblioholic
    @BritishBiblioholic 3 года назад +4

    I'm going through a really tough break up right now. I love him and want to work things out with him, but he has told me he doesn't see me in a romantic light anymore and that he's doing better without me and the relationship. I feel really deflated and depressed. This video made me feel a bit better, but I think I have to listen to him for now and just wait and see what the future holds really :(

  • @TheMuralv7777
    @TheMuralv7777 6 лет назад +8

    Always making me feel better coach !:)

  • @wendyoliva2779
    @wendyoliva2779 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you, Craig! This is very helpful. My ex has been beaming for a couple of months now. Sometimes it gets to me, I’m not gonna lie, but I try to beam even harder especially in his presence. :) can’t take me down!

  • @aestheticlife3184
    @aestheticlife3184 4 года назад +3

    Omg i have the same problem, I was so controlling and now he is just so happy without me but I really really hope that we will get back together, I’m really changing, I know that I was really really annoying, I’m not gonna be like that anymore. Ever!

  • @milaalt1141
    @milaalt1141 4 года назад +6

    "If someone doesn't want to be there for you, that is not your guy." (Or girl for men) - Matthew Hussey.
    Love Craig and Margaret this gives me hope as I move on and leave my relationship. I know it's over, but I'm excited to create a new life.

  • @yeti_sec997
    @yeti_sec997 6 лет назад +2

    This video and yesterday's video matching how I feel internally.

  • @giovannichambers2841
    @giovannichambers2841 4 года назад

    My recent ex of 10 months broke up with me two weeks ago because I'm an Agnostic (told her that last year), which made me very furious because it was never an issue till now. She's been active on fb all this week (she wasn't active on there for the past two weeks), seeming all happy and everything. We had a strong connection being together with so much other things in common. She's probably moved from relief to elated stage while I'm on No Contact. I just hope she could come back to her senses soon, so we could continue where we left off. I was worried that she moved on completely at first as I've been avoiding contact with her since the day of the break up, but this video was a relief for me. I'll just have to see where this will all go.

  • @w.milligan676
    @w.milligan676 6 лет назад +3

    I don't know if I'll see her again.. it's been a year plus." still counting"
    I had to walk out being invisible wasn't cool... Really don't know what to say to her I know one day we'll meet face-to-face though.

    • @georgebagdassarian3489
      @georgebagdassarian3489 6 лет назад +2

      You shouldn’t feel obligated to say anything. She should be the one worried about what to say. I hope you feel better soon, keep working on yourself to truly find someone that will give you the same amount of love you give them.

  • @jayuk271
    @jayuk271 6 лет назад +3

    I'm worried that if I work on myself and get to a point where I don't get anxious if and when my ex reaches out because of all the self work I've done, surely that means I've just moved on doesnt it? That's not what I'm trying to achieve

  • @jpletcher8682
    @jpletcher8682 4 года назад +5

    you really miss that applebees girl dont you. I feel your pain bro

  • @LightOfReason7
    @LightOfReason7 4 года назад +2

    You two are great, you work very well together and compliment each other

  • @214lemuel
    @214lemuel 5 лет назад +5

    My ex feeling happy I think she dating someone else.but she didn't tell that she already have new guy she hide it to me

  • @evangreen5643
    @evangreen5643 6 лет назад +7

    I'm the first to comment and craig your awesome! Thanks!

  • @LUNA-mv1vn
    @LUNA-mv1vn 4 года назад +3

    Coach my ex and I just broke up before christmas. He said that he doesn't love me anymore and he had enough of my attitude. I did all the begging I could but still he pushed me away and made me go home alone. He said that I should move on with my life but how? He is my home and I cannot imagine myself my life without him what can I do?

  • @marrytissina1967
    @marrytissina1967 6 лет назад +4

    Hi coaches, I LOVE this channel, Your approach seems the logical one ,you're right, it doesn't make sens to contact someone who dumped you, it's only gonna backfire, I've already tired to contact my ex after NC period has ended, trust me guys , I didn't get the result I wanted,and I'm now in NC for almost 4 months,I m not gonna reach out to him for any reason

    • @Roberto-dq8qj
      @Roberto-dq8qj 6 лет назад

      marry Tissina, any updates?

