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  • Опубликовано: 2 май 2023
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Комментарии • 382

  • @saythetruth2426
    @saythetruth2426  Год назад +10

    "F*** your feelings" T-shirt HIGH customer satisfaction!!
    amzn.to/3OmM82I

    • @Billiard-cp1my
      @Billiard-cp1my Год назад

      That has sunk to new depths! Mysoginy is not an honourable pastime. Shame on you!

  • @KayMac1
    @KayMac1 Год назад +319

    I'm not gonna lie it's almost an obsolete question because so many people lie now. And I've found that out the hard way. The best thing is to not ask at all, and judge by her actions. You'll be able to tell if she has a promiscuous past or not...

    • @CavinLee
      @CavinLee Год назад +3

      How do you know if they’re lying?

    • @KayMac1
      @KayMac1 Год назад +37

      @@CavinLee can't know 100% of the time if they are. But I usually judge the accuracy of their words to their actions. I also have an outstanding memory. So if discrepancies in the same stories keep occurring, it is not a good sign

    • @CavinLee
      @CavinLee Год назад +1

      @@KayMac1 why do you have such a problem with people having sex?

    • @KayMac1
      @KayMac1 Год назад +32

      @@CavinLee I spoke about my preferences not my problems. I don't dispute when a woman says she wants a man taller, stronger than her with more money, handsome and ambitious. Why is it wrong for me to also have dating preferences?

    • @CavinLee
      @CavinLee Год назад +5

      @@KayMac1 I think both are shallow.
      I believe you should be attracted to the person, but I don’t think that it’s much of your business what their prior sexual experience is unless they have an STD.
      I think you should like someone for them and not how much of a virgin they are.

  • @dfff4595
    @dfff4595 Год назад +120

    if they get angry when you ask it’s high

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +6

      Yep!

    • @user-pn3im5sm7k
      @user-pn3im5sm7k Год назад +2

      LPE

    • @squeezerdsqueezerd2427
      @squeezerdsqueezerd2427 Год назад +7

      Normally i don't ask what her body count is only when she asks me how much money I earn. Just to reflect her own questions.

    • @caracavalier6344
      @caracavalier6344 Год назад

      No I have a low one and I would also say are you kidding me rn you need to like me for me not just if you deem me pure or not it's very much only going to use me for sex kind of thing and I'm not here for it

    • @thatonetitan8456
      @thatonetitan8456 Год назад +2

      ​@@squeezerdsqueezerd2427"How tall are you?" "How much do you weigh?"
      Don't worry, I'm tall enough to get the slop over the fence and into the trough. Soooooeey

  • @strshipsuprnova
    @strshipsuprnova Год назад +42

    As a virgin the question doesnt bother me at all. I’d say if they get mad their count is likely high.

    • @Kotoamatsukami6910
      @Kotoamatsukami6910 Год назад

      They know their actions have consequences, that is why girls are encouraging other girls to have sex. So that they won't have competition

    • @christiancastano743
      @christiancastano743 Год назад +3

      ​@@dobby43465as a man let me tell you that if he doesn't have feelings for you, when you tell him that you are a virgin he will have them, because we love to protect people like you, you are a 💎 we would give our own lives to love you, protect you and lead you and provide you. Believe me. 100 percent. You can expect that from 95 percent of men.

    • @LoveYou3539
      @LoveYou3539 11 месяцев назад

      I'm also a virgin, and I don't get offended if they ask me. Some men give me the creeps and it makes me feel like a piece of meat.

    • @memphis6694
      @memphis6694 Месяц назад

      This is so true. I had a free with a low body count and she would have no problem saying her number, however now she finds the question inappropriate, smh 🤦‍♂️

  • @jake62265
    @jake62265 Год назад +52

    If you find out 1. A girl wants kids. 2. A girl is traditional. 3. Has a strong relationship with her male family. Then most likely she's going to not have much of a body counts

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      Vey true! Appreciate you sharing your knowledge bro!

    • @squeezerdsqueezerd2427
      @squeezerdsqueezerd2427 Год назад +1

      Not true because allot of those traditional women turned either only fans or 304 .
      Especially in western countries.

    • @Noodlepenis
      @Noodlepenis Год назад +1

      That’s simply isn’t a reliable measure any longer.

    • @ceecee4049
      @ceecee4049 Год назад

      ​@@squeezerdsqueezerd2427*globally.

    • @erinc6683
      @erinc6683 Год назад

      As a woman with a low body count, I can attest to all 3. Happily married for 7 years, together for 12, have a 14 month old and baby number 2 on the way.

  • @patrickjones8263
    @patrickjones8263 Год назад +54

    Rule of advice. If she’s the type of girl that you gotta ask her count, or the type that makes you want to know the answer, then highly likely she’s for the streets, keep it movingZ

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      Great advice!

    • @puan1211
      @puan1211 Год назад +1

      And if a guy feels the need to ask your bodycount he’s probably not good in bed

    • @Nam3less2U
      @Nam3less2U Год назад

      So basically all of them

    • @staubflorian5379
      @staubflorian5379 Год назад +6

      ​@@puan1211 basic try to shame someone for his standard!

