I like that response it's smooth. I took it a step further and pulled her in for a hug and whispered in her ear that the past is over and that the old guy won't hurt her anymore he's gone and never coming back. The hug lasted even longer.
If any ex leaves and spends time on their own to heal then you have to respect his or her actions. Sadly, most of the time they leave for someone else. I was with my wife for 10 years and Boom…she left. It’s been 2 years and she’s still with him. You must never ever break no contact regardless. If she ever reaches out. I’ll be polite and courteous but I’ll never take her back. I’ll always wish her well and a life of love and happiness but it won’t be with myself. Stay strong.
Sometimes it's not even worth it. My ex wife lied to this man saying she was single. She cheated on him and I told him she'll do it again. In 3 weeks..... she cheated on him again
My GF stopped texting me out of nowhere (wasn't ever bitchy or rude beforehand) so I just matched that energy and then mostly forgot about her after a month but 2.5 months later she's still complaining to our mutual friend on a daily basis about how I haven't reached out (even though she's the one that broke contact) and she's pissed at me. I live a drama free life and I'm not interested in playing those games.
This is true...my experience i tried all the stuff I wasn't supposed to because I took my ex for granted.. once I started feeling used doing everything and anything and dealing with her rude remarks.. I dicided to just stop everything only contact back if it has to do with my kids... And that started more issues calling me childish cuz I don't argue back.. I feal that's bait to get me mad lol... Constantly Talkin crap getting angry over something I have no clue what about.. all this while she so happi in another relationship... If ur so happi then if I'm a POS then let me be a POS why get made at what I'm doing or not doing ...unless you still have fealings 🧐🤔
Your knowledge is very impressive, I am in no contact and in my situation it is impossible to get a text from her, there was nothing violent but still third party interference and betrayals from my friend, but it’s ok, I guess it’s time to focus on me and move on
best to walk away because 10 years down the drain i tried for 4 years she still mad about the past i told her wish i would have never met her and blocked her treat her like she never exsisted Gotta be done love the videos but there is NO hope
I stop NC and she was angry. Does not know why. Does not know her feelings. I was calm wish her the best. Hope things work out for her. She said 90 days and was mad at me still. No reason. 6 month relationship. So this video still has feelings. Thank you for explaining
thanks coach before I was counfused he the one who break up with me but 2 days after no contact he realy angry because shooting down... clueless but then I realize I dont need this drama anymore and will not comeback
I was blocked for a few months after i cheated emotionally in his pov on text. His hatred subsided. Not wanting to ignore me anymore, he unblocked me on my birthday after calling. A nice but a bit of a emotional talk, trying to distance. He has changed. Loss of morals and wants, not listening to what his mind is telling him. Perhaps a way to control. Saying our time was the best time, but we can't go back. Saying his mind tells him to kiss me, but not doing so. I thought this was it, everything he wanted said. But 1,5 month further he called again after midnight. (which i wasn't able to pick up). I wonder what i should do, since contacting has been from his side.
My ex was clearly still upset with me he rebounded or monkey branched into something once we broke up but didn’t tell me .. he came around blaming me for the hurt etc he has thrown up in my face how he feels about me several times I recently found out the whole time he was with someone even though I’m pregnant by him currently he had been blowing me up then will take a break then start again but tries to say oh u won’t let me see the kids
Hey Coach Alex, I was anxious after the breakup and that led to many mistakes. After 2 months no contact my ex was angry at first but a week later agreed to be civil. We were talking great and she was always responsive. But again after 1 month I got blocked everywhere because her friend told her something that wasn’t true and she didn’t trust me. She went into rebound relationship but that has since ended. Now it has been 2 months and we have not spoken. How long should I keep No Contact going? Is 6 months no contact too long? How do I reconnect after enough time has passed (letter or text)? Thanks coach Alex
What if she makes comments that show she harbors angry but also says she doesn't care to get back together and never reaches out ever. But keeps me on whatsapp and replies to my messages!?!?!?!?
After no contract end i feel confused in my head becoz i dont wanna contract her unless she contract me first if she won’t, i will never contract again.Last time i want her to comeback she accepted my gift and only said thank you🙂 I think i can not contract her.but i do love her but if she don’t want to talk to me i will let it go.
My ex gf reached out a week ago, its been a month of no contact, but she was bringing something up from the past, she was harassing me and kept bugging me to get an answer out of me, we ended up talking and we got into a huge argument, we started blowing up at each other and started talking about why our relationship failed and what we both did wrong, she said she hates me and she never wants to talk to me again, she said she will never forgive me for what I did, Im just confused and dont understand why we had to argue or why she still cares. Im back on no contact now and I didnt sent a Happy New Year or Merry Christmas text even though she wished me a Merry Christmas. Any suggestions or advice?
I have been blocked everywhere.because he is angry at me.He just said I don't want to be in contact with you. It is hard for me to bear please help me.What should I do ?