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      .update?

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      Im on 32nd day of nc and i feel like i should reach out to her in a week or two unless she reaches out first.

    • @obiej17
      @obiej17 Год назад

      Did they ever reach out?

  • @mariamchorozian7270
    @mariamchorozian7270 4 года назад +1

    2 months and my ex is over me. He is happy, and I know from our mutual friends, who Tell me all the time to move on and be happy. Because they know that he is also happy and he has moved on. If they knew something different, that he wants to come back, they would not tell me to move on. He did not want a relationship now, because we had toxic sometimes relationship and the only thing he wanted was to be alone, bacause he was really stressed out. He had told me That he would never come back and he loves me so much, that is what he wanted me to be happy and move on. 2 months and nothing. He had told me that even if he changed his mind, he would never let me to know,because I was not his game. He keeps our good memories and he moves on. And he has done that. And I am sitting here two months and I am hoping everyday That he will come back to me.

  • @MrFreshMachine
    @MrFreshMachine 2 месяца назад

    My ex literally said to me that she’s happy being single and I made a joke saying “not missing me then😉”
    she just replied “🙄 byeee” and we haven’t spoken since

  • @fanyada7
    @fanyada7 6 лет назад +1

    Best video ever. I have learnt so much to achieve in those days, one thing is possible and the clouds and feelings move any time without calling. Thanks.

  • @hwdareu5848
    @hwdareu5848 4 года назад +3

    I guess I really messed up my chances of getting her back. Broke no contact of 7 days and befriended her for 1 and half months. I asked her if we can workout the things to which she told me she's not interested and that she don't love me anymore. I told her I can't be friends and she told that we better remained as strangers.... It's being 2 months of no contact since then. 😔

  • @ananooo0
    @ananooo0 2 года назад

    My boyfriend stopped watching my instagram stories for 2 weeks now, he used to watch every single story but suddenly he stopped. Feels like I lost all control and don’t know what to do now to make him interested again.

  • @shaniaileen7706
    @shaniaileen7706 5 лет назад +1

    so sad..we decided to meet for last after 2 months break up..we will go disneyland...it supposed to be on my birthday on august 6 but we decided to meet on june next month..so sad waiting for that day and i know myself it would be the last i can see him

  • @vickiehalliday5173
    @vickiehalliday5173 4 года назад

    Going through a break up myself with my ex gf! She changed with me a year ago became less affectionate, plus she liked to drink and i wasnt a big drinker. We lived together and she had a little boy who i treat as my own for 3 years. I showed my emotions and she did not and if i questioned her it started a huge argument and would walk away and go to bed and i would cry, hoping she would show me some affection, but she didn't and could be funny with me for weeks and I would blame myself. The worse part is I can't see the little boy, she told me she doesnt love me and I'm heartbroken and she has blocked me on everything. I ended up moving back home with the clothes on my back

  • @buchanan012
    @buchanan012 6 лет назад +8

    just found out that she is happy and has moved on. 2 months after a 1.5 year relationship. It's hopeless.

    • @jaysalazatn9120
      @jaysalazatn9120 6 лет назад

      It sucks

    • @betareybill9400
      @betareybill9400 6 лет назад +5

      She thinks she's happy...just work on being the best version of you in case she decides to revisit...if not then oh well...her loss...and you'll realize that maybe she wasn't the best for you.

    • @KirboTurbo18
      @KirboTurbo18 Год назад

      How are you now?