    • @puan1211
      @puan1211 Год назад +1

      @@staubflorian5379 I mean if the shoe fits, the shoe fits

  • @desyxd4400
    @desyxd4400 Год назад +19

    I’m a girl, and I did ALL THAT on the first date with my husband at 15. I’m not trying to waste years of my life with drama.😂 We are gonna clear the air RIGHT NOW. Do we agree on everything important, and can we compromise on the stupid shit??? Okay.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад

      Yeah, I think it's a very important question.

    • @desyxd4400
      @desyxd4400 Год назад +3

      @The Man With No Name I was 15 (sophomore) & my husband was 18 (senior). We met in high school through a mutual friend. He saw me walking down the courtyard and asked the mutual friend to introduce us.

    • @folkishappalachian6827
      @folkishappalachian6827 Год назад +1

      ​@The Man With Many Face's. Typically theres a social understand of a 4 year leeway due to that being the length of high school

    • @folkishappalachian6827
      @folkishappalachian6827 Год назад +2

      ​@@desyxd4400 the lady i found, rural farm girl from Europe who saved herseof for marriage found me. Apparently, European men arent straight to the point of marriage, so she never wasted time on it.
      She found me, divorced from a modern women, pretty low cause i have religious views against it. New lady found me when she was 21, about to turn 22, and i just turned 27, she realized my goal was wife and kids and to provide, my mom was stay at home mother, so when she found that out within the first 3 days she told me that was her goal. Logically, as a redneck exposed to only modern American women, i called her a fed until proven otherwise 😂
      We video called, immediately both decided lets start family, and within 6 months of starting my new job at the same time i met her, i flew to Europe to see her, its been wonderful ever since!

  • @soyeonxxn
    @soyeonxxn Год назад +4

    The stalking culture is insane… I though only women did that. That’s why I don’t have a facebook nor insta account, everything I do I do it for myself so I keep it to myself. I just find it so creepy when you display your whole info and life online, everything is already on the internet and nobody even wants to get to know you anymore because it’s all public info already.

  • @JuanRamosNCWrestling
    @JuanRamosNCWrestling Год назад +1

    All these questions are ridiculous for a first date.

  • @EmilyInALoop
    @EmilyInALoop Год назад +8

    Nobody…man or woman should feel like they have to answer such a personal question on the first date. Not everyone you go on a first date with is someone who needs to know all your business.

    • @flynnmorrow6945
      @flynnmorrow6945 Год назад +3

      All that information is necessary to know if a second date is worth it or not. For either party.

    • @Noodlepenis
      @Noodlepenis Год назад

      Honestly, it isn’t even that personal of a question any longer.
      Majority of people are fucking on the first date. If you fuck a person, you should disclose your past with them. They may consent to being with you, but that doesn’t mean they consent to risk catching something from body #38.

    • @harshithabharadwaj5040
      @harshithabharadwaj5040 Год назад +1

      ​@@flynnmorrow6945 well if you ask me about my virginity on the first date forget abt the second one.

  • @caitlankelly4367
    @caitlankelly4367 Год назад

    Men, if you want a traditional woman, you gotta ask these things on the first date! I’m a very happy trad wife and mother, the first man to ask me these questions up front, I married! We’ve been married 7 years and are are expecting our third child!

  • @skyebowleyn6364
    @skyebowleyn6364 Год назад +1

    This is why i dont have any social media to put my life out there for people to see for what. My dad was right. It's better to be off grid so people will not judge you for past mistakes.

  • @seta4950
    @seta4950 Год назад

    He's right... it's just inappropriate to ask that on the FIRST date. It's a very personal question

  • @pavelowpower
    @pavelowpower 7 месяцев назад

    Real women pay their own way.

  • @erinc6683
    @erinc6683 Год назад

    If it's low she would be proud to say how many.

  • @master0combat333
    @master0combat333 Год назад +10

    If she's a traditional, Christian, conservative, you can already safely assume her body count is below 5. If she's a TRUE traditional, Christian, conservative, then you know she's a virgin. Simple as that. They answer the question of body count without realizing it.

    • @heyjaja72
      @heyjaja72 Год назад

      Agreed..

    • @noremac0575
      @noremac0575 Год назад

      Lol, christian? Some of the biggest whores are christian girls.

  • @alexandriabeach9834
    @alexandriabeach9834 Год назад +1

    The question goes both ways, you tell me yours first and I’ll tell you mine lol I wouldn’t be
    With a man who’s slept with a lot because that’s gross

  • @adsldave
    @adsldave Год назад +33

    You don’t ask what’s your body count, ask about long term relationships she’s had in the past and why they ended and who ended them for what reason. Be polite and respectful when asking about this and listen carefully.
    If she’s 30 and been dating since 16 but has only ever had 2 long term relationships lasting 2/3 years at a time this tells you a lot. Finding out who broke up with who and why gives you more clues, run all this info through your ‘common sense’ filter and you start to get a picture of her dating lifestyle.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      Facts bro! Thank for the advice!