She broke up 4.5 months ago i didnt beg i almost went nc only 2 text and after working with you guys i sent a accountability letter after more coaching she still doesnt wanna talk i know cause i called her first time in 4.5 months i think its a strange case that no one knows what to do...please help
My ex left me after 5 years relationship..i was her frist boyfriend..During no contact she and a guy(her collegue) started liking each other..after few weeks..she called me..n said ther is nothing such between her n that guy. But yestersay i evn saw my ex picturs wit flower on the guy wats app profile. I don't know wat to do. I hav strong feelings tat my ex also likes the guy.
She has blocked me all on media sites.she is not reading Tex messages yes I did blow up her phone .we did no contact each other but not now .she told number times she don't won't get back together.she has not seen me 5 mouth's now but she is not in a relationship at all .U am lost U don't now what do now???
What if I cheated n she said she’s no longer angry but really needs space to process things n if we wud continue with d relationship, does no contact work too. I really love her but I fell into temptation n I have since started making efforts towards being more disciplined and self-controlled.
I did mistake which hurt my bf alot and he deleted my no. I begged and was very sorry but when i stopped to reach out. He saved my contact again...After few days of NC i reached and it seems he is still angry with me.. Wht should i do
You should try to do NC again! However, we can't give you precise advice because we are not fully familiar with your situation. If you would like one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with someone on our team! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
After 2 weeks no contact I posted a photo on Instagram of me with friends enjoying life. When my ex saw this she unfollowed me, unfreind me but kept me on Snapchat. Within 30 minuets of her doing that she came to my house to return a gift I had made her “drawing of first date” I was positive and polite. I haven’t seen her in weeks I said “I’m here if you want to talk” to end the convo. Is this a good or bad sign?
Am I been needy if I and my ex are on good terms and am sick 🤢,so I called for his help??I felt seriously Ill and it was late ⏰ I had to call my ex for his help could that be co dependent??am I giving my power away,?though three days before this I called after a very long time just for his assistance to re register my SIM card he picked up the call and assisted now am so sick I needed someone to take me to the hospital I texted on WhatsApp just wanna know if am wrong @coach Alex 🙏
I show to my ex what he's loosing. I'm beautiful and worth it😊☺️
I like that response it's smooth. I took it a step further and pulled her in for a hug and whispered in her ear that the past is over and that the old guy won't hurt her anymore he's gone and never coming back. The hug lasted even longer.
I also want to tell him this in same way.
That's sweet
My ex was so rude and insulting. I didn't want my ex back by then
Try to communicate reasonably with all persons
If any ex leaves and spends time on their own to heal then you have to respect his or her actions. Sadly, most of the time they leave for someone else. I was with my wife for 10 years and Boom…she left. It’s been 2 years and she’s still with him. You must never ever break no contact regardless. If she ever reaches out. I’ll be polite and courteous but I’ll never take her back. I’ll always wish her well and a life of love and happiness but it won’t be with myself. Stay strong.
Sometimes it's not even worth it. My ex wife lied to this man saying she was single. She cheated on him and I told him she'll do it again. In 3 weeks..... she cheated on him again
Guys no contact works.. My ex texted me kinda irony and angry asking ' your love ended so fast'? And I was like wtf.. You broke me up.. lol.
What you did after this?
I wish I could afford your coaching I really want my ex back
Thank you Manuel
We are here to help!
Coach Alex
Thank you Coach Alex, this is really great advice. Is it possible for you to talk a little more about this during your upcoming webinar on Sunday?
Thank you for the feedback, we will take this into account John
Thanks
Coach Alex
Great coaching advice. It is definitely worth a try. ❤
My GF stopped texting me out of nowhere (wasn't ever bitchy or rude beforehand) so I just matched that energy and then mostly forgot about her after a month but 2.5 months later she's still complaining to our mutual friend on a daily basis about how I haven't reached out (even though she's the one that broke contact) and she's pissed at me. I live a drama free life and I'm not interested in playing those games.
This is true...my experience i tried all the stuff I wasn't supposed to because I took my ex for granted.. once I started feeling used doing everything and anything and dealing with her rude remarks.. I dicided to just stop everything only contact back if it has to do with my kids... And that started more issues calling me childish cuz I don't argue back.. I feal that's bait to get me mad lol... Constantly Talkin crap getting angry over something I have no clue what about.. all this while she so happi in another relationship... If ur so happi then if I'm a POS then let me be a POS why get made at what I'm doing or not doing ...unless you still have fealings 🧐🤔
Any Update?
Your knowledge is very impressive, I am in no contact and in my situation it is impossible to get a text from her, there was nothing violent but still third party interference and betrayals from my friend, but it’s ok, I guess it’s time to focus on me and move on
best to walk away because 10 years down the drain i tried for 4 years she still mad about the past i told her wish i would have never met her and blocked her treat her like she never exsisted Gotta be done love the videos but there is NO hope
I stop NC and she was angry. Does not know why. Does not know her feelings. I was calm wish her the best. Hope things work out for her. She said 90 days and was mad at me still. No reason. 6 month relationship. So this video still has feelings. Thank you for explaining
thanks coach before I was counfused he the one who break up with me but 2 days after no contact he realy angry because shooting down... clueless but then I realize I dont need this drama anymore and will not comeback
I was blocked for a few months after i cheated emotionally in his pov on text. His hatred subsided. Not wanting to ignore me anymore, he unblocked me on my birthday after calling. A nice but a bit of a emotional talk, trying to distance. He has changed. Loss of morals and wants, not listening to what his mind is telling him. Perhaps a way to control. Saying our time was the best time, but we can't go back. Saying his mind tells him to kiss me, but not doing so. I thought this was it, everything he wanted said. But 1,5 month further he called again after midnight. (which i wasn't able to pick up). I wonder what i should do, since contacting has been from his side.
update?