  • @domt4588
    @domt4588 6 лет назад +4

    It’s been 7 weeks of no contact but still hurts.
    I moved out to another state to be with him...I gave up lot to be with him. Before I moved out there I had to make sure he set boundaries with his ex wife and he talked to her. When I moved out there things had not changed. She was constantly texting him and I talked to him plenty of times about it. I told him that I felt unimportant and not his priority. It just never got better...I was in the wrong for the way I chose to deal with it. I would shut down and close myself off. I was afraid because he acted different the week I moved in.I’m sure I stressed him out! I see now that he did not value me enough...or did not want to set those boundaries. I still blame myself though😪

  • @mumteancosmin166
    @mumteancosmin166 3 года назад

    She dont show she told me how she feels, she said:i feel much peaceful, calmer without you, so?

  • @kevinbrabender6943
    @kevinbrabender6943 3 года назад

    My ex tells me she is happy single and we met at just wrong time but tells me she misses me and is first to like my posts on Facebook 🤷‍♂️

  • @michaellevine9290
    @michaellevine9290 5 лет назад +1

    I apologized to my wife's family for hurting her and being a jerk towards them because of things they did to my wife which upset her. Was that a mistake

    • @hildaguzman8966
      @hildaguzman8966 5 лет назад

      I did the same thing. It back fired. I hope you find peace and joy.

  • @trevortrillingham
    @trevortrillingham 6 лет назад +1

    my gf broke up with me and kicked me out of the house she didnt actually gave me a reason why she says she said it's not working out while I was packing my stuff and walked the door she said I wanna work things out so I left it there and I told her i dont see you as a friend i value more then that call me when you change your mind and left it as is I'm doing no contact and it's been 3 weeks and she wont go out of her way to talk to me what do i do I've been working on my self going to the gym and meditating seeing my friends more what should i do

  • @carthy29
    @carthy29 Год назад

    I am 44, i have had three long term relationships,
    first girl, i chased, i was 22 had no clue about NC etc
    second i did no contact to the letter,
    third i didnt even try, not one came back etc, i doubt they ever do for anyone ?

  • @debbiedeb1138
    @debbiedeb1138 6 лет назад +1

    My ex says he wants to be friends . Yet when I don't answer his texts. Right away he gets angry. But rejects me . Then texted me in the morning . And gets angry. I never text him .I just respond. Then he'll text me I. The morning have a good day ...uuggh Im confused

  • @sincebeggining
    @sincebeggining 2 года назад +1

    Is love a game we need to learn to play?

  • @ShondaD_
    @ShondaD_ Год назад

    Well for me,,,I see with my own eyes on my ex social media pages that he's achieving his goals and going on biz ventures. Looks like he's happy to me😮‍💨

  • @l.8612
    @l.8612 4 года назад +1

    He says he has moved on. After 1 mounth he told me that. Now we are 3 and a half mounts after break up and now one mounth i am in no contact. He broke up with me. He told me at moment of breaking up he will miss me but not come back. Is this true?

  • @seanrooney170
    @seanrooney170 4 года назад +2

    My ex girlfriend seems to be really happy. It's been a month

    • @hwdareu5848
      @hwdareu5848 4 года назад

      It's being 3 months and she seems to be doing well and so happy. We were together for 4 years.

    • @akshaykumar-ex4bc
      @akshaykumar-ex4bc 4 года назад

      Update???

  • @MrCas58
    @MrCas58 4 года назад

    Mine posted a picture from rock climbing full of smiles ( a smile so big that reached behind her ears) and wrote dedicated to the best one. In our last conversations she insisted that I am the best one but she couldn't do it anymore ( she is married 20 years..). What was that?

  • @marselafuentez2923
    @marselafuentez2923 5 лет назад +3

    Can y’all do a video on if you pressured your ex

  • @Cmercedes822
    @Cmercedes822 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you for this I needed this.

  • @yetianouyang7673
    @yetianouyang7673 4 года назад

    For the email/skype coaching, would that one session be enough to answer all the questions and provide enough solutions? What if there are still things to followup in a second email how the charge would be?

  • @lesleysole7582
    @lesleysole7582 5 лет назад +3

    How long shoukd you wait before moving on ?