    • @KoolAidSquirt
      @KoolAidSquirt Год назад

      This finally!! That and her family values! Does she have a father in her life? Does she have brothers? I have come to find when a women lived in a male dominated household she’s more than likely not a hoe for the simple fact that her male family members wouldn’t allow that type of behavior to fly. There are also other indicators as well! Like actual physical indicators. Piercing, tattoos, crazy hair colors, etc etc

    • @Noodlepenis
      @Noodlepenis Год назад

      @@KoolAidSquirtFamily values don’t mean anything.
      These women claim to value when their boyfriends or husbands cry, but leave if he so much as gets stressed. They claim to stand for equality, but are perfectly fine abusing any and all laws to discriminate against men.
      They claim to want a family, but don’t mention they view only their self as the parent because the other is a man.
      If you have to operate off answers they give, it simply will not work.

    • @soyeonxxn
      @soyeonxxn Год назад

      ⁠@@KoolAidSquirt you guys are so superficial it’s hilarious. See, this is the problem with today’s society, nobody cares about the actual person. You didn’t have a father figure because he died in a horrible accident, bye. You don’t have a brother, bye. You have a tiny tattoo that has meaning to you, bye. You are smart and have a career, bye.
      This is why y’all lose on good women.

  • @southtexan1761
    @southtexan1761 Год назад +7

    I didn't even know what that was.. Body count? I thought to myself, I haven't killed anybody..

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +2

      LOOOL nah, it's the number of people you've slept with.

    • @southtexan1761
      @southtexan1761 Год назад +2

      @Say the Truth (redpill)
      Yeah I learned from watching these clips what that was.. I'm just astounded at some of the women that are on these podcasts. The garbage that comes out of their mouths, my jaw drops..

    • @Nam3less2U
      @Nam3less2U Год назад +1

      Number of people who clapped them cheeks

    • @folkishappalachian6827
      @folkishappalachian6827 Год назад +1

      ​@@southtexan1761 these modern women are out here with body counts higher than hitler 😂

  • @fu40000
    @fu40000 Год назад +24

    He has a point it’s like the equivalent of a girl asking a guy how much do you make😅 These are important questions but you got to ease into it

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      True! Appreciate the comment!

    • @brettbrooks5511
      @brettbrooks5511 Год назад +1

      Except girls have almost 0 shame in asking that.

    • @agulanwo856
      @agulanwo856 Год назад +1

      Asking us how much we earn is a default.

    • @JamDodger-tn7mm
      @JamDodger-tn7mm Год назад +2

      @@agulanwo856 You should date different women. I’ve never been asked that in my life, but I’ve also never asked someone how many people they’ve slept with

    • @squeezerdsqueezerd2427
      @squeezerdsqueezerd2427 Год назад

      ​@@JamDodger-tn7mm i only ask this question if they ask me first how much money I earn.

  • @anonymousk1634
    @anonymousk1634 Год назад +1

    I didn’t want to marry a female with social media since I don’t have it. We both value our privacy.

  • @phillipkraemer361
    @phillipkraemer361 Год назад +2

    Honestly, if they're unwilling to answer, or they answer and it's super high, that just tells you she's not worth a 2nd date

    • @soyeonxxn
      @soyeonxxn Год назад

      If she is unwilling to answer a body count question that doesn’t mean it’s high, it might just be that she is uncomfortable to talk about sex at the first date while eating pasta or whatever. Also, you lot want to pretend that you are gentlemen and that you deserve a quality lady but then go ahead and ask her perverted stuff at dinner. Dude be serious, a classy woman would never answer that question.

  • @Sempiternal.Traditions
    @Sempiternal.Traditions Год назад +2

    it is an important question but I think the reason they are saying not to do that is because it will come across as invasive and remind her that she’s actually being interviewed for a position in your life. With that her guard goes up, her confidence and comfort goes down and if her body count is(just guessing here) higher than.. say.. 1-3.. she will feel like she’ll be judged harshly before she’s had a chance to present potential.
    And the date will bomb because women are hypocritical (meaning they want to judge their date without feeling they are being judged in reciprocity) and they enjoy the charade of dressing up and acting out some form of courtship.