My ex was clearly still upset with me he rebounded or monkey branched into something once we broke up but didn’t tell me .. he came around blaming me for the hurt etc he has thrown up in my face how he feels about me several times I recently found out the whole time he was with someone even though I’m pregnant by him currently he had been blowing me up then will take a break then start again but tries to say oh u won’t let me see the kids
Hey Coach Alex,
I was anxious after the breakup and that led to many mistakes. After 2 months no contact my ex was angry at first but a week later agreed to be civil. We were talking great and she was always responsive. But again after 1 month I got blocked everywhere because her friend told her something that wasn’t true and she didn’t trust me. She went into rebound relationship but that has since ended. Now it has been 2 months and we have not spoken. How long should I keep No Contact going? Is 6 months no contact too long? How do I reconnect after enough time has passed (letter or text)?
Thanks coach Alex
update?
Mine is angry and she keeps saying she doesn’t care. 🙈
will no contact help my ex to not be so angry with me??
What if she makes comments that show she harbors angry but also says she doesn't care to get back together and never reaches out ever. But keeps me on whatsapp and replies to my messages!?!?!?!?
After no contract end i feel confused in my head becoz i dont wanna contract her unless she contract me first if she won’t, i will never contract again.Last time i want her to comeback she accepted my gift and only said thank you🙂 I think i can not contract her.but i do love her but if she don’t want to talk to me i will let it go.
My ex gf reached out a week ago, its been a month of no contact, but she was bringing something up from the past, she was harassing me and kept bugging me to get an answer out of me, we ended up talking and we got into a huge argument, we started blowing up at each other and started talking about why our relationship failed and what we both did wrong, she said she hates me and she never wants to talk to me again, she said she will never forgive me for what I did, Im just confused and dont understand why we had to argue or why she still cares. Im back on no contact now and I didnt sent a Happy New Year or Merry Christmas text even though she wished me a Merry Christmas. Any suggestions or advice?
I have been blocked everywhere.because he is angry at me.He just said I don't want to be in contact with you.
It is hard for me to bear please help me.What should I do ?
She broke up 4.5 months ago i didnt beg i almost went nc only 2 text and after working with you guys i sent a accountability letter after more coaching she still doesnt wanna talk i know cause i called her first time in 4.5 months i think its a strange case that no one knows what to do...please help
My ex left me after 5 years relationship..i was her frist boyfriend..During no contact she and a guy(her collegue) started liking each other..after few weeks..she called me..n said ther is nothing such between her n that guy. But yestersay i evn saw my ex picturs wit flower on the guy wats app profile.
I don't know wat to do.
I hav strong feelings tat my ex also likes the guy.
She has blocked me all on media sites.she is not reading Tex messages yes I did blow up her phone .we did no contact each other but not now .she told number times she don't won't get back together.she has not seen me 5 mouth's now but she is not in a relationship at all .U am lost U don't now what do now???
He was angry and blocked me my x husband
What is he angry about?
How do i book coaching?
I watch tv in bed with my ex, is this a good sign?
Sounds like you've broken no contact...
Only if he talked to her.@@bigd3087
Thank you both for a good laugh.@@bigd3087
What if I cheated n she said she’s no longer angry but really needs space to process things n if we wud continue with d relationship, does no contact work too. I really love her but I fell into temptation n I have since started making efforts towards being more disciplined and self-controlled.
I did mistake which hurt my bf alot and he deleted my no. I begged and was very sorry but when i stopped to reach out. He saved my contact again...After few days of NC i reached and it seems he is still angry with me..
Wht should i do
You should try to do NC again! However, we can't give you precise advice because we are not fully familiar with your situation. If you would like one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with someone on our team! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
After 2 weeks no contact I posted a photo on Instagram of me with friends enjoying life. When my ex saw this she unfollowed me, unfreind me but kept me on Snapchat. Within 30 minuets of her doing that she came to my house to return a gift I had made her “drawing of first date” I was positive and polite. I haven’t seen her in weeks I said “I’m here if you want to talk” to end the convo.
Is this a good or bad sign?
update?
My favourite coach 🩷🫶
Am I been needy if I and my ex are on good terms and am sick 🤢,so I called for his help??I felt seriously Ill and it was late ⏰ I had to call my ex for his help could that be co dependent??am I giving my power away,?though three days before this I called after a very long time just for his assistance to re register my SIM card he picked up the call and assisted now am so sick I needed someone to take me to the hospital I texted on WhatsApp just wanna know if am wrong @coach Alex 🙏