  • @faezahjumahat4196
    @faezahjumahat4196 4 года назад

    Hello Coach Craig & Coach Margaret Good Morning From Singapore! What If My Ex Seems Happy After A Harsh Break-Up When He Feels Fine & Good And Seems Happy Or Does Not Feels Guilty Or Terrible Or He Tries To Compared With His Previous PartNer Or He Has Abandoment-AttachMent SynDrome Or Has A Rebound Relationship? Does That Means The Relationship Is Not Over Or The Break-Up Is A Temporary Phase Or A Guy's Takes Time To Heals From Emotional ChildHood Trauma Or He Has Another Agenda On His Mind Or He Wants Another Shot Of Relationship With A Woman's He Left-Behind,Silent, Distant Or Quiet? Or He Is Feeling's Sad & Have A Happy Moments With A Woman's He Put On A Pedestal Or On Holds Or Still Doing No Contact & Radio Silent? What Is The OutCome Of A Relationship If He Still Catch Some Feeling's & Be UnForgetable To His Inner Deep Soul Feels Awakened?

  • @ginag7844
    @ginag7844 6 лет назад +3

    Craig I’m loving your grays!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 лет назад +5

      Yep. That's from all my break ups lol. I'm like Mr. Fantastic

    • @ginag7844
      @ginag7844 6 лет назад +2

      It’s a very attractive trait that many women love. Most men don’t know how great it is to have gray hair. They feel shame. It’s a great thing. ❤️

    • @oldenglishsheepdogfun5960
      @oldenglishsheepdogfun5960 6 лет назад +1

      Overcomer 2017 me too

  • @andalov
    @andalov 6 лет назад +4

    I love you 2 too. Have been a greath support

  • @paranormalchannelkarinamar7000
    @paranormalchannelkarinamar7000 4 года назад

    I cant see if my ex is happy are not because he block me off Instagram now I cant see what he up too

  • @lauriebutt7862
    @lauriebutt7862 3 года назад

    I think you're great together!

  • @yourdream5965
    @yourdream5965 6 лет назад +2

    Great job❤️thank you

  • @beastifiedification
    @beastifiedification 6 лет назад

    Hey Craig,what do you think about this?My ex and I broke up around 2 months ago.She ended up blocking me on every social media and my number as well.I begged a lot for the first two weeks.I later found out when stalking that she was having sex/dating one of her co workers so I was started doing NC.She ended up unblocking me and messaging me around day 35 of NC but for what seemed to be an excuse to talk.She was asking if she had left her car registration in my car.I replied calm and disnt seem overly eager.Later on though that same day she blocked me again and She hasnt messaged since.today is day 54 of NC.What do you think/any advice

    • @Roberto-dq8qj
      @Roberto-dq8qj 6 лет назад

      Ixayan Rios, any updates brother??

  • @AlenaAleczandra
    @AlenaAleczandra 5 лет назад +1

    When he saw that i unfollowed him on Instagram he did the same thing. He always saw my story and now he did this...because noticed that i done it. It a a chance that he Could come back? He left me almost a month ago and doesn t cared for me , he has a big ego ...unfortunately i love him, but he is a complicated person. We have been in relationship for 6 months...

  • @lichailicho966
    @lichailicho966 4 года назад

    Please how can i contact you guys? I need help

  • @telesialoyd3181
    @telesialoyd3181 4 года назад

    Most of them don’t.

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 4 года назад

    Love this one. Third parties can sabatage inadvertently.

  • @queenieramirez9329
    @queenieramirez9329 6 лет назад +4

    My ex dumped me for someone else (office mate, known each other for like 2 months i guess) after a month of not contacting him, he now tells me he still loves me and still cares about me even when he's still with the rebound girl. He regret what he did, and realized im the perfect woman for him. We still contact each other. Im still inlove with him , after all he did, i still hope he'll take me back. Sad thing, he can't let go of the his new girl for some reasons, he says he's trapped and just waiting for the right time to cut her off. Please help me what to do. Should I wait for him or just continue to move on without him. It's just sooo hard to let go of our 4yr relationship.