  • @Getout249
    @Getout249 Год назад +35

    Had one girl tell me she’s a virgin without me even asking…had pics up on her Facebook of two exes. Immediately ghosted

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +8

      Dodged a bullet LOOL

    • @annaloremipsum
      @annaloremipsum Год назад +12

      How do you know she slept with them? Its possible to be with someone and still wanting to save yourself for marriage.
      And the fact that you ghosted her, instead of telling her upfront what problem you have, tells me that you clearly are not mentally ready for a relationship. Only cowards ghost

    • @Getout249
      @Getout249 Год назад +9

      @@annaloremipsum Love the mental gymnastics of some women.
      Do you think a normal, level headed person is going to tell you up front, without asking that they are virgins?
      This was in a call where we were talking about our day, unexpected and out of nowhere. This is obviously a manipulative strategy I’ve seen many girls use the claim of virginity because the reality is most likely the opposite of that.
      Secondly, she didn’t have any indication that she was traditional or religious, and still had pics up with her exes (already a massive red flag in of itself).
      Two big red flags 🚩 were present so I saw that before it got worse and walked myself out the door.
      Why should I care about your opinion on ghosting being for “cowards”? I don’t owe anyone who I’m not in a relationship or dating an explanation, or tell them why I don’t want to see them. This is online dating, talked to this girl for a week. People should get some self awareness instead.
      Calling random people names that you don’t know online tells me you aren’t mentally ready for any sort of adulthood and still a child deep inside.

    • @lisarodriguez6966
      @lisarodriguez6966 Год назад +3

      ​@@annaloremipsum that's a good point. I've known 2 women that 'dated', but weren't having s=X. And not to say that having pics of former dating partners is pleasant to see, but if they parted on good terms why go about pretending they never existed and weren't a part of your life.

    • @p-townshankzilla2654
      @p-townshankzilla2654 Год назад +3

      ​@@annaloremipsum Just tell us straight. You creeped a dude out, and he ghosted your ass 😂

  • @osark2487
    @osark2487 Год назад

    The only ones that will have and adverse reaction by the "whats your bodycount?" Question are those with high counts. Also they have no issues asking the guy on the first date "so what do you do?" As a way to assess how much money he makes.

  • @annegrevel
    @annegrevel Год назад

    I have no issue telling a guy I’m a Catholic virgin on the first date if he asks or if it comes up. …

  • @213Killzone
    @213Killzone Год назад +4

    Make sure you get that double account checked out too. They all have two accounts, if they do have two that’s a red flag already.

  • @tigre9271
    @tigre9271 Год назад +3

    Dude just realizing the "What's your body count" question Is a woman repellent. If he didn't have the discernment to think THAT through, what makes y'all think he knows what he's talking about now. Sounds all good on paper until you're on a real date with a real woman. He should just go on a Christian dating app. Most of those women probably want the same things he wants. No sex til marriage.

  • @RitaBeltran-sk6xe
    @RitaBeltran-sk6xe Год назад +1

    Why don’t they ask men their body count lol

  • @yochiartz2839
    @yochiartz2839 Год назад +4

    nah just ask her friends they know all about their relationship w guys

  • @bIgMiKeObAmNa
    @bIgMiKeObAmNa Год назад

    Why would you ask a body count to a woman. It's gonna be a complete lie.

  • @jerrycunningham1820
    @jerrycunningham1820 Год назад +14

    Good advice. A relative of mine married a guy that did not want children. They never discussed it. Divorced with a year.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +7

      Yep people need to make sure they know who they're marrying it's a lifetime commitment.

  • @jamesmerritt1844
    @jamesmerritt1844 Год назад +2

    Retarded is a legitimate word to use in everyday language, if it's used in context

  • @tricktap8502
    @tricktap8502 Год назад +1

    They will ALL lie, never do th is outright, watch her behavior around people and you, that’s how you vet. Actions always speak louder than words

  • @JupiterLXIX
    @JupiterLXIX Год назад +4

    Social media isn’t a good metric to look at. I’ve met 21yo virgins who have very promiscuous pictures online and girls that have 3somes with 2 guys twice a month that have some extremely modest pictures up.

  • @pakilee87
    @pakilee87 Год назад

    I don't understand why asking questions about marriage and children are considered inappropriate? Then why are you dating if marriage and building a family isn't your end goal?? Its pointless!

  • @chumbersdee
    @chumbersdee Год назад +3

    There's no point in even asking body count question....just vibe and live life

    • @inzone88
      @inzone88 Год назад +10

      There def is, my wife had been intimate once before with a boyfriend of 4 years. If i had found out shed been ran through 50+ times by tons of different dudes….im out after date 1. Thats nasty as hell

    • @chumbersdee
      @chumbersdee Год назад

      @@inzone88 but we'll never know the truth, they'll lie like no problem

    • @markn252
      @markn252 Год назад +1

      Doesn't matter until you find out that she is just using you as free meal date, validation, and sex toy until she search for better man... even if you married to her and have children.
      You can find these info out if you have trusted friends or connections that personally know your woman or if your woman has public social media that show all her past relationships in some photos.

    • @Vaxxedhole
      @Vaxxedhole Год назад

      You can't wife a hoe, bruv.

  • @jessiejeanne9717
    @jessiejeanne9717 Год назад

    YES! WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO WASTE MORE MONEY ON SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT GONNA MARRY?!?!

  • @k.t.7507
    @k.t.7507 Год назад +19

    Idk.. I think that's a lot for a first date, but if you don't ask the questions early on in the relationship then that's how you end up wasting 2 or 3 yrs,and then breaking up because they don't want kids if something.

  • @sociallyretarded2995
    @sociallyretarded2995 Год назад

    I’m deeply offended by his hate speech……..

  • @lpssusie
    @lpssusie Год назад +2

    POV: when your waiting till marriage and God is #1 priority and love kids 😊 we are hard to find now days but we exist love you all 🫶🏼

  • @waleriaorlowska7341
    @waleriaorlowska7341 Год назад

    I don’t know that young man name, I hope he sticks to traditional woman, he is absolutely 100% right to what he wants, and you have to be Christian, glad you are sticking to you principal

  • @michaelestala9214
    @michaelestala9214 Год назад +1

    “Do YoU beLiEVe iN GAwD?!” She says it like a bad thing.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +3

      Yeah, she's one of the rebellious ones who don't wanna believe in an omnipotent god. Cause, she wants to dictate her own life. What will she be saying at the judgement seat of Christ?

    • @noremac0575
      @noremac0575 Год назад

      ​@@saythetruth2426 God doesnt exist. Theres zero proof. You cant prove it, therefore youre going off of faith, which is laughable. God was created by primitive humans hundreds and thousands of years ago, before we had science to explain things....now we have science. Stop believing in silly fairytales, grow up, think for ypurself, and become an adult. Theres literally zero good arguments for god, and not a single religious person has wona debate against an atheist. Lool

  • @Dev-qs2yb
    @Dev-qs2yb Год назад +1

    "If she ain't virgin, belongs to the streets"
    - Sir Nicolas Tesla

  • @Longdayzz
    @Longdayzz Год назад

    Facts

  • @etopsch369
    @etopsch369 Год назад +1

    On a first date he asks if she wants kids. Wow americans are creepy

  • @caspere5726
    @caspere5726 Год назад +10

    Ehhh bro doesn’t understand. You ask her “what body count would be too much for you in a partner”. She’s gonna say something roughly around her own count. A little bit above most likely. If she says it doesn’t matter, walk out of the restaurant never talk to her again😂

    • @flynnmorrow6945
      @flynnmorrow6945 Год назад +2

      Oh, that's really smart. I'm gonna give this to my sons to use.

  • @Billiard-cp1my
    @Billiard-cp1my Год назад +1

    She may have been sexually abused as a child or raped. Are you still going to turn your nose up at her? Check your own body count before you start checking hers. My parents were both virgins when they married. Only a virgin man deserves a virgin bride.

    • @lovebug6388
      @lovebug6388 Год назад

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯this they don't want to hear 🥴

    • @Billiard-cp1my
      @Billiard-cp1my Год назад

      @@lovebug6388 No, they would rather attack beautiful young girls who they have no chance with. They probably love squashing flowers with their jack boots as well. The inadequacy of some men!🙄

    • @lovebug6388
      @lovebug6388 Год назад

      @@Billiard-cp1my like the fresh & fit incels. Had the internet never happened they'd still be in a monogamous relationship with their hands and some Hustler or Playboy magazines. They're not cute or intelligent. They're freaking mean boy predators. When they do have guests on that can think for themselves they belittle her.

  • @k.t7527
    @k.t7527 Год назад

    “Who gives a fucc about a woman’s body count they ain’t gonna do nothing but lie about that anyway so u’ll never know”😂😂💯

  • @christiancastano743
    @christiancastano743 Год назад

    That is easy my people. Dont ask how many, be smarter, ask the question. "Do you believe it is important to know the body count of each other in a lifelong marriage? If she say yes, she is the right one, if says No, she belongs in the streets.

  • @kcraulston
    @kcraulston Год назад +3

    Beautiful lie vs ugly truth...
    Answer upfront and honest on the compatibility questions on 1st, 2nd date or be ready to get strung along until the answers reveal themselves... just wasting everyone's time and avoiding those nasty arguments.
    If everyone is always the same, look at the common denominator.
    You're not in high school anymore, grow up and be adults.
    Direct communication, honesty and leave the drama behind...

  • @mxx369
    @mxx369 Год назад

    I ask this question before I even go for the number

  • @satanicconservative1855
    @satanicconservative1855 Год назад +1

    You know, I agree with this guy a lot but for some reason he just has such a douchy vibe. Lol

  • @barbarakellermann4511
    @barbarakellermann4511 Год назад +2

    If they ever ask don’t date them. Women can have standards too. That is a very personal question considering how you men judge on the subject. There is no way any of you men would believe any normal looking girl her body count if she did tell you! There is no win for the girl if she tells you. She would be stupid to. Not until you believe they are the person who deserve to know. Nope no way.

    • @mistresskixen6142
      @mistresskixen6142 Год назад

      You are right. Women can have standards. However the moment men have them they are Misogynistic, Bigots, and every other name in the book.
      Truth be told in general women have far higher and harsher standards then men do.

    • @NTTofMistery
      @NTTofMistery Год назад

      yup thats the way to go. hide dealbreakers.

    • @scottthebot2779
      @scottthebot2779 Год назад

      I don't think it's unreasonable to know sooner than later. Why should I go potentially months without knowing information that's make or break?

    • @barbarakellermann4511
      @barbarakellermann4511 Год назад +1

      @@scottthebot2779 are you going to tell her up front if you have ever cheated? Or if you even want a relationship and not just wanting sex up front?

    • @scottthebot2779
      @scottthebot2779 Год назад

      @Barbara Kellermann Likely not first date, but after a few yah I would. You said "until you believe they are the person who deserve to know". When is that? That could be months which would be ridiculous. Non-negotiables are more important than knowing their favorite color, so why not ask them early?

  • @The_Conservative_Latino
    @The_Conservative_Latino Год назад +1

    Body count issue should be asked before you go out on the first date. Unless that’s all you’re trying to get

  • @mrmcallister
    @mrmcallister Год назад +1

    I think pearl said, most problems in society would be solved if women had to walk around with their body count on their foreheads.

    • @914_Von
      @914_Von Год назад +1

      Andrew Tate said it first on the talk show with Melanie

    • @mrmcallister
      @mrmcallister Год назад +1

      @@914_Von do you think it would work ?

  • @peerlessscarred6511
    @peerlessscarred6511 Год назад +2

    Bro... you know when a girl has been dug out

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад

      Yeah, 10 seconds of seeing how she interacts with her family etc. the red flags will show, this just potentially saves some wasted time...

    • @peerlessscarred6511
      @peerlessscarred6511 Год назад

      @Say the Truth (redpill) the real question for me is who her friends are, and how she talks about sex.
      The main red flag for me is if she wants to impress people with how sexual she is.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад

      Yes! Friends are a big thing also... because who do you think she'll run to when y'all go through hard times? If they're single "independent women" then you can imagine the delusion they will fill her head with...

  • @francocardelli4563
    @francocardelli4563 Год назад

    It is more sensitive than Religion or politics because most of them know it, but would like to hide their 304ness to survive the date.

  • @deathbymazda
    @deathbymazda Год назад

    You don’t really need to ask. It’s usually pretty obvious.

  • @winkmink7709
    @winkmink7709 Год назад

    I never asked on the first date but let's say I cringe when my boyfriend his body count.
    It was kind of gross finding out but I was already ready to be committed.
    I only let him touch me but he touched a lot of women and that almost made me want to leave him, ngl.

  • @brandonapfel2832
    @brandonapfel2832 Год назад +1

    How are these guys so smart yet still dating in America? Get y'all passports gentlemen

  • @bokchoiman
    @bokchoiman Год назад

    Appreciate her so much that she feels guilty about lying to you. Kill her with kindness.

  • @annafrior6532
    @annafrior6532 Год назад +5

    This is very strange.. me and my date just chatted random things bout the weather n what we like to eat n whatever.. we're in a relationship now and we still chit chat bout random things.. the value of getting to know someone and what their personality is like is much more enjoyable I promise you :) But to do that you have to think beyond expectations ❤

    • @tariqyousaf8635
      @tariqyousaf8635 Год назад

      You guys are going too break up because you don’t know anything about each other that’s why everybody in this generation can’t keep a relationship because your all stupid

  • @Benwazworld
    @Benwazworld 7 месяцев назад

    For some reason I never trust a guy with no chin

  • @goblue193
    @goblue193 Год назад

    I had a girl ask me my body count on the first date

  • @ezenglishwith
    @ezenglishwith Год назад

    Do +1 first then ask about body count

  • @BeautiHacks
    @BeautiHacks Год назад

    Yes! Ask. Girls just need to stop hoeing. It makes it hard for guys to take females serious.

  • @nicknakama
    @nicknakama Год назад +2

    This guy out here filling out a checklist before he even gets to know her as a person 😂 creepy and cringe

    • @tariqyousaf8635
      @tariqyousaf8635 Год назад

      Yeah right you hoes are horrible people who treat men like shit you don’t give a crap about men

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      Thanks for the comment❤️

    • @Kanyes-alt
      @Kanyes-alt Год назад

      If you ask me he’s playing safe but again each to their own

  • @muralikishan9027
    @muralikishan9027 Год назад +6

    But that's the most important question, so why don't we ask it first.
    Imagine u had 3-4 dates then you asked the question and she said it's 100, then what? What will u do.
    you will make decisions based on chemistry or make a choice " Something ran through by 100 men ".
    And I don't understand what's wrong in asking. stupid society who made these rules.
    Omg you should be shameful asking a woman such a question.... Really?
    It is not shameful that a girl slept with 100 men but it's shameful just asking😮

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад +1

      It's not shameful to ask... I disagree with him on this.

    • @muralikishan9027
      @muralikishan9027 Год назад

      @@fernanda7584 we are not idiots and girls these days are too smart. Even a quite bitch can have a body count of 100 and it doesn't matter if it's 1-2 or 100 still she is not virgin.
      and don't tell guys what they should consider, let them decide what they want.
      We don't care about her fucking ambitions, personality, career and other bull shit. All we need is a simple girl who is a virgin, and can take care of home and kids. Our grandparents had this.
      I don't tell women what to do because anyway they are not gonna listen. But men just give them what they want. Start a movement #onlymarryvirgins. Remaining they want sexual liberation. Give it to them. Work on yourself guys fuck as many as u want sex is very easy and cheap now a days. Never get married or else u are fucked up.
      Let girls stay single pay their bills and handle situations. No special treatment for girls.
      Any girl who says body count doesn't matter doesn't run away.
      I know they may lie, but when u find out even after a serious relationship make sure u can run away without any baggage behind.
      All the best guys focus on yourself.

    • @MRJTD99
      @MRJTD99 Год назад

      Its a dumb question because you wont get an honest answer. This is the problem with most men in dating. You need to stop being so autistically straightforward for once and think it through. Its not hard.

  • @BlueCielo22
    @BlueCielo22 Год назад

    I feel like whether you've slept with a lot of people or not it's still just an off-putting question to ask first thing like I've only ever been with my husband but I just know that if pre-marriage and I was dating and some dude just asked that right off the bat I'd be a little weirded out and have the exact response like "Are you serious?" Lol
    It's kind of like a girl just straight up asking first thing like "How much money you make and how tall are you?" They're not inherently insensitive questions but more a bit unorthodox to just ask first date and all

  • @c.p.gentertainment7009
    @c.p.gentertainment7009 Год назад +1

    Don't ever asks a girl her body count.

    • @saythetruth2426
      @saythetruth2426  Год назад

      Eventually you should, but not on the first date...

    • @timothytraver5918
      @timothytraver5918 Год назад

      Why not on the first date? What's the point of having a second date, unless you know your values align? What's the point of a date at all, if not to ask the important questions?

    • @90daysfan15
      @90daysfan15 Год назад

      @@timothytraver5918 because it’s rude at any date… it’s like asking what’s the guys penis size

    • @Sempiternal.Traditions
      @Sempiternal.Traditions Год назад +1

      @@timothytraver5918 it is an important question but I think the reason they are saying not to do that is because it will come across as invasive and remind her that she’s actually being interviewed for a position in your life. With that her guard goes up, her confidence and comfort goes down and if her body count is(just guessing here) higher than.. say.. 1-3.. she will feel like she’ll be judged harshly before she’s had a chance to present potential.
      And the date will bomb because women are hypocritical (meaning they want to judge their date without feeling they are being judged in reciprocity) and they enjoy the charade of dressing up and acting out some form of courtship.

    • @Nam3less2U
      @Nam3less2U Год назад +1

      That’s very important to know because if a woman has been with multiple partners she won’t be able to bond with you due to sleeping around and getting ran through

  • @rosarioramirez2128
    @rosarioramirez2128 Год назад

    If a woman changed bc she got closer to God and now has a relationship with Him, you're still gonna look or judge her based off her past?

  • @RobertMorgan
    @RobertMorgan Год назад

    Except when netflix and chill IS the first date

  • @nikos.m3
    @nikos.m3 Год назад

    We look the past to see the feature

  • @kimberlychikanda1486
    @kimberlychikanda1486 Год назад

    I would ask all the questions he mentioned and the body count question cause at the end of the day if that is a turn off for u then I know we are not for each other and therefore we don't have to waste each other s time. Simple.

  • @JamDodger-tn7mm
    @JamDodger-tn7mm Год назад +2

    Men that are concerned with body count and women who are filtering by salary deserve each other

  • @sherrieshay6173
    @sherrieshay6173 Год назад +1

    The body count are they done yet with the same bit.

  • @dixonyu4349
    @dixonyu4349 Год назад

    That “life events” page be telling on some girls.

  • @TheMonkiBrothers
    @TheMonkiBrothers Год назад +1

    You just don’t ask it full stop mate . Come on now. Your brains washing young kids with these pods casts . Live in the real world dude

  • @h8551ang
    @h8551ang Год назад +3

    If your not vetting them before you take them on date.. are you even that serious about the criteria ur preaching?!

  • @tonydangelo778
    @tonydangelo778 Год назад

    I care more about what her body count says about her than the number itself. You don’t have to have someone tell you “I’m a massive slut” in order to know that. It’s in the way she moves, how she presents herself, how she talks, how she walks, and so many other things.

  • @saderangetekdebeat6550
    @saderangetekdebeat6550 Год назад

    Not possible for me i dont have Instagram 😂😂 yeah i knew since the beginning its just s huge shit..

    • @saderangetekdebeat6550
      @saderangetekdebeat6550 Год назад

      But i used to date only Indian/Asian woman so 90% chances its a low body count

  • @byronbraddock
    @byronbraddock Год назад

    Also, like how would you even know?

  • @frankymagana001
    @frankymagana001 Год назад +2

    Don’t ask her all those questions on the first date 😂 That is how you scare everyone away.

    • @flynnmorrow6945
      @flynnmorrow6945 Год назад +2

      Not if she's wanting to get married and have kids, too.

    • @noremac0575
      @noremac0575 Год назад +1

      ​@@flynnmorrow6945 You dont think about kids and a family on the first date lol

    • @folkishappalachian6827
      @folkishappalachian6827 Год назад

      ​@@noremac0575 considering women always expect you to pay, yes get the leaches out of your life asap lmao

    • @flynnmorrow6945
      @flynnmorrow6945 Год назад +1

      @@folkishappalachian6827 why bother dating, then? Sex isn't a sport; relationships aren't a game. Marriage and family are the foundations of human society and individual actuation.

    • @MRJTD99
      @MRJTD99 Год назад +2

      ​@@flynnmorrow6945Relationships/Dating is a game. It all is. When you take it too seriously, thats how you end up losing. Thats why autistic people like you struggle so hard. Its not a negotiation, you cant negotiate desire based off who you think would be the best partner.
      Most women will get turned off if you start talking about marriage and all that right away (youre letting all your intentions be known from the start, no risk, no myserty, no interest), or bored because it will feel like a job interview, or they may put you in the category of "safe and long term" but not actual immediate arousal.
      Heed my advice, or you chances of even getting a person will always be small.

  • @EriPages
    @EriPages Год назад

    Is the host and that guy brothers? Look like brothers

  • @seanking2944
    @seanking2944 Год назад

    Agreed

  • @RomeoTheBeast11
    @RomeoTheBeast11 Год назад +1

    Most women will go down on you on the first date nowadays lol asking those questions might scare most away. That’s just the world we live in now. But respect to him - if you want something serious definitely ask at least a couple of important questions right off the bat. Ease those questions in naturally and don’t make it an interrogation.

  • @nailazion3113
    @nailazion3113 Год назад +5

    Body count doesn't matter...a person could have one sexual encounter and get infected with HIV...make sure they're in good health and mentally stable...

    • @DV15TooStronk
      @DV15TooStronk Год назад +8

      It does matter because it shows their past.

    • @martinlutherkingjr.5582
      @martinlutherkingjr.5582 Год назад +6

      Someone could also have zero sexual encounters and have HIV. You’re missing the point.

    • @tariqyousaf8635
      @tariqyousaf8635 Год назад

      People with multiple bodies are not mentally good

    • @Vaxxedhole
      @Vaxxedhole Год назад

      You can't wife a hoe, bruv.

  • @taylorman40x9
    @taylorman40x9 Год назад

    Instead of whats your body count you should ask if she is a virgin. Then you can just leave her there when she says no.

  • @BLKKAKAROT
    @BLKKAKAROT Год назад +2

    Yeah it’s a trash ass question honestly because most won’t be honest anyway. You’ll never truly know i persons “body count” but you can run a cat fax with your homies and other men you know to see if they were with men in your orbit

  • @ScottBrown-zz4sk
    @ScottBrown-zz4sk Год назад

    Texting 🤔💋🤫 cheaters 😂

  • @neonicblader
    @neonicblader Год назад +1

    Here’s some game: Ask her what she thinks of guys that care about body count. If she says they’re childish and it shouldn’t matter she’s a hoe or is about to be one. If she says it matters, that means she cares about what men want which is a good sign. I hope this helps fellas!

  • @rinihariani1043
    @rinihariani1043 Год назад

    I like you, Chase 😄💖

  • @mmarshall7747
    @mmarshall7747 Год назад

    What's the point of asking serious questions if you dont want anything serious?

  • @whateverdude7
    @whateverdude7 Год назад

    Not bad questions

  • @tmetito3535
    @tmetito3535 Год назад

    That dude its a simp hes not alfa how hes painting himself

  • @robf7633
    @robf7633 Год назад +2

    People still believe in God? 🙈

    • @ohklahoma7376
      @ohklahoma7376 Год назад +1

      In this mentally ill society its hard to imagine.

  • @azzystyle94
    @azzystyle94 Год назад +2

    Pro tip, if you want to be happy and find a traditional woman, move out of that rathole known as California

  • @jamesgonzalez9231
    @jamesgonzalez9231 Год назад

    Wait is Retarded an bad word now, i didn't honestly know that.

  • @LionVIIIHeart
    @LionVIIIHeart Год назад +15

    It's so weird that these snowflake men on this show have these wild expectations of woman. Then on the flip side they think they are gods..

    • @tysonnomelli5450
      @tysonnomelli5450 Год назад

      "Wild expectations" Wow... you're a moron

    • @spiritrain1685
      @spiritrain1685 Год назад +5

      The host doesn't even want to get married and yet he's preaching "traditional" values to these women.

    • @tariqyousaf8635
      @tariqyousaf8635 Год назад +2

      You women have the most expectations you should expect a man no matter what than

    • @spiritrain1685
      @spiritrain1685 Год назад

      @@tariqyousaf8635 Sure, except you

    • @tariqyousaf8635
      @tariqyousaf8635 Год назад

      @@spiritrain1685 no I don’t like hoes