    • @cynthiadavison5785
      @cynthiadavison5785 6 лет назад +3

      He's making you the backup. Mine did that too. Let him know you can't be friends. It hurts too much. Respect his decision. NC. You can't keep letting him have the girlfriend treatment when you're not getting anything. You will make yourself crazy. Good luck!

    • @juap
      @juap 6 лет назад

      I did the same with my ex.. so i know for sure u must do NC or u would lose it. I have say yo my ex that i didnt like the relation ship and ask she to wait me for the right moment, i was lying and confuse because i didnt want to lose but i have always be with my new girl 3 yrs she always contacted me and give me peace ... if NC wld hv been aapplyied to me the story would have been different

    • @promisys
      @promisys 6 лет назад +3

      Don’t be his safety net...let him suffer and regret losing you. My ex kinda did the same thing with me but I’m never contacting her ever again after our 4 year relationship.

  • @djblokbeats8218
    @djblokbeats8218 5 лет назад

    She just texted me but not tos say hey she just wanted to know when am I going to pay her back cause I owe her money still she just told me merry Christmas btw. I just said likewise was that a smart move? Or should I have said merry christmas to yu as well idk I'm confused

  • @timepassvideo4713
    @timepassvideo4713 4 года назад

    She came back after being in a rebound but i wasnt emotionally ready and she left me again for the same rebound. Do i stil have a chance. Please help me!!

    • @Tiabiacha1
      @Tiabiacha1 3 года назад

      I’m sorry sweetie but I would let that go. If I got left for the same person they left me for the first time, something is wrong with me to put myself in a hurtful position. Hope you’re ok. ♥️

  • @zodix44
    @zodix44 6 лет назад +1

    How do I mail you?

  • @vicbie96
    @vicbie96 2 года назад

    Rip coach Margaret 😞

  • @lindaizzy5611
    @lindaizzy5611 3 года назад +1

    Omgg that is my EXACT same story!!!!

  • @meganoeltaylor
    @meganoeltaylor 5 лет назад +4

    My boyfriend left me after 4 years of "trying to make it work" when I knew I wanted to be with him forevr he had second thoughts about being alone and living on his own, seeing other people. He says he put enough effort in and he's done. I know I have self improve,ent I need to do but hes just as insecure as I am deep down. I am hopeful that one day when we are both doing better maybe we cna start again but I don't know who I am he's five years older than me and neither of us know where we'll be. I just was happy a slong as I had him but now my life has been turned around and I'm still struggling to move on without him in my future.

    • @lisaa.971
      @lisaa.971 2 года назад +1

      Hey, how are things now?

    • @meganoeltaylor
      @meganoeltaylor 2 года назад +3

      @@lisaa.971 not great but doing better since letting that guy go. I tried being friends with him for a while but it was just toxic. Letting go is the only way to grow. I just couldn't accept that what I thought I had was not real. I'm far from where I wanna be but came a long way since this comment I can't even recall actually typing now. Thank you for asking it's crazy to reflect on this 3 whole years later being a lot more healed than I ever thought possible.

  • @Jason_wears_stuff
    @Jason_wears_stuff 6 лет назад +1

    awesome video you guys!!!

  • @hollydrucker5360
    @hollydrucker5360 5 лет назад +2

    Guys if or when any of my ex boyfriend decides to come into my orbit. I will introduce him to my new boyfriend [eye wink LOL]...Stay strong and do the work. Thanks, Margaret and Craig.

  • @alexmendez4770
    @alexmendez4770 5 лет назад +1

    Your dou is amazing !

  • @TheSinfulSiren_
    @TheSinfulSiren_ 11 месяцев назад

    Craig I wish we could be friends lol

  • @dudamoreira4710
    @dudamoreira4710 4 года назад

    thank you so much

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 8 месяцев назад

    4:55 lol

  • @ramadhanalbi4857
    @ramadhanalbi4857 6 лет назад +1

    👍👍👍

  • @shaniaileen7706
    @shaniaileen7706 5 лет назад

    huhuhuhu

  • @andalov
    @andalov 6 лет назад +2

    😒😒 i'm late. Second 😒